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Of course you should say that. Plenty of girls will still snoop when you are in the bathroom or something. Bz's be crazy
/r/seduction04/03/13 10:49 PM
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Long flights are certainly tricky. This is why I emphasized moving slowly. If you are experienced and enjoy rapid pickup you will have to move so much more slowly than you are used to that it will feel very different and unnatural at first. Don't be afraid of silences and allow her to break them about 40% of the time. In any situation try not to have the frame where you feel like you need to always be entertaining her. Entertain yourself and she will probably join in. If you decide you are not i…
/r/seduction26/12/12 11:19 PM
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This has got the be the whitest kid I know
/r/seduction23/11/12 10:26 PM
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Attraction is more than the words that come out of your mouth. Body language and affinity toward certain styles plays a huge role. I'm sure I'm not the only one on here who has k-closed a girl without saying a word, or f-closed a girl without exchanging names. These things happen and will happen more frequently as you internalize the material on seddit.
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:53 AM
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Good FR, sounds like a ton of fun! Out of curiosity, how long were you engaged with HB at the bar before she returned to her friends? Also, did you isolate her when kissing or were you just hooking up at the bar?
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:42 AM
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Set the tone of the relationship early. For example don't text and call her 10 times a day for the first month if you don't plan on texting and calling her that frequently for the entirety of your relationship. One of the worst things that can happen is for your girl to start saying, "why don't you call me as much as you used to?"
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:37 AM
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Personally, I would stay away from about 90% of these... Maybe if you send the same thing to ten girls one will bite.
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:31 AM
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Most right-minded guys will never reject a girl's overt advances unless she is unattractive or annoying in some way. Obviously I have no idea what you look like so I'm not saying you are ugly, but perhaps something in your technique is coming across as desperate. I would recommend approaching guys with strong eye-contact and light kino, but make them feel like they are leading the interaction. For a lot of guys, myself included, the thrill of the chase is the most fun part of seduction.
/r/seduction08/01/12 08:29 PM
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My buddy likes to type up notes in his phone and plays it off like he is texting. He will write up something like this: Jenni 24 Studied Anthro Listens to indie rock loves sushi This info can be useful when planning a Day2
/r/seduction07/01/12 07:07 PM
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How chubby is chubby? Good FR, I enjoyed reading it.
/r/seduction07/01/12 04:28 PM
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Perfection
/r/seduction07/01/12 04:00 PM
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This has been my experience too.
/r/seduction07/01/12 07:11 AM
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I agree that experienced people on this subreddit do not worry about the friendzone. This is the very reason I suggested that this post would be better suited in /r/ForeverAlone
/r/seduction07/01/12 05:15 AM
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Good work here - especially in your isolation. A tip that might help on your next meet with her: when she describes how she likes writing or how writing makes her feel say something along the lines of "Since you you have such an artistic personality, you probably see the world in a completely different way from me." Then go on and explain how she might see things differently. This is kind of a pseudo-cold read that can really build connection. Out of curiosity, what kind of girls does your daddy…
/r/seduction07/01/12 03:32 AM
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Again, there is absolutely nothing wrong with making friends and being friendly to people, but the OP posted in r/seduction, and the interaction with the sunflower girl could hardly be described as an attempt to seduce. These types of interactions lead girls to see you as more of a nice guy and less of a possible romantic partner. "friendzone" is a term found in the sidebar link Glossary of Terms and is also a common term found throughout reddit. It is probably best to at least glance through th…
/r/seduction07/01/12 03:07 AM
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Looking forward to it. I've been looking for an excuse to re-read "The Game."
/r/seduction07/01/12 01:28 AM
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I never said having more friends is a bad, but most people come to seddit because they are tired of being put in the friend-zone by women they are interested in. Perhaps your post would work better in r/foreveralone
/r/seduction06/01/12 10:29 PM
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This is a very good post about how to get friend-zoned.
/r/seduction06/01/12 06:31 PM
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In fact you will probably get a good feeling from being rejected by a beautiful girl because you gave it a shot. I don't think I have ever regretted approaching a girl, but I have certainly regretted not approaching them.
/r/seduction06/01/12 05:08 PM
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Good work!
/r/seduction06/01/12 05:03 PM
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I've been practicing pua material for about 2 years now and would consider myself an intermediate. To be fair, nights like this happen about 1 in 3 times I go out, so there is still room for improvement.
