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STAY WOKEproudpine/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:45 PM
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167

Ah, Reddit. The place that will try to convince you that men with diaper and pissing fetishes are totally common and normal, but that there are no men who want a stay at home wife who dedicates her life to caring for their children and making the household run smoothly. I’m sure it’s not just dusty scrotes mad because they can’t afford a SAHW…right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:51 AM
22

I’m sorry that you were violated in this way. He clearly meant to send a message by sending the undies and pad - and nothing else - to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:26 PM
65

Literally no one says men can’t have preferences 😂 Literally all they talk about is their preferences, shouting “I’M AN ASS MAN” into the void as though anyone gives a damn 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:53 PM
148

Most efficient: delete Hinge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:47 PM
17

I love ask polly! This is another one of my all-time favorites. https://www.thecut.com/2014/09/ask-polly-why-dont-men-i-date-ever-love-me.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:14 PM
15

I do think that high value men love to invest in and provide for their partners, and that it behooves us to lean back a bit and receive. A lot of FDS guidelines revolve around this idea: letting him initiate, plan and pay for dates, letting him come to you, etc. So in some sense, yes, men want to feel needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:11 PM
13

This is so sad, those poor babies. At least with one good parent in the home they have stability, attention, good food, proper beds :( I hope she was able to prove his neglect and get custody in the end? Even if so, they endured awful things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:12 PM
46

The problem is that most states in the US currently award custody 50/50 physical custody unless there is proof of some EGREGIOUS abuse. Which means the kids are with the abuser with no protection from the other parent 50% of the time. Many women stay for this reason. Know this before judging. We need to work together to change laws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:59 AM
179

I cannot stress this enough - the right guy for you is going to take your concerns seriously! He will hear them out and consider them thoughtfully. You’re in for a life of misery if he won’t do that now. Strippers are the least of the concerns you will need to work together on in married life (take it from someone married a decade with 2 kids).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:03 PM
431

Holy red flags 🚩 Not only does he defend this guy, he got mad at you for pointing out his crappiness. Personally I’d cancel the wedding now. It’ll be easier and cheaper than after he inevitably has strippers at his own bachelor party right before your wedding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:05 PM
5

SIS I SPIT MY DRINK OUT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 11:18 PM
11

I got pregnant with my perfect, beautiful children on the first cycle - both times! - in my late 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 12:06 AM
54

My husband and I did go for a walk and get coffee on our first date, after dinner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:03 AM
185

Why not just like, not? Why are they obsessed with us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:58 AM
439

She is way too good looking for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:36 PM
73

I told my now-husband that if he wanted to propose, I'd like him to make sure it's a conflict-free diamond with a thin pave band. This way he still had some latitude to make choices about the ring, while making sure I'd like it too. He proposed with a $20K ring with a Canadian diamond and a thin pave band (I know the price now from insurance documents). That was, at the time, about 3 months of his take-home pay. He did not take on debt to buy the ring. It was important to me to see how much he'd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:19 PM
1

Yuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:52 PM
59

Yeah no one who weighs 115 to 125 is a size 12-16 American. That would be UK sizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:23 PM
74

Nevermind I googled it. So he’s supposedly American? What’s up with the size 12-16 waist then? Sounds like satire written by a British person who didn’t realize sizing is different in America.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:19 PM
84

What is 2A?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:15 PM
44

And then cue the men and pick-mes patting him on the back. 😲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:28 AM
10

Most poor/struggling people know it’s a bad idea to get a $59k+ SUV though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:30 AM
15

It means he lives far beyond his financial means and now has bad credit. Whether men who do that are “ok guys” is up to you to decide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:18 AM
234

“I’m fighting for my f%#¥%!g life!!!!!!!!!” -R Kelly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:54 PM
32

I met my husband at a get-together hosted by mutual friends when I was 31.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:12 AM
14

Too much work 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:09 PM
1065

I swear some men have life so easy that they actively create problems for themself for excitement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:51 PM
79

Until your divorce is final. No exceptions. I speak from experience! ETA reason: obviously, you need time to heal, regroup, and stabilize. Until then you are vulnerable. But even more importantly, the kind of men who will date you before you’re divorced are NOT WORTH YOUR TIME ANYWAY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:12 PM
41

I completely agree. As a white woman I am enraged, exhausted and demoralized & acknowledge that I don’t know the half of it first-hand. I will keep my ears and heart open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:03 PM
2

Hoooo boy I resonate with all of this so much right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:16 PM
18

