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The honeymoon phase is about how we normalize to people chemicals over time and just the general principles of the hedonistic treadmill. It's typically about 1-2 years in when the honeymoon phase ends. Most couples actually find the intimacy they have after the physical urgency dies down is better, because it's a more stable, secure love less rooted in physical attraction. Not all couples make it through, but that's a sign the relationship was more about lust & attachment than a real "love".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:01 AM
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What kind of weirdo thinks the way a woman looks at the gym is representative of how she looks anywhere else? The only women who wear makeup to the gym are the ones who can't be bothered to wash it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:09 AM
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Even if the nail is real, the polish on top is 100% artificial. Men just love to create arbitrary rules to try to justify why they like women, cause even they know they can't just walk up to us like "nice tits" and expect to get anywhere. So they've got to create fictional reasons for why they find us hot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:07 AM
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You need to stop hanging out with those people. I know a ton of libfems (I'm still half libfem myself tbh) and not a single one would have even thought to justify or diminish the seriousness of drugging someone. That's not liberal feminism. That's deeply ingrained misogyny right there. And before the "har har, isn't all liberal feminism just ingrained misogyny" jokes, no. It's really important we not belittle how absolutely inexcusably fucked up this is. This isn't a chance to get into libfems v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:51 AM
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I'm pretty sure she's not allowed to take her adhd meds right now (they're illegal in Japan and while the IOC allows exemptions to stimulants for people with adhd, I don't think they can override japanese law). Doing flips in the air with adhd brain fog is extremely dangerous, and she would have likely gotten extremely hurt. I've literally walked directly into a wall once cause I hadn't refilled my meds yet. I literally drove over the curb in a parking lot once and didn't notice for like a full …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:32 PM
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Michael Che would be so hilarious if he had an ounce of humility, but his humor is always at other people's expense and it's such a bad style of humor in 2021.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:26 PM
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It's cause she and Serena have had tension in the past, Serena has also complained about the racism in the French press, but has never stopped press rounds. Personally, I just feel bad that it didn't occur to Serena she could have done it too. The french press is disgusting and literally no POC or woman or Muslim should ever be forced to talk to those cretins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:25 PM
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Meanwhile I'm just wondering how you find guys who read fiction...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:16 PM
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I'm having a horrible experience RN with a content creator on YouTube who presented himself as a feminist ally and as just another toxic nice guy taking advantage of women. I want to shake the mods of that subreddit. It's not even just doing a bad job at being a women's space anymore, I see a post actively perpetuating harm to the community like 3 times a week lately. There's so many predators lurking there now and using tactics I only recognize becuase I've had to learn through experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:33 PM
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Because society has told him every day that he is viewed as a threat because he's black, but society falls over itself to reassure men they're not the problem and any woman who says otherwise is probably just a lying bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:31 PM
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Why the fuck are there even that many men responding? I fucking hate that subreddit now. It's just dudes circle jerking and tone policing women and women bending over backwards to not offend the delicate male ego in a fucking women's space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:30 PM
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Exactly. Stop coming to women's spaces to commiserate how women are treated and go to men's spaces and tell them what's what. They won't listen to us but you have a dick, so fucking leverage your privelege or fuck all the way off with this condescending shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:28 PM
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I walk fast and am pretty observant/paranoid person and just have Sixth sense about creepers and stick to main streets, so I'll often wear 2 headphones so i can't hear dudes if they yell something at me or try to chat me up, and so I can have a visible "I am done listening to you" cue in putting my 2nd earbud back in..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:27 PM
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Wtf, that's not even an obscure mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:52 PM
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I'm actually confused at why he isn't. My understanding is that pedophilia is rarely reported to therapists specifically becuase they are expected to report all sexual contact with children (and downloading and viewing child porn is considered a form of sexual crime) Child porn is not a victimless crime. When mentally ill people are committing crimes which endanger others, mandatory reporters are....ya know, mandated to report. Why the fuck is this dude not being reported if he admits to using C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:51 PM
