TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Betteroffalone1111 Archive

View 6 posts and 194 comments by Betteroffalone1111 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

No one is arguing with you on this, we’re just saying she’s trying to manipulate out of paying alimony because she makes more than you!
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/24 12:09 AM
4

This is the big difference between men and women, not all but most women won’t admit they were wrong or take accountability on why the relationship failed
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 09:10 PM
10

We don’t have kids, I’m stacking up money as much as I can, been dating but not shacking up with no one, prob won’t ever live with a female again
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 06:51 PM
5

Yes, for almost a year now
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 06:01 PM
4

I paid all the bills too, she wanted a higher speed internet but contemplated if paying an extra 40 bucks out of her own pocket was really worth it, she never upgraded lol
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 05:55 PM
14

Invited one of her male coworker over for dinner for him to sell one of his period scheme bs product proceeded to sit next to him at dinner. Barely mentioned anything about him coming over beforehand. Not changing her last name to mine because she said it was a hassle Tried to convince me to sell the house and move to her hometown so she can be a sahw , thank god I turned that idea down Used long term covid as a way not to have sex, we prob had sex like 2 times a year I was such a simp during my…
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 05:47 PM
5

I’m naturally a lone wolf, I have my family I spend with at thanksgiving and Xmas but I’m content with cooking me a nice prime rib with just me and the dog
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 02:51 AM
11

For 6 months during the separation all I did was work go home and sat on the couch with the tv off pondering what the hell was going to happen next. Tried calling my so called best friend to go out for drinks so I can vent but I can’t even get a call back. Believe it or not this sub has helped me out lots, that’s why I’m still here to help others like others did when I went through it
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 01:42 PM
2

How much debt does she have? I went through the same thing though she didn’t get shit from me, classic bait n switch scheme, they love bomb you until they get the ring then they think they can get a free ride in life, mine barely cooks or clean after we got married also. Even though she made no contribution to the mortgage she is entitled to half of the equity gained on the house during marriage, shitty rule I know that’s one of the reason why I will never get married again.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/24 09:44 PM
2

Just think what would happen after u had the baby, what if she wants the divorce and now you’re stuck paying child support for 18 yrs and not being able to see your kid ft.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 02:56 PM
6

Don’t know if it helps but the phrase “ she wasn’t yours it’s just your turn “ helped me
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 02:28 AM
5

Yes for about 2 3 months then slowly my ex wife turned into the complete opposite vs when we were bf and gf
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 02:23 AM
9

I was that guy op, luckily I wasn’t that much of a simp and only lasted 1 1/2 years, never again!
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 08:11 PM
6

We got a bleeder !!!
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 08:09 PM
2

He got cut by the packers and worked at a grocery store for $5.50 stocking shelves
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/24 12:07 AM
6

Hey Kurt Warner stocked shelf’s at a grocery store over night and now he’s a broadcaster on tv, chase your dreams brother
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/24 07:50 PM
1

Update your wardrobe, have u been hitting the gym ? Update your hairstyle, u gotta feel good to look good
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/24 07:56 PM
1

I consider myself good looking not model good looking I’m 6 ft tall athletic build.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 11:23 PM
5

It’s unfortunate but if u ever go through a divorce you will find out who your true friends and family members are. I cut off the friendship between my so call “ best friend “ when I was going through my divorce
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 05:44 PM
1

Why is your so called wife moving in with a family to take care of a 80 year old? Unless it’s her parents I would be asking her some serious questions
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 04:12 AM
2

It’s going to be alright bro, we’ve all been there before you will come out better than you were before just keep working on you
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 02:51 AM
2

Get on trt bro
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 01:42 AM
7

Nothing is ever good enough for them
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/24 12:24 PM
1

Yes that is true also 😅
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 06:33 PM
3

Have u tried putting yourself out there?
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 06:31 PM
12

The women I talk to in their 40s act even more immature than women in their 30s
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 02:17 PM
9

