BlackBookBasics Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Detroit wing needed		BlackBookBasics	/r/seduction	25/09/19 08:50 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What to do next? Help! Women are moment to moment. When you were together, she was interested. But when you started over pursuing and blowing her texts and IG up, it pushed her away. You have to give women the space to like you.	/r/seduction	25/10/20 06:20 PM
2	1 day response time, then complaining You're knee deep in the friend zone my guy.	/r/seduction	25/10/20 06:00 PM
3	What to do next? Help! You were over-pursing her. Too much familiarity kills attraction. Especially with you initiating the texts. You're killing the sexual tension--which is created by doubt, uncertainty and space. She knows you like her and she knows you like her much more than she does way too early. As well as the fact that you didn't try to have sex with her after the date. Don't text her again until she texts you.	/r/seduction	25/10/20 05:59 PM
2	What are the few " disqualifier " statements you've used that made the girl invested in you? Haaa. I live in Macomb county	/r/seduction	01/12/19 06:46 PM
4	If a bitch stoods you up Putting her in her place does nothing. You can't change her behavior. The only thing it's going to do is solidify her perception of you...that you're an emotionally weak lame who can't control his emotions	/r/seduction	21/10/19 12:02 AM
2	Solo nightgame Props bro. I did last night. The bar was kinda dead but I still went out.	/r/seduction	11/10/19 01:10 PM
12	She is rooting for you It's true. Don't fall for the illusion my man	/r/seduction	08/10/19 01:20 PM
1	LIVE Cold Approaches Good luck! One thing I don't see a lot in terms of mentality towards approaching is the fun aspect. This shit should be FUN! Learning to get girls? That should be fun and exciting to you! Titties and ass....that makes me excited. Always have fun with this! The moment the fun stops, you're doing it wrong.	/r/seduction	27/09/19 04:22 PM
3	No kiss on first date, how do I not mess up on second date she’s out of my league, Worst mentality to have. Absolute worst. You probably know this. We agreed we would grab lunch last Saturday Good thing you switched this up. You grab lunch with your auntie after bible study, not women you're interested in sexually. We had a great conversation but I didn’t even get a kiss at the end. Don't wait for it. Go for what you want. Most women won't make that first move--they want you to be the man and do it. I sat across from her at the bar Another mistake…	/r/seduction	25/09/19 05:34 PM
1	Why do you guys think about this post? I have zero tolerance for flaking too homie. But there’s no anger from me about it because you’re dealing with a stranger. You didn’t know her the day before. She doesn’t owe you shit. And you shouldn’t expect shit from her either. I know you’re putting effort into this and its success is important to you on an emotional level, but don’t get angry with the girl. She’s a stranger—you don’t invest anything with a stranger. What are you in this for? To get dates and numbers? Or to have sex?	/r/seduction	25/09/19 05:04 PM
1	Why do you guys think about this post? There’s going to be an inherent level of flakes when dealing with girls, especially with cold approach. That’s something you’re just going to have to deal with. And if you can’t, then this just isn’t for you. Girls are just super flakey—it’s in their nature. And rejection is common. Even if you’re good, you’re still going to get rejected over 50-60 percent of the time. You should expect it. And out of the ones you do meet, many of them are going to flake. This is just the game. Lol The number do…	/r/seduction	25/09/19 04:38 PM
2	[Field Report] 4 Approaches Good shit. Keep it up! You’re in college famo…there is no such thing as a boyfriend. You should react ti her saying that like she told you she has a goldfish. Re-engage by asking her to hang out like you would any other chick who’s single. Just be direct and go for it.	/r/seduction	25/09/19 04:09 PM
0	[FR] - Multiple approaches - putting game to the test it's mainly about 'attraction' and that is the part that is basically out of your control (you're either her type or you aren't). You can 'run game', but if she's not into you, you'll never get her in bed. (physical attraction is a pre-requisite ) I disagree. Attraction ISN’T out of your control, because attraction isn’t based solely on your face. Attraction just doesn't stop at your face. Attraction is a whole buffet of different things. It’s confidence, boldness, your personality, teasing her,…	/r/seduction	25/09/19 03:29 PM
8	To put it simply slow claps	/r/seduction	24/09/19 07:55 PM
1	Why do you guys think about this post? That’s not an easy fix because none of us can see what you’re doing when you approach. You might be stepping to her creepy as hell, but though you’re making a ton of approaches, you don’t understand why you’re not getting results. You need to provide more details… Where did you learn to approach? What model are you following? When did you start? How’s you vocal tone? What is your eye contact like? Where are you meeting them? What are you saying to them? How’s your body language? How are you text…	/r/seduction	24/09/19 07:49 PM