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You never become so entrenched in a relationship that you can't walk away from it. Women lose their chill.becaude they're stuck in situations that are too hard for them, but which they can no longer leave because they forgot to maintain a clear path to an exit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:49 PM
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Even if good marriages did make you happier and healthier than being single, unhappy marriages would still not only make women miserable & sick, but it regularly leads to us getting abused and murdered. I'll take being lonely over being dead any day. And I'll take either before I'd fuck a neck beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:05 AM
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Men who say they have had past bad experiences with women are lying abusers like at least 60% of the time. I'm so grateful that my mom warned me young how many men are abusive trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:29 AM
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For sure, but also I think it's entirely reasonable to act grumpy or shorter tempered if you have PMS or PMDD. And men wouldn't hesitate in that opinion if they experienced something even 1/10th that extreme. They get a little adrenaline boost from working out or being emberasssed and straight up murder people. Some of us experience regular mental health crisis due to severe and rapid hormonal fluctuation and we're yelled at if we so much as forget to smile These are serious health conditions th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:21 AM
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I'm not aware of anywhere that would do anything about this unless it was physical abuse or neglect. It sucks, but again animals don't have legal rights in America. Its a crime to not take adequate care of them, but they themselves are property. All we can really do is try to fight for strengthened animal welfare laws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:18 AM
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This is a well intentioned but very naive comment. Removing an animal from the home requires pretty serious neglect, and the police would need it to be egregious abuse before they'd get involved. Unfortunately, animals really don't have much in the way of legal rights or advocates, and there's little to be done when an owner is acting poorly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:26 PM
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At this point, Id choose a turkey sandwich over most men. And I hate turkey. It's just dry chicken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:24 PM
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Neither do most people. We internalize way more shit than we think we do. That's why we have to be vigilant about toxic people in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:23 PM
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The rest of the deck is just a brick with "male entitlement" scribbled on it in sharpie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:22 PM
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A lot of people use quotation marks to imply inflection (the way most people use italics.) It's annoying but I'm assuming it started during that period of time when formatting text wasn't easy on phones, (or maybe he's just stupid idk)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:16 PM
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Not all of them. Just the stupid machismo ones. (Which is most of them in my area......)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:14 PM
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I think they're referring to women with PMS and PMDD (What do you want to bet he acts like a toddler if he so much as gets the sniffles?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:13 PM
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Ooooh, yeah. I remember a podcast I listen to years ago covered an issue of a segregated district and how "fundraising" is just a way for rich white people to avoid having to put their money in the shared pot (where itll be shared equally with the poors)There are no apparent lengths too far for a greedy person trying to avoid paying their share into society. Absolutely atrocious it's still going on today. Hopefully the district prevails and will force it to end. It's extremely unfair and complet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:37 AM
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The biggest takeaway I have from this is that schools are severely underfunded. Why the hell does a school not have enough money to make sure a kid with that many issues is getting adequate resources?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:08 PM
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I don't think this argument really works. It's not about the degree of threat to the girl that the boy poses It's a joke referencing the fact that a daughter is a father's property, and only virgins get a decent bride price. It's not about the girls safety. It's about the father's assets. It's no different than him handing him the keys to his car and jokingly saying he's dead if he comes back having scratched it up. The joke isn't that the teen is a particularly bad driver. It's that the adult i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:04 PM
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Option 1: he's a narcissist. This is all a power play. He'll come back in a while and they'll makeup, and he'll have restablished the power he felt he'd lost. But he'll continue to needle about it in some way - typically becoming a thing that is never to be spoken a la Voldemort or a thing he never shuts up about. Option 2: garden variety lvm. He found a different girl he likes more and he either thinks he's got a real shot with her or (more likely) he's already made a move on a new girl and got…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:38 AM
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This reeks of troll to me. especially the use of the forward slash \ I feel like only trolls use that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:04 AM
