Today I had an observation about kino. Had an interesting date and we talked about sex and it was very entertaining however she seemed very reserved and her body language was negative all the time. She is 6 years older and belittled me whenever she could. It felt like an uphill struggle. It seemed like no progress at all. I looked for all kinds of excuses to touch her and talk about her body. She never took the clues it seemed. Nothing quite really worked. Then in the end when we went to the car I thought fuck it and gave her a bear hug and kissed her on the neck. I felt really bad afterwards as her reaction wasn't positive after all. We had a weird goodbye and walked our own ways. However I texted her a few hours later and she wasn't negative about it anymore. What I want to tell newer guys as a lesson - just do it even though it may feel awkward. In fact it may even feel bad to touch her. Always remember that when you don't do this it will land you in the friend zone. Some women need this "magic touch" - and it takes a while maybe but it produces something inside their subconscious mind. Many women are shy (rather cowards, which is my personal theory) and they love it when you do something they are afraid of.

This is especially interesting considering that so many guys here write - how can I transition to a kiss or sex!? Fact is if you are on a date you have to assume that it is on and act accordingly. Even if she might seem distant. You are talking to her and you should touch her. I haven't had a date in quite a while and it seems I became rusty. However in the end I remembered my times when I used to be in the zone.