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BigPapaJava/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 02:01 PM
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The apps are a total shitshow, but it’s a shitshow full of women who are also looking to find someone to date. DMing random single women on IG isn’t much different than a spammer or scammer sending unsolicited texts to get them to do something (date you) they’ve not expressed any interest in doing.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 10:49 AM
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Get a good lawyer and fight for 50/50. Be ready for her to threaten you with all sorts of shady/illegal shit “for leverage.”
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 11:24 PM
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If you’re a man, it’s assumed the divorce was your fault because she filed and said she was the victim. For her, lawyering up to leave your ass and take as much of your stuff and your life with her as she wants is considered a bold, brave move, so she should be celebrated for having the “courage” to do it. You go, girl! For the guy… you need to get comfortable knowing this was somehow your fault and your failing, even if she had an affair, was abusive to you, or did even worse throughout your ma…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/26 02:43 PM
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I came to accept that I’d never been loved like I imagined in the first place and that it is unrealistic for a man to expect “love” in the sense that I had wanted it. It hurt, but it’s the truth. People might like having you around, find you useful, or be your friend, (maybe even “lover”)… but the kind of love that prioritizes you above them at times and makes sacrifices for someone in their time of need to get them through it together? I was foolish for thinking that was even an option for grow…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 12:07 PM
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After a split 2 years ago (I was 44) after 10 years of marriage. I’ve only really been dating in the past 4-5 months. The hardest part for me at first was just getting out there and trying to get out of all the bad habits/relationship trauma from my ex. I kept subconsciously fighting the same battles from our marriage, still trying to be what she told me I should be (and trying to avoid someone like her) rather than being myself and enjoying getting to know these women. I had to relearn who I wa…
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 03:45 PM
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My ex is a therapist who sells marriage counseling herself. When we were together, she’d often brag to me about all the divorces she was causing when couples came to her and she’d project her own issues and TikTok buzzwords all over their relationships. All the wives were innocent victims and the husbands were all selfish narcissists: they just didn’t know it until she told them. In our counseling attempts, she knew the process and worked it to her advantage. She’d come in with a giant laundry l…
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 01:04 PM
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Before we got married. I thought her red flags were cute. I thought she was joking, since she played them off as jokes then. They weren’t jokes after we got married. One of the most bitter ironies of my divorce was that we tried marriage counseling 3 times and all 3 told me to disregard my wife’s red flags and even called me a bad husband for noticing and feeling uncomfortable with them. The toxicity just dragged on for years in the same sick patterns and made everything far worse. They said, in…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 08:54 PM
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Then whip out your phone and just record him embarrassing himself by getting all loud and pissy when he throws a tantrum like a 5 year old. Show that to your lawyer and possibly the police, especially if he threatens you. Keep the cool head and let him lose his. If he places his hands on you or threatens you in any way, call the cops. Honestly, he sounds unworthy of respect. Fuck him. He wants to pick a fight. Be smart about how you fight the battle. Also… from your description, I suspect he’s l…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 07:29 PM
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Most divorces include a nondisparagement clause. Talk to your attorney about whether your ex (and by extension this asshole) is violating that and see if you can get a strongly worded letter to show both of them to BTFO and stay in their lane or you’ll see them in court. See if you can record him making threads and disparaging you in some way, either on video or via audio the next time this happens. If he sends you rude texts, save screenshots of those, too. Get a restraining order against him, …
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 07:24 PM
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Just stare at him when you drop the kids off. Don’t speak to him. Don’t smile at him. Don’t acknowledge him if you don’t have to. Just stare him right in the eyes, completely unintimidated and expressionless, as you do what you need to do. Don’t hit him or let his BS attempts at asserting control bother you. Don’t cause a scene and get sent to jail or give him/your ex ammo to use against you. Just do you and treat him like a fart in the wind.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 07:17 PM
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From my personal experience without an attorney, I would never, ever recommend this to anyone. The entire legal system will treat you like a fool and just hand her attorney everything she wants. The most important thing in court, it turns out, is your attorney’s personal relationship to the judge (or mediator) ruling on the case. I went into court ordered mediation: 3 sessions at $800 each. My wife had an attorney. but I didn’t. The mediator, chosen by her attorney, seemed to be working for them…
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/26 03:02 PM
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Unfortunately, mental illness like Borderline Personality Disorder isn’t something that people outgrow. I’d say approximately 10-20% of women show traits of BPD, if they don’t have diagnosable cases. Think of all the crazy, catty drama queens you ever met. They were likely Borderline and will be so until the day they die.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/26 08:06 PM
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It’s a lot more comfortable and enjoyable to have conversations with people your own age who’ve had similar life experiences and interests than to try to regale 19 year olds with your tales of growing up in a time before they were born. The sex is not the only thing going on here…
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/26 05:44 PM
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Sorry. The app does not display the right side of the forum clearly, So… no Red Pill? I feel like not thinking like an incel should be common sense if you want to actually get laid.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 07:48 PM
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What’s rule #3, or what list is this from? Is it being 6’, making 6 figures, or having a 6 pack?