I don’t know if you’re a religious person but I will pray for you/send positive vibes into the universe for a just resolution to your situation ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:54 AM
339

Translated from scrotese: “She Divorced Me Because She Had Too Much Self Respect To Be My Maid”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:57 AM
79

I dated a guy who told me this constantly. He said it so many times I was like ok then, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:03 PM
34

My thoughts exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:35 AM
81

Ohhh the article I read said he is 22. The age gap makes a lot more sense in this context, what an absolute piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:25 AM
393

How is he so bald at 22 years old 👁👄👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:17 AM
52

I could’ve written this. Right there with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:05 PM
130

How do you know he’s on Tinder & what photos he’s using? He should be blocked and deleted. And if you saw him because you’re on Tinder too, well… But it’s true, OLD is full of trash, and that’s why I wouldn’t touch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:39 PM
506

Can’t turn a hoe into a husband 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:21 PM
144

LOL at the part about women college applicants paying more attention to their applications and making sure transcripts are sent in, and appealing to the moms of men college applicants to make sure they remind their sons to have transcripts sent in at the dinner table. It’s always some woman’s responsibility! Who will think of the poor men 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:52 PM
312

A lot of guys suddenly stop giving a shit when the pu$$y is out of order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:25 PM
16

I used to date a guy who looks exactly like this but bald. LMFAO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:17 PM
48

I never relaxed my standards and did end up married to a good-looking, 6 ft tall, 6 figure-earning man with a full head of hair, no debt or children. And I’m a great woman, but not, like, unattainably great. I’m just like all of you sisters. Don’t listen to the crap anyone feeds you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:14 PM
185

Who has time for this bullshit? NOT YOU. You have better things to do with your time than all the thought and effort you’re putting into this. You could be doing something that earns you money, lengthens your life, enriches your spirit, betters the world!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:20 PM
30

Congratulations to you!! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:52 PM
123

This is an example of what being a pick-me who is “fine with a non-diamond budget engagement ring” gets you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:59 PM
52

👁👄👁 Men are a scam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:13 PM
252

Firstly, I call bullshit on her genitals being “disfigured.” If they were, she’d be referred to a surgeon by her gynecologist. Tearing happens, and if the repair for some reason wasn’t adequate, there are things they can do further. I just don’t want all of our sisters who aren’t mothers out here thinking that if they have kids they’ll walk around with disfigured genitalia for the rest of their life. Secondly, I’ve seen a lot of women use this type of thing as an example for why you don’t have c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:10 PM
16

Ma’am I am ⚰️ 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:53 AM
137

I’d write “get a divorce” on one of the little slips of paper and put it at the top of the jar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:03 PM
106

This shit here? This is why I’m on this sub. You are awesome. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:46 PM
79

Hahahaha classic! I also have an ex who would tell anyone who’d listen that I cheated. Truth is that I dumped him for repeatedly lying, then got with someone else, but because HE didn’t want the breakup I was cheating 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:21 PM
75

Stories such as this absolutely give me life 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 11:51 AM
5

My thoughts exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:29 PM
26

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:54 PM
384

🥂 proud of you for keeping your boundary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:08 PM
220

Just one quick question: if women don’t have inherent value, why won’t you leave us alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:18 PM
15

this guy fucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:19 AM
314

He needs to be euthanized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:08 PM
16

Ooof that tracks. Insert the photo of big Ed exhaling, looking up and crying here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:02 PM
65

1 Corinthians 8 There is none other God but one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:01 AM
288

Typical. Two men acting like absolute buffoons and the woman asks if she’s the asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:53 AM
63

I like the idea of stepping over all of that peasantry ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:53 AM
453

TLDR: nothing is men’s fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:24 AM
196

I’m sorry for chuckling but that is sooo pathetic, he tried so hard to cheat but not one woman was interested 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Enjoy your loser-free life 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:25 PM
133

Look at me. In the eyes. Listen to me. NO. Not ever. Only after at least one of you has left the job and that is only if you don’t have a tight industry. Which let’s be honest, of course you do. So don’t. smacks you with a rolled up newspaper NO. Even if a man seems high value, and like he would be mature about it at work, you won’t know until you vet them thoroughly by dating and then it’s too late. You never know how someone will react to a breakup. JUST NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:55 AM
11

damn. One of the best things I’ve ever read. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:51 AM
3

