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Oh for godsake. I think I'm over the "pill subs," now. It's so extra. At the end of the day, if I'm 100% honest with myself, I just want to have a family like this and call it a day. A musical family where we all enjoy music, life, living, laughing, and loving each other even through turmoil. I just want to live, laugh, love, and then die in peace. And I just need to get my mental health together to accomplish that if it's meant to happen. All of this is nonsense. Deuces. 🤦🏾‍♀️✌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:03 AM
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Sidebar, before I answer this; to properly format a quote, make sure that there is no space between the greater-than sign ( > ) and the beginning of the first word of the passage that you're quoting. Just an FYI. You keep switching up your words. First you say I'm damaged, now you say I'm damaging. No. That is not what I said, at all. I was responding to your claim that it's "the norm" for women to behave in ways that have shaped your worldviews and thus, because this behavior is the norm, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:44 AM
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It's not "damage" if it's the norm. Just because something is "the norm" doesn't mean that it can't be damaging. Eating unhealthy food is "the norm" in the US. And as a result, heart disease is also the norm as well as the number one cause of death for Americans. I've yet to meet a woman who was able to recognize that without me explaining it to her. People aren't mind-readers. If you want people to recognize how you're feeling and validate your emotions, you have to speak up. If you don't speak…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:46 AM
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And the majority is sufficient to be generalized. Ok. Remember that the next time someone says something about men that you don't like. This is a lot to pick through. And honestly, as in most cases with people who sound like this, it's due to being damaged by equally damaged people. This is why I stay to myself. Everyone has problems and their behaviors toward others are a reflection of that. Also, it's funny you mentioned about going into the studio and doing your music and having women show dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 12:56 AM
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Alright, fine. Be a child about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 08:11 PM
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Yes. People can be illegally smuggled into a country, but not imported. That's just a bizarre way to describe what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:42 PM
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why are we so hell-bent on importing high T alphas from third-world countries? Ok, so human beings cannot be imported. That is a practice reserved for goods; objects. The last time humans were actually imported was during the Atlantic Slave Trade. So, you may want to change your verbiage up, pimpin.'" Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:39 PM
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No. But you did centuries ago when it was discovered that the Irish slaves weren't able to be as productive in hot, sunny, climates. Thus, Africans became a more stable investment to resolve this problem and were imported to the Americas during the slave trade. Black men genetically have more testosterone than any other race on this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:32 PM
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It amazes me how many men actually believe that every woman they get with will be turned off if they're emotionally vulnerable and...gasp... are even seen crying. For me, it's the exact opposite. An aloof, emotionally closed off man makes me insecure and feel like I'm either getting on his nerves or he doesn't really care and is just using me. It makes me shutdown and back off. I have a very difficult time socializing and opening up to people, in general. But I don't have this problem with my fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:47 PM
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Would it still suggest that if it is offered a year or more before even trying for children? Yes. Why would the provided intention/reasoning behind the offer be rejected by the male in favor of automatic suspicion where none existed before? I didn't say it would be rejected. Quite the opposite, actually. If anything, it would give him incentive to get a paternity test; and possibly contemplate hiring a PI to monitor her movements if he's a bit on the "unstable and insecure" side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 08:08 AM
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I'm sorry, but this is the first thing I thought of when I read this, lol. That just makes it seem like you cheated, are unsure of paternity, and are trying to hide it behind a wall of "doing it for his benefit." "I totally didn't cheat, babe. This is so you can be sure that you're the father. I don't have doubts at all. Nope! No sir! No doubts, here!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:29 AM
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Yeah, habitually hitting wrong notes does it for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:02 AM
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I post videos of myself (poorly) playing the piano and memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:20 AM
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The gig I was referring to is one where we cover already existing music. It's with a company that does shows for bars and private parties/events. But we all do our own thing on the side with our music. I know a couple of them who write their own music (including lyrics) and work with a studio to have tracks arranged by a producer and engineer. You typically pay for studio time to the studio and staff who are working with you on your project. Once it's released, usually there's an agreement betwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:54 PM
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The discussion isn't about having friends. The discussion is about getting involved in a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:22 PM
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Seeing a man perform is hot, so I guess professional musician. OMG! I just said this before scrolling down and reading the other responses. This is true, lol. Source: Am musician and have seen this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:36 PM
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I didn't understand how a job could be viewed as "hot" to women until I started getting gigs as a musician. I occasionally perform at bars on the weekends and the way the women (usually the inebriated ones) practically throw themselves at the male musicians is kind of ridiculous. A man that can play an instrument, sing, and has a good sense of humor and can entertain a crowd, I've noticed, gets lots of female attention. Even if they're physically just average...and fat. Meanwhile, me and the onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:33 PM
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you make it sound as if you leaving him is based purely on altruism. i feel something is fishy here Feel however you want. I left because I didn't believe for one second that he genuinely loved or cared for me. I didn't trust him and suspected he was cheating. It's possible this was all in my head due to my issues. But, it's possible I was right, also. The uncertainty was giving me anxiety. And I'd rather leave than be left. I did it to protect myself from getting hurt by having him leave first …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:37 PM
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I'm bitter and depressed from being hurt repeatedly. Clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:26 PM
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Honestly, as someone who has a similar issue, you should probably remain single until you improve in this area. People may say that they'll be supportive, but this is usually done without a well-informed idea of what exactly that means and may require. If you're already with someone, I'm not going to tell you what to do with the relationship but I would suggest therapy. I, personally, left my SO early this year because I genuinely do not believe he loved or cared for me. Is it true? I have enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:40 AM
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Well, you're way off. The average man typically doesn't genuinely care about women, either. Most are incapable of it. They just want sex from someone good looking. But if he's older, he's usually physically unattractive by that point and the only way he'd get a younger, attractive woman's attention is by having money. That type of female isn't going to tough it out through several nauseating rounds in the "Geriatric Olympic Bedroom Games" with the crypt keeper unless she's getting access to reso…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:16 AM
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In a superficial sense, possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 07:21 AM
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Young girls with older men usually don't genuinely care about them, at all. Sinbad said it best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:49 AM
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This. In my teen and young adult years, my BMI was actually <18. I tried to enlist in the Marines and ran into issues because I was considered underweight. I kept mostly active jobs during those years, also. Now, in my early 30s, I finally have a desk job and currently have a BMI of 19.5. A lot, if not most, people get office jobs as they get older. Being more sedentary causes weight gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:34 AM
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It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:11 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:30 AM
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Exactly. It just proves that you don't know how people will react. And so, most people think it's "safer" to let people down easy and make up excuses. ETA: And let's not act like females don't go crazy, too. Men just have a tendency to reject them after sleeping with them. Which is just dumb and kinda worse because it's leading someone on. Now you've got a Glenn Close situation on your hands because you just had to dip your tip in crazy. Good job, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:08 AM
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The man that threw that 5 year old little boy over the balcony at the Mall of America back in April did so because he was mad that women at the mall were rejecting him. And so he was looking for someone to kill and chose a random 5 year old kid. Some people are absolutely sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:20 AM
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Because some men get straight up disrespectful and aggressive when you tell them "no" flat out. Ain't nobody got time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:11 AM
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Yes. I have, unfortunately, experienced it. I don't derive any pleasure whatsoever from the activity, I don't desire it, and actually find it to be a rather unpleasant and mildly repulsive experience. It's likely due to the fact that I never actually wanted to do it in the first place and only "allowed it" to happen out of a sense of obligation. Then I remembered, the only person you owe your body to is your spouse. If men want to leave me or not pursue me because they're not getting that outsid…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:03 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:57 AM
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The writing was absolutely awful for both shows. Gossip Girl was ok before the writers strike and then things started to go horribly awry. TVD was kinda "meh" for me from the beginning, and yet I still watched all 8 seasons of that mess. All 8. Shame. Shame. Shame. rings bell
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:42 AM
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We've actually known each other since we were teenagers and went to high school together and were casual acquaintances after HS. We didn't seriously start hanging out as friends until 2 years ago, and things didn't finally "escalate" until this past December. So, we waited a year. And for all I know, this fool could've been waiting 18 years, tbh. Who knows? -_- I just know that I'm currently in "Circuit City" status and permanently closed for business. No more "I love yous."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:36 AM
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How do I know how a certain activity affects me specifically? Is that really your question, lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:22 AM
