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FundamentalsBigFunnyBigMoney/r/seduction30/07/21 12:54 PM
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LifestyleBigFunnyBigMoney/r/seduction21/02/21 02:48 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0x1mR5xSGAs&ab_channel=AbaNPreach I just watched this and thought of this thread. Might give you some insight
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:25 PM
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Sounds like maybe you fall a little fast and that pushes some girls away
/r/seduction09/10/24 04:58 PM
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What do they expect that you can’t give?
/r/seduction09/10/24 02:15 PM
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I hate to break it to you big dog, but I’ve been lifting for >10 years, bench 300, and im jacked. I was a personal trainer for 7 years and know my shit. Most gyms I go into I’m bigger than 95% of people there, unless it’s a gear-heavy bodybuilding gym. In fact, I don’t want to get any bigger because it’s a fucking nuisance in my life at this point. If you want proof I’ll send you my physique and videos of my lifts. I regularly get complimented on my size and I HATE TO BREAK IT TO YOU BUD but 99%…
/r/seduction28/09/24 07:14 PM
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Leave my boy alone. He doesn't want your weird coaching bruh
/r/seduction27/09/24 08:48 PM
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It's literally the best part about being a guy. Women are way more constrained in their ability to pick partners bc society expects that men should approach them. I'm not saying I agree, but it's generally true. Most women will not go out of their way to approach men. As a man, you get the incredible opportunity to approach and potentially be with literally any woman - albeit your chances may vary. You just gotta use it.
/r/seduction27/09/24 08:44 PM
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Idk what specifically is neurodivergent about you, but nearly all the well seasoned 'pickup' guys were neurodivergent. Neil Strauss has even said that exact thing in a podcast I listened to (when he was on Modern Wisdom to promote his latest book I think?) RSD Tyler has also come out about being diagnosed with asperger's well into adulthood - I think he was 35+ when he found out, well after he had been banging strippers. Not a death sentence. Is it harder? Yeah. I empathize with you. But you can…
/r/seduction27/09/24 08:40 PM
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Props for your honesty bro, I think your answer is there - you get friendzoned. This is great because women trust you, but you don’t excite them/ show enough intention as you get to know them to let them see you as a romantic interest. It’s better to start here than having 0 idea how to communicate with women (trust me on this one lmao). Honestly if you haven’t already I would check out “models” by mark Manson, totally upgraded my dating life and I haven’t found one thing in there to be false. S…
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:46 PM
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This is the most straightforward, sound advice comment on here. Don’t listen to other garbage
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:15 PM
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It happens quite often. Have a good profile with good photos (be handsome), flirt a little and invite the girl over. If your precedent from the get go is sexual you will screen for girls who are dtf This is harder if you are not very attractive. Generally speaking good game will yield way better results than online dating for average or below average looking guys. Not impossible though
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:14 PM
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Sounds like you need to talk to more girls
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:09 PM
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Wow I never thought of that. Gonna jump out the window of the high rise I’m in for the face gains rn. You are a genius good sir
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:08 PM
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Muscles help but they are one factor. Confident guy beats muscle guy every time ceteris paribus
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:07 PM
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If you are getting rejected, that’s another issue that no redditor can resolve for you. I am immediately dubious about your claim over being rejected by 100s of women, but assuming this is true and not some overblown exaggeration or assumption made by yourself, here are some questions you could ask to help determine why this might be: Are you screening for the right women? Do you have adequate “game”/ reasons for women to be interested in you? Are you reaching too far out of your league/ have un…
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:06 PM
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If you want to date more, you need to date more. How do you date more? Talk to girls Ask them on dates Go on dates with girls who accept Repeat
/r/seduction27/09/24 02:27 PM
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Gotta keep going and figure out what works. Fake it till you make it
/r/seduction25/09/24 10:11 PM
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Literally nobody has told you this is a good idea across several forums. Why do you keep posting about it? I think you want validation for an idea you had which you are not getting and I don’t want to involve myself with your clear delusion and lack of awareness You should get checked out for autism
/r/seduction25/09/24 10:09 PM
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i realized delusional mfs such as yourself can’t be reasoned with Cry more simp boy
/r/seduction24/09/24 05:43 PM
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Have fun paying for the company of women sad lonely man :(
