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| 2 | If he wanted to he wouldNot uncommon. It was a Saturday night and I was in the middle of downtown. We regularly ate at a specific place around that time after a night of adventures over the years. So normal for us. It’s hard to tell a story without context so I’ve been getting a lot of the comments are assuming some things. It’s frustrating, but I can only convey so much in the post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | If he wanted to he wouldNo sugar coating involved as I’m not that type of person. I’m very upfront with everyone. It was also not an available on his whim situation. Did you even read the post? You really made up this entire scenario in your head to make your comment make sense and shat on me then entire time. Damn you sounds bitter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 02:00 PM |
| 179 | If he wanted to he wouldThanks, and I wouldn’t have bothered responding if it were some guy I was dating, but since he was my friend I wanted him to feel bad for his actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:54 PM |
| 20 | If he wanted to he wouldI don’t see it as me giving up on him since I didn’t hold him at a high standard to begin with. After 4 years, I just thought he was better than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:45 PM |
| 29 | If he wanted to he wouldWas a plutonic friendship. No romantic interest so no chase. I would’ve done the same thing for my girlfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:11 PM |
| 209 | If he wanted to he wouldActually this is something I don’t 100% agree with. It’s fine if it’s a one off or for dating, but this was an actual friend of mine. I don’t have many friends so I greatly value the ones that I do. So no, I’m not going to remove a friend from my life because the did something I didn’t like one time. That would be a very lonely way of living. And to be clear, this was a plutonic relationship. Or at least it was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 03:44 PM |
| 7 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.I’m glad this happened. I have to admit that I’m guilty of this myself when I first joined, but it just became all the sub was about. I mentioned it in a post and got downvoted for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:07 PM |
| 13 | You are never safe when online dating EVEN IN PUBLIC. Please be careful. TRIGGER ALERT: Assault and rapeThanks for the clarification. I read that as you guys went 2 rounds and he came each time (in 2 different condoms) and you were upset that he came in the condom without your consent. Thanks for clearing that up for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 8 | You are never safe when online dating EVEN IN PUBLIC. Please be careful. TRIGGER ALERT: Assault and rapeI’m sorry, but I’m genuinely confused about your statement. You said you guys hooked up and he came in the condom twice. Was he not supposed to cum in the condom while hooking up? I’m not trying to be a jerk here, just simply trying to understand your statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 03:34 PM |
| 161 | She did that! A woman can’t even run a business without a scrote having the audacity. She cleared his ass and I know his ego was deflated.You just know this is a black woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 03:40 AM |
| 256 | Hopefully Sis finds her way to our sideWith an 11 year age gap, I’m surprised it only too 5 years and not more if any at all. He knew that girl didn’t know any better and took full advantage as these LV predators do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:32 PM |
| 12 | If you ever want to get over an infatuation/crush, just check their Instagram follow listRecently accepted a friend request from an old guy friend from high school. Couple days later, he posted a Kevin samuels vid. I instantly unfriended him. He had the nerve to message me why I unfriended him. I replied ‘my bad, I thought I blocked you’ and proceed to block. Not on my dime, scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 10:02 PM |
| 62 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitHe snagged her up when she was 21 and he was 28. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 571 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitHe's still fucking Jane and I bet she'll get pregnant from this wedding weekend and he'll magically change his mind about having a second kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:20 PM |
| 175 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitI commented on this thread and I had a real hard time feeling sorry for this girl. She willingly let all of this happen. I just know that the husband and Jane are still messing around while she's just the live-in nanny/bangmaid. The age gap was telling as well. I bet you he doesn't treat jane that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:18 PM |
| 46 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)The gift of fear is a great read and has gotten me out of sticky situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:23 AM |
| 195 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Read it backwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 41 | If He Wanted To, He Would 💍Right!? Thanks for sniffing out the fishy stuff. 6 months into dating overall and already engaged? I have to admit, when I see these posts my alarm goes off and I look into post history. Apparently you felt the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:34 PM |
| 3 | We have a fragile one.This was a response to someone asking why incels aren’t dating men since they hate women so much. Looks like an Incel got into his fefes and posted this one in response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:49 PM |
| 53 | Trigger warning!!Please protect your private information ladies! This scrote ordered a hit on a woman be met online!!!Of course that incel still lives with his parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 07:45 PM |
| 22 | 'AirTag found moving with you': Apple devices linked to suspected stalking and theftHad this happen to me earlier this week. Was at the airport at baggage claim and my phone was blowing up about trackers following me. Of course it was just someone on my flight getting their bag too, but it still freaked me out before I realized what was happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:58 PM |
| 183 | Holiday Tip: His Family is his problem. NOT YOURSThis is so true. I found myself exhausted trying to deal which his family when he couldn’t even be bothered. He noticed when I stopped and asked why. It hold him 1. Not my family, not my problem, and 2. You don’t put in this much effort with my family who adores you. Watching him scramble to buy gifts a few days before Xmas has been hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 07:23 PM |