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If you go back to like 2005/2006, that was peak humor. A lot of people who aren't actually funny will just repeat things other people said that got a laugh. A lot of immature people just stay in the shit they liked age 12-18. Thus you get a person somehow coming to the conclusion that answering the phone like that for his girlfriend in 2021 would be funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:53 AM
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I've noticed this trend where men will say ",?and no, I'm not doing the thing I just described myself doing in great detail" Just because you don't think you're behaving in a creepy manner doesn't mean they agree. Clearly, they think you're being creepy. Whether or not you agree that their conclusion is correct, you can't deny that it is the conclusion they're coming to. Work from that. I'm exhausted trying to teach basic empathy to adult men. Go back to kindergarten a la Billy Madison or someth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:52 PM
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He probably made that story up hoping it would make you flirt with him. It's a common pickup technique to try to elevate your status in a woman's eyes by making it appear other women are interested in you. Like your grandpa probably did it, it's that old of a trick. there's even studies confirming it's a real thing. Although it's probably less motivated by jealously, and more about trusting other women's evaluations of character. Him being desirable to other women signals to you he's probably sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:53 PM
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I'm 27 now, and holy shit I can feel how different I am from when I was 20/21/23. It's like feelings are just a teensy weensy blunted now, which makes them not be so all consuming. I'm a lot more secure in my identity and values, and I don't get swept into my feelings quite as often (I'm neurodivergent and mentally ill, so I'm still a mess. But way better than before)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:46 PM
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I think you're being overly hard on girls who have been brainwashed since they were 10/11/12. These are victims. It's not their responsibility to not get raped children. That was the men's responsibility, and oh wow what a surprise they failed for the 4,000 year in a row. Her parents, her handler, her management - they should all be ashamed of themselves. but the 16, 18, and 19 year old girls who have been sexually commodified for as long as they can remember? Not to blame. I would try to talk s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:40 PM
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Her parents let her go into acting as a child. They never prioritized her safety. Pretty much every adult child star has said that having a parent on set only protects you from going over hours or breaking contract, it doesn't protect you at all from grooming and stuff. A lot of times the parents themselves don't really understand (Britney spears original handler is a great example of well meaning adult who was just completley in over their head. She didn't even understand Hollywood, let alone h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:36 PM
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I personally don't "get" diamonds. The idea of spending 6k on a borderline worthless gemstone? Blugh now, it sucks that this woman. Is clearly not that way, and her boyfriend is. But they will still frame it as "oh he just doesn't get diamonds, tehehe you know men" But here's the thing. All of those are him splurges. No weekend trip, no dinners out, nothing she would want to enjoy. It's all toys for him. I wouldn't spend on diamonds either cause I don't get them, but I would still be generous to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:20 AM
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Nah, cute men are online misogynists too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:17 PM
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This sub makes me feel a lot better about being a slob and terrible cook, because at least I don't have to worry about a man using me for my domesticity (of which I have none). Other times it makes me feel a lot worse about it when you're roasting scrotes and I'm like "oh no, I'm kinda like the scrote", but even then it's good to be called out on my shortcomings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:12 AM
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I don't believe in that pandering applause for men doing the bare minimum, but I'm also not gonna spit in someones face for at least trying to do better. He fully acknowledges his gendered privelege, admits its pretty embarrassing and inexcusable for a grown man yo he this incompetent. He makes no mean spirited comments about his wife and seems to recognize he was not entitled to her domestic labor and was lucky to get it for as long as he did. He also takes full ownership for his getting fat - …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:29 PM
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"I was in a perfect date until he intentionally inflicted emotional distress with the purpose of lowering my self esteem to make me more likely to agree to sexual activity I wouldn't if I hadnt just been emotionally abused" Also, let's discuss the fact that this man was going on a date with a woman with severe body dysmorphia wasn't a coincidence. The reason negging is popular is because it works. The only reason it seems like a laughably bad strategy is when it's done to women who aren't extrem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:20 PM
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At least she recognizes there's nothing feminist about being a doormat. Which is better than half the pro-exploitation #girlboss "feminists" you see these days. I wish the term would fall out fashion again do we could differentiate the actual like-minded people from the sexist losers and delusional doormats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:12 PM
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Sure thing, just let me know where I can send that invoice for the cost of the time and money I invested to look cute for someone who was looking for a girlfriend (whereas what I got was clearly a man in the market for a discount prostitute.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:10 PM
