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My tendency is to give up when things get difficult. I am weak willed and I have an ill defined/ever changing sense of purpose.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/15 04:39 AM
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yes. my cousin had psychosis due to accutane. hospitalized for a year. no more acne though, which is great, but obv not worth it
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 03:34 AM
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A weathered, beaten face will make you look more manly, stronger, more masculine, and more attractive. This post is garbage. You don't need to buy a special soap for your face. Grow a damn beard and cut down a tree.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 03:33 AM
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I think "verified RP" users should have flair and everyone should automatically upvote their comments (within reason). BP Troll comments should be downvoted.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 03:31 AM
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Stopped reading when you said she's pregnant. All bets are off for 9 months. She is being controlled by crazy hormonal fluctuations. And as much as she'd like to respond to you like a rational human, she can't. Man up and get through the next few months. Seriously MRP should have a sidebar disclaimer saying this stuff is off limits with a pregnant wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 05:17 AM
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Along the same lines as what you're saying, and as a response to others saying you need to get out -- it generally takes as long to make a situation good as it took to make it bad. Here on MRP we like to brag about the quick fixes and fast progress we've made, but really it's a slow game. I think you're doing good by hanging in there.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 03:57 AM
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There's a lot of people who hate this idea for various reasons. I think it's a great idea. A set of well summarized, concise main points are invaluable when learning any new system. It would be like a table of contents for MRP. Very good idea -- I hope someone takes OP up on the offer. What MRP has is a collection of very valuable experience. What it is not, is well organized and concise.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/15 07:50 AM
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Well done for maintaining frame through a difficult situation. I am interested to find out if this approach will create any long term changes in your wife's behaviour. I know that is not what we are striving for (although really, it is...) given that we can only change our own behaviour. That said, I am glad to hear you feel successful about the way you handled yourself. Of course it wears you down, but with every success you must feel even stronger. If she never changed, do you think you would …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/15 07:38 AM
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just start a blog already. I think a lot of guys need a married red pill / dealing with BPD wife blog. your approach and your writing is excellent.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 04:18 AM
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guys who match up with crazy chicks tend to always end up with crazy chicks. i'm guessing his first wife was as crazy as this one. Mark Manson article "Why is every woman You Date A Crazy Bitch?" -- worth a read if you notice a pattern in your relationships, OP...
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 04:08 AM
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this is definitely more BS than a normal person would throw at their spouse. the more i read your posts, the more convinced I am that your wife has BPD or bpd traits.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 04:06 AM
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I agree with the other posters who said she will never change. You need to think about whether you want the next 30 years to be spent with someone who acts this way toward you. It sounds like she has had many opportunities to get the message, But she just isn't getting it. One quote I like says "respect isn't earned in marriage. It's given freely." It sounds like you have been working hard for her respect for the last 1.5 years. If she hasn't given it to you now, she probably never will. I think…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 04:02 AM
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i agree, OPs wife sounds like a BPD. My wife has the same thing. I haven't left yet because I have a kid with her. But I put up with all the same things.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/15 03:59 AM
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You really can't control anyone else's behavior. Well, except Kids. But that's meant to be temporary. He has to respect his wife's agency. She does get to choose. It's his responsibility to explain why he expects her to come. But it's her choice to make. He has to be outcome independent so he doesn't care either way what she chooses to do. He must make up his mind that he will have a good time regardless.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 02:53 AM
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You should go if you want to go. You should bring your daughter if you want her to come. Let your wife decide if she's gonna come for the family fun or miss out. If she doesn't come, let her know she's being lame, but don't let it affect your action either way. The main point is that you will have a great time there with her, or without her. Once she realizes this she will probably want to come. But if not, really don't sweat it. Enjoy the break from your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 05:32 PM
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You are becoming a guru! Great post.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/14 01:19 AM
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perfect example of the oxymoronic ways of all women: give in to her demands &say sorry, and you will never hear the end of it. but if you stand tall she will grovel at your feet.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 01:02 AM
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ouch, it hurts just reading that. one of the reasons many of us are here is because of beta fathers. if you guys are like me, you witnessed your mother abuse your father and swore you wouldn't let your son see the same sad scene in his house.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 01:00 AM
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You have the awareness to see your father's ideals for what they really are. Acknowledge it, and then move past it. He is 50 years old -- he is not going to change how he views women and the world in general. I am in the same boat -- my father is the most passive person I know. When he's in a bad mood he is also the most passive aggressive I know. Neither mood is attractive to anyone at all. I noticed this long ago and decided I would not become like that. I will raise my son to be a strong man.…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 12:55 AM
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The only antidote I see is plucking a girl from a conservative religious background. Even this is risky though
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 12:23 AM
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over-masculinized women attract overly-feminized men. she gon' have a hard time finding that alpha male she wants ...unless she's hot. haha, i love that women can profess all these expectations, but really, she just gon be pumped and dumped unless she's crazy hot. they really have nothing more to offer the world than their looks!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:43 PM
