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leprogrammist/r/seduction13/10/16 11:31 AM
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leprogrammist/r/seduction16/10/16 08:22 PM
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leprogrammist/r/seduction29/10/16 11:31 PM
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It's called rejection.
/r/seduction01/11/16 06:37 PM
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Sorry to hear. But it is the same for many women. I once had a virgin who was 40. She thanked me so much that I slept with her. I really felt sorry for her. But then again where's the woman you get a mercy fuck from :) My first girlfriend was also 23 when we had our first sex. I was a virgin too. It is not uncommon with more intelligent people.
/r/seduction01/11/16 06:15 PM
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One of my sticking points is finding the right time to exit a conversation. I oftentimes continue talking to the girls although in my mind I already know that it's not on. Knowing when to exit also increases your value from the girl's point of view. As she recognizes that you can read her fine signals and don't continue some needy conversation. If you stick to the same one or two people for too long you cannot make use of any group dynamics. I still got to learn this.
/r/seduction01/11/16 01:31 PM
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Opening with boyfriend and girlfriend is as easy as it gets. Both are usually bored and you can make friends quickly. Once you hooked the set connect it to another set and so on. The more people you talk to the more likely they can introduce you to someone who is there but single. It doesn't matter if this is a party, a club, or a bar. Any place with people will do.
/r/seduction01/11/16 01:01 PM
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Your mind and your ego are your most powerful obstacles. It is like learning to paint like a child again. As a child you are not afraid of being rejected. However other females treat you mean. You learn to not approach anymore and protect yourself. However to become a true master like Picasso you have to learn to be the child again (but in a more deliberate way). It takes years of practice.
/r/seduction01/11/16 12:54 PM
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Because of slut shaming. You are slut but you don't want to look like one. So you go to a guy in the hope that he has understood this (because he wrote 'no hookups'). Of course of all this is big lie. But nobody cares. Females feel better when using little lies in their life. It's the same reason that a woman will never say no to you but always use sort of an excuse. It is the fine art of hypocrisy. If males were the choosers everybody would write "fast hookups please".
/r/seduction01/11/16 12:01 PM
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it seems like girls I actually want to date are not interested in me. and that will never change. Swallow the red pill - suffer through it and find women that are attractive enough for you and also like you.
/r/seduction01/11/16 08:49 AM
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I think you should think of sex for a man - as like going to a restaurant. The best restaurant sucks after a couple of years if you go there every day. And you have to eat, that's life. Some people go to McDonald's all their life. Some need something else every day. So if this guy has a place where he can get food then you better make your restaurant good for him to switch to you permanently.
/r/seduction31/10/16 07:14 PM
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Tuning your reticular activating system is for example when you think about the color yellow and suddenly you start noticing yellow things everywhere. when you focus on getting girls you will suddenly notice opportunities everywhere. whatever you focus on will happen.
/r/seduction31/10/16 06:51 PM
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reticular activating system
/r/seduction31/10/16 06:46 PM
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You have to cloooooooose man. Close or be forgotten. That's a sad fact of the night. ;) Respect for going out alone.
/r/seduction31/10/16 06:42 PM
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dafuq on the countryside where a friend of mine lives I would see a guy like 80 years old dancing with several 20 year old girls in a club. lol. :D I'm 33 and just yesterday women thought I was mid twenty. So if by 25 you look like 90 I would say leave it...
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:29 PM
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True. Better is first meeting at the club or while going out. Make out there. And then meet at the coffee shop (plus pick a good table and sit adjacent + escalate and later go home). However first meeting in coffee shop is awkward. I had the experience when we got to know each other online we would schedule a date some place (pseudo-date) and after a couple of sentences find an excuse and say 'ok then let's meet at your/my home'. Which makes things way easier ;)
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:20 PM
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Most women won't respect you once you do favors. They will even feel entitled and complain once you stop. So never do it. For guys you give them one shot and if there is nothing in return so be it.
/r/seduction30/10/16 02:57 PM
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Would guys drop sure sex for possible sex with a hotter girl? that's idiotic as sex is sex. It doesn't get better when a woman is hotter. Also what makes you so sure that just your looks make you better at sex? You just feel more entitled because you think you look better. Just as any guy - if you want to get better you have to develop inner game and your personality. hotter doesn't mean you have more chemistry with a given person. there are some hot looking women who are hot only on their photo…
/r/seduction30/10/16 02:30 PM
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Very good observations. Of course during the day people have to get stuff done - so they are not as relaxed as in the evening. However chances appear there and then and you have to be aware of them and react consciously. You have to condition your mind so that whenever you see a chance you are ready to approach and act accordingly (pickup of the number, go on a coffee instantly, take her home etc). Once you tune your RAS amazing things can happen.
/r/seduction30/10/16 01:40 PM
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Your energy level should mirror your target or be slightly higher. That said it depends on the state of the person you're interacting with. Social calibration is not absolute but always relative to other people. Thats why it is very bad if you approach a sober woman drunk whereas it would not matter if she was drunk and cheerful too.
/r/seduction30/10/16 10:24 AM
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The answer is yes.
/r/seduction30/10/16 10:19 AM
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Building courage and confidence is independent of looks. There are plenty of attractive guys that are too afraid to approach. Most women aren't into looks. Your face is just a fraction of your total presence. Forget these ideas. A pretty face without character is worthless.
/r/seduction30/10/16 10:15 AM
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Stop trolling.
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:47 AM
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Voices in your head could be schizophrenia. I would consider seeing a doctor. All the best.
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:45 AM
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It all boils down to effective time management.
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:37 AM
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Lol... have to remember that One. :)
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:29 AM
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Don't always try to find the hair in the soup. You can't approach everybody. Concentrate more on solid interactions. Way more valuable than high quantities of shallow conversations. If you become successful you don't want to think about your losses all the time. That is your mind playing tricks on you.
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:17 AM
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Lol you're funny. Those would make impressive stories for routines :p
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:12 AM
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You aren't listening to him. It is important to him. You don't make something important your side quest. You have to deal with it now. E.g. by going out every day and approaching everything that isn't on the trees by 3. Of course he should chill. But forget the side quest. If you put something like this on the side nothing is going to come out. ever.
/r/seduction30/10/16 12:36 AM
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Only 10% of guys in bars approach. and 90% of these are drunk. when you approach sober you are basically ahead of 99% of people. Another fact - even in relationships - most of the conversation is dry. Average people are boring. They have got nothing going on in their lives. Most people live in a daze. I would say you should chill a bit and relax. No problem has ever been solved by suicide.