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:16 PM
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Bless your heart
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:15 PM
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That is exactly what you are doing 😂 my sweet little angel
/r/seduction20/09/24 11:40 PM
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Haha actually I used to be very toxic but I am a grown man and do not want that in my life anymore. If you need drama to keep girls around maybe it’s time you work on letting that dazzling personality shine 😉
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:42 PM
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That is written in my comment yes
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:08 PM
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Just hire a hooker
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:08 PM
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100 x 5 girls = 500 🧑‍🚀
/r/seduction20/09/24 03:19 AM
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Spending 500 bucks to have girls sit at a table and maybe get a slight edge is fucking crazy when there’s gonna be a guy in the crowd spending nothing and piping them in the bathroom. I’m like tryna lay this down easy but this whole plan sounds like some mad concoction by someone who does not get any and I’m not passing judgement but there are just so many reasons not to do it and so few reasons to actually do it. If you want hot girls as social proof is the only way for you to get that really t…
/r/seduction20/09/24 01:22 AM
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A little formulaic pour moi but the most sensible thing I’ve seen in dating reddits today. Good shit bro
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:33 AM
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Yes your friend sounds like he’s a moderately attractive guy who found a woman that he has some things in common with. I wouldn’t call that game, but dating in the traditional sense. Game the ability to provide what makes women excited/ interested/ aroused, and ultimately interested in you romantically. This guy achieved that, but not through any skills we would call “game”, rather because he found someone he has some things in common with. All this to say game makes a huge impact on your dating…
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:29 AM
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+1 Your ex has nothing to do with this chick
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:21 AM
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Be honest so you don’t disappoint yourself or waste your time. But don’t disappoint or waste someone else’s either :)
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:17 AM
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😂
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:01 AM
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Okay I am very against paying for any sort of female company - the kareoke thing is a good example of something I would never do and never consider as a pipeline for game. In the context of your post, what I don’t get is: 1. Why not just try to bang these girls 2. Is this not an extremely expensive/ convoluted way to just get laid (which you can do for free, yes, even with super hot women) 3. I would question why your emphasis is on trying to leverage your wealth to attract women and not some ot…
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:56 PM
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Nah Live your life
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:16 PM
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If you want to get married and settle down, maybe banging an 18 year old on vacation isn't the way to do it Just my two cents
/r/seduction07/08/24 12:43 PM
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I agree with all this sentiment but this is just general lifestyle advice. By the time you get to #6 I would have approached 20 chicks already
/r/seduction07/08/24 12:39 PM
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This is not true. Girls invest less on tinder. If you have a good profile, solid texting, and play the numbers game (tinder plus and boosts if needed), you can spend a fraction of the time to get the same result. Literally line up dates to your house while you’re in your bathrobe. I think you’ve had a couple of experiences that confirm the lack of investment, but have drawn the wrong conclusion. Also note that if you get positive feedback from approaching that can be misinterpreted as being “eas…
/r/seduction10/07/24 09:46 PM
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I doubt it’s sex that’s making you needy. Why do you need to get laid? If you have a good connection with a woman, but don’t sleep with her, does that make you feel shame? Are you insecure that if you don’t bed a woman soon enough, she won’t invest in you? Are you looking for a sexual experience that will overcome some perceived lack in yourself, i.e “if I finally bang THAT girl”, “I need to sleep with x women before I can feel good about myself”? I think you’re looking at this all wrong bro. Wi…
/r/seduction03/07/24 03:19 AM
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The amount of misinformation on here bro 🤦‍♂️ glad I’m not the only one lol
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:48 PM
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It’s a neediness thing Guy who wants woman and doesn’t value himself gives her everything bc he is insecure and craves her validation = icky Guy who is confident and does something for woman bc he wants to show he cares/ values her = sploosh Painting it as chasing is misleading, women on some level want to be “chased” (pursued/ won romantically, doted on, cared for, etc.) but from the right person in the right way
/r/seduction09/04/24 01:38 PM
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How the fuck would talking to women less get you laid more?
