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It's very much "seen not heard" perfect homemaker / servant to their "Captains" I do respect some of their focus on learning domestic skills, because all adults should know them. And I appreciate their focus on encouraging good health and exercise. But it's typically from the approach of being appealing and pleasing to your man, not just for you. Comes close to TradCon if you're familiar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:38 AM
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And can we talk about how awful that outfit is? And how he used a pretty shitty four-in-hand knot for a spread collar dress shirt? A striped tie no less? Like, maybe, a crisp half Windsor. Maybe. But if you're throwing on such a loud tie with a loud shirt with a poorly fitted suit jacket at least go closer to full. Or you know. Wear a tie that matches and works well with different knots. Bet he's wearing freaking skinny jeans and trainers under that. And like 2 year old boxers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:57 AM
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My mom got divorced about 15 years ago. She's in good shape, financially independent, smart, well traveled, informed, and has a sharp sense of humor. My dad is a micromanaging miserable pile of entitled garbage. In the beginning we used to ask her about dating again. Until she replied "Have you seen men my age? Not only that, but they're all either divorced and looking for a maid or they were never worth marrying to begin with. No thanks. I think I'll enjoy eating my apples without ever having t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:34 AM
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I dated #3. Makes well into the 6 figures. But a total piece of shit because of it. Completely irresponsible. Committed to me, but probably because who the fuck else wants a man that works so much he almost kills himself because of how miserable he is. I do well financially myself, so don't have much need to put up with that bullshit. But he lied for years about how he would quit soon when he hit his next bonus. Didn't happen What a waste of years. God he was hot though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:50 AM
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Im talking to a guy. Tall, good looking, a tiny bit of extra weight but I honestly don't mind it. My last couple BFs were built like super heroes. And just not as comfy to cuddle with. But he keeps making low key comments about not being as happy with himself. Like he wants to lose some weight. So I'm being encouraging and supporting him in doing so even though I don't think that he needs it. But yeah. The "If he doesn't believe me that I think he's hot is he just settling for me? " Is in the ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:46 AM
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Bi also. I've tried to apply it a bit. Really the self respect matter. Matched with a woman on League who asked me a bunch of personal things about myself and didn't respond to a single one of my get-to-know-you questions. After ignoring like #5 she said she doesnt like to text much before a date. And asked when we could meet up. I told her frankly that I'd answered all her questions and she had ignored all of mine so honestly I didn't feel comfortable meeting with her. She unmatched me. 🤷 I don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:48 AM
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Yup. Had this majorly fucked of scenario where someone I matched with, chatted with on and off for a couple months, then finally went on one date with ended up being married but in the process of divorcing because she "wasn't kinky enough" Like had not yet been married before our date. Got married. And was already talking about divorcing on our date. What a fucking hooligan. As I found this out I blocked him on every front. He has proceeded to message me on various forms of media every 2-3 weeks…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:34 AM
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Imagine thinking women want Chads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:18 AM
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Until well into my 20s I felt insecure about my chest. I'm around 34 DD. They don't just fucking float like there are strings attached to them. I wouldn't take my bra off around partners because all I knew was: Porn, media, and shitty comments about the undesirability of anything shy of "perfection." Now I let them free. You don't love them? Leave me. And you know what? Men fucking love them. God I wish I knew this when I was younger. This week I'm in Japan. Going to let these babies breath in h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:39 AM
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What a fucking nightmare. Feeling like. You're stuck with someone who tolerates you in spite of their disgust of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:37 AM
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I take a little pleasure out of "Thanks! Who's this?" And ignoring them after they tell me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:40 PM
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"Hey did you delete your Snap?" "Nah, just deleted you. Not doing fuckbois in 2020" "Oh ok, cool" Bye Joey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:46 PM
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I've always thought that's one of the funniest lies they tell themselves. That men age gracefully. Become that silver fox. Men over 45 are 98% ugly AF, and that 2% exception isn't on MGTOW or RP. Look like wrinkled paper bags that never took care of their skin a day in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:26 AM
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Christ. One of the commenters thinks he knows the guy and posted a picture of the bear. Apparently the guy is a total nutjob and has a rape victim as the cover photo for one of his alt FB accounts?? Sickening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:02 PM
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True, impregnation fetish is a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:54 AM
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No interest in collecting fuckbois phone numbers in 2020. No interest in giving my number out to complete strangers, especially after some weird stalky experiences. So weeding out trash early. This is within seconds of matching. Hardly even a hello. 🤢 https://imgur.com/CHJBUxw.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:50 AM
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Hah, my best friend got some desperate piece of shit to rub Brie on his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:02 PM
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Bet he's one of those guys who cries about never getting matches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:59 PM
