How do you juggle dates with several different girls?

SnappedSoul · 2016-08-31T04:02:14+00:00

Why are you about to cheat with the girl that has a boyfriend overseas? Pretty shitty tbh

MindsEvolve · 2016-08-31T00:57:35+00:00

Those thoughts will go away after you actually experience it and see that it's no big deal. Those girls might have other dates too. People do what people do. Until you're in an exclusive relationship you can do whatever you like.

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shoganaiyo · 2016-08-31T05:11:58+00:00

I just tell them I date other women concurrently as a matter of course and only see women who are ok with that. At first I was nervous that it would drive them away, but things are still going good. There is some jealousy between them, but otherwise being direct and honest has worked pretty well.

rofio · 2016-08-31T09:08:58+00:00

James Marshall does a good talk on it. Basically explain to them that you aren't willing to be monogamous at present and you are ok if they don't want to continue seeing you if they have a problem with that. https://youtu.be/V9owHXPPe_Q

More advanced revolves around spinning plates https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2swklp/why_its_important_to_learn_how_to_spin_plates/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V9owHXPPe_Q

leprogrammist · 2016-08-31T13:10:38+00:00

Best is to decide early on which one you prefer and drop the others. It is only fair. I had this situation only once and it is a bit stressful on the mind to go from one date into bed and then straight to the other date. Keep your conscience clean and pick one as soon as possible.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-08-31T15:03:57+00:00

a lot of women require a certain amount of dates etc before they commit etc. therefor it's only fair that you are dating multiple girls at once so you are not wasting your time. they understand the setup they are requiring and most are doing the same at some degree.

STX415 · 2016-08-31T00:09:59+00:00

Are you really in such a small environment that you could run into one girl you're dating while on a date with another girl? Unless you're at a very small college, I find that very improbable.

You don't say you are a very busy man who is having trouble finding time scheduling dates with multiple girls (which is what most of us would like to assume). Instead, you are having anxiety about single date with one girl, simply because you think you may run into another girl you're also dating. That's bullshit.

1) Don't worry about it and enjoy your date.

2) The small chance that you do actually run into a girl you're also dating is quite a bitch to manage. There's really not much you can do when both girls make eye contact with sparks flying as they realize what's going on. Your best bet is to make sure you're dating girls in distant to completely dissociated social circles, maximizing your chances of them not knowing each other or doing similar activities.

Stop overthinking shit and good luck.

Blackouttsi · 2016-09-01T17:13:17+00:00

Well, my point was that it happens even in bigger cites. Especially with Facebook.

The women I date know that I go on dates with other women. Until it's locked down official you have nothing to worry about

Title	How do you juggle dates with several different girls?
Author	seductiveRobot
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Date	August 30, 2016 11:48 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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