I AM SO GLAD I REFUSED TO DATE MEN WITH KIDS. I love kids! They are amazing. But they are a HUGE responsibility (if you’re doing it right) and you have to be damn sure their father will be doing his part or else you’re signing yourself up for years of misery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:41 PM
6

YIKES ON BIKES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:33 PM
10

I know you’re not looking for advice but have you tried the pill? I used to have extremely painful periods until I went on it. I’m sure you’ve thought of this — just want to help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:51 AM
56

do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:39 AM
1707

“Given,” because we’re objects naturally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:29 PM
19

So glad she’s gone. Enjoy your peace, cleanliness & safety. I hope you can salvage your table & floor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:13 PM
322

Exactly - hold on to this trait, it’s good! These guys are trying to fast forward a connection for sex and/or lovebombing. They can tell by your reserved demeanor that they aren’t going to get you into the sack right away. There are so many of these types on OLD, I always vote for deleting it and meeting men the old fashioned way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:05 PM
95

My husband would’ve rather eaten an old bus tire than give me a cheap engagement ring. Why do so many men feel no shame about revealing how broke & sorry they are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:51 PM
161

Similar to us accepting that we cannot and will not fix or build a man, we cannot and will not save a pick-me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:12 AM
37

Oh, fck that. Invest that money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:07 AM
10

It’s absolutely your job to “assume things” about your potential mate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:50 AM
27

Don’t listen to friends, listen to your gut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:00 AM
102

Even in my worst pick-me days I would have hung up on a man who asked me that question. Btch I bring life. I’m the whole city that contains the house that contains this table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:19 PM
1037

Hahahaha! Male lurkers: inviting a woman to come learn about YOU is not a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:09 PM
55

This is such a great reminder! Thank you for putting it out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:12 PM
38

^ right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:44 PM
174

Like relax Jared, no one is scheming for a cut of your measly $50k.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:28 AM
27

I can only imagine all the bs he fed her to get into her pants and for her to leave her husband. You know he used cliches like “soulmate” and “twin flame” lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:28 AM
43

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:20 PM
72

OR the woman on the left wears contact lenses. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:01 PM
3

That’s awesome. Thanks for responding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:04 AM
3

Been there. Glad you are addressing this in therapy. Are there any tips for how you were able to change?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:22 PM
7

In my experience, it tends to get better with age. As people mature and get their own lives together, they become less insecure and comparative. In my 20s and early 30s I had to distance myself & just focus on my own goals. Now that I’m in my early 40s, I have a wonderful friend group. Some of them are friends from way back who have matured, and others are new friends I’ve made. Some friends had to be cut off along the way of course, and I don’t regret that. Just keep doing your thing and you wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:10 PM
98

They really think we care about their opinions regarding how we look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:45 PM
14

Notice she’s asking $4,200 so he literally thinks his 3 minutes of pencil dick is worth $1200 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:44 PM
43

Surprise, Tinder is trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:37 PM
238

Cue the pick-mes saying “he’s just not good at that stuff, hee hee!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:20 PM
107

My husband had memorized my full name and DOB by our third date. Bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:55 PM
34

The way to show how little you care is to block them without a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:46 PM
51

LLLLOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLL 💀💀💀💀💀⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:10 AM
56

NONCONSENSUAL NONMONOGOMY! I have officially read it all. JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:43 PM
1

No, she cannot do 50% of the child care in my experience. My kids are stuck to me like glue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:54 AM
182

Fiyah 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:52 AM
19

Sounds like a scam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:31 AM
20

Sis, he died.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:08 AM
172

One time a literal 80 year old man asked me out while I was grocery shopping. I was maybe 28. How do I know he was 80? I saw his obituary a bit later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:40 AM
123

“Am I being unreasonable” Honestly some people are beyond saving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:36 AM
34

👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:43 PM
2

Well hey, it’s your life so do what you want. Personally, I’m glad I dumped the mediums and waited for my high value dude. Not to say he’s perfect or marriage is a breeze, but I am GLAD AS HELL I’m not with any of my exes personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:48 AM
81

I always just dumped them. Why not? As you said, you can easily find another medium value man to replace them if you want. So what are you losing? Strengthen your boundaries so LVMs bounce right off of you & go for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:33 AM
67

I have to tell you, I am a mother of young kids, with a full time job (and my husband works FT too), and this is what my lockdown looked like also. There is just so much work to be done with kids, even when the man is high value and pulling his weight. And lockdown with young kids was a nightmare. I was so afraid of my babies or my elderly mom getting Covid. It seems to me when she “had no choice” but to go home -it was because nothing was open. Anyway, I’m not defending her post or anything. Bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:04 PM
612

