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| 1 | This is why we love-bombing is a red flag, and we block at the first sign of disrespect | DISCUSSION | Outrageous-Knowledge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:38 AM |
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| 13 | This is one of those things that sounds "Cool" and "Empowering" when we are young with no responsibilities, but once you get saddled with a parasitic man that takes everything and gives you nothing, you will realize just how NOT cool or empowering this is.I mean yes I am that’s why I’m not marrying a man, ever. Doubt OP thinks that way however lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 06:55 AM |
| 12 | This had me howling!! 🎶Leave us alone, please leave us alone 🎶..We actually work during the day so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 8 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.Honestly! I’m even blocking all dumb antivaxxers here lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.Good call! I’m glad!! He obviously is incapable of caring about others/the community | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.It really does! Honestly we have so many issues here in my country getting vaccines and people than have easy access to them don’t bother getting them… it’s maddening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.I don’t expect much from ignorant americans but the vaccines have been tested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:16 AM |
| 8 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.That is not quite true, actually: https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/featured-topic/covid-19-vaccine-myths-debunked https://www.bu.edu/articles/2021/myths-vs-facts-covid-19-vaccine/ Stop spreading misinformation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:13 AM |
| 12 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.We have antivaxxers here too😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 11 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.Being antivaxx is not “bodily autonomy” 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.So you’re anti science? Why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:14 PM |
| 14 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.Uh don’t date him? He proved he has no sense of responsibility, it’s easily manipulated by conspiracy nuts, and you’re obviously intimated by him. Girl, if you can’t stand for yourself with something as a vaccination status you really need to do some work on yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:12 PM |
| 3 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Wtf how can someone let a toilet get like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 06:43 PM |
| 18 | Violence against women in movies and TV? Oh, it's just for the realism effect!This is why I hate shit like Game of Thrones, even in fantasy women can’t escape sexualized violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:29 PM |
| 20 | Pickme Argues with Man to Pay the BillExactly. He was trying to “put her in her place”, it wasn’t about doing something nice for her but about control. I also believe this is scripted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 2 | “Nice guys” love to say women only like bad boys, therefore they don’t get treated right but what they don’t understand is...Bad boys and Nice guys are equally misogynistic they just express it differently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 05:06 AM |
| 24 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?Don’t date men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | We need to STOP platforming this “feminine” mentality — it grooms women into compliant relationships with abusive, dangerous LVM. You do NOT praise the bare minimum, you simply walk away if he cannot “do better”.lol no, there’s no such thing. Femininity has always been ritualized submission. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Passive men are a huge turn off, and actually dangerous.Aggressive men are no better and quite dangerous too. Men aren’t protectors and depending on them to defend you is silly. And I say this as someone who doesn’t like passive people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 06:12 AM |
| 13 | We need to STOP platforming this “feminine” mentality — it grooms women into compliant relationships with abusive, dangerous LVM. You do NOT praise the bare minimum, you simply walk away if he cannot “do better”.Femininity truly is brainwashing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 06:07 AM |
| 4 | 'Among other things, these toxic "nice guy" narratives are exposing the kind of insidious paradigms of "acceptable" masculinity long implanted in our culture by film and TV.'Oh they do. I wish they didn’t but being involved in fandom I’ve seen some stuff. You’ll be surprised how popular “dark romances” are. Then there’s the “serial killer” girlfriends. Obviously not all women are into this, same not all women are into kink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 04:05 AM |
| 12 | 'Among other things, these toxic "nice guy" narratives are exposing the kind of insidious paradigms of "acceptable" masculinity long implanted in our culture by film and TV.'You know what’s sad? Women eat this shit up. Swoon over narratives with toxic, murderous men, the so called “dark romance” genre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:30 PM |
| 36 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?We were chatting and dude tells me he had to change his fuse box recently and fix some electrical issues by himself, he adds “one more win for the patriarchy” Same dude constantly posts “memes” about women who can’t cook “traditional mexican stuff” or tortillas by hand and how they are not women enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Get a female therapist, not a male oneHonestly? Just because your therapist is a woman doesn’t mean she’s not gonna be terrible too :/ the only therapist I visited when I was 15 blamed me for my SA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 05:02 PM |
