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| 12 | The Bar Is In Hell. The Audacity Is Sky High. I'm Scared For My Generation.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 06:14 AM |
| 44 | The Bar Is In Hell. The Audacity Is Sky High. I'm Scared For My Generation.She could just get a long girthy vibrator and do away with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 02:09 AM |
| 23 | I am interested in a guy at work…what next?If he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 01:12 PM |
| 60 | Let’s translate “he’s bad at texting”He's cheating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 08:37 AM |
| 66 | Why you shouldn't have a FWBAgree. OP is encouraging bad behaviour by continuing to be friends with this scum bucket. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 12:00 AM |
| 20 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.Totally using this. Charlize is a badass 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 03:53 AM |
| 42 | The amount of pickmes on reddit is too highOh sis, you had me worried for a moment 😂🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 03:51 AM |
| 16 | If he wanted to he wouldPlutonic? So it's a match made in Hell then? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 08:08 AM |
| 124 | This level of betrayal from the person supposed to love, cherish and hold you sacred.You're overestimating men if you think they're going to take a birth control pill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 09:16 PM |
| 8 | The truthWait, what? All this gum flapping and they haven't called the fucking election?! Gaaaaaaaaaah! Does he need to ask his wife about how to call an election? Just like he had to ask his wife if r*pe was bad? Scum of the earth. Youknowwhattodo2022 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 01:39 PM |
| 7 | I have no words...Exactly what you think it's about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:20 AM |
| 27 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)Your instincts are bang on. Why is there any competition in a young adult group? Like a social group I assume? It sounds like petty, insecure LV bullshit to me. If other people aren't calling her out on this behaviour, it probably wouldn't do any good to stick around or put up with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 10:17 AM |
| 31 | And I guarantee you men still won’t take the initiative for birth control, and put the onus on us.Combine it with the HPV vaccine while they're at it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 04:15 AM |
| 35 | If you still live your life around the mindset "But what would my future HVM think about this?" - you are still stuck in that Pickme mode.I've never been called an ice cream before.... thanks! 😊 Thank you for the pitfalls of persistent pickmeism, particularly #2. That hit home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 12:55 PM |
| 41 | 39 Domestic Violence Lethality IndicatorsSo true. Rpe, assault, extreme violence and mrd*er are so prevalent in many communities that young people see this as 'normal.' It's all they have seen growing up and they don't know any different. Law enforcement and courts are complicit in the suffering of women. Edit: Sorry, I have no idea why the italics have come up, tried to fix but gave up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 01:13 PM |
| 48 | 39 Domestic Violence Lethality IndicatorsThank you for taking the time to post this in full. The 39 Lethality Indicators were mentioned recently in the Hannah Clarke inquest in Australia, but I didn't know the full list. So thank you again. Stay safe ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 12:19 PM |
| 51 | Don't describe yourself as kind or empathetic to men.Come to think of it, that would also be a reasonable answer if I were to be asked about what physical characteristics I like about myself.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 11:01 AM |
| 112 | Don't describe yourself as kind or empathetic to men.Hell yeah! Or go full Captain Obvious. Human, female, alive, 2 legs, 2 arms, and my skin is conveniently located on the outer surface of my body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 10:58 AM |
| 13 | I’m begging...please! End the cultural idea that husbands are an extra little kid women have to drag along and care for - if he’s not making your life easier/better, drop him off at this “day care” and never pick him up again.💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:41 PM |
| 27 | A man wrote a book for women on how to text men to get them to not be absolute trash. I just… what?Overpriced toilet paper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 04:38 AM |
| 52 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??Facts. His story holds as much water as a tuna net. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 09:09 PM |
| 95 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24I hope Molly made a few new friends with some of the women that dodged his douchebaggery. Poetic justice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 09:15 AM |
| 135 | When rape so normalised that girls joke about it happening to themJust one finger? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Well… you chose him!What kind of pathetic life do people live when this is what they do for their own enjoyment ..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:46 AM |
| 13 | Well… you chose him!Mouldy bread and rancid butter that were only making you sick. What an awful thing to say after such strong action on your part in leaving. I hope things are better for you now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 09:41 AM |
| 9 | Well… you chose him!Your aunt sounds great 😂 "False advertising" might be another | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 09:38 AM |
| 19 | Well… you chose him!It's so uncomfortably, bone-achingly true. I also learned from a young age not to discuss problems to anyone who isn't a trained professional and bound by confidentiality. Emphasis on the confidentiality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 09:37 AM |
| 2 | It’s women’s day tomorrow. How are you planning to celebrate it?Ugh. Boomer scrotes in ill-fitting suits, all levels of government. Australia needs a good flush out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Happy Exploitation DayLMAO even harder when the bot learned how to circumvent the hashtag and still call out the wage and oxygen thieving companies on their performative bullshit. Score one for AI! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 11:11 AM |
| 7 | High value men are out there xMy goodness, so much for my attempt at levity. Of course I will buy my own sword. As if I'm going to wait around for some scumbucket to get me some spray painted plastic or foil-covered cardboard 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 09:24 PM |
| 68 | High value men are out there xIf he wanted to, he would. And now I want a sword 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 09:11 AM |
| 59 | “I Am Just A Simple Man”I'm having difficulty capturing my thought in writing but here goes... A truly simple man would be a dream! Simplicity in actions: being able to look after himself physically and mentally. Providing for those he cherishes. Being an active, generous and devoted husband and father (if applicable). Respect for himself and others. Respect for women. Having clear boundaries and not tolerating LV behaviour from other men. Having the courage to call out and cut off LV friends. A simple man is still cap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 10:25 AM |
| 18 | “I Am Just A Simple Man”.... and they have to do it as loudly and obnoxiously as they can, at home and in cheap South East Asian tourist spots 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 09:56 AM |
| 66 | Men who hide their political views from youIf they whine about the big senate ballot paper.... 🚩 If they didn't vote and just drew a penis or wrote something smart arsed on the ballot paper... 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 09:53 AM |
| 17 | Imagine being this uselessBecause the urethra and vagina are so close to each other, infections migrating to the bladder can also migrate to the uterus --> pelvic inflammatory disease. Manky unwashed dick will infect both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 04:43 AM |
| 13 | Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad.Women can certainly relax. If a man won't match your energy, walk away. Take out the trash and relax. None of that push-pull nonsense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 10:49 AM |
| 7 | Red pilled Twitter caught encouraging men not to wear condoms and thinks STIs are part of a government conspiracy to keep birth rates down🤡😂😂😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 07:31 AM |
| 24 | Beware of the solo male traveller to certain regions of the world.....did you read the article? Of course those places are beautiful. They have deep, rich cultures dating back centuries. But scrotes don't go to Thailand for waterfalls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 11:07 AM |
| 153 | Pick-Meisha Wedding RantYes! This! If she sends you another invitation, send her a fucking bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 11:32 AM |
| 12 | What is this the FDS take on “free the nipple” movement?Only if men will agree to wear bras. Underwire and all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 07:05 AM |
| 68 | A man i've never spoken to in my life dealing with abuse "allegations" and losing custody of his daughter who is barely a month old decides now is the perfect time to talk to random women. Should pass this along to the mother in case he tries to get back with her?Too bad he hasn't figured out punctuation either 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 05:49 AM |
| 71 | Polyamorous PickMe comes *so* close to getting it... but doesn't 🤡I hear the 'block and delete' alarm beeping.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 09:57 PM |
| 36 | Referring to women as girlsI use "folks." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Stay away from self-proclaimed “brutally honest” menThank you. I freely admit FDS taught me that useful word. My vocabulary has expanded wonderfully here 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Stay away from self-proclaimed “brutally honest” menYyyyup. I don't know what's more fragile: the ego or the testicles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 10:35 AM |
| 53 | He wants to move in togetherYes! This! Don't do wifey shit if you're not married! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:33 AM |
| 598 | Stay away from self-proclaimed “brutally honest” menAnd yet they can never take anyone being brutally honest with them. Cue the testerics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 07:58 PM |
| 7 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄Very. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 07:56 PM |
| 8 | In Australia one step back. This timeline is need fudged…Yay. What a great addition to the career expo 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:52 AM |