She is out of her damn mind. Nothing tethers you to another person more than having a child with them. NOTHING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:43 PM
149

I’m skeptical of anything I read on Reddit, period. People lie. Especially men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:31 PM
47

Dump him ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:47 PM
19

“Looking for someone I can vibe with” = low value hookup red flaaaaaaaag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:51 AM
45

Whenever a dude honks at me/gets pissed at me in traffic I like to genuinely act like I think they’re flirting with me and blow them a kiss. They’re like, wait NO! I’m MAD! It’s so funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:41 PM
325

What the fck is that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:10 PM
58

Yeah, fuck that. That’s why I held on to my job with an iron grip even though I have kids. And we have a housekeeper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:07 PM
116

I feel you. I really do. But the blame belongs on the shitty husbands first and foremost. Women blaming each other is the patriarchy talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:13 PM
44

Why are you surprised? It’s a hookup app. Delete that trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:19 PM
3

Get. A. Job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:48 PM
441

He is breathing 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:50 AM
21

Yup, do not disturb goes on at 10 and the only people who can break through are my best friend and my momma. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:06 AM
86

I think you’re right. They’re just projecting their own insecurities about being alone, and those insecurities are pretty damn loud for them to be DMing random strangers on Reddit about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:45 PM
59

I’ll never forget my first date (years ago, before FDS) who asked if I was going to go throw up my dinner in the bathroom because I “look too thin to eat that much.” When I ghosted him (obviously) he sent me a butthurt email saying “at least you got a free dinner out of it.” A $10 burger at a bar! I’d pay $1,000 to have never met him. Men are so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:40 AM
52

I just…after all my years on this earth I am just so tired of this shit. I am just so tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:59 AM
186

I cannot even explain how quickly & with how much force I would dump this creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:41 PM
24

The wrong “your” would’ve been a block from me immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:24 AM
51

I never wanted kids. I did babysit and I hated it. Pregnancy and childbirth sounded awful. Then in my mid thirties I found myself happily married with a house, savings, stable jobs and we thought maybe we could manage kids. My husband was the first man I was willing to even consider procreating with. I had lost a good portion of my family to death and wanted to bring new life into my family. We decided to go for it and if it was meant to be it would be. I got pregnant right away and was so nervo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:22 AM
90

What is in it for her at all? What value does he bring to HER life? He’s not even faithful to her, it just makes no sense. How does any rational person look at that and say that she shouldn’t leave him? (I know they do). I guess it’s just good old patriarchy. My mom thinks that men are in general failing to launch because they haven’t had to go to war. I think she may be right. There is no event forcing men to grow up and do something for other people. Most of the time they won’t even man up for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:09 PM
143

Right? He’s going out of his way to signal sexual interest in another person. “But he’d never ACTUALLY cheat!” Maybe, but only because she’d never give him the time of day. When given the opportunity, people cheat All. The. Time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:41 PM
229

He’s just trying to turn the blame around on you so he can put his pee-pee first 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:42 AM
34

Lmfao, good luck dude 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:50 PM
202

CHOO CHOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:12 AM
288

It’s obvious he’s pro se, no attorney would submit that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:08 AM
39

I’m too old for Tik Tok, sisters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:30 PM
20

He sucks, but that shit is ugly though 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:00 PM
168

My husband and I did this once as our new baby slept in the backseat…but it’s no first, second, or 40th date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:54 PM
242

Or maybe not have FOUR ALCOHOLIC DRINKS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:19 PM
478

Ah, yes. We just go on dates for the free dinners though, right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:42 PM
277

“Just lucky I guess”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:50 AM
57

Can any of our queens who work in software development work on a tool that blocks someone on all platforms you’re signed up for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:39 AM
93

He threw a curly fry at the back of my head as I walked away. From his futon mattress on the floor of his room in his mom’s mobile home. What can I say, I was young
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:10 AM
39

Scrotes’ anger at FDS is rule 12, case in point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:45 PM
85

What an absolute coward and mooch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:14 PM
25

Hahahahahahaha 💀 ⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:09 PM
19

You are singing my song 😍 What services do you get done? I’m always looking for more self care ideas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:43 PM
46

Advice from an “old” married lady: Remember to uphold your boundaries and standards - no matter what his explanation/sob story is, no matter how good the sex is, no matter how much your friends like him or how much you’ve already invested in the relationship. If you remember that he is not special and does not deserve exemption from your boundaries and standards you will be fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:50 PM
45