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Yeah I kind of felt like the entire point of the ending was that he didn't make any real personal growth (whereas Summer practically looks matronly compared to him in the last scene they're together, becuase of how much she's grown up and matured) I always felt the movie was more a commentary on the romcom genre and the harmful narratives and behaviors we perpetuate around love more than it actually being about any actual character. Like the point was supposed to be calling out the audience for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:33 PM
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It's was probably a vanity change for the actor, as he was quite popular at the time. If your brand is lovable, you can't play it too douchey. I actually think it's to pander to the largely adolescent girl audience, as they've known the fangirl demographic was a big chunk of the market. So any cute male actor who was playing teens/twenties would only want to play good (or sexily bad but then redemption arc). Cause if the fangirls associate you with the douchebag boyfriend role first, that's all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:42 AM
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Do they just not ask what you do, or do you have a vague way of not really answering? I feel like "what do you do?" always comes up super early with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:08 PM
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Nah, that's money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:46 AM
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This all but guaranteeing their daughters will seek out abusive men who use threats of violence to control them Good job, dad's. You delayed your daughters having sex by a couple years by all but guaranteeing she experiences years of spousal rape. Awesome job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:34 PM
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Cause they're scared what might happen to them if they leave. I mean that in both the threat of violence way, but also the way a lot of women are told that they will die alone and be looked down upon by their peers if they leave. It's just abusive mind games from top to bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:33 PM
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Being a single mother would be a step-up for her, cause the child support system isn't a pick-me and isn't gonna fall for this man's shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:31 PM
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That's when you tell him you can't budget for activities and dates anymore. Either he takes the hint and steps up or he doesn't. Win-win from my perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:30 PM
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Edit: I just realized that the reason the poem made sense to me is I could read it in his voice with his cadence. You should look up a video of him reading it, it will probably make sense if you hear it cause he'll inflect to show the punchline. He's mocking men and male entitlement. He has this moment of clarity that he is using his partner and then laughs it off as if it's a trivial character flaw and not emotional abuse. The punchline is to make fun of the toxic man, not normalize his viewpoi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 08:24 AM
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Who is the intended audience of this? What's the wider context? On its own this is concerning, but I don't know enough about it to really understand the perspective it seems to be pushing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:18 AM
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....it's tongue and cheek though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:13 AM
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It's more of a gen-z meme for the insta baddie crowd to make jokes about being able to fuck your mom/dad if they wanted. Dark? Maybe. But I'm all for shining a light on our dark sexual taboos and finally confronting the perversions there. Lots of girls do fuck their friends dads/uncles/brothers, and by that I mean are sexually preyed upon by older men. I fully love that gen-z is the first generation genuinely starting to become open about sexual abuse, even if I don't necessarily love the pseudo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:37 PM
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She's a 19 year old girl who has spent the majority of her life in an incredibly toxic, objectifying industry which is notorious for grooming and raping children. She's also talked at length about what a mindfuck it is being a female teen pop star, and how sexually demeaning it can feel. In terms of smart, successful women being brainwashed into accepting abuse, there's very few areas where it's more normalized than Hollywood. I'd also like to add that she revealed shed been texting Drake a litt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:33 PM
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That's the worst part of the story imo. Not that he was poisoning her, but that he was poisoning her while simultaneously complaining that she's always moping around the house like someone who has been poisoned. Dude really lost the plot mid-argument and showed his hand for no reason. Thank God the woman saw it for what it was and got out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:48 PM
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Anorexia/ED fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:20 PM
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Once again, a woman is taking on the blame for men's shortcomings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:43 PM
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Just because he tells himself he didn't mean harm didn't mean he didn't just outright say he wants to offload parental responsibilities onto a child (which is absolutely a huge part of christian patriarchal culture, so you won't convince me he just meant it in a totally normal big sister way when big sister has always had the subtext of unpaid help)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:19 AM