Apps are even worse women in their 40 and 50s that I’ve talked to and met up act like they’re teenagers and have more social media accounts than a 20 year old
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 06:08 AM
9

It gets better brother even if it doesn’t the peace and quiet trumps everything
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 11:01 PM
12

Been thinking about visiting a massage parlor that has happy endings lol
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 11:00 PM
3

For me i think i needed closure, meeting up with my ex and seeing she was a completely different person did it for me
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 07:22 PM
9

They act on emotions and base it on how a guy make them “feel” that’s why there’s no sense on arguing with a woman on anything
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 12:14 PM
1

Men are simple creatures just let us have our hobbies, feed us, clean, and have sex that’s all we need
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 09:32 PM
14

I think we’ve all been brainwashed by the phrase “ happy wife happy life”
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 04:49 PM
7

Mine showed me a tik tok vid that was her way of telling me she wanted a divorce, then posted a pic of a divorce cake she got when the divorce was finalized on fb
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 09:16 PM
5

Mine left me a whole house to go through all her crap that she didn’t want, I had to get a big dumpster to get rid of all her stuff
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 12:58 AM
2

Oh they’ll have sex alright just in an car not in your house
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 04:45 PM
0

Same here had like 20 matches in 2 weeks on fb, could’ve had sex with one but she was too chunky for me
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 04:43 PM
1

You’re just craving the love and attention that you didn’t get when u were married, all that will fade away
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 12:44 AM
2

Insert Michael from the office saying noo god no meme
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 12:24 AM
3

I have a lot of women offer to split the bill but I usually pay , most of my first meetups are just for drinks
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 10:25 PM
8

Watching how my ex wife changed from being a gf to a wife will forever scarred me from getting married again
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 10:24 PM
1

I’ve been doing a lot of research on it about to pull the trigger but I know my doc not gonna prescribed it unless tests are under 200. Are u running gh as well to combat ball shrinkage ?
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 09:17 PM
1

Did u go to your primary dr or online? I just turned 40 my test is at 450, how much are u injecting a week? I know if I go to an online source they will def prescribed me no problem
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 09:04 PM
3

Are u on trt? How old are u?
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 07:06 PM
1

Depends if it’s a no fault state she can go back and get you for your money, safe bet is to proceed when everything is finalized
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 03:20 PM
1

It’s all about confidence
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 03:15 PM
3

Do u have pets? If not I highly consider u getting one. It won’t all of a sudden decide one day that it doesn’t love you anymore and walk out of your life
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 02:35 PM
-1

Mines pu55ywa66on
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 01:09 AM
3

A lot of simps and body positivity from feminists
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 06:37 PM
6

Was there a pineapple any where on the table you guys were sitting at?
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 06:36 PM
6

Don’t get her preggo!
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 06:27 PM
12

It wasn’t out of the blue she’s probably been planning it for months, most likely she is cheating on you or had a emotional affair
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 02:46 AM
1

My ex had a job and didn’t even want to help with the bills, send her on her way out brother she can find another simp to mooch on
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 05:09 PM
3

My wife way of saying she wants a divorce is by showing me a clip on TikTok of some dude saying if you’re in a unhappy relationship you should leave, that should answer your question
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 12:10 PM
2

Listen to the song last drive down main by Morgan wallen
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 02:25 AM
9

Never simp for a single mom, don’t try to be a super hero, all she sees in you is a $ sign. I learned the hard way too, you don’t have kids with her or have any financial ties cut her loose and find someone that actually want to be with you
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 06:26 PM
17

She’s just checking to see if she still has control of you
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 06:19 PM
2

It’s cool man and thanks for the tip!
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 02:32 AM
7

You’ll find out who your true friends or even family members during a divorce
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 07:43 PM
3

I hooked up with this chick that said she was possessed by the devil and got excorcized, after we did the deed I went home poured some holy water on my penor and took a cold shower
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 04:59 PM
2

