BitterPearls Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Why is intamacy decining? Well I have seen men talk about their issues with porn and how harmful it’s been for them AND yes many of them have mentioned it affecting their views on sex and women. Glad that wasn’t the case for you. Also I do have compassion. If I didn’t I wouldn’t be here and I wouldn’t have tried to have a respectful conversation with you. Even though everything you’ve said has been mildly insulting. You’re making all these assumptions about me and women. That’s another issue I see. Men like you want to s…	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/20 06:06 PM
1	Why is intamacy decining? I see you made edits. So I will say this. My point was specifically about porn consumption today. So many young men talk about how they get addicted extremely early. As early as 8 or 9. With the internet. They have unlimited access to hardcore porn. My comment was focused on how this seems to be having an effect on young men. I’m sorry but if some 12 year boy gets addicted to porn and develop unhealthy standards or ideas based on that early exposure (which does happen) how is that women’s fault?…	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/20 05:11 PM
1	Why is intamacy decining? I said my dating life was fine because you implied that I might be struggling. I don’t use online dating as I prefer to meet people irl. My comment also had nothing to do with tinder or dating. Just that some men have also withdrawn. If my above example didn’t apply to you then I don’t understand why it was so triggering. You’re going on and on about something that didn’t have anything to do with my conversation with the above person. Maybe you were looking for a woman to vomit out your current …	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/20 04:55 PM
1	Why is intamacy decining? Um what are you talking about? I am very specifically talking about how some men develop unhealthy standards from porn and seem to retreat into that fantasy. This has nothing to do with dating. Also, my dating life is fine. You’re projecting hard and clearly might be going thru some things so I will be nice. Get help and good luck. 🤗	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/20 04:41 PM
4	Dealing with regret over past misogynistic behavior Lol thanks for catching that.	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/20 10:41 PM
1	Why is intamacy decining? I just want to add I feel like porn is damaging and is playing a big role is a lot of the female hate online. Because i think it’s creating unrealistic standards. That’s just my theory. Glad you’re getting away from that mindset tho.	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/20 10:31 PM
3	Why is intamacy decining? Oh well your comment made me think about it. I don’t necessarily know what the redpill means when they are talking about. These guys aren’t putting all women on a pedestal tho. They are ignoring the women they have access to because they have unhealthy standards or wants if that makes sense. It would be like if a girl was obsessed with Justin Bieber to the point she only focused on him, masturbated to him, and tweeted at him on Twitter. Completely ignoring her social life or the guys she could h…	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/20 10:28 PM
40	Dealing with regret over past misogynistic behavior I think this just means you have a conscious. The fact you feel bad about doing bad things. Just realize you can’t change the past but you can be a good person forward. If there’s a particular person you’ve hurt or something you done that really bothers you. You could always try to apologize to that person or try to make it up going forward by helping someone else if reconciliation isn’t possible.	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/20 09:49 PM
4	Why is intamacy decining? I’m really interested in this topic. I’m a girl but I’ve noticed this with the guys around me. It’s not just porn but also the fact they have access to so many women on the internet. I know guys who all they do is follow girls on Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat etc... they seem to build up this fantasy dream girl and the internet gives them access. They can even build what might seem like a friendship and talk to these girls or at least follow their lives. They end up wanting something that’s kind …	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/20 09:01 PM
3	“She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” Yeah I understand but I do disagree with a few things. I don’t really want to go on and on tho. I will say this. Many men’s groups become hateful and filled with disdain and sometimes even encourage violence against women. That violence has also spilled into real life. The problem with groups like this is that they have a protect shield that says we are right and the only reason society doesn’t agree with us is because society doesn’t care about men. Other groups do this too. Like every valid cr…	/r/ExRedPill	30/07/20 08:35 PM
1	Does anybody think that TRP are thirsty simps? I wanted to add this to my comment but the redpill gets the high value partner thing right and wrong at the same time. People value different things. Let’s say a guy meets a girl that’s a biochemical engineer that went to Yale. He’s also highly educated and values this in a partner. She could be average looking and not that young but it doesn’t matter. While another guy could chase after the big titty stripper with an 8th grade education. Doesn’t matter to him because she’s the hottest thing eve…	/r/ExRedPill	30/07/20 05:45 PM
4	“She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” I don’t think the mocking or being rude always comes from lack of rejection. People can be assholes. Most people want validation but they don’t always want to give it. For example most people go thru a time where they feel self conscious about their bodies. That doesn’t stop them from making fun of the way other people look. If facing rejection made people nicer than men should be nicer and more caring/considerate but I don’t see that at all. Also, I’m a black woman and I’ve faced a lot of rejec…	/r/ExRedPill	30/07/20 04:49 PM
3	“She’s not yours, it’s just your turn” So what would men like for women to do? As I’ve gotten older (I’m in my late 20s) I’ve become more aware of how much rejection men face. I wasn’t really aware of this when I was younger. So in a a perfect world if you could be in control of things. What do you think men or women could do manage the negative effects of rejection men face?	/r/ExRedPill	30/07/20 04:21 AM
1	Does anybody think that TRP are thirsty simps? Okay I understand and yes there is some truth to this but it’s not as simple as you’re making it out to be. It depends on what you mean by high value partner? If your choosing between the person you’re most attracted to of course you’re going to go for that. Men would do it too and they do when they have the chance too. My issue is that the bitterness is misdirected. Men ignore the role they play in this dynamic. For example many men want younger beautiful women and I don’t have an issue with th…	/r/ExRedPill	30/07/20 12:44 AM
2	Does anybody think that TRP are thirsty simps? I’m not sure what you’re talking about because I’m not talking about chad at all. The argument about not really knowing people. You can make that argument about anything. You don’t know what percentage of your friends are into any number of things. Who wants to eat their poop or secretly into some other kind of weird fetish. So it’s not just women. So I’m not sure what/ who sex workers have to do with anything??? Are you claiming that most women are secret sex workers? I’m confused. Also the del…	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/20 01:01 AM
1	Does anybody think that TRP are thirsty simps? No I don’t mind sex workers at all! I believe you think it’s the best pathway for yourself so I’m not going to say it isnt. It’s just the way you think you have to be with women is the sad part to me. Also the shallow part is because you’re so focused on sex. Let’s say someone has paranoid delusions and they think everyone they meet has an infectious disease. This delusion has led them to completely isolate themselves from the rest of the world. They live in a small hut in the middle of no where…	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/20 11:23 PM
2	Does anybody think that TRP are thirsty simps? Well I guess I just think it’s sad and shallow. But what’s ever floats your boat. As long as you don’t mind people treating you the same way you want to treat women.	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/20 09:31 PM
0	Does anybody think that TRP are thirsty simps? What do you mean by restrain? I’m a woman and sometimes I’m confused by why men are obsessed with the idea of Chad having sex. I think it gets over blown but even if it’s true. There will always be people who have more than you. People who are smarter, stronger, more talented. There’s people who will simply excel at certain things in life or have more of it. Even if they didn’t work for it. Some people will have rich parents like Jay-z and Beyoncé. While others get meth heads. Guess what? That k…	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/20 05:59 AM
1	Does anybody think that TRP are thirsty simps? That’s a new abbreviation. It use to just be short for simpleton.	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/20 05:43 AM