/r/seduction30/10/16 12:31 AM
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It doesn't mean much. But then again it doesn't mean nothing. Same for make out. Most girls remember a make out for years. I was always astonished how much they remember that I had long forgotten.
/r/seduction30/10/16 12:15 AM
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So many youtube videos.. other than that get a friend/wingman to watch you and cheer you up out there.
/r/seduction30/10/16 12:03 AM
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Tyler from RSD claims that he has Asperger's. I don't know if that is true. So what do you think he is? Alpha? Beta? Gamma? Delta? Or Epsilon ... :) Your idea about life being fair is interesting. I think it is totally fair. Why? Every upside has a downside. Therefore life can only be fair. If you get no women you also have many advantages in life (time, freedom, less annoyances .. countless others)
/r/seduction29/10/16 11:55 PM
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I tried to answer your question https://youtu.be/umUUk6FJJLY
/r/seduction29/10/16 05:51 PM
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In a wider context, finding out someone's opinions on a topic and replaying them a few minutes later using the same key words, gives them an instinctive confidence that you are like them and therefore one of the good guys. sounds manipulative. the exact opposite of being yourself if your opinions don't match at all. also beta if you talk only after their mouth.
/r/seduction29/10/16 03:24 PM
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"I believe she will be better off with me. " I admire your confidence. lol.
/r/seduction29/10/16 03:08 PM
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go to prague. best women. avoid austria at all costs. german girls are also bad at flirting.
/r/seduction29/10/16 02:52 PM
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because no girl ever leaves alone. and most of the time they go straight into a taxi. you need to be fast and on point at this stage. also it needs to be very physical sometimes. and then there is competition. if she leaves with a guy you have to know very quickly how to get rid of him. i am very bad at this so maybe someone else can explain. it is advanced stuff however.
/r/seduction29/10/16 02:38 PM
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forget the clock. the game is between you and a girl. it doesn't matter what time it is. however the club has certain psychological aspects to it. for example after the crowded phase comes the phase when people start making out. at this point you can see many girls running around desperately looking. the better you how it works you can use certain facts: for example really pickup horny chicks right at the exit. however this is advanced stuff. you should just go there and try to have fun the firs…
/r/seduction29/10/16 02:29 PM
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A side note: not only are they not really busy most of the time - they are bored to death often. A really really busy person always reacts differently and would never say "I am so busy." they say "ah tomorrow I have a, b, c, d. Maybe we can talk a couple of minutes between c and d?". Busy people are masters at scheduling things.
/r/seduction29/10/16 02:10 PM
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No girl is ever really busy. It is a hidden rejection. I mean think about it.. you would never say you're busy to a hot girl would you? You would make room where possible. Game is also knowing all the excuses and there are plenty which sound plausible. Took me some time but I can smell rejection from a hundred miles away before they even open the mouth.
/r/seduction29/10/16 02:06 PM
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I want to be set up with Scarlett Johansson.
/r/seduction29/10/16 01:57 PM
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You know it's stupid to think about game as something only the 'bad guys' use and only on the girls 'they don't like'. It is white knight thinking and stupid. either something works with women or it doesn't. there is no good girl or bad girl on which you need tactics. you don't practice tennis and when you play against Federer in wimbledon you suddenly try 'something else'. all women are the same. they all fall for the same or they don't. Everything that you learned on here will also apply to th…
/r/seduction29/10/16 01:52 PM
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I have a different point of view as I used to learn a lot about AI at university. At least for myself I wouldn't feel very much appreciated if I talked to someone who only rephrases what I say. Then I could as well chat with a chatbot online.
/r/seduction29/10/16 01:48 PM
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It works. However only with very daft people. And it only works to hold a conversation not pull. Also what's the point?
/r/seduction29/10/16 11:16 AM
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"Let you know asap" Don't be a fool. This is not like anyone has to think about anything. This is game over and you know it.
/r/seduction29/10/16 10:38 AM
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You refuse to use pua tactics. Well then good luck in your dream world.
/r/seduction29/10/16 09:28 AM
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no matter what happens - this isn't going to work out in the long run. I bet it ends with "wish you the best".
/r/seduction28/10/16 12:48 PM
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this + an insecure girl = disaster.
/r/seduction28/10/16 12:31 PM
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the irony being that psychos and serial murderers are the best at faking the friendly neighbor in the first couple of interactions whereas the seemingly 'crazy' people at first glance are often harmless.
/r/seduction28/10/16 12:13 PM
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this whole concept of 'now we are together, now we are not, now we are friends etc' is also bullshit. either i treat someone with respect or not. but not this half arsed definition of what we "are" atm and therefore what we can do now. i guess women invented this shit. i could perfectly live without it. who needs a "relationship state"?
/r/seduction28/10/16 12:06 PM
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in my country (austria) it was like the girls are looking for somebody to marry and have kids on tinder. and very upfront about it. so i guess it depends where you go.
/r/seduction28/10/16 12:02 PM
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you don't need no therapy. you need a good woman to care for you. someone who cooks and gives you regular blowjobs and so on ;) but i suppose you need to come down a bit from your superficial standards. therapy is just a crutch for rich people. a hopeless attempt to buy mental health. it doesn't work like that. you could be the richest man on the planet but with your current mindset you would be the greatest loser.
/r/seduction28/10/16 11:41 AM
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You keep talking and try again later. If she complies with no touch at all for the whole date you ditch her. for every woman that takes weeks and months to warm up there is a girl who will give you everything right there and then. you wouldn't return to a restaurant if they bring cold food after 5 hours of waiting...
/r/seduction28/10/16 09:39 AM
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Skip the 'very cute'. She could be an asshole and feel offended.
/r/seduction28/10/16 09:25 AM
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"quiet and thoughtful and more women than he can handle.." I think this is a bit wishful thinking on your part. You will not even get to know anyone unless you open (your mouth).
/r/seduction28/10/16 09:13 AM
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Pepper and salt go together like curry and rice.
/r/seduction28/10/16 09:09 AM
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All beginner questions are the same: I have a crush. I am so nervous. Ok I talked to her. She said she has no time. What to do? Ok now is 5 years later and I still think about her. What should I write? Should I text? Should I talk to her?
/r/seduction28/10/16 09:08 AM
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It doesn't matter what she thinks. It matters what she thinks after you talked to her for an hour or so in real life. You could as well stop communicating with any other people on this planet. Or you can talk to everybody.
