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Red Pill guys seem to understand that nature of women better. Men's rights seem to be more focused politically, possibly even earning legitimacy by avoiding the personal dynamics that exist between men and women because of how messy that can get. Red Pill guys rolls around in that personal turmoil between men and women that Feminist seem to have evoked. It can get spiteful and hateful in that arena, I have to admit. But, when it comes to dating and understanding women from a personal and relatio…
/r/MensRights26/04/17 04:53 AM
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I didn't ask any questions, I thought she was being stuck up about it. The other girl I was dating was hotter so i focused on that. Point being, I'm not a shy guy and I have no hang ups about saying what's on my mind, sex or not.
/r/seduction22/04/17 01:15 PM
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Never assume - I once didn't get a second date cause I made a porn joke. Far from uptight lol
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:34 AM
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You don't need to watch, use words. It does not matter if she finds you attractive or not. If you find her attractive, you should be trying to engage. At some point you should have worked your way into a situation in which you can speak honestly. That situation happened for me and I got clarification. It was after two long coffee / dinner dates. But, it eventually happened. Just keep your expectations low, be yourself. Exchanging numbers and texting is perfect for office situations. You can do "…
/r/seduction03/12/16 04:56 PM
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Yeah, i have a girl at work who does this. Went out with her twice but she sees me as "friend". Some girls are just naturally flirtatious
/r/seduction29/11/16 04:40 AM
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Do it, humans are humans and they find each other attractive. Don't do anything like touching her at work. Ask her to meet you in the off hours or on the weekend. Try not to let co-workers know.
/r/seduction29/11/16 04:38 AM
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Just say you like when she wears make-up. Being direct and being a dick are two different things.
/r/seduction29/11/16 04:36 AM
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You captured my response. But, lets entertain his idea because it gives us a peek into his instincts. Women like sex and male company just as much as you like female company. You can't use up "interest". Meaning you don't have a finite level of interest conjuring abilities that run out after a week of texting. Women who are older than mid 20's don't like texting. Its fine when you are in the stranger danger phase. But, women don't attach to that type of communication the way men do. Men are just…
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:11 AM
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Yeah basically text as you would talk. If the conversation is interesting, then the girl will want to see what you are like in person. Just like a face to face, a girl that barely answers or answers short is not all that interested Texting is a bridge to what you need to know and other types of communication. It's less pressure and less personal which is a good thing sometimes. It allows the other person to feel comfortable.
/r/seduction20/11/16 03:55 PM
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Nah, give it a shot. If it does not cost you money and nothing negative can come from it, i say go for it. Example Met a girl at a party who seem more than interested. She was always partially ghosted, i would go weeks and months without hearing from her. But, just out of the blue i would engage with her. I didn't care if it was "creepy" or any of that bullshit. One day she called me out of the blue and asked me to come over. I was stupid and forgot condoms, but she wanted to fuck badly. I settl…
/r/seduction19/11/16 08:03 AM
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Why when someone wants to get paid for written work, it seems like a sin.
/r/seduction16/09/16 04:21 AM
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Train MMA or Jiujitsu. The "alpha" part in these guys comes from the confidence of being in an elite group of dudes. It has nothing to do with job title persay, NFL guys or other sports guys feel and act the same way. Combative give you a level of confidence you just can't get from self help books and puffing your chest out. The reality is that even a navy seal could not "tap" even a blue belt in BJJ and you would know what it's like to mix it up physically with people bigger and stronger than y…
/r/seduction08/09/16 11:12 PM
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See, the frustrating thing is that it is not always. Just sometimes when I get caught off guard I have done outside sales and even had a job where I had to take random photos of people during MLB games. 35,000 people to walk up to and interact with. I even have a girl force me to kiss her once, she was hot though. We are all working to get better, that's the lesson
/r/seduction08/09/16 05:38 PM
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The weird thing for me is that if I strike up a convo. I get this "don't ruin it" fear. I feel like women can be nice and have zero attraction. I sometimes feel like I would be a jerk for ruining that "nice" moment into something less platonic. It's like when someone says hi to you and then a second later they are trying to sell you cable tv. That bait and switch kinda feel. It's all in my head I am sure
/r/seduction08/09/16 12:54 PM
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I have started to come to that conclusion as I analyze this. Men love and want sex. Women have trivialized that need as being simply carnal desire. They don't understand that sex is emotional for men as well, if a guy cares about the woman he is with. They elevate their need for "security" to a level of social good. Which basically means a man that can pay the bills if she can't or chooses to stay at home. We all know that a man that can't provide is a deadbeat or loser. It also means physical s…
/r/seduction07/09/16 05:47 PM
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I literally had a woman tell me that she would not settle down with a man and be a good "housewife" unless he made 120k a year or more. I was later kicked out of that party for calling her on her bullshit. You have the run of the mill basic stuff like "Have a good career". But, most of these chicks are students and don't even have that for themselves yet. It's just a bunch of hyperbole because when these girls date a guy seriously, it's usually nothing like this "list" of demands. They are basic…
/r/seduction07/09/16 05:26 PM
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I throw all list out the window as a man and I advise women to do it to. When it comes down to it, either we want to fuck or we don't. I won't consult a list after my dick says go. So why bother ?