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The majority of them typically do. Yes. My mother is an LCSW (licensed clinical social worker). She used to work in the prisons with the inmates. Her job was to assess them for possible release and case management. Nearly all of the convicted rapists were diagnosed as having ASPD. I got this information from her a while back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:21 AM
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Well...of course not. So not whatever happens to them. I wasn't thinking to those extremes. I consider the extreme as far as getting beat up. That, to me, seems like a normal, expected, and arguably, justified reaction to being cheated on. But never murder. That's never acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 03:58 PM
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Because...antisocial personality disorder. Combine that with a human sex drive and voila, you have your garden variety rapist. This isn't really that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 03:51 PM
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What a weird question. I don't care. However they feel necessary and justified in reacting. Cheating is cheating. No matter who is doing it. A cheater deserves whatever happens to them. Anymore questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 03:21 PM
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Ok, first of all, both of you can fall back. They were trying to act like they know how me and my family communicate and even gave a "suggestion" for how the communication should've been handled for a situation they inaccurately assumed was a hostile exchange. I then corrected their presumption by letting them know that their suggestion would've been met with hostility, and that what actually happened was not. I simply said my family is blunt and tells it like it is. And it is due to this that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:02 PM
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Alright. Whatever, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 11:38 AM
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I was more bothered that they juxtaposed that depravity to one of my childhood toys. Leave Teddy Ruxpin out of this!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 10:06 AM
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You're still sexualizing it and completely missed everything I said. If she's cheating at all, she's likely going to leave you because when women cheat it's usually because they've fallen for someone else. Since women are naturally more emotionally available, interacting with women who are into women would increase the likelihood of her cheating with a woman. Unlike the porno movies, you likely wouldn't be invited to the party and would just be left in the cold. That's the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 09:53 AM
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Sure. And that's why I'm actively staying away from men. Possibly forever. I don't have time for their cheating nonsense. I'm a very loyal, devoted, person who loves hard and has serious anger issues. Cheating on me would likely end in violence. Until I improve myself in that, and many other, areas, I need to remain alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 09:33 AM
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LOL! Or a tsundere otome simulator. I played one in Japanese to help me practice the language when I was learning, and my GOD were the options basic. And overly dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 07:55 AM
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You need to be more concerned with her around women since cheating for women is almost always about emotion instead of sex. And since women are more emotionally open, other women are easier to connect to on that level. In other words, if she were to cheat, the chances of it being with another woman are higher than it being with a man. You're thinking about cheating from a man's perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 07:49 AM
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The answer is E. None of the above There are two possible outcomes if I was married and my husband were to cheat: I keep my cool, we talk about it, and I suggest that we immediately go to counseling to work on our issues. I keep my cool, we talk about it, and I get some of my most ratchet, "fresh-out," hoodrat cousins to beat his ass. The choice between those two options would be solely contingent upon his level of remorse and overall attitude towards the situation. I can't imagine why I'm singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 07:34 AM
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If a woman truly has the mindset of a man, she's going to act in a masculine way. They go hand in hand. And usually women who "think" they have the mindset of a man actually don't. They're just not conforming to what they believe to be gender stereotypes. I personally don't believe I have the mindset of a man, but I've been told this a few times by people who know me personally. I've never really been feminine nor comfortable being feminine even when I tried, so it was just interesting to read t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:38 AM
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Hmm. Interesting take. This isn't the first time that I've been told I think like a man in a lot of ways. Maybe that's another reason why I can't connect with them. It'd be like connecting to a dude and they're put off by me. Who knows. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:24 PM
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When I said "numbers game" I meant that those men only care about sleeping with as many women as possible instead of finding one woman to genuinely love, connect to, and start a family with. I'm not sure if that was clear, or not. And in my experience, "ultra-conservative" men are concerned with their n-counts. Maybe it's because the only "ultra-conservatives" I know are Christians? 🤷🏾‍♀️ I went to a private Christian college and this guy in one of my prayer groups actually cried because he had …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:02 PM
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If he would have said 'I am concerned about your health, what are some ways you could get your blood sugar more under control' Uhh, you don't know my family, lol. I guarantee you, that approach would've gotten a response like, "Boy, shut up and don't worry about what I do." It would go through one ear and out of the other. "Soft skills" aren't really practiced in my family. Especially the older generations. They have no filter and are a very blunt bunch. If you're messing up, someone will say so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 10:44 PM
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Weed makes me have panic attacks. And I have a medical card for it. Never again. Also, I was joking, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 08:20 PM
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In Japan, it's cultural for businessmen to go to hostess bars after work with colleagues. It's actually considered impolite to decline an offer to do so. Thus, there's almost a social pressure for Japanese men to drink. East Asians are pretty bad at holding their liquor, though. Ever heard of Asian flush? A friend of mine is Filipino and I personally find it hilarious whenever this happens to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:06 PM
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We prefer Hennessy FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 06:53 PM
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Do they maybe have Irish or Italian heritage? Because that's cultural for them, and things that are cultural usually get passed down through generations. Like Black and Latina women with cooking from scratch. White women love to drink. We love to eat and cook. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 06:36 PM
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When a man says this to a woman what they are really saying it ' You make my penis sad so I am going to be rude and bully you for it'. There is absolutely NO other reason men tell women they are fat. That's not necessarily true at all. My cousin told his mother (my aunt) that she's putting on more weight and needs to lose it because of her diabetes. Now, none of us have seen him since, and we've put out an Amber Alert to aid in the search for what we assume to be his body, but that's not the poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 06:06 PM
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I think very few are callous enough to pretend to have found the One and lie to her face that he is dating with the intention to get married at some point. Been in the manosphere, lately? Your optimism is adorable. I was already in nun-mode, but after browsing the manosphere long enough coupled with the pain I went through earlier this year with a man, I've gone militant with it. I don't trust any of them. Yep. Even some of the "church men." A lot of them are just there hunting for "good women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 05:45 PM
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And because I was mostly raised by my great-grandmother and grandmother, I'm limited to men of God. That's not a bad thing, though. I find them more trustworthy, anyway. Other men? No. This is a numbers game for them. And I'm this close to conceding to the assumption that the majority of them lack the ability to love or feel anything but lust. There are a lot of cold men out there. Edit: That was supposed to say great-grandmother, not great-grandfather.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 05:34 PM
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Let's keep it real, though. Men mainly want sex. If we were just little dolls they could pull out of their closets whenever they needed "a fix and a meal" programmed to do everything they wanted and never ask anything of them for ourselves, they'd be satisfied with that. They want a Buffy bot. -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:45 PM
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I'm pretty sure this is taken from one of Patrice O'neal's stand-up routines. May he RIP. :( Edit: Yeah, it's from Patrice O'neal. I knew I'd heard this somewhere, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:30 PM
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Yep. But one of them is literally dying, so. Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:21 PM
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Yep. Ride or die gang, rise up. ✊🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:20 PM
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ONS = one night stand(s) FWB = Friends with benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:40 AM
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Women usually want their man to have slept with a lot of women. She will be more attracted to the alpha that has a history as opposed to a desperate beta who hasn’t been able to sleep with many women. No. I can't stand men like that. If he's had more than 5 and even one of them was a ONS, FWB, etc, I'm grossed out. And I know plenty of women who think this way. Ever since the stories about men "on the down-low" came out (men who sleep with men in secret) a lot of women have been paranoid because…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:45 AM
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Yeah, both shows are pretty idiotic. This guy sums up TVD quite efficiently, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:19 AM
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In this TV show called The Vampire Diaries, one of the characters slept with the guy who murdered her ex-boyfriend's mother and her best friend's aunt. Another character ended up with the guy who raped one of her best friends, caused her other best friend's grandmother's death, and killed her brother. On Gossip Girl, one of the characters ended up with the same guy who attempted to rape her best friend. He even traded her specifically to his uncle for a hotel. Both shows have very aggressive fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:31 PM
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Not necessarily. Both of my grandmothers still are still quite the lookers even in their elderly years. They barely have any wrinkles and I'm not exaggerating. A lot of this has to do with melanin genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:19 PM
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How would you react to your partner being humiliated/beaten up during a confrontation with another man? It wouldn't even get to that point because I would jump in. Only a trash female would stand there and just watch her man get beat on like that. Maybe it's just how I grew up, but the girl usually jumps in the fight like it's second nature. It's not you got into a fight, it's we got into a fight. I don't play that. Especially if it's more than one and they wanna try and gang up on him. Hell no.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 10:32 PM