| 8 | In Australia one step back. This timeline is need fudged…Agreed. Idiocracy with a different accent 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:47 AM |
| 32 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄It was in Priscilla, Queen of the Desert but I'm not sure about American movies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:38 AM |
| 167 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄Hatfish.... I just learned a useful new word 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:37 AM |
| 50 | This is so true. Adam Sandler and his minions after him in entertainment is why men are so delusional and lonely. They rely on fantasy that's fed to them through media, MGTOW and RP that's not going to happen.Hermione was out of everyone's league! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Lurkers Stay Mad: Reported For Posting Violent ContentCan you imagine if batches of cheetos or beer were laced with progesterone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:10 PM |
| 28 | This makes me so angry - a male primary care doctor(!) refuses to prescribe contraception because apparently basic women's health is "just not something I want to practice"Bill or no bill, it happens already. Good luck getting a pregnancy termination from a 60 year-old scrote with a crucifix in his office. He may not outright refuse but he will do his best to coerce and guilt you into alternatives. I've seen colleagues refuse to be involved with terminations. Luckily there are plenty of others in the same department who are able and very willing to help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 09:44 AM |
| 31 | This makes me so angry - a male primary care doctor(!) refuses to prescribe contraception because apparently basic women's health is "just not something I want to practice"Best urologist ever!! 👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 09:37 AM |
| 18 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himI'm peeved there is no standing ovation emoji. That is BRILLIANT! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 01:06 AM |
| 92 | Negatively branding FDS in forums leads other women wary of joining and checking it out.We're not too much. They are not enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:33 AM |
| 40 | Trafficking, Prostitution and Inequality: A Public Lecture by Catharine MacKinnon .. i don't care if men are lonely. they are not entitled to women bodies; this is really good one listen to when you have time. this was done in 2011. it's still relevant."The money coerces the sex." That says it all for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:28 PM |
| 22 | what do you all think about familiarities? I DESPISE them!So it's called sooting. That horrible noise makes my skin and every soft tissue under it want to crawl off my bones 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:10 PM |
| 87 | Proof that the main beneficiary of casual sex & relationships is men!!!!I'm sure she will get picked 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:34 PM |
| 6 | “Do You Like Kids?”, Being Used to Judge if You Are a Bitch or a Nice PersonI tell my workmates that there is no contraceptive more potent and effective than them talking about their children 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 177 | The average LVM posing as HV....his own full diaper? Sorry, that was the first thought that popped into my head on reading your first sentence 😂🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:03 AM |
| 6 | Found a pic of the average scrote lurking our sub.........wow. I never thought of that. HAAAAAHAHAHAHA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 04:13 AM |
| 103 | Found a pic of the average scrote lurking our subHer tirade at the end is a classic. "You, I love you, look at you! You're a nightmare! You're the missing link! You shouldn't be married, you should be studied! You're a big dumb weird thing! No woman in her right mind would love you!" Unfortunately she is cut short 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:31 AM |
| 84 | girl whatQUEEEEEEN SHIT!! What a story. Queen busted her butt to get where she is, out-earns a scrote, pays cash for an Audi, has epiphany about the scrotacity of said scrote, leaves scrote with plans to divorce, still has a shit ton of money plus an Audi minus a shit ton less dead weight. I love happy endings. And Audis. 👑👑👑💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 07:06 AM |
| 106 | Rules of misogyny: the default is always maleMen assign male pronouns to people, but female pronouns to inanimate objects, such as their cars. Because that's how they see women. On a side note: The stepping reflex is normal in newborn babies. It's fun to do when holding them. How the fuck is this news?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 22 | Sigh…male depravity/ego knows no bounds. Yet another reason to seek a female physician 😫That's appalling. The lack of consequence is equally sickening. In my country there are private and public health sectors. A surgeon was reported by a junior doctor for inappropriate behaviour in theatre, was stood down from public work but now still has a lucrative private practice. Who in their right mind would let someone like that operate on them or work with them? Edit: Spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 09:07 AM |
| 24 | Sigh…male depravity/ego knows no bounds. Yet another reason to seek a female physician 😫Unfortunately, the operating theatre environment is still a rigid hierarchical patriarchy. The surgeons have way too much power and get away with too much as a result. I don't know the finer points of the case, but I'm willing to bet that surgeon had the power to destroy the career of anyone else in that theatre who dared report him. And while it seems spineless or covering up, for people who have scraped and studied their entire adult lives, in debt up to their eyeballs, that prospect is terrif… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 08:57 AM |
| 95 | Dude needs therapyDude needs to check his spelling. If English is his first language, he should be ashamed of himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 07:31 AM |
| 185 | Are they ridiculous, or do you have a husband that won’t do basic shit!FDS in the wild is always heartwarming 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 07:29 AM |
| 24 | This 4chan story is fake AF, but if there’s even a grain of truth in it, good on the ex-gf on leveling up!Yup, I got that image in my mind too. Went from underweight, hair falling out, stressed AF to normal weight, great hair and glowing 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 07:28 AM |
| 11 | Have your first impressions of men been accurate?Wanker McScrotes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 07:24 AM |
| 3 | Strategy for scheduling dates👍🏻👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 06:47 AM |
| 6 | Strategy for scheduling datesNope. Omicron can still be lethal. Please don't get complacent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 07:47 PM |
| 8 | Looking for some positivityThat's huge!! I kept one house plant alive while 2 died. My resolution is to not buy plants. As a notorious brown thumb, I wish you and your garden a lush, green 2022. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 12:48 AM |
| 34 | LVM / Dating down never worksEx-model... he hit the wall clearly 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 12:43 AM |
| 108 | Only a scrote takes it personallyHe did admit to being on the spectrum. I think you're right. A neurodivergent person applies cool logic and sees a very reasonable action without a dramatic emotional response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 10:31 AM |
| 2 | This is why vetting EVERYONE you spend time with is for your survival. Know the covert red flags of bully pick me’s. They will literally push you off the ledge.I had heard of Quakers by name only, so thank you for that 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 11:28 PM |
| 3 | This is why vetting EVERYONE you spend time with is for your survival. Know the covert red flags of bully pick me’s. They will literally push you off the ledge.That's brilliant! I didn't know Quaker schools existed, and humanities classes sound great. Are there any major differences between Quaker schools and other schools? Please forgive my ignorance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 11:26 AM |
| 57 | Queens, what are your plans for NYE?Working. I'm on shift at 7.30am. New Year means nothing but obnoxious drunken parties that disrupt my sleep. Double pay on New Year's Day 🤑🤑🤑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 11:18 AM |
| 48 | Good sense prevailing in the commentsI love a happy ending 😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:14 AM |
| 222 | I’ve had more intriguing conversations with cats at this point. How many dates will I go on where a guy believes the date went swimmingly, and the whole time I never got a word in edgewise? oy veyThere's something so warm and satisfying about talking or meowing to a cat and having it meow back at me 🤗 Can't say the same about the majority of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 02:09 AM |
| 12 | It saddens me that TikTok has a negative reputation on FDS.Here for #1. Tik Tok whitewash their content. I found this eye-opening: https://www.abc.net.au/4corners/tiktok:-data-mining,-discrimination-and-dangerous/13470700 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 06:40 AM |
| 85 | How narcissistic men view marriage. Spoiler: It is to gain credibility from other men, so they can maintain status in the male 'dominance hierarchy'Men just want to please other men. If only they could marry each other and leave us alone 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 09:13 PM |
| 74 | Gaslight-proof way to definitively show yourself you do more than your LV/NV domestic partner: have both of you write down everything you do around the house for a week or month.This is a lot of effort to waste on a LVM. They know they're useless and they're using you. THEY KNOW. Channeling that effort into either leaving or kicking him out would be a better option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 09:09 PM |
| 155 | My Adaption of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: HVM vs LVM/NVMDon't sweat your design skills, it makes perfect sense. My only gripe is that sex is not a physiological need. Blue balls is not a lethal condition. That lie should not be perpetuated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 12:56 PM |
| 52 | F.R.I.E.N.D.S. is one of the worst shows I've seenI do not undestand the appeal of SATC. My housemate watched it religiously, so I would retreat to my room. Endless pickmes and brand advertising 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 12:49 PM |
| 70 | Defining pickmeism: what it is vs what it isn'tThis was so well put. In my mind, the lack of self-awareness is key to the pickme. She doesn't see how she doesn't benefit from her male-pandering, or how it actually damages her more. She will sabotage other women for male validation. Women who have made mistakes are far from being pickmes. There's always hope. Some pickmes are who they are through abuse, social conditioning, culture, bad role models, peer pressure etc, eventually see the ugly truth of their behaviours and work to free themselv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 01:39 AM |