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I think scientology is very much about perfecting communication skills and mastering emotions, at least at the lower levels before you are introduced to the sci-fi/"religious" aspects of the doctrine. I recall a documentary about ex-scientologists who still believe strongly in the power of "auditing" to help people as general therapists/communications coaches. Apparently their methods are highly successful. I think the religion aspect of scientology is nonsense, but you have to give them credit …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:10 PM
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an important point very clearly explained. thanks
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 12:34 AM
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I have seen it. She was sure she could do better. So she dumped him. A month later she has not done better. So she became a lesbian and started dating the chick from IT who skateboards to work.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 03:22 AM
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start asking his advice on things, even if you already know what to do. this will make him trust you. he will begin asking you advice for things. this is when you give him bad advice, and then (quietly) make his mistakes public to his superiors. make him love you even as he's packing his belongings into a box and being escorted out by security. then, enjoy your new office :)
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 12:12 AM
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At my last job (entry level in a management-track position with good exposure to executives) I failed at this. I came in cocky, and to my surprise everybody hated me. I was taken aside by a manager and explicitly told to 'tone it down' in order to fit in. Eventually I realized they want you to shine, but not too much, and certainly not too quickly. I started acting very humbly - just working hard and deferring to the managers without question on every judgment call. This helped me immensely -- I…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 12:07 AM
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i think you're right. i think it's also exacerbated on the internet because of the anonymity factor. it's much easier to say some douchey shit from behind a screen.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 12:02 AM
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unfortunately medicine attracts knowitalls by nature, so this will always be a problem in the field.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 12:00 AM
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I have a feeling the words "hate speech" are going to be heard re: TRP more often in the near future.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 07:18 PM
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Nobody on reddit or specifically trp will be able to answer this for you.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 02:18 AM
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i think that's a good point. let her exhaust herself ranting to a brick wall. when she's done, reply as if she hadn't said anything at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/14 02:46 PM
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Mormons are becoming very BP.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 04:22 AM
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Everything changes when you have kids. She can take the kids away from you. And you will have to pay a huge chunk of your salary to her for 18 years. I agree that material possessions are easy to walk away from. But your kids are what make divorce a real issue.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 04:19 AM
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This is all true. Marriage is like climbing a step stool and sticking your head into a noose. Then trying to keep the executioner laughing long enough that you die from natural causes before she decides to kick the stool out from under your feet. My wife is an abusive cheating bpd bitch who would have walked away with my condo, my kid, more than half of my salary, and ensured I could never live more than 50mi away from her if I wanted to retain some custody of my 2 year old son. So I did what an…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 04:13 AM
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looking forward to your contributions here.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/14 03:14 PM
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that book is new-age in the best possible way. i could only read it late at night... when my brain was in the right place to understand the way he writes. great book once you get into it though.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/14 03:14 PM
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I'm also looking for some books on stoicism, so let me know what you find that's useful. For fitness, Starting Strength is the de facto reddit recommendation for everybody, regardless of goals or body type. As a stockily built 5'9" dude, starting strength made me almost square in a matter of months. Serious issues finding pants that fit my thighs and shirts that fit my chest. You've got to determine your goals, and built a program around that. However, if you're tall and skinny, you cant go wron…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/14 03:13 PM
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Yes, give him this book, and then when he's finished give him Married Man Sex Life Primer.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/14 03:06 PM
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Moment 1: high school. Dating a crazy chick with an eating disorder. I think, I shouldn't have to deal with her crazy emotional shit... That was te moment of clarity. But then I said, nah I'm a Nice Guy. I'll help her out. She left me for a chick. Moment 2: college LTR. I helped her find her bearings in the big city. Introduced her to a lot of bands and encouraged her to pursue her passion for music. She left me for a guy who carved wooden spoons and sold them on the street. Moment 3: I married …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:29 AM
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Sad but true. <-- my reaction to pretty much everything i've learned from TRP.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 05:26 AM
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Here's what I love about this sub: on the face, this is some very generic "be your best self" advice. But I can clearly see that it comes from a deep place-- a place of experience. Yes, it's simple. But it is true wisdom, given from a place of hard fought knowledge and genuine desire to improve the lives of others.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:42 PM
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I think the time is right for this to work. It would not be hard to get it off the ground. I may start one in my city.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:37 PM
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I disagree. You need to show some beta for marriage to work. Sounds like you're making good progress. I mean, the outcome (she's wet and you bone) is what you desired. Win. When she demands compliments maybe you say, "shh, let's try this. Less talk, more action. I'll show you what I like about you, and you show me what you like about me." Proceed to take her from behind, with lots of love to the ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/14 10:33 PM
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currently engaged in a long term plan to protect my assets and my kid. I lawyered up secretly long ago.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:21 PM
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I married one. The rage... Oh, the rage she throws my way. Why haven't I left? Divorce rape. Learn from me. Do not be a schlub.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:22 AM