/r/seduction28/10/16 09:00 AM
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I wonder where this weird thought comes from in some men that seduction is manipulative? I mean women invest in their clothes, hair, make up, smell all the time. It is all manipulation. Take away all this and they are pale, weak creatures. Still cute, but why should a man not be allowed to use anything? That would really make us a victim. You cannot win in a race when everybody around you is doped to the max. Media, internet, economy - everywhere we are manipulated on a daily basis. Nobody is a …
/r/seduction28/10/16 08:57 AM
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try asking out in person. enjoy your crush.. I wish I had one :D
/r/seduction28/10/16 08:40 AM
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Don't go too low. You will start hating yourself later on. Women will never go low - why should you... it's not like you owe them something just cause you're a man. There are so many losers out there fucking everything that moves. It's a shame. If you spread your genes with an ugly woman you worsen the pain for future generations of men :)
/r/seduction28/10/16 07:58 AM
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not to you I mean to her. seriously..
/r/seduction28/10/16 07:23 AM
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I would text 'fuck you'.
/r/seduction28/10/16 07:23 AM
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If you already have a girl that is in for it, what's the problem? That's like 99% there. Just pull and "oh btw here is my girlfriend, want casual?- but don't get too crazy ok!? I'm the relationship type o' guy" lol
/r/seduction27/10/16 06:59 PM
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text game is not game. only the most desperate women need to resort to 'text game'. as has been said countless times you use texting to arrange real life dates only. not more not less. without body language she may not get your jokes or irony (because some women are plain dumb). usually these girls chat with 15 guys in parallel so you cannot ever have a 'meaningful' conversation. when you write your second sentence she already forgot the first because you have only 5% of her attention. whereas i…
/r/seduction27/10/16 12:11 PM
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That's why narcissists are good at game. They like presenting themselves. Other people are pulled in by them. The other people think 'oh I can still change him/her later. s/he is not that bad..' Narcissists have great confidence and self esteem. The problem of the narcissist is not pickup. It is sustaining relationships.
/r/seduction27/10/16 09:53 AM
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befriend the guy and then bounce into the both of them a day later. you get the introduction for free.
/r/seduction27/10/16 07:20 AM
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I don't know what you mean by plenty. If this app is an example for hookup culture then why does the op have the problem that most of his matches want relationships? And that is not only his observation. It is a common observation. Also makes sense evolutionary but I don't want to digress. Thanks for your hint about sex. I didn't know that. I have to tell my children about it tomorrow.
/r/seduction26/10/16 11:51 PM
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No doubt about it. I know that these apps work. I found my last girlfriend on badoo. However for me personally there is never a really attractive lady on there responding. ever. maybe I look like crap. maybe my profile is crap. whatever - I don't want to analyze it. In real life I just approach. In real life I have to defeat my fear. Online you have to defeat pretty much everybody else.
/r/seduction26/10/16 10:57 PM
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I talk about whatever I feel like. Who are you.. where are you from etc. I approach women however who look like they are looking for somebody. Open for approach. You don't approach the girl chatting on the phone. I mean you can but probably it will go wrong. How can somebody say 'thank you' without even knowing what you want? maybe you wanted to ask them where the toilet is etc.. it doesn't make sense to me. I think you have to say more specifically what you are saying. Try saying something diff…
/r/seduction26/10/16 10:12 PM
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Try something simple: hi, hello. Or start non verbally. Obviously you can talk in other situations. If you can't you are maybe retarded and you should spread your genes with great care. Just relax. It is only women - often they can hardly form a logical(!) Sentence themselves. However many quick illogical ones ;)-
/r/seduction26/10/16 06:04 PM
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What's the purpose of your life?
/r/seduction26/10/16 05:55 PM
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You should actually feel into the situation. It's not something mechanical that happens out of the blue. From time to time you can just move in and if she turns away her face (which happens) you can kiss her neck anyway. If your first try fails act as if nothing happened and continue talking.after a while try again.for some women it is a big step for some it's just nothing. Verbalising or not makes no difference.
/r/seduction26/10/16 05:49 PM
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You should not ask for money. Seriously. Other than that maybe there is something wrong with the way you look or your behavior. If you cannot even survive a couple of sentences that is odd. Happens all the time but rarely.
/r/seduction26/10/16 05:30 PM
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You are on your way. Just continue.It will come when you work on it. You are not alone after opening. It is not a one way street. Keep pushing a bit more every time.
/r/seduction26/10/16 12:56 PM
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Obviously you have no idea. What you have to do is develop game. Ditch tinder and develop yourself. Most women are not into casual. Because their main purpose in life is to have babies not random sex. Men want random sex. This discrepancy cannot be solved. You can only learn to attract women in general.
/r/seduction26/10/16 12:27 PM
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I have been there. Travel to another country. Live by yourself. In other words man up. everyone started out as a pussy like you. I moved to Russia for a year. There comes a point when your old self dies. Go places that you are afraid of all by yourself.talk to people everywhere you go. Also acknowledge that it was not your fault. Everybody is born with different talents. This game is hard if you aren't born a natural.
/r/seduction26/10/16 12:11 PM
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This is not how life works. Get a sex partner and keep her as a friend. Also don't "confess" your feelings. It will creep her out. Best outcome is she stays in touch with you for pity. Girls do the choosing. If she wants something you would know already.
/r/seduction26/10/16 11:38 AM
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You sound like a dick. Stop living with a stick up your ass. Be polite and be happy that you are not living on an island. This is a seduction forum. If you want to blow somebody off go to the femnazi forum for advice.
/r/seduction26/10/16 11:28 AM
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No paranoia means they are after you. Hate means you are projecting your hate on other people. So I would argue op hate people in general.
/r/seduction26/10/16 10:48 AM
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No they don't care. They don't hate you. There is a difference. To some extent all members of homo sapiens are selfish assholes and everything revolves around themselves. As someone mentioned hate means you are important to somebody. Hate is better than not caring. Hate means you had an impact whereas the initial state means you had none.
/r/seduction26/10/16 10:46 AM
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You don't need routines to break a brick wall. Brick walls are usually bitches and you don't want to change your game because of statistical outliners. Be friendly and warm, that is enough for a Start. Routines are not good enough for the flexible real life.