| 9 | Scrote father goes to dinner with his daughter, enjoys insinuation that he’s dating her 🤮Men shouldn’t be allowed to have children, tbh. Or to raise children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:41 AM |
| 6 | So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men:Of course I value that more than a dirty man. My pets are loyal and capable of love unlike a man 🙏 Men have never provided shit at point in history so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:42 PM |
| 24 | I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response.I know right? They really are. They just brainwashed society to think they aren’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 06:57 PM |
| 24 | I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response.lmao “I’m not mad” he says, foaming at the mouth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 06:56 PM |
| 172 | Jesus wept (photo not mine)And men that suck at foreplay 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:26 PM |
| 2 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?Please keep fighting the good fight against this nonsense 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?So now you’re attacking psychology? lol you sound like a scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:42 PM |
| 2 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?So many people forget this when they try to defend it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:41 PM |
| 2 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?Seriously it’s maddening how they buy into this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?MBTI is astrology for men lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?(Reddit is being silly that’s why. I had to use my second account) Modern psychology disagrees with you. There’s even a psychologist here that disagrees with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?It says I know what to say to get those results yes. MBTI, Enneagram, etc aren't taken seriously by the scientific community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:59 PM |
| 32 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?Thank you! The MBTI is pseudo scientific nonsense. I usually type between INTJ or INTP or even ENTJ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:02 PM |
| 13 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?I dislike MBTI the same way I dislike astrology. One is pseudoscience the other is “woo”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:58 AM |
| 11 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksExactly. It’s always men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 06:51 PM |
| 16 | Anyone notice guys get uncomfortable if you want to stay at home after kids?Yeah I wouldn’t put “ immigrants” in a pedestal over this. Assuming you mean latinos/hispanics, I’m latina and I can tell you is not out of respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 05:19 PM |
| 10 | You make me laugh. All because I said men should please leave a relationship with a woman if they can’t handle her choice to grow out her natural body hair and NOT just withhold intimacy (emotional abuse in this instance). Also sir your active communities says it all ... Reminder to block DMs! 🤦🏻♀️Yes 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 05:17 PM |
| 26 | My new definition of BDSMRelated, but I hate you can’t escape this BDSM shit, even in games supposedly “aimed” at women or teen girls like dating sims you get one freak into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?They’re not. Do they give the women actual power? (Economic, legal, etc)? No. They also only celebrate made up “hyperfemininity”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 08:17 PM |
| 30 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.Omg thank you. Ovarit feels like full of pickmes and libfems at times. It’s infuriating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 09:30 PM |
| 206 | They’re telling her it’s “just a game”It’s BDSM brain rot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.As someone who is not white or American I can’t believe this had to be said. Edit: I don’t know why I can’t reply but my comment is facetious. Yes, all men are trash no matter the color of their skin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingI don’t think they do, no, some people here may disagree. Finding a “good” man is like whining the lottery, you’re better off working on yourself and your own happiness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 07:48 PM |
| 19 | Women don’t hate their own biology and sex differences....they hate men who exploit them for those differences. That they’re *expected* to tolerate endless abuse, cheating and harassment and never complain - just for being born female.Nah. Screw this nonsense of “female nature”. Men have never been protectors either. Expecting them to protect us is silly. Thank god I’m childfree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingDon’t. They don’t exist. Neither this “energy” shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingScrotes aré soulless monsters, every day I’m more convinced of it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:51 AM |
| 5 | 🙄No 👎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 04:09 AM |
| 44 | Ummm...yes? And?Exactly. Men are so transparent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:26 AM |
| 22 | So close...“Don’t get feminism into this” lmao ok incel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 07:37 PM |
