| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 112 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere? | Conversation | Bigboy7252 | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Approach anxiety and dry streaks | Inner Game | Bigboy7252 | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Worth it to go on a date with someone of low interest? | Comprehensive | Bigboy7252 | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 07:04 PM |
| 2 | How to stop getting hung up on openers | Conversation | Bigboy7252 | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Night game flatline | Fundamentals | Bigboy7252 | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 01:18 AM |
| 1 | College game | Fundamentals | Bigboy7252 | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Boring openers | Conversation | Bigboy7252 | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 04:02 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?Used to be often not as much anymore | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How have the shorter guys dealt with the height issue?Wear Alexander mcqueens for an extra inch or so and improve your looks to the point to where you don’t second guess as much. But you have to also develop some swagger and confidence to you because you may not automatically stand out based on height and physically features alone. My brother is 5’4 and has no issues. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety and dry streaksI just don’t want to be guilty by association yk. One of my friends is totally out in helping him but I feel bad because he’s a nice dude and he means well but yeah he’s a little aspie | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety and dry streaksThat’s very true. Got a question so one of my buddies is new to night game and is good looking but unfortunately has a track record of being creepy and in the town I am in not saying it could mess up my reputation per association but it’s not always a great look if it doesn’t go well. How do I navigate helping someone like this or not. When my game is on I do great. | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety and dry streaksNa yeah I also need to start going to different locations. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety and dry streaksI got to school so it’s usually some type of break | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 12:44 PM |
| 0 | Approach anxiety in collegeSocial circle first | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How did yall get out of your worst droughts?I get that | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How did yall get out of your worst droughts?Fair yeah I’m literally in a college town with 30,000 people and everyone at the bars this year have been chopped kind of wild | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How did yall get out of your worst droughts?I also struggle with just lack of people you’d even want to approach how did you stay motivated when you dealt with this? | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Pulled hot college Latina girlSweet | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Pulled hot college Latina girlNice bro got any stock night game openers? | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | For those that improved their dating profile pictures, how much of a difference did it make in online dating?Tbh my pictures aren’t that great still I just added a photo of me on a rooftop bar looking off into the distance and then I added a shirtless mirror selfie and 2 selfies. It kind of goes against what I’d advise people to do but it works for me. I think if I took my own advice I could do better but I’m bulking rn so I don’t really want to take pics at the moment | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | For those that improved their dating profile pictures, how much of a difference did it make in online dating?Getting better pictures and losing weight. Getting better pictures for most guys will skyrocket their results enough. I’m also not tall and I matched with girls who are taller than me. It got to points where almost everyone would open me first too which was kind of shocking but yeah. I still think my profile could be way better but I guess it’s good enough. Also get rid of an disqualifiers that where most men go wrong | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Online dating is bsHonestly if a girl keeps canceling or cancels and doesn’t seem too remorseful just see it as a good thing and weed them out that’s how you have to do it because most of them will be time wasters | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | For those that improved their dating profile pictures, how much of a difference did it make in online dating?0-5 matches a week to 50+ in a big city I still don’t think my profile is that good but it makes a massive difference | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a hookup/kiss at a nightclub as somebody who overthinks what they doYou just have to do it | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matchesUnless it’s at a vacation location | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matchesThat’s been my experience too I think It’s definitely the age range I know a ton of girls who just go on there to fuck around I’ll come back in 5 years lol | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Are women in college normally this flaky, or am I doing something wrong?Yes bro especially on apps 90% of the last matches have messaged me first and show high interest and I still can’t get them out | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 03:01 PM |
| 2 | I need to remember that I am good at gameYep that’s what I learned last night it was ass and there weren’t even that many girls to even talk too. Can’t take the good nights for granted | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 02:57 PM |
| 4 | Why Most Men Suck at Improving Their AttractivenessThere are millions of women you could access at any point in time explain to me how it is not a numbers game I met up with a girl last night and she wanted me first and we didn’t end up clicking oh well on to the next you expect me to settle just because shes there and open? | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 05:24 PM |