Hypergamy
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 04:55 PM
20

I saw a drastic change when my ex was my gf vs when she was my wife
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 04:52 PM
1

I’ve never travelled solo before just thought I’d get away and have a change of scenery. I wanna start in the states this year and venture overseas next year, baby steps lol
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 04:50 PM
1

Yeah I’m just going to eat out hit up some bars Layton the beach
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 04:45 PM
1

What’s not to get, there’s ppl out there that don’t travel for work or ever travel on their own before
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 04:43 PM
9

I’d like to see what these broads look like, wtf man
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 10:56 PM
3

Cool thanks for the suggestion
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 09:18 PM
2

Hope u got a vasectomy
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 08:36 PM
2

Are u guys sleeping in separate bedrooms? Have I or her started dating other ppl?
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 07:44 PM
6

Why do u think women don’t go to bathrooms alone? Mine did the same thing, got a new job, said all her coworkers had broken relationship, she was the only one that was married. Next thing you know we’re divorced and her coworkers got her a divorce cake. Turns out my ex quit that job too and now works at a different one, wonder if she got a single mom struggling cake at the new job
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 06:10 PM
5

I mean we’re simple creatures; peace quiet sex and food
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 06:05 PM
10

She found out the grass isn’t greener on the other side. File for a divorce now!
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 03:36 PM
6

Consult a lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 03:25 PM
8

Women get married for the Cinderella effect to show off to their friends, families and social media and also for monetary stability and gain. Once they know they got the ring they either let themselves go and become entitled and lazier it happened to me and probably half of the guys in here
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 01:25 PM
-1

I’m pretty close to booking a appt it will prob saved me money and headache just get blue balls
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 03:34 PM
1

Escort or massage parlor? and how much are you paying per session? I’m pretty close to paying for one these dating apps are a waste of time.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 10:10 PM
6

My divorce was uncontested didn’t have to show up for court, got my decree in the mail after 90 days
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 04:44 AM
3

Before even proposing to your gf bring up the prenup to her her actions and words will gauge you on if you want to get married or not!
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 05:02 PM
3

“ marriage is a business transaction for women” can’t be anymore truer
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 09:03 PM
3

Better yet send it to a group chat make sure u include her parents and siblings
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 06:53 PM
1

Bro how old are you? I don’t have Snapchat and never will , I think it’s childish, a red flag, and no woman above 25 years old should have a Snapchat. Both sexes can easily cheat or have sneaky links and erase it without a trace.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 01:24 AM
1

Sign it over to a family member that you trust that way she can’t get it since it’s not in your name if you get divorced. Have u guys lived together? Do u know her dating past? Have u noticed any red flags? Are her friends mostly married, divorced, or single ?
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 03:58 PM
11

You would be happy with someone that doesn’t love you or want to be with u?
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 10:38 PM
1

Go down to the courthouse and ask the clerk there nicely how you would go by filling out paperwork
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 06:32 PM
9

U gotta remember it’s just not you there’s millions of us that are or were in the same shoes as you, you’re not a failure life happens, move on and never look back
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 08:35 PM
8

Don’t fall in love or get her preggo
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 03:26 AM
6

Women marries for business men marries for love
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 02:13 AM
9

Sounds like she took advantage of u without having an attorney
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 01:27 AM
2

Sounds like she wears the pants in the relationship and that she gets a kick or feel superior by doing ppl favors
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 09:24 PM
2

lol @ 4 roommates these women sure know how to find them
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 03:58 AM
1

So what I would like to know what my wife’s true reason for leaving
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 01:34 AM
11

Thank god it’s only 2 years brother, read and learn about woman nature, work on yourself and have fun as a bachelor, you will be ok man
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 12:17 AM
10

How do u know she’s not cheating? Have u snooped through her phone sounds fucked up but she probably has been thinking about divorce for a while
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 12:13 AM
5