Right? Meanwhile a good portion of men can’t clean their butts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:45 PM
164

“When to be a girlfriend” is on there twice because you have to be two different girlfriends 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:26 PM
14

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:24 PM
15

I cosign all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:59 PM
5

Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:07 AM
77

🙄 This never happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:37 PM
48

That’s it & that’s all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:31 PM
501

You don’t respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:30 PM
467

“My life is a drama free zone” = I create absolute nonstop drama
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:23 AM
30

I think I understand what you mean by shit-test, but can you explain further or give examples so I can be clear?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:43 PM
313

Kind and polite is the absolute bare minimum and isn’t a reason to choose a mate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:43 AM
9

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:47 PM
203

Amen! It is not classist to refuse to date a man who cannot support himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:22 PM
256

Couldn’t be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:05 PM
8

This is a scam. Same photo even: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thatsnonsense.com/watch-out-for-mistaken-identity-dating-website-text-scams/amp/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:41 PM
22

Wow, she even kissed him when he hadn’t brushed is teeth in who knows how long: “When he turned up — 20 minutes late and inexplicably riding a child’s bike — Emmy still wasn’t put off. Emmy, who has written a novel based on their story, says: “I was really trying to fight it but I was very attracted to him.” For six hours they wandered around Amsterdam, sharing a picnic and enjoying their first kiss.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:01 PM
12

Oh jeez, that’s embarrassing! Yeah, the legal stuff I believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:25 PM
13

That’s not the part I thought was super contrived. I don’t want to spoil it for anyone but I’m talking about what she and Sandra Oh did to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:17 PM
28

I really loved the beginning! They lost me toward the end, but overall entertaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:47 PM
30

Ugh good riddance. I can just imagine your new beautiful, clean and peaceful living space that has never been touched by dirty balls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:11 PM
47

Ugh. Sorry this happened to you…is this a common screen name you use? I’d say it’s time to pick a new one. I delete my Reddit account from time to time to ensure anonymity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:29 PM
506

A homeless alcoholic ordered her to meet him back at the same bench at a specific time and date……and she did. And he was late. Let that sink in….. This woman is clown shoes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:09 PM
109

I am in management at a health care system. My male boss is very high up and is the most incredible example of a HVM I think I’ve met. He works extremely hard but is very involved with his kids and puts his family first - he coaches his kids’ soccer teams, is responsible for pickup, doesn’t work on family vacations, etc. He respects my own role as mother, and I’ve never seen from him one iota of sexual interest/behavior/intent toward myself or any other colleagues. It’s unfortunate that men like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:50 AM
8

Agreed! I had to double check that you said it because I thought I must’ve gotten the texting bubbles backwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:13 PM
12

At first I was like wut, but after reading your comments on each screenshot I think this was a really valuable example. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:43 PM
288

Very generous with the 6 minutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:54 PM
17

LOL I think that falls under 2) don’t care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:17 PM
68

Yeah I don’t do “surprises” with strangers. You tell me exactly which public place we’re going and I’ll meet you there. These dudes 1) don’t have the first idea what it’s like to be a woman and/or 2) don’t care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:13 PM
34

Texting a lot/good morning/goodnight texts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:44 AM
50

Amen 👏🏼 amen 👏🏼 amen 👏🏼 My latest goal is to do one nice thing for a woman every day. A friend, colleague, family member or stranger - whether it be a compliment or a kind word, baked goods, a gift, offering to pick them something up at Starbucks…you get the idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:12 PM
26

This always was my go-to struggle meal. It’s cheap, healthy and makes a ton for many meals. I call it struggle soup https://zenhabits.net/recipe-best-soup-ever/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:17 PM
39

-Reconnecting with friends and family in person now that things are opening back up -throwing myself into fun summer activities & crafts with my kids -focusing on colorful, fresh, fragrant in-season food -planning & preparing for our family vacation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 03:12 PM
810

Goes to show: A person who doesn’t love, value, respect and accept themselves will NEVER love, value, respect and accept you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:50 AM
34

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:28 AM
23

🚩 bed nest 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:22 AM
26

I saw this and downvoted it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:52 PM
147

Sis ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:57 AM
17

My husband brings me a coffee every morning as well! We do not have a cat though 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:24 AM
36

Truly ghettotastic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:45 PM
26

He said “you can’t turn a housewife into a hoe.” Dumbass has it backwards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:29 PM
99