2	Why do you guys think about this post? What kind of '"work" are you putting in is the real question.	/r/seduction	24/09/19 04:49 PM
2	Pushing Back the Date? Don't do that. Don't make this more complicated than it is. Keep the date and give her a rollercoaster of emotions on the date as well as after. If you break a date with some girls, they take it as if you're rejecting them and aren't interested.	/r/seduction	24/09/19 01:49 PM
3	How to invite her back to my place? Seed the pull early. like ntipz said. Have something cool back at your place to show her...books, drinks, vinyl records, art, your dog, etc. Meet at a place that's either walking distance from your place or no more than a 5 minute drive. Flirt HEAVY. Lead her around different places in the bar. Or if it's possible, leave and grab drinks at another bar even closer to your place. "I know the best place for margaritas in the city that no one's heard of..." Be nonchalant about asking her home. Your …	/r/seduction	23/09/19 09:46 PM
1	Ideas for a first date? Cheap drinks. Dimly lit bar. As close to your flat as possible. Flirt heavy. Keep the convo lighthearted and sexual. Go for the kiss early. Lead her to another bar even closer to your flat and then pull her home. Don't waste time with this girl. Girls with boyfriends are super flakey. This could very well be your last time seeing her again.	/r/seduction	23/09/19 09:38 PM
1	I don’t know how to approach Fucking up should excite you...because that's how you learn. For you, your main objective should be finding success in the steps and not the outcome. Just smiling and saying hello should be on the agenda for you and when you do that a bunch of times, be happy and know that is a win for you!	/r/seduction	19/09/19 08:59 PM
3	Friend thinks daygame is for Incels? Your friend is making excuses to justify his fear of doing it	/r/seduction	19/09/19 04:23 PM
183	Just failed my first cold approach and I feel great I walked towards her and then straight past her out the doors. As soon as I left the building I knew I couldn't let myself get away with this so I walked right back in Man...you don't how many times I used to do this...and still do sometimes. lol Props to you for not punking out and approaching her!!	/r/seduction	19/09/19 04:10 PM
1	Can anyone please explain the diff between negs and teasing ? Negs will make her frown and walk away. Teasing will make her blush and flirt with you. Stay off that neg shit unless you REALLY know what you're doing	/r/seduction	18/09/19 02:14 PM
0	“Yeah, but after exams maybe”. Exams are 7 weeks away. This is just a cop out rejection, right? Yeah she's not interested. If she was that busy with classes she would want to study with you so she could be around you--even if she didn't have the same course as you. Girls would skip out taking their dad to chemo and be with you instead when they really like you.	/r/seduction	18/09/19 01:15 PM
2	"If you like a girl and want her to date you, go talk to some other girls" You're right. That's crazy lol	/r/seduction	17/09/19 06:36 PM
6	"If you like a girl and want her to date you, go talk to some other girls" What he's saying isn't bs though. A player = a man who's attractive to women. A high status man = a man who's attractive to women. They both share the same personality traits.	/r/seduction	17/09/19 06:03 PM
2	Ann Arbor Pickup Meetup I'm in Metro Detroit too and definitely looking for a wing. Holla at me!	/r/seduction	16/09/19 04:38 PM
18	“Phone is for setting up dates only” is outdated Don't set a date more than two days out	/r/seduction	15/09/19 05:47 PM
1	I feel kinda lost. Tired after two days? Really?	/r/seduction	13/09/19 06:59 PM
2	She rejected me but shes now stalking me on social media. He’s right. Do nothing. All the tagging on IG and the friend requests meaning zero. It’s all peripheral bullshit. Girls do goofy stuff like that. They just want your attention. Don't play into that. If she wants to go out with you, she will text you asking to do so. Until she does that, there’s nothing to talk about.	/r/seduction	13/09/19 06:56 PM
2	10 Common Newbie Daygame Mistakes To Avoid At All Costs No, that was the only time we linked up. The next day she told me she can’t see me again. She was cool about it, but said that she was terrified of me because she would fall for me too hard and things would get messy on her end. She said she was cool with being staying with her boyfriend…even if they slept in separate bedrooms lol. It’s what I expected her to say. Lol	/r/seduction	13/09/19 03:45 PM
3	10 Common Newbie Daygame Mistakes To Avoid At All Costs I like to take women on a rollercoaster ride of emotions. One minute I’m charming, the next I’m challenging her, the next I’m teasing her, the next I look like I might be bored. It’s not just one thing. I don’t just do this for a seduction tactic, I’m doing these things because I’m sincerely feeling that way in that moment. It’s authentic. It keeps her on her toes and intrigued because most guys only have a one track mind. As far the questions. I usually stay away from the interview questions.…	/r/seduction	13/09/19 03:35 PM