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The issue is usually that they couldn't afford her lifestyle, and men tend to respond really negatively to being the lower earning partner. Like the bigger the income gap between men and women, the more likely the high earning woman was to do more and more of the housework to "make up" for "emasculating" her partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:06 PM
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Dont worry. Most of those traditional women actually end up married to the nice "formerly gay" man they know from church.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:30 PM
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Especially weird becuase even men at that level of fame usually become quite antisocial. It's just not worth it for people in that position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:54 PM
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Reddit: why will women have sex with Chad and not meeeee??? FeMiNisM Is DesTrOyInG SoCieTy FDS: have you tried being less shitty and gross? Reddit: MiSaNdRiSt FDS: But Chads a guy, and we like Chad. You said so yourself. Reddit: No, youre frigid.... And you're a used up [slur]. You're a frigid slut. wHy ArE FeMaLeS sO IrRaTiOnAL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:42 PM
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There are some girls on tiktok where I get it. They play with shapes and colors and create effects or makeup cosplay or whatever. It's clearly art for them, where their face is the medium. I have no issue with that -- if doing intricate eyeliner designs makes you happy, then go right ahead and be happy. My issue is the "natural makeup" camp, which is always where I naturally fell. The "I'm trying to paint my face so it looks like what I wished it looked like" crowd. Being able to make yourself f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:17 PM
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He actually does have pretty severe substance abuse problems :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:03 PM
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I think there's valid complaints mixed in with what is mostly a lot of bad faith "poisoning the well" stuff from misogynists who clearly have never actually participated. I don't think I could list what some of the valid complaints are without getting banned, which is itself my #1 complaint. Overall, I still think the sub does more good by existing than getting rid of it would, especially with how trivial many of the complaints are compared to the complaints leveled at some of the predominately …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:23 PM
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The issue is that nobody should be concerned with "falling millenials birthrate" unless they're a nationalist or white supremacist. Birth rates have been falling for practically 2 centuries. That's what happens when they nearly all start living to adulthood and you never need them to perform labor to keep up with the land. It's not like humans are on the brink of extinction . We have more than enough people. I take the fact middle class white western women arent popping 2.5 kids out anymore as a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:07 PM
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Oh yeah, you were saying that it's unrealistic to compare yourself to him and all he heard is "yeah he's more of a Chad than you" and suddenly your the physical symbol of decades of repressed inferiority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:47 AM
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It's a litmus test. The kind of women who would insist on a pre-date call aren't the type of women they would want to date (naive, easily taken advantage of).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:02 AM
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More and more I'm realizing my adhd saved me from myself. I genuinely can't imagine bothering with a man who repulses me. If you no longer actively attract me, you repel me. Just.... automatically with no forethought. I was a bad pick-me when it came to early stages with men, but always just ended up ducking out when I realized he was gross and boring.. Gross gross gross man, poor stupid woman. How do you hear your boyfriend has a poopy butthole and not immediately realize you need to leave the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:01 AM
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I try to mostly stick to things written by psychologists/counselors/etc who study it. Not only does it keep my blood pressure a lot lower, but narcissists distort the truth to themselves as well, so anything said publically (especially among other men where they're seeking approval) is 80% lies. Narcissists will say what needs to be said so that they are seen the way they want to be seen. The only exception is non abusive narcissists who are diagnosed and in therapy. Redpill is a really good pla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:14 AM
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They know. Everything they say is done in bad faith. Every word is projection, lies, and manipulation. Most of these trolls didn't get too far past chapter 3 or 4 into the fascist handbook, but luckily misinformation campaigns and strategic use of agent sabateurs was covered right in the beginning of chapter 2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:02 AM
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Everyone here should look into how narcissistic abuse works. Of course misogynists are publically telling people that we're the dangerous bigots. That's textbook. Men like them having been doing it for centuries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:00 AM
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Don't give them the credit of thinking they're stupid or unaware of what they're doing. They know. It's just a coordinated, particularly annoying group gaslighting attempt. Just like they do, they try to appeal to the public first and set the narrative about how bad and evil we are. This is always what abusive narcissists do. But eventually, the truth comes to light. Narcissists can only maintain the illusion so long before the mask slips. Increasingly, it's not he said/she said. We've got texts…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:55 PM