| 9 | somebody called these men hobosexuals 💀💀✋Preach Sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 3 | I have no wordsI’m actually starting to think it’s not actually a towel, but a bonnet. That would make more sense especially if she’s biracial. The embarrassment comment would make more sense too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:19 PM |
| 3 | I have no wordsI feel like she used this towel as a boundary test and he failed miserably. Girl knew exams what she was doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:15 PM |
| 29 | Sad, unfortunate truths about the “friend zone”Eh, the exact same thing happened to me too. I know how you feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:25 AM |
| 69 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...Lol you know cause ‘not all men’ is what they tell themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 80 | When is enough enough? It’s time for women to boycott these apps.While this is noble and reasonable, it’s just not feasible for a lot of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 01:43 AM |
| -1 | Any thoughts on this take on the “heterosexual double bind”?Give her a Nobel prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 07:20 PM |
| 20 | My ex posted all about our breakup on redditWhy do you need to keep tabs on him at all? You said it’s been over a year and what he posted made you think worse of him. I’m not trying to attack you, but I’m genuinely curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:09 PM |
| 9 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlySomeone’s been subscribing to Kevin Samuels. I bet you he thinks he’s a high value alpha male too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:24 PM |
| 68 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesThis spoke to my soul. It won’t be long until we start a mass revolution against men and they won’t know what hit them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 32 | Can't even shop in peaceIt’s easier to say that in hindsight but it’s another thing to react ideally in the moment. Your ‘NEED’ comes off as a little victim blame-y. What needed to happen was for her to be able to shop in peace, not chastised for how she didn’t react. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 07:27 PM |
| 6 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴I’ll check it out, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:52 PM |
| 62 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴The King of Queens. I went into a five minute rant after seeing a few seconds of a scene. That guys was awful in too many ways to count. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:37 AM |
| 34 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Ron is trash. That was evident to me as a child. He deserves better but she settled. She had pickme tendencies too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:33 AM |
| 79 | *trigger warning-rape & intimidation. what’s more dangerous than a rapist and his pick me? a rapist & pick me with money, fame & connectionsYou’ve only scratched the surface with this one. Look into T.I. and Tiny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:18 PM |
| 23 | Submit your Handbook Recs!This one could be tricky. I’m a black woman and my first thought was what’s the race of the person who said this (ie you), telling me to stick to my own race when dating. Trash men are trash men no matter the race. And smart women here can usually see the red flags of fetishism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:04 AM |
| 18 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me....It’s all about not hurting the feefees of some fragile scrote. They are conditioned to think they are perfect and when someone criticizes the size of the thing they value the most, then the world has to burn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 06:51 PM |
| 4 | Woman Refuses To Coddle Man-child on a Date, Comments Are Full Of Man Babies Saying She Has No Empathy for Mental Health😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😅🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:47 AM |
| 12 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!Wow that one pick me is really delusional. She wasn’t even old enough to drink when she got with the old scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 49 | Red pill men are disproportionately ugly because they cannot attract women with their looks or poor social skills so they need to develop abuse tactics to manipulate women. Notice Kevin Samuels hairline and the general signs his testosterone is dropping.Gained popularity by telling LVM that women aren’t shit and how they deserve the world and he enables scrotes into believing they are entitled to women all while telling women they aren’t shit and don’t deserve HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 03:56 AM |
| 3 | “Not All Men”I don’t know which men so it’s gonna be all men until they prove otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:24 AM |
| 29 | Big kids v Man childI disagree with most of your sentiment. I'm in my 30s and I do the same things you're mentioning. Not because I'm immature, but because I can finally afford to do all those things I missed out on in my 20s. There are plenty of queens out there doing the same thing and living their best lives. Now video games 24/7 is a huge turn off of me, but going to Cons, ball pit parties, and liking Harry Potter is just fun. I also have a collection of guitars and my hobby include recording myself playing cov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 05:41 PM |
| 23 | This is what happens when you settle for potential... and of course it's Wonderwall 🤣So what I got from this is that teenage pickme finally saw the light and has seen her NV scrote for what is he and she's over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | The only advice needed is to break up, delete and block the liarMy guess is he's been dumping the kid with his mother. Grandma is raising that kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:59 PM |
| 300 | The only advice needed is to break up, delete and block the liarHow do you just hide a whole kid who you have custody of? He probably dumped the kid on his mom and comes by every now and then and calls himself a good dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 12:43 AM |
| 21 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?If you look at his post history, he claims to have figured women out and pretty much says that women are selective because they are shallow instead of having standards. His history is still with mad scrote whose having trouble dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:55 AM |
| 11 | "You earned my respect by not sleeping with me, actually", said the man who tried to relationship-fake me into banging himExactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 08:01 PM |