Is she seeing someone? Chances are that I’m 90% right, just re read what u posted and see how foolish you sound, sorry to be harsh but it’s time to face reality.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/24 10:15 PM
4

Time to put the foot down and set your boundaries or she will walk all over u during the divorce
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 08:43 PM
3

I’ve dated 2 single moms that have teenage kids imo they’re more batshit crazy than single moms that have young kids
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 03:46 PM
13

She’s using u as a emotional tampon and checking up on you that’s all, she has no feelings for you sorry to break it to you brother
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 01:29 AM
3

Same here, but today dating is completely ass backwards when I dated, every women I’ve dated are too consumed by social media and are influenced by them too much. I mean I believe im the catch here( 40 no kids, good job, big house, no drama) yet I feel like I’m not good enough for them, these are 40 plus single moms, gtfoh
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 10:05 PM
3

Happy bday brother, I’ve been there, it sucks but it will get better man
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 10:01 PM
1

I did, we both filed at the court house and after the 90 days they sent the signed decree in the mail, don’t even have to go to court, I think I paid like $250 for the fee
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 04:02 PM
1

Mine did that for me
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 09:48 PM
5

I found out that her coworkers got her a cake that said “ I’m free” on it…probably told her coworkers a whole sob story about how she didn’t have to pay any bills and free load off of me.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 09:37 PM
3

He was my best man at my wedding lol
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/24 05:46 AM
4

They’re all the same they just have different level of craziness to them that’s all
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/24 02:31 AM
9

I was talking to my buddy that I’m letting rent the bottom of my basement out while he saves money for a house. We only get married for the tax benefits and that’s it. We can have gfs or fwb split on the mortgage and rotate on cooking or ordering out, he cleans his basement and I clean the top floor. Sounds like a dream come true lol
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/24 12:53 AM
2

Rise of feminism, the ideology that women don’t need men to survive, if you’re not happy in your marriage just break it off and do you
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 03:05 PM
5

Accountability is not in their vocabulary, they did nothing wrong and you are at fault because the marriage failed.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 03:01 PM
5

George go get my pole!!!
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 05:07 AM
9

That’s why advertising is mostly catered to women
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 02:32 AM
3

Mine started after Halloween
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 10:41 PM
10

Create tradition of your own put up shit that u want to put up
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 08:46 PM
6

Our breaking point was that I didn’t talk to any of her family members at the gathering lol
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 08:45 PM
3

Half of my garage was filled with all her Xmas decor that was the only stuff that she came and got from my house, I had to get a dumpster to throw all the other crap she left in my house
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 08:33 PM
0

Lol
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 03:12 PM
14

Go buy a lottery ticket right now
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 09:24 PM
6

When you are content with being by yourself; going to eat alone, shopping alone, living alone, sleeping alone….
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 06:48 PM
6

They don’t ever take accountability; how do u live a happy life? Don’t cheat and just break it off if you’re not feeling it!
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 06:38 PM
6

Once your new fling go sour you will feel like shit again…you’re just on cloud 9 to the new love bombing…just work on yourself first and date later preferably once your divorce is finalized
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 11:16 PM
13

Don’t talk bad about your ex, just say we weren’t compatible
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 03:09 AM
3

U would have to give her half the equity earned during the marriage from your house regardless if u are only on the deed or not
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 01:39 AM
1

She doesn’t love you if she’s moving out bro
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 01:37 AM
5

Read my post I have on here, can’t trust anyone anymore
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 11:51 PM
12

Men and women love differently, women love you for what you can provide and it looks like you check off all the list on what modern women today want. Falling in love can be a dangerous thing because pussy is a powerful drug. Love can make you do stupid things so tread lightly my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 11:09 PM
5

Adopt a pet, maybe u need someone to care for, at least it will be forever loyal to you
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 12:38 AM
14

