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I haven't had time to respond anymore and this post took off. I appreciate all the direct feedback and in your face comments I've gotten here. Lots of thought has been had from the comments and it's nice to read a thorough and detailed perspective from some of you. Some points I want to clarify though. I was stating here and only here my morals of fidelity. I think I was misunderstood that I told my wife that. I most certainly did not. That's the last thing in the world I'd tell her after gettin…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 11:41 PM
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I agree with you 100% Can you expand up doubling down on only wanting her for sex? I agree that she wants her BB and am working to get out of her frame from your other comment (edit: now below). That is why I am asking where to move from here. I am struggling with the dichotomy of providing for children/family while not being a BB to her in the context of our relationship solely as husband and wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 06:19 PM
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But she is scared of me leaving. She brought up her fear of me going nuclear again. Not arguing at all but more asking how to instill dread better given my morals to the point that it is effective without her only fear being nuclear.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 06:10 PM
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Ok. SMV aside I would rank us both as highly social and very good looking. I would rank myself higher due to social status though. Her I would rank lower due to being a 35 year old mother of 3 and SAHM. While being easy on the eyes she also carries a lot of baggage so to speak.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 06:08 PM
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I agree here but would call it a shit test even though I am still working to better understand and identify faster the difference between shit/comfort tests so that I may get through them more on impulse and with less "what do I do now" type thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 06:05 PM
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I can agree with you here. I struggle with the pedestal given that I am married and unwilling to cheat. Dread I have to disagree however. She had a nightmare the other day about me cheating for example. Dread is at what I would consider level 6 and been progressing over some time. I have my own hobbies, revamped appearance, lots of interaction and flirting at work and during said hobbies. Perhaps I may be progressing through dread too slow/fast?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 05:56 PM
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I get what you are saying. It makes sense that she is finding her own place. Sex and child rearing is basically it for her. I explained calmly that I'm not mad and just disappointed that she is not putting out. This is the hard part of MRP I suppose given that my morals are against me cheating and she knows that I only have one vagina available. Again, this is my confusion because as much as I enjoy working on me and going MIA for a while I would prefer to have a home/relationship that is more s…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 05:49 PM
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Yep, this is it. I would like to figure out how to maintain dread at a level that avoid the inaffection/repeat cycle however... I am still swallowing the pill and understanding more daily. I have become very good at holding frame and acting the leader but after holding frame and walking away I am somewhat confused what to do the next day to move forward again. I don't like setbacks and repeating problems...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/15 05:43 PM
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I hear that. Thing is I have been lurking here for a while and been making great progress as of lately. Things like not saying "I love you" first, telling her where we're going to dinner instead of debating, 2/3 texting rule, not laughing as much - being more stoic, more eye contact, etc. It has all made a huge difference. She is now craving my attention and wanting me more and more. For instance just the other night she qualified herself to me saying she should 1) take herself down a notch 2) f…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 03:21 PM
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Thanks for this. I was trying to get some ideas specifically with a red pill spin on them though.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 02:03 AM
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