/r/seduction26/10/16 10:40 AM
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I never had such weird problems. At least if she touches you you should touch her back. otherwise you leave her with a weird kind of rejected feeling. Women can't take this for long. They are not going to give you second chances often. But as you sound like a lamer and she is into you she is probably a lamer too and will.
/r/seduction26/10/16 10:28 AM
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Thx mate. Not very exciting though. I would have liked to hear from you that you cold approached 10 women on the street and went on an instant date. And went to bed after that. What you did was luck. I was on the same route until I gave up on being an armchair pua. I felt like a crippled man while using tinder. Using tinder is as exciting as ordering a pizza to your home. What happens - you become fat and lazy because of it while telling yourself it's ok. But what kind of person do you become? B…
/r/seduction26/10/16 09:56 AM
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It is enough to be sexual. No need to talk about it at all. I never do it. In the relationship it's another thing.
/r/seduction25/10/16 03:25 PM
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It is possible. But not in the way you expect. You see it doesn't make sense logically. A perfectly happy person. Fulfilled and happy would never invest energy in something as energy consuming as picking up women. When you can just sit there being happy there would be no need to get up or get out. Happiness doesn't need the bonus. In any moment of your life you can decide am I happy now or unhappy. It only depends on the way you look at things. The answer lies in your question: you stop telling …
/r/seduction25/10/16 02:36 PM
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you have a phone number. so you call. if she doesn't pickup 3 times in a row - next. making out means nothing. girls will make out with almost anybody within minutes. don't install whatsapp in the first place. facebook whatsapp etc.. all of this apps are catered to women so that they can have huge social nets and swap people at will without much effort. make yourself rare. and the craziest thing is - it works. several women tried to bring me back to whatsapp. this app is a relationship destroyer…
/r/seduction25/10/16 02:22 PM
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For mastering relationships you need someone who is mentally on your level and I can't imagine that a 21 year old girl is on the same page as a 31 year old man. I'm only a couple of years older than you but I could hardly imagine any commonalities with girls this young.
/r/seduction25/10/16 02:01 PM
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I deleted tinder yesterday. This game is for pussies. You have maybe 1% matches. 10% of which reply more than a sentence. After a week I met one person that was interesting but butt ugly. She was a gold digger :D You have to deal with butt-hurt people, the result can only be that you become one of these butt-hurt people after a while. I decided that I'd rather die in the field than play this losers game any minute longer. It's uncomfortable to sarge alone but at least something comes out of it. …
/r/seduction25/10/16 01:22 PM
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the second half of your life is about giving back. either you teach somebody. or you try to make somebody's life better. or you have kids. when you master one thing it's time to pick up new challenges. so you claim that you mastered cold approach. obviously you didn't master relationships yet. neither did you master teaching nor giving. you should pick up one of these new things. stop wandering around breaking hearts aimlessly.
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:43 AM
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That was exactly the problem. Your exact sentence came up quite often. It is sort of a shit test because it tests how much you are into her. And anything less than her being the center of your universe makes her break down. You can make it work in the long run but it is not worth the effort. You cannot heal an insecure person.
/r/seduction25/10/16 10:04 AM
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if you are gay it cannot change. you are the assertive (male) part and therefore must do the chasing. (like any other man)
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:59 AM
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Assuming you are not gay: By cultivating the virtue of patience and getting rid of your control fantasies. In short get rid of your neediness.
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:57 AM
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Make sure that your response time is never below 24 hours. That communicates interest. Also you could always say the opposite of what you want. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/10/16 08:02 AM
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Ghosting and no reschedule doesn't sound like mixed signals to me. I mean how many more signals do you need? Pictures of their marriage? Of course you can ask. Some girls will deny though. Insecurities / fresh relationship / lack of trust.. numerous reasons. Simply eject I would suggest.
/r/seduction22/10/16 09:49 PM
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...says the pushover whose life is changed by a single book which states 'get some hobbies and therefore attract models'. Of course I'm low value to the marketeers of this bullshit, it would be absurd if I wasn't. Don't worry, my book will soon come out. Maybe I will even put "Mark Manson" as the author, you wouldn't even notice ;)
/r/seduction22/10/16 09:13 PM
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How many people get to stick their dick into their personal perfect 10? 0.0001%. And the ones that have the chance fuck it up miserably. Life is so fair. Lol. You made my day. You are whining on such a high level it is almost ridiculous.
/r/seduction22/10/16 08:30 PM
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So every girl that you know is either single or sleeps around.. which planet are you from?
/r/seduction22/10/16 06:39 PM
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depending on how insecure a woman is, shit tests will come regularly. my girlfriend would still shit test me after we were together for a year and a half. i would suggest look for a better woman instead. because one day you say something wrong (cause you're tired or angry) and she will freak out. it's not a good life with insecure women.
/r/seduction22/10/16 05:55 PM
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You just need one friend or wingman. Makes it easier to survive in the field. Plus use some dating app on the side. As you look good it should be easy to arrange dates.
/r/seduction22/10/16 05:45 PM
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Just continue like this. Also don't be afraid of parallel dating. You make a date with two girls at the same time and flake on one (improves your karma). It feels very good sometimes to pass on stupid excuses of previous rejections ;)
/r/seduction22/10/16 02:06 PM
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So let's assume neediness decreases as you get "busy". Which is likely because you have other things on your mind (other than women). But after this where is my drive? As neediness used to be my drive and the neediness is now gone!? And then with less drive you get more women? You see where I'm going. It simply doesn't match my life experience - which is whenever I invested a lot of energy in finding women I would be successful. Whenever I did less nothing came out of it. And here comes Mark Man…
/r/seduction22/10/16 01:34 PM
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That sucks. I had really bad skin in my first 25 years of life. Game is already tough without any handicap. Looks matter because if you don't feel comfortable in your own skin it shows (not the look per se) There are always people who are off much worse though. That's a starting point for giving up your strange thoughts why you cannot approach.
/r/seduction21/10/16 11:32 AM
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this needy vs non needy is a flawed example. you can't fulfill one need by doing something else. for example: you are thirsty (=want sex). it will not help in this case to eat (=have a hobby, life goal whatever..). it is good to have a life goal in general and hobbies but it will not make you less needy in other areas. this should actually be common sense. part about investment is true. however more early investment is only a symptom of neediness. it is not a cause in itself. high early investme…
/r/seduction21/10/16 10:49 AM
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Proceed with extreme caution ;)
/r/seduction21/10/16 10:32 AM
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1) Kiss close somewhere. 2) You invite her to your place.