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I'm confused. He plate spins and you have to stay loyal? And you're still giving him sex on top of that? How can you be sure you're not just another plate? You can't. Not that RPW is a dogmatic school of thought, but I can tell you right now, your setup definitely isn't aligned with the most basic principles of avoiding plates and men who spin them that is essential to RPW. You need to leave him. Period. This man is playing you like a fiddle. And he's getting everything he wants from you without…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 10:26 AM
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imagine being in a relationship where you experience "the deepest and highest expression of love, devotion and emotional intimacy" but no sex. Sounds fine to me. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Anyway, the suggestion was never to abandon sex forever. So, no, it's not like condemning women to a life without love. My point is that men should put more of their focus on love and then just see sex as a bonus not the goal. If the argument is that men are incapable of loving women before they have sex with them (which I don't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:24 PM
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Lol why would men do this when even women aren't doing it? Women aren't doing it because men stopped doing it. If your idea is that men have to lead how sex is seen, you run into the issue that feminism Yes. Men are the leaders of society. And if men were leading properly, feminism would've never happened in the first place. Men have been failing in their roles as leaders. It's like when parents fail to lead their kids properly and the kids turn into brats. And I never said anything about forgoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:15 PM
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It's because everything basically boils down to sex with men when it comes to women. The true meaning of sex has been perverted and bastardized by society (ironically by men in society), so male desires/thoughts/feelings etc. aren't taken seriously because sex isn't taken seriously. And at the end of the day, that's the main thing most men want from women; sex before love. Love and commitment are seen as "better" by societal standards because it's typically a stronger bond for relationships when…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:25 PM
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I'm a Christian. And frankly, between the RPW and other subs, I'm tired of explaining why I have this view of marriage. So, that's going to be my answer to this generic response each time. If you want a further in-depth answer, check my post history. I'm tired of this, lol. 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:09 PM
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I know how to humor some with boundaries. I simply choose not to do so because right now, I'm going through a phase where I want everyone to leave me alone. I don't like being bothered by anyone when out in public minding my own business. And I have a very unapproachable disposition, anyway. I don't look friendly because, right now, I'm not friendly. So, people who approach me with nonsense conversations are likely the ones who lack social skills or they just can't read non-verbal cues.* And my …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:38 PM
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No. For me the answer is no it doesn't improve the love connection between us before marriage. It actually destroys it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:19 PM
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I think a lot of women get "offended" when men say they prefer virgins/low n-count women because that's an indirect rejection of them specifically if they don't fall into those categories. Deep down, it bothers them to accept the reality that not every guy is going to want them for x, y, z reasons. This isn't a behavior exclusive to women, either. It's a human behavior. For example, a woman saying she prefers a man that is 6'0" tall or more will likely cause a bunch of 5'11 and shorter men to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:09 PM
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It's because men's insecurities are rooted in sex and whether or not they are getting it. It's as though their whole world and life's purpose exists in their groins. And due to society perverting sex and treating it as nothing more than a casual, physical activity, instead of the deepest and highest expression of love, devotion and emotional intimacy that it is, the grievances of men aren't taken seriously. Sex itself is no longer taken seriously. Thus, men surrendering their entire existence an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:53 PM
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I just wanted to say, casual sex can also help improve the love connection Bruh. No. Premarital sex has literally the opposite effect on me. I just said this. Twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:11 PM
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I dont think she is talking about sex as torture because she isn't "turned on". Actually, sir, that's exactly what I'm saying. I can't/don't enjoy nor desire sex if I don't feel truly loved. And the only way I can truly feel loved is if I'm married. Otherwise, I feel used for my body and nothing more. u/Gravel_Roads is correct with their assessment of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:49 AM
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But the chemical bonding of oxytocin is not pseudoscience, and that's actually what they're talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 09:34 AM
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Ok. Thanks for playing. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:28 AM
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I spend 40 hours a week trying to make very difficult people happy and then an additional 7-21 hours on weekends entertaining drunkards. Once you've played someone's five dollar tipped request for "Back That Azz Up" by Juvenile on the piano, you realize that going to music school was a complete waste of time and money and die a little on the inside for every note played and every lyric (poorly) rapped. 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:58 AM
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No. But I do have this shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:51 AM
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Deeply regretful. Mainly because I've always been sort of "red pilled" due to my Christian upbringing. I was adamant about not only staying a virgin until marriage, but I actually wanted to die a virgin because I was ambivalent about relationships in general for a long time. I was 20 and hadn't even kissed a guy prior to that. But it was too late. I felt I had nothing about myself left to "protect" and actually threw my purity necklace away. I hated myself. And I'm still healing in many ways alm…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 05:43 AM
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It's also just a generation thing also, not just American. My great-grandmother, who was born in the south in 1913, was very much a people person. Between being from the south (New Orleans or "Nawlins" as they say) and coming from a time where everyone was very personable, she found my attitude appalling. Her favorite lament about me, "You got some ugly ways, g'yal!" As she wagged her finger at me disapprovingly. She was the type that would invite people over to eat after one conversation, lol. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:03 AM
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Ideally, for me, a man would be willing to hold out on sex until marriage and show that he loves me as a person, first. Once I'm his wife, I'd likely be more comfortable with pleasing him sexually because I'm secure in the fact that that's not the only reason he wants me. If we're not married, sex, for me, is the equivalent of being stabbed repeatedly with a hunting knife. It's torture; physical and mental torture. Because in my mind, despite what he says, I will never believe any professions of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:53 AM
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I’ve seen women brutally reject men for a pretty standard approach just because she believed she was too far out of his league. Sometimes, they're just not a people person and don't want to be bothered by anyone. So, try not to take that one too personally, because it really does depend on the person. I'm not a people person at all and hate small talk. Yet, somehow, people still seem to want to strike up random conversations about nothing. A few weeks ago I ran into the grocery store to buy 1 it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:58 AM
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So men are misogynists for dating below their league.......got it. No. Men who are worried that women more educated than them and who earn more will leave them usually, do tend to turn abusive, cowardly, and controlling. Period. His point is that most men like that will reject a woman, and that is simply not the case. Especially in the Black community where it is quite common for the woman to be more educated and make more money than her partner or spouse. It's so common that we've pretty much j…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 11:15 PM
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That it is. But she did it. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 10:30 PM
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The definition of intimidate is to instill with fear or frighten. A woman more successful than you instills you with fear that she'll leave you for someone better. You are, indeed, afraid that she won't like you at all or will stop liking you when someone that you perceive as better comes along. You are afraid of her potential actions. Thus, you are afraid of her and some imaginary guy that you "think" she'll like better. And if history tells us anything, it's that men who think like this don't …
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 09:22 AM
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I'll stick to my Bible That is not a bad idea, at all.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 05:42 AM
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It's not you that we're intimidated by, it's this imaginary perfect guy we conjure up in our heads that provides for you everything we can't and makes you feel love for him the way we wish we could. In a way it is you being intimidated by her. It's a fear of her leaving you. It's a fear of her hurting you. You make it seem like a man that's more on her level would take her against her will. That's not the case. She's the one that is making that choice. She is the one that will either stay with y…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 05:39 AM
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We talk about this sort of thing every now and again and have done so for years. I was just looking for additional opinions on this ongoing discussion we have.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 04:52 AM
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From your first reply: if you're already providing everything it's hard for us to find a place in your life so we may preemptively reject you in order to save time before your inevitable rejection of us due to female hypergamy. So, what you're basically saying here is that men avoid women who are more educated and make more money than them because they're worried that they'll eventually get rejected for a man more on her level or above. But, this behavior is not an example of someone being intim…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 04:29 AM
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Just say, "I would prefer to get to know you better first and wait until I'm comfortable before going there." Keep it plain.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 02:30 AM
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It's my mother and she got two of the degrees at the same time through an accelerated dual-degree program. She got her Master's in Social Work and a Master's in Public Health in 2 years time. Seven years later, she went back for her Master's in Special Education and finished the following year. So, it took a total of 3 years for her to obtain all 3 degrees.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 02:19 AM
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I think you'd do well to take a peek at either r/MGTOW2 or r/asktrp if you ever need male support or thoughts. It's mostly women here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 02:08 AM
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Yeah. No, lol. That's not what's going on in my mother's situation, at all. She gets chased and does the rejecting when ready. She's old school. Thank you for your input, though.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 01:50 AM
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Yep. My great-grandmother and grandmother came from an era where racism was rampant, so as wives, they knew they had to take extra care to be supportive of their husbands and make him feel like a man because in those times, he spent most of his days being disrespected and called "boy" by other men. So, they emphasized how it was important for "our men" not to feel emasculated by us because they had it hard enough being powerless in society for decades due to racism. So, yes, a lot of this is cul…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 01:15 AM