| -1 | This is why I don't scroll through libfem subs. They always have to put other women down for wanting a special moment to be special.Thank you. I’m against prostitution and porn but these people really think staying home depending on men is any better it’s ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Study suggests that I don't give afI don’t care lol also psychology is barely a science | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:15 PM |
| 19 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!lol yes, thank you for mentioning it. Sometimes I can’t believe people here still buy into the protector and provider lies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:10 PM |
| 33 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!It is a lie yes! We’re never gonna be free if we keep expecting something from them. They’re not protector or providers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:08 PM |
| 14 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!I always knew this from observation but it’s nice to see it confirmed. Male heroes only exist in fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:06 PM |
| 31 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itSame. I managed to finish my bachelor but it took me 7 years! I basically had to fight myself to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!I’m getting so much second hand embarrassment… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:18 AM |
| 1 | The “sex work is work” mantra is kind of condescending coming from women who thought women being dependent on sexual service to one man for our livelihood was oppressiveYup. I mean some here think feminism has done nothing and was invented by men and they wanna go back to “traditional values”… nothing surprises me anymore. (Yes, current wave of feminism/liberal feminism is a plague but come on!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:09 AM |
| 60 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑I really feel there’s no hope for women as a whole. I just read this: “(Book) gets a bum rap and part of that is the fact that the hero in this book is an abusive, rapey, psychotic douchenozzle, AKA my favorite kind of hero.” Like this is porn culture brainwashing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮Imagine being this brainwashed 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:09 PM |
| 13 | The “sex work is work” mantra is kind of condescending coming from women who thought women being dependent on sexual service to one man for our livelihood was oppressiveExactly. Acting like traditional marriages weren’t just another form of sexual slavery 🙄🙄 wtf is with this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 7 | The “sex work is work” mantra is kind of condescending coming from women who thought women being dependent on sexual service to one man for our livelihood was oppressiveI only want agree partially. As if traditional marriage and motherhood are something good? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.I honestly doubt it. I’ve seen so many “liberal” feminists still trying to make excuses for Islam. Sometimes I feel there’s no hope for us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:00 PM |
| 11 | What is it about video games that I, and many others, find so repulsive?Yeah it’s sad “gamers” and gaming have such a bad reputation because of what I call “dudebros gamers”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:10 PM |
| 78 | What is it about video games that I, and many others, find so repulsive?I love games. I even built my own PC to play. I’m also working towards my PhD and make time to take care of my house. I never, ever play with men. Gamer dudes rarely have other stuff going on with their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:08 PM |
| 52 | Best Sports for Self-DefenseRunning and weightlifting is your best bet if you can’t carry a weapon. After that krav, judo, jiu jitsu but be sure to look for a gym that has actual sparring. Most self defense courses aimed at women don’t really work. Of course fighting should be the last resort in self defense but don’t let that stop you for training for strength and getting physical. Also I disagree than training doesn’t help/a trained woman has no chance against an “average man” 🙄 https://www.abc.net.au/news/2019-01-08/pol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 08:37 PM |
| 66 | What do you all think about this?Exactly. I don’t think this is cute at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 08:26 PM |
| 4 | I don't even know how to describe this, why are men the way they areYeah reading stuff like that honestly makes me think there’s no hope for women as a whole. We’re doomed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:24 AM |
| 8 | Just watched Black Widow.. We should make something better than the Bechdel test to rate movies.Yeah. I prefer Captain Marvel and the first Wonder Woman to Black Widow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 09:32 PM |
| 10 | Embarrassing. Don’t be like this! Focus on becoming a happier person not fixing scrotesExactly. Also tired of the “omg you think you’re not like other girls/special cause you don’t focus on men men men?” thing they’re trying to flip it at. As if women must focus all of our efforts in romance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:26 AM |
| 4 | Please we need to save her. He ghosted her and she still wants to be friends??? That’s code for secretly hoping for a relationship. This girl needs to realize the mistake she’s makingOh boy... she’s really young so I understand why she’s this naive but ugh. Also that’s a young adult man, what the hell! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:22 AM |
