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How good was the sex, bro? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:20 PM
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Is it really "lowering your standards" when finding an 8/10 guy is practically as much of a statistical anomaly as finding a 10/10 one is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:47 AM
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Do you think "inexperienced" also means "unable to consent?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:41 PM
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Do you believe those theoretical relationships are "consensual?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:35 PM
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This woman would have more time for showers if she put down her phone and stopped complaining on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:03 AM
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Both men and women drink to get more courage in approach/dating scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:36 AM
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Sexist? I guess. If you want to pick something to rage at. A good business decision? Certainly. It gets more women into the bars and that's good for the dating ecosystem. It makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:35 AM
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Probably works, makes good money, while also doing the majority of chores, cooking and childcare. Still up to sex after a working day and cooking dinner. Why would most men want their ideal woman to be too busy for domestic tasks?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:33 PM
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Why #5?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:18 AM
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Taylor Swift has written songs about marriage, such as Love Story and Paper Rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:07 AM
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Politicians' job is to represent voters. And women vote for those men. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:09 PM
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Feminism will never fight for the plight of men even if they are struggling. Yes? Were you expecting something else from the ubiquitous movement centered on females?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:48 AM
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Which DiCaprio ex looks like a teenager? Even the actual 19-year-old model he was rumored (and officially denied) to be with looked like a grown woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:14 AM
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Yeah, that's a little different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:21 PM
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Good point. The men in here are endorsing a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:16 PM
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That's not the scenario the original poster used as an example, but I guess that does fit into the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:14 PM
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It takes a lot of psychological brain gymnastics to have your penis in another woman and not feel like you're cheating or ignoring the real woman you're with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:00 PM
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I'm surprised the other men here are for it. What happened to commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:50 PM
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Interesting analysis. Congratulations on your personal journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:02 PM
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Information is good! I'm on your side. But you can't deny that information can be exaggerated and compounded to create a narrative, and narratives are not objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:02 PM
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The infamous TikTok "list" was started by a non-mother, and was meant to discourage other childless women from having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:54 PM
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There are certainly facts that can and should be shared about pregnancy and motherhood. But it's up to individual people to create narratives (usually negative) out of them. And I would say from what I have seen, a lot of anti-motherhood content on TikTok comes from not mothers, but people who heard from someone else a bad story.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:02 PM
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Absolutely. TikTok is huge about the anti-child sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:56 AM
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There's always a tenth dentist. That's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:46 PM
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Does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:05 AM
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<image> ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:02 AM
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The men in It Ends With Us are hot. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:03 AM
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What sexual scenario isn't a common fantasy? There are a lot of men with imaginations out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:23 PM
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Finally. Gender equality. 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:22 PM
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That doesn't really matter. It's all in the brain. An infertile woman would be just as selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:14 PM
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Oh yeah. The women in that video were not at the top of the heap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:08 PM
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Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap. It's just evolutionary biology. I can't blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:07 PM
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I think part of OP's feelings making this post is that acting serious and sexually dominant all the time is dishonest to his nature. It doesn't feel good in his gut. Which is true. Most non-chads out there are not built to be Don Juan.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:56 AM
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The second a President runs on a truly "pro-family" platform like extended maternity leave and better tax credits, I will vote for them in a heartbeat. I think that's a weak point in our country currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:21 PM
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No. Men can't control how they are on a societal, genetic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:10 PM
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There are way more men with Autism than men with Huntington's (about 1/25 vs 1/200,000). That completely changes the context. Doesn't it make sense for men with such a common condition to get frustrated when they get screwed over by the way society treats them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:19 PM
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Huh? Women enjoy sex even more than men. More nerve endings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:58 PM
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Butker is the kicker though. It's kind of a lucky position when it comes to physical contact or the lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:52 AM
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All true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:50 AM
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You realize that Harrison Butker delivered his speech at a Catholic school?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:50 AM
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Most of the speech is not about the "homemaker" part. Ninety percent of the speech is about generic Catholic inspiration. It's pretty easy to see how the audience gave him a standing ovation and which parts it was for. There are more parts of the speech than not where Butker tells both the men and women in the room to be excited for their future careers. The homemaker part was a segue for Butker to praise his wife, whom he gets emotional for during the speech. He uses her as an example, but he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:48 AM
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Good analysis. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:16 PM
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And that doesn't explain why this is a generational thing (18-22-year-olds).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:18 PM
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You had to do it to him. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:14 PM
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That doesn't answer why men do want kids in this same study.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:13 PM
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I wonder why the number of women who want kids has gone down. That's a big compatibilty issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:11 PM
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And in exchange, the clitoris has way more nerve endings than the penis. It's weird how we were given these differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:42 AM
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Mm. I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:05 PM
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For men, it's instinctual. That's interesting that women don't "figure it out" in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:25 PM