/r/seduction09/04/24 01:35 PM
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Yes it does
/r/seduction10/05/23 05:43 PM
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Is that salt I smell?? 🧂
/r/seduction10/05/23 05:42 PM
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I agree with most of your points but the competition thing is bs. Used to live in New York and there are plenty of hyper successful men that slay and aren’t total dicks/ Uber short/ whatever projected reason you’re using to validate your narcissism And just as that girl grabbed you while her date was in the bathroom, these women have (literal) infinite options and the power to choose, which sets the bar higher no matter which way you spin it Also, the hottest women do not flock to nyc. By sheer …
/r/seduction10/05/23 05:41 PM
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Car backseat baby
/r/seduction14/11/21 09:42 PM
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Yeah besides trying to hit on your boss, asking if it’s their first job is a really bad look. I would have introduced yourself first and done some small talk It’s not over, go back and apologize. That’s probably what she’s waiting for. State you were trying to open up a conversation and meant nothing by it and that you hope to turn around her first impression of you
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:10 PM
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Don’t let her get in your head bro
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:55 PM
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I'd say it's the same side. If he doesn't value her beyond the sex she provides, that makes her a slut, so she needs him to be in a relationship with her to have any value
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:51 PM
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Very helpful with confrontation. If you’ve been fighting with someone, say “are you happy with all this fighting?” -no- “me neither. How do we fix it”
/r/seduction31/07/21 04:48 PM
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Agreed
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:08 AM
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Yes 100% my dude. I think a lot of guys forget it’s a two way interaction, and when you give women space to be themselves it’s better for everyone involved Gonna steal that making women feel good line too haha
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:33 AM
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Thanks bud! Good looks for working on yourself 👍 Escalation can be tough but just start small when you’re feeling vibes from a girl. Touch her shoulder/ high fives/ sitting next to her and letting your legs touch. From there you can do more but you really gotta feel it out so be as patient as you can
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:29 AM
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Then you're never getting laid. Congratulations! You have now confirmed your own limiting belief that you are incapable of meeting beautiful women by refusing to do any sort of work on yourself! Have a popsicle.
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:48 PM
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Checked your post history because you commented on mine, and my guy, You're 100% wrong, i have dated plenty of beautiful women from cold approach, without being the most attractive or tallest guy in the world. Why would I ever want to be with a girl I don't find attractive? I'm not saying you should only value looks, but a romantic relationship demands physical intimacy and mutual attraction is the foundation for that. If you're not getting results, that just means you're bad at it.