| 11 | It's ALL men.It really is all men, no amount of "he might be HVM!" is going to change that. Great post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Why scrotes are triggered by this subDamn. I got one telling me I would kill myself with my own gun if I ever owned one because I was “too stupid like a woman”. They can’t even be original! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 07:52 AM |
| 5 | Found on Instagram... I am really liking the algorithm 💁♀️This is stuff straight women tell themselves to cope I guess. Delusional. The “put gas in your car” is such an American thing too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 07:45 AM |
| -6 | Found on Instagram... I am really liking the algorithm 💁♀️Yep. Women here really think scrotes will fix their lives lol hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 07:44 AM |
| 5 | Scientific evidence: Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with herNo male at least. Men can't love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:14 AM |
| 7 | I wonder if he texted her back yet“He only wants a hook up but im sure that if i act like a doormat he will pick me uwu” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 4 | How is it that, in an age of supposed "dating equality," women still get the short straw?Thank you. Finally a sensible comment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 09:55 PM |
| 12 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesMen’s only hobby is watch sports (not even play them lol) or play video games. I play video games too but I try to keep well rounded hobbies. This year I got into weight lifting/crossfit, and I wanna take up shooting. I wanna finish my knitting projects, sadly one of them was a scarf I was planning to gift to the NVM I was dating at the time, yikes me. Your hobbies sound awesome 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 09:20 PM |
| 17 | Being/acting insecure will only ever get you a manipulative low/no effort NVM: know your worth and show it, never settleWe women are brainwashed from birth to lack confidence, to make ourselves “smaller”, to be “shy”, “gentle” since these traits are desirable to men. I used to buy into this bullshit as a teen. Never again. The older I get the more I notice the pattern of men trying to get me down, especially when I’ve proven I know more about a subject than them. I’m doing my PhD and some my male cohorts try to explain to me the most basic shit I learned years ago. Always questioning me, trying to lecture. Asshol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 6 | Why are men such assholes about women's muscles???“That’s the plan 💪” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:37 PM |
| 14 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️Too many. And don’t get me started on what happens if you have a heavy flow (like me) 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 11 | Women's lives need to stop revolving around menOh, I agree actually. You’re writing what I think 👀 maybe a bit too radical for this site however... (I don’t date men any more. Who even needs them?) Edit: “The truth is, that men are actively keeping women from learning ″male″ skills and from working in ″male″ professions. By this they secure their financial dominance and keep women dependant on them.” Yes, this so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 52 | Women's lives need to stop revolving around menMen are fundamentally broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:07 AM |
| 4 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendRight? I’m not reading a time travel story for the “historical accuracy”! Adding that scene (and the tortures and rape scene) was completely unnecessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:11 AM |
| 2 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendI "love" how he says it's a "basic male need". He can't even be original in his arguments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendArya didn't behave like "a man", that's silly and essentialist, and she's quite different in the books too (she wants to be like heroic women of old, she thinks men are dumb). Sansa was fucked over by femininity like real women are. Her arc isn't even finished in the books but all of her plot threads in the series are actually from different characters (she's not raped in the books, that happens to a different character who is currently pretending is her). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 10 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendThis is why I stopped reading too. The scene where he beats his wife and the number of fans who defended him because "well, it was a different time" Fuck that character and fuck this show, to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:36 PM |
| 36 | The deeper I get into FDSThe older I get the more comfortable I’m in my skin, and the less time I have for bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 10:20 PM |
| 13 | Conservative women call submission to men a sign of strength & character, Liberal women call submission to men liberation and empowerment. Conservative men will abuse their wives and call it their right as a husband, Liberal men will abuse their wives and call it a kink.Always? The idea of “submitting” to anyone is ridiculous. Let’s not kid ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:16 AM |
| 12 | How many career women gone wrong stories do you personally know?I hate that trope. Is always the same bullshit. Most women I know are happier with their career than with their (usually) ex-husband | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | The trope of the broody, mysterious, damaged, bad boy who deep down just needs to be loved by a woman and he’ll be saved needs to die.No one is asking to ban them, however. But the fact that they are so prevalent tell us a lot about society, same with porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:22 PM |