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"Saying FDS is 'redpill for women' is like saying a domestic abuse shelter is no different than a summer camp for rapists" I want this on a t-shirt and a coffee cup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:50 PM
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Men could sexualize a paper bag, we should not gonna inconvenience ourselves based on the whims of someone else's dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:54 PM
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You're severely underestimating what narcissistic abuse can do to a person long-term. There's women who straight up let themselves get murdered by their spouses becuase their identity is so tied to their abusers. It's essentially a cult with only 2 members
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:52 PM
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I've heard that hairspray is a decent alternative for those who can't have actual pepper spray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:32 PM
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Facebook guys are the ones who gleefully lookup celebrities leaked nudes, reddit guys are the ones who leaked it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:56 AM
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Sue him. Like, she's literally been a substitute employee once a week. So either there was an informal understanding that she has stake in that business, or he broke labor laws by not paying her. I'm not a lawyer, but it seems like there's got to be some kind of case here. It would be a business law thing not a marriage thing, but there's no way she's not legally entitled to anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:14 AM
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As much as society jokes about women being desperate to get married before they get old, it's actually men who tend to follow a strict time table for when they'll get married. And it seems like many just get married to whoever they happen to be dating when that time comes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:06 AM
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Prenup = no gold-digging What, did you expect him to actually google marriage law before serving his bride-to-be legal documents? Surely his penis will supply the necessary knowledge when the time comes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:05 AM
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Yeah, she should really sue for stake by arguing there was an expectation of ownership via marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:02 AM
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It's because male reddit is deeply misogynistic, so most of them have had years of gaslighting in their online lives and real lives. I'm noticing the opposite to you though. Reddit has been a safe space for misogyny, but it seems like lately I've seen fds talking points started to bleed into Two X comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:00 AM
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Pretty sure a solid quarter of this sub ended up here by starting with hate-lurking. I did. If the truth was easy to hear, we wouldn't have spent so many years running from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:53 PM
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"you have an inferiority complex becuase your sexual standards are too high" Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:28 AM
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I had to read a fair amount of studies comparing the two: their virtually identical. Arranged, love -- if you mare a douche, you're gonna have a bad time and both systems are equally likely to pair you with a scrote. The only way to ensure that you don't end up in a bad marriage is to test them a lot before marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:27 AM
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'Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power." (Lincoln) What's even the point of being rich if you can't use it to sexually coerce women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:24 AM
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Men want you to act like it's still 1910 everywhere but the bedroom and your office (cause obviously you're gonna work, what are you, a gold digger??)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:17 AM
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I think you meant your mutual "friends" knew about her, because real friends would have warned you and cussed him out for even trying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:15 AM
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Joke reversals are cheap, lazy humor that draws a false equivetlancy that ends up normalizing their behavior. Like in the 00s when they just took all the messed up date rapey stuff from 80s movies and gender swapped it "cause now that it's girls it's funny". Nope, still creepy and toxic. If we're gonna only.hold ourselves to the level of the average man, then we're all doomed. No man I'd want to be with would let some ignorant fishy joke go unchallenged with pointing out how harmful and misogyni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:15 AM
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Thanks for adding that! I figured it probably wasn't dangerous for "older" women (I hate that society still frames 35 as old), but I wasn't sure if many doctors were actually willing to do it. You heard it ladies - go get your dang shots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:13 AM
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You should be using condoms 100% of the time, and everyone should be getting vaccinated against HPV at this point. If you're like 35+ I suppose that wouldn't be the case, but honestly at that point of you weren't using condoms 100% of the time then there's a good chance you have HPV already anyway and just gotta hope it never turns into anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:59 PM
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Slut shaming only worked because women lacked the social power to fight back. If we gave men all the money and voting rights back, whether or not men approve of you would start mattering again. Women stop caring what men think when they realize they are just fine without them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:51 AM