Just the fact that she knows about her ex’s relationships after her…WHY? And presumes that those relationships are happy and calm? Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:09 PM
15

This needs to be in the handbook, for real. I’ve been caught up in it before too, so I’m not going to act holier than thou, but I see it sooo much on here and ask FDS (this is my third username, I delete occasionally for privacy). Women trying to figure out why, why, why men do things in order to ultimately give them the benefit of the doubt and excuse their behavior. Anything to avoid doing the hard work of standing up for themselves, breaking it off and bearing the pain of being lonely. Again,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:11 PM
28

I literally ignore these comments from men, and limit my interactions with men to those I absolutely must talk to (immediate family and coworkers).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:57 AM
44

What in the pickme hell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:54 PM
176

“Just lucky I guess”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:28 PM
4

“$30 on food and drinks for myself/her” 😂😂😂😂😂☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️ These broke ass fools expect sex for FIFTEEN DOLLARS (because he ate at least half). Fucking clowns!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:29 PM
42

Not to mention, she says the $2k is for all living expenses besides groceries. So that’s your electric, gas, internet, water, trash, home insurance, repairs, blah blah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:16 PM
39

Of course he doesn’t - she said that he told her that buying a new house together “isn’t an option” and if they bought a new place, she’d have to put all the money down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:46 PM
181

Men are really showing their asses in the comments of course 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:01 PM
3

100% agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:45 PM
23

It’s better to stand up for yourself late than never. I hope she makes him move out until marriage too, but understand that with four kids that’s a logistical nightmare. She’s allowed herself to be cornered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:28 PM
9

LMAOOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:20 PM
18

💀⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:48 PM
173

“What do these women bring to the table?” ??? Oh I don’t know, just EVERYTHING they’re asking for in return???? Goes to show that scrotes don’t value your job or hobbies. Just your 18 year old body and malleable personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:07 PM
1055

She’s “being controlling” because she wants photos of her naked body taken down. The gaslighting is incredible. It’s sad, and telling, that she has to ask if she’s out of line here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:05 AM
2

I don’t mean to be rude, but who cares? Block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:41 AM
614

This has to be a shitpost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:47 PM
49

It’s so true. You can easily pick up a $10/hr work from home job with Google in your spare time. I’d rather bank that extra cash than waste my time in the company of 99% of the men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:29 PM
93

I promise they exist! My husband is good looking AND is always washing dishes 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:27 PM
186

Yep. I guarantee she doesn’t want to wake up to his morning breath like he’s dreaming 😂😂 I’d pay $$$$ to watch this all play out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:22 PM
80

This is sooooo disgusting. Why are men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:12 AM
2398

Imagine hearing a person you love’s stomach growl and not offer to get them some food. He does not love her and I hope she has dumped him already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:28 PM
282

Frankly, I think that FDS is entirely about looking at your own pick-me behavior and not man bashing at all. When men don’t meet our standards, we simply ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:05 PM
212

Oh cool so her boyfriend will give birth to one of their kids and she’ll do the other one? Or maybe he’ll take turns breastfeeding the babies. How special
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:24 PM
64

Hahahahahhaha 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:15 PM
498

My favorite: He can’t call her his girlfriend because he’s trying to wrap his mind around spending his first Christmas without his grandparents…. LMFAOOOOOOOO 💀 ⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:28 PM
1

Yes, and it says everything about men and nothing about you. They can’t seem to get by without us. My father in law, by all accounts a devoted husband, was on multiple dating websites just 3 months after his wife of 50 years died. He became obsessed with one woman right away and has pursued her relentlessly ever since, with his dead wife’s clothes still hanging in the closet and her ashes waiting to be spread. They run from their emotions by replacing us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:15 PM
24

I completely agree! High value people focus on the task at hand instead of wasting time on texting. With that said, I struggle to stay off my phone 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:53 AM
3

No ma’am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:14 AM
31

I’d be surprised if his mom really has cancer, TBH. It sounds like a lie. No one is so busy, so distraught, that they can’t send a text message that takes 10 seconds to write. He’s not the right guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:07 PM
30

This is a brilliant idea 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:09 PM
15

HahHahahaha ❤️❤️❤️ it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 12:50 PM
51

It’s always someone else’s fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:59 PM
45

The parental home is a “trap,” give me a BREAK 🙄🙄🙄🙄 like the poor men have no choice and are stuck there. Just another example of how society and the media excuse and blame-shift the behavior of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:53 PM
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