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Yeah regarding intimate… the side I loved is usually the one in my dreams. Good advice.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 05:10 PM
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Wow, so we are both dealing with spouses who have toxic narcissism and paranoid personality disorder. My advice if you want it, keep documenting all the accusations and your proof you don’t murder puppies. But also detach as much as possible. I’ve told my x she frightens me because I have no idea what she or her mind is capable of concocting. She being the toxic evil. Her mind being the illness. Also, sounds like you are doing this, but do share the things that are happening to you in confidence…
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 01:19 PM
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That’s freakin’ hilarious.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 01:11 PM
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She probably thinks you did something horrible in her alternate reality.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 03:41 PM
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Hey bub, that’s my ex wife.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 03:34 AM
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Consider asking for recommendations on an affordable mediator if you and stbx can’t come to agreement… given she’d see one. Be prepared to give your attorney a rundown on your financial situation. It will be tough to keep attorney expenses below $10k unless you can agree on stuff yourselves. It doesn’t sound complicated so best wishes to you.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 10:28 PM
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Ha… I had that exact thought when I walked by the aisle of flowers. I might be spending thousands a month in alimony but I’m saving $40 on those damn flowers.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 10:07 PM
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Great advice. I got my Walmart $.99 boxes and some better candy bars. The donuts are a great idea. Maybe even $5 sushi or Whopper Wednesday for dinner!! Thanks for thinking of others.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 10:05 PM
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Pretty sure you were married to my wife. Nothing positive in over two decades. No good memories. It’s amazing. What a miserable life to lead. Someone once told me that’s the punishment they get for choosing not to get help and continuing the behavior. BTW I was like you just sailing along thinking maybe it’s normal, finding happiness easily enough where I could. All the while being emotionally abused/tormented on a daily basis. Maybe we are f’d up in a good way.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 12:09 PM
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So yours can’t be wrong, apologize, or see reality either. I never thought these issues would be as prevalent as they are. Thought I was 1 in a million! Thankful for Reddit.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 09:37 AM
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I got accused of stealing piddly shit after pre and post separation which is hilarious considering the $$& she got and is getting.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 09:08 AM
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Mine sees clues in everything that result in circumstantial evidence or proof in her mind that just isn’t true.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 09:06 AM
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I was there too. Kept trying to see the positive. Thinking maybe it was me who was the problem. Sometimes there would be a couple days without interrogations or my words being misinterpreted to pick fights, then it’d start again. Never any peace. Never free from anxiety not knowing what was coming. Until now. Good luck. Sounds like you are a good guy who will do fine.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 09:04 AM
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No
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 08:57 AM
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That too!!! Exactly.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 08:57 AM
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Mine set up a shitty camera on me and presented these Rorschach ink blot pics I looked at on my phone that she translated as all kinds of women. It’s somewhat funny yet not because it’s a mental illness.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 10:49 PM
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But rest assured everyone knows what she truly is.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 01:06 PM
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So it’s the physical attraction that keeps us coming back? Fear of loneliness? What you said rings true in my world too. I just hope I can find someone someday that isn’t that way.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 01:04 PM
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I never knew so many men dealt with this issue. And here I thought I was special. No apologies. No admitting to being wrong ever. Pulling things out that happened 20 years ago that weren’t terrible to begin with. Stonewalling is my personal favorite.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 12:55 PM
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It’s called toxic.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 12:51 PM
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Disengage. She’s toxic.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 05:47 PM
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It’s genetic luck of the draw.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/24 11:28 AM
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