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Bkblul/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:44 AM
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Msg "Hey, Something has come up on Tuesday that I can't get out of. Sorry, I can't help you move anymore." Move on? She's tugging on your heart strings a little too much.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:11 AM
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Sounds like your ex is looking to cause trouble and keep some control over you by trying to mess up your night. Probably told the new guy a few stories of abuse to get him angry and requested he have a few words with the 'abuser'. It was good that you didn't let it wreck your night. But seems you know too many details about her current life - move on. I don't think knocking back the handshake was bad. It depends on the moment and intentions of the new guy. It doesn't sound like he had good inten…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:36 AM
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Wow what a horrible person
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 12:58 AM
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Makes sense, in this story they're able to hang out with the kids whoever has them. You'd think the grandparents would help her win an extra % of custody if they felt she deserved it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/19 07:36 AM
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"ask her and she says yes or no" - that's pretty much it but I'd stress that if you get told no then don't turn into an orbiter. I go by the same style and find it funny that some girls will say you're too forward but other girls will compliment you on being confident. It works well to weed out the girls you shouldn't bother with. I'm sure if Brad Pitt asked them out they wouldn't hesitate saying yes. Fuck yes or no
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 11:55 PM
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Not sure where you're based OP but try looking for country girls. They grow up on the farm helping their dad so you know they won't have daddy issues. I really think the lack of a father figure is one of the biggest problems in today's society.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 11:42 AM
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Suck your gut in and smile. Look at the lens of the camera. Seems to work for me
/r/askTRP08/01/18 08:42 AM
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I don't think this is a bad move on his end. If she's legitimate she'll sign it and the relationship will carry on. If she doesn't sign it he'll get his answer and get out before he makes some bank/she has kids. I mean he's even giving her a taste of what she could have if she signed (no need to work etc).
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 04:27 AM
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I remember when this was in the front page. Alot of replies like "she's probably just swiping for a friend, I do that as well!"
/r/MGTOW26/12/17 12:07 AM
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He's back in Australia so does he even need to pay anything if he loses? It would hurt his reputation but we all knows she's just hoping he'll pay some money rather than fight. I get the sense that he's just ignoring the whole thing and letting the judges handle it in court, definitely the best move.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 01:46 PM
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They never show you the questions that he was asked to make him answer that way. It's all been staged "Undoubtedly the program will cast him as the bad guy (which he is)". Gotta laugh at how the idea of a traditional marriage is wrong. I watched a little of last season. If anything the show is a good way to prove that there is no 'one' person. The older folk are just looking for anyone. The younger girls are looking to get their name out for a media career. The family unit is dying. Marriage is …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 01:42 AM
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It's in your head. You need to try and clear your head/get in the moment. Do the following: 1. Get some cialis and take 5-10mg Have a little bit of wine/alcohol with her (2 glasses Max, don't get whiskey dick) Now you need to start building the sexual tension. Stroke her body and feel it, enjoy it. Live in the moment Start foreplay. Pick what you enjoy. Finger her. Do you like a head job or mutual master bation? As before, just enjoy the moment. If your need to put on a condom, get her to do it.…
/r/askTRP23/12/17 08:23 AM
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This whole forum is a stab in the dark. For all we know, the majority of endorsed contributors could be sitting in their mum's basement writing fan fiction. I expect to see people asking for advice but they should take everything that's said here with a grain of salt. Make your own decisions on how to proceed/if the advice is accurate. The same goes for people you know and respect the opinions of, just adjust how much you consider their opinion accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:26 AM
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Search for it on jefit
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:40 PM
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Oh for sure there are. They're the ones that would be prime candidates to get taken advantage of and manipulated etc. I don't doubt that there are relationship dynamics where a woman is the stable one and a man is the emotional one, just less common and something I wouldn't want to be involved in