1	10 Common Newbie Daygame Mistakes To Avoid At All Costs Tell that to her when she stuck her tongue down my throat. With a lot of women, when attraction enters the equation, that morality talk goes out the window.	/r/seduction	13/09/19 11:49 AM
1	My barrier to approach is being warmed up Respect!	/r/seduction	13/09/19 12:03 AM
4	Tomorrow I’m finally going to start day game Good luck!	/r/seduction	12/09/19 11:16 PM
14	10 Common Newbie Daygame Mistakes To Avoid At All Costs Absolutely. One Wednesday evening, I’m at the mall passing by the Journeys store and I see a chick with a pretty face and perky tits with black jeans and a black denim shirt that had a rose on it. She struck me as one of those artsy types…but super hot. I can’t remember what I approached with, but I’m always super direct, so it was probably just something simple like, “Hi, you just caught my eye and I thought you were attractive and I wanted to say hello.” Her eyes perked up after I spoke. I rem…	/r/seduction	12/09/19 11:02 PM
16	How to deal with one word responses on tinder? You don’t. She’s not interested. She matched with you to quench her thirst for attention or boredom. Or... She’s a goofy girl who’s intellect can’t surpass combining a subject and a predicate. Either way, do you really want to waste your time and entertain it?	/r/seduction	12/09/19 11:02 PM
2	My barrier to approach is being warmed up You have to get out of this “I need to warm up” mindframe. Robert Horry who played basketball for the Lakers, Spurs and Rockets was a buzzer beater monster. He has 7 NBA rings and they called him Big Shot Bob. Why? Because obviously he was known for making that big shot when it counted. On most teams he played on, he wasn’t in the starting 5 and many times he hadn't gotten that much game time but the coach would put him in the game when it was crunch time. 5 seconds left, straight off the bench,…	/r/seduction	12/09/19 09:12 PM
3	Guys do you have any books or programs that talk about college game I’m freshmen Yeah the best book I found that will help you with getting college girls…it’s on eBay, out of print. It’s called. “Do not read a book, get off Reddit, go out to a keg party and flirt with drunk, hot college chicks tonight!” I'm teasing you, but go out and have fun. Experience is the best way to learn.	/r/seduction	12/09/19 08:16 PM
1	If you don’t kiss a girl on the first date, is it always a lost cause? What was it that made you certain they were uncomfortable with kissing?	/r/seduction	12/09/19 08:13 PM
9	10 Common Newbie Daygame Mistakes To Avoid At All Costs Great post! # Six was a gamechanger for me. That instant date can take you down paths you wouldn't believe.	/r/seduction	12/09/19 07:58 PM
1	How can I seduce and flirt over the phone? Flirting and seduction is all about the non verbals. A sly smile here, a wink there, playing around with your vocal tonality, laying a hand on her thigh. Flirting won’t be translated thoroughly on the phone and damn sure won’t be through text. And especially with a stranger. The phone is used to set dates, not build attraction.	/r/seduction	06/09/19 06:39 PM
3	Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life. What justifies my belief is my accomplishments, experiences and the value that I bring to anyone I meet. And I’m constantly improving on those. More importantly, I’m unique. There’s no one like me on this planet and there never will be. You’re 1 of 1. No duplicates. Even the rarest and precious jewels can’t say that. Recognizing this alone shows your value. And from there, you build upon it. Even if I was 5’5, had a hook for a hand and a glass eye, I would still believe I’m the shit. Because I’m…	/r/seduction	05/09/19 10:16 PM
0	Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life. I say it in a very suave, self assured, and flirtatious manner. I’m not just repeating lines. That shit is something I’m actually 150% curious to know. And I’m hot shit because I BELIEVE I’m hot shit.	/r/seduction	05/09/19 09:27 PM
1	Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life. It might sound corny when you say it but when I say it...it’s fly shit. Consider the source. It’s all in HOW you say it	/r/seduction	05/09/19 08:51 PM
3	Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life. "I'm curious if the contents match the package." You must be my twin lol. I alway say shit like that. I tell them they're attractive, but "I'm curious to know if you're as interesting as you look." Salute!	/r/seduction	05/09/19 02:13 PM
2	What’s the best cologne for a guy that’s under $30? Nautica Voyage is probably the best cheapie out there	/r/seduction	05/09/19 02:03 PM
1	Girl started scolding and preaching after I approached her in coffee shop You did absolutely nothing wrong. That was all on her. Who knows what could have been going on in her life at the time you approached. Her cat could have been dying from liver cancer. Or maybe she's just a filthy rude bitch. Not your problem though! You did nothing wrong!	/r/seduction	05/09/19 02:00 PM