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 06:58 PM
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My ex was the twist on this: the girl whose ideal husband is her father… and she simultaneously resented her father. A lot of women just want a meal ticket now. This is not a new phenomenon. They aren’t necessarily looking for someone just like their father, but they want a “father figure” to pay bills and take care of everything in their lives so they don’t have to… until they become bored with him and take him for granted. that is.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 07:54 PM
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There is truth. It is not universal, absolute truth, but it is truth. This also applies more the higher you go up in the guy’s income bracket. A lot of men your age are also either divorced themselves or have been in long-term relationships and gotten burned. This is how they respond to that. I see older, financially secure women respond to finding themselves in the situation you described by seeking younger men for similar relationships. It appears they find hookups, but these are seldom monoga…
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 09:03 PM
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My ex, a therapist herself by trade, was the same way. She used to brag to me about the divorces she was causing in her practice when couples would come to her for therapy and she’d project her own bullshit all over relationships. Generally, this amounted to blaming the men for everything the women were unsatisfied with and labeling them all “narcissists” and sexists who did this solely to be cruel. She would then counsel the wives that they were, in fact, poor innocent victims of “the patriarch…
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/26 11:48 AM
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All ex husbands are selfish, egotistical abusive narcissists, which means all ex-wives were victims who were perfectly in the right always, about everything ever.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/26 11:28 AM
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They don’t have one, necessarily. Vindictive women will be vindictive. They don’t need a reason anymore than a dog needs an end game when it licks its balls. A lot of women become increasingly bitter when they find out that their life isn’t going to be as perfect as they’d envisioned post-divorce, so they settle into this shit. There is a common trend in divorces of men actually going on to rebound and do better, long-term, than the women who left them—even when she got everything she wanted in …
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/26 02:36 PM
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It sounds like she may try to escalate and use this against you to change custody agreements. There are attorneys out there who will encourage co-parents to file charges over this for leverage in getting full custody with only short supervised visits on their time. This also often results in higher child support since a lot of that is based on where the child sleeps. If your ex is a vindictive, paranoid, manipulative bitch, be careful, Make sure you and the kids are always wearing a shirt and pa…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 10:43 PM
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Me neither. They have a kid who’s been in the care of his drunk, mentally imbalanced mom. Who knows what that child has experienced? I’m glad OP’s friend is getting custody back soon.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 10:38 PM
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I went through the same stuff with my ex all the time. right down to her accusing me of “gaslighting” her whenever I was right and she was wrong. A few weeks ago she told me she was crying and depressed because she’d broken up with the guy she’d left me for. She accused him of all the same “gaslighting” and other awful forms of abuse she used to throw at me, then spun their breakup as somehow my fault because I’d “damaged her” so much in our marriage and she was “reminded of all the hurt” I’d ca…
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 10:17 PM
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I was there, right down to two unsuccessful stints in couples counseling that I paid thousands for over a couple of years. She was always using guilt and shame as a manipulation tool, never took responsibility for anything but demanded I be "accountable" for everything. There's no saving it. I made the mistake of “trying everything” for years. In the end, she decided that was nothing—literally told me I’d contributed nothing in our entire marriage because she couldn’t remember a single thing I’d…
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 03:19 AM
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If they have a kid together, they can’t “go no contact for. few years.” If they don’t, then why ever even have contact again at all? She made her choice. Now she gets to live with it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 08:40 PM
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I caught her cheating a few days after she’d filed, which she swore up and down was a misunderstanding—the same woman had constantly accused me of cheating throughout our marriage and put me through hell to constantly “prove” I wasn’t. Then, a couple of weeks later, as we were sorting out the divorce, she wanted me to agree to be dating someone for at least 6 months before I ever introduced them to our kid. She swore she’d do the same. Three days after that, she introduced the man she was leavin…
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 03:43 PM
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True, but it can lead people to believe all sorts of unrealistic strategies as more acceptable than the alternative.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 03:20 PM
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They could have hopes of eventually reconciling or maybe they simply don’t want to go through the formal process and divide up all their assets and property—including their home—with courts involved. Marriage is a contract over property rights as much as it is about love and children.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 01:53 PM
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This is where “Irreconcilable differences,” “no fault divorce,” and other vague terms come in to give them grounds for a divorce even if the second party does not agree. Even if you refuse, if she wants a divorce she can probably still get it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 01:01 PM
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OK. I see your point. Thank you for taking the time to clarify that.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 03:49 AM
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Correct me if I’m wrong… but wouldn’t the 43% of 1st marriages+73% of second marriages+80%< divorce rate on 3rd or later marriages overall seem to average out to “roughly 50% of all marriages,” as I’d said? I feel like you just broke the math down even better and proved my point. Thanks!