/r/seduction07/09/16 05:26 AM
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My point is that it's not shallow for people to have preferences. To be up front with what is and what is not....it is a healthy dose of reality. If you feel like you are not the hottest girl around, then the reality is that you have to offer more than just your looks. Nothing wrong with that, that's how it's always been.
/r/seduction07/09/16 05:25 AM
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Attraction is not a matter of intelligence or willpower. So, it should not effect how you view women vs men.
/r/seduction07/09/16 05:22 AM
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It boils down to this, to clarify. Men have more options because physically more women are available and our standards are lower. Mature men's standards usually revolve around how well they get along with said women, less drama and strife. Which means I agree with you, super hot does not mean good wife or good in the bed...lord knows Women have less options because their standards are higher. But, those standards (in my opinion) are not conducive to happiness. They are fantasy more than fact. I …
/r/seduction06/09/16 03:38 PM
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So, I was "triggered" by the lack of good men paragraph lol. I'm 33 as well and I have dated a good number of women of all ages, shapes and colors. I have even taken time to learn a lot from women who I could not get a chance to date for various reasons. I listened to them all. Women often times overvalue themselves and often times create unobtainable or conflicting standards for the men they want to settle down with. Most of the women I date are college educated and somewhat successful. They of…
/r/seduction06/09/16 01:22 PM
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I am relaxed, just thought it was funny
/r/seduction04/09/16 01:05 AM
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Well, my point was that it happens even in bigger cites. Especially with Facebook. The women I date know that I go on dates with other women. Until it's locked down official you have nothing to worry about
/r/seduction01/09/16 05:13 PM
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It was literally a girl I was looking at and then she sat down and kissed a dude.
/r/seduction01/09/16 05:12 PM
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Annnnnnd she sat down next to her boyfriend, maybe next time
/r/seduction01/09/16 04:53 PM
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I'm about to try some day game just to motivate you lol
/r/seduction01/09/16 04:48 PM
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Thank you sir!
/r/seduction31/08/16 01:35 PM
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Does not seem like a lot of effort thus far. She could go either way, just keep it going. If you get tired of the shit, bail.
/r/seduction31/08/16 04:14 AM
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Not at all lol I live in the Detroit metro region, which includes the college town of Ann Arbor. At a little spot down near Detroit, i was on a date and across the room from me was a women i just had a falling out with not more than 72 hours ago. She lives 40 minutes away from the restaurant and i had never taken her there or mentioned it. I look over on the other side of the bar and Steve Ogg (Trevor from Grand Theft Auto) is having drinks and shooting the shit. So, shit like that happens to me…
/r/seduction31/08/16 04:11 AM
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Well, I think part of it is playing to your strengths. Shaq focused on being a low post powerhouse. It earned him rings and fame. Working on his 3pt shot vs more time on his low post skills would have been pointless. Cold opens are no longer cold when you have a reason to talk. It's not even the cold open that's the problem, I can say hi to any girl. But, trying to grab her attention and start and conversation in mid stride while she's walking to work, class, home. I'm a professional photographe…
/r/seduction28/08/16 05:34 AM
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Well, unless you know everyone on planet earth.....all advice and so forth is in general terms. Everything must be tweaked to fit your situation, but that's for you to figure out. Information like this is just tools in your toolbox, you pull it out when it is necessary and needed.
/r/seduction19/08/16 04:27 AM
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Sounds like hearsay to me. I'll stick to my Big Cock theory :) All girls do crazy shit for a few guys. So, technically they all have hoe moments. I think rumors get started about girls who like black guys because they like black guys. I hear white guys all the time say they won't deal with a white girl that has dated a black guy, it's slight racism at work.
/r/seduction13/07/16 08:08 PM
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So, I noticed every other races says that girls of their race who only date black guys are whores. Is that a jealousy trait? I feel like if you are not black, then they never dated you.....so how do you know they are whores? I think sometimes guys feel jealous about the preferences of girls that turn them down, it's not a logical choice, it just is what it is. And yes we have huge cocks
/r/seduction13/07/16 05:38 PM
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Usually 3 Honestly, guys need to be careful too man. Getting some crazy chick in the bed with maybe an equally crazy ex boyfriend (or current boyfriend) hunting after you is no good. I like to know what i am dealing with.