| 28 | "You earned my respect by not sleeping with me, actually", said the man who tried to relationship-fake me into banging himWhy didn't you block him all together? Were you wanting him to reach out? Handbook says to block and delete to keep you from having further conversation with him. The entire DM convo could have been avoided if you would have blocked him. I kinda think you wanted him to reach out to see what he says. Honestly most of us would, but it protects us from the lash out of a butt hurt scrote and having to feel like you owe them an explanation. I know it can be hard to implement these rules, but in order… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Scrotes be mad at the truth when faced with it.This escalated pretty quickly. I wish I would've waited to show you the entire 'convo'. He really did go into angry, he-man woman hating, racist, woe are men scrote that he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:38 PM |
| 18 | Scrotes be mad at the truth when faced with it.He even got racist and called me a monkey 🐵🤣. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:06 PM |
| 28 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meFour months in and he's already negging and trying to control her. Also wtf? Was she not supposed to date before him? Was she just supposed to sit around or pine after him. This scrote has a lot of nerve so soon in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.They did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 06:41 PM |
| 239 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.This is the exact comment I was talking about in my other comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:47 AM |
| 150 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.His comments are so bad. He apparently realizes he's too good for her after someone said that he doesn't deserve her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 7 | Men who don't believe womenThis applies to so many things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 45 | It's the edit for me ~~~I remember a recent post talking about how men will paint a women in a bad light when in reality, they are either lying or trying to make themselves look good and omitting info. This post is exactly what she was talking about. Never trust a man, especially a He Redditor. There's always 2 sides to a story and most likely hers is the closest to the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:38 AM |
| 120 | Entitled NVM should ask themselves this questionI felt this in my soul. Preach sis, preach! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Why do men LIE like this? REALLY? You've NEVER heard of any sex based slurs for women? "Scrotes" is BY FAR THE WORST? This is why I cannot take Redditor critics of FDS seriously.🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:42 PM |
| 8 | Weird "Male oppression" myths on redditYou just described the birth of an incel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:06 PM |
| 4 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisThis is exactly why they look at us like mommy bangmaids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:54 AM |
| 12 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisWhenever I see a shitty scrote who doesn't pull their weight or have any life skills, I usually blame the mother for it (cause scrote dad is absent, not hands on or is a product of a boys mom). I hate how society dotes on boys like they are gods and women are blessed to have had one. Boy mom's are either pickmes or turn into pickmes fast, because of course their little prince can't be bothered with chores and of course the dreaded 'boys will be boys' mentality that will excuse them for every shi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:53 AM |
| 15 | A comment on an article about disrespectful things men have said to their wives during labor. He literally got off to her being in pain, and she doesn't seem to see this as a problemWhat the actual fuck!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:09 PM |
| 20 | I was just followed home by some tweaking scrote and I'm shaking pissedI already did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 37 | I was just followed home by some tweaking scrote and I'm shaking pissedI didn't know he was actually following me until he pulled out behind me when he thought I was pulling out to leave. I just knew to keep my eye on him when I first noticed him just in case. I live in a huge complex and he could have been coming home like I was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:35 AM |
| 26 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"I fucking hate Kevin Samuels. His entire deal is to tear women down and tell them how to be the ultimate pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | There needs to be more birth control options for men.I had this done about five years ago and I'm about up for a new IUD placement. The pain I felt all that time ago has me seriously reconsidering my options and dreading it. I honestly thought how unfair it was that I had to go through because men want to get their dick wet. If they wanna wet their dick, then they need to have something shoved in them or be pumped with hormones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 14 | 'When a man in our culture days no, it's the end of the discussion. When a woman in our culture says no, it's the beginning of a negotiation.' Just bought the gift of fear and was giving praises just 3 pages in.This book combined with FDS and Crime Junkie have made me weary of all men and I assume they either want to kill me, fuck me, or leech off me. Long story short, trust no men until thoroughly proven otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 14 | Caught a man filming me yesterdayThis happened to me when I was walking to the light rail. An RTD worker had a camera and as I walked by he took a picture. I knew it was of me by how me was positioned. I called him out and he said he was taking pics of the track. I screamed ' I'm nowhere near the track you fucking perv'. I sat down waiting for the train and he took another picture, but this time another woman who was walking by saw it and told me. He was driving one of the company cars so I called RTD to file a complaint to the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:18 AM |
| 22 | Why do so many LVM ask you to plan the date? Laziness is a given but are they looking for a mother figure?I've heard the excuse that women are picky about what they eat. There're memes about men asking women what they want to eat and get mad when they say they don't care. I've explained that we mostly say that we don't care cause We really don't and We want you to take initiative for once instead of having the burden of planning dinner every night. Women aren't picky eaters. We're just tired of having the pressure of choosing all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:56 AM |
| 10 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’But when we are we're labeled bitter selfish bitches 😑🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:59 PM |
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