/r/seduction06/01/12 05:00 PM
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I read FRs to get pumped up before I go out. FRs with both good and bad outcomes are very helpful.
/r/seduction06/01/12 04:53 AM
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Thanks that helped a lot
/r/seduction06/01/12 04:26 AM
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Yeah - I prefer the term "playful asshole"
/r/seduction06/01/12 04:21 AM
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I picked up "forcing the IOI" from Gambler's Stealth Attraction DVDs - definitely worth checking out if you are at a intermediate/advanced level. Basically you make eyes with a girl and wink, raise your glass, or make a goofy face. If she mirrors your action or smiles, you can open with 99% success or like in my case, she will come and open you.
/r/seduction06/01/12 04:18 AM
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I've used it a handful of times with success, just make sure she doesn't take you seriously. Good luck, and happy Thursday
/r/seduction06/01/12 04:07 AM
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Exactly. It's pretty textbook stuff but it's textbook for a reason
/r/seduction06/01/12 01:33 AM
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Learning the difference between staring and gazing might be the key. Just practice and calibrate.
/r/seduction05/01/12 11:49 PM
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Being stuck on an cramped airplane for 2 more hours is one epic logistical nightmare. Awesome FR!
/r/seduction05/01/12 11:47 PM
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Sorry about the formatting, I guess it was a little too long for reddit to handle it properly
/r/seduction05/01/12 11:35 PM
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Sounds like a fun night! I like your attitude, but also agree that it led to inaction. Once you and her both knew it was on (when she grabbed your ass or perhaps earlier) it is best to ramp up escalation quickly and get the k-close. It sounds like you may have waited a little too long and she started placing you closer to the friend zone. If you are interested you can still recover on your next meetup. On a side note, if you are interested in mixing drinks, take a bar tending class. The classes …
/r/seduction05/01/12 06:55 PM
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When you are talking to your target don't break eye-contact before she does. This may feel uncomfortable to you, but once you learn to embrace the sexual tension good things will happen. Don't be creepy!
/r/seduction05/01/12 06:34 PM
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She definitely was interested but it seems like something you did put her off. I would keep pinging her with texts every now and then but put most of your focus on improving your game and meeting other people. A good exercise would be to read through the sidebar links or some other standard pua material and then reread your post to identify all of the AFC mistakes you made. Find a few things to improve upon and get back out there and get more experience. Best of luck to you!
/r/seduction05/01/12 04:23 AM
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Gotcha. Never had logistics alter my state but everyone operates differently. Props for identifying something that negatively alters your state, especially something that is easily preventable.
/r/seduction05/01/12 04:05 AM
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Not quite clear on why poor planning prevented you from kino'ing. Sure you might not have been able to get the lay right away but you probably could have gotten more than a cheek kiss... It does throw me off when they don't drink - where would you have taken her if you had known in advance? Coffee, art gallery, froyo, etc?
/r/seduction05/01/12 03:30 AM
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This sounds like yet another shit test As outlined in the shit tests guide you should have agreed and amplified by saying something like "I try to limit myself to just cocaine and meth, but will occasionally shoot heroin if it's a social setting." Based on her response, she doesn't seem right for you anyway. IMO The ultimate goal of pickup is to have enough women chasing you so that you become the decider. It can be seen as a way to filter girls that are not compatible with you.
/r/seduction05/01/12 02:04 AM
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For example if you text: "You are possibly too good at that cherry stem trick.." She won't really be sure if you are simply commenting or hinting Maybe not the best example but I think you get the idea. Obviously use sparingly.
/r/seduction05/01/12 12:55 AM
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It depends on the avatar you are trying to evoke. Sometimes I try to give off the 50s film noir vibe in which case "sweetheart" and "darling" make regular appearances.
/r/seduction05/01/12 12:37 AM
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Bonus Tip: if she takes a while to respond, reply with something like "who is this? I don't have this number saved in my phone.." Bonus Bonus Tip: Use ".." instead of "..." to add intrigue
/r/seduction05/01/12 12:27 AM
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My favorite recently is "Shift Leader at McDonald's" and I will usually mention that I recently won employee of the month. If done correctly you will get a free drink out of it.
/r/seduction05/01/12 12:17 AM
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