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Typically I'm extremely critical of unfettered capitalism, but seeing it blow up in America's face as it now starts to work against the established social hierarchy is already hilarious. The free market realized that black people and women are bigger markers than crotchety racists, and the GOP has been crying about it ever sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:42 AM
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Utah has a lot of off the record polygamy, and a lot of those "single" mom's abuse the public assistance infrastructure. It's a huge issue there. This seems like it's a way to hold polygamists accountable for that without doing it directly (since that's tricky to do?). I'm sure they're very tired of picking up the tab on maternal healthcare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:53 PM
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I mean...men don't even wash their ass so I'm not sure we should be using straight men as a baseline to judge women's actions. I get that the point is to challenge superficial "empowerment" that doesn't actually challenge sexist patriarchal norms and that objectification is not a real path towards empowerment. BUT, I don't think I know many women who would want to live like men even if the patriarchy and sexism disappeared tomorrow. Have you met straight men? They're miserable and they hate them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:07 AM
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It's actually a smart but outdated concept. In a patriarchal world, how can a woman can power? By gaining control of a man who is the holder of all power. How does a woman gain control of a man? His pee-pee. If you look back, the appeal of being a mistress was that it was was a way to assure a comfortable life without permanently sacrificing rights and independence through marriage. A mistress was essentially a wife except the things she owned were her, whereas a wife didn't even own herself. Ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:56 AM
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I'd actually blame a shitty economy more than anything. I know a bunch of women who would like to have kids, but aren't willing to risk a life of poverty to do so. If society refuses to grant mothers livable conditions in a sputtering global economy, then many will opt into the much safer choice of being childless. Women are pragmatic survivalists with very low risk thresholds. Doing something physically dangerous and woefully shortsighted because of a biological impulse is a decidedly male phen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:40 PM
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It's because kink and fetish have become watered down terms. It used to be reserved for really strong bordering on pathological sexual deviancies. Now it's literally a slight preference for anything that isnt the most generic, vanilla sex possible. I've literally seen someone say they have a "touch kink" because they like to be caressed a lot. Like, no. That's just people. It would be considered deviant to not find getting caressed by a sexual partner arousing. People just slap those words on an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:52 PM
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Oh I was definitely imagine a lock on the door to prevent him from lurking around the house since the entire point of a seperate entrance is to make sure there's NO temptation to have him meet the kids before a year. My mom did NOT mess around when it came men, so I sometimes assume people would have behaviors that not everyone does. (ie in addition to telling me to keep money in a separate bank account, she also told me to hide a supply of physical cash somehwere my husband/boyfriend would neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:12 PM
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Tyra should get canceled just for her instance on reducing everyone down their race. I remember there was an Asian girl and they kept trying to figure out how she connected to that and she was like "idk? I don't really? Like my race isn't a big part of my identity" and then she got eliminated like the next week because they have no use for a token cast member who isn't going to participate in their tokenization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:46 AM
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Oh my god, that show was so sad. It's like the ultimate real life example of why you can't marry an older man. He was so emotionally abusive to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:43 AM
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The shows goal was to create as much drama as possible. Black girls are more likely to freak out over a major haircut cause healthy long hair doesn't come easy to anyone above a 2C. Their goal wasn't to teach them how to be models or even to have them to do silly stuff just for the theatrics. It was specifically to psychologically break them so they could film their implosion. The first season had a girl with an eating disorder where it was to the point the show couldn't not address it. Then it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:31 AM
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I was a little kid, so it didn't occur to me it was problematic until I rewatched it when I was in college. That show is directly responsible for a so much of my baggage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:21 AM
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There's an episode where one of the girls is being sexually harassed by a male model and they basically tell her that it's part of being a model and she needs to learn to suck it up. And as if that's not bad enough, you can see in footage from after the photo shoot that she's experiencing traumatic stress and not coping well. And pretty much everyone gaslights her (in defense of the other women: it seems like the producers had been pretty manipulative and emotionally abusive that season and they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:16 AM
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