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I don't think RPW is so much about "rules" as it is just an acknowledgement of how the world works, how men and women are different, and applying these facts in the way you approach relationships and life in general. That's just my observation.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 12:40 AM
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Well, you're right. My advising other women based upon my beliefs is unhelpful to them because they're likely dealing with unsaved men and would run into a problem with him feeling some type of way about her not granting him access to her body when she did others. Yes, you are correct, an unsaved man would think that way. So, best of luck to any woman who does take my advice and then chooses to implement it on men who aren't saved. Your chances of success are, indeed, slim. I'm telling you right…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 12:18 AM
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Yep. Or Jackie Burkhart when she had to choose between Hyde and Kelso. Just be Jackie Burkhart, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 12:02 AM
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You sound a lot like me. I was exactly like that as a teen and young adult. The only difference is that, I was like that because I genuinely wanted people to leave me alone and didn't want to be bothered; especially guys. This started as soon as I started going to public schools and became surrounded by a complete different breed of male on a daily basis. I grew up in a rough area and, honestly, walking around looking feminine or "soft" in any way shape or form was kind of dangerous. In my old n…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 11:43 PM
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As a result, my independence if anything sometimes leaves my boyfriend yearning for me to be a bit more dependent on him and look up to him as being more like the carer to small fragile me, and leads to him WANTING to be the carer for me like taking my things, buying me food just because, making me get home safe even if it’s out of his way etc. Correct. There are levels to this, though. For instance, there is a way to be seen as too independent where you make him feel unneeded. I, personally, ha…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 11:14 PM
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There's a lot to unpack, here. Far too much for one to reasonably give any advice, so I'll just address the main issue that I see "jumping out at me" with your post. You come off as desperate for a husband which most men can detect quite easily. You also clearly have self-esteem issues and due to this, my recommendation would be to remain in nun mode until you've built yourself up and have a healthy self-image. When you don't think highly of yourself, people can pick up on that and will react ac…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 10:49 PM
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Hmm. I'm not going to jump to conclusions, but a lot of times, people are self-righteous like that due to insecurity or they themselves behave or have behaved similarly and they're trying to hide it. A "lady doth protest too much, me thinks" sort of deal. It's not uncommon. People who are "over the top" with their condemnation of others can sometimes be worse. This is, unfortunately, common in a lot of churches. The loudest ones end up having the biggest scandals. Sometimes these people are in t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 09:13 PM
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Lol, I had to check. It's so many "pill terms" that get used in this sub, I find myself getting confused.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 08:57 PM
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If a man cares about virginity, then I'm not the one for him. And honestly, anyone concerned with the virginity of someone else is going to have a problem because not a lot of adults are virgins, even amongst Christians. I would argue that having a stipulation that the person you date be a virgin lowers your pool more than the likelihood of finding someone who wouldn't mind waiting. u/rubywootoo bringing up virginity is a strawman because I never argued that I had a problem with someone not bein…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 08:53 PM
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bring joy into threat lives. Is that a typo or am I just misunderstanding what you mean?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 07:52 PM
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Yes. She's been doing this my entire life. She had me young, so I remember when she was in her early 20s and 30s, quite well. So, it's not about her age. It's just something that she's always done. The bulk of the men that she's talked to are "academically beneath her," to put things loosely. It's kind of inevitable because of certain cultural factors. And I honestly think that's why she hides it. She doesn't want to make them feel less than because, to her, society has done that to these men fo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 07:43 PM
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The wife of Hosea story applies to men, as well. Hosea was commanded by God to marry her to compare the pain of Israel's unfaithfulness to Him to the unfaithfulness of a spouse. I was mainly using that as an example to explain that as Christians, we really don't know what kind of past the person that God chooses as our spouse will have and we're not supposed to judge them for it. If you're a Christian woman and you meet a Christian man who has been born again and renewed in Christ, it's actually…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 07:29 PM
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Lastly, I’m skeptical that her education and success is the sole or even primary reason she’s been unlucky in love... it seems more like a self-serving excuse that doesn’t require her to rethink how she chooses men or how she behaves in a relationship. I should probably mention that due to racial stereotypes, she tries extra hard not to come off as "aggressive" and "abrasive." Do with that information what you will. 👀
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 08:09 PM
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But to expect that degree of grace from men that you’re dating is asking too much. When dealing with people in the natural, absolutely. But when dealing with people in the spirit, it's a whole different ballgame that goes beyond the understanding of the natural mind. We're supposed to leave finding a spouse up to God, anyway. His will be done, not ours. And if God sends you a man who, prior to being saved, was hustling in the streets, sleeping around, drinking, clubbing, and acting a fool, guess…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 07:20 PM
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Oh wow. Well I definitely apologize for that. I read a few posts on here and saw that there are a lot of Christian women here, and RPW is founded on traditionalism, so I didn't think that it would be frowned upon when I made that Bible post. I'm not trying to "start nothing" up in here, so I'll be mindful. I'm not about that life, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 06:39 PM
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Thank you. Is this in the rules somewhere? I did make sure to read them before posting. I also just reviewed them again, and I couldn't find it. I mainly have only brought up my Faith when either the OP has mentioned it or a reply to me directly has mentioned it. There's also, clearly, quite a bit of Christian women posting here (not surprisingly), so what's the limit so that I can make sure I'm staying within guidelines?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 06:15 PM
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The OP is talking about their religion, though...?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 05:58 PM
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Agreed. I think it's also good to just make sure you're properly vetting men to lessen the likelihood of encountering one who may have insecurities that would cause this to be an issue to begin with. Luckily for me, I studied music, so my "academic accomplishments" are absolutely worthless. 😁 Lol. Music "degree."
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 05:56 PM
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Yep! I did the exact same thing. It was a very tumultuous time and I even tried "being an atheist" for a minute. I genuinely went through a questioning phase of wondering if my entire worldview was just wrong. "Maybe I'm brainwashed." "The majority of people do this." I seriously had to have a complete breakdown where I realized that this was backwards. The problem: I couldn't really trust the guy after I told him I wanted to wait and he started pulling away and didn't "check back in" until I ag…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 05:51 PM
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If you’re a virgin...If you're not a virgin This is the only thing you're inaccurate on. That's why they call it being "born again." You don't have to be a virgin to adopt this belief system and adhere to it. There are people who converted to Christianity after the fact, there are Christians who back slid. But God is a merciful God. And even from a secular standpoint, virginity is not a prerequisite. It's a personal lifestyle choice that anyone can adopt for any reason. I will agree that finding…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 05:42 PM
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Amen! Edit: And your username just convicted me that I need to do better with my diet. I was just thinking about this and then I see your name. Sigh. Whelp!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 05:24 PM
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Something that concerns me is that, from your description, he comes off more holier than thou/judgemental than someone who's merely coming from a place of passion. An example would be how he views liberal ideology and that of "non-believers." It's important that he comes from a place of love and compassion for people who are, as we say in Christianity, "in darkness" due to what that means for their souls. It should sadden him, not encourage him to take that opportunity to boast about his morals …
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 05:21 PM
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This is almost exactly what happened to me, and I will regret that decision for the rest of my life. Because by essentially forcing myself to do it and be normal like everyone else, it was actually very painful and I never enjoyed one minute of it. I was 20 and had never even kissed a guy before him. I already had serious reservations about relationships and sex and it wasn't just because of my Christian upbringing, but because of abuse that happened in childhood that traumatized me (yes, I'm ge…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 04:29 PM
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That's the thing, I don't consider that shooting myself in the foot. Agreeing to compromise my values just to "keep a man" is shooting myself in the foot. No man on this planet is worth putting myself through that. At the end of the day, it depends on your values. If that's very important to you, stick to it. If it's not, then whatever. Do you, boo boo, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 03:54 PM
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No woman is such a unique snowflake of special unique specialness that a high-quality man with tons of options will forgo sex completely and take the risk that he will suffer a lifetime of bedroom incompatibility when he has a good chance of finding a woman who is equally if not more well-suited to him who is not going to demand he become legally, financially, and religiously bound to her before going to bed with him. Honestly, the term high value varies depending on who's making the judgment. I…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 03:46 PM
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True. I think that it's an unpopular practice these days because a lot, if not most, women want sex, too, and waiting for marriage is "difficult" for them. That's where self-control comes in. Whatever my personal views on the activity, there's nothing wrong with desiring sex. That's normal. But women who ultimately want marriage, children and the whole deal, do tip the scales in the favor of men when they give in to sex before marriage. That's a fact. By telling him you prefer to wait for sex un…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 11:49 AM
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he thinks you are inconsiderate and you want him to ruin his these years before marriage in masturbation. I'm going to tell you right now, on the men's side of TRP, the focus is to not worry about anything that the woman wants, and only focus on what you want. And I support this concept 100%. If he's red pilled, you having sex with him is not going to guarantee you'll get married if that's what you truly want. In such a setup, the woman is actually giving more than she's receiving, especially if…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 10:58 AM