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 03:44 AM
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The rate is that about 50% of all “marriages” end in divorce, not that 50% of people get divorced. A lot of adults simply never get married now, even when they do start a family, plus those numbers are skewed upwards by people on their 2nd, 3rd, 4th marriages. If your first marriage ends in divorce, the odds increase dramatically for every subsequent marriage after that. If you've already been divorced 2-3 times and been through the process, your 4th attempt is almost surely going to fail unless…
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 03:30 PM
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She may be doing it because she feels guilty and is worried about you. Like everything else in the process you’ve seen from her, this is more about her feelings than yours. My ex did this with about 30 different TikTok videos on similar topics when she filed. I would just hold my tongue and not poke the hornet’s nest with a response.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 05:12 PM
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In addition to being the one to get the kids up, fed, and off to school in the morning, I also had to “deep clean” the whole house thoroughly every day (including sweeping and mopping underneath the furniture—this had to be done daily), scrub the 3 bathrooms (toilets. tub, sinks, floors) and the kitchen with bleach, feed and clean up after all the pets she wanted, clean up the kids’ rooms. wash all our dishes by hand, do 2 loads of laundry and put it away, wash the windows daily, and then cook. …
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 09:07 PM
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They have experience and interest in it. Since she went into private practice, she makes $100 an hour recycling talking points from TikTok and projecting her own issues into other peoples’ relationships. She used to love to brag to me about all the divorces she was causing when women came to her with depression and she would “enlighten” them about how it was caused by what sexist, horrible husbands they had.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 08:56 PM
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She didn’t accuse me of any physical abuse because i don’t hurt anyone and there is no evidence. What she accused me of was emotional and psychological abuse (for denying a lie about me she’s told my daughter) You can’t really prove or disprove, and when pressed for details she would, thankfully, explain what she was actually calling “abuse.”
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 08:54 PM
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I am already worried about that. She already accused me of “abusing” our daughter because when our kid asked me about it (again, she’s only 6) i respectfully told her that, no, I didn’t cheat on mommy or do those things mommy said i did, but mommy thinks I did. She loves to throw around huge, shocking allegations—and as a mental health professional she knows just what to say to make someone look/sound bad—but when you dig into the details what she’s usually referring to were imagined slights or …
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 08:47 PM
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A lot of women lose respect for men who treat them well due to their own insecurities. They feel like any man who treats them well must be beneath her or trying to manipulate her in some way. There are men like this, too. Then in a divorce, they want to demonize you and project as much negatively and blame onto you as possible so they can feel better about themselves and the split. When she filed, my ex told me that i had contributed “nothing” in our marriage despite the years of bringing in 80%…
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 05:47 PM
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There are a few states (or were 20 years ago when i worked for a credit card company and needed to know this stuff) where that is not the law, but it is not the norm in the USA
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 07:00 PM
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Yeah, and once people have gone through one divorce and moved on to a second marriage, doing it all over again isn’t a daunting unknown. Generally, the more times you or your partner were married before this one, the more likely that marriage is to end in divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 06:17 PM
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You know how men have always said “women are crazy” since the dawn of time? They just didn’t have the term “BPD” for it then.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 02:40 AM
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I had the same talk with my ex when she filed. Then the next day I caught her cheating while i was out in the field working. Of course, she denied that what i saw was “cheating.”. He was “just a friend” she was meeting for lunch. Then a few days later she was talking to my 12 year old stepdaughter about how excited she was to have “friends with benefits” again. I learned early on in the divorce process that I couldn’t trust anything she said to me, and it was just a giant Captain Hindsight momen…
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 11:39 AM
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She “Love bombed” me early with constant sweet texts, then escalated the relationship to “Facebook Official” on her own after only about a month of dating and had her toddler daughter start calling me “dad.” Turns out, these are manipulative red flags… After she did all of that stuff, she went through my phone, DMs. and emails without my permission. She got extremely jealous of stuff from before we were even together, because i had <gasp!> conversations with other women and even went on dates (t…
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 11:07 AM
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I did. My parents divorced when I was 10 and I nearly broke off the engagement before the wedding because of some of the stuff I was dealing with from her at the time. I was committed to marrying and having a family with her so I followed through. Years later I have a 6 year old daughter I love very much, but all the issues I was concerned with before marriage never got any better. People are going to be who they are.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 02:39 PM
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That comment wasn’t simply about physical attractiveness, but then the rest of your comment explained the point I was making so I’m not sure what you’re disagreeing with. Men tend to accumulate wealth and status as they age (and can still father children well into old age), which makes them more attractive to women, while women lose their looks and fertility as they age, making them less attractive to men.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 06:07 AM
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I like your thinking, but an administrator or athletic director probably won’t double teacher pay. Most teachers are lucky to see a 20% bump. In one district I used to work in, our new assistant principal found that her take home pay only increased by about $200 a month after moving out of the classroom, but her workload more than doubled. She returned to the classroom 2 years later because it was not worth her time. Actually, everybody I personally know in education who moved into admin immedia…
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 04:36 AM
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And their days as “highly valued and sought after” just for the sake of being hot tend to be numbered. A a lot of them do not fully appreciate this until their 20s are a memory and most of the Chads stopped actively chasing them a long time ago. Now they’re not so young and hot, or dealing with men who are as young and dumb, so their flaws aren’t overlooked so easily anymore. I saw it once said this way: men age like wine, but women age like milk.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 08:58 PM
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It can, but only if it’s a long marriage that literally lasts until death between two people who are equally frugal and disciplined. Otherwise, no, it’s not true. The tax (and, in the USA, insurance) advantages are there during the marriage, but where that money goes and what happens to the stuff bought with it after divorce like half of marriages generally outweighs it. I’m thinking of Gene Simmons classic “You want to get married? Just buy one her a house, a car, and pay her allowance like a c…
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 02:59 PM
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It’s not about always religion as theology, history, political mobilization tool, or appeal for divine rewards in this world or the next. Fuck that. It can be about “church” as a community of people who care for and support one another in a harsh world and also try to inspire each other to lice according to their most “enlightened” natures.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 01:06 PM
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I think this can be true of both sexes (I’ve seen douchebag men trade in their wives for younger mistresses plenty of times), but since women are usually the ones filing, they usually have already started to “move on” emotionally and plan their new lives while their husbands are still destroyed and recovering. There tend to be unforeseen problems that arise from this and smack them in the face. It turns out that the bond they have with a series of randos and flings isn’t quite the same as having…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 12:58 PM
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OP needs to do this so there can be a paper trail on her domestic violence, because it might only be a matter of time before she makes some allegations of abuse/domestic violence in court towards him as a power move.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/24 01:16 AM
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I found out, several years into this, that she was basically using the same “brainwashing” techniques on me that the Chinese government used to use on POWs. I doubt she knew this, but there were a lot of specific things that were eerily similar. I had to give up every hobby and interest I had because they were “addictions” and proof I was a bad person because i allowed them to get in the way of giving her 100% of my time and attention. I also had to pass up on rare, once-in-a-lifetime opportunit…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 01:36 PM
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My ex was a therapist, so one of her favorite things was diagnosing me with a new mental disorder whenever she was upset with me. I was a sociopathic, narcissistic guy with autism, depression, bipolar disorder, and like 3 personality disorders at the same time. Also, every one of my hobbies and interests became sick “addictions” that should have had me going to multiple meetings a week. Since she was the “professional” I wasn’t allowed to even disagree with with her about what I was thinking and…
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 07:18 PM
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Into my car, because she was threatening a spousal eviction to make finding an apartment impossible and no visitation with my daughter if I didn’t play ball. Honestly, I was so worn down at that point that I felt like I needed the space to get my own head straight. The house itself was none of my concern: it was her childhood home that she had inherited from her father a year earlier in a state of major disrepair. I didn’t want it Ever see “Hoarders?” How about an episode when they have dogs? Sh…
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 12:06 AM
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It sure as hell always felt like something was up. Hilariously, on the very night she told me this (aka—the previous one—like 11 hours earlier!), I did walk into a bar to have a beer and watch a band play, like I used to do all the time… and after 15 minutes and a single beer without talking to anyone, I immediately walked out because it was so awkward. When I came rolling in at 11 and told her exactly where I’d been and what I’d done, she went off on how I was obviously cheating all along (agai…
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 11:45 PM
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Mine constantly kept accusing me of cheating all through our marriage. She filed but swore there was no one else. Then a day later I caught her meeting up with him when I was out in the field working and she was supposed to be in her office.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 08:51 PM
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No kids and 25? You just had a shitty and expensive breakup with courts involved… and that’s about it. As much as it hurts, that is a pretty clean ending. If you’re not on the hook for alimony, you don’t have to co-parent with anyone, then your whole life is still ahead of you. Learn from the experiences you had and enjoy your freedom.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/24 03:49 PM
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Trick question: many women are also turds!