| 74 | Just FYI…if you or a loved one are hospitalized, it is ALWAYS ok to insist on having female-only staff.FYI ladies - douching increases the risk of pelvic inflammatory disease - horrible pain, infection, scarring and risk of infertility. 0/10, do not recommend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 09:02 AM |
| 18 | I have no wordsI feel your pain. The whole, "you're not a real fan" crap if I don't recognise an obscure reference, not necessarily Python. Is it so hard for us to like something without some scrote having to be a super scrote about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:40 AM |
| 99 | I have no words....foot ointment and salad dressing (stolen shamelessly from Monty Python) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:51 AM |
| 15 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!This! At least Chris Farley was funny! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 06:47 AM |
| 6 | “mAh LeGaCy!!!1!” Writes the wife incubator out of the equation and reduces her to an appliance. No mention of her at all and she’s the one doing all the work! At least the comments are sane. Be so careful who you breed with, the truth trickles out in strange ways so make sure you’re listeningI got it: Quiche! Or frittata, or equivalents depending on the culture. Add veges and flavour. It may get repetitive if you're eating that much every day. Excuse me, I've just made myself hungry.... 😂🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 06:40 AM |
| 47 | Him meeting your (FDS-approved bare minimum + your own) high standards is NOT enough. If he’s not doing more than that, it’s time to move on.I have never heard of that term. It's perfect. He's great on first impression, but really doesn't care much below the surface. He knows it, which makes it downright cruel. I like your thoughts on Mr Peanut Butter. I figured it was because he was an extroverted labrador who couldn't stand to be alone, but your analysis makes so much sense given his contribution to his relationships were so superficial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 09:50 AM |
| 26 | “mAh LeGaCy!!!1!” Writes the wife incubator out of the equation and reduces her to an appliance. No mention of her at all and she’s the one doing all the work! At least the comments are sane. Be so careful who you breed with, the truth trickles out in strange ways so make sure you’re listening12 eggs a day is better than 12 slices of pizza a day 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 09:43 AM |
| 21 | I agreed to go on a date with someone I’m not attracted to at all. Should I cancel and how do I let him down nicely?+1 If you're not prepared for the answer you need, as opposed to the answer you want, post elsewhere. Or read the Handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:48 PM |
| 13 | I agreed to go on a date with someone I’m not attracted to at all. Should I cancel and how do I let him down nicely?DAMN that's refreshing! Thank you for speaking the harsh but necessary truth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:33 PM |
| 7 | Older women of FDS, your wisdom is requestedPonytail palm. Thrives on neglect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 04:19 AM |
| 7 | Older women of FDS, your wisdom is requestedI'll emphasise, it's only ONE houseplant 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 09:16 PM |
| 87 | Older women of FDS, your wisdom is requestedIgnore people who make you feel like you're not an adult because you haven't settled down and procreated with a NVM. I am willing to bet you are more of an adult than 99.99999% of the male population. I still don't really feel like an adult, but I live alone, pay my bills without issue, hold down a job that required 10 years of gruelling study and training, eat decently and clean up after myself and I keep a houseplant alive. That's adult enough for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 09:43 AM |
| 8 | If you won’t bother checking the FDS handbook before posting your question, at least ask yourself this…I can't upvote this enough. Too many recent posts are clearly addressed in the handbook. It gets repetitive and tedious to wade through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 08:04 AM |
| 13 | Just wow. This dude let his girlfriend’s friend get him hard in a restaurant (he almost orgasmed) and is now blaming that friend for “doing this to him”. The commenters: “this is sexual harassment, you should tell your gf to stop being friends with herrr!!!”He was asking for it. What a sl*t 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:18 AM |
| 3 | This man's a stalker. He constantly copies and pastes our comments to try to infiltrate the sub. What's most terrifying is that, he once got access too, if you notice the last post.Holy crap, you're right! I recognise one of the comments he plagiarised. SMH. I don't know how you picked up on it, and it's best not to share it publicly, but thank you for your vigilance and warning us all! Lurkers need a hobby 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:30 PM |
| 9 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmThose slimming black t-shirts would cause anyone "kunfusion" 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 12:15 PM |
| 16 | Gomez Addams 💚He was the best Gomez Addams! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 11:58 AM |
| 39 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmSay what? Toki had the better body 😂😂😂 I agree. They all smell like wet dog too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 11:51 AM |
| 11 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.They really do just want to date each other don't they....😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:27 AM |
| 34 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.I love how men can't see that Fight Club is a gay rom com 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 09:22 PM |
| 12 | Examples of green flags in my boyfriend’s fatherOh wow, I have never thought of that before 🤯 Of course it's the woman's bloodline! No woman = no birth = no bloodline! It should always be the woman's name!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 11:35 AM |
| 15 | I know a pickme had to swipe right on him. 🤮Welp, they will stick their peepee in anything.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 11:14 AM |
| 25 | The Top Places for First Dates in my city as voted on by the populace are... Free public spaces for walking dates.Nothing wrong with a murder mystery game 😂😂😂 If you didn't click with the guy, bad luck and maybe good riddance. I prefer party games with friends as opposed to strangers, but that's just me 🤷🏻♀️ I like the idea of vetting through board games. Does he whine that they're not video games? Is he aggressively competitive? Is he open to playing new games and learning how to play? Does he follow the rules? Is he a sore loser or a bad winner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 11:12 AM |
| 99 | The Top Places for First Dates in my city as voted on by the populace are... Free public spaces for walking dates.Unless there are some good restaurants to take in the waterfront view, hell no!! That must be so frustrating. I wish that the number surveyed was too low to accurately represent the entire dating population, but that's how LVM think I guess 🤦🏻♀️ As much as I love love love board games and board game cafes, I don't think I would be keen on going there for a first date. Board games are great for vetting, but not that early. Any thoughts?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:16 AM |
| 50 | So I was cleaning my vibrator and...So true! My cleaning solution is easy to use, doesn't damage my toys and has a light pleasant scent 😎 Beats filthy, diseased community dick every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Britney Spears is Free!!! After 13 years she's finally free y'all! This is amazing and I hope it leaves the way for more change with conservatorships. And that everyone involved in what happened to Britney faces jail.America: the land of gun care and health control 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 02:31 AM |
| 88 | How many red flags can you pack into 1 profile? LET'S COUNT!How to be a pretentious, vacuous jerk without saying you're pretentious, vacuous jerk 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 08:02 AM |
| 15 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡Yuss! Angela Bassett is brilliant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 08:29 AM |
| 19 | Why Beer is Actually the Ultimate Women's Drink (hint: Witches!!)🤯😀 FDS has taught me a hell of a lot, but I didn't expect this! Amazing! Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 08:24 AM |
| 96 | In most cases, it is a bad, bad idea to buy a house, especially your childhood home, with a bf, not a husband 🚩10 years together, no ring 🚩he makes > $100k, she $60k, but planning to split mortgage 50/50 🚩house is barely affordable even with their combined income. Ways this can go south in 3…2…1I hope her parents aren't guilt-tripping her. No amount of sentimental value is enough to navigate a financial minefield that treacherous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 07:41 AM |
| 37 | Apologizing for or sympathizing with "cancelled" woman-abusers is big time Pick Me behaviour - From Vanity Fair: 'Dakota Johnson Calls Cancel Culture "Such a Downer"Did she learn nothing from working with Time's Up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 07:32 AM |
| 52 | OLD: Who needs personality when you’ve been on a boat, caught a fish that one time or go to the gym?I choked on my bubble tea 🤣🤣🤣 They don't seem to understand that drinking beer is not a personality either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 07:20 AM |
| 15 | Reminder: he is also responsible for birth control. Vasectomies are cheap, easy and reversible.Oh dang, I'm so sorry! I've read your above comment complely wrong and I apologise. I read it as using vasectomies as temporary methods was harmful etc, and I replied with the thought that an LVM with a failed reversal is not necessarily a bad thing. 😖😖😖🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ Some days my stupidity amazes me too. I totally agree. I haven't been on the receiving end, but have looked after strong women who told me about how many OBGYNs they had to visit and the "psychological assessments" they under… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 07:13 AM |
| -12 | Reminder: he is also responsible for birth control. Vasectomies are cheap, easy and reversible.If it takes a few LVM out of the gene pool, I have no objections. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 12:23 AM |
| 3 | To dress up for dates or show up as you are?Clearly not in FNQ 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 08:11 AM |