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I don't think there are any valuable men out there who would turn you down because you're educated. That's the magic word. I keep trying to tell her this, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 10:38 AM
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You'd be surprised how much men are willing to compromise if they think the woman is worth it. I'd argue, though, that the reason men have this attitude now is because other women are giving it away too easy. So, why "waste time" with a woman that's not going to give him what he wants? Feminism was one of the worst and best things to ever happen to men depending on their marital status. For a single man, feminism is probably one of the best deals because more women are willing to have NSA sex an…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 10:34 AM
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While I am Christian, I am going to try to explain my point in the most secular way possible. This is the way I see it, if a man's not willing to wait, and the level of commitment you want is marriage, then he isn't the one. Period. What you "put out" should be equal to the level of commitment you truly want once it's received. If you only want to be a "forever girlfriend" and he's agreed to that, then that's different. At that point, you've reached the level of commitment you're seeking and hav…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 10:15 AM
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This. I'll also add in (and fully expect to be downvoted for this) don't have sex with him until you're married. That's a marital commitment only deal. As vulgar as this statement is, I'm a firm believer in "not getting on your knees until he gets on his." If men are the gatekeepers of commitment and women are the gatekeepers of sex, it stands to reason that sex shouldn't be given until true commitment is obtained. And the highest level of commitment is marriage. Otherwise, you really should jus…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 07:16 AM
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The Word of God. Also known as The Bible. And I'm not joking, either. All of these "pill theories" have already been laid out in God's Word for millenia. It is not a new concept. The Bible is the OG Red Pill. For a little "lighter reading" though, lol. I'm partial to Focus On The Family and their series on Biblical Womanhood. I'm also a fan of Allie Stuckey and her Relateable Podcast. It's all from a Christian Conservative perspective, so if you're interested in those topics, that's a good place…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 03:51 PM
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Absolutely not. First of all, also a Christian here, and if he were a true man of God, he would be mindful to keep your conversations chaste and respectful. He actually sounds kind of predatory, to me. Also, him being widowed and recently alone, he's likely suffering from empty nest syndrome and his judgement and behavior is reflective of that. Now, I'm not one to write off everyone who claims to be a Christian completely if they display behaviors that show a lustful spirit. A lot of people have…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 03:31 PM
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Women however, ,aren't attracted to niceness in men. Niceness is subconsciously seen as weakness and is therefore repulsive. The devil is a lie, lol. Being callous and aloof actually makes me uncomfortable and messes with my anxiety because I always assume something is wrong, that they're mad at me, or don't really care about me at all. I'll take kindness and a warm personality over Robocop any day.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 02:22 PM
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The sex drive, itself, isn't the problem. It's likely just the male that it happens to be attached to that's broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 01:00 PM
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I merely presented an anecdote from a different perspective. I've spent enough time reading the male perspective in MRA, TRP, MGTOW, etc., and not just on this site. I've been looking into this for a couple of years now, actually. I've heard variations of the same story with regards to divorce. The narrative from men who keep bringing up that 78% figure, to me, sounds like they're trying to make it seem like none of the men in those marriages ever did anything to drive the woman to that point. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 09:20 AM
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I think that's a safe assumption to make considering the remaining 22% are divorces initiated by men. It's likely due to her effing up. But again, not everything is black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:10 AM
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Alright. Take care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:04 AM
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I am an atheist And as such, you will not be able to comprehend what I'm talking about. The Greek terms are used because the Bible was first translated into Greek. Agape, indeed, does describe unconditional and sacrificial love. It is the highest form of love there is because it reflects the same type of love God has for us. God Himself is love. Thus, someone who doesn't know God, doesn't know real love or understand it. I'm not saying this to be offensive, so I do hope you don't take it this wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 04:22 AM
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Yes. Yes it does. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:30 AM
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I'm a Christian and believe in unconditional love because of that. The Greek term for the kind of love that I'm talking about is "agape." It's selfless and about sacrifice. The "love" you're talking about is "eros." It's the only kind of "love" people who don't know Christ know about. It's also finite. Agape is eternal and reflective of the same type of love that Christ has for His children (see: the crucifixion of Jesus Christ). So, unless you're Christian, this is likely mumbo jumbo to you. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:26 AM
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Physiologically painful and severely emotionally/mentally distressing. It makes me suicidal or self-harm. I do want to note that that's not even normal for an asexual. I have "other issues" going on upstairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 01:24 AM
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Where in any of that did you get that I was implying that it's always the man's fault? In what way, did you interpret my post to be stating that in 100% of those 78% cases, it is the man's fault? Come on, now. Step back, and read the post again with a more objective perspective and try not to internalize my story. The point of my, admittedly anecdotal, story was to illustrate that these situations aren't always that simple and that there are nuances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 01:17 AM
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💯 One has to be very mindful of the type of people they bring into not just their lives, but the lives of their children. You're their protective shield and source of growth and development when they're young. It's a delicate time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:39 PM
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I don't really have friends and never have, so I honestly have nothing to gauge it by. I do know that it's a much more intense feeling of wanting to be around that person and I tend to devote 100% of my time, energy, and existence to making the other person happy, even when it hurts me. But, unfortunately, it's not enough. If I'm not surrendering my body, it's all meaningless to the other person. What ends up happening, at least for me, is that I love and care for the person more than they do me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:36 PM
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Exactly. I hear that 78% of women initiate divorces line tossed around quite liberally. They don't seem to be taking into account the reason these women are initiating these divorces. I seriously doubt that in all of those 78% cases, the husband was the "innocent victim" 100% of the time. They mostly use anecdotal evidence to support that the man was always the one getting "screwed over" in every last one of those cases, but anecdotal evidence can go both ways. For instance, I've personally witn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:03 PM
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A man with no sex drive would be perfect for me, actually, since I'm basically asexual. I would believe any love he professed was genuine because it wouldn't be clouded by lust. Currently, it's the human sex drive that makes me hesitant to believe and trust that most people are capable of genuinely loving each other and are actually confusing their feelings of lust for love. That's why people have side pieces and what not. They get bored with their partners once the sexual thrill is gone and so …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 09:18 PM
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How is it not natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:38 PM
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It depends on the woman. I know a guy that's 5'2" and has absolutely no problems attracting women. He currently has 8 or 9 kids from like 5 different women, I think. I honestly forgot the number because it's so ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:27 PM
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Dude, just binge Gossip Girl and take notes. If you want women fawning over you when you do absolutely nothing to deserve it, emulate one of the worst characters ever written in television history; Chuck Bass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:43 PM
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Medroxyprogesterone acetate is already used to chemically castrate male pedophiles. In women, it's used as birth control under the brand name Depo-provera. Regardless of my negative views on sex and people's little "urges" I would never recommend taking anything that alters how the human endocrine system functions. The existence of a sex drive is there for a reason. Messing with that can come with other health problems like lower bone density leading to osteoporosis (more common with women using…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:26 PM
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Yes. I'm Black. And it's not just Black culture but Latino culture has this pretty bad, also. I mean it's funny to poke fun at in certain settings, but if you really examine it closely, it's kinda messed up.
/r/MensRights27/07/19 12:44 PM
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Why have so many of the most insane stories I've heard lately all been out of the UK? What the bloody hell is going on over there?
/r/MensRights27/07/19 10:20 AM
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I don't say this often, but my God, what an unbearably dumb broad. -_-
/r/MensRights27/07/19 10:18 AM
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I think this might be cultural also, because I was frequently told to "stop all that hollering" or asked "what you crying for" and I'm a female. The males and females in my family were discouraged from or ridiculed for crying. I will say the males had it harder, though. I saw my cousin's mother punch the crap out of him in his chest for "getting smart and talking back" to her. At least all I got was beat with an extension cord and a hot wheels track. So, I guess it could've been worse.
/r/MensRights27/07/19 10:09 AM
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Yep. And the women who do that stupid crap are going to mess around and find themselves trapped in a hole with the same dude telling them to "put the lotion in the basket."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 08:14 AM
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Maybe it's just me, but the better looking a guy is, the worse of a person I assume he is, if I don't know him personally. And it's because my father was "that guy." All of the girls wanted him back in the day according to "elder tales," and I think it got to his head because the man is, no lie, a textbook sociopath. I'm not exaggerating. So for me it goes: 10/10 guy = closet Ted Bundy Just keeping it real. 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:42 AM
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Wasn't this basically the plot for "Just One of the Guys (1985)?" A high school girl gets passed over for an opportunity at school by two guys, so she decides to disguise herself as a guy to prove sexism but ends up biting off more than she can chew. Stars Joyce Hyser and Clayton Rohner I love that movie, btw.