/r/seduction13/07/16 12:59 AM
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Then stats should back it up, I haven't seen any that do.
/r/MensRights12/07/16 05:51 PM
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If you were to spend the time even to apply as a police officer, you would realize that's not the case at all.
/r/MensRights12/07/16 02:46 PM
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But the data shows that's not the case. BLM is not about any rational truth. It's about furthering a political agenda
/r/MensRights12/07/16 02:45 PM
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Oh, I forgot to add Black women are damn near condition for hard aggressive approach. Like, straight up grab her arm at the club when she walks by type shit and get her number on the spot, no warm up or chaser. So that could be another reason for the difference. I have had many black women tell me that if a guy is too scared to approach or too nervous to talk, she won't even deal with him.
/r/seduction12/07/16 02:30 PM
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As a black guy who has dated women of different races, your observation is not wrong for sure. Black / Brown women are typically more "stern" or "serious" when i date them. My silly nature and humor tend to fly right overhead and sometimes even leads to a bit of conflict. But, I'm kind of a unchanging asshole so i next them if they can't take a joke or take themselves too serious. White / Fair Skin women don't typically have that stern nature and general conversation at random seems easier. But,…
/r/seduction12/07/16 02:26 PM
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Actually, not really. I sometimes ask them. Girls who are not already modeling are usually self conscious about having a professional take their photo, no matter how many selfies they have on Facebook.
/r/seduction12/07/16 02:09 PM
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I work as a photographer and even when that was not my fulltime job, i still kept that as my title. Its a mystery item for them, i tell them i photograph cars and girls.....which is true. They seem to be interested but not from a pure money standpoint
/r/seduction12/07/16 05:12 AM
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I read the police reports. Don't know if that was all the documentation available though
/r/MensRights08/07/16 10:29 PM
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Can't tell if being sarcastic....... But, no....first date starts with a hug. You know her at this point if you set a first date. So, greeting with a hug is fine. You also made sure she knew that this is a "date". Women still hold that term in high regard vs "hanging out". On my date last night and the night before i established touch. So, one girl i have done photo sessions with her, so we are comfortable around each other and this would have been technically a second time having dinner and dri…
/r/seduction03/07/16 08:51 PM
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Touch.....touch.....touch. That's the bridge with most women, especially hands at first. The second is eye contact. But, you have to set the tone. Be upfront. Tell the woman upfront that you find her attractive and want to take her out on a date, rather than something that could be taken either way. This also will root out false positives. Women who are not interested won't necessarily let a "date" happen and will tell you that they are not feeling that situation.
/r/seduction03/07/16 08:09 PM
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I think the point is that as a whole, guys who cheat on girlfriends are said to be absolute fuckboys (to use new slang). Most women would think said person was a low-life, never date them. Guys in some regard, take pride on taking another man's woman away...even if for a night. A guy that gets cheated on is looked at less favorably than the women that cheated on him. The stereotype is that "he must have done something wrong" and "He can't satisfy her in bed" So, this kinda shows what i believe a…
/r/seduction03/07/16 07:59 PM
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Sexual clues are very nuanced, but a women inviting you over is a good indicator she likes you enough to attempt sex. Coming into your house is another big sign. But, closeness is key. A women under your arm vs a woman that decides to sit on the other side of the club are very big clues. So, if she does not mind being very close to you. I would say it's safe to make a move. With experience you will learn
/r/seduction02/07/16 10:24 PM
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Hard to reply exactly while on my phone and I am waiting on a date! But, I get the gist of your questions Remember, you are not using excuses. You are genuinely wanting to spend time with her. So, you should be doing things you want to do and inviting her as company Netflix and Chill is just slang for any activity guys use to try and get a girl alone. 3 Sometimes, a location I want to go to is closer to me than it is for her. At that time I say "park your car at my place and we will ride togethe…
/r/seduction02/07/16 10:19 PM
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So, as i said before. The first step is that you have to be genuine and you have to be interested. So, being yourself is key. I actually have a date tomorrow with a girl i talked to last week at starbucks. She came in with her friend and were looking for a place to sit. We made eye contact and i said hi, she responded. Because she had books and a laptop with her, i asked if she was a student. From that point on we had friendly banter and i found out that she's is currently staff at my old Colleg…
/r/seduction01/07/16 06:42 PM
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You can't pretend not to be a perv, most women with a clue will spot your motives off the back. You are really whipping up a formula for a dumpster trash chick, if that's your thing then go for it. I personally go for high class women who i want to be seen with. You have build a network of women that trust you and either sleep with you or introduce you to other women. That takes time, but once you have a solid lineup, you can get sex from one of them anytime you want. That way, it's no effort at…
/r/seduction01/07/16 04:45 AM
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Personally, not really an issue for me. Im not crazy about one night stands with randoms honestly. I usually keep a solid group of women around me to chill with and have sex on a regular basis. You don't get that from one nighters, its almost too much work to get ya dick wet once. Secondly, i like my women to be clean and self respecting. Chicks that go home with a diff guy night after night are honestly unstable and a headache in the end.