| 10 | Why Most Men Suck at Improving Their AttractivenessBro what😂 dating is a numbers game who gives a fuck how many women you talk to. What if you’re working a cyber security job and have to sit in front of a screen for 12 hours a day what do you expect them to do sit inside and remain and incel😭 | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 05:17 PM |
| 9 | Why Most Men Suck at Improving Their AttractivenessHow does that make sense you had to choose her at some point or you settled there’s nothing wrong with approaching and wanting to get to know someone you find attractive | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Why Most Men Suck at Improving Their Attractivenesslol you’re recent posts explain it all maybe if had higher libido you’d go after what you want | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps - Cuffing SznNo lol you probably need to improve your pictures | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop feeling jealous of dudes that don’t have to put in any effort?By doing that even if you can get close to his level, dressing well, being groomed, and being confident it can definitely halo you more and you can be seen as two prizes vs one if that makes sense. Not in all situations but some for sure. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop feeling jealous of dudes that don’t have to put in any effort?Shit if you want it that easy just max yourself out that’s all you can really do | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 04:51 PM |
| 6 | How to know if you’re attractive as a man / women what makes a man attractiveDo they usually face you or away or both I don’t go to clubs that often only bars | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 04:41 AM |
| 6 | How to know if you’re attractive as a man / women what makes a man attractiveOnce you hit 5’9 5’10 if you have a super attractive face it doesn’t matter | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 04:37 AM |
| 14 | How to know if you’re attractive as a man / women what makes a man attractiveIf anyone has any day to day signals I’d want to know as well😭. Although it doesn’t matter though if you don’t approach so. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 04:10 AM |
| 102 | How to know if you’re attractive as a man / women what makes a man attractiveIf you’re attractive Women will likely not approach you during the day but if you’ve ever been to a bar or club you’ll likely get approached at least once or twice a night. If you want to maximize that I’d suggest you only go with one other person and stand open for people to see you and make it look like you’re inviting them to come talk to you. That’s kind of how I evaluate it, day time it’s harder for me to know it gets frustrating. Also dating app matches and if they text you first. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Confused with poor results in OLD. Relatively good results in personIt can come and go with success sometimes I do great sometimes I go like 1/8 on matches 🤷 | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Is HingeX worth it for guys?If your getting matches before than yes if not then total waste of money also if your not in a big city and see the same girls over and over no definitely not | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | I have really bad text game on OLD. I dm girls and they don’t respond. I fumble girls who text me first too.This doesn’t go for all of them, but some of them | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I have really bad text game on OLD. I dm girls and they don’t respond. I fumble girls who text me first too.Try out new shit sometimes who cares, be polarizing sometimes I just got blown out because the girl didn’t realize I was flirting and I don’t give a fuck. I’ll match with hundreds more anyway. Even if they message you first you can say one wrong thing and fuck it all up so stop caring as much. I’ve had so many girls message me first and it goes no where in the end even after a good conversation. There are so many girls on there that are not even trying to meet you regardless of whether or not th… | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Roses on Hinge NEVER hit?Mine hit decent amount | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How to know if a girl is interested or just having normal convo?Yeah this is true I’ve talked to tons of girls recently for less than five minutes who approached me and got their contact information and then they text me to link later | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 06:43 PM |
| 4 | What are some ways to appear taller as someone who is 5’ 6-3/4”?Wear Alexander mcqueens you’ll get 2 inches plus they look good | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Why Can't I ApproachI found in night game what helped me get rid of my approach anxiety was literally seeing someone I liked call them over or go up to them and say hey I think their cute and ask for their information. Don’t even worry about whether you’ll close or not because that’s not your goal your just trying to get passed step one. And honestly especially at a club you’ll be surprised that a lot of them will want to see you later without even saying more than 10 words to them😭. I would advise you do this some… | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting hung up on openersThank you will try it out | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting hung up on openersYeah experienced this yesterday but I’m taking a step in the right direction I also think the girls I talked to were bland or not interested so I just ejected | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | College campusYou also have to factor in that 90% of them are probably socially awkward and don’t want to make eye contact with you regardless if they find you attractive or not. Just don’t even worry about it | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting hung up on openersYeah have to stop being outcome dependent | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting hung up on openersThat’s true | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting hung up on openersThat’s what I usually try to do | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Tip for newbies - go the online route firstThat’s what I’m going to do | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting hung up on openersI’m saying it’s hard not to notice eye contact when your constantly walking around a campus that’s all | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting hung up on openersYeah that’s true I am usually on campus so it’s easier to