/r/seduction21/10/16 10:22 AM
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Clothes shopping that sounds fishy. When a woman takes you clothes shopping and you are not already sleeping with her it usually means you are in the friendzone. Ask her over "to my place to watch DVDs". Use exactly this wording. If she says "no I'm busy" you know what's really going on. This technique has many advantages - first: it is not too overt. Secondly it clearly shows her interest level and level of comfort. I often ask this question and it instantly creates clarity. With this method yo…
/r/seduction21/10/16 10:11 AM
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I would suggest to get a wingman instead if your sole motive is to meet women. It should be someone who is moderately successful in this business. Anyone who knows something about pickup will agree that a wingman changes everything. Alone in the field is not easy - can be really frustrating. Friends on the other hand take so much energy and once you are in a relationship you don't have much time for friends anymore. It is hard to find good friends. Should be easier to find a wingman.
/r/seduction21/10/16 09:06 AM
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The equation is not as simple as Mr. Manson states it. His approach is one that works for sure and makes logical sense. You have to put into the equation however that women change every day and so do you. For example you and your ex are the same people. One day she allows you into her pussy, the next day you are not an option anymore. Is she a no-girl or is she a yes-girl? It depends on the specific moment. Your odds change daily depending on many factors. Many factors outside of your control, m…
/r/seduction21/10/16 08:21 AM
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you need not necessarily be relaxed.. my heart is usually pounding very fast, sometimes it feels like I'm dying :) You just have to control your voice and make sure you don't fidget with your hands. on the outside it always looks half as bad as you feel on the inside. it's like public speaking for the first couple of seconds. another reason that you don't need to be completely chill is that the other person will feel exactly the same.
/r/seduction20/10/16 04:11 PM
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most likely true, though you could have written it a bit more respectful.
/r/seduction20/10/16 11:37 AM
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IMHO you should hit on girls not the other way round. If she hits on you then she also hits on others. When you find her attractive and like her you are trapped basically. Worst situation to be in. Don't play her game. Play your own game.
/r/seduction20/10/16 10:47 AM
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She is not interested in you. She has never been interested in you. And third: she will never be interested in you. How do you progress? You chat up a new girl until one comes along that is like her - but a 100% different ;)
/r/seduction20/10/16 10:19 AM
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I should have known that you are still young as the "am I normal" question usually doesn't arise in older people. The answer is - it doesn't matter if you are normal or not. And 'what should I do?'. Strange question also - as you already wrote before you have certain interests. You should pursue your interests. If girls don't interest you then spend your time on other things. There is no such thing as a 'normal' life. Women are as small or big a part of your life as you want it to be.
/r/seduction20/10/16 10:08 AM
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Yawn...
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:59 PM
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I often feel like this. It is a matter of age. Are you Russian ( out of curiosity )?
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:50 PM
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I used to know a guy. He was 1.80m and "attractive". I would go out with him. He was afraid of approaching, while I was killing it. I always opened first. He just stood there. A pretty girl would come or send a girl to bring him to their table. Never happened to me in my whole life. Funny story - I always made out earlier than him. He would just get the contact and leave. When he was chatting online, I was already in bed with the other girl. And it was like a this a couple of times. Part of me w…
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:30 PM
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At least you can find people with similar interest there!? BTW You wrote nothing about the boot camp.
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:21 PM
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I like elevators of office buildings. Bars of clubs. Tram station benches. Generally where people have to wait and you make their day better instead of stealing time from them.
/r/seduction19/10/16 11:58 AM
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Being confident and feeling good are different things. Confidence means you trust your own abilities. Why do you think so many famous super stars become alcoholics? They would have all the reasons in the world to be confident. And they probably are confident or at least able to fake it well. However they are unhappy. You can't force yourself to be happy. But confidence is a mindset that you need to train and I think you can train it.
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:01 AM
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Scarcity is a mindset that there are only few possible mates while in reality there are thousands if not millions. This is a psychological effect that we tend to focus on the one loss we see when it fact it doesn't matter at all. Like some random tinder conversation. You need not stop tinder, you need to stop overthinking one short interaction.
/r/seduction19/10/16 09:48 AM
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Sometimes happiness is just around the corner. And a day earlier it seemed unreachable. If you take your life however it is gone forever. It takes only a day to find a girlfriend. Sometimes a couple of hours. I don't know what you mean exactly with lower your standards. I've had a couple of really ugly women in my life who I fucked. It basically feels the same when you have sex. You can always leave later when you feel bad about it. The human body is a bit of a machine. With sex you just feel be…
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:06 PM
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Your love and sex life are non existent. And you want a casual relationship - so where is the love part then? You are a bit torn. I think what you want and what you need are different things. A girlfriend that loves you will help you more with your depression. If you want to join the 'dark side' then you have to act like a member of it. Find a way to be a dick and still get girls - voila you have a casual relationship. Casual relationships don't last long however.
/r/seduction18/10/16 02:50 PM
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I think you lack persuasion. Women are shy. You don't ask for a coffee and they say yes. That rarely happens. You have to be a bit more pushy. Elaborate if they say no. Say 'No, I'm really interested. How about a tea?' Use humor, drop some interesting facts about your life. Create some interest. Random facts do wonder sometimes. As it happens you hit a keyword that she is interested in. And she will say yes all of a sudden.
/r/seduction18/10/16 12:59 PM
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How can it be creepy if you ask for a coffee? If I ask for a quick bang in the backyard that would be creepy. Without being a little aggressive you will get nowhere ever.
/r/seduction18/10/16 12:36 PM
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You date corpses?
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:12 AM
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Strange, every time I bring my mum to a date it doesn't work out with the girl...
/r/seduction18/10/16 10:31 AM
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girls on tinder are easily offended - why? tinder is a last resort. and even there 'everybody is bad to her.' The problem however is not the guy who writes 1 or 2 random sentences to open - it is the judgemental behavior of the girl. What can you say about a person who you wrote 2 sentences with + 3 random photos? Nothing in essence. These women would also fail in real life situations, but there they can't hide as easily. Basically when you matched and wrote a line your work is done as a man. Wh…
/r/seduction18/10/16 10:15 AM
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Yeah sure.. she is very sexually interested.. that's why she brings people along. lol. maybe she is preparing a threesome!?