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I was actually asking you to shut up because you don't bring any value here. this sub is not a pity party. go to /r/depression if you want to find people who will listen to you complain about yourself and stroke your sad ego
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 07:02 AM
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we want it all! ...except, you know, any of the consequences.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 09:47 PM
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that sounds fuckin awesome dude. i wanna see pics to /r/diy when complete
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 06:00 AM
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there's an exception... to a point... if you're married with kids. lots of married RPers are "fighting" for their marriage because the other option is a broken home. i agree in principle, but for some people marriage means something and is very much worth fighting for. but yes, you need to accept reality and be able to walk away if the hope of happiness is gone
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 05:58 AM
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good for you man. you can and must rise above that filth.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 12:16 AM
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One of the best FRs I've read on here. Thanks for the report. TRP has given me the knowledge and courage to do what I've been avoiding for 30 years: face reality. I also quit my unfulfilling "good career" job (last shift was yesterday). I am ending a marriage with a toxic BPD abuser. I am getting jacked. I am eating well. I am fixing some shitty tattoos that influence what clothes I wore for years. Looking back on me pre-TRP life, i can't fucking believe the shit I surrounded myself with. I can'…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:30 PM
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anger phase. it will pass. you need to realize something: your life sucks because of you. not because of women. women act how they act because it's how they're made. play the game, or drop out of the game, but at least learn the rules first so you can make an informed decision either way. good on you for being here. p.s.... playing the game is a lot more fun... ;)
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:22 PM
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nobody cares about the problems of men. learn this, and stop flashing us your pussy. NOBODY CARES if you don't care about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:20 PM
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Along this vein: The highest value activity you can engage in is pursuing your purpose. Of course this means knowing your purpose first. This can be difficult, but it must be done or you will go with the flow like a dead fish. When you go with the flow, you are invisible and worthless. Once you have your mission, it becomes simple: Every activity you do is a step toward the realization of your purpose. By definition, that makes it a high value activity. Note: High value to you is more important …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:17 PM
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sounds like a shit test. but if she is truly unsupportive of you cultivating a stronger masculine energy, kick her to the curb. your life must not be wasted on someone who is trying to keep you down.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/14 05:52 AM
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my child, yes. wife, no. but this marriage is moving toward its end soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/14 09:26 PM
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It's never too late to re-establish frame, so you've got that going for you. As to dealing with the issue, I think your demeanor in how you deal with it is just as, if not more, important that whatever logistical arrangement you make. ... Now that I think about it, she probably doesn't even care about how the money is doled out. She's just looking for that fitness and/or emotional drama release women need. Go home, smirk and tell her you'll consider it, and change the subject. If she keeps bring…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/14 02:21 AM
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And just as likely you are the one to realize it won't work.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/14 02:14 AM
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this complaint is baseless. combine with movember. increase your ability to give attention to causes. i don't care what you do, just stop being a critic.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 09:35 PM
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This is true in my case. My fiancé was sexy, adventurous, easy going, funny, and totally adored me. After 3 months of marriage her BPD traits emerged and my life became a living hell. Not sure what came first- her BPD rage attacks or my beta response, but either way, it sent us into a downward spiral.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/14 06:31 PM
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Agreed. No disrespect implied. Your way is your way.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/14 05:53 PM
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Thanks for the wisdom. The only reason I am currently stickin with it is because if lose my money and my son If I didn't. 7 months from now everything will be changed. Don't yet know in what way...
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/14 05:14 PM
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became close friends with a natural alpha who had unreal SMV and top notch game to match it. under his tutelage i learned everything about sexual strategy in the real world. then i got married, became an ultra-beta (believing i was doing the right thing!) and my wife eventually despised me so much she cheated. TRP confirmed everything i knew before, but had lost. and explained her actions as well.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:48 PM
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i have also seen this with several men who i know are, or used to be, genuinely attracted to women. more often though, i see it with women who are hitting the wall, not getting attention from guys, so they become lesbians. weak people take what they can get... very un-pc to state this truth though.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:42 PM
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Tesla was a natural MGTOW. Uninterested in women, for reasons clearly elucidated. Pursued his purpose with passion. His mission was his life - that's all. If that's not a MGTOW, I don't know what is. And it allowed him to achieve greatness. There's a lesson there.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:26 PM
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looking forward to the day my legal plan is established. this has been a long process of biting my tongue, while balancing that with trying to correct my personal wrongs. i would love to go full RP, but my situation requires restraint.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/14 01:17 PM
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Honesty I don't think I can ever get over it. I really do see my own part of the blame. It was my failure of being a man that led her to look outside the marriage. But she's an adult. She committed to me. Then she lied to me and betrayed me. I deserve better than a wife who would do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/14 05:21 AM
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Serious wisdom. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/14 04:40 AM
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