| 211 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.History is full of times where men bail on or use women and children as human shields. Titanic, anyone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 10:12 AM |
| 25 | The self-aware LVMThey know. They don't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 01:31 AM |
| 20 | Men's hair turns white faster then women's do. Idk how the world still believes we age fasterThis! My grandmother looks and acts about 10 years younger since my alcoholic, demented, abusive POS grandfather died. The only sadness I felt was at the thought of how many potentially great years she lost because of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.Oh good. I'm not a fan of animal neglect. Hugs to all your dogs 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 12:09 AM |
| 16 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.😭😭😭 The poor doggo. Is it OK, or at least not suffering? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 08:49 AM |
| 50 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.Yup, and why don't they get help? Negging and abuse from OTHER MEN. The patriarchy is killing itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 08:48 AM |
| 15 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.Pffft yeah. The biggest needle-phobes seem to be the ones with sleeve tattoos 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 08:44 AM |
| 20 | A little rant and some reframing- wondering if I’m doing this right.1am or not, that's amazing! 👑 I hope he got what he deserves from you: block and delete. He doesn't deserve to see what you have written in your post. That's too much effort for scum like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 11:01 PM |
| 114 | Husbands consent to being there for their wife in sickness and in health when they marry, yet they're statistically shown to fail at this even when it's the bare minimum. Strategy: see how he reacts to you falling sick and block + delete if he in any way seems unsympathethicYeah, and him expecting her to mother him amd sympathise when HE gets sick. He deserves a sore back and divorce papers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:03 AM |
| 14 | These NVM ain’t even trying to cover up what they really think anymore… it’s truly sad that their are women that will actually choose to match with these sick men.Even lightning wouldn't bother striking him 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:46 AM |
| 11 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsMaybe, but I worry about religious types who still hold men on a pedestal and brainwash women into being subservient and tolerant of NVM bullshit. It would be cheaper and more satisfying for OP to throw him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:29 AM |
| 33 | Woman asks if she should end her engagement, Christie accurately points out all the red flags and encourages her to break it off.I bet he's thinking about having children too 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Self-Care, decoupled from consumerism, as a strategy: discussionYes to all of this, especially about self care being beyond buying crap for a temporary thrill. I am envious of your vacation. Sounds like otter delight! I had to say it 🤦🏻♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:57 AM |
| 69 | They hate her cause she attempted to flip the script.A coffee date is a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 05:00 AM |
| 43 | Oh wow...Yup. Men like that need a vasectomy. I'm chid-free since I already raised my siblings. To hell with doing it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 02:28 AM |
| 13 | Woman’s date goes berserk over “National Dog Mom Day”True, owning a dog or any pet is not a personality. I find women who primarily identify as a "mom" above all else to be just as tedious with incessant talk (and photos 🙄) of their human children. Again, it doesn't warrant a mantrum, but blegh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 09:15 PM |
| 25 | Number one sign of an HVM: he's directControversy creates cash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 01:14 PM |
| 11 | Ground Rules - Take it Or Leave ItRight?! There were some serious temper tantrums being thrown about that when I dared to venture into other subs. Lurkers and shit-stirrers were blocked and deleted.... by queens that spread the "Block and Delete" mantra. Always. What did they expect? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 01:05 PM |
| 69 | Keeping the first few dates short in length... he is not your friend.1-2 hours is enough for introverts like me. You put it perfectly: your time is valuable and no man deserves to waste it. I'm sure other women will have different opinions, and different activities probably lend themselves to a bit more time. To further you point, if you have deduced the man is trash 5 minutes into the date, end it then. Don't be polite and give him a full hour. Walk with your head high. Don't acknowledge their desperate pleas for any more of your time and attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:38 PM |
| 34 | beauty and the beastI must use "Why do you need that pathetic rodent, honey?" in daily life, complete with accent 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on all-girls schools?Sorry! My internet is screwy! Here's the rest: ...mistrust of people in general, and no fear of being alone. All-girls schools are alright, but avoid them if academic achievement is not prioritised and there is no proper attention to education on sex and relationships as a woman. Rant over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on all-girls schools?All-girls Catholic school survivor. Probably. As much as I despised it at the time, school uniform made appearance much less of an issue. I was bullied for being academic. You were popular if you were sporty or musical or a disruptive class clown. High school girls were manipulative as hell. I don't think it would have been any better if adolescent males were thrown into the mix. 5 years, Grades 8-12 No transfer Puberty was easy, you could talk about periods, contraception freely. But, there was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:29 PM |
| 10 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh togetherAh thank you, that makes sense. That guy should be ditched ASAP. Why wait? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 10:34 PM |
| 64 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh togetherSilly question: what is a HINO? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:57 PM |
| 3 | These are the hallmarks of a healthy relationship. Great insight into what DOES facilitate a high value relationship - and what it looks like in real terms.Such a star! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:50 PM |
| 10 | These are the hallmarks of a healthy relationship. Great insight into what DOES facilitate a high value relationship - and what it looks like in real terms.Holy shit, Rara took my breath away 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:53 AM |
| 201 | Men just have to ruin their chances, don't they?Men don't HAVE to ruin their chances. They do it of their own free will 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:51 AM |
| 22 | After all these years he realizes at 57. So all those men realize this when they get old snd deserves appreciation for it? Instead they should have realized at their youth and keep his partner comfortable and loved?! Such a wasteThat's beautiful 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:47 PM |
| 67 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?I second doctors. Especially surgeons. Whopping egotists surrounded by pickme nurses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:13 AM |
| 8 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualities🚨🚨🚨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:16 AM |
| 319 | The straw that broke the camels back for me, and what has turned me angry and bitter against men is not only the abuse they've subjected me to, but the fact that I'm 28 years old and no man has never even gifted me a bouquet.I'm glad that first reply was downvoted to hell. OP, I think the vast majority of women in this sub have experienced the same thing. Little or no effort from lower-than-scum whiny manbabies who will stick their diseased peenie into anything warm. Regardless of how attractive you are or what kind of clothing/facepaint/shiny trinkets you choose to adorn yourself with, LVMs do LVM things. That is a THEM problem, not a YOU problem. I would encourage you to reread the Handbook and go all-in on self-l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:10 AM |
| 19 | And y’all are still using OLD?Nah. I'm sure bonobo will take selfies 😂. Smart bonobo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 07:33 AM |
| 88 | Illinois bill would allow women to sue men over unwanted pregnanciesCan it be introduced globally? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 01:24 PM |
| 11 | Old but goldWhat emotions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 15 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)I heard that overdosing on it can lead to infertility. So it can potentially treat LVMs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Coping with Ex having large circle of friendsHahahaha! Winner! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:35 AM |
| 14 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsYes! This! In my country, that behaviour is grounds for mandatory notification to the medical board. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:29 AM |
| 13 | Coping with Ex having large circle of friendsDoesn't sound like a big loss. If they stay friends with NVX, they probably aren't HV themselves. Try to reframe your thoughts. Are you alone? Or are you FREE to do whatever the hell you want, whenever the hell you want for whatever reason you want? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 08:52 AM |
| 52 | Very weird pre-date invite condition/terms given. Thoughts? Anyone else come across this before?"No drink dates!" [in Edna Mode voice] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Men's rightsYeah, can't they take a joke? Men are too sensitive! No one will want to marry them if they're so difficult! They will wither away in a house full of cats with no molten lava cake! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:05 AM |
| 6 | FDS and Instructors?^ This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 03:56 AM |
| 2 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.nOt AlL MeN 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 03:48 AM |
| 6 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.Nah. Australian men are awful too. A man who wears shoes is overdressed where I live 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 03:47 AM |
| 9 | Thoughts on family therapy between an emotionally unavailable, LV father and adult daughtersAll good. Brains are good, but sometimes it's better to go with your gut. And you did 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:23 PM |
| 24 | When friends enjoy the circus 🤡🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:17 AM |