| 6 | The trope of the broody, mysterious, damaged, bad boy who deep down just needs to be loved by a woman and he’ll be saved needs to die.Yeah, I read a lot of shojo in my teens, it was awful, it’s still awful. I hated most of the “heroines” too, they were prototype pickmes 🙄 their biggest “flaws” was how nice and unconfident they were, until a man came to save them. Awful. I think I only liked Sailor Moon because the girls actually got to do stuff! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | The trope of the broody, mysterious, damaged, bad boy who deep down just needs to be loved by a woman and he’ll be saved needs to die.Same here! I can’t watch or even play romance games/games with romance anymore. This is upcoming RPG has romance options and most of the girls gravitate towards the most selfish asshole of the male characters. “I would die for him! He’s so evil!” it’s sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:19 PM |
| 4 | The trope of the broody, mysterious, damaged, bad boy who deep down just needs to be loved by a woman and he’ll be saved needs to die.“Shoujo/Shojo” it’s full of these tropes. Fruits Basket is awful but there’s much worse stuff out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:38 AM |
| 3 | The trope of the broody, mysterious, damaged, bad boy who deep down just needs to be loved by a woman and he’ll be saved needs to die.This is why I don’t bother with the romance genre as a whole. Most stuff is like this and I can’t stand it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Double standards, and LITERAL shitMost of those subs promote abuse https://i.imgur.com/YD0ugPN.png | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Black woman’s white boyfriend wants to do “race play” where she plays the slave and he the master, wants to know ifs she’s wrong for being uncomfortable with it, comments try to gaslight her that this is totally normally because mUh kInKMaster/slave dynamics 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Black woman’s white boyfriend wants to do “race play” where she plays the slave and he the master, wants to know ifs she’s wrong for being uncomfortable with it, comments try to gaslight her that this is totally normally because mUh kInKSame. The obsession with kink, the normalization of “sub” and “dom”, “top” or “bottom” is all disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | The way he talks about fictional women will be the way he talks about youYeah. Some women do that too sadly “she’s a tomboy! She’s too much like a man!” (Because she can actually take care of herself) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:18 AM |
| 2 | The way he talks about fictional women will be the way he talks about youHonestly outside of a couple of characters I like (Brienne, Arya, Dany) I couldn’t stand it. It was too “edgy” for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:10 AM |
| 2 | The way he talks about fictional women will be the way he talks about youI love that genre! That and manwha like Remarried Empress and your throne. Those aren’t isekai but the women there take no shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:08 AM |
| 3 | The way he talks about fictional women will be the way he talks about youShe was nothing like that in the books, I hate what they did to her character. But I prefer her and Dany over Sansa. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:06 AM |
| 2 | The way he talks about fictional women will be the way he talks about youExactly. The way some women/pick mes also write about relationships, sickens me. They want to make everything about top/bottoms, kink, porn without feelings... I can’t do that, that is not for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Why are women expected to change for men?We really can’t win. I have both “masculine” and “feminine” hobbies but I’m pretty non-feminine myself, don’t particularly care about makeup for example and refuse to wear it, but I love crafting and knitting, so both women and men asume I’m a “failed woman” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Why are women expected to change for men?I like sports like MMA, weightlifting, crossfit, but only if it has women on it, that or sports popularized by women like roller skating. Don’t ask me to watch football because I honestly fall asleep, I don’t understand where is the obsession... to be fair I’d probably be more interested on female teams. These days I pretty much can’t care about anything men produce or do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:08 AM |
| 7 | Liberal feminism be like.But maybe I like my dom uwu I like to give away my power, the biggest expression of love! /s Just made myself sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 07:49 AM |
| 10 | Liberal feminism be like.Liberal feminists turning every relationship even fictional ones into a dum/sub thing because “sex positive! No kink shame!” Kink rots your brain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Having self awareness as a woman is a special blend of stubbornness, humor and self respect. You gotta laugh to keep from crying and if you do cry it’s best to be in your own cozy space, on good linens, enjoying your peace of mind!Men love to call women who have self-respect “stubborn” (in a bad way) or “high maintenance”. Sorry not sorry we don’t put up with your bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:17 AM |
| 14 | Teehee😈 exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 10:36 PM |
| 5 | On Justified AngerThank youI I needed to read this today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 01:03 AM |
| 3 | The ways men project and gaslightThank you for the rec! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 03:58 PM |