/r/seduction01/07/16 04:41 AM
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I Day game almost exclusively. So, i have a weird method. i like to go to restaurants and coffee shops around town. I take note of the cute girls, even the ones that work at that location. I then kinda rotate to different locations. Over time i have developed a circle of girls that i run into on a semi regular basis. it kind lessens the pressure of stopping a woman while she's ordering a latte for her number, i'll probably see her next week or the next day. This system worked to perfection and i…
/r/seduction30/06/16 03:33 AM
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In the area as well
/r/seduction30/06/16 03:27 AM
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Think of an arrow shot from a bow, watch it fly away and understand you can't retrieve it. I literally learned this while competing in Archery, you can't take the shot back so don't worry about it. Most of the time those roots are in the thought process that life could have been better. Well, if you win a million bucks tomorrow, how could life be better than that? So try to strive toward better goals that bring a higher level of success. Past failures will then seem much smaller.
/r/seduction30/06/16 03:26 AM
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No such thing. Hit him up and see how it goes. Guys don't really need to be seduced. Try to hang out with him, if he says ok then you are in
/r/seduction30/06/16 03:17 AM
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Destroy them - plain and simple. Girls understand the situations in which they have social advantages. Some girls are assholes and get kicks out of making guys feel uncomfortable and awkward. They keyed you as possibly being antisocial and an easy target. The best comebacks and shut downs come from losing your filter and being brutally honest when someone is fucking with you....you gotta blow them out of the water or they won't respect you. Things I have said "You talk a lot of shit for being a …
/r/seduction30/06/16 03:10 AM
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I disagree, Coffee is fine because the conversation can be more focused. With a restaurant you are distracted by the waiter, food and drink. You can often transition out. I like this option. Starbucks and if i get a good vibe from the girl i will invite her nearby for food. Traveling together builds a bond, even if just walking.
/r/seduction27/06/16 10:41 PM
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Old school pimp style - If she does not check the guy for coming at her, she's not your girl. I dated a coworker of mine for a little bit. Some guy i don't like at all tried to get fresh with her, in front of me. She destroyed his life. I just looked at him and said "i told you she was a firecracker" and walked off. That's how your girl should be, shut any bullshit down before it starts. Especially if she is with you. You should not have to say a word, unless he is going into pest stalker mode. …
/r/seduction27/06/16 04:01 AM
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When i hear a girl say "fuckboy" i instantly think. "oh, you mean all the guys you probably dated" It's just another term for men who get over on girls at this point in time. Guys who fuck them and leave them, have wives at home or do basic shit like send dick pics.
/r/seduction27/06/16 03:50 AM
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Man, that's a tough spot. You probably have to come across as old school and respectful as possible. Women are women, young or old. So typically being polite is the key. Be honest, approach the young woman and tell her that you don't mean to be rude to her mom, but you are attractive and i would like to get to know you. Sometimes, the sheer brashness of doing something like this puts them on their heels. But, by being polite and not forcing her into a corner, "can i get your number" style, you e…
/r/seduction27/06/16 03:47 AM
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So, i am from Detroit and many of my friends have children. Some have gone through similar situations. So, when mom signs the birth certificate and dad is not around, he has no immediate legal discourse to deny paternity. In many cases, the state automatically puts said father on child support. This happened to a friend of mine who had a child while married, the state immediately wanted him to pay child support for a child he lives in the same house with and is married to the child's mother. Onc…
/r/MensRights27/06/16 03:41 AM
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She's a delicate flower type who can't tolerate people disagreeing with her.
/r/MensRights24/06/16 07:26 AM
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Where were this chicks when I was young
/r/MensRights23/06/16 12:57 AM
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Very. I love Doug but never heard this before lol.