| 106 | Jewish Women- Please Be Careful Out ThereI cheered at the bit where you ignored him and left. And took the food. He is lower than scum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:16 AM |
| 55 | Thoughts on family therapy between an emotionally unavailable, LV father and adult daughtersHard no. LVMs will not change. If he wanted to change he would, and you clearly know that already. Therapy is a good idea just for yourself after going no contact with your father. I have every faith you will live up to your user name 💪🏼👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:09 AM |
| 32 | Isn’t it strange how single women are treated of all ages?Your relationship status has nothing to do with your ability to do your job and your coworkers have no right to know about your personal life. Do not engage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:17 PM |
| 18 | "Should I really vet for the rest of my life?? That seems excessive and too much work!" Yes, sis, yes you shouldTo quote OP, that seems excessive and too much work 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 12:33 PM |
| 23 | Why? Just why?This! The trash takes itself out quick smart. No vetting required! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 12:51 PM |
| 374 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄Cheating on a woman by paying for strippers, sex workers, OnlyFans, etc is also financial infidelity. I'm not buying their bullshit for a second. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 01:47 AM |
| 35 | It's 2021 why is it still on women mostly to take birth control? 79% of men think it should be a "shared responsibility" its msyogynisyic that we still have to carry the burden as womenYeah my heart breaks for them 🙄 I think biomedical engineers need to up their game and create simulators for periods and labour. Mandatory vasectomies that will not be reversed without clear evidence of mental, emotional and financial capacity to raise children, and must have withstood the period and labour simulators. What's that Brad? You don't want someone else controlling your body? Awwww. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:36 AM |
| 69 | Beyond basic: Examples of HVM doing extraordinary thingsThis. Hearing about HV behaviour brings a glimmer of hope, and breaks up the gloom of the neverending scrotery of the LVM population. Thank you OP for that glimmer of hope this morning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:23 PM |
| 5 | Hotels in Turkey are banning men from staying without women because "they're harassing girls to try and hook up with"Make them walk on a lead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:01 PM |
| 9 | 'When my husband told me to shush during labour I knew our marriage was over'Ah, thank you for that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 09:58 AM |
| 58 | 'When my husband told me to shush during labour I knew our marriage was over'This makes my blood boil. If you broke your arm, nobody would give you any hippie crap instead of getting decent pain relief. Labour is so much worse! It sounds like you're flourishing without him 😎 Stupid question what is MTG? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 08:49 AM |
| 206 | 'When my husband told me to shush during labour I knew our marriage was over'If men got pregnant and went into labour, they would all need Caesarean sections under general anaesthesia to deliver. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Andddd it’s confirmed. 🙄 my heart goes out to Anna💞You have a one-tracked mind 😂😂😂😂😂 If she wants some hot young dick, sure she can have that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 08:41 AM |
| 32 | Over 70 women 'marry' trees to prevent them from being cut down. That’s what I call a high value marriage.Dunno. I think the rustling noise is peaceful when there's a breeze. Sometimes they may drop a leaf or two on your head but I suppose it's forgivable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 11:42 AM |
| 267 | Andddd it’s confirmed. 🙄 my heart goes out to Anna💞I hope she takes John to the cleaners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 11:39 AM |
| 12 | Tell us about what it's like to be a woman in your countryTo add to this: Housing is becoming increasingly unaffordable, and as per the ABC series, there is a high risk of homelessness in women over 50. Rich white boomers hoover up properties for their investment portfolios. There is a huge gap between mens and womens superannuation. Maternity leave is pitiful. Some workplaces offer 2 weeks of paternity leave. How progressive 🙄 Mothers are expected to work part time so they can look after the children. Abortion is legal. It is accessible if you live in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 11:40 PM |
| 34 | Bette Midler recommends all women refuse to have sex with menI don't know why men would be so pissed off if women stopped having sex with them in protest. They'll fuck anything 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 11:04 PM |
| 10 | I’m really curious to know..Crushes are nothing but a waste of precious mental energy. If he was interested he would have made the effort. Move on, be awesome, keep taking no shit from anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:37 PM |
| 16 | When your dog shows more support, loyalty, and care for you, it’s time to go sisYou're being too generous, giving him a month to find somewhere. Don't give him a day longer. If he hasn't left in a month, leave all of his shit on the lawn and change the locks 👑 Give your doggo a cuddle from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 08:08 AM |
| 10 | Why Women Are Angry - abc tvI'm happy to see it's a 4-part series | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 11:31 AM |
| 44 | Don't take initiative in adding or interacting with your crush on social mediaThis was the biggest lesson I learned from FDS. I wasted so much time and energy on thinking/daydreaming about crushes since my teenage years and didn't examine why until I got here. Now I can relax in the knowledge that if a man wanted to, he would, and if he doesn't, he can get the hell out and make way for someone who will. Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Stumbled across this… 😷Oh it gets worse the further north you go... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 10:12 AM |
| 24 | Why Women Are Angry - abc tvNope. Australian men are stuck in the 50s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 09:54 AM |
| 14 | Why Women Are Angry - abc tvLeigh Sales is a queen. I haven't watched the show in years, but I my housemate and I used to cheer her on in interviews. Scrotes beware! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 09:53 AM |
| 21 | 15 Signs You Are in a Relationship With a Man BabyYeah true. I think the key bits are "you have to" and "so he doesn't piss it up against the wall." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:28 AM |
| 65 | Twitter finds an FDS post and scrotes are madOh no! Anyway....... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:01 PM |
| 29 | Sisters, walk away if he refuses to get a STI test and show you the results before having sexYup, but they are strains with a higher risk of progression to cervical cancer. It's better than nothing. No vaccine is 100% effective. That's why vetting is important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 09:33 PM |
| 388 | Ladies, do you consider seeing a man once a week (every Saturday) as fulfilling dating?It doesn't matter what any of us consider fulfilling dating. If you're not happy with seeing him only once a week, or that he's not proudly declaring that you're a couple, dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 09:21 PM |
| 24 | Aileen Wuornos is often compared to Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer in terms of the heinous nature of their crimes. That’s because of cultural misogyny, victim-blaming, and legitimate hatred of women.No question, that's premeditated, calculated evil. Against patients - vulnerable people needing care, not scum-level NVMs looking to degrade a woman for $20. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 12:52 PM |
| 3 | It's perfectly ok to be be single!Hell yeah! Enjoy!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:52 AM |
| 100 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.Famous community dick is still disease-riddled community dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:25 PM |
| 69 | It's perfectly ok to be be single!It's not just OK to be single. It's AWESOME! I date me and I love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:55 PM |
| 21 | Is this why old men in current government dont care about women’s rights today? Because their dad’s wrote & believed bs like this?This is so harsh! What have chinchillas ever done to you to earn such hate?! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:14 AM |
| 18 | Pickmes and memesBlock and delete. Not difficult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:49 AM |
| 16 | New flair idea? “SO close”They're swamped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:28 AM |
| 5 | I've found an easy way to suss out men on OLD almost immediately.Wow, I am totally using that one! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:37 AM |
| 17 | The idea that prostitution is the oldest profession is stupid when clearly the oldest profession is berry picker.Oh dear. Now I have fantasies of a worldwide women's strike on unpaid labour. And the mass testeria as the world grinds to a halt. Sweet sweet chaos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:36 PM |
| 11 | We need a cure for this ASAPThat facial expression. Those hands are about start moving. Brace yourself for some serious mansplaining! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:24 PM |
| 58 | I've found an easy way to suss out men on OLD almost immediately.Favourite dinosaur. Second favourite dinosaur. I draw inspiration from the random questions my friend's 4 year old asks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:59 AM |
| 35 | Dodged a crafty LVMHe probably has (k)nits. I'll let myself out...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:52 AM |
| 39 | Pet Peeve: When You Cut a Man Off and He Goes “Well We Can Still Talk”🎵 When a problem comes along, you must block it 🎵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 07:54 AM |
| 42 | Financial AbuseHandbook material! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 04:58 AM |
| 14 | The man I want, has a mother suffering from cancerGo. If he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 04:47 AM |
| 8 | Low Value Men are like Low Value FoodTrue! Little pizza rat is just doing what it needs to do to survive. Men have no excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:30 PM |
| 43 | “Age is just a number.”So is a prison sentence.At least it has linen and a bed frame 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 26 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorThey skip basic hygiene. Not much of a stretch of the imagination. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:58 PM |
| 107 | Dating Proverbs Updated 😃The way to a man's heart is through the chest with a sternotomy saw 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 10:36 AM |
| 6 | I asked on another sub for gift ideas for my boyfriend and someone suggested I take him to a strip club. Imagine the absolute state of my relationship if I even consider letting him disrespect me like that 😒 cOoL gIrLs TaKe ThEiR kInGs To StRiP cLuBs 🤪🤪🤪My abs are rock hard from laughing at y'all 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:08 PM |
| 5 | I asked on another sub for gift ideas for my boyfriend and someone suggested I take him to a strip club. Imagine the absolute state of my relationship if I even consider letting him disrespect me like that 😒 cOoL gIrLs TaKe ThEiR kInGs To StRiP cLuBs 🤪🤪🤪Phew! I'm glad you got some intelligent answers among the rubbish. I'm taking note of those suggestions too, they might come in handy... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:06 PM |
| 215 | Another reason why 50/50 is bullsh*t: PERIOD PAINIf men menstruated, workplaces would have dedicated period leave 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 11:28 AM |
| 59 | Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor?"Why do men [insert LVM shit]?" is easily answered. Because scrotes do scrote things, and your valuable time and energy are best spent on more important matters. Don't change a thing, sis, it's clearly working!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:16 PM |
| 17 | Found in another sub, imagine thinking this is funny.It's the stuff of nightmares 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:49 AM |
| 10 | Even my mom who’s never heard of FDS is 100% FDS👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:29 PM |
| 58 | Celebrity forever girlfriends & baby mama cultureCelebrities in general are just cashed-up trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:21 PM |
| 46 | Made a 3 min tiktok about how dangerous life is for women, and pointing out actual male privileges. I pointed out that even if men actually experience more violent crimes, those crimes are pulled off by... MEN.Wah wah wah. Poor barely-literate man-baby and his fragile fee fees /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Remember that even when you are in a relationship it's important to keep your financial autonomyGrandma Queen spitting facts! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:11 PM |
| 7 | The ONLY person you should be a pickme for...I pick myself.... and pets. Does that count? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:09 PM |
| 44 | Count the Red Flags: A Conversation with my NVXCall of Duty. Enough said 👎🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 05:40 AM |
| 40 | Breakfast first date?A Sunday morning breakfast/brunch would be a good vetting strategy. Hungover/still drunk/dishevelled/complaining about getting up early? Done. Bye bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 05:36 AM |
| 61 | 🚩Why you shouldn't settle for "no red flags"🚩This makes so much sense! The absence of red flags does not mean a man will add anything to your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Why LVM love walk/hike/coffee datesAwwwww! 😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 12:57 AM |
| 17 | Why LVM love walk/hike/coffee datesI was thinking the same thing when I read that bit, what's wrong with raccoon poop? 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 10:57 PM |
| 44 | SNOOPING 101Handbook worthy stuff! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:50 AM |
| 11 | Division of labor.....and this is why I live alone 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:40 AM |
| 7 | Do any of your families try and make you get with a LVM?That's horrible. Clearly your parents haven't learned a thing after the first disaster 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 06:52 AM |
| 8 | When Asks her husband to go Shopping, this is what requires *facepalm*Children would do the errands without whining. It's an adventure for them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:36 AM |
| 2 | When Asks her husband to go Shopping, this is what requires *facepalm*That's awesome! Does the shopping and brings back surprises! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:34 AM |
| 241 | Here’s what a HVM looks like in his own words, then shared by a guy friend who I know is a HVM to his wife.A very well-put guide to being a normal grown-ass adult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:26 AM |
| 39 | How my HV Dad cuts watermelon: he cuts out the sweetest part and saves it for Mom.That sounds like a catchy song lyric 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 11:40 PM |
| 19 | 🤡🤡🤡Yes, he will be at peace with himself.... until he's not and he throws his controller at the TV and punches the wall. Yup, safe and content, isn't she lucky 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:34 PM |
| 29 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!Yyyyyup. She got picked 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:17 PM |
| 7 | Pick me women make for awful friends. They don't value female friendships and/or are obsessed with men should be avoided.Keeping your messages off is a wise move. But you're hurting their fee fees! 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 06:14 AM |
| 19 | Pick me women make for awful friends. They don't value female friendships and/or are obsessed with men should be avoided.Care resources? Since when does Reddit care? 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:55 AM |
| 9 | Why is he single ladies??? Where is his queen??Right? I don't walk with wilful illiterates 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 04:22 AM |
| 31 | Thanks to FDS, I recognised manipulation and protected myself from it!Have you blocked and deleted? It's the only thing to do with trash like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:14 AM |
| 27 | This might be unrelated, but has anybody else developed a new substitute addiction since finding FDS?You're giving love to important people including yourself, nothing wrong with that. If you're really worried about cost, handmade gifts for others are always great. I don't know what started it, but I'm going on a weird spree of making and distributing ice cream to friends and family 🤷🏻♀️ I'm in a tropical climate, so it's good all year round. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:57 AM |
| 26 | Dating an LVM is Labor: Quit from the Thankless Job ASAPSo true!! LVMs can never match my overtime rate anyway. Buh bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:20 AM |
| 22 | What to do about medium value men?This! If they're not HVM they are LVM. If they are LVM I choose myself. It's not rocket science. The concept of "MVM" sounds like mental gymnastics to justify settling for trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:38 AM |
| 25 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningLVMs who don't treat their SO the way they should be treated are already disloyal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Am I overreacting?🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:53 AM |
| 7 | It's OK to be flawed. As long as we work on it.Absolutely! The time OP spends lurking woild be better spent on herself. You got this!! 💪🏼👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:01 PM |
| 22 | Glorifying toxic codependent pick-me relationships under the disguise of "Twin Flames"I'd be happy to meditate to the sound of a carbon dioxide fire extinguisher if it means ridding the world of twin flaming piles of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:58 PM |
| 82 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"My bloodline dies with me.... That's so badass 🤘🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:53 PM |
| 29 | Greys Anatomy LVMI despised Grey's Anatomy long before I found FDS. The medical stuff is bullshit and the characters unbearable 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common arguments (Part. 6)👍🏻👍🏻 My deleted comment said the same, but I'm terrible at clicking the wrong reply tab 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:41 AM |
| 6 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common arguments (Part. 6)The only minuscule point I disagree with is saying "sorry" when saying no. It has taken me a lot of time to cut the overuse of "sorry" from my daily life. No is no is no, and I no longer apologise for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Date ideas that don't revolve around food but where he still pays something?If he wanted to, he would.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 02:38 AM |
| 489 | LVM’s idea of a first date is going to her residence, expect a home cooked meal and most likely sex.Public health/vaccine clinic! 😂😂😂 Genius!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 95 | Opening ceremony win for Tonga. What a man... 😛Oh he's back! He did the same thing at the Winter Games, full oil and buff while everyone else wore tracksuits. What a man 😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 05:53 AM |
| 16 | Dump him on the first lieBastard cats are still better than LVMs 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:39 PM |
| 9 | How to Prepare to LeaveLet's face it, 3 months is enough time before taking out the trash for good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:16 PM |
| 8 | How to Prepare to LeaveThis. Is. Amazing!! 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how do you tell if you don't want kids or haven't found the right circumstances yet?So true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:17 PM |
| 11 | The difference between true HVM vs a HV acting performance 🎭Make him look after a toddler for a day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:03 AM |
| 17 | Ladies, how do you tell if you don't want kids or haven't found the right circumstances yet?Same. I tell people I can't have children. I don't say why, and I shut them down before they start with the sympathy noise. I don't want them, not interested, haven't changed my mind and never will, and I refuse to waste energy, time or breath justifying my decision. Wouldn't mind being a uterus donor if that's an option, didn't realise that was possible 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Probably the worst double standardLet's start in Texas with all of the politicians. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:48 PM |
| 224 | Vetting Men by their job positionMilitary and police are a hard no. And no job = bye bye. Otherwise I use their occupation to vet hard. Their attitudes to life, finances, women and improving themselves are easily reflected in their attitude towards work, regardless of their field. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Reigning in the extreme pick me horror tales - this is not a place to just vent, get sympathy points for tolerating extreme clownery, remain clueless and go back back to being a complete pushover.This should be in the Handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 12:15 AM |
| 9 | Be the strong HVW you were meant to be! 👸If you're over the top, they are below you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Never go on any date that’s not as cool as one you would plan for your girlfriends.Trust your gut. My gut is saying, "Mmm...cheese!" 🤤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 12:12 AM |
| 13 | This song is catchy as hell, but on a closer inspection, the lyrics seem to make it an lvm anthem (second pic) thoughts?Blegh. The world needs less Stand By Your Man, more Goodbye Earl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 12:08 AM |
| 11 | Survey: Single Men Change Their Bed Sheets How Often?!Disgusting, but not surprising. I also need a well-ventilated bedroom. Windows need to be open to air the room out during the day, otherwise I can't stand the musty stagnant air, even if it's just me sleeping in there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:52 PM |
| 14 | Survey: Single Men Change Their Bed Sheets How Often?!"Clean sheets." That's a terrific reply 😄😄😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:46 PM |
| 132 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?I think your intuition is 100% correct. Locks, alarms, security cameras, keep nearby family/friends updated, whatever you can do to stay safe 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | "If England gets beaten, so will she" when england loses a football match, the figure for domestic violence surges by 38%. Even if they win, it goes up by 26%.💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 11:03 PM |
| 10 | My ex-LVM friend sent me a handwritten letter and I tore it up and threw it away without reading itThe longer the letter, the more bullshit it is. Well done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:34 AM |
| 78 | "If England gets beaten, so will she" when england loses a football match, the figure for domestic violence surges by 38%. Even if they win, it goes up by 26%.Is a man who wears an item of clothing emblazoned with another man's name truly a straight man? 🤔 I don't mean this as a homophobic slur, but dropping this is a great way to measure ego fragility and emotional instability in your local scrote population. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:30 AM |
| 8 | Women abuse men too... /sYes. Relationships are a two way street. So men had better be doing more than their fair share of cooking, cleaning, raising children, emotional labour and not being a pathetic man baby who thinks he is special. Got it. Oh wait, too much? Funny about that. Die mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:16 AM |
| 24 | Absolutely not. Negging gone wild.I agree. I hope she isn't being gaslit by her therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:43 AM |
| 54 | Fashion Designer Anne Lowe ended TWO marriages because her husbands did not support her dreams. She later went on to design Jackie Kennedy’s Wedding Dress and become a pioneer in her field.That's tragic 😔 Her work was gorgeous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 04:21 AM |
| 61 | LVM and the “I was asleep” bsThe only sleepy boi I accept is a cat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 04:18 AM |
| 82 | Absolutely not. Negging gone wild.That would be ideal. I can't speak for this woman, but sometimes I have been so taken aback by the gall of some scrotes that I go blank. I. Just. Can't. It sucks, but at the same time it's nice to not waste any energy or breath on a comeback, even if I would probably feel better if I could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 04:11 AM |
| 39 | "friend" refuses to accept "no means no".Good! I thought the response was way too nice as well. He's supposed to be a friend, but he's just another grub trying to get in to her pants. I hope she sees the light soon and deletes him 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 09:16 PM |
| 45 | Just for fun - SNL Guy at the BarWho are these people and how do they know what happened the last time I went to a bar?! I laughed myself stupid at this, but the nIcE gUy/ mirroring crap is too depressingly common 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 11:30 AM |
| 40 | Proper posture is sexy!Don't just walk tall. Strut!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Bulge appreciation: Part 2Is the first one real? It looks like he stuffed something in there 🤔 Second guy...hellooooooooo 🥵🥵🥵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Bulge appreciationGreat bodies to match! Total "package" 😄😄😄😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Some handsome Rugby players 😍Dan Carter has always been my favourite rugby eye candy 😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:07 AM |
| 16 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???If it doesn't reach caecum it's a waste of time 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:05 AM |
| 12 | A FAFF reminder for you all todayThat should have come with a warning 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 01:13 PM |
| 5 | It’s Important To Have GoalsLife goals!!! And yet more proof that the wall DOES NOT EXIST! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Boundaries are the rules and limits that we set. A person with healthy boundaries values own opinions, knows personal boundaries, can communicate them, can say no when they want to, and accepts when others say no to them.I just imagine stapling it to his forehead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:19 AM |
| 6 | I will no longer be the only one who doesn't get an orgasm...🤣🤣🤣🤣💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | I am so triggered by cardboard cutouts if the grooms face at my former students bridal showerThey become one dimensional and BORING. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:11 AM |
| 115 | If he wanted to he would👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 This guy's suit game is stellar! Thank you for making me smile too OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:02 AM |
| 10 | Reminder 👑Trust your instincts!Knights in shining armour are just arseholes in aluminium foil 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 12:10 PM |
| 45 | Why I don't feel empathy for unattractive menThis!! Good looking does not necessarily equal attractive and vice versa! If he wants to make an effort, he will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 08:50 AM |
| 6 | Covert Narcissist"If you're going to let one stupid prick ruin your life, you're not the (woman) I thought you were." - Professor Stromwell (Legally Blonde) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:53 AM |
| 25 | Eye-OpeneningScary? Powerful? Awwww stop, that's a great compliment ☺️☺️☺️ I wish FDS was around back when I was a teenager. It validates every "this is not right" moment I ever had. I would have felt better about being intimidating and intolerant of other trying to manipulate me. I could have avoided some stupid pickme shit from my 20s in an effort to be "normal." 🤢 Ah well. Even after a few months of lurking, FDS continues to teach me on a daily basis. I'm home. Hope you feel the same way being here. 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:49 AM |
| 22 | If a man has a beef with another womanNo big loss. I love your username, and trackpants in general 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:30 AM |
| 18 | ABV - Always Be VettingThe mask slipped, but your armour didn't. It may not feel like it right now, but that's a win!! 💪🏼👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:28 AM |
| 47 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?Apart from this account, I'm not on socials. Same reasons as you said: I don't want a lot of information about me for others to see. I don't care about other people's lives in that much detail and I don't like being talked AT, which is how I feel reading pages. It's likely a disadvantage since I don't have another means to vet, but my intuition has worked reasonably well for now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:25 AM |
| 7 | Filter questionsExactly!! Or they list off whatever is in their beer 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 12:36 AM |
| 59 | Scrote ShitAbsolutely! Even if you don't like to cook every night, there are always ways around it. My slow cooker is the workhorse of my kitchen. Bang! There's another week sorted! To clarify, my slow cooker does not explode 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 11:09 AM |
| 58 | Filter questionsBonus green flag if their top 5 doesn't include potato! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:48 AM |
| 13 | This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things.Thank you OP and everyone. Brainwashed and/or pickme mothers raising pathetic manbabies is clearly a pandemic 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 09:30 PM |
| 429 | This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things.If Preeti shares her ideas and elevates the women around her, that's not contagious. If they all decide to drop their parasitic LVHs, isn't that a mass vaccination? Preeti does Goddess work! As an aside, news stories here tell nightmare stories about in-laws adding to scrotey shenanigans making Indian women's lives hell. Are there similar problems in North African marriages? I'm sorry, I ask out of complete lack of knowledge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:58 PM |
| 21 | It really boils down to character- most men fail. Stop praising basic stuffHannibal Lecter was educated, well dressed and rich 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 08:06 AM |
| 5 | "6. It Doesn't Make Him Deviant" 🙄That's horrible. Hoping you feel better soon. Stay strong 💪🏼👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 01:00 AM |
| 15 | 👋 HE'S 👋TOO👋CHEAP👋Yes! All of the courses!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:58 AM |
| 12 | "6. It Doesn't Make Him Deviant" 🙄I always get mixed feelings when I read stories like yours. Anger, revulsion, sadness at the way you were treated, but a fist-pumping high when I read you're not taking that kind of shit and dumping him. Stay strong queen! 👑👑👑 I see the same line in most stories too: He KNOWS, and does it anyway. And is so SHOCKED by the consequences! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:16 AM |
| 84 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meOrganised religion was made by men for men, to encourage and excuse shitty men behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:01 AM |
| 88 | 👋 HE'S 👋TOO👋CHEAP👋This woman is really hung up on drinks. Blegh! "He's too cheap to pay for dinner" sounds better. And ice cream? He's a toddler. Back to the crayons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:00 AM |
| 6 | FDS to the rescue!Well. The answer is simple. But "without being a bitch?" Uhh.... smile when you're kicking him out. That'll do it 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 11:55 PM |
| 118 | God help the woman married to this manHe's already a deadbeat dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 11:45 PM |
| 41 | Oh no honey, that’s not something to be proud ofIt doesn't cost $50 to tell this guy to pack up all his junk and f*** off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 11:29 PM |
| 13 | Men who catcall on the street 🥱So true!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 12:15 PM |
| 222 | Cry me a river.Men are only sorry because they were caught. Their apologies are meaningless noise. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 10:38 AM |
| 47 | Men who catcall on the street 🥱Awwww. It's only a small bird, better than being humped by a LVM. I don't think it's fair to heap shit on birds or any other odd animals. Save my contempt for the humans, if I can be bothered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 10:36 AM |
| 35 | 👑 Queen Simone Biles lifts up Jordan ChilesLove this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 12:15 AM |
| 4 | “Why are you still single?” And other questions I hate answering"Mankind FAILS to produce a champion worthy of me" (in a demonic voice), then don't break eye contact 🤷🏻♀️ The idiot who asks the question generally doesn't stick around for long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:10 AM |
| 6 | Is the perception of being nice or kind really so different for men and women?Hear hear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:02 AM |
| 75 | The amount of times Incels have misunderstood my kindness for flirting 🤮Kindness to men is so overrated 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 01:54 PM |
| 15 | Mainstream UK magazine casually glorifying age gap relationships...Hell no, I will judge Judily 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 08:57 AM |
| 10 | Sorry if this has already been posted but WOOOW begging a man to shower?! Poor girl I hope she’s since found the lightIs it legal to blast a scrote with a high-pressure hose and lock him out of the house? Asking for a friend.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 08:51 AM |
| 37 | I can't tell if I'm being mirrored and stalked. I can't tell if I'm being dramatic.🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Do not engage!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 08:47 AM |
| 2 | **Finally** pinpointed why it really irrigates me to hear a woman describing herself as a wife and mother 10 seconds into any professional meeting...Well.... this has inspired me to introduce myself as an unshackled swamp witch. Or mother of the occasional dust bunny... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 08:38 AM |
| 47 | The saga of my break up with my pickme best friendYikes. Well done! Stay strong with the no contact, odds are she will try to weasel her way back into your life..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Your Friends Are Not Free TherapistsProbably. I don't miss her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:47 AM |
| 10 | Your Friends Are Not Free TherapistsBookmarked this post. Thank you! I can remember a pickme friend I had years ago who used me as free therapy. I would try to suggest ways to improve whatever she was complaining about, but nope, same problems, different day. She would make ME feel bad because I wouldn't do the same to her! "You don't tell me anything! Friendship should be a two-way street!" I ended up feeling guilty for preferring to talk things over with a professional 🤷🏻♀️ Thank you again for posts like these. More and more I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 09:41 PM |
| 36 | How much is your time worth?No one has ever matched my overtime hourly rate. I love being expensive as hell 😈👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 09:24 PM |
| 68 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyYeesh. That's a new low. Apologies, I sent a second comment thinking my above comment didn't send properly. The other one is deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:11 PM |
| 313 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyHow weird do the rules get at Disneyland? I can see WHY it would be necessary, human stupidity and all, but to what extremes?? Back on topic. It's not very weird, but no man who says he's allergic to certain foods just because he doesn't like them. Like RICE 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 12:47 PM |
| 59 | South Korean Feminists Are Joining No Dating, No Intercourse, No Marriage, No Kids MovementYup! I would like to see a similar ratings system in place for Netflix... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 12:40 PM |
| 29 | It finally sunk in. 50/50 is unfair.I agree. 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 08:50 AM |
| 389 | South Korean Feminists Are Joining No Dating, No Intercourse, No Marriage, No Kids Movement"Rated on average 9.5 out of 10 by female viewers but 2.8 out of 10 by male viewers." Ooooooh scrotes mad 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 08:48 AM |
| 26 | Ladies NEVER ignore your instincts or dealbreakers. Here’s yet another scrote having broken a woman’s heart after stringing her along for a year.As if he ever gave a shit about his grandparents... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:51 AM |
| 1 | He is right🤣🤣🤣 It can go next to his picture of a house, and a dog, and Superman, and he deserves some milk and cookies for his hard work 🙄 Edit: fixed typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 57 | Why we don't do "girlfriend" title"Why are you playing house with a boy? Are you 12 years old?" Yes! This! I'm taking it and using it as often as I can! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:45 AM |
| 128 | He is rightHers should be framed and/or on a t-shirt. His is..... erm....shite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:28 AM |
| 70 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.Ugh same! I dumbed myself down for far too long so I wouldn't be seen as intimidating or scary. Enough shoulda coulda woulda, what a great quote!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:24 AM |
| 16 | Book Review: How to spot a dangerous man before you get involved. A must read if you are actively dating.Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:18 AM |
| 6 | I Love You, But I Love Me More - MarinaShe has a new fan here ✋🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:56 AM |
| 25 | Found an old coloring book from my childhood in the 90s. Even then I had my priorities straight.WHOA!!! I had NO idea this was a thing, had to stop and look it up 🤯 Yup, yup that's a dildo alright. Holy shit 🤣🤣🤣 Thanks for an interesting lesson! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:49 AM |
| 21 | FDS's stance on dating outside of your social classMoney won't buy class. HVM and LVM exist at all "levels." Vet, vet and vet some more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:37 AM |
| 4 | A hot Aussie soccer playerAren't those Wallabies speedos? A body and a bashed up head like that says rugby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:09 AM |
| 6 | Antoni Porowski.That smile!!! 😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 12:45 AM |
| 9 | Peep those thighs, Ladies! 😍🥵To each their own. I'll take the Aussie Rules players. Super fit and skimpier playing outfits 🥵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 12:40 AM |
| 13 | I did it.That's a HUUUUUGE win! Stay strong, stay safe, and much love to you and your kitty 👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:25 AM |
| 12 | 'I’ve invested too much time:' Reasons we stay in relationships longer than we should (The Sunk Cost Fallacy, among others)I see it in older couples around me, like in their 50s and 60s. It's infuriating to hear a woman say, "Oh well, I've put up with him for 30 years already...." No! Stop! Get out and enjoy life FFS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 10:06 AM |
| 2 | The Mask SlipsStay safe! And congratulations on your growth with FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Old pick me VS new Queen meFIFO mine workers are a snakepit full of LVMs. The ones I have met won't clean under their fingernails and blow their money on jet skis, obnoxious utes and Bundy Rum, classical cashed up bogan. It irked me how much more they made to drive a truck than I did in a job with WAAAAAAY more responsibility. Thankfully no longer the case in my boss job. I also wonder about what sort of shit they get up to when they're out at work for a week or 2 at a time 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 09:33 AM |
| 42 | Personal story: Grandma glow up.What a queen! My grandmother is similar. My also alcoholic, abusive grandfather died 10 years ago. I've watched her physical, mental and social health blossom! Sailed through a hip replacement, plays bowls and mah jong, volunteers in the local charity shop, has a gaggle of local octogenarian friends she meets regularly for coffee and cake. Takes trips to visit my mother and aunts whenever she wants, usually when the flights are cheap. Bloody hell, she's out and about more than I am!! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 08:56 AM |
| 10 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesI apologise to other drivers for any stupid mistakes by saying "Sorry" and facepalming. I haven't had anything but a dirty look in return. Maybe OP was suggesting an insincere apology is a red flag? I don't know, but I'm intrigued too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 08:49 AM |
| 15 | Ghosting is okayPandemic moustache.....😂😂😂🤢 I agree with everything you said, but I like to block and delete wherever possible. That way those pesky ghosts don't return to haunt me 👻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 03:28 AM |
| 81 | Dozens of women sue Pornhub - alleging explicit videos were uploaded without their consentWhen they were children, no less! I hope PH gets taken to the cleaners 🤞🏻🤞🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 08:56 PM |
| 6 | It will always be your fault.It is not your fault. It is your RIGHT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWMaking a husband and children their ENTIRE life, without any other avenues for socialising and support, seems boring and potentially dangerous to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:50 AM |
| 29 | Reminder: You do not have to "play act" through shitty sex. Get up and leave.Handbook-worthy stuff 👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:08 AM |
| 93 | There is no obligation for you to stay with an unaffectionate man.An unaffectionate SO is no longer significant. Just Other, goodbye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:32 AM |
| 49 | Those of you in a relationship with a HVM: How did you two meet?Same! I'll probably meet the Easter Bunny before I meet a HVM 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 10:11 AM |
| 42 | It's the edit for me ~~~Well said! I've never thought about it in terms of the daily cost of a ring 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Chadwick Boseman (sorry if already shared but 😍)Don't be sorry! I'd be happy to see Boseman pics every FAFF 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 03:48 AM |
| 5 | Alessandro DellisolaViva Italia!! 🥵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?Forcing the risk of pregnancy on her, not to mention risks of perforating her uterus or tearing her cervix? Scrote doesn't deserve a single word from her. Change the locks while he's at work and save your breath, Queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:50 PM |
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