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| 43 | Someone has reported me to a Reddit for posting about internalized misogynistic on FDS | DISCUSSION | ububTkuc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 12:44 PM |
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| 2 | In no universe should this be ok and accepted. A Utah university is offering a porn analysis film classWhat...the...f#ck!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 03:32 PM |
| 52 | Really fulfilled and happy in my life, open to dating again!Congratulations! But be sure to keep your scrote detector on at all times. There is nothing that a LVM likes more than to f@*k with a HVW's emotional and financial resources to "take her down a notch"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Older Song but Great FDS Summer MaterialIt's never a compliment to be treated as a option/2nd choice instead of a priority/first choice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 10:17 PM |
| 38 | Found out in the wildI can assure you that $400 rent his live in nannybangmaid has to pay is calculated under the fifty-fifty theory! He probably thinks he's offering a bargain bc heat abd electricity are being offered for free (in return for a BJ)! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 10:29 PM |
| 90 | Found out in the wildThe 313 area code is fir DETROIT!!! If tiy are 43 and can't afford more than one bedroom in Detroit, then yiu are way behind the curve!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 08:51 PM |
| 13 | One HVM teaching the next…Cute! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 05:45 PM |
| 315 | Wishing a Happy 20th Anniversary to One of the Best FDS-Approved Rom-Coms of All Time: My Big Fat Greek Wedding!PLEASE PLEASE FDS mods -create a "how to high value" list of movies and TV shows that we can turn in ro counteract the pervasive scrote/pickme propaganda that exists in mist entertainment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 11:24 PM |
| 19 | I feel like I need to have a funeralHow about tacking on a christening to that funeral - to the new you thst has risen like a Phoneix from the ashes from all of that pain and drama?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 10:06 AM |
| 71 | The story of my stupid pick-me friend and why you should trust rape victimsBLOCK.....DELETE.....REPEAT..... It's not only for deployment on scrote former boyfriends - it's slso for former pickle friends.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 05:42 PM |
| 285 | Run if he tries to create false intimacy with you.The only thing that men know right away is that they wish to have sex with someone. In hindsight, they embellish with "I knew at first sight that I was going to marry that woman!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 12:48 PM |
| 28 | Eye opening vacationAsk me how I know..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 02:16 PM |
| 53 | Eye opening vacationThat's assuming yout lazy husband doesn't just sit there staring at the wall while you assemble furniture all by yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 11:00 AM |
| 90 | If he wanted to he wouldDon’t put too much effort or thought into friendships with men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:21 PM |
| 72 | I don’t have lunch with my colleaguesThat's what happens when you drink the patriarchy Kool- aid. All that subsumed rage can only be vomited on other women who have done nothing to you..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.if he won’t tell you what hes budgeting so hard for…..then something he intends to acquire once you’re out of the picture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 06:35 PM |
| 100 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.Because women with well paying jobs are CoMPetTIve, and uNfEMinie! Geez doesn’t anyone read the scrote handbook anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 10:38 PM |
| 248 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.Sex….hot meals…a clean home…a personal therapist…a social coordinator all for free, but somehow GF is the gold digger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 10:09 PM |
| 130 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.Hrs never seen this materialistic side of her.. well. Scrote, she's never seen this chea-assed tight-fisted side of you!@ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 07:52 PM |
| 14 | I have no words...I mean it's not like she couldn't have done the the relationship long distance for a short while until she got a transfer from the Paris office to the London office. I keant, it's not like there is a train that leaves central London several times a day, goes through the English Channel in an underground tunnel and arrives in Paris in just 2 hours...OH WAIT!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 03:59 PM |
| 41 | I need support, I think I need to break up with himYup - men are not assets…but in many cases they are ASSES! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 01:10 AM |
| 27 | I have no words...I especially get mad at women who fetishized their poor personal choices, thereb6 packaging them to younger woman as glamorous and exciting rather than a Cautionary tail to avoid like 5h3 plague! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 09:54 PM |
| 88 | I have no words...She could have called her prior piss poor choices boneheaded and bounced back. Instead she's putting lipstick on a pig by talking about how shes in a "relationship" with London and all this quasi-poetic pickme crap. She's probably living a hand to mouth existence as an independent journalist (having given up a of the doors that would have been opened by a training at a top firm), dating pump and dump dudes. Worst if all, she's packaging up this hellscape as something glamorous and to be admired … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 08:51 PM |
| 49 | I have no words...OMG - she's the French Carrie Bradshaw!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 08:45 PM |
| 8 | Will Smith’s Slap, Protecting Black Women and My Own Experience Being Unprotected by Black MenYES THIS!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:00 PM |
| 14 | Will Smith’s Slap, Protecting Black Women and My Own Experience Being Unprotected by Black MenBullshit! Even if Rock was not bffs with the Smiths, communities of color within white dominated professions all have some connections each other (at minimum via the communitu gossip grapevine). He knew but like that b*tch Campion, he chose to throw a black woman under the bus for a cheap laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:32 PM |
| 40 | Will Smith’s Slap, Protecting Black Women and My Own Experience Being Unprotected by Black MenLet face facts.....Rock would have never roasted a white woman with allipecia. Black women again are treated like the gum that gets stuck on the bottom of someone's shoe. While Wiill Smiths actions were a clumsy way of defending his wife...at least he was defending his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 12:42 PM |
| 6 | My boyfriend shared a funny video that i didn't find funnyAmanda ad long as that relationship pink slip cones with a fat alimony check, many women are better off without these scrotes. (Another reason why you should decline being the 4-evah girlfriend) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 12:17 PM |
| 49 | What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally?Basically. If it's a problem for you, then its a problem. Perod. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 06:49 PM |
| 18 | reminder: power, not empowerment; equity, not equalityRemember Ladies power is to empowerment.... -what Velveeta is to imported French Brie -what a fake purse purchased on canal Street is to a real Chanel 2.55 flap purse purchased at the origonal Canel store on 31 Rue de Cambon what a cubic zirconia is to a real diamond. When we demand POWER over EMPOWERMENT, we will stop negotiating against ourselves in life and love!@ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 06:48 PM |
| 17 | Beware of the man with a female friend/female friendsI agree - the problem here is with boundaries and respect toward the male friends chosen life partner! The passive aggressive nagging about the OP's Romanian heritage was the warning bell... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Another Way Women Are Not Aware They Are ShrinkingNo problem sis - look at some of the free resources that people have posted on this discussion!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Another Way Women Are Not Aware They Are ShrinkingAh yes, the first wife clips the coupons while the second wife gets the fur coat!!@ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 05:53 PM |