| 2 | The ways men project and gaslightThere is recent evidence of women hunters in the past https://advances.sciencemag.org/content/6/45/eabd0310 So even their current “common sense knowledge” is flawed. Truly, the more I learn about how history has been shaped by men and their lies, the more I don’t want anything to do with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 03:58 PM |
| 6 | Straight up abuse then love-bombing. Is this how women convince themselves with BDSM? X-post from one of my radfem FB groups.It makes me sick. “Oh i like when he puts me in my place” how patriarchy brainwashed you have to be... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 08:57 PM |
| 9 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.Best response. Also why I make sure to know how to do all the “handyman” stuff myself. If the only thing they can bring to the relationship is basic stuff why do I even want them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 11:54 PM |
| 21 | The goal should be: Power couple at the end of the world.For real. I rather form a commune of women and give everyone guns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 04:36 AM |
| 1 | The bar is so far underground it’s starting to melt into the core of the earthThe bar is in the mariana trench | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:26 AM |
| 10 | He's NOT your friend (and likely never was) - any man who gives you creep vibes under the guise of a platonic relationship, especially when you have made your disinterest clear, should be cut out of your life ASAPSeriously! I just cut a dude like this out. He would text me constantly and expect me to answer his phone calls 24/7. Acting like I owed him my time. I never treated him like more than a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:24 AM |
| 3 | This is what is wrong with my generation. Wife privileges without any commitment... promoted like girls should want this!Lol sis, he’s just gonna use you for emotional labor and discard you when he doesn’t need you anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | The old men and women are "equals" argument - Anna Bey/School of AffluenceThank you, finally a good answer 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:28 AM |
| 2 | The old men and women are "equals" argument - Anna Bey/School of AffluenceNah, this idea of “complementary” energy is pseudoscientific nonsense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:27 AM |
| 1 | A mindset change: Women have been taught to be passive, meek and self-sacrificing so they easily fall for male led propaganda that works against their own interests as a sex class...i.e BDSM/ Porn/ Sex Work.This this this! “Femininity” is a cage, is designed that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 06:54 AM |
| 1 | No one that loves and values you will allow you to self-sacrifice like this...Same here 😆 glad I wasn’t the only one I guess? At least we’re better now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 06:17 AM |
| 18 | “Uh, hi? Are you ignoring me?” Yes, yes she is.I loved it 😂 I’m gonna use it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 06:06 AM |
| 11 | How to get karma on Reddit: Blame women for anything and everythingMen are simultaneously the “logical gender” but also “can’t control their anger/urges” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:37 PM |
| 19 | How to get karma on Reddit: Blame women for anything and everythingI’m a very tomboyish woman and OP sounds like a man, tbh. Sadly, I know women like her exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:32 PM |
| 6 | How to get karma on Reddit: Blame women for anything and everythingOh please. Men have no problem teasing each other or even their female friends sometimes in really “blunt”, outright rude ways, but as soon as you tease them back in the same way they throw mantrums. And I’m speaking from a recent personal experience here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:30 PM |
| 28 | Becoming really, truly at peace with the idea of being alone foreverSame here. I just recently finished my masters degree and make good money. Not interested in a dude who would just come and try to tell me what to do lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:19 PM |
| 11 | 'He chooses to be home'I doubt it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 21 | 'He chooses to be home'I play games too, after I’m done cleaning my house and taking care of my dogs 😒 I bet he doesn’t do shit at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:40 PM |
| 19 | Every every single excuse for treating women horribly and enslaving them for emotional labourSeriously. This dude got so pissed at me. He would call me constantly and when I didn’t answer right away he would text me all “hurt”, “well I won’t bother you with my friendship”. Just one day I was frankly too tired to chat and I’m the scum of the earth 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:43 PM |
| 37 | Every every single excuse for treating women horribly and enslaving them for emotional labourI had a male friend who stopped videocalling me every day (and frankly, thank god) and got all angry and giving me the silent treatment because one day I was frankly not in the mood to answer (I was also eating with my family) 🤷🏻♀️ idk what he expected of me but apparently I’m now “toxic”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Mulan teaching little girls how to use their feminine energy to help them be warriors, "Like a cloud you are soft, like bamboo you bend in the wind"She's certainly a lot better than characters like Cinderella and Snow white. I love her. The whole point of her character is that she doesn't fit the "feminine ideal" of her culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 03:17 AM |