5	I need.. advice Honestly, you've lost even before this has started. The key word in your post was "convince". You can't convince her or any girl to do anything. Girl have to come to you on their own. And if they don't, then either you did something to push her away, she didn't like you enough to begin with or she met another guy. But just from what you wrote describing yourself, "i'm a bit of a pussy", "getting anxious", "creeper/clingy". If you don't fix that shit right now, you won't have a chance with her at…	/r/seduction	05/09/19 01:57 PM
3	Need Examples for unique compliments You have to get out of your head. You haven't made one approach yet! Stop projecting your perceptions onto a girl who you've never even met yet. Just because YOU thinks she's pretty doesn't mean that she thinks she is. You can tell her just that and it would knock her socks off because no one has approached her and told her that in years. And above all, telling her that she's attractive isn't boring or stale...it's unique because it's coming from YOU. Don't make this complicated. Especially sinc…	/r/seduction	05/09/19 01:47 PM
1	A girl likes me. I want to slide in her DMs. What to do? You're investing too much energy into a stranger. She's a total stranger. There should be no hesitation with this. It would not be weird to approach her the next time you see her and tell her your name and that you think she's hot. Nothing weird about that. It's how men who know exactly what they want behave. And if she thinks that's weird, then she's not a girl you want to deal with anyways.	/r/seduction	05/09/19 01:20 PM
6	Don't underestimate how boring the life of the average woman is. Lol you should	/r/seduction	05/09/19 01:14 PM
22	Don't underestimate how boring the life of the average woman is. Facts. Besides snapchat, pumpkin spice lattes, their dog and yoga pants, most girls don’t have a god damn thing going on in their life. They’re bored to death. They’ve binge watched every single single show on Nextflix too. They’ve burned it out to the point where they’re watching the Kids channel on there	/r/seduction	05/09/19 12:40 AM
2	Direct Vs Situational vs Indirect A man should never have the word platonic in his vocabulary when it comes women he’s attracted to. Ever. You should be vibing with her after the hook. I’m super direct. It cuts right through the bs. The quickest way to your destination is in a straight line. Women don’t like all the indirect stuff—they know exactly why you approached them. They’re not dumb. And the longer it takes for you to get to the fuckin point, the more inclined they’ll be to blow you out. You saw the girl and approached he…	/r/seduction	04/09/19 09:23 PM
2	A girl likes me. I want to slide in her DMs. What to do? Boss up and approach her in person. Leave the social media, DM shit alone--that's for weak men who don't have a spine or the balls to approach the girl in person. You have to stand out from the rest of the pack. Don't be a fanboy or a groupie and slide in her DM's like a pussy--which is what most guys do nowadays. Be a man amongst boys and show your attraction for her the next time you see her. She'll most definitely appreciate it.	/r/seduction	04/09/19 09:08 PM
1	Am I crazy for being this hooked to a girl after just one date? any time bro!	/r/seduction	04/09/19 09:00 PM
3	Need advice for Bumble Matches Yeah, online vs. real life is different. It’s like arena football vs the NFL. It’s different but the same fuckin game. Anytime you meet a chick, the phone is for setting a date. You can call them, chat for about 10 minutes, then set the date. But for text, when setting the date, it should always be straight to the point. Ask her when she’s free, see if it lines up with your schedule. She’s free Saturday and so are you? “Cool. Let’s meet at Main Street Lounge Saturday at 8pm.” It will get her pus…	/r/seduction	04/09/19 08:53 PM
2	Am I crazy for being this hooked to a girl after just one date? You’re going to fuck this up if you don’t tighten up. You’re already heavily invested in a stranger. She’s a stranger! You’ve only known her for 3 hours and she’s “all you can think about and it’s driving you crazy” To her you’re probably just “some guy from tinder I went out with”. Now this isn’t to say that in a few weeks you won’t be all that she thinks about and driving her crazy, but after one date, you need to fall back. The girl has to like you more than you like her. Always. Treat her li…	/r/seduction	04/09/19 08:30 PM
2	Need advice for Bumble Matches You definitely waited too long. You have to strike while the iron is hot with women--especially with women you meet online. Their attention and their interest in you fizzles out super quick, so their shouldn't be too wide of a gap between the time you chat online and while you're trying to get in her gap on the date. I know you were dealing with moving into the house, so I would have put going on dates on the backburner until the dust was settled with that if time was a big issue for you. When y…	/r/seduction	04/09/19 07:39 PM
13	Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life. This is flames. Your bio is nearly exactly the same as mine--except for the engagement part! Fantastic read my dude.	/r/seduction	04/09/19 07:08 PM
3	Your looks don’t matter, but your LOOK does! - The concept of Iconography Exactly. No matter how good you look, you still need to open your mouth and talk to the girl.	/r/seduction	04/09/19 06:55 PM