/r/MensRights27/07/19 05:02 AM
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Alrighty. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:31 AM
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The human body needs sodium, just in moderation. The law is already involved. That's what the FDA is for. The issue is that most Americans trust the FDA to approve foods and medication that won't harm them. Now, you can call that "stupid" if you choose. But the fact of the matter is that a lot of people are just uninformed. Someone could genuinely be eating "healthy" by consuming a balanced diet of fruits, vegetables, meats, and grains, never smoke or consume alcohol, stay relatively active, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:07 AM
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From a purely evolutionary and scientific standpoint, it all boils down to survival of the species. For women: Wide hips, large chest, and a good adipose tissue to muscle ratio indicates health, longevity, and a higher likelihood of surviving childbirth and being able to adequately rear and nourish any offspring. It also indicates being able to more easily fight off disease. For men: Broad shoulders, tall height, strong arms and legs are pretty much indicative of the same thing; survival. A "big…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:49 AM
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That still doesn't take away from the fact that our diets are literally killing us, though, lol. I'm not one to glamorize Europe for being "better" because overall, they're not. But, I'm also not going to pretend that they, and other countries, aren't onto something by banning these products. When heart disease and cancer are the top killers in your country and you see that a lot of the chemicals in our food are linked to heart disease and cancer, it's not exactly unreasonable to consider that o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:11 AM
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Door #1, actually. It's the only thing keeping me from committing suicide. Something that I think about every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 10:56 PM
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My only solace right now is God, my dog, and Wordscapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 10:15 PM
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Regardless of the obvious biased presentation, it is a fact that certain ingredients and foods that are FDA approved in the US are banned in other countries. It's also a fact that the number one killer of Americans is heart disease. Right behind that is cancer. And then there's that whole obesity problem so many of us have. It's not a stretch to suggest that our diets may, in fact, be terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 10:13 PM
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I'm 33. I've got a lot of "issues" that make me wary of people, in general. I've always been this way (a loner; no friends). It's complicated, but I have a severe fear of being abandoned and hurt. Due to current struggles with untreatable depression, I genuinely can't handle being hurt by other people, at this time. I'm also wary of people because there are cases where people like me are, indeed, preyed upon and taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 10:08 PM
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Both men and women are separate and distinct from one another, but both were made in God's image to complement one another in the ways the are unique to either gender. That's how He intended. Women are meant to be the "help-meet" and not try to rule over their husbands, and men are supposed to put God first and cover their wives and families. Focus on the Family has an excellent series on this concept on their site. I encourage anyone who is genuinely curious about what I'm talking about to give…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 10:00 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:50 PM
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I view sex as the enemy. I'm a Christian though, so even I can acknowledge my views on it aren't healthy nor correct. It was created by God for a husband and wife. Some REALLY messed up things happen to me as a child and an adult, though. And that has shaped my personal views on the activity. That's why I avoid men. I know that most of you think that way and it makes me very uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:49 PM
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It's a song. So, sing it. I'm semi-joking, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 07:39 AM
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Say the following as soon as you see her: Been watching you baby. For a long time. You look so good. Got my eyes on you. I've been watching you for so very long. Trying to get my nerve built up to be so strong. I really want to meet you, but I'm kind of scared. 'Cause you're the kind of lady with so much class. I get my thoughts together for the very next day. But when I see you lady I forget what to say. Your eyes and hair such a beautiful tone. The way you dress and walk it really turns me on.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 07:16 AM
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Bows Thank you. Thank you, very much. I'd like to thank my Lord and savior Jesus Christ...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:29 AM
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I don't know. All of this "pill" talk has become mashed potato in my brain. I just follow the Biblical standard of how men and women are supposed to relate to one another and consider the Biblical standard for love and marriage correct. I just realize that a lot if not most men and women have strayed from it, and are thus untrustworthy. Most of the Boazs and Ruths out there are either happily married to one another or impossible to find. So, I found it best to remain out of "the game" and leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:26 AM
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It's not about how he looks (for me). I don't care if I could get attention from...I don't know, Big Sean. If he only wants sex from me, I'm 100% put off by that and not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:13 AM
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Yeah, I'm Black. Unfortunately, I'm too light to cosplay Yoruichi. Ain't that a blip? -_- Edit: Also. I should've known you were Black. Is your username a reference to the Hottentot Venus?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:50 AM
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It's not just RBF. It's an actual cold vibe that I give off because I really am a miserable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:49 AM
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Ah, ok. I just read her post. So, it is what the entire movie Mean Girls was based on. I just never experienced it because I've been socially retarded since day one, lol. My mother, however, was all about that. High school cheerleader. She was in a sorority in college; a Black sorority at that, which is very different from White sororities. She's always had friends and people around her. Since she had me young, I remember her 20s and there were outings to step shows, trips to Atlantic City and T…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:58 AM
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I think you're misunderstanding the idea behind the r/notliketheothergirls sub. It's not about ostracizing women who deviate from "average girl things" it's about calling girls out who make a point to express to how "different" and "unique" they are as a way to get attention. Kind of like girls who will go on and on about how they don't care about getting attention from guys, but the fact that they keep going on about it (usually on social media) is actually a tactic to get attention from guys. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:13 AM
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In Europe, and many other countries, they actually banned many American foods because some of the ingredients used are illegal for human consumption in said countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:46 AM
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Yeah. Very odd that I was downvoted for admitting that being wanted only for casual sex would make me suicidal. Very odd. Humans are very cold creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:30 AM
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Maybe it's just me, then because my "indirect communication" to "leave me the hell alone" is quite clear. Trust me. It's hard to miss. I frequently get asked why I always look so mad, so. Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:06 AM
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I'm a moral universalist. Taking an innocent human life without the individual's consent is wrong. The mere presence of an impulse does not automatically mean that acting upon it is neither right nor wise to do so. And in a civilized society, the taking of an innocent life should not be an acceptable response to the consequences of acting upon said impulses. The facts state that a human fetus is a human life. Taking innocent human life is objectively wrong. Abortion ends an innocent human life. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:53 PM
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Yes, but just because someone is pro-choice doesn't automatically mean they're not ok with raising children, either. There are people who are pro-choice but would not ever choose an abortion for themselves, personally. So, I'm not sure what you were even trying to claim with that statement. Yes, many people have turned pro-choice. I honestly, don't know why you brought up the fact that a lot of people have abortions in the first place. This was never an argument about numbers, nor are numbers re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:32 PM
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The majority of people are pro-choice No. Currently in the US it is evenly split. And many people who have committed abortions are now pro-life and regret the decision, including doctors who have performed abortions. Unless this is a figure of speech, that's your problem. You are uncapable of thinking how other people think. It was a figure of speech. Good job at identifying it this time. I'm not incapable of thinking how other people think. Quite the contrary. I am able to concede that people d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:02 PM
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If I'm 100% honest, deep down, I want to be loved. I hate sex. It literally makes me want to vomit. And I likely will continue to hate it until I receive genuine love. So, in other words, I'll continue to hate sex. This is what bothers me about men. This seriously seems to be all that you care about. And I'm not saying this to be disrespectful. I genuinely don't understand why men crave something, that I personally find absolutely vile, so much. Love is more important, valuable and durable. Sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:50 PM
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Exactly. Men and women are very different in this area. My worst nightmare is being only wanted for casual sex. Truth be told, that would probably make me suicidal considering my issues. That's why I avoid. There's too much going on with me from a mental health standpoint, and something like that would destroy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:40 PM
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I would argue that most people are actually fine with raising children and that you're the one in the minority with that sentiment. I would also argue that if a person is so severe in their thinking that they're willing to kill their child in-utero instead of raise it, then yes, they need to exercise self-control and either not have sex at all or be extremely vigilant with birth control and use common sense. Not having sex isn't exactly difficult. It's literally the act of not doing anything. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:33 PM
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You weren't by chance raised with very strict ideas about sex, were you? I only ask that because your thinking is similar to mine except I behave in the other extreme; by avoiding men as much as I possibly can. I've only dated 4 men and they were all circumstantial and out of the blue. I was raised that pre-marital sex was sinful and that men, deep down, prefer "nice, decent, women." They'll have sex with the sluts because they're giving it away easy, but they won't respect them. And, hand to Go…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:28 PM
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Which is a debatable premise. Even Hitler's life held value? I would argue that it's not a debatable premise unless one is taking a more Machiavellian approach to the issue. And yes, even Hitler's life held value. I should also make it clear that I'm against capital punishment. Every individual's life is uniquely theirs and no one should have the right to take that away without that individual's consent. And yes, you are correct. It is "inside" the woman's body. It's not actually her body. It is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:08 PM