| 4 | I saw this and thought of FDS! I hate it when men are thought of as children. Like seriously, youre a grown man. Parent yourself.I know right? Also, I can use power tools and make my own food just fine :P I wonder what men make out of that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 03:13 AM |
| 16 | I saw this and thought of FDS! I hate it when men are thought of as children. Like seriously, youre a grown man. Parent yourself.When men say they look for a wife who "cooks and cleans and is feminine" they usually mean "I want a slave" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 03:11 AM |
| 4 | 5 years after her run, 1972, it became officially legal for women to runI love this. Makes me want to continue getting in shape 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Imagine a world in which men put half as much effort as they put in the gym into respecting women, personal development, and honing their conversation skills.Agree. Then again I play videogames lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. People who undermine you have a motive. Especially men. The most obvious motive out of them all.I get it. I thought an interesting tidbit to mention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. People who undermine you have a motive. Especially men. The most obvious motive out of them all.You’re right. There’s also evidence than the egg select the sperm actually ;) https://phys.org/news/2017-11-sperm-eggs-choice.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Empathic women of FDS... how do you radiate that bad bitch energy despite being quiet, reserved, and/or influenced by the feelings of others?Best reply. I used to be quiet and reserved out of insecurity and shyness. Now I’m still reserved when meeting new people and gauging them, but really chatty when I know they are worth my time. Just do your thing and don’t care about others 🤷🏻♀️ especially men. Sometimes a situation calls for being outspoken, sometimes silence works better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Men cannot think nonviolently. Remember ladies, violence is genderedOr we bring a gun 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 06:33 AM |
| 10 | This is what happens when you let yourself be trapped. The lady couldn't even complete her degree- ensuring she won't have any option to be independent in the future. Be wise ladies. Don't fall into that trap.She says it’s because he’s “left brained” (which is total pseudoscience bullshit) and I guess “more analytical” but this just sounds like a controlling piece of shit. I just hope she leaves his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 09:50 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else feel shame for not being traditionally “feminine” due to your assertiveness, courage and leader qualities?You shouldn’t feel shame for who are. Assertiveness is a positive trait to have, but males always take positive and strong traits for themselves and assign them “masculine”. In my opinion no one should strive to be a disney princess, that’s fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 11:06 PM |
| 18 | If a man tells you he doesn't want anything serious, please DO NOT waste your time!I was there a couple of months ago. Do not stick around, you'll only waste your precious time and emotional energy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:15 AM |
| 14 | Don’t settleDon't settle for friendship either. They'll just take advantage of that. Move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:29 PM |
| 19 | Man dumps GF of 1 year, two years ago. He didn't think she was marriage material. He broke her heart. She begins getting closer to another man, appears to move on. He surprises NO ONE by suddenly feeling very hurt. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!!Sounds like my “ex” lol to this day he claims I was “abusive” to him because I wanted something serious and wouldn’t settle for a friendship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:38 PM |
| 11 | REMEMBER LADIES IF HE CALLS YOU INSECURE ITS BECAUSE HE DOESNT LIKE THAT YOU CALL HIM OUT ON BEING DISRESPECTFUL“You’re just craaaazy” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:22 PM |
| 13 | REMEMBER LADIES IF HE CALLS YOU INSECURE ITS BECAUSE HE DOESNT LIKE THAT YOU CALL HIM OUT ON BEING DISRESPECTFULHe called me “crazy”, “intense”, “abusive” all because I wanted him to text me first once lol Never again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:22 PM |
| 9 | Don't write that paragraph to that jerk. He won't give a damn. Block him and move on.Thanks I needed to read this today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 11:31 PM |
| 10 | Woman engaged to “gamer” does all the household chores and works full time but her fiancé can’t be bothered to come down for dinner she prepared because he’s playing Fortnite. The worst advice subreddit on this entire website blames her.I play videogames, it’s one of my passtimes, but like hell I would put up with this shit. I prefer to play single player or online but only with my female friends. Male gamers are just incredibly misogynistic in my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | ePiC pWn MY BOI! The best part is a highly upvoted comment, “minimalism is awesome” lmao. Nah dude you’re just lazy and broke. The average redditor is a LVM so let’s stop concerning ourselves with all their MRA trash subreddits and what they have to say about women. They are not on our radar.lol not even a bookcase? Jfc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Make no mistake. Indecision (about being in a relationship with you) IS a decision.Omg are you me the past year? Because this happened to me. Dude even told me it was all my fault for having feelings for him... made feel like shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 07:46 AM |
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