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 06:12 AM
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This is very similar to attachment theory. Have you based these off that? In all of your examples, women are looking for the same thing, Security. I subscribe to the simple belief that women are emotional and men are rocks (low emotion), women attach to the man as a form of security for their emotions. Using your types though, it's a matter of finding a good quality woman worth being a rock for. It always has been.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 02:10 AM
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Dinner parties are where you get sat with people your own age and pay a set price for pre-arranged food/drinks. New York would have plenty. If you're goal is plating then it probably isn't worth it. I see speed dating as the same. They're events full of women wanting to find someone "rich, attractive fit" etc. Single drinks events would be worth it.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 12:17 AM
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Usually you're put into age groups. I think at 25 you'll be in between the desperate ladies hitting 30 and the younger "seeing what's out there" girls. I found that it's best to to keep the conversation fun. So many people get caught up in the "what do you do for a job" "where do you live". Sometimes you even have girls that ask how much you make haha. Also worth a look are the singles only dinner party events. I signed up to one once and ever since then I always get emails begging for guys to c…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:25 PM
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Yeah it doesn't sound like she's that into it. Squeezing you in between seeing her friend. Good luck going for a lay. Personally I think it's the wrong day for a first date and too early to ask (assuming you're talking about this Saturday). Aim for Sun-Thurs, Fri-sat are for people who've earned it. Don't ask so far ahead, most people won't commit so far ahead with someone they don't know.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:37 PM
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Don Draper
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:19 PM
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How old is your kid and what did he say. Might be time to teach him to keep his mouth shut. What was there to gain by bringing it up, I find the best balance is when nothing is said. A submissive woman shouldn't need to be told to be submissive...
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 02:16 AM
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Set some goals. Do you want to look better, lift heavier, just maintain. It should be a way of life, not a temporary thing. Keep it fresh, whatever your goals are if you're consistent then you will reach them. If your goal is to get really big, steroids.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 01:31 AM
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Title should read "Girl with an abusive past - how to proceed". All women are insecure. I laughed reading the title
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:07 AM
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It doesn't need to be that complicated. Just be cool and normal. In person, I've always opened up the add new contact part and put thejr name in - ask how to spell it etc (sounds better than what's your name if you forget haha). Also probably makes it more personal because you're saying their name. Then I'd hand the phone over and say whats your number, let's get a drink sometime/catch up later (good if you're out but gotta move).
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:11 PM
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Wear a rubber. This one's dirty
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:26 AM
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Well if you're going then see if he pulls each of you aside and has a chat. There's no point trying to salvage it if one of you doesn't want to make it work. If you say no a good therapist would minimise the damage and get you out clean. I agree with the other folk though, why bother with this much effort. You don't have kids or and std. You got out clean already so take it as a blessing.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:20 AM
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Anyone who feels the need to constantly say they're in control...isnt She probably says this sort of stuff to make herself feel better. It's her way of comfort. It's all bullshit though, I wouldn't even pay attention to it. You can have fun by forcing her to make every decision and watching it fail (what's for dinner, you're in charge. Oh that place sucks). If it really bothers you then move on. I doubt she'll change
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:14 AM
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A blue pill therapist. They're pretty common. Out of curiosity did he ask you any questions individually before starting therapy? A good therapist would pull both partners aside on your first consultation and ask if you even wanted to salvage the relationship.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:01 AM
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I probably wouldnt bother. In your case you have no problem approaching in real life. Maybe hang around uni at different locations or times? If you goto tinder expecting more attractive women, you'll have a bad time. These women will have the pick of the bunch and I found most are attention whores (add me on Instagram!). I had a decent experience on tinder after finding my niche. Had a thing for country girls, down to earth and not boring as fuck. They'd show up in town not knowing anyone and ne…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:48 AM