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At the risk of sounding crass, who cares? It was obviously a joke. In case you're not aware, a lot of jokes are based on stereotypes. Either way, it's a very odd thing to nitpick over and unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:38 PM
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The argument works on the premise that all life holds value and should not be ended against one's will. The focus of the argument is not the consent factor (so stop addressing it) but the value of life overall. why are there unadopted children I specifically told you, within that same paragraph, that the adoption process is very difficult and is structured in a way so that millions of potential adoptive parents are unable to do so. Yeah, because they have no choice. That's how totalitarianism wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:35 PM
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“Men only want one thing.” It’s pretty sad because it’s not actually true (in most cases), and I think it just makes relations between the sexes worse. Yikes. To be fair, I've actually heard from men themselves who weren't speaking to me directly but speaking amongst themselves that they mainly only want sex from women and nothing else. Couple that with what I observed from men directly in my environment and, I, personally don't want anything to do with men at this time. I just can't trust them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:22 PM
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You do realize that the statement was mostly tongue-in-cheek, right? Obviously, not only upper class men wear polos. Why even point this out when I was clearly being facetious?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:01 PM
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2) Because regardless of whether or not they feel pain, it's still ending the life of another without its consent. I only brought up pain response because you were arguing that they don't have survival instinct. It doesn't matter to me either way because I'm against the practice, in general. Aside for rare cases of medical necessity such as ectopic pregnancies, I am against abortion. 3) The way you structured that response made it sound like you were referring to me specifically. That being said…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:00 PM
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Yes! The CC games. My personal favorite, "Yeah, keep talking your sh-t. I've been BCC your manager since the first email. Oh, did his reply throw you off? You didn't know he could see everything we were discussing this entire time? Oh, now you wanna cooperate. Yeah, I thought so." Literally, that was the gist of an exchange between my supervisor and another department supervisor. It was my lunch break entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:45 AM
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Yeah, I'm still not sure why you're pointing it out, though. I'm sorry, am I just slow? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:31 AM
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2) Nope. 3) I would definitely adopt. I can't have children. Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:28 AM
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There's a difference between being reserved and giving off "leave me the heck alone" vibes. Honestly, I think it's fairly easy to tell when someone, regardless of gender, really doesn't want to be bothered. Unless, of course, one is on the autism spectrum and struggles with reading non-verbal cues, it's not difficult to tell when it's best to leave someone alone. I may not have been clear with my explanation, but, my issue with "speaking up" is only with people I know personally; and quite well.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:19 AM
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Oh, ok. Yeah, I suppose. I still don't know what you're trying to say by pointing that out, though. I was basically saying that there's typically a difference in behavior based upon the environment one grows up in. Usually, UC people act like they have some home training.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:00 AM
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This video is showing an actual abortion procedure performed and broken down by board-certified physicians and it is a fact that a fetus can feel at 12 weeks gestation, which is when that procedure was done. Just because you dislike that it was made as an obvious deterrent toward abortion doesn't take away from the fact that everything in the video was accurate regarding the procedure and the experience of the fetus. If an organism "moves away" from an object that touches it while it's in a vuln…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:55 AM
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I'm sorry. I have no idea what you're trying to say, here. Can you write it out completely instead of abbreviating? I don't know what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:40 AM
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How is the idea that a fetus has no instinct of self-preservation stupid? Because it's been confirmed that the fetus can feel pain and thus, will instinctively try to move away from the instrument used to kill it during an abortion procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:13 AM
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It can depend on the environment you're in, also. Let's just say, men with a suburban upbringing, a wardrobe that consists of mostly polo shirts and khakis, and an affinity for golfing, typically handle rejection from women with a little more decorum than men from trailer parks and the hood who idolize rappers. The dudes I grew up around were kinda..."rough around the edges" so to speak. Growing up, their behavior actually made me not want to be feminine and I considered all male attention negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:25 AM
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It's pretty common in the workplace. I've been copied on some emails where there were strings of conversations between men from different departments being professional but very obviously passive aggressive. It was pretty hilarious, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:37 AM
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If something is bothering me, I pull him aside, swallow my pride, and just tell him in layman's terms what it is. I struggle with this in general. As in, I have difficulty telling people when something they're doing bothers me, or makes me uncomfortable. So, naturally, they continue to do it and I end up just removing myself from the situation by pulling away. What's usually left is a very confused person who doesn't know why I just stopped socializing with them out of the blue. I'm pretty sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:31 AM
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It's really exhausting, especially when you have enough self-awareness to know that you're being neurotic and overthinking everything. Then, as the vicious cycle would have it, you start feeling bad for being neurotic and overthinking everything and then start neurotically overthinking why you're such a neurotic over thinker and going "See, this is why you have no friends." Lol. I was giving piano lessons a couple of summers ago, and I did the same thing; I wanted to make sure I was stern but di…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:18 AM
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I haven't the slightest clue. All I know is that if one were to question my mother and grandmother about how strict they were, they would deny, deny, deny. "Oh no, we NEVER kept you from having friends. You were just mean. There were TONS of kids that wanted to be friends with you at church!" Yes. At church! Not that there was anything wrong with that, but due to the fact that they over did it with making sure I only hung around "approved kids" it, no lie, turned me into a neurotic, socially awk…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:38 AM
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Would it be too much of a stretch for me to suggest that it's all part of a divide and conquer strategy by the elites that will eventually be used as a catalyst to usher in the New World Order (one world government)? I'll see myself out. -_-
/r/MGTOW224/07/19 11:07 AM
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Thanks! It really can be challenging. I've been blocked and uninspired for almost a year, now. Feels bad, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:04 AM
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The wall happens when a woman is no longer attractive enough to continue having dates and casual sex with the same caliber of men she was used to meeting with in her youth, I must've been born with "the wall" then, because I never got approached in my teens and 20s. Granted, I dressed like a grungy boy, walked around with a Daria-deadpan scowl on my face 99% of the time, and gave off a general impression of hating everyone, but that's not the point. :-|
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:32 AM
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Maybe it's just the environment I grew up in and the activities I was involved with. I was a music major and have been playing piano for 29 years; classically trained. Perfection is heavily emphasized in music school, especially if one plays an instrument. I also had a strict, Christian upbringing, went to private schools (one that practiced corporal punishment), was pressured to get all A's and not be "another statistic" in my community, and wasn't really allowed to socialize with my peers unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:03 AM
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Fair enough. I do want to clarify that I didn't "post stalk" considering he asked me to look at his post history to find a topic he started. I probably should've just posted my thoughts about it there. My bad. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/MGTOW224/07/19 07:09 AM
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I was being very general when I said good men/women have traditional values. Obviously, people are individuals and should be judged by their character. I wasn't so much stating that people with traditional values are usually "good people to be in relationships with" as I was stating that people who are good candidates for relationships usually have traditional values. Does that make sense? All in all, I, too, am unsure what the exact message OP is trying to convey, here. To draw parallels with f…
/r/MGTOW224/07/19 03:52 AM
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I encourage you to email the mod team of this sub with your concerns.
/r/MGTOW224/07/19 01:57 AM
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She's just some woman with traditional values... Exactly. I keep trying to tell some of y'all that you're gonna mess around and shoot yourselves in the foot because you're pushing away good women with Conservative, traditional values; likely women who have some kind of religious upbringing. Generally, not all, but generally, these types of women are anti-feminist and embrace their roles as women which is to be a help -meet to their husbands. I honestly don't know what else to say anymore, becaus…
/r/MGTOW224/07/19 12:39 AM
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I'm not about to go back and forth with you, sir. People can post wherever they want on this site and don't owe anyone an explanation. And I wasn't "telling you what to do." I was simply relaying information to you that was posted by a mod about how he will be enforcing the rules of this sub moving forward. To avoid any confusion or frustration, it would behoove you to read his post and try to be as cooperative as possible because, let's just say, "homie don't play that." Now, you enjoy the rest…
/r/MGTOW223/07/19 07:54 PM
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I'm a female. And no I'm not a damn feminist. I'm talking about basic rights like the right to vote, which, technically, my people didn't get until the Civil Rights Movement, anyway.
/r/MGTOW223/07/19 07:07 PM
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I read through quite a bit of your post history, actually. You seem bitter and full of hate and using the MGTOW subs to feed it, honestly. Some of them have even called you out for it, and a lot of your posts have been removed. I'm going to be very frank and tell you that this sub definitely doesn't tolerate hate. One of the mods just made a post addressing it about a week ago. So, if you keep that same attitude here, your posts will be removed here, as well. I can understand if you're frustrate…
/r/MGTOW223/07/19 05:44 PM
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Of course not.
/r/MGTOW223/07/19 08:07 AM
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Traditional masculinity was murdered by feminism. To concede to its defeat by rejecting it completely, is an indirect surrender to the destructive monolith that feminism has become.