/r/MensRights21/06/16 09:09 PM
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Even Co-founder of Occupy said it was a sad failure because it never did anything meaningful. Secondly, it was a brainchild of a magazine in canada called Adbusters. Often these "revolutions" are simply not revolutions at all, just people using influence to somehow inflate their own egos. But, he basically said americans don't have a taste for real hardship and pushing true boundaries. Which furthers my belief that have of this bullshit is people with nothing better to do. Revolution is when you…
/r/MensRights21/06/16 04:03 AM
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So, the real reason is this. Agency. The feminist movement requires that males are complicit in feminism on the behalf of women. Not necessarily white knight status. But, a level of sympathy and understanding, even if misguided. Islam offers no such means to do that and thus they realize it can't work. Secondly, they want to accumulate brownie points here among their peers. Those peers often never extend to the impoverished and downtrodden, its latte sipping middle aged white women trying to imp…
/r/MensRights21/06/16 03:56 AM
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Sum it up - I don't like things that make me feel bad. That's emotional reasoning and its a fallacy of logic. Remember, these people do these things to prove they are part of the same hive mind. This is the social equivalent of joining the same sorority or fraternity. It lets people know how progressive you are and that wins you brownie points from your constituency. This is what happens when you essentially give credit to women's tendency to feel insecure about everything basically. Models and …
/r/MensRights16/06/16 05:36 PM
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But, remember the prosecutor has a burden of proof. You must prove it did happen for it to have merit. His testimony is a prime source of information as to how she made it to her final location. He was rather drunk himself and carrying a girl for a decent distance just does not seem likely. She had no injuries, so dragging her does not fit either.
/r/MensRights11/06/16 02:20 AM
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If you were to bring that as a probability, you would then need to have evidence to support it. Police report mentions no bruising or injuries. So, it's possible but nothing suggest this happened.
/r/MensRights10/06/16 07:38 PM
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In the context of the law, knowing someone has no bearing on if a Rape is a Rape or not. The only difference is that both people remember what was going on after the fact. He claims that she gave consent and didn't know she passed out while he was fingering her.
/r/MensRights10/06/16 07:35 PM
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Did that once in early grade school, never again. I didn't meet up with her till years and years later. She was married to a guy she didn't love and had 3 kids. Vowed never to let opportunity go by again.
/r/seduction10/06/16 02:25 PM
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The police report says nothing about her sustaining any abuse or injury. No one seen either of them leave the party. The logical conclusion is that she walked away.
/r/MensRights10/06/16 02:11 PM
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Actually, that's exactly what happened in the swimmer case. He claims they were on the way to his place to have sex and ended up on the ground. She walked with him and eventually passed out, but no one knows when. She does not remember anything at all, but that does not prove she did or did not give consent. The only difference being that he remembered afterward. The entirety of the case hinges on did she give consent before passing out.
/r/MensRights10/06/16 02:04 PM
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Police report never says he left out of disgust. He explains that he stood up to puke a few feet away and that's when the guys approached him. He says to puke, they say he ran. You can see how each person can view the same act out of context.
/r/MensRights10/06/16 10:01 AM
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Shrugs, I don't get the intent to rape either. But, any dude I ever met could end up in this situation, is what it is. But, the judge not going to give him 14 years for fingering. I just don't see that going down anywhere
/r/MensRights10/06/16 09:52 AM
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Well.... So the police mention anything and everything in the reports they make. Its just a really detailed and wacky way of describing events, but it's important for obvious reasons. But, the real reason it does not mean anything is because he admitted to fingering her, which by law almost the same as inserting your penis. That's why he got convicted of sexual assault. He also got hit with intent to commit rape? Which means his penis could have played a part. He had already said that him and th…
/r/MensRights10/06/16 06:02 AM
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Actually the police statement says this, the officer noticed. Page 6 line 27. Please,Please people for the love of god do homework on the things you talk about. The police report is here. https://assets.documentcloud.org/documents/1532973/complaint-brock-turner.pdf
/r/MensRights10/06/16 05:18 AM
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I could see that. But, while women come and go....i always feel let down if i cant approach and get "that" one....the one i'm drawn to at the moment. By the next day, its all forgotten...but still. Its not about really getting laid, its about the excitement of the interaction for me.
/r/seduction20/10/15 04:04 AM
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I dunno, number closes are hard but really satisfying. I have found that at the end of the day, sometimes the girl your chatting with randomly just wont be around again. Waitresses get fired.....students leave. I feel a number close gives you a good contact no matter what twist in life happens. I often call a few days later for a date setup. Is it forward? Yes, it is. But, its your first line of BS detection. A girl who wont setup a date with you is probably not that interested and thats clear u…
/r/seduction18/10/15 07:23 AM
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I agree, being real with your faults is a big step in real confidence. It also shows that you are human, girls are nervous when talking to guys too.
/r/seduction18/10/15 07:19 AM
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