/r/seduction18/10/16 08:53 AM
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Wie kann man 2 Jahre jeden Tag etwas machen und immer noch Angst davor haben? Vor was hast du Angst - vor dir selbst? Demotiviert okay.. Die Strasse ist nicht der beste Ort in Wien. Was verbindet man mit Strasse? Verkäufer, Obdachlose, Bettler, Spendensammler, Irre... Es ist kalt es ist nicht bequem. Welcher normale Mensch verbringt mehr Zeit auf der Strasse als nötig?
/r/seduction18/10/16 08:44 AM
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"Besides, what world are people living in in which it's acceptable to walk up to a stranger and start hitting on them?" Lol you are so right. I also hate those damn advertisements hitting me all day. Do you know google? They make billions spamming people with advertisements. A shameless company. What does it mean to hit on somebody - it is offering your time, the most valuable thing that you have to somebody else for free. That is actually a service for humanity.
/r/seduction18/10/16 08:31 AM
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Probably not interested the young lady. I think you need not make up stories. When you have time you can say I have time. When you don't have time you don't. No need to invent something. You wouldn't want a girl to make up stuff would you? Men can be straight forward. Let women find the excuses. Make it easy on yourself. That way you can always avoid that you fuck it up because you weren't honest.
/r/seduction17/10/16 01:28 PM
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"get bored when they 'figure' somebody out.' I don't think so. Unless you are really bland/dumb/uninteresting. According to your logic all relationships in which you share everything are bound to fail. On the contrary it will deepen a relationship the more you share. Many women will want to get to know you before they sleep with you. If you don't share anything and it is all lies and fluff that may help with very shallow people but not in general.
/r/seduction17/10/16 12:48 PM
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" lose all of your power because she knows you like her if you verbally state it? " No, not at all. If she is attracted by you she will enjoy it to be desired. There are girls that live off of attention however. And there only touching shows if she is just faking it or not. She will react positively then to verbal compliments but back off when you touch her. Public infield videos are somewhat censored because nobody wants bad publicity. Also they usually show only the first few seconds/minutes i…
/r/seduction17/10/16 11:27 AM
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There is a wall that some women put up. You have to keep talking through it. You need more stubbornness. Believe that what you say is interesting. And keep talking. If she doesn't say anything smile and wait a moment. If she smiles too it is also a sort of compliance. It is hard to tell what you are doing wrong without seeing you in action.
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:59 AM
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Maybe granny was jealous? Maybe you should have taken her number too!? lol.
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:53 AM
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The mind cannot forget. However you can distract yourself or reframe. Physical avoidance aka distance. Or only invite girls you are not overly attracted to who are still attractive. The more you invest the more it will hurt finally when you lose. Heartbreaks are unavoidable imho. At least for a couple of times.
/r/seduction16/10/16 09:51 PM
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It is a form of hiding your nervousness. One could say that it is "immature" but you are still young so it is "normal" ;)
/r/seduction16/10/16 09:19 PM
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You have no idea what it's like for a girl to get hundreds of stupid messages. The rudeness comes from being annoyed and overwhelmed. Instead you should ask the spammers to be a little more gentleman like because these guys destroy the game and have a bad influence on women. Women are only a mirror of their surroundings. Of course they think that beauty makes them special when every second guy is only into that. Again our own fault.
/r/seduction16/10/16 09:11 PM
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You should avoid work topics, politics and things that could be interpreted as direct insults. Anything else is fine.
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:57 PM
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That's a tough one. However I'm sure that the same rules apply as for everyone else. Your success rate will be substantially lower of course. The option to pay somebody always stays.
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:49 PM
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Had this too. However this is not pickup or seduction. It is basically a girl wanting to have sex. Which they always get whenever wherever. Only guys have to work for it.
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:42 PM
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Plot twist: the 'lucky' winner got her pregnant.
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:39 PM
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shit happens.. I think you did nothing wrong.
/r/seduction16/10/16 08:35 PM
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Keep it professional as you already did. You should not report that is not gentleman like. But keep her at bay.
/r/seduction14/10/16 06:11 PM
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However my second thought is if it is too far away from reality usually they can tell. They will not tell you but then later they may leave. Keep some things real and only improvise on some parts that helps.
/r/seduction14/10/16 06:09 PM
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In love and war everything is allowed.
/r/seduction14/10/16 06:03 PM
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Go to some amateur porn site.. they sometimes look for guys that look young. And you can fuck without doing anything. They might even pay you. It is not a joke. Some are deliberately looking for 18 year old to fuck some older woman. I wish I had known at that time :D Or try to sell yourself. Fuck some older women.. There is a lot of demand out there.
/r/seduction14/10/16 05:04 PM
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No you are not doing what it takes. Otherwise you would have success. Because in your situation you do not know yet how it works. Maybe you look too young. Or you don't have interesting topics to talk about. Or you cannot sense interest. Or you don't have enough balls to approach. Some little piece is missing. You want to feel good? There is no way to feel good every day. Some days suck. Some are better. How you feel is independent of success with women. My wish at that time was to fuck a girl w…
/r/seduction14/10/16 04:56 PM
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I'm from Austria and the situation here also sucks. What I did is I went to different countries and put myself in the darkest clubs in Russia and when I came back I was a different person. Try online tinder badoo etc. It is very simple. Forget clubs. Clubs suck so much. Stupid people, loud, boring, everybody stuck up unapproachable basically. You have to either move/travel or go online. The best girls don't go to clubs.
/r/seduction14/10/16 04:46 PM
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Get Mystery's book. It is very simple. And it works. You don't have to use it literally. Just adopt it a bit. Tyler is a bit on his own voyage. Mystery was at a higher level back then and could also formulate a clear recipe for success. I watched pretty much everything from Owen and he is about my age and goes through the same stuff. I wouldn't even say he is ahead because I don't really believe he is that successful. He's a businessman and talks a lot. Learn from all of them. The blueprint is n…
/r/seduction14/10/16 04:38 PM
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I was a virgin until 23 years old. Never had any issues though. I just wouldn't do what it takes. You have to realize that all people are different. And this guy you know who is successful may be dead 3 years from now (not that I wish it to him.. or he becomes an alcoholic etc.. only examples). There is no need to be envious of anybody. One of my friends at your age was also good with girls - now he looks like he is 10 years older than me and is balding. 23 is nothing you can still have an amazi…
/r/seduction14/10/16 04:24 PM
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99.999% of statistics are only half as accurate as they claim..
/r/seduction14/10/16 04:12 PM
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She is an attention whore. "Oh my boyfriend he is so bad.. blabla treats me like shit.." It is a trick my friend. A trick. This is a sign that you should get the hell get out of there and remove yourself from this situation. Seriously. No loyal woman talks like that about her boyfriend.