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Hah, I went out with some piece of shit who was super into RP and Game. We were talking about tattoos. I only have one but it's in a clean script. And he said "looks like a kid scribbled on your arm." So I replied "Oh, negging me?" His jaw kind of dropped " Oh, you know what negging is?" Sure do d-bag. And then he back peddled. What a tool. Edit: and then he spent most of the rest of the date talking about game. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:39 PM
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Can someone help me understand what they mean when they say they want a woman who "comes from a good family"? What are the qualifiers of a good family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:38 PM
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My best friends and I jokingly call each other the oracles. We're all tall, attractive, successful, educated, independent. But there's one, J, who is a straight example of this. She is stunning, young, high-powered, has her MBA, travels the world, is kind and beloved by everyone she meets, she has her shit together. She dated LVMs back to back. They treated her poorly. The last two weren't really attractive or had certain traits that were working against them, both were narcissists, the last one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:19 PM
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I just reread and I think I'm missing the part where he reacted badly.. she just says she can tell his feelings were hurt. And anyone would be disappointed in that situation whether the cancellation reason we're justified or not. It doesn't sound like he rubbed it in or made it an issue. Is there a sentence I missed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 07:33 PM
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This is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:33 PM
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I went on a date with a fuckboi who was charming at first but ended up being a total piece of shit and not respecting my boundaries later in the evening. 6'4", gorgeous, British accent, good job, good family. Yet still behaved like a neanderthal. Like me asking him to stop and not do things over and over and he kept going and pushing it. Entitled. So I agreed to another date. Ended up having him wait at a bar alone for almost 2 hours on a Saturday night while I "yes! Leaving now, just needed to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:03 PM
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I saw a video about the "evolution of manners through history" and it touches on how rape was the norm until it was stigmatized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 12:02 AM
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Yup. I ended up arguing with a bunch of pedo apologists in a TIL sub trying to say there was no harm in watching porn where women purposefully depict children because that's "thought policing".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 12:00 AM
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He's proud of himself too. Screenshotted right after he sent the message. How trashy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:46 PM
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Yeah, male subs can be a wormy desperate breed. I have dated them, but only ones that don't act like wankers like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:02 AM
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Easy to manipulate, clingy, people pleasers, can't take care of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:03 AM
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I've said this to people. This whole idea that cat owners are the crazy ones. But I'm not waking up at 7am on the weekend during a blizzard to walk around and scoop up dog shit. 🤷 Nope. She lets me sleep in. Has a water fountain and an automatic feeder. Litter box is low maintenance. And she's my sidekick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:37 PM
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There was a TIL post yesterday about a guy who had fake child porn getting arrested then freed when the actress proved she was 17 at the time of filming. I literally had people arguing with me that pedophilia is ok. Women simulating children is OK and a "right". That it's not a slippery slope. That allowing this may make them pedophiles but it doesn't mean they're dangerous. Etc etc. BY WOMEN. The biggest defender of "fake" child porn was a WOMAN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:58 PM
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Can we teach this in highschool pls? - someone who wasted their 20s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:05 PM
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This made me laugh until my stomach hurt. Oh my god. I needed that 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 09:37 PM
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I feel this in a weird way. This month alone I've been hit on by 5 married guys. 3 of them are coworkers (Male dominated industry). Everyone was drunk at a conference after-party. But still. Then, another married former professional contact reached out over LinkedIn and was vulgar again. It's giving me like a complex. What the F makes me so exciting and enticing for married guys. I immediately shut it down, told them it was out of line. 3 of them have apologized. One of them quipped I was "class…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 07:58 PM
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Oooh. Yeah. My dad did this to my mom. That was not a pretty Christmas. And my grandparents on his side would get my mom things like dishtowels. So she saved them for a few years, then started regifting them right back to my grandmother. Hah! I think they stuck to cards after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 07:28 PM
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Had one of those last week. I responded "Nice copy paste" he responded back denying it was a copy paste. I pointed out that he had accidentally copied his username and how many hours ago he had sent the last message....... He pulls a "touche, but it's still genuine" Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:33 AM
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I mean, there are a lot of absolutely no-brain questions posted here by men that will never escape being beta and don't realize it yet, but you guys usually do an ok job of weeding it out on your own. Other times you let the crazy rise to the top and you have to scroll for a rational answer.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:33 PM
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Got into Asian Beauty routines a couple years ago. Went down the rabbit hole of learning about ingredients and multistep routines. Absolutely love masks. Reduced my redness and pigmentation, made my skin much more plump. Very happy with it. I even have a monthly face mask subscription so I can try new kinds! Definitely endorse ginseng and propolis masks.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 08:55 PM
