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LIES MEN TELLlookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:54 PM
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#JustLVMThingslookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:06 AM
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LIES MEN TELLlookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:16 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢lookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:32 AM
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DISCUSSIONlookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:44 PM
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lookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 12:32 AM
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NAH, SISlookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:14 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTElookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:47 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTElookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 11:34 PM
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NAH, SISlookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:06 PM
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DISCUSSIONlookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:14 PM
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LIES MEN TELLlookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:04 PM
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NAH, SISlookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:09 PM
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lookingforuni6789/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:27 AM
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I hope Savannah dumps those losers. I'd follow her to another podcast. -"On Wednesdays we dump losers"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/22 11:12 PM
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I have a feeling she is one of those people that wanted so badly to be in the popular group and never got to be, so she's acting out now in her adult life how she thinks the popular girls acted. We've all met those people that try so hard to fit into a certain group instead of just finding their own people. It's usually guys that I see doing this though, but that's what she reminds me of. She just tries too hard to prove that she's successful, prove that she's beautiful, prove that all the men f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/22 11:09 PM
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At this point, I need to bow out because I am just hate listening to this podcast. If it weren't for Savannah I would have left sooner. The gall of the other two comparing themselves to models, but their personalities are so ugly. FDS has gone straight to their heads and the platform is not what it used to be. They are bullies and not in a mean girls way. They're the girls that want to be the mean girls, except they're adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/22 03:03 PM
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My cousin used to do this to me all the time, even after she got married. At the point I realized it was happening, I would look at the man and say have fun with that and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 02:14 AM
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Hmm, can you help me to understand why words should only be considered race specific if they're demeaning? There really is a defined language for African Americans, AAVE. So it may not be word specific, but the formatting of the sentences by way of grammar rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:53 AM
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I thought he was a successful man in business. So after their first child, he quit his job????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 04:01 PM
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I think she may be non-white, but I'm not sure after that. Thanks for the breakdown, that was helpful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:01 AM
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I can't tell which one is Lilith and which is Reaux, but I'm also getting irritated by the one that keeps appropriating black culture by using African American vernacular. Every time she says "that's how it be" or "men be like". It's cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 11:54 PM
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My realtor's husband! When I bought my first home I had a housewarming party and invited my realtor. I have a friend that died of breast cancer and left a 3 y/o daughter. I often take her on the weekends to give her grandparents a break. She has her own room in my house. Naturally I wanted her to feel apart of the celebration, so she was there. She was running around and having fun. Like normal toddlers sometimes do, she randomly vomited ON CARPET. I checked her out to make sure she was okay and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 02:52 PM
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Scary, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:51 AM
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Ugh, sorry you had to go through that, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:50 AM
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Thanks for asking. I think there are a few of takeaways. 1. Never give in and respond once the vetting has done its job. Once you've walked away, stay away. Trust yourself the first time. 2. Don't be afraid to call a spade a spade, even outside of dating. This man immediately went to gaslighting and trying to downplay my response. Again, don't doubt yourself. Stand by your words. You said what you said. 3. Know your worth. If you don't, they will define it for you. He basically labeled me as age…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:43 AM
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This man is not HV, like at all. You should not be going to his house for a second date, even if Jesus himself is there. He should be making plans for the second date and following up about when you're free. He did you a favor. Move on to the next guy. And no, HVM do not ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 11:49 PM
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I had no idea this was a thing. Now I feel grossed out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 11:44 PM
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So I match with this guy on a dating app and he tells me that we've matched before on Tinder. I said you must have a great memory bc I was only on Tinder for 4 days over a year ago before I realized it was not for me. We start chatting and this fool talks about how he wants to "hang" with me, but doesn't want to date me bc my age puts him under pressure to have a baby immediately. He wants to date someone in their mid to late 20s. He's 37! I unmatched with him right away. 2 hours later he matche…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 11:41 PM
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I had something similar happen. I turned 40 last month and had a big party planned. This guy friend lives 4 hours away and said he was coming. He asked if he could stay with me. I got my guest bedroom together and made sure all the toiletries were stocked. At 5pm the night before he simply sent a text that said "I'm not going to make it up there". I didn't even respond. I had a few other friends cancel, as expected, and every one of them apologized and gave a reason for cancelling. This guy was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 11:31 PM
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These are good points. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:13 AM
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This is what I read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:05 AM
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Yes, too much explaining. We all have to learn someday. It went wrong the minute she settled for a drinks date. And if by chance I did go on said date, the scooter would have been the end for me. If he wanted a ride home, he should own a car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:10 AM
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You are the real MVP out here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:18 PM
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Actually, I just tried again and I was able to edit it! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:17 AM
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It's no big deal and nothing to be sorry about. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:12 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/s2ic2w/foolproof_vetting_strategy_tell_him_a_man_did/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:08 AM
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Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:46 AM
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That will never happen. I walked away from him after he reacted like that. I'm well respected at work and he's been here less than a year. Anyone that has even heard of me would laugh him out of the room. Honestly, I do regret getting involved in a conversation that isn't work related. It's so out of character for me that most probably would not believe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:04 AM
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That's the thing, I'm 39. He had no reason to lie to me when age first came up. If you read my OP, he originally told me he was 42, I saw on a dating site that he was claiming 34 , and foud out he's 46. When he told me he was 42 he could have said his real age then. Luckily, I work in a cool job where I help other depts solve problems. Once one dept has their process under control I move onto the next problem. He works in the dept I'm helping, not my actual dept, so I won't have any interactions…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:19 AM
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I see that all the time. So not only are they trying to fool us, which they aren't, but they truly have fooled themselves! And thank you for pointing out my calmness. I've been intentionally working on my reaction to situations. I have ADHD and we can be overly sensitive to any kind of rejection or criticism, so thanks for noticing 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:15 AM
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He won't come back around in my swipes for a while
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:58 AM
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I never even thought of that angle. I'm curious how the others found out. Like did he confess or did they find out incidentally like I did?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:38 AM
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Hmm, not on mobile. I can try my computer. I know you can edit comments, but I haven't been successful with actual posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:41 PM
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Also, I'm embarrassed about my you're typo in this post, so please ignore it. I know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:36 PM
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Sis, that was exactly my thought. So all of us calling him out are the crazy ones /s I wanted to say that I wasn't obsessed with his age, I'm obsessed with his lie and the manipulation that's he's putting on young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:33 PM
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OP: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/s3ark2/always_be_ruthless_always_be_vetting_a_reminder/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:18 PM
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Book marking this to read later, but just wanted to say I'm 39 too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:11 AM
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That's a good idea. If he shows back up in my swipes I can do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:28 AM
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Your last paragraph is the truth! And with my coworker, I realized while I was confronting him that I wasn't being professional, so I didn't push back after he gave his excuse. I just ended the conversation. I think I said "oh ok, thanks for explaining" and walked away and then today I didn't react at all. As soon as he walked away I pulled out the calculator on my phone to double check my math. I thought how dumb he can't keep up with own lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:54 PM
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Thanks for sharing this, so we can all learn from it and be reminded to literally NEVER stop vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:40 PM
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You know I always thought he looked young for his "age", but then one day I saw him without his baseball hat on. Looking back that hat hid a lot, his forehead wrinkles, created a nice shadow over his eye area and covered up his bald head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:40 PM
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Exactly. It got worse from here. He has his own choice to make for the vaccine and I would never push that on him, but he wasn't even willing to accept the definition of a scientific term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:50 AM
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Here's an update. They were arguing prior to her disappearance. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/gabby-petito-update-missing-found-b1920743.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:39 PM
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Thanks. I just started a new post. Try searching PowerPoint in this sub and it should pop up or look under my profile. I'll delete this one soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:15 PM
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No, that's my understanding too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:27 PM
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So of course I had to go check out his IG. The fact that he hasn't made his page private screams narcissist. He loves this attention. And his quote about bug bites being better than being brainwashed by the media 🤢 ... oh like how you brainwashed this young woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:15 PM
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Yeah, I bet he pushed her off a cliff from behind, so she couldn't even try to defend herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:07 PM
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They have to collect enough evidence to arrest him on suspicion. I bet that's what they're doing now. That's what they did with Chris Watts. The police suspected him all along. They let him go on with his life, speaking to the press etc, while they interviewed people and gathered evidence until they could arrest him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:06 PM
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Yeah, like Kirstie Alley... who still looks good, but was kicked out at the first sign of aging and gaining weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:42 PM
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These are the same men that stop us to tell us to smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:05 PM
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I think that's what I have to do, chalk it up as an expensive lesson learned. I almost wish I didn't post about it bc all of these comments are making me even more angry and pointing out even more reasons why this was a bad idea from the start. We really have to have our guard up at all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:44 PM
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He's a private trainer. smh, what was I thinking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:41 PM
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I have no words. I couldn't finish reading this. Ladies, you are doing great work and this is obviously a sign that change is occurring because change is uncomfortable and this guy is uncomfortable. We've got your back and support you. Please take hope knowing that you're on the forefront of the new revolution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:54 AM
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I relate to this. I was raped from someone off of a dating app. I got him banned, but I'm pretty sure he made a new account. I saw him recently on a different app and not only did he swipe on me, he gave me a super like. It proved everything I thought. He doesn't even consider what he did as actual rape. Sex by coercion is rape! Good luck OP! Stay strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:01 AM
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This is everything and needs to be its own post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:47 PM
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Yeah, I almost didn't post it bc if she were a man we would not date her. I posted it because I liked the message at the end about treating someone badly is their issue and not yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:18 AM
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In that particular situation, after he admits he can't put chairs together, I can make a decision to get rid of him or accept that he's not handy. What's super low value is not telling me and leaving me with dangerous chairs to sit in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:15 AM
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I love how she's aware of and owns her weaknesses. I've never experienced a guy admitting anything close to a weakness. Probably why they never improve. I would welcome the honesty. Please tell me you can't put furniture together instead of leaving me with 4 wobbly chairs 🤣, let alone acknowledge that you aren't the best father. This lady is like here are all of my faults and fuck yes, I'm still lovable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:08 AM
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I came here to say the same thing. It appears that she went off script and switched out her pre-approved speech and I was worried that she would be ushered off stage or mic turned off. I was so happy that she was able to give her entire speech. She is so inspiring. I can't wait to see what she does with her future. Definitely had proud tears in my eyes watching this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:45 AM
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After I made a comment, several others started making similar sentiments. She only responded that her pregnancy test was negative.... so this is where I'm bad, but I fed off of her thought process that this was an outside source and encouraged her to get tested for STIs/STDs "bc who knows what they poked the hole with or what their intention was" bc I knew she would never accept getting tested if I insinuated that her boyfriend could be cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:29 PM
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Yes, this. Even with condoms hpv and hsv (herpes) can still be contracted through skin to skin bc you know, not all of his scrotal area is covered by the condom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:16 AM
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I was so hesitant to reach out to her bc it's in my ADHD group, not a dating/relationship group, but I put on my FDS cape and reached out to her. I'm still so grateful for the woman that pulled me out of the tar pit and introduced me to FDS, so I need to pay it forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:25 PM
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More detail has been posted....."I had bought these condoms from Costco with my sister and I was staying with her and her family for a while. I recently traveled to South America to visit my fiance which means the condoms went throught security. I am staying with my fiance and his family for the last 2 weeks. There is a lso a cleaning lady. I am just feeling so paranoid. It could have also happened at the store before I boguht them".... maybe one of those overbearing MILs? Or definitely her part…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:10 PM
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So far everyone is saying it's Costco.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:58 PM
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First of all it's ridiculous that the stereotype of being conventionally beautiful was a reply to someone sharing that they were harassed because they were deemed ugly. Secondly, how do you know you don't get served faster or get better job opportunities? Were you considered ugly at one point? There are actual studies that show women who are not conventionally attractive are actually objectified more than attractive women. I'm not taking away from your story. It's all gross. Just recognize what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:09 AM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. That's assault. Have you gone to therapy or talked to anyone about this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:57 AM
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Yikes, glad you got out of there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:44 PM
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