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:29 AM
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This thought will get you nowhere. You look how you look. There are people who like how you look. Find them.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:18 AM
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When this happens it means you are good looking and tall. Never happened in my life with average height and very okay looks. Plus you will have to work less and get the better looking girls. It sucks. It really sucks ;)
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:15 AM
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well you have two choices - do nothing or say something. which one does not lead to any result for sure? difficult question :)
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:00 AM
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I'm not sure what you are trying to tell me with feeling through. I never was afraid to explore these feelings. It went as far as I told the girl directly that I had a crush on her. And I always made it to a date with them. Also kiss. However not sex which is a pity. Sex with a crush must be the best. Doesn't happen it seems for me. Usually they back off somewhere in the middle and one becomes 'the winey beta' as you explained. Problems is this crush thing happens so rarely it is hard to learn f…
/r/seduction13/10/16 08:30 PM
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Better game doesn't get better responses or less flakes. Better game means faster weeding out uninterested people and females with low likelihood of something happening. Better game to me means also that you enjoy the process instead of being hurt and wondering what you did wrong. Life is a complex struggle on so many levels. I would go as far as without flaking game wouldn't be interesting because everything would be predictable. Everything that becomes too easy is not interesting anymore. But …
/r/seduction13/10/16 10:46 AM
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there is a problem with your thinking. it is the assumptions that you did something awkward. which is not the case. coming on too strong is never a reason to be given the cold shoulder. girls that are into you will back off shortly maybe if it is too much. but they will return later on. however girls who aren't into you at all get weeded out quickly this way. you haven't lost anything. you have gained information. you haven't made a mistake. you have uncovered a hypocrite. of course she is mad a…
/r/seduction12/10/16 12:58 PM
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let me tell you to a story young man. went to a club. happy mood. saw a girl thought i want to kiss her. went over. said 'hiii...' - at this moment she immediately tried to slap me and started ranting that I should fuck off etc.. (you know what I mean). before even saying a word. I turned around. had a weird laugh walked 5 meters in the other direction. saw a nice girl. smiled at her. she smiled back, gave me a hug and we kissed. moral of the story: when you role a dice it can be either 1 or 6. …
/r/seduction12/10/16 12:41 PM
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it's disrespectful, just move on. what a waste of time. no woman is out of your league ever. you have the wrong mindset. the prettiest girls are often the most insecure. how can a totally insecure person be out of your league?
/r/seduction12/10/16 11:11 AM
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as he is your friend and you know that he can do it - why not ask him directly?
/r/seduction12/10/16 11:07 AM
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Man, nothing feels like a cold approach working out. That is like a hole in one. On Tinder et.al. you have the horny girls sitting at home inviting someone over to fuck. "0" game required as you mentioned. Tinder makes rejections easier. But it is fastfood. Respect to all guys doing cold approaches. IMHO you don't grow as a man using one these apps. Approaching random people that takes balls. And you get to know people. You are not so easily rejected as just being ignored.
/r/seduction07/10/16 12:20 PM
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There is an easy rule. Mark Manson wrote an interesting article about it. If you ask a woman and she is not like "fuck yes" then you are basically wasting your time. Why would I spend months and months winning over one woman if I can ask three more and the third says 'fuck yes' and 'now.' Life is short. Of course if she is hot you can ask her another time. But think about it for a second - if somebody isn't even going for a coffee with you how likely are the further steps to succeed with such a …
/r/seduction07/10/16 12:07 PM
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She is most likely inexperienced. You say that she is amazing. Then you need to give her time and a little guidance. And you have to lead. Explain everything step by step like explaining to a child. Some women are complicated when it comes to sex. One thing is for sure, she will never be your private porn star. And it will be the same all the time - you initiating. So if you don't want that you need to find another girl. Everything is a lot easier with older women. You talk 3 sentences and then …
/r/seduction07/10/16 11:57 AM
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Annoying these restaurants - I always go there to hang out but those damn fucking waiters always keep asking if I want something. Sometimes they become rude even or throw me out.. damn it..
/r/seduction04/10/16 02:19 PM
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You should get permission from your sister. And your parents. All men do that. Only if you don't have any sisters you need not. So I don't.
/r/seduction04/10/16 02:02 PM
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You get rid of nervousness by regularly putting yourself in the situation where you experience this nervousness. Then there are two choices - either you die of a heart attack :) or the nervousness disappears. Usually the latter happens. But I tell you what happens later when the nervousness is gone - it has become routine and is not so much fun anymore. As with anything: when it is new it is interesting. Later it becomes more and more boring. The answer to your last question is sex. Sex and inti…
/r/seduction03/10/16 07:57 PM
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Usually you pick one and then take it from there. If you don't know which one to pick, make a random choice. Obviously both are not right because you cannot decide. And no matter who you choose - they may leave you at any moment later on - as you have already learned.
/r/seduction03/10/16 07:49 PM
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so jaded lol. I knew some excuse my being jaded. I know what you mean when you say dream girl. As I said I was the same some years ago. Before the kid, the girl, the next girl, the next girl... the next kid and so on You have to see the big picture though - you're just driven by your hormones. you are not in the driver's seat. you think you are. nature is in the driver's seat :) be proud of yourself why not. I don't think it is a good idea to break social norms though. It can land you in jail yo…
/r/seduction03/10/16 07:11 PM
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first of all you rarely meet a girl alone when going out. there is always two of them. or sometimes there is a guy with them. group is usually even simpler even though it seems harder at first glance. after 'hi' there comes the introduction phase. you can talk about why you are at this place. why they are there. if they come often or just once. where they are from, how they know each other. then you tell something about yourself. that yesterday you saw a great movie. be very specific. tell them …
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:32 PM
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Probably she is still very young and doing experiments. A mature person would never act like that.
