Bigbruvah Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Being Suave versus being high energy/extroverted	Bigbruvah	/r/seduction	26/06/17 02:15 AM
8	Practicing whatever you can with co-workers, that you don't actually want to pursue.	Bigbruvah	/r/seduction	23/08/15 07:09 PM
2	Meeting/Seducing people in recreational classes.	Bigbruvah	/r/seduction	30/08/15 08:53 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Being Suave versus being high energy/extroverted I still don't understand. I'm not looking to attract any specific person unfortunately. I'm just trying to figure out how I can optimize my interactions. It isn't just females, it wth anybody. How do interact with people to determine if their suitable as friends? How do I make co-worker think I'm intelligent and competent? How do I communicate to others that I'm interesting and that I offer value?	/r/seduction	28/06/17 04:13 PM
1	Being Suave versus being high energy/extroverted Ok, so for my next interaction, what mindset should i be going with? Especially with females?	/r/seduction	27/06/17 04:38 AM
1	Being Suave versus being high energy/extroverted I'm not sure what you mean by other options	/r/seduction	27/06/17 12:03 AM
2	Being Suave versus being high energy/extroverted I already kind of see what you mean I'm naturally more suave and blaze.	/r/seduction	27/06/17 12:02 AM
2	Being Suave versus being high energy/extroverted i'm not a people pleaser at all, but I think I do come across as being overly interested. With women in general, I tend try too hard to open. I'll just say a stupid joke, and talk loudly,	/r/seduction	26/06/17 07:30 PM
1	Being Suave versus being high energy/extroverted I'm actually kind of old, so clearly have some sort of issue. I'm in my late 20's. So the dilemma is still very real to me unfortunately.	/r/seduction	26/06/17 04:29 PM
1	Being Suave versus being high energy/extroverted I think the issue is, underneath it all. I am kind of dorky, and not "cool". So I think by being vulnerable and reaching out to people... people come to this conclusion and judgement sooner. Which in turn makes me beta. In a more "seductive" context, I tend to naturally get more more suave. But this is only after kind of "hooking". Once I can start conversation, I tend to go there naturally. Buy I'm really looking for a default state of being. Being true to myself, I'm not sure how I could answe…	/r/seduction	26/06/17 01:39 PM
1	Being Suave versus being high energy/extroverted The problem is, I feel I'm having even less success with this new persona. It's also been years since I've transitioned, but the extroversion does make me feel anxious and hesitant at times. People also end up viewing me as kind of a clown. Almost like those awkward old people who talk too much. For example; I'll feel pressured to talk to as many people as possible in a party. I always feel the need to say hello and bye, when I really just want to walk out without acknowledging anybody.	/r/seduction	26/06/17 01:25 PM
1	Thinking of writing out a code to live life by. Should I? I've thought of doing this, and I actually wanted to get into creative writing, partially because I think it would help me visualize and create a vision of my own life.	/r/seduction	26/12/16 06:49 PM
1	Has anyone here done vocal or speaking lessons? So any ideas on how one would get started in improving your voice? Like how to speak and such. I read: It's the Way You Say It: Becoming Articulate, Well-Spoken, and Clear But I found it was difficult to determine if I was doing the exercises right so I aborted.	/r/seduction	17/03/16 06:53 PM
3	17 [M] 7 months until uni, no SMV or social skills, how to improve? Well dude, the idea of improving social skills never even cross my mind at the age of 17, and here I am at 25 trying to break out of my shell. I think you'll do find, I find high school is a pretty tough time to change, and when going into a new environment, the world will allow you to act differently, rather they confine you. Just figure what you want to improve on, what you want to project. Try and stay positive, as its really easy to let the negativity consume you, and in turn feel anti-socia…	/r/askTRP	24/02/16 08:42 PM
1	Practicing whatever you can with co-workers, that you don't actually want to pursue. I'm definitely working on approaching new women, but I'm also trying to find unconventional ways of self improving, so since I work a lot of hours throughout the day, I can hopefully do something that will help me, and transcend into actual pick up.	/r/seduction	24/08/15 12:08 AM
1	Practicing whatever you can with co-workers, that you don't actually want to pursue. I'm sorry to sound like a newbie, but what are some of the basic things I can try, less Kino. Especially in this situation where I've already have established an awkward relationship?	/r/seduction	23/08/15 09:42 PM