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/24 03:44 PM
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Shit, if you have survived life on this cruel, chaotic world long enough to live to 40 or older, then you are damaged goods in some way. That applies to both men and women. Maybe OP only wants young, virginal, chaste women in their 20s and 30s—but I have some bad news about them, too. If he wants a woman like that in 2024, he won’t find her on an app, but he might find her in a church he probably doesn’t want to attend.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/24 03:43 PM
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“You’ll be a better father if you can only see your daughter two weekends a month and send me a check.” My ex told me that, point blank.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 05:53 PM
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Went through the same thing last year, 13 years married with two young kids. Things were pretty good, not great, not bad. Now that I'm out meeting women I recognize versions of her exist everywhere. Women with daddy issues. Coping with anxiety and depression. Blaming their partners for their emotional struggles. The hardest part is uncoupling from her. I was making the changes she wanted the entire time and she just couldn't do her own work or the work I wanted her to do to make things work. She…
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 05:44 PM
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You know why it’s those 2-5%? It’s usually because they’re there ones with decent looking photos—not because they’re especially good looking, but because their pics have better angles, lighting, fashion, etc. There’s a “presentation” aspect to this. That stuff makes a much bigger deal than people realize (women tend to be a lot better at this), but many guys are just clueless and stick with crappy bathroom selfies and little or no bio, then their conversations are boring so women have nothing to…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 02:40 PM
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You should tell a few guys I know who have been with 100+ partners that they are “mega Chads” who are rich, very attractive, and vacation constantly. Truth is they are very average—even below average—in terms of looks and income. What they do have, however, is a fun personality and an overwhelming desire to fuck anything with a vagina that will allow them to do so. There are a lot of ugly, desperate women out there who like to fuck, too. There are tons of guys working as line cooks or assistant …
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 02:32 PM
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I go to my bank. The clerks there are notaries and will sign things free for customers.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 02:51 PM
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You’re doing the things that are recommended… but it sounds like you have anhedonia or just aren’t feeling them while you are depressed. That’s fine. Divorce causes a literal grieving process, just like a death of a close family member. Grief takes about 1-2 years for many people. You are grieving. My advice is to try some new stuff out and develop new interests/meet new people that way. Is there something you’ve been interested in or curious about but haven’t tried yet? Look at stuff like that …
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 02:09 PM
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My daughter is my entire world. If I hadn’t married my ex, she would not be here, so yes.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 11:52 PM
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NMMNG is something I read years ago. It’s full of a lot of insights, especially when it points out how a lot of “nice guys” are really doing “nice” stuff to curry favor with the expectation of reciprocity (“hidden obligations”) from the person on the receiving end that they may not be aware of. It’s unrealistic for us to think that way and However… one caveat I will add: while NMMNG is good for teaching the concept of boundaries and examining your own relationship patterns to correct for the fut…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 04:57 PM
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This is a good point about how your ex’a struggles can and will hurt the kids. My own parents divorced when I was 11. Dad worked in a factory and mom was a nurse, so we weren’t wealthy, but our mortgage on a 3 bedroom house with sizeable patch of land was only $330 a month in the late 90s. Dad eventually cut us off 2 years after the divorce because of mom’s craziness. Mom, who probably had borderline personality disorder, wasted all of that and we were left squatting in a condemned house with no…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 04:39 PM
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If it makes you feel better, a shocking number of diagnoses by qualified mental health professionals are just based on the DSM or whatever diagnostic criteria are listed in a manual, which is usually in the Wikipedia entry. They just look up something they sounds right and follow a checklist until they memorize the checklist. My ex was a professional therapist and extremely manipulative/crazy herself. I worked in a psychiatric hospital for 2 years and saw how those things are handled behind the …
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 08:02 PM
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Thank you. I’ll be contacting attorneys and looking for those groups.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 04:15 PM
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Thank you for this. I live in TN. I doubt there’s much here that legal aid would be willing to do. I looked into their assistance a decade ago when my mom died, which left me bankrupt after paying for her funeral and care, but that went nowhere. Now here I am again. Because I have no money and we share no significant property—just our daughter—I printed off the divorce papers myself and figured out how we could file an agreed divorce for a few hundred dollars in filing fees if we could just work…
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 04:02 PM
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