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What else can you do? Its not your life so you cant try to control them. Sometimes they have to learn the hard way. As evil as it seems, buy lots of popcorn and enjoy the show.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 04:18 AM
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Its also a huge “good ol boys club”. Can’t stand that shit.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:48 AM
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Which country did you leave and where did you go?
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:46 PM
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Agreed. They’re looking for a feel-good answer, something that will give them certainty. They need to embrace being out of the comfort zone and just go for it. They already know going to the gym is needed so a timeline before starting shouldn’t be needed. Whether it’s 1 year or 5 years, if they truly want it, they need to realize a time frame is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 09:30 PM
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I can see what you mean, and maybe that’s a big put-off to people. I take less reaction to a feeling (like someone calling me a loser), because if someone can tell why, in a nonjudgmental manner, I can take that in and work on it. Everyone is different, but I personally prefer everything negative about me to be blunt. If that makes me feel discomfort, it is motivation to work on that.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:08 AM
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Peoples thoughts usually gravitate toward the reasoning that makes them feel the best. If someone can’t make people laugh, they may gravitate to the idea that being funny is not good.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:08 PM
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A bit autistic. Rigid thinking.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:00 PM
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I never brought up socioeconomic status. You did that. And fatties, you’re right , they don’t make up 1/3 of the population. I have to give you that. It’s actually 2/3 the population overall.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 10:29 PM
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Men Going Their Own Way. It’s a subreddit too. Many of them are undesirable men that “choose” to go their own way without women. This makes them feel that they’re the ones choosing to not be with women. Kind of like telling an employer “you can’t fire me, I quit!”.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:32 PM
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I think this is true. Just like the 40Year Old Virgin “has slept with tons of women”. Depending how this survey was taken, if it was in person it definitely is skewed to the low end
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:23 PM
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Lol exactly. Just like you don’t see many obese people riding bikes, doing yoga...etc.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:20 PM
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And shut diet. It all mixes together
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:15 PM
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The main mistake here is that you are trying to understand them.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:44 PM
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Have you seen how many obese people are out there? Given that statistic, it’s hard to believe it’s not higher. Shit diet, no fitness and shit environment will cultivate incels. Once those incels get tired of being rejected, they identify as “mgtow”. It’s an incel putting purpose to being an incel.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:23 PM
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Remember that if someone is so outlandish like calling others stupid, they’re most likely talking about themselves but don’t know it. Their internal pain comes out in the form of lashing out at others and making them feel bad. I’ve never met a happy person that would call others stupid and other things along those lines.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:06 PM
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Age? I think there’s a huge toxic family load on you that makes you feel little to no connection, which is needed by everyone. If you can, get away from them ASAP
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:50 PM
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Then you didn’t apply the items. It all takes practice. Only reading a bunch expecting results us just mental masturbation. It feels good but reading and not applying through practice doesn’t do shit. You can read all about surfing for years but the only way to understand how to really do it is to get on the surf board and practice
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:07 PM
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Bingo
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:50 PM
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“They turn into little Hitlers to compensate for their imposter syndrome.” Damn, that is some wisdom distilled down to its essence. This makes so much sense of what happens where I work.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:18 PM
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And that she’s unique and not like all the other girls.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:35 PM
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Yessssss exactly!
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:35 PM
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Lol yes. I agree. It’s the only thing that caught my eye it’s all I needed.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 03:08 AM
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There is no closure in a relationship. Closure for her is comfort. Op basically comforted her so she feels better about being with the new guy
/r/askTRP02/04/19 03:05 AM
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I did this. It’s funny when they’re so frustrated.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:48 PM
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Whether I am rich or poor, I still live way below my means.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:45 PM
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At 18 I told my 18 year old self to dump money into aapl and did it
/r/askTRP27/03/19 03:17 PM
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OPs mom wasn’t that expensive.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:46 AM
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Exactly. Treat the gym as if it were your temple. Use the gym to focus on yourself, not to hit on gym thots
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:46 PM
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When you nut, you get rid of the “I’m horny I want pussy” type of feeling, which clouds many people’s judgement. After that feeling goes away your mind is more clear to make better decisions.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 01:32 PM
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Post-nut clarity is a bitch
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:36 PM
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Your game is bad, and you should feel bad. Futurama meme
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:35 PM
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Alone for a while. But being alone isn’t a bad thing. When you free up space in your life, you have room to invite the right kind of people inside. The people you have around you will determine so much of the outcome of life over the long term. “You’re the average of the 5 people You spend time with the most”
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:46 PM
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As you continue to climb, you leave those that don't climb with you behind. This is exactly why I left my "Friends" behind. They loved to smoke weed and waste their 20s. I loved self development and money.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:28 AM
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Just focus on your own journey. You cannot control the actions of other people and therefore should not spend any energy on it. Can confirm. I am on my own journey, i dont spend any energy on others thoughts of me.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:27 AM
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That is another way to see it as well. It’s all a mental thing.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:35 PM
