So I just had to block and delete a now former friend of mine after 4 years of friendship. I planned to come out his way for a short trip that included a concert. I told him one month in advance and then sent a 1 week reminder (I’m a planner so this is normal for me). At the 1 month notice, he said he’d clear his schedule and make sure he had nothing going on for the time I was out there. At the one week reminder he said he was free. Of course the night I get out there, he all of a sudden has plans to ‘hangout with the fellas’ but he’d be over after. He never made it. He got so drunk he had to be escorted home. He texts me the next day apologizing and asking when we could meet up. I told him that I already had plans for the day that I would not alter, but if I had free time, I’d let him know. He said he’d drop everything he was doing as soon as I called. I had a friend cancel on me (for a legit verified reason), so I called him. He was getting his oil changed… I had another friend cut our dinner short later on (new mom and scrote husband couldn’t deal for 45mins without calling her). I called him up and that dude had the nerve to tell me that he was going to the movies and that he’ll see me after. I told him not to bother because I had an early flight the next morning and I refuse to loose sleep just so you could come over. After midnight he texts and calls asking to come over. I have to be at the airport at 5am. I see these when I wake up and I text him back ‘you just really had to see that movie huh? It would’ve been just as good on Sunday when I wasn’t here. Hope it was worth it’. I blocked and deleted him right after. I get off the plane and I’m bombarded with snap messages and emails. I’d forgotten about those, so I blocked and deleted them too. All the text previews looked to be apologies, but I don’t care. He lied and took me for granted. I don’t need anything like that in my life. Another one bites the dust I guess💅. Stay enlightened Queens!

Edit: this was a plutonic friendship. No romantic interest.