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This isn't project management but close. Test coordination. I don't know how the project manager handles it all, he's good and earning his keep that's for sure. I've created a one note and tried to track everything in my head through this. It did help somewhat and made me realise that I get my claws in too much at once and get bogged down. Need to work on one thing at a time. I'd like to think the gym could be that escape but it's a hassle at the moment. I'll see if there's something else I can …
/r/askTRP04/10/17 09:19 AM
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She could have added the wrong username
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:09 PM
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You're putting your feelings in the hand of someone else that doesn't give a shit about you. That's a bad idea
/r/askTRP01/10/17 01:17 PM
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She's a box of assorted creams. You never know what you're gonna get.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:07 PM
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Interesting, sort of sounds like what I heard (Australia as well). A lot of people get into the industry with great knowledge/intentions but can't hold customers. They don't do it anymore.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:54 AM
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From what I've heard the certificates are your starting point but alot of their coverage is around managing clients with a basic introduction to fitness. I think it's assumed you'd have prerequisite fitness knowledge (and a body to show) From there you could do a degree in sport science and actually learn about the muscles and how to train optimally. Think about it. Most of your PTs in the gym are all about smashing in clients, providing a helping hand and ultimately making people feel like they…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 07:07 AM
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Sounds fine. I'm probably someone that would rather let the guy make an idiot of himself but some times you have no choice but to get physical.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:25 PM
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Mate you're treating her like a unicorn. You're hamstering by wondering what's going on in her head. Who cares? You deleted your account. Why? You aren't in a relationship - you can still fuck other women. You can actually fuck other women and still see her, that's okay and will probably cure your oneitis. If you want to end it you don't even need to ghost, you can just say that you don't think this is going anywhere and wish her all the best then don't txt her again. That isn't ghosting and it'…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:40 AM
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Isn't that classed as MGTOW? Beware though, I just checked the sub and I'm not sure if its content changed? It reads more like incels now. I swear it used to be full of guys like you that just wanted to live their life with no drama. I think it's more common than you realise, I know a few people in real life living like that. All the power to you. Do you think it's a problem/something you want to change or are you happy with how things are?
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:24 AM
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To me it sounds like shes just not that into you? You're in her frame when you say "She flat out told me the other day that she wants to take things slow because she's just trying to protect herself" You're playing the game by her rules. Some would escalate hard and apply some sort of dread if she still says no (I trust you but you don't trust me?... I'm sure someone else can come up with something good). If you go this route then what's the worst that can happen, you still won't have sex? Other…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:59 AM
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Honestly this so much. Some women will tell you it's too soon/too pushy while others will tell you they're impressed by your confidence in asking. Why waste time. You can't please everyone. By not wasting time on the maybes you quickly find the people that want to get down to business.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 08:22 AM
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Some people are naturals, some aren't. You need to hop in and go for it, it's the only way to improve. I used to get anxious sending a message on tinder - now I can be balls deep in a girl within an hour of meeting. Most women won't lead during sex so see this as your opportunity to just do what you want. If you're into it then chances are she probably will. You can drink a little bit of alcohol to beat the anxiety, like 2 standard drinks max (Ill stress the word little - too much and you'll hav…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 08:07 AM
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You forgot to mention. Every great man needs a dog as a friend for when all 3 women give you the shits
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 02:34 PM
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Ideally you should've done this before involving family... What is your future plan? A LDR can't last forever. Were either one of you planning to move eventually? If not, this is just a waste of time. Reaffirming your decision...