notice these things when they happen every single day | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Tip for newbies - go the online route firstI can second this I think it’s actually a bad idea to go OLD first since because I get matches on dating apps and it’s just cope at this point for my AA because I’d rather deal with girls I kind of like that I don’t have to put as much work into vs getting someone in person I actually like and having to put in the work or deal with rejection | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Losing confidence after a bad night outlol I know someone who got told his whole friend group was cooked it could be way worse😂 | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Clubbing in AthensOh can’t help you with that one😂😂 | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Clubbing in AthensOr* | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Clubbing in AthensAre you talking Athens Georgia for Greece sorry let me be more specific | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Clubbing in AthensAthens where lol | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Worth it to go on a date with someone of low interest?Yeah I was originally like na because she didn’t seem as interested as before but my friend brought up that i could be getting shit tested but idek | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Worth it to go on a date with someone of low interest?Yeah exactly | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)Well that’s true for sure I just haven’t done that yet since I haven’t gotten into a relationship since using them which hasn’t been that long. | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)I think it would magnify in real life success because there’s unlimited competition online not in person | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)This is interesting I think it’s the opposite but for me and people I know | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)Happens to everyone bro | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Good point | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah that is very true super trashy women on there | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Can confirm this is true you’ll start off kind of slow but once the matches start rolling in unless there’s no one in your area you’ll start getting better choices | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yep | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?That’s interesting I’m going to have to try that out | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah you’ll have to change them then | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Oh for sure | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?I am too I could get way better pictures but I just don’t have the time there are even like two pictures in there that I’d say go against the picture rules if that makes sense but they still work so until I get better ones I’ll probably just leave it | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah I am trying to find stuff that works for me | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 07:19 PM |
| 0 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Like I said it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t go anywhere | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?The only way to get better is to try | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah the hi hi how are you never works unless they text me that first | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?If I dm you can you show me a quick example | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?It’s mostly on tinder I don’t see a ton on hinge they are really easy to spot on tinder | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah no I don’t take it personally at all I’m just trying to find ways to improve my text game that’s all | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah I have a feeling that could be what happens for sure | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 04:56 AM |
| 10 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?That is very true | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah I wish I had that skill over text I can in real life but on text I just go blank it’s so weird | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 04:36 AM |
| 10 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Doesn’t matter if it doesn’t go anywhere | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah that’s why I came for some advice on that not my specialty online | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?That is true | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Makes sense but what if they give you an objection like they don’t know you or the stranger reason | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Ok I’ll give it a go | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:53 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Maybe I just try and be more polarizing? | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:22 AM |
| 7 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah bro I lowkey the same way tbh it just feels like a bunch of bs half the time unfortunately | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:15 AM |
| 7 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Probably not no and I do try and sexualixe but sometimes I can’t even get to that point😭 I can crack jokes and be witty in person but for some reason over text I just cannot idk why | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:09 AM |
| 7 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yep | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah makes sense | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:05 AM |
| 29 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?That’s what I chalk it up to | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?The low effort lines sometimes work | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Usually try and pick something off their profile and I almost always get responses and just can’t get things any further or a low effort line to gage interest | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:04 AM |
| 22 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?Yeah that is understandable | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:04 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter