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To be fair, regular FDSers here on the sub do that too (plus with gaslighting.... oh my gosh, gaslighting). I don't disagree btw, I just think it's a general issue with FDS, one of the few I have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 01:53 PM
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Yeah, definitely feels like there's underlying issues she either is unaware of or ignoring. LVM will often not dump you, they'll just slowly and painfully bully you until you're the one doing the breaking up, so he can look like the victim of a cold woman's lack of heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 11:06 PM
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Many men hate women's fashion. If it's not tight or revealing or a "sexy" color like black or red, they're annoyed. They can't stand when women love having fun with fashion and do it for themselves. It's why there's so many of those tedious "trends men hate!" articles nobody asked for, and the trends are almost always geared more towards women's likes (bright lipstick, flowy unrevealing clothing, high waisted jeans, etc) than men's. He probably wanted her to slip into a low-cut LBD with high hee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 11:02 PM
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Some FDSers get confused and think FDS being about independence means you can't also want a family, which is not even remotely the case. FDS supports women's choices if women are doing it for themselves. It's not the first time I've seen this attitude. The general sub used to be kind of anti-homemaker by default, even if a woman is financially stable and has a generous HVM. I think some people just haven't yet grown out of the kind of feminism that says women should only go for X to be empowered…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 11:04 PM
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Not every LVM is a narc. FDS has got to stop throwing that term at every LVM we see here. He's a selfish loser grasping for control as you said, but not every single one has a very serious and abusive personality disorder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 11:25 PM
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LVM summed up nicely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 11:23 PM
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I noticed this annoying trend of blaming straight women for things that are largely straight men's behavior. I had to unsub from arethestraightsok because this was pretty much all their content, and I bet it still is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 04:29 PM
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Not even debatable IMO. HVM simply don't hate women (or themselves) enough to live a meaningless life chasing skirts or insist on a "poly" relationship that only he benefits from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 06:50 PM
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I've never seen or experienced this irl so it baffles me how men can think this is acceptable, normal behavior. What are they hoping to achieve? Making a random woman uncomfortable for three seconds? Why?? If you feel safe doing this if it happens again, grab him by the back of the neck. Especially of you, like me, have naturally cold fingers. Many people tense up. You can even rub salt on the wound and tell him in a first grade teacher voice, "No, no, let's not do that, sweetie!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 12:04 PM
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As someone who is not a toucher by nature, that guy sounds like a nightmare. At best I would constantly feel overstimulated around him and at worst I'd feel creeped out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 12:02 PM
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Or she's telling him how he screwed up and he gives her a shut-up kiss (looking at You, "Ten Things I Hate About You")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 12:00 PM
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Men always think our boundaries are a joke, or a "maybe". And pickmes reinforce that idea. Good for you gor not tolerating it, I hope it bruised his ego and taught him a lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 11:59 AM
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These are the men admitting they don't think girls are human beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 11:57 AM
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It's no wonder men and pickmes always hated Deborah. She always call him out. (Although she should have married better.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 07:09 PM
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Duh! Didn't you know sex was something men do to women? /s Why would your satisfaction matter?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 07:08 PM
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There's a reason only George Clooney can get away with that behavior and not them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:06 PM
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And they will aggressively contradict precious points they've made just to have the last word lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 11:50 AM
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It's such a self own when they think this. Maybe for some women it's difficult to get there but in general it's just because the guy isn't an attentive, considerate lover. Imagine if men had this problem and we acted like it was their fault (not even going into how p0rn-caused ED is)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 11:33 AM
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Because then never really expect us to give consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 01:21 AM
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I feel like shows are doing that all the time now! Like Riverdale. It's just dialogue written to be quoted, it feels like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 05:12 PM
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I admit I respect Taylor more now that she's embraced her true self more and dropped her fake little "who, me? I'm just an innocent country girl!" act, which is why I never liked her before (besides that vicious, petty song she wrote about Camilla Belle and has never apologized for). But even now she still comes off as a bit... affected. Like her feminism is just performative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 05:10 PM
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I don't understand how that works on some women. He had his chance and chose to toss it out. He didn't want you. Aren't you insulted that he thinks he can just walk back into your life like it never happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 04:47 PM
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I agree with the other person who advised you not to hang out with these guys even if it earns you better tips, because think of it this way: you hang out, get better tips, they harass you for more personal one-on-one time, you refuse and they start to cause trouble, maybe even cost you your job. I don't mean to be a fearmonger or make you paranoid, just trying to explain how these guys can escalate things and advise you to think of long-term consequences vs short term wins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:11 PM
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I hope Gen Z girls appreciate how good they've got it with FDS existing. When I was a teen and even in my early 20s, literally nobody cared how girls and women were treated, especially online, and since nobody stood up for us or encouraged us to advocate for one another (manosphere = pickmetopia), we collectively had little to no self worth. I was already in a great relationship when I discovered FDS and still am, but I thank them for a better understanding of why I deserve to not settle in any …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:03 PM
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He wants the benefits of marriage without the responsibilities 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 01:51 PM
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The ones with ugly, unfurnished, undecorated, unkempt apartments because that's a lame, girly, frivolous thing to care about 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 09:46 PM
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And they pretend that's fighting fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 04:10 PM
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What an absolute fourteen year old move. I'm embarrassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 11:21 PM
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When pick-mes say that, they're really saying "Men won't call my bag behavior out in hopes I'll sleep with them but women aren't afraid to, and my miniscule self-esteem can't handle that "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 11:20 PM
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The ironic thing is it's largely men who decided feminine = bimbo and these pseudo-feminists are buying right into it. They don't even see that hating on girly girls/hyper-feminine women is exactly what men do and what men want. They somehow don't understand that just because most men would prefer women's sexuality be feminine (think Playboy bunnies, Lolita, Victoria's Secret angels) does not mean for one second that they don't hate femininity. I guess not everyone absorbed the point of Legally …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 04:31 PM
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That's why male honor is a myth. They can pretend women are the selfish manipulative ones.... but we know and they know who really plays games for their own deeply selfish gain and don't feel even slightly sorry about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 12:03 PM
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I feel sorry for them. They're making all the moves society tells them to do (be a wifey, communicate, don't nag, be a doormat, put out, etc) and she still didn't win. She's pushing all the buttons she's been told to push- but got the wrong outcome. That's why they doubt themselves (and why you should just not follow mainstream advice for women about men since as we all know, it's 99% for his benefit over hers).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 12:00 PM
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We can. Most men just don't want to. 🤷‍♀️ Women will befriend anyone but to most men we're just here to as potential wives, mommies and sex toys. We have no worth to them like their bros do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 12:41 AM
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Almost like they just want to hate American women 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 08:52 PM
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Because he's a catch, you ungrateful thot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 11:58 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 11:58 AM
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I've had younger women say this stuff when it's just the two of us, like do you want my validation or something? Because you're not gonna get it lol. We're not gonna be friends because I don't play with self-projecting pickmes who view their own gender as the enemy and let men entirely off the hook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 08:09 PM
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Honestly? Probably. It's not unheard of for LVM to bother cashiers and waitresses. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:28 PM
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Are people calling him out over there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:13 PM
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But they never want us offering some 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:41 PM
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They're there, just hidden gems. I met mine there, and he had actually been the first boyfriend I'd had. Not saying it works for everyone, but it does happen, and the ladies who are super introverted or socially anxious or any other issue who feel more at ease doing OLD deserve some reassurance. Just follow the rules (vet hard, entertain no fools, etc).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 12:50 AM
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