/r/askTRP14/09/17 02:24 PM
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Honestly I read about 3 red flags in your post. Fuck her but don't get too attached. You'll only hurt yourself
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 02:16 PM
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You should've just gone to a rub and tug massage parlour if you only wanted to be jacked off. It's more bang for your buck. I don't think I've ever cummed as much as my first massage.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 02:07 PM
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Simple case of who cares less wins. He seems to be DGAF when it comes to her. She's trying to make him flinch with the touching stuff shit test. I think a lot of guys here would get rid of her for that. Otherwise she might get itchy feet when her baby urges kick in and she wants a stable future (or not, some women don't think like that). Without knowing what their sex life is like, it's hard to say if she's cheating.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 10:36 AM
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Sounds like wife material. Atleast she's keeping it out of the house.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 08:10 PM
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Focus on improving yourself. Be realistic - would you date a loser? No. Then how can you expect others to date/sex you. I've got a good job, apartment and I look good from the gym. Put yourself out of your comfort zone, how else will you learn and meet new people. The more people you meet, the better chances of getting laid. I went to meetups for a few years. Got some lays out off it, also found it interesting to learn from what other people were doing. Work towards caring less about the approva…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 11:03 PM
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Use protection. Last thing you want is to be a highschool daddy
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 10:29 PM
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I've never made a purchase from a dealership but have been to a few when car-hunting. They're definitely a rip off industry. Unfortunately some people need to go that route for the peace of mind from servicing agreements or they need finance. Speaking to a dealership owner I know, he said they make a fair bit off the financing nowadays and it's more reliable than the pricing of the car. What tips would you give to people when coming to a negotiation like this? What has someone done that you real…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 06:11 AM
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She probably has another guy as her first option and youre the back up. I remember talking to a few girls off tinder who would text alot at first, yet when i tried to setup a date they'd always "OH NO CAN'T DO THAT I'M GOING OUT WITH MY GFS". I'd usually drop them after the second attempt asking them out and they text for a day or two until they realise. One time I was horny and had no other options so I sent a follow up text a week later to get a "sorry I'm seeing someone right now! With a pict…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 05:49 AM
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Do as the other posters said, drop her and don't look back. This isn't a healthy relationship. The thing to realise (and i'll probably get some stick for talking about relationships on TRP) is that most healthy relationships wouldn't be doing this sort of stuff 9 months in. You've even mentioned in your post that this is too soon and it isn't your house etc. If it was a normal relationship, after a few years you would both look for a house and ideally buy one that suits both of your lifestyles. …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 10:34 AM
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You'd know her better than me and have your own style for talking etc. To me what you wrote just seems to be beating around the bush. Do you want to hang out? If yes ask her out, If no then don't.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:57 PM
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What she did was disrespectful and you showed self-respect by holding her accountable. It's a big world out there with alot of women. There is no "one" and it certainly wasn't her. Focus on yourself for a while and forget about her.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 10:05 AM
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Was wondering how this turned out. The guy looks like he takes care of himself but sounds a little too nice. They haven't even been on a date and he has wedding bells in mind... I find it funny how the MSM is trying to normalise tinder as just a dating app. Will probably end up better for us with more people installing the app. A lot of 'good' girls won't use it because it's known for hookups and the ones that do find a relationship through the app won't mention that's how they met because it ma…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:14 AM
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Honestly I think this gets better with age - not giving a fuck. Until you get to that stage, realise that most people are self-obsessed with their own life and if you do something dumb they'll forget about it quickly (if they even noticed). I mean how often do you notice other people being weird (we all do) and how long do you think about that person making the mistake? I'm sure it's not very much
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 11:53 PM
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Try once more - sometimes you may want to find out their schedule indirectly (got anything exciting planned for the week?) and then I've got something exciting in mind, come out for a drink I'm free Tuesday night. If she doesn't atleast work with you the second time (can't do x how about y?) then drop her
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 11:39 PM
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The other posters hit it on the head, get into shape and start taking care of yourself. Start a new hobby/be fresh. If you don't believe it'll work, just search the major relationship subreddits, this a pretty common thread topic. One spouse starts getting fit/gets a new hobby, the other spouse gets intrigued. Realises they need to shape up - this is them entering your frame
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 11:26 PM
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You entered her frame from your first messsge - "Do you want to do something today". You gave her all of the decision making (what to do/if she wants to do it) She even hints at it in her reply that she wants you to come up with something to do. It could just be something simple that leads to sex (movie at home), but don't mention sex directly. You come up with something to do and she either says yes or no, ignore all of the emotional crap about being tired/busy.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 11:10 PM