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Exactly. When you marry someone, you marry their whole family. Also, if you’re having to live with her and it’s the best option you have, I wouldn’t mention that she is a pathetic failure. She’s supporting you.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:24 PM
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Lol exactly. It’s used to filter out those with no motivation or ambition. Many of the great mentors of industry tell people “no, it’s not For you” when someone asks if they should get in their industry/business. Not because they shouldn’t, it’s because if someone telling them “no” stops them, they don’t need the motivation for what’s required. If a girl saying “I don’t want hookups” stops you feel hooking up, she wouldn’t want you anyways.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 04:02 PM
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Mid 20s still “studying”. You should get your ass out of school by 21-22. Quit being a bitch and wake up earlier.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 04:41 AM
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Could help in the future and you’re getting paid for it. Double dipping.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 04:24 AM
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/thread
/r/askTRP21/03/19 05:47 AM
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The pain of regret is always more than the pain of rejection.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 05:44 AM
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And the hole is lower than you think. Not low enough where the dirt is, but it’s low.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:01 PM
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You’re on reddit. Learn to take a break from it.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:46 PM
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“Cool” or no response
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:43 PM
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Rational Male FTFY
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:11 AM
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Just take it as a learning opportunity. Ill be honest, i didnt read any of the content of the post until now. I could just tell what a major learning opportunity could be for you and that is to learn that no girl can put you in the friend zone. You stay there yourself willingly. It may be due to false hopes of becoming more with her. You dont have to walk out of her life if you have friends in common, but you can make distance between yourselves. Like instead of stopping at school and talking, y…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:03 AM
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It’s a Beta filter
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:07 AM
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I’m not gonna do it. Gotta stop putting that brick wall up.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:21 PM
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You never GET friendzoned, you choose to be friendzoned. No one is making you stay in the friendzone. Sure you can’t make her go out with you but no one can make you stay her “friend”. It’s a self-perpetuated trap. Only you hold the key to the way out.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:16 PM
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I saw a few things on that. Of course the company doesn’t say it does that but “employees” say they have grade A and Grade B pizza. I’m not sure what to believe. There’s no way I’d actually go into one to get pizza. I’d feel like a creep.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 11:27 PM
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Weigh the cost of doing that vs what you could be doing with the business in terms of expanding your skill set or future growths. Also networking within groups from places like MeetUp can help as well with social skills. I say this because there’s Opportunity Cost in everything. The time given up at the business stuff can benefit you in some ways. But time taken to expand skill set instead of the cafe job may benefit you too. There too much at play for us to know what is best, but we can point t…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:54 PM
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This isn’t for OPs question but, wasn’t what you expected? If it was low, how did you get treatment in Canada?
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:45 PM
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When you leave to go to the bar and she wants sex, tell her you don’t have sex with single mothers.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:34 PM
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Nah breh that’s so beta. Distance yourself or hard next her.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:27 PM
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I love their sodas and recycled pizza!
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:18 PM
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It’s not you, it’s me. I don’t like you anymore.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:57 AM
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“HI! BILLY MAYS HERE WITH BUTTHOLE OLIVE OIL!! One shot up the butthole and you’re done. Works every time!”
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:26 AM
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When the bio clock is ticking, having a baby is goal #1. Thoughts of what needs to be done after is secondary
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:16 AM
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Make a new account? Then be careful about terms like mgtow. They see them as voluntary incels
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:14 AM
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Then after they have their sperm deposits that cash out babies....the well dries up.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:59 AM
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Be careful about preworkouts at night. If you’re sensitive to caffeine at all, there’s no chance of falling asleep, which will make you even more tired for next time.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:51 AM
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Your current status is a lagging indicator of Self improvement that you have put a lot of effort into. In the same way, success with women is a lagging indicator of your self improvement. Just because you take a karate lesson doesn’t mean you will pick up girls that only fuck black belts. If your focus is to get girls because of self improvement, you have already lost. This limits you to only what YOU think girls will like in you because it’s a faster way to “get girls”.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:50 AM
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Not really. If someone has a bad group they let them go and start a new tribe
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:41 PM
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That’s what I thought of people that I used to hang out with. It’s better to be a man of one than have a tribe disrespect you
/r/askTRP12/03/19 09:49 PM
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The best advice is the most simple advice. I found this on fitness “You’re day because you live like fat person”. It’s an all encompassing piece of wisdom/advice.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:30 AM
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Just for entertainment I agreed to and went to some meetings with him with her present. It was then that I knew we were done. “In the Bible, people were said to live 10,000 years. Did they literally live that long?” It’s pretty simple but he gave 3 ways to “interpret it”. I asked again “did they literally live that long? It’s literally a yes or no” obviously he couldn’t answer that other than giving me bible verses to “pray on”. I then said “ok thank you. So if I come up with an answer and someo…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:10 AM
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So fuckin true. Shows she can’t think for herself. Argument from Authority logical fallacy. I went out with a girl that checked so many things with her pastor. Next.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:03 AM
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How long ago? Was it maintained? The right mindset is correct. For long term success it isn’t about the food, it’s more about what makes you eat that food. Short term success is usually flushed down the toilet since the focus is on the right kinds of food to eat through willpower. The “why wasn’t this done before” part is usually never looked into.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:00 AM
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One thing TRP really lacks is emotional intelligence. So TRP is Autistic?