Have some respect for yourself man, she cheated on you twice, there is no fixing thing, she’s mentally checked out of the marriage a long time ago, and has lost respect for you by going behind your back. It will suck but there is always light at the end of the tunnel
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 11:38 PM
5

Dude is also subbed to anti work, forever alone, suicide watch, infidelity and dating advice lol yeah good luck on your marriage broham
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 12:21 AM
3

This x100
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 10:22 PM
6

Happy wife happy life is a lie all it is is a test to see how much of a simp you are…
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 10:21 PM
1

She was never yours it’s just your turn
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 10:16 PM
3

Same here bro same here
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 08:08 PM
3

Hell no
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 08:08 PM
6

I got tired of coming to a messy house, living pay check to paycheck, rarely got any home cooked dinner. I worked 6 days paid all the bills except groceries. Granted she did work a ft job but it felt like I was paying to be married to her. Now I live comfortably saving money come home to a clean house and am fed every night
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 08:07 PM
1

Went on two dates this with woman talked everyday, had a great time, scheduled for another date, went quiet for a couple days turns out she was too “busy” to date
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 01:10 AM
1

She said that he’s cheated on her in the past, but I blocked her she’s for the streets I don’t want anything to do with it
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 08:11 PM
3

Most likely she has checked out from the marriage a while ago
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 07:09 PM
2

I got my blood work done and I’m at 500 for total test I just turned 40, I know my regular doc won’t prescribed me so I’m gonna try trtnation
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 03:59 AM
4

I don’t intend to date or screw her
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 07:41 PM
0

Garage sale
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 07:05 PM
4

One of my coworker told me his wife dropped him off at the hospital for his hernia operation and went garage saling
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 06:49 PM
2

Reading this sub, I wish I found out about this sub before I got married
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 06:36 PM
6

Correction Pussy is a helluva drug
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 05:01 PM
2

I get it man, you’re getting the attention again that you so desperately are starved of before during and after the divorce. Just take it slow, I’ve been having trouble with this as well
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 04:17 PM
6

My guess is church and that she is a born again Christian or something like that ,religious women are worse than car salesman’s
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 04:15 PM
13

That’s why I have my divorce decree in a frame in my man cave in case I fall head over heels over a woman again i can look at it and come back to reality.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 04:14 PM
5

Read my thread lolhttps://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/s/LM9BvqoG16
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 04:10 PM
12

I’m no saint but I won’t stoop that low
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 03:46 PM
8

lol sad but true I don’t need no pitty rub n tug from a cheater
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 02:28 AM
11

She’s not yours it’s just your turn, read that over and over til it makes sense to you!
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 05:35 PM
11

Men don’t usually divorce their wives even if they are cheating, either he can’t put up with your shit anymore or you’re batshit crazy
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 10:03 PM
2

38
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 09:29 PM
2

Did u cheat on her? Are you the main breadwinner? Did she work? Give yourself the benefit of a doubt. Unless you cheated on her you were working your ass off for your family, and then think of why she didn’t fight for your marriage. You live and learn my friend just don’t make the same mistake again and don’t put yourself down.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 09:28 PM
6

Either annulment or uncontested divorce
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 01:22 PM
5

We were separated for a year even though we didn’t live in a Bible Belt state, I was in no condition to date, I was like a zombie for 6 months worked came home sat on the couch and shit my pants thinking about my financial situation
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 01:55 AM
5

Take the high road and don’t celebrate yet, you’re just at the beginning because it will probably get ugly before it gets better
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 01:25 AM
8

Only in some states I.e most Bible Belt states require 1 yr of separation
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 12:17 AM
6

They bitch about work or someone at work just to bitch about it, they don’t want to solve it, and the cycle just continues
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 10:13 PM
6

If your name is on the property do not move out
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 10:11 PM
3

My ex was a product of a divorce, her father disowned her, her baby dad left her for another woman, I should’ve looked at all the red flags but oh well you live and learn
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 02:31 PM
3

Lol
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 02:42 AM
9

Congrats you’re turning into a gold digger
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 01:09 AM
3