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Must be the soy in everything. All of these cheap filler in food, nobody knows the effects on the body long term.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 09:24 PM
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Yeah it's so easy to do, It's not gonna hurt to trying it's out for a month.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:29 AM
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Yeah I think the compounds have helped. Noticed that I may not exhale/inhale as sharply after the first initial rep. Curious if the vacuums will improve that. On a side note, I've heard that with proper core activation during compound exercises makes ab work unnecessary. Bodybuilders I know have said that they only work abs before a show to lose the glucose stores and trim their waist for the V. Most people that do compounds these days don't activate their core and instead rely on glutes. Not su…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:26 AM
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I'm confused, what you described is exactly what I do as an ab vacuum exercise?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:22 AM
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Last I checked it was 12% but like I said it doesn't look it. Pretty sure the protruding doesn't help
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:21 AM
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Anyone have any testimonials from regularly doing the vacuum exercise? Former fat guy here, my theory is that I have a weak muscle there since my fat used to hold the organs up. Definitely have a gut that sits out. Doesn't match my low bf%. Have started this week, every second day.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 12:27 AM
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How are you feeling since deactivating? Do you find you're more confident in yourself without the showing off from other people etc. I've always used it in patches but on my longest time away right now. Realised that I wasn't getting anything out of it except bad vibes.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 02:17 PM
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Adding onto this. Good photos of you enjoying your life. It draws people to you. If you have a good body, show it off with a shirtless picture at the beach or kayaking etc. Not standing in front of a bathroom mirror. Or say you drive an awesome car, get a picture of you sitting in the driver seat. Maybe you're a party animal, get a picture of you being the centre of the room doing something fun and everyone watching you in awe. Be proud of who you are and show it off. If it's really you then it …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 03:59 AM
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I've heard that reason before but genuinely wondering if those issues could be fixed by diet or activity? Even so I still think it's something to consider. BC makes it convenient for a single woman to sleep with anyone when-ever and where-ever she wants. In OP's example she would've basically said, yeah I'm on birth control so you can stick it in. Completely ignoring the possibility of an std.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 02:46 PM
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Great post mate. It has really inspired a fair bit of discussion. Sadeyes reminds me of a girl I met last year. 21, short, blonde with a cute smile and a voice that melts your heart. Got her into bed and found out the same as you. No dad, living away from home for school and a bedroom full of memories. She looked at me stupid when I stopped to put a condom on. Was some of the worst sex I'd ever had, she laid there like a starfish. Asked her for her N count and my jaw dropped when I heard 30. Did…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 11:58 AM
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Your mum must be a tight piece of ass to have this many guys wanting her. I had a friend who was in the same situation as you. The stepdad would work his ass off to support the kids and it showed. He'd have random outbursts of anger and then apologise to the kids after cooling down. I don't think you can tell him directly, he needs to see it and believe it himself. You can probably guide him through innocent questions: ask him why he doesn't have a nicer car, why he doesn't hang out with his fri…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 09:03 AM
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5mg is meant to be the daily dose that keeps the stuff in your bloodstream every day. Apparently if you're going to take it adhoc, you need a higher dosage of 10mg to get that on demand effect. You wouldn't take anymore for atleast 48 after that though. @OP - go back to the doctor and request an appointment with a male doctor. They actually know what you're going through and will prescribe
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 01:03 PM
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I've noticed the same thing. It's actually kinda cute and fun to push the limits. Compare that with this slut telling the whole world she has no underwear on and really what is the prize?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 09:17 PM
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I understand that your post was written with sex in mind but really your point is related to everything in life we do. Stand up for what you deserve and become someone that women/employers/friends want and they will give you what you want. The general rule of thumb (and this comes from our tribal days) is to only give with the intention of receiving something of equal/greater value back. It's really upto you to decide the value of things. I find that nice guys are afraid to live life by the abov…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 03:22 AM
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For me the discussions on this forum are a reminder of the way things are in the world and they do add to my motivation to become the best version of myself every day. Nobody is perfect, we are all our own person and I can definitely see where you're coming from OP. Reading a PUA book and learning a few funny pick up sentences won't do you any help in the long term. Neither will fantasising about any of the stories on here where some guy dreads a girl or something. The discussions on the forum s…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 11:44 AM
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