| 7 | Another Way Women Are Not Aware They Are ShrinkingEXACTLY!!!! Whenever money is pussed away by penis people islts considered aN iNVesTMenT!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 11:22 AM |
| 30 | Another Way Women Are Not Aware They Are ShrinkingMen piss away family funds on stocks touted in Wall Street bets, hookers, porn, 5k worth of golf clubs that only help the games of players who already hav3 PGA cards, obnoxious stereos, and yet women are mocked as speedy if they buy one $50 makeup palette!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 11:22 PM |
| 25 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Did I miss something? When is $70k a six figure salary?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 08:06 PM |
| 107 | Most men are misogynist but Right wing men are just open about. I work in Right wing politics.Yeah, because its shallow not yo date a man who doesn't have the same world view as you, as opposed to not dating a woman who is 120 ponds, blond haired, and looks "natural"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 09:38 PM |
| 9 | Word soup for “don’t be a pick me”It was only a matter of time before mainstream media caught onto what a load of cr@p this sex-pozzie libby-fem mindset is!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 05:27 PM |
| 17 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)In some ways the yeast took itself out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 01:06 PM |
| 46 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)The reason 9lder white women are cool is that hey don’t see themselves in competition with 20 year old for the same dating pool of men. Most younger women (even well educat3d ones) are pick mes Who are very male centered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 11:59 AM |
| 27 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)Fellow WOC here who has worked in male dominated professions. My experience is that I have a far better chance of have productive relationships with the dude- bros than with Karen, Ainsley, and Kelley. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 11:56 AM |
| 18 | Male/Female Friendshipdrowsypillowprincess - I’m printing out your wisdom and putting it on my corkboard!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:32 PM |
| 15 | sea-lioning, and how to push back hardYou nailed it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 06:07 PM |
| 20 | Reading reviews for “Secrets of Playboy” is depressingly sobering for me. It’s a reminder that although some of society is on our side, so many lvm & pick-me’s still exist to victim blame/gaslight/further perpetuate the patriarchy. Why are evil dead men exempt from criticism? Hugh can burn in Hell.For the pickles who don't do math or have a calculator, that $1k a week adds up to a measly $52k a year. The trophy consorts og a ployamouros billionaire ahould have been paid more than that for the bs they put up with! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 05:14 PM |
| 7 | If you still live your life around the mindset "But what would my future HVM think about this?" - you are still stuck in that Pickme mode..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:51 AM |
| 2 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.Add two zeos yo it and make the gift really expensive jewelery, still not even close | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:12 PM |
| 5 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.There never been told how to regilate their emotions because society abd their worshipful boy-mom told them that the world (especially the female half of it) exists to wipe their ass!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:10 PM |
| 19 | Beware “The Harem” EffectBut there are so few female engineers that a manager inthat field generally would not even have enough females direct reports to create a harem. Advertising, PR, HR (in some companies), Marketing, and re estate sales are rife with this crap, however. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 02:06 PM |
| 51 | I'm really interested in how society in your country/culture 'discourages interactions in social spaces'!Southern culture I'd one of the most man-focuseffultures out there, and Southern Hospitality is merely a construct intended to support Southern men's fragile egos. Also the only recipients of such hospitality are white and Christian, so it's pretty exclusionary!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Ok what is up with this man and sleeping hats?He sure would.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 07:51 PM |
| 9 | It took me years to get out of the Pickme mindset."We can be real friends to men, they can't be real friends to us..." FOR REAL!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 07:47 PM |
| 219 | pickme glamorizing doing it all. there's no prize for doing it all🤡Actual homemakers who are being supported at an appropriate financial level as opposed to being treated like unpaid longterm bangnannys, do not snark about this shit. They have the funds to outsource housework to someone else. This woman makes this into a sparky joke by she's simmering inside about the fact she doesn't have any spare time in her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 07:36 PM |
| 364 | There was a man masturbating and watching porn at a coffee shop I like to go to, have they no pride or dignity?I understand he wasn't with yoyr time, but why didn't you instruct a coffee ship employee to call the cops. He behavior is considered "lewd and lacivios" I'm any juristiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:30 PM |
| 9 | Why I DON’T EXPLAIN. On boundaries, disappointment, and self-shielding: You don’t have to explain to an emotionally abusive man why he isn’t allowed to hurt you anymore.Can I assume that you didn’t get physical with him the second time around? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 02:14 PM |
| 23 | BBC: "As many as 1 in 3 couples deal with financial infidelity." Don't let it be you--your financial vetting should be your strongest vettingWhich is another reason not to be w a guy you aren't married to - even if you didn't know about the money, as a wife yiy are entitled to some portion of thd 401k during a divorce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 02:06 AM |
| 9 | Wealthy men and mistressesNot to mention the fact that (at least in the US), 12 and 15 year olds aren't allowed in bars!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 10:21 PM |
| 67 | Scrote wants his mortgage paid offI stopped reading this dreck at "my boyfriend of 8 years". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 10:07 PM |
| 202 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetenceHow much you wanna bet the hubs encouraged the kids go do this?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 10:07 PM |
| -11 | Bad Vegan- Cults and Pickup Artist techniquesUnpopular opinion: most vegans aren't in ii bc of their love of animals. My one friend who is militantly vegan basically flinched anytime she's around a housepet-including my cat! Vegans I'd just a polite window dressing for serious eating disorders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 11:21 AM |
| 3 | he wants a FWB that acts like a GF or who eventually falls in love with him. he wants the GF experience on his terms and with zero investment. how about ... no!I belive that there was a | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:17 AM |
| 29 | Nah sis.She wears a hijab and as a consevative religious Muslim, she should know that under the Shariah, it’s her husband’s duty to suppirt her not the other way around!, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 01:47 PM |
| 9 | Can we talk about how hard it is not to internalize the message that it’s a woman’s responsibility to “keep her man interested”?You don’t need to bring spice to the table - you ARE the spice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Whilst we are on the topic of being competitive with men.. A man is trying his hardest to get me fired at work.If You don’t mind sharing, what are his allegations against you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 06:19 PM |
| 19 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭Assigning herself the mom roe is also probably a “I’m not like the other girls… while they sluttily strut around in stilettos, I’m making sure you get all your daily servings of fruits!” flex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 07:45 PM |