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:51 AM
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Then yes, you will get laid, provided you're not autistic What do people mean by this? It seems like it may be like people saying "im OCD about X" when they're not really diagnosed OCD.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:42 AM
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2 Pack
/r/askTRP09/03/19 05:01 AM
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Evause they internalize it
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:32 AM
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Meetup.com * Someone I knew went to Young Professionals groups. He got some good lookers but there were also some fuckin crazy ones too.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:33 AM
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Lol exactly.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 12:32 AM
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In a way, testosterone or a mentality what can makeup for low T if that is the issue.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 12:31 AM
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All of it. The truth is the truth, whether you are 14 or 40.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 06:52 PM
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Also if “am I looking at them weird?” Is on your mind, you will most likely look at them weird because you unconsciously try to not look weird which looks weird.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 06:46 PM
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Becuse you don’t have an abundance mentality. You may know about abundance mentality but you don’t apply it to your life. You know there’s a billion other girls out there but you have never applied that idea successfully to your life. This is your chance.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 06:40 AM
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Exactly. The thing that has changed my life the most lately: “take everything as your fault”. Every situation, learn from it. If it’s your fault/responsibility, you can learn. If you blame someone else, you can’t learn anything. If OP gets mad, he should make sure he learned the lesson so it doesn’t happen
/r/askTRP07/03/19 10:06 PM
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Learn the absolutes and live life in between.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:26 PM
1

I got into Trance in the early 2000s. One song specifically “The Cynic Project - Grid”. That song blew up on MP3.com. I then got into a lot of the “old school Trance” songs. I got some music from DJs like Tiesto and Armin van Buuren. Then found that Armin had a weekly radio show. It’s a few hours long which is great because I go on a weekly few-hours long bike ride. I heard some other groups have radio shows that I am looking into.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:24 PM
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Do you listen to anything like A State of Trance radio show? That weekly show is gold most of the time.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:05 PM
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EDM, House, Trance. Ever listen to A State of Trance radio show by Armin van Buuren? The year-end count down of the top 50 of the year is one thing I look forward to every year.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:04 PM
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If they have bipolar tendencies and they find comfort in you, and then you take that away later on, they will see you and the source of their unhappiness, not their own life that is what’s causing it
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:57 PM
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Nothing ever grows in the comfort zone. You were in an LTR and grew out of that so you left it. And now you’re uncomfortable. That’s because you’re growing in life. Knowledge of that helps me. Maybe it will help you.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:42 PM
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Unless it still has cum in it.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:50 PM
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Double up on the condom if she JUST sucked a guy off and you’re going to make out with her.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:49 PM
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But tread lightly. If she feels good around you and only around you, she may become attached in a BPD way.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:46 PM
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It’s rooted in biology. Those that have “questions” about theirs will say it’s a social construct because it fits their narrative to feel normal and accepted.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 01:19 PM
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Honest question: is 6.7” big? No homo.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:50 AM
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Can confirm. Im 39 and I finally took my virginity off of a pedestal. It didn’t serve me thinking about it all the time,
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:12 AM
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She knew he was higher value so she tried to raise herself by holding the pussy hostage. He showed he didn’t give a shit (abundance mentality) and she cooked for him so she didn’t lose him since he called her bluff and gladly walked out.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 08:50 PM
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I have to pursue the things that are in my best interest/make decisions regardless of how other people react. Biggest takeaway for me. People started to get pissed off at me because of this. In previous days I would have backed off.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 06:45 AM
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Maybe I have been too far out of HS to remember the social interactions in detail. But if you’re around her why not approach her and build your approach skills now? You later self will thank you. When you’re around the girl you’re wanting to get with, go for it.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:03 PM
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Ask her to set you up with a girl? How about you do it yourself? You don’t need someone to set up up with anyone. Your friend isn’t your dating service.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:55 PM
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