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Most career paths these days aren't slow and singularly progressive with a single employer. There's a lot more volatility. I'm in a totally different career at 30 than I was at 25 and I've significantly increased my earnings because of the switch. Success and savings are just as much about learning to be flexible as they are about sticking to a single plan.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 12:01 PM
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I think it's more a feminist idea that women need to go out there a sleep with a bunch of men before settling down. I don't feel like a more complete person or a better partner because of my escapades. I feel like a more complete person because of my meaningful relationships I've had and the things I've learned about myself to make me a better partner. You may very well be moving too fast, but I don't think a high body count or 7 years of courting should be what you measure yourself against. I'm…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 02:43 PM
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I've worked with an SO before. We interacted regularly for our work but we stayed strictly professional. Most people didn't know we were involved. If you're concerned, ask him what he thinks about it. His opinion here is the one that matters the most. And when you are working together, keep a professional distance even when you do run into one another. The quality of life improvement you'll have from being together could be significant. You mentioned how long it took to find this opportunity, yo…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 01:52 PM
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I usually go for dresses and comfortable shoes.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 06:22 PM
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Aah, perfect weekend. Most people put effort into their looks, even if it's athletileasure. It's 70s - low 80s so a dress with comfortable shoes will suit you well. Be prepared for a lot of walking. I usually prefer a cute backpack with a secure clasp over a purse for a day in the city, you can hold more and it keeps your hands free. You'll notice purses in general are less common in the city, unless they're the size of a small duffle bag. It's a good city to be cute and practical. Sunglasses, h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 06:15 PM
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What time of year?
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 05:43 PM
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I was with someone I thought was the love of my life like this for 3 years. Built like Captain America, wicked smart. The difference was, in the beginning he promised commitment and a future together. We had plans. Then things changed, and he stopped promising these grand things, stopped even pretending to be working toward them. But I'm a hopeless romantic that believed that they were still there, and that bettering myself would snap us out of the rut. But it never happened. I went from adored …
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 12:33 PM
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Agreed! Everyone always compliments me on how put together I look with my dresses. Pssh, dresses are my easy outfits. I only have to worry about washing that one article of clothing and grabbing some cute accessories. Not managing a whole outfit. It's a beautiful thing
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/19 02:48 PM
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Was watching a show recently where a woman said "I had pre-partum depression. That's where every baby makes you depressed until you have your own." Your mind could change slightly as you age, gain exposure, and influence through your partner and his intentions. Babies crying were nails on a chalkboard for me until about 30. But RP has awoken a womanly and feminine energy in me that I largely ignored while I was career focused and uninterested- and now I want one, like, tomorrow. Or maybe in a we…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/19 03:11 AM
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Slender Kitchen does this well, but it's a small monthly subscription.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 05:34 PM
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I'm on a similar situation to you. This summer I hit the heaviest I've ever been and it was really eye opening. I didnt have a scale at home so I almost never weighed myself. I definitely found myself eating a lot due to stress or because I "earned a treat." I've made a couple of incremental changes and I'm now down 6 lbs in 2 weeks. The first thing I did is stopped keeping any sweets in the kitchen except for Truvia for my coffee, and Atkins dessert bars. (I keep the dessert bars in the freezer…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 12:56 PM
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Me too. Even my friends who are married with kids would find the idea of this outdated and offensive, and hardly affordable. But I grew up rural before moving here, so it's more tied into my roots. Can't wait to leave the city.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 12:41 PM
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Seconding this advice. Black would be too heavy with that dress.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 01:19 AM
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There are a number of great subs dedicated to frugal living, personal finance, and financial independence that I'd recommend checking out. Not sure if I can link to them, but you can find them with basic search terms. The financial independence sub is my favorite, and it includes countless resources in the sidebar. I'd also recommend checking out the site NerdWallet. They have simple financial advice for any scenario, including advice specific to women. Something a lot of women don't consider is…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 08:53 PM
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With one year left you should finish it. There may come a time of financial hardships, sickness, injuries, or loss where you must work again, and having certifications in spite of missing a degree will make you much more attractive to employers regardless of the industry you choose. The hours you dedicate now may feel challenging, but being prepared for the curveballs that life inevitably throws at us is responsible and invaluable. Like you said, God forbid something happens to him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 03:18 PM
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I don't consider it to be a mistake or to have been reckless. My highschool boyfriend and I were together all four years, and we waited until our senior year to do it. At the time I had no reason to believe he wouldn't be the man that I would ultimately marry, and neither of us are religious. I'm grateful that it did take place in a situation of innocent and pure love. But even if it hadn't, punishing myself years later serves no higher purpose. I'm still becoming a more complete RPW but for me …
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 12:55 PM
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