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:43 PM
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RegretsNothing1 I mean, I guess? I think it's more of a context thing. She wants to work not get hit on
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:38 PM
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Good for you bro
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:37 PM
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Wrong place wrong time. This is all from one day obviously so this chick gets this 24/7, even if the guy is good looking I would argue she's sick of the treatment
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:37 PM
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Go lead, make jokes, and have conversations You're overthinking it
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:35 PM
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Call her out. Say it wasn't cool and leave her room to apologize. If it's sincere, thank her and move on. If it isn't, put more distance between yourself and her, in whatever capacity that suits you. The problem in what you're saying is that this girl has no idea what's wrong so can't own up to it, but you're still mad at her which is 100% unfair. Sit her down over some tea or something and tell her "hey I didn't appreciate that it actually really bothered me". Don't fight, collaborate, it's you…
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:21 PM
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So when it comes to looks, money, & status, these things matter, but they're not a deal breaker if you don't have them and having them doesn't guarantee you the attention of beautiful women. Would it be easier for me to meet girls if I was 6 ft? Yeah, but I still do well being my current height, and I consider it an advantage if anything - guys who are tall will be more likely to scare or intimidate girls, I don't have that problem as often. To drive the point home, I know guys who are good-look…
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:15 PM
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So when it comes to looks, money, & status, these things matter, but they're not a deal breaker if you don't have them and having them doesn't guarantee you the attention of beautiful women. Would it be easier for me to meet girls if I was 6 ft? Yeah, but I still do well being my current height, and I consider it an advantage if anything - guys who are tall will be more likely to scare or intimidate girls, I don't have that problem as often. To drive the point home, I know guys who are good-look…
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:15 PM
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Exactly lmao. I give credit to the last guy because when it doesn't go anywhere, he just sighs and moves on
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:15 PM
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I feel you buddy. I’m 5’6 with a big ass nose and was bullied growing up for being a huge nerd. I’ll tell you what though, your potential is much higher than you believe it to be. These things will make aspects of your life more difficult (like dating) and I’m not going to lie and tell you otherwise, but it’s not the be-all end-all. You just need to leverage whatever you can to obtain the things you want. Focus on accepting your flaws and loving yourself for being you, but maintain a pragmatic a…
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 06:05 PM
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Bars, tinder, during the day, wherever man
/r/seduction22/03/21 05:54 PM
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5’7 Manlet checking in I’m dating four girls right now and talking to two more. They’re all cute First of all, scrap your attitude because whether or not it’s true it won’t help you get laid. And once you open yourself to testing your beliefs (is your height REALLY a problem?) you allow the chance for them to be wrong. Trust me, if I can do it you can too. All the other general advice will apply to you: take care of your physical/ mental health, hygiene, and appearance, socialize more, and learn…
/r/seduction21/03/21 12:16 AM
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There are some good insights on female psychology in this video but most of this is nonsense my guy
/r/seduction20/03/21 11:56 PM
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Disagree with most of these points, and feeds into the dynamic that men are supposed to “win” women in dating instead of having the relationship be focused on connection/emotion/values. Women are not princesses, and men are not knights in shining armor. We’re people and adhering to the aforementioned roles creates an unrealistic expectation of how long term, healthy relationships should be formed. Just my two cents
/r/seduction20/03/21 11:56 PM
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If game doesn't work how do you explain the fact that you're an 8/10 and still think like a complete chode lol
/r/seduction04/03/21 12:48 PM
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"I'm going to give you my years of anecdotal evidence, complete bias based on my own opinion, and you are to take it as fact." "here's my ancedote - " "YOUR ANECDOTE IS INCORRECT AND REPRESENTS AN OUTLIER"
/r/seduction04/03/21 12:48 PM
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Read # 1 and stopped after because I completely disagree - I met this 5'2 tibetan dude with a wonky leg who regularly hooked up with 10/10 models in the bathrooms of clubs in nyc. Seen him do it. AND I've seen incredibly attractive guys stutter and completely lose their shit in front of girls. Your mindset is holding you back. Looks do matter, especially with something like tinder, but that doesn't mean you can't get a ton of beautiful women if you're not a 6'2 chad (or steal them from chad hims…
/r/seduction04/03/21 12:07 PM
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Yes validate her and move the interaction forward. If she sends an ass pic: "Can't wait to leave my hand print on your ass" or something to that effect
/r/seduction26/02/21 03:47 PM
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No reason you can’t work on all these things at once. And effective dating coaches/ puas (hate that term) will help you with your confidence too. Besides, good game will teach you to be better with many other aspects of your life - networking, social situations, negotiation. Should you be desperate and self deprecating? Of course not. In fact that’s the opposite of good game and the reason why guys try to get better in the first place. I agree with you, shame is toxic and needs to be kept in che…
/r/seduction25/02/21 06:32 PM
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Beats me
/r/seduction22/02/21 12:51 PM
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