| 169 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭That they NOT rape you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 07:42 PM |
| 82 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭New FDS Rule: don’t play mommy for any male that you didn’t squeeze out of your very own vagina (or have gone to the trouble of legally adopting)! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 02:41 PM |
| 1003 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭Is “sweetheart“ now a euphemism for unpaid female labor? For fucks sake, if she should a job at a grocery store if she like doing this that much! At least she would get some money out of it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 12:22 PM |
| 29 | As a Ukrainian living in USA, here is how most of my dates used to go for the past 10 yearsIt's sexual fetishization, not a fine -tuned understanding of European history that makes these scrotes mistakes you for another nationality! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 01:30 PM |
| 40 | If men in a war zone can manage this, your pathetic ex has no excuse…Most of our couch crature/scrotes think that just bc they play the World of War craft, that they are battle ready. The fact is most of them would pee in their pants of they actually had to defend themselves against a Russian invasion... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 01:49 PM |
| 25 | When men in professional settings treat you like sh*t when you don't wear makeup. I'm sorry, was this supposed to be a date?!My parents are Indisn am Muslims who immigrated to the US in the late 70s. Sometime in the early 80 Diane Sawyer, who at the time worked for the TV show 60 Minutes, aired an interview with the former leader of Iran, the Ayatollah Khomeni. Prior to airing the segment she went to great pains to counsel her viewers not to be shocked to see her - (gasp) - without makeup during the interview (due to his ideology, Khomeni would only entertain being interviewed by a female journalist if she covered her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:29 PM |
| 8 | When men in professional settings treat you like sh*t when you don't wear makeup. I'm sorry, was this supposed to be a date?!Ah hahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:19 PM |
| 22 | If you broke just say that. If you’re insecure just say that. If you’re inadequate just say that. Men get on my damn nerves. One minute relationships should be 50/50. The next minute if we are too independent and have our shit together then we’re unqualified. Pick a damn struggle.And at least an educated “Barb the Builder“ has her education/career/money to lean on if her man morphs into a LVM and leves her for that mythical 21 year old secretary/waitress/paralegal /hospital assistant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:11 PM |
| 10 | If you broke just say that. If you’re insecure just say that. If you’re inadequate just say that. Men get on my damn nerves. One minute relationships should be 50/50. The next minute if we are too independent and have our shit together then we’re unqualified. Pick a damn struggle.Why, a HVM who has also achieved great things! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How to train a scroteIt's less effort to order your groceries on Instacart...really!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 09:34 PM |
| 96 | Ladies, any tips on how to identify if you’re ready to date, especially coming out of a long term toxic relationship?Yiyr ready to date when you are not emotionally invested in your outcome of the date (ie whether he asks you out on a second date, or you two never lay eyes on each other again.. ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 08:13 PM |
| 58 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerYeah, like Gates, Obama, Macron, and Zuck are all thinking "boyyyy isn't my life pathetic. I wish some basement dwelling scrote would invite me over for an all night pizza and porn-fest"!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:05 PM |
| 96 | Abusers wait to reveal his true colours until you’re baby trapped. Vet ruthlessly by enforcing your boundaries during courtship.I am, and was formerly married to a scrote who would rip my head off every time mummy-ji whined about some imagined snub done to her by either me or my parents. The two kiss fucking miserable years of my life.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:31 AM |
| 73 | Abusers wait to reveal his true colours until you’re baby trapped. Vet ruthlessly by enforcing your boundaries during courtship.Wait wait don't tell me....the man and his mom are South Asian right?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:24 AM |
| 16 | Financially abusive Scrote strings along his 4.5 year live-in girlfriend, finally "gets engaged", yet cries when he finds out that he wasn't entitled to ALL of her money after all, etc. Next, he pitches it to the audience about whether he should take the money, then dump her any way.The only man that a woman need be honest with about her money is the "tax man"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 08:09 PM |
| 137 | Misogyny at its finest. I chortled.Only when the thing that they are handling is their dick!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 08:04 PM |
| 60 | Women who implement FDS are "groomed, hot, successful, with standards", says FDS-hating manGuilty. As. Charged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Can we talk about the difference befween Anna Delvey and The tinder swindler?Yes - this!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, what have been your experiences with dating men that have unresolved and untreated intergenerational trauma?Dump them...unless you want to provide free psychiatric services, that is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 01:11 PM |
| 36 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.While I agree with you general sentimen, future employers CANNOT “see through your tax info that you did work on only fans”. Employers verify job and educational history but the IRS will not share tax info with them. More lI Kelly a fellow employee will rat you out…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:56 PM |
| 12 | Why do dating apps bring out the worst in men? | the guardian articleI live in the US - a culture that worships greed and capitalism. I have never put down a deposit for a shopping cart. Must be a European thing…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻♀️Well actually, there is a saying “Whete age is Queen, he is King”! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 01:18 PM |
| 19 | Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected?I mean….my god! Did he think he was inducting you into a cult or something?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 02:11 PM |
| 16 | Would a HVW make nice with an ex’s new girlfriend for the sake of the kids?Yeah look at the site ChumpLady.com for more guidance on how it's not your job to jointly hosts Christmases with your ex, and how kids can readily adapt to new Christmas traditions... All that bulletin does is traumatized women even more.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Explaining South-Asian mama boy's culture and how it effects the women and the men caught in itUhh...some of the most toxic misogyny in Pahtun culture comes from their original triball pre-islsmic culture (ie bride swapping in order to settle tribal feuds). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 74 | Male Scrote tried to silence meSo...it's disrespectful to ask others to respect your time? What a gaslighter....gaslight..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 11:04 AM |
| 47 | No 🥰While it’s horrible that Betty killed 2 people, she was basically brainwashed by her conservative blue collar Catholic upbringing to idolize marriage and worship her husband, with the understanding that being a good Catholic woman would get her gods protection. God forsook her and she snapped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:12 PM |
| 333 | No 🥰No point in waiting bc when he becomes the man he's supposed to be he will dump you to be with the woman he supposed to be with@ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 97 | Dump him firstBLOCK…DELETE…REPEAT! Do not give any any ex EVEN ONE SECOND of your unpaid emotional labor!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 02:20 AM |
| 44 | So, who else is on a post-valentines dumping spree?I belive this is a textbook definition of "baby trapping". He gets to latch on to a woman with a good job and benefits who will pay all the bills and buy him a gaming system so that he does not punch himself in the head, because her feminine conditioning tells her it's her job to keep the family together at any cost!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:02 PM |
| 32 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!For real…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 05:14 PM |
| 47 | A teenage boy full of gratitude to his mom & treating her after years of sacrifice is a good thing to see. This is what a (possible) baby HVM looks like. Take note, lurkersSo wholesome that I want to cry…….. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:51 AM |
| 401 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitThis has got to be a troll!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:32 PM |
| 30 | HVM will have no issue with taking accountability for their actionsThe best way to shut the “but it’s just a jooooooke“ line down is to look around the room and announce to the scrote “well, I don’t see anyone laughing. Clearly, you are not as funny as you think you are!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:15 AM |
| 58 | The audacity! Time to abandon or murder your pet, as all good women doIt’s mainly because they have a sting identity abs a community around them that isn’t scrote-oriented! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:22 PM |
| 14 | Don’t let family stop you from breaking the pickme cycle!!!Someone should remind this wannabe boy-mom that in fact, the young woman is her daughter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Toxic Scrote gets angry at his gf for having a bath every night, even when she pays for half of the utilities😒Someone should tell him thst she went ahead and threw the whole man out. Wonder if she is an GDS disciple..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | My friend says "I don't like men that are kind to me, they're boring, I like my men a little bit toxic" how to respond to her? She keeps ending up with trashy men, and when they use and discard her I'm the first person she comes running to and I'm sick of it😩BLOCK AND DELETE THIS PICKME!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 04:34 PM |
| 69 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!"IN VINO VERITAS" In wine there is truth (ancient Roman saying) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 186 | Saw this on IG. Could say I'm shocked but sadly I'm not.Wow I just vomited jn my mouth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 10:03 PM |
| 137 | Need advice…also learn from my mistake!As a woman who is currently being stalked by a man I dated in my picked, no self worth days (25 years ago in the late 1990s to boot!), you need to be blind and cutting. "I WANT NO FURTHER CONTACT WITH YOU" (followed by block & delete) is the ONLY thing you should say to him. If you try to be the nice girl, he will act like he does not understand and stomp all over your boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 14 | Apparently he found out his gf follows FDS and wrote about their first dateShe should have claimed she's not on Reddit, or had a FDS-specific account, like alot of people do!. He wouldn't know her reddit name unless she stated it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 12:24 AM |
| 24 | Apparently he found out his gf follows FDS and wrote about their first dateWhyyyyy did she tell him she followed FDS??? If any man asked, I be like fds who??? It's almost like we need to operate like a secret society.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 12:21 AM |
| 39 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .Nah, I fear that the scrotes would prolly just r#pe each other! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 07:15 PM |
| 48 | He’s just like every other man I’ve met, except this one has a working machine of complicit enablers.Her female mentor essentially served the writer up like a party appetizer in order to keep in the good graces of famous scrote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 03:50 PM |
| 43 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.Actually, single women over 30 was our damn dishes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Resistance from Extremely Boundaried People on Basic Boundaries They Hold ThemselvesIs the scrote in a senior position? Does she need the scrote’s goodwill to remain employed/ progresss in her career at your place of work? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:02 PM |
| 50 | Trust your feelings and the strategyOP, can I ask how you broke up with him? Ie what sort of preparations did you make, what “script” did you use, did you do it in person or digitally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 03:55 PM |
| 28 | Backfooting: the Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You to Know AboutAs long as they apply their strength to being the mommy bangmaid for the scrote as opposed to powering their own hopes and dreams with such strength! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 07:45 PM |
| 9 | “The power of vulnerability” and How it impacts our lives. Help me see this through the lens of FDS? My therapist shared this, and I’m not quite sure what to think about it. Discussion?As a woman of color, I've always found Brene Brown's advice to be problematic on the way Sheryl Sanbag'sLean In trope was a problematic, irrelevant Karenesque trope. I mean what does be brave mean to woman like me who are constantly being disrespected by the world? In the same vein, "be vulnerable" might be great advice fir a rich white lady, protected by law. Not for me, no ma'am I will keep on keeping my cards close to my vest (especially while dealing with men!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:05 PM |
| 74 | Scrote insults his girlfriend to his friends, then takes joy in telling her about itIt is sad to hear that LGBTQ women mimic the LVM dynamic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 08:55 PM |
| 5 | A story from a recovering pickme & libfem. Embarrassed to tell my friends what happened to me and do not have family I can talk about this with. Hoping to find support here.EXACTLY!!!!!! “Due process“ is for criminal prosecutions in a court of law. You DO NOT need to give any man due process, the benefit of the doubt, or a chance. If you are bored, miserable, or unhappy - just leave! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 08:49 PM |
| 24 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.Your future DIL will love you! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:47 PM |
| 15 | On dating married menA man is either married or divorced. This categorization exists in the binary in the same way a woman is either pregnant or not pregnant!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 03:15 PM |
| 140 | Man wants to bring his young daughter on a first dateI saw a vomit inducing tiktok where a bald, beer bellied fugly scrote was plqcing a trail of sephora makeup palettes, like breadcrumbs. down his driveway and thru the front door. He then tells his 2 daughters not to touch them because he is "trying to get you girls new mommy"! Insulting to the actual mom, who unless she is in rehab or a mental institution is still around and actually ISthe girls' mom. Also exactly who does this cheap ugly fuck think he is that he is going to get a bang-nannymaid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 03:10 PM |
| 26 | How much of an issue are "leagues" in dating?Yes, we should always remember that HVW are in a league of their own and WE are the CHOOSERS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 01:16 PM |
| 54 | Hearing about scrotes everywhere I goNot to mention the not so subtle negative on his girlfriend business venture by publicly discussing his preference for bathing in dish soap at her place of business (her market stand). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 11:56 AM |
| 79 | Gaslighting women into staying with LVM"Just stuff your own stocking"....hehe my college roommate took that advice by ditching her LVM and buying a vibratory to "stuff" said stocking! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 01:05 AM |
| 192 | Apparently not wanting to be assaulted in the bedroom is "vanilla"....fucking scary as hell and when you have no blood flowing to your brain you literally cannot say stop... Yeah, and that totally makes a mockery of BDSM's stupid idea of a safe word!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 03:36 PM |
| 15 | Pretty Privilege is Real, But False and Fleeting.That's also why the modeling industry developed a fetish for Eastern european & South American women. They were too poor and desperate (and brought over on easily revocable work visas) to demand better working conditions and wages!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:41 PM |
| 7 | Men of ALL ages will take advantage of women when it suits them- 62 year old man whines that his girlfriend wants him to contribute rent to her home.Well then, reading comprehension isn‘t a strength for either of us, huh? :) I didn’t say anywhere that any waitress was obligated to date the scrote - I merely questioned why “Mr. Simple Taste” did not pursue a realtionship with someone who most definitely lived a simple life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 07:12 PM |
| -4 | Men of ALL ages will take advantage of women when it suits them- 62 year old man whines that his girlfriend wants him to contribute rent to her home.Oh I see…so you are all for this scrote sponging off his girlfriend then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Men of ALL ages will take advantage of women when it suits them- 62 year old man whines that his girlfriend wants him to contribute rent to her home.Unless they have hooked up with a rich guy, they generally have low incomes. Therefore the only pleasures they can afford are simple pleasures, not million dollars homes like this scrote is squatting in! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 46 | Men of ALL ages will take advantage of women when it suits them- 62 year old man whines that his girlfriend wants him to contribute rent to her home.Since he's a man oF $iMpLE pLEA$uRe$, then why thr f- doesn't he go date (and cohabit) with a waitress?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:47 PM |
| 18 | Diamonds Are Foreversorry Jade baby, stock options cannot be transferred from the grantee to another person (but they cab be cased in to buy a ring or a honeymoon!) Best to just get you own job at a start up and your own stock options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:17 PM |
| 198 | Diamonds Are ForeverActually, I find pre-IPO stock options to be a girls best friend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 01:23 PM |
| 43 | So he’s too “busy” to date, but not too busy to use you for sex? 🤔The only thing she has to lose is regular sex…..and I suspect it’s crappy second rate p@rn-sick, limp d*ck sex too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 05:06 PM |
| 99 | Relationship status = singleYou need to stop exposing you4 daughter to this…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 06:51 AM |
| 13 | The TV Show Series, “And Just Like That…”Yes, but the questioning mind is why wasn't Stevie bathing his own damn mother?? It's very "Eastern European Pickme" of Magda to insinuate that Miranda was never loving until she took up a duty that wasn't her's to start with! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 02:02 PM |
| 31 | Read this if you’ve ever wondered “what if I gave my lvx a second chance…?”Hell, they won't even change for them b/c they are sooo lazy & unmotivated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 01:57 PM |
| 0 | Was your dad an HVM?A "Medium-Value Man" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 08:23 PM |
| 39 | Tired seeing sports on the television at restaurants.But at least, it wasn’t “Sportsball”! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 08:53 PM |
| 46 | Pickmeisha spottedLet me tell you I abuse my romantic partner without actually saying I abuse my romantic partner….. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:46 PM |
| 102 | Men puts more thought into a high-school sweetheart proposal than the "proposal" to his current wife. Of course the onus gets put on the woman and she gets told to cOmUNicatE.BINGO!!!! His though process is “I’ve already baby-trapped her so she’s in no position to reject me”! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 10:45 PM |
| 2 | I have no wordsScrote‘s pissed about the hair towel because it destroys his fantasy image of “the natural beauty” who does not need to do a thing to maintain their physical appearance! Also, l doubt that this is they only asnine thing this guy has done - it‘s probably the cherry on top of the whipped cream on the shit sundae that he’s served her through the course of the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:17 PM |
| 34 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!Yeah, South Asian men don't buy women sh*t (namely because we come from a dowry culture where men think they are the prize and deserve to be showered with expensive gifts from a woman's family. They only Crack open their wallet when they finally land their Caucasian trophy girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 11:00 AM |
| 25 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!No matter how big a loser a man is, he thinks that it's women who need to compete for his attention and not the other way around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 10:55 PM |
| 53 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friendsSooooo many words when he could have just said “I’m a bitter misogynist”! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 03:15 PM |
| 67 | Sex work is not a "pure" service job like being a barista or a maid, it is undergirded by the commodification of the female body. Women are viewed and treated like goods.Contacting AIDS and STDs are not one of the risks of working traditional service jobs… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:05 PM |
| 109 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”"Why do you ask?" should be the go-to retort to men asking questions that they have no right expecting answers to. The question puts the burden back on the scrote to prove that he has a right to ask such a question, and takes the burden of providing sensitive information out of the handsome women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:49 PM |
| 5 | You should respond by leaving that nematodeWas he only aware of the daughters existence when he proposed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:28 PM |
| 10 | Neo burlesque...thoughts?I meant sport afros.... (damn autorrect) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 01:12 PM |
| 22 | Neo burlesque...thoughts?Some foid for thought: how welcome are women at these events who do not preform traditional white femininity (I guess the adjective "white" is redundant here)? I mean are women who are dark skinned, sport African, don't shave underarms, or wear a size 20 welcome to participate or are they mocked and shouted off the stage? If so, they are not empowering themselves they are simply preforming for the male gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 01:11 PM |
| 31 | Men and their innate habit of dating youngHell.. if pressed they'll admit it's only 14..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:19 AM |
| 57 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.More like "Tommorow's Incel"!🤣😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:18 PM |
| 206 | Men do really think like thisThat's quite the word salad for saying "selling your body"!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 08:47 PM |
| 6 | A woman’s worth is non-negotiable — your actions need to reflect that.Hence why fds Is so demonized in the manosphere….. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 08:17 PM |
| 8 | Men and grey hairAs a woman, the only box your pickme mom thinks you have th3 right to check is “in possession of a micro-peen” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:13 PM |
| 92 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endBut if you are a woc, not knowing english is a narrative that the scrotes will eat up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 05:02 PM |
| 40 | Truth in humor?😬I always joked thatPrince William propos3d to Waity Katiey because he looked in the mirror one morn8ng and saw his receding hairline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:56 PM |
| 10 | Don't stay for a guy that claims they don't know what they wantIt's should be the goal of every woman NOT to be "user-friendly"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:24 PM |
| 84 | Don't stay for a guy that claims they don't know what they wantThe appropriate clapback to a man who says that “he doesn’t know what he wants” is to say. ”well, I now know what I don’t want - YOU!!!!!!!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:31 AM |
| 19 | Who do you think is a High Value Woman TV female character?Nah, Joan was a pathetic pick-me. She was Rodger Alford's side piece of many years, and in typical scrote fashion, when he finally split up with his wife he dumped Josn for a 20-something! Also she was as Karen as hell to the firms first black female employee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 12:21 PM |
| 2 | You are not an equal opportunity employer. Your intimate relationships are not centers of civil rights. Your body and mind are not subject to anti-discrimination standards.Access to your vagina is a constitutional right (just like life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness) and the scrote should not be deprived of it without due process (ie a full courtroom trial). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:44 PM |
| 52 | UpdateCould you clarify something for us please? Your ex wouldn't be sleeping on your couch if you weren't opening the door when he shoes up. Why are you not drawing up some stiff boundaries? Why are you still letting your ex into your home? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 176 | You are not an equal opportunity employer. Your intimate relationships are not centers of civil rights. Your body and mind are not subject to anti-discrimination standards.“Go tell the EEOC” is my favored retort when I’m accused of discrimination for sticking to my dating standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:35 PM |
| 39 | What in the FUCK did I just readAgreed. However plus size women are particular products for this fuckery! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:26 PM |
| 243 | Sis needs helpAnd in a year, when the 20-somthing dumps him for a 20-something guy who's isn't balding, beer-bellied, or broken-dicked, she'll start getting inundated by emails voice-mails, text/Facebook/LikinedIn/Instagram messages from her ex creepily claiming "I'm thinking of you..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 29 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡She's not a regular hijack, she's a c0oL H!jAbI !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Gail Dines outing the libfems - we should make her talks popular to wake up our sistersBrilliant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 12:03 PM |
| 24 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡and they’re always snatched up by white women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 11:25 AM |
| 20 | The entire pole is a red flagThis wasn't about shaming the scrote. I was just pointing out in traditional Egyptian arranged marriage society (where he could find a young picklme to cater to his every whim), being old, bald, fat, boring or having bad breath would not preclude him from getting a match. Being addicted to drilugs or alcohol or being mentally ill would make most traditional Egyptian parents reject him for their daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 02:48 AM |
| 89 | The entire pole is a red flagHe must be quite the Uber-Scrote if he can't find a 20 something band-aid in Egypt. Must have drug/alcohol/mental problems. . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Miya Marcano: Another woman missing at the hands of a manOr at the least, get a deadbolt (they only open from the inside), which would stymie the attempts to open the door with a master key. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:03 PM |
| 10 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manThey suck his d!@& so hard EXACTLY because he is an unwashed mediocre white man like him!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 08:45 PM |
| 16 | Miya Marcano: Another woman missing at the hands of a manYour union should be advocating for you to work at home. Make sure the union had escalated the matter to C-Level execs. HR usually tried to bury any real problems - not resolve them. Also talk to you local poilece department and file a report with a sex crimes detective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 05:39 PM |
| 67 | I just learned that one of the biggest catalysts for men leaving their wives is having a child with special needs (the divorce rate climbs to 80 percent).Ooooh believe me, the pro-fetus crowd would put you in jail for your miscarriages too if they had the chance,,, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:22 PM |
| 14 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusHmmm… this might explain the white hot hatred many professional women receive from support staff (paralegals, nurses, secretaries ect.) in their profession. We’re taking away their potential to move up th3 social ladder@! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:05 PM |
| 24 | The “Wonderscrote”: How men function like corrupt corporations and literally say whatever they can to maximize how accessible women are and make themselves look as good as possible.While I agree that much of what is in the books you mentioned above is “scrote philosophy”, I strongly encourage FDS women to buy and read them (esp. the laws of power) to understand the psychology of the enemy. I would add “The Art Of War” to that list. When The 48 Laws Of Power was published in 1998, Vouge ran an article about the book and recommended it as good counterintelligence about how men think in the workplace and in dating. They interviewed a woman who had started implementing Green‘s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 36 | Women being more likely to be killed by a romantic partner or a family member than anyone else was one the worst facts I found out. Nothing is more heartbreaking than knowing you’re more at danger in your home than outsideSomeone should send this articles to all of the South Asian boy-moms out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 03:54 PM |
| 10 | WOC and our current complex feelings about missing woman media coverageLet's get real here - a black woman who emoted at the level Gabby did would have been deemed "threatening" by the police officers and have been shot!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 118 | And the award goes to...🤣WTF is going on here??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:52 PM |
| 58 | And the award goes to...🤣WTF is going on here?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:50 PM |
| 280 | Scrote steals from wife and gets mad when he can't anymore. DONT! GIVE! MEN! ACCESS! TO! YOUR! FINANCIALS!She needs to revoke the scrote's access to her! I mean what the fuck - someone should tell the asshole inlaws that it isn't the 18th century and the laws of coveture (where a married woman money and property pass into the control of the husband) no longer apply!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 08:27 PM |
| 66 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksDo keep in mind alot of us POC women are saying the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:16 PM |
| 4 | My Mom is a Pick Me. And I dont want her to pick me anymore.I’m curiou, why wasn’t the “tough love” inspired by James Dobson of “Focus on the Fascism” fame good enough for your step-father’s sonny-boy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 12:00 AM |
| 233 | Black women are not protected, LVM plans to rob a woman and goes to her home pretending to want her number.I have been told that if you want to report a creepy interaction with a man don’t just go to the front desk - they will shoo you away if an actual crime has not been reported yet. Instead, ask to speak to a detective in sex crimes. This usually keeps the receptionist from asking too many details and sine many male creexperts/stalkers/peeping toms end up commuting rape anyway, the local sex crimes squad is always happy to be made aware of the “up and coming talent”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 09:45 PM |
| 151 | We're finally seeing the effects of porn use in boys and menMy gawd….the “males and moms“. Every time I think we’ve hit rock bottom with men, there is a new depth to plumb! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 11:34 PM |
| 53 | Mental health is extremely important do not let men, money, career, friends, or anything stand in your way of the stability you deserve/need in that area.Yeah you are better off lying to the employer and saying you are having a root canal, or that the you are getting your kitchen remodeled and you have to be at home all day if you need an excuse for time off…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM?You never forget an expensive lesson…… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:47 PM |
| 59 | Weekend plans ruined by friend’s scrote bfI bet she’s worried that without her supervision, the scrote will start sexting or calling other women in his rotation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Times you need confort are good for vetting...A decade ago, when I worked with an autistic coworker I head that my grandmother died while at work. Sometime in the afternoon, he used his coffee breat to head over to a drug store and get me a condolence card. He signed it “I’m sad that you are sad about losing your grandma - John”. ok if this is what a neurotypical male colleague can do for someone - why shpuld you expect less from a man you are dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | No. No thank you. Please don't. Don't give stalkers more toolsWhat kind off makeup? Also I was thinking that a big floppy sunhat would mess with facial recognition tech | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:17 PM |
| 24 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveWhat language is this saying 8n? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:52 PM |
| 9 | 5’2 with an attitude and audacity.I had no idea that Oedipus was black!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:15 PM |
| 12 | I just had to unfriend someone on fb for sharing this. Scrotes will admit they’re only with women to use them and women will be in the comments like “🥰❤️😘” it’s so gross🙄🤢 I guess we should start telling men that unless they’re here to build us up they’re “dead weight” 🤷🏾♀️..and for my diamonds, furs, purses, Mercedes, massages, facials, organic groceries personal trainers, gym membership, hairdressers (hell, you all get the point by now....) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:15 PM |
| 262 | Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid.And after all that lady, HE’LL make you a divorced single mom while he cavorts with a 20 something secretary! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:39 PM |
| 31 | The dangers of the Slow Fade and circling back to small talk/Good morning textsYou don’t waste time calling home out - you just block and delet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Embarrassing. Don’t be like this! Focus on becoming a happier person not fixing scrotesM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 04:00 PM |
| 104 | Wanted to share this -Takes all those verbs in these 2 columns, add the word “play” to the term and suddenly, according to all of the scrotes and their kinkmeshias out there, it’s all kosher!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:50 PM |
| 101 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁Seriously, has this baby-man not heard of Amazon Prime. In many areas, things such as sanitary pad can be delivered the same day. Also Door Dash will deliver items from drug store in case baby man fear harm to his rep by being seen clutching sanitary supplies in public…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:59 PM |
| 20 | I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮Or an evangelical “Biblical Womanhood” culture…same position, different flavors! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 63 | Anybody following the Fresh and Fit situation?wait I thought only women are emotional…,.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Treat yourself like someone you care about, even when it's hard.It’s hilarious that woman whose life is an absolute train wr3ck by anyone’s definition has the audacity to say to you “good luck with your life”!,,,,, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:16 PM |
| 8 | The Mystery of Liz Wheeler’s HusbandPerhaps I'm behind times....but who the hell is this woman?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 09:20 PM |
| 44 | More reasons not to entertain pickmes - these girls know what they're doing to other women.MY GOD! I mean, it would be one thing if she put in that show to catch some LVM with a high network (ie a surgeon, investment banker, big lar attorney ect.). But she's doing it for "spouse man". No wonder the most mediocre of men feel like they don't have to put any effort into relationships- pickmes have convinced even the most pathetic of them that they deserve to be treated like a king!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 01:12 PM |
| 57 | “Pointing out toxic behavior is toxic 🤡”HELL YES it is judgmental - it's women judging that their physical/emotional health is more important that some scrotes kink! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 11:46 AM |
| 5 | Pay attention to signs of mother-son enmeshmentYup just about!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 08:29 PM |
| 32 | Don't help your man find a job. And don't help women who ask you to help theirsTHIS!!! Is see this all the time on professional networking sites for women and I am like honey, why don’t you ask for help in your career so that you can dump that leech!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:53 AM |
| 178 | He absolutely despises her.News flash: it’s not a team if only one person is pulling the weight in the relationship - it’s a master/slave scenario! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:21 AM |
| 171 | Woman Refuses To Coddle Man-child on a Date, Comments Are Full Of Man Babies Saying She Has No Empathy for Mental HealthEXACTLY THIS! We‘re not heartless to those who suffer mental illness - we just refuse to be their unpaid psychiatrist/therapist/emotionsl support animal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:51 AM |
| 65 | The “In capitalism, we all sale our bodies anyway” argumentWhile Wal-mart workers def have a lot of complaints about their employer, contracting clamydia and gonnorea are not among them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:41 PM |
| 74 | What's a 🚩red flag you encountered this week?But isn’t that red flag really about your purported “friend”, not 5he guy you were with. The subtext of her not so subtitle neg is “how on earth did a plain Jane boring basic b*tch like you lans such a high value man?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:23 PM |
| 15 | Why can’t they stop invading our spaces? This guy thinks he can waltz into a sub dedicated to women decorating their homes for advice. Mod thinks it’s fine despite complaints. He’s entitled to a “woman’s touch” I guess.Daman autocorrect! I meant “anything that posses a vagina”! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 04:47 PM |
| 20 | Why can’t they stop invading our spaces? This guy thinks he can waltz into a sub dedicated to women decorating their homes for advice. Mod thinks it’s fine despite complaints. He’s entitled to a “woman’s touch” I guess.This is a prime example of the patriarchal flex of demanding unpaid labor form anything taht possesses a Virginia. He could have asked his momma, he could have asked his big sis or a female cousin, he could have ask3s a pickle that he occasionally hoooks up with, he could have used the free interior decoration services provided by some of the better furniture stores, he could have paid a interior decorator or (if on a budget) an interior decorating student. But noooooooo, instea, he insists on c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 04:46 PM |
| 9 | Gamer husband, I can't believe what I read.Yeah, but at least in that case the dad is providing…this human lump is neither earning nor doing any of the work it takes to keep up a household! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:43 AM |
| 8 | Subtle FDS Themes Even in the PastMy favorite FDS-friendly song from that era is “my mama taught me you’d better shop around”! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:56 AM |
| 21 | Women are not a rescue plan for men.no, we are opened to perspectives that are FEMALE CENTERED and BENEFIT WOMEN without giving a thought to men‘s fragile feefees. Dont know if you are just naturally dense, or just a really crafty troll, but on this subreddit, men don’t matter - got it???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:20 PM |
| 43 | Women are not a rescue plan for men.Oh you sweet summer child! They don’t listen to us. Instead, they talk over us, cut us off, call us whiny, hormonal, and irrationally, threaten physical violence on us, stalk us on social media as well as IRL, ect, ect, ect. But hey, feel free to indulge in your “good people on both sides” fantasy at your own risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:16 PM |
| 84 | Withholding as a Form of AbuseYeah, it’s like a friend of mine once said: they [men] want to hold you emotionally at arms length, yet still feel entitled to get close enough to f*uck you…… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 03:36 PM |
| 50 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from peopleSomething tells me that the OP does not have a body similar to the “hot guy” photos posted on FDS on Fridays….. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 7 | Ghost of an ex haunted me todayYou should have blocked him immediately after you messaged him that you had moved on. You should have refused him any chance to clap back at you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 03:07 PM |
| 70 | Books where the woman is applauded for her growth in accepting a LVM make me SO angryYeah, FDS should start doing movie and book reviews that call out patriarchal scrote propaganda. It would help a lot of us deprogrammed from the toxic brainwashing we have endured for years on end! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Sugaring & seeking provider menYou do realize that a sugar daddy bf can dump you in a blink of an eye for a younger/skinnier/more "sex positive" model right? At least if your husband wanted a divorce, he would have to split martial assets with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Sugaring & seeking provider menWell if you want to be provided for, then why don't you just marry a man who wants to provide for you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 08:42 PM |
| 12 | Sugaring & seeking provider menAre you a troll, or just dense? FDS does NOT encourage getting sexually involved with a man unless you have dated him for some length of time, and he had made it clear that he wants to be in an exclusive relationship heading towards marriage. If you want more money, search for a new job or consider going back to school and gaining additional qualifications! “Sugaring” is a scrote euphemism for prostitution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 08:29 PM |
| 34 | Don’t be a forever fiancée. This scrote leaves his family high and dry with bad choice after bad choice.Geez what a blubbery whale he is! It’s a miracle he didn’t die of a heart attack before he died of COVID!,, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 08:15 PM |
| 246 | Why it always seemed like that one mean friend always gets the best boyfriend…It’s also quite telling of how brainwashed we are by the patrarchy that we label women who vocalize their preferences and boundries as “mean”! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:30 PM |
| 81 | I feel like a lot of outsiders say we do not care about Mental health.mY kINk is dating men who are managing their own mental health issues through, as needed, a combination of diet, excercise, professional therapy, and medication. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Another winner I came across today .. I’ve had OLD profile for less than 24hrsHey, he’s helping you doge the bullet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:51 PM |
| 3 | If Miranda was a man, no one would have viewed him as the villain.If Gordon was a woman, he couldn’t keep a job manning the grill at McDonalds! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:33 PM |
| 48 | Sis, runExcept that she referred to him as a “partner”, not a “spouse”. Thus, she is truly up sh*t creek when he dumps her for another model! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:32 AM |
| 50 | "You need to forgive!"Yes this. Hong is putting yourself back together so you can go back out in the world. FOrgIVenEsS is scrote- centered and its about making sure that they are never uncomftable or have to face consequences for their misdeeds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Wise words from Christine de pizanwho Knew FDS existed in the Renaissance?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:04 PM |
| 53 | This is very smartOr even better, no ring, no cohabitation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:36 PM |
| 11 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseGot some single mom friends and it seems like people feel like single moms should pay for the sin of being single moms by living on scraps…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 10:13 AM |
| 59 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseTip if you are an affluent single woman of color NEVER use a white female relator. Karen will jack up yor offer in less time than it takes for her to chug down a White Claw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:57 AM |
| 11 | Never go to a "life coach"Yup, women manage their physical and mental health issues through medication and therapy. Scrotes just expect the rest of the world to accommodate their undiagnosed or untreated issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:50 AM |
| 40 | How could any woman sacrifice this much??It’s a huge red flag that he is discussing his domestic financial arrangements with his dude-bros for approval. What next? Is he going to discuss the intimate details of his sex life too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:44 AM |
| 156 | That time I walked out before a date even started.Oh it’s worse than that - a couple of plus-sized friends have told me that men have more of less come out and said that plus size women should acquiesce to some horrifying, dangerous, and humiliating kinks because random dusty scrote deigned to be seen in public with them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 185 | That time I walked out before a date even started.Pick-me moms who think that their little penis holders are gods gift to mankind… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:35 PM |
| 12 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneYes, I was going to suggest Chump Lady too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:19 PM |
| 8 | Strategies for responding to stupid rude “joking” demeaning comments from menShowing car at car shos in a cool and unusual hobby!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:36 PM |
| 14 | "A WOMAN turns 18 every minute". Suddenly they're calling us women not FeMaLeS when they want to justify paedophilia 🤢🤬Aaaaaaand that's one more woman who wants nothing to do with you, scrote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?Send a copy of this message to the head or HR and the General Counsel of his company. Ask them if this is how they want their brand represented online dinner. Fight fire with fire.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:31 AM |
| 23 | I was calling out Pickminique on why NOT to date guys with mental health issues, because I grew up with a man WITH serious mental health issues which seriously affect my own mental health (Note: she didn't like it)Yup "dating I'd not a democracy" But the scrotes were never expected to act as it were - no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 35 | Gaslighting me by telling me not being comfortable with sex talk with a stranger is “unhealthy” 🤢 Analysis in the comments“I want someone to accept me for me” - well lets Not waste anymore of each other’s time, go out there and find that someone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 44 | “Looking for a woman who can keep up”They funny thing is that every man that I have known who claims women his age can't keep up with them is a torn up tired looking man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 05:21 PM |
| 7 | "He Might Not Be A Good Partner To You, Doesn't Make Him A Bad Person"Basically your clapback should be along the lines of IDGAF!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 19 | "He Might Not Be A Good Partner To You, Doesn't Make Him A Bad Person"Vetting is focused on whether he is a good person for you. Resist the attempts by scrotes and pickmeshias to twist your arm into declaring an unsuitable match as "a nice guy"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 3 | If he asks you to change... Sis, be careful of religious men trying to use you as a placeholder girlfriend before they find their final destinationThere are SE Asian Muslims in Indonesia and Malaysia. No, this scrote gets off the power play of making women change for them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 02:47 PM |
| 3 | If he asks you to change... Sis, be careful of religious men trying to use you as a placeholder girlfriend before they find their final destinationPracticing Muslim here - I think the question you need to ask these types is “if you are so interested in Muslim women, then why don’t you partner up with one of the millions of them already out there in the world?” Why does This scrote think that he has the privilege of forcing someone to change their world view and belief? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 10:54 PM |
| 34 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Scrotes care because they recognize that the FDS message is powerful, and the more women are attracted to it, the less pickmeshias there will be out in the wild for scrotes to use and abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:37 PM |
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