/r/MGTOW222/07/19 11:21 PM
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Traditional masculinity clashes with feminism. Just as traditional femininity clashes with MGTOW, TRP, etc. It's just as that other poster said, a lot of MGTOW men view men who subscribe to traditional masculinity as "cucks or simps" not dissimilar to the way feminist view women who subscribe to traditional femininity as regressive. All in all, traditional masculinity men and traditional femininity women will continue to find one another, get married, have children, and be happy, while feminists…
/r/MGTOW222/07/19 10:56 PM
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Christian morality about sex is the absolute correct moral system about sex, but maybe I just read it with a wrong tone in my mind. Nope. You didn't read it wrong. That is exactly what I was saying, in every way that I could possibly say it. MGTOW does not exclude being with women, it's about keeping your power and freedom This is impossible to do whenever one involves themselves with other people in any capacity. But ok. but as there isn't a WGTOW I do understand if the overall theme is what yo…
/r/MGTOW221/07/19 11:00 PM
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Yeah. Ok. 🙄
/r/MGTOW221/07/19 10:09 AM
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why don't you keep telling me how it is for conservative Christians, as this is the group of people whose views you are really only talking about. Yeah. That's who I had been talking about the entire time. I made that clear from jump. What is the point being here? I came here because I wanted to. A lot of men here want nothing to do with women at all, anymore. You were suggesting getting with women for X, Y, Z, reasons and doing an NSA approach. Not a lot of guys seemed to agree with you. So, wh…
/r/MGTOW221/07/19 12:34 AM
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Due to free will you can do whatever you want. The choice is yours. I merely dropped seeds on your soil. No one's forcing you to nourish them and help them grow. You mentioned before that you may consider only pursuing women who have more conservative and traditional views such as the ones I described. I'm just letting you know that those types of women, the women I was describing and the women you said you'd probably prefer, typically will not be ok with premarital sex. That's a fact. That's a …
/r/MGTOW215/07/19 11:59 PM
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Nowadays I might indeed do more filtering when it comes to values because of the lessening ability to just relate and enjoy mutual time with someone who had very different values. If she thinks premarital sex is ok, her values aren't on point and you'll continue to open yourself up to problems. Anyone who doesn't have a problem with sexual sin is lost and being guided by wickedness and carnality. Now, you can receive that or not. But part of the battle of living a spiritually pure life is avoidi…
/r/MGTOW215/07/19 08:53 PM
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What other option is there, really... Stop trying to essentially "do God's job for Him" and wait on the Lord. That's the best advice I can give a person because I've witnessed this happen to people when it's been practiced. The individuals I see that are happily married with a family and thriving weren't even seeking out relationships. They were seeking God and He lead them to one another. I said the same thing to another guy on here who had the "oneitis" problem and expressed that he's a Christ…
/r/MGTOW215/07/19 01:29 AM
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in case you would adopt a child, have you thought about introducing some kind of father figures in their lives, Yes. I have a younger brother, whom I'm closer with than my other two, that would be an excellent male figure in their lives as well as plenty of positive male role models at church. As for my "issues," I have/am seeking help for it. Thus far there's zero improvement. And I'm beginning to believe that, at least right now, God wants me to be alone, because of that. Do I think I'll be li…
/r/MGTOW215/07/19 01:07 AM
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I mostly meant expressing anger toward their own personal and very specific situations, but I get what you're saying. The other sub just doesn't seem good for the soul; especially not a soul that is vulnerable after being hurt. I just don't see how healing can be achieved in the other sub for those new to MGTOW. If they somehow end up here first and are in "red pill rage" mode, I think this sub is better at helping someone calm down, find healing and direction in life. The other sub may just mak…
/r/MGTOW214/07/19 11:06 AM
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I hate to add my two cents to this because technically, I don't really belong here, but I just like helping people who are at a point where they feel broken down in life and giving advice. I don't think that venting one's anger and frustration via the ever-common "red pill rage" is, in itself, a bad thing. It's when it becomes a pattern and one's main focus that it becomes problematic. Also, the lack of others commenting more uplifting material that focuses on the person venting as opposed to th…
/r/MGTOW214/07/19 07:02 AM
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You're welcome! Stay blessed.
/r/MGTOW213/07/19 03:07 AM
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He has to decide what is best for him. If he wants a relationship, it's not your place to try to convince him to be single just as it's not anyone's place to convince someone who doesn't want a relationship to pursue one anyway. Just tell him to only consider women who have similar values to women like Allie Stuckey or Kirsten Watson. If he doesn't want a woman who has those values and prefers to chase behind women who are more liberal and "sexually free" (whatever that means) because he likes a…
/r/MGTOW213/07/19 02:13 AM
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I think I remember reading something from you where you said you were a Christian. That being said, the best thing to do is to let go and let God. The biggest mistake we make, even as Christians, is saying that we want God to be the author of our story as long as He let's us keep the pen. It doesn't work that way, and sometimes God will let you keep trying to do things your way, fail, and realize that you need to fall back and let His will be done instead of our will. I recommend the following: …
/r/MGTOW212/07/19 11:30 PM
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I am joking of course and you seem to have a sense of humor anyway. I do. A very non-PC form of humor, in fact. I miss Chappelle Show. I digress... I am not at all set against children and a big part of me would love to have a traditional, conservative family. This may sound almost insultingly obvious but, my suggestion is to stay away from women who don't hold these same values. Seems simple, doesn't it? And yet, the bulk of us don't actually follow this, very logical suggestion, consistently. …
/r/MGTOW212/07/19 01:18 AM
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reading your other, longer response, I was expecting, assumed, you to be interested in marriage. I used to be interested in marriage and children. I have enough self-awareness to realize that my hatred of sex is not conducive for a healthy marriage, but it's not even Biblical. God literally commands in His Word that a husband and wife are not to physically deprive one another except brief moments for in times of prayer and/or fasting. I need to be alone because I have a sexual dysfunction in tha…
/r/MGTOW211/07/19 11:52 PM
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managed to create a sort of split mind (schizophrenia) / bipolar issue over this split between these two competing desires / drives in my mind that took a decade to balance out. That's not surprising. It's the flesh and the spirit constantly at odds with one another. It's to be expected. Usually, the one that's stronger is the one that wins. And the one that's stronger is the one that you're feeding.
/r/MGTOW211/07/19 11:42 PM
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💯 I'm in "nun mode" (think MGTOW monk, but as a female). I have no interest in sex or marriage and I'm not about to bring a child into this world into a broken home like so many of my peers have. I may adopt, though, because those kids are already here and just want someone who will love and care for them. I've been thinking VERY strongly about adoption because how many of those kids grow up without ever knowing what it's like to be loved and cared for breaks my heart. They make you jump throw i…
/r/MGTOW211/07/19 01:45 AM
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Frankly speaking, you sound much like an undercover feminist Yeah, no, lol. I'm so anti feminist my thoughts on the entire movement would likely pass for hate speech in the UK. Feminists hate marriage because they think that the God-given roles of women and men in a marriage are misogynistic. Feminism is destroying marriage. They are an enemy to not only marriage, but the stability of society as a whole. I use adequate protection and can calculate my own risk-reward ratios. The only adequate pro…
/r/MGTOW211/07/19 01:29 AM
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A vasectomy can fail. The only way to be 100% certain that no children will be created is abstinence. Anyone who is 100% sure they don't want or can't afford children but still has sex is a moron. Full stop. That's why I'm pro-life. The way I see it, if the broad knows she's not in a position to have kids and/or the dude she's with knows this, both of them need to keep it in their pants. If you don't and a child is created, you be an adult, do the right thing, take responsibility for your action…
/r/MGTOW210/07/19 11:59 PM
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How about a father who is there and takes care of his kids while also exuding a strong, masculine presence that is both powerful and comforting as God intended? If there's no marriage, people don't need to be making babies. That's backwards and harmful. Fathers are VERY important I don't mean to make you uncomfortable, but if you want an example of how damaging the "multiple baby mama" setup is to not just children, but an entire community, look at the Black community. Our biggest problem is too…
/r/MGTOW210/07/19 10:29 PM
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Horrible. A child growing up without a full time father in their lives is damaging. Any woman who would agree to this sort of arrangement is also a horrible person. If my mother and father agreed to this sort of arrangement, I would hate them forever and as soon as I became of age, I would have nothing to do with either of them. I mean seriously. "You both agreed to only have dad around occasionally? Do you have any idea how painful it was not to have my father in my life consistently? Both of y…
/r/MGTOW210/07/19 10:17 PM
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The entire mindset of PUA is problematic because it glorifies sex without commitment. If you're having sex with a woman, you risk getting her pregnant. Period. This behavior increases the odds of more babies being born out of wedlock without a father in their lives nor the stability of having a family (i.e. mother and a father who love one another in a healthy relationship; preferably marriage). I've said this before on the throwaway account that I decide to discard because it was basically beco…
/r/MGTOW210/07/19 09:57 PM
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