Morgan wallen - wasted on you
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 10:37 PM
2

Like they say time will heal all things, work on yourself, start a hobby, make money, don’t dwell on the past
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 02:38 PM
3

Get one of those 1000 piece Lego sets, pop in your earbuds to your fav tune and go to town
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 03:21 AM
3

lol sad but true
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 03:17 AM
4

They don’t listen you can only give them your own opinions and advice and let them live their life. Hell my parents didn’t think my ex wife was a match but they let me get married anyways because they were happy for me. Well I’m regretting that decision of getting married now but like they say you live and you learn
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 04:50 PM
6

Idk how tf u have feelings for someone after they did that to you no less your own spouse.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 12:48 AM
5

Women are followers, if they see multiple women agreeing on the subject they somehow believe that it’s right
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 07:14 PM
1

We don’t have kids so she is a stranger to me after the decree was signed
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 02:27 PM
4

My ex showed me a clip of the same thing not sure if it’s the same guy but that was her way of saying the marriage was over, just imagine she can’t talk to me like a real person but had to show me a TikTok clip of how she feels, lol
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 02:00 PM
6

For all the men that got hosed in the divorce and lost everything, get as much alimony/money out of her as you can.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 11:46 PM
1

U don’t have coworkers u can go out for drinks or golfing or something ?
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 05:03 PM
2

Will def give it a read thank u
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 03:40 PM
1

I like that
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 03:23 PM
8

Probably because most have hit the wall and wanted to get married or have a baby
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 02:35 PM
2

For sure
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 02:27 PM
1

I am scared because I’m afraid it will be repeat of the cycle again, talking stage, dating, falling in love, things gets comfortable, either something more serious or we split
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 02:27 PM
0

Good advice thank u
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 02:24 PM
1

To clarify this woman I’m seeing said she doesn’t want to get married, has grown kids, and has a career. Everything seems to be a green flag. But what’s her end goal, because for as long as I’ve been married or dating women always want something more either marriage, moving, buying a place together…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 12:53 PM
2

Already have
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 12:51 PM
1

Depends on how long u guys we’re together
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/24 09:36 PM
9

She probably had her friends fake post to give u a bad name, I would have someone that u know that has social media contact the admin of that group and report your wife for false accusations
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 03:04 AM
6

When she told me it was over
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 03:51 AM
6

Mistakes not to make again? Jumping into dating too quickly The good; saving money you’d be surprised how much money you save just surviving alone. The bad; getting lonely sometimes but you have to embrace being by yourself Things to make you move on; start a hobby, make new projects around the house to keep busy, do stuff you always wanted to do when you were married but couldn’t
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 09:39 PM
3

Fucking other chicks just make you feel empty, better to just focus on making the better and best version of you
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 04:31 PM
9

She did, I filed, now I’m living life with a big smile
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 04:29 PM
2

What was the cause for divorce? She wanted to go live her best life and thinks the grass is greener on the other side?
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 10:49 PM
1

Mine deleted and blocked me from all social media so that solved that lol
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 04:04 PM
4

Women find comfort that they got you locked down, hence why she wants to move in with you
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/24 08:20 PM
2

Can’t forget about “ returning the shopping carts” when they don’t even do it
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/24 01:16 PM
1

She has all the power because she knows she still has you in check, do not see anyone until u get divorced
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/24 07:03 PM
5

Men can always rebuild, you don’t see many guys crying on instagram or TikTok cause they were dealt with a shitty divorce
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/24 05:37 PM
2

I didn’t throw all of my exs stuff out until the decree was finalized, i had to get a big dumpster took me a week just to clear everything out. She had almost a year and a half to come get it, too bad so sad.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/24 07:09 PM
1

The pain, heartache, loss of money why the hell would I want to risk going through that again ?
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 10:12 PM
1

Give her a envelope with Monopoly money
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 09:13 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter