Embarrassing. Don’t be like this! Focus on becoming a happier person not fixing scrotes

tiavarga · 2021-07-02T15:03:58+00:00

Damn…why broadcast to the world you are the biggest PickMeisha ever? She doesn’t love herself.

—NOT Barb the Builder

proudpine · 2021-07-02T15:09:10+00:00

Just the fact that she knows about her ex’s relationships after her…WHY? And presumes that those relationships are happy and calm? Wtf?

frustratedmarxistfem · 2021-07-02T18:47:46+00:00

You know what? I am so tired of this pathetic shit being told to us to like a tragic, romantic story. Nothing tragic about it. You let men walk all over you, you have no standards, you entertain foolishness and refuse to let go when its time. Thats on you, sis. I understand where it comes from but its time to wake up.

feelgoodlost_ · 2021-07-02T16:23:03+00:00

Scrotes don’t change unless they want to, they stay the same with upgrades that they can’t maintain. Scrotes gon’ scrote. They don’t change for the next one, typically stay the same but keep on the mask longer. Go to build a bear or IKEA, don’t entertain a man that is a project with missing pieces and takes too much imagination and work to function. Pass

queenofswordsxxx · 2021-07-02T18:51:57+00:00

Imagine if she spent her time & energy actually FLIPPING HOUSES she’d be so much better off emotionally and financially lmao

Also: you’re not Shakespeare, tragedy is NOT romantic.

FDS-GFY · 2021-07-02T15:39:23+00:00

This is a lifetime pickmeisha award

arnezuara · 2021-07-02T14:49:53+00:00

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2021-07-02T19:40:25+00:00

What pisses me off is that it is not the other way around. How nice would it be if my ex's would have built me up instead of causing me grief....must be nice, must be nice

TumbleweedForeign699 · 2021-07-02T15:59:51+00:00

I right now am mourning all the time energy and emotion I wasted on a LVX and how it didn’t make him treat me better. I guess all I can do is learn from it and not try to take on any “projects” again. I overvalued him and he was /ison a pedestal. (Working on it.) I was not objective and didn’t vet. I would make myself accept the new low / ever lowering standards he set for a “relationship”. and it still hurts to see the potential I see just isn’t what he IS.

I feel sorry for the woman who wrote it. Didn’t read the article ngl thought it may upset me more but I presume she doesn’t have the insight that it’s not a flex …

notwistary · 2021-07-02T16:22:25+00:00

And she still doesn't learn. I know way too many women in these situations. Women are not rehab centers for low value men.

Sage_Planter · 2021-07-02T17:32:50+00:00

The worst part is the end. Not only did she waste her years building up other men, she's now inadvertently doing it without even recognizing it. He's eight years younger and wants a family. They're not a good fit so she's just setting herself up for another "and he ended up happily married with kids."

poppinkitty · 2021-07-02T17:29:05+00:00

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

Lykah · 2021-07-03T03:10:58+00:00

For the love of everything that's holy, I get that she has low self esteem, by why does she want to infect us with it? This piece makes a really convincing argument for therapy. What is she trying to prove by this? Does she really think those men put her on a pedestal? There are men who spit on the very mothers who birthed, nurtured, loved and protected them, does she really think she's the exception? 🤣🤣🤣

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-07-02T17:12:13+00:00

Very sad.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-07-03T10:18:43+00:00

This seemed like an article on self harm.

K0rla · 2021-07-02T18:21:32+00:00

She seems to let things happen very passively, instead of taking action and being honest regarding what she really wants.

ububTkuc · 2021-08-27T16:00:36+00:00

Title	Embarrassing. Don’t be like this! Focus on becoming a happier person not fixing scrotes
Author	monch-bred
Upvotes	164
Comments	27
Date	July 2, 2021 2:44 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ocbjkk/embarrassing_dont_be_like_this_focus_on_becoming/
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