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:20 PM
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So you ran after a girl for 20 seconds and then chickened out and were proud of yourself? Weird. But hell, I guess we all did this stupid shit some day. Never works though. One little advice - when you are thinking of her as 'the one' you are at a disadvantage from the very start. start from a point where you and her are on the same level. and then based on each sentence of hers you readjust how interesting she really is. your 'dream girl' could well be dumb as bread. she could even be a psychop…
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:01 PM
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Talk about your own interests. If you like music e.g. tell her about Beethoven. How he is used to be alone blabla.. Learn some little anecdotes. Things that are interesting that not everybody knows. If you don't know anything make something up. If they ask you if that is really true, say it was a joke. That way you create a playful mood where nothing is too serious. Have a laugh about it. When you open up, the other person usually opens up too. Avoid "hard" topics work, politics, technology, mat…
/r/seduction03/10/16 01:38 PM
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Kiss her on both cheeks at the start of the date. When you start walking take her hand. Or put your arm around her. Touch her while talking, making little gestures, like a tapping on the shoulder. Try to sit closely and if possible not opposite. If she gets uncomfortable, make pauses and refrain from touching. But continue later on. I have had a couple of girls telling me that 'it's too much, it's too fast etc'. Usually the next day they call and I ask them to come over and we fuck immediately. …
/r/seduction09/09/16 12:27 PM
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Maybe you should look up Albert Einstein's view on free will. And then you can look up 'biological machine'. I have a feeling that you are actually talking about yourself in your comment. "The more theory you know, the better you are at pick up." That would be only if the theory is correct. However pickup is not absolute science because results aren't reproducible. So all stats you gather are wrong. You have to forget the theory and use trial and error. This is where generalization comes in. You…
/r/seduction07/09/16 11:16 AM
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If everybody is so different and psychology applies to everyone differently how can you speak of 'common sense' or 'general human knowledge' - You are contradicting yourself. Of course stupid and smart people can have problems. "A strong frame comes from YOU, not from how you perceive females" Aha and where does this frame come from if not from your neuro associations that you formed perceiving women and social situations in the past? Does it come from the void between your ears? You realize tha…
/r/seduction05/09/16 11:07 AM
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the 'all people are different' state of mind doesn't help you at all in pickup. general rules apply always, same as in psychology. and this can give you extreme confidence. A strong frame doesn't come from knowing every person on this planet inside out. it comes from a simple and effective model of 'female' in your head. problems in pickup arise from a person being too intelligent / overthinking / in their own head. stupid people never have had a problem hooking up. they just do it. the more you…
/r/seduction02/09/16 08:20 AM
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End this line of thinking. once rejected is usually rejected forever. there are so many people out there. you don't need to give second chances and same applies for the other person. it is a 100% easier to start fresh with a person than to start over again with a person who thinks she already knows you. I believe that a person cannot change deliberately. You can change over time yes. But you will always be you. You haven't improved just evolved a bit. She rejected you because of a too small nose…
/r/seduction01/09/16 11:54 PM
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if you are an anxious person alcohol will only strengthen your fears. Get away from all drugs. If you believe that you have issues that you cannot cope with yourself you should see a doctor. Myself for example: alcohol will not help me. If I feel strong and have no fear it will increases this feeling. If I feel fear it will increase the fear. Unless I'm completely wasted - but when you are wasted you are useless. You have to accept the fear. And do it anyway. This is the secret to a good life. I…
/r/seduction01/09/16 11:41 PM
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I would recommend if you schedule a date with a girl that the first thing you should do after seeing her is giving her a hug and kiss her cheeks. That will break the ice for the rest of the date. Don't save this up until the end of the meeting when it will become awkward. When later on you ask her to come home with you she will immediately know what you are up to because of this initial action. If she likes being touched do it more often and frequently (you will enjoy it too). Next is taking her…
/r/seduction01/09/16 11:30 PM
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I disagree. Don't be too direct. Women hardly ever say anything directly. They use a different language. Use this language too and it will be easier. You don't say to a woman "Let's have sex". That will turn off most of them. You say "Let's go home together." They use implied language most of the time. They never say no to you either. They will say "I don't have time."/"I have to go/do something else" etc.. Effective communication is communication that women understand. It is very different from…
/r/seduction01/09/16 11:21 PM
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It took me some years to understand this. But it is easy- you meet for a "date" (time together alone). And at the end of that date you ask her to come home with you. If she declines you can meet another time. If after the second meeting she doesn't agree to come home - forget her. When together at home. Watch a movie. And after some time try to touch her / pull her towards you / take her hand. Anything will work. Be gentle but decisive and try to kiss her. If at this point she says no - forget h…
/r/seduction01/09/16 11:14 PM
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Trust me I've been there. But whenever you reach the bottom something good happens. You have to continue the process of approaching and also use as many channels as you can (e.g. internet) The more intelligent you are the harder this game is. Intelligence leads to thinking leads to anxiety. Do it like women - they don't think. They just act. Women give a shit about your anxiousness so why should you? Everybody is a little anxious at a first meeting. That is completely normal. Rejection sucks onl…
/r/seduction01/09/16 10:21 PM
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It feels a bit awkward at first but this is how it works among (some) adults. You should take the chance. Maybe skip the alcohol because it makes the sex worse. Be thankful for women that are not as over complicated. There are many that are too complicated. Considering that you already postponed it there is chance you already ruined it. Remember that when you reject a girl you will probably lose her forever. If you don't want sex why bother dating at all?? Maybe you should just sort out what you…
/r/seduction31/08/16 02:00 PM
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Without knowing you it could be A) you are not good at sex. B) you are not attractive to them. C) you are boring. Usually if you have a great night with somebody and great sex then you want to repeat it. Maybe you should adjust your perception a bit - if you think that you have a good time and the other person is not - you are not reading the signals correctly. Don't change anything, keep trying until you find a decent partner. Some people may argue that you move too quickly. But this is wrong. …
/r/seduction31/08/16 01:47 PM
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Do 2 or 3 approaches per night and try to keep up the conversation for as long as you can (immediate rejections not counting as an approach). Remember this is not really about the numbers. The numbers are only there so that you actually do something not procrastinate. Think about your future life to find a good mix of quality vs quantity. In the long term quality is of course much more important.
/r/seduction31/08/16 01:21 PM
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Best is to decide early on which one you prefer and drop the others. It is only fair. I had this situation only once and it is a bit stressful on the mind to go from one date into bed and then straight to the other date. Keep your conscience clean and pick one as soon as possible.
/r/seduction31/08/16 01:10 PM
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It is really easy. You talk. You exchange numbers. You make a date at home. No 'bullshit' required. When she comes home with you you can escalate. It doesn't matter confident girl or not. Your whole idea of 'seduction' is flawed. Either a woman wants you or she doesn't. Nobody needs to seduce anybody. Nature has built men to want women and women to want men (* with exceptions) Find the person that likes you, and escalate in isolation.
/r/seduction31/08/16 12:59 PM
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