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Yeah. Because the Girl Scouts are run by a different organization, and a lot of the "girls should join the Boy Scouts" hype in the 2010s was rooted in how lame the Girl Scouts can be compared to the Boy Scouts. They're already separate, now they just need to be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:35 PM
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I never attended a boys only school, but I was a Boy Scout. I respect your own observations, but I think boys and girls should learn how to build their own social groups. How boys behave when exclusively together and how girls behave when exclusively together is different than when in a mixed group. Those bonding moments "with the boys" are invaluable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:33 PM
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Organizations tend to do weird things when they are going bankrupt. We literally just talked about this with Bumble. In my opinion, boys and girls should have separate groups, but the Girl Scouts should be kept in line with the Boy Scouts. They should learn the same skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:14 PM
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Women like patriarchal systems, even when they deny it, AKA the creator of Bumble. They make things easy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:53 PM
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Dove Cameron did some unnecessary facial surgery. Too bad what Hollywood encourages these women to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:14 PM
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Yeah, it was forcing something that no one actually wanted and was frankly socially unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:52 PM
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Women want men to "simp" for them if they're hot. Then it's romantic, not creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:02 PM
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Huh. Good points. I think a lot of men think they can convince a woman to be into things like crypto, but that's not as good of a strategy as finding one who is into it from the start. And that's just your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:01 PM
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I can see how relationships with bim/himbos might not be long term, but being attractive gets your foot into the door for loads of romantic opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:12 PM
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"Almost nothing to do."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:22 PM
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Why? What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:08 PM
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Most men "can" but how many are actually rapists? It's a fraction and ultimately a stupid generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:24 PM
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You're separating sexual violence and good old fashioned assualt, which makes the entire comparison pointless. You have to view violence in one big circle. It's a comparison between the chances of an average adult man attacking you in any way or an average grizzly bear attacking you. As a logical person, I know that the bear is winning that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:24 PM
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Look at the women saying the exact things in that comment section! I guess the chick just didn't make herself look likable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:52 AM
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In several cases, yes, liberal women prefer conservative men. That is not some intentional choice by them, they will state they hate these men in other forums, but they are attracted to strong masculinity, and that's what you usually get with conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:59 AM
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So, this is real?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:03 AM
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I would take in a heartbeat. Who am I to be a choosy beggar?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:05 PM
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The difficult thing is that you can be a 10/10 beautiful man and still be rejected by huge portions of women because of random shit like your eye shape or your height or your ability to have godly rizz 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:32 PM
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“One of the guys” is a positive for a lot of men, but “one of the girls” is more of a turn off to women. Wow. Great observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:23 PM
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You can,ya know,just smash/have a vague situationship if she is that hot,you don't need to actually date/be in relationship with her. IDK, I think that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:18 PM
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And what if she was a 10/10 blonde? That's the premise of the meme, that men prioritize looks at a higher ratio than women, who famously care more (with base physical attractiveness still number one) about tertiary criteria like income, status, and height than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:51 PM
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It's a whole ass meme that men find McDonald's/other drive thru girls oddly beautiful, so yes, we would.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:24 PM
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Playgirl[edit] Following the success of Bloody Kisses, Steele began to receive attention outside of music. He appeared as a nude centerfold of Playgirl in 1995.[53] Steele later found out via bandmate Kenny Hickey's contacts that only 23% of the magazine subscribers were female,[54] and after being asked by men to sign copies of the magazine, Steele somewhat regretted the decision: "After I did it, I thought, 'Oh my God, what did I do?' It was more than upsetting that so many guys had it. Girls,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:41 PM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:24 AM
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Most porn is made for straight men, with an emphasis on the angles that look best and fantasies catered to men. Supply and demand, baby. Playgirl was a thing, but women are not visual like men, so it just became a gay readership and eventually fizzled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:27 PM
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These still aren't great numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:00 AM
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Population collapse is definitely a problem in society, but will it be catastrophic? Probably not. Humanity's greatest strength is adaptation. Try not to fall into fear mongering. The same applies to climate change, technology concerns, anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:38 PM
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Really good analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:28 PM
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No. I think it's complete nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:21 PM
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Humble brag?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:01 PM
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You'd be surprised what percentage of the population is actually extremely lazy and mostly a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:05 PM
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"I can fix him" is a tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:27 PM
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Yeah, I'm overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:48 AM
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Got any tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:36 AM
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Ok, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:25 AM
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Can you elaborate? I'm 19 and would love to find my wife. I thought it was dumb when people were upset that Millie Bobby Brown got engaged this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:12 AM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:55 PM
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Do you have the link to the video?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:18 PM
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Found Barack's Reddit account.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:21 AM
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Michelle Obama has to be one of our best first ladies. She's a top candidate. This may be recency bias, but I unironically think Olivia Rodrigo is well-spoken, well-dressed, and very talented. I'll put her as my celebrity pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:45 AM
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He's nice in interviews, too, AKA the real him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:36 AM
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Some men get too obsessed with body count. N-count suggests things about a girl's values, but if she shows you to them in other ways, being a virgin doesn't matter that much. As an extension, those obsessive men think other men should not be virgins. I don't think that makes sense. If sex is pure and valuable, it should be to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:29 AM
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Ah. Should've guessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:24 PM
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What is your solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:10 PM
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Don't date women who maliciously lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:19 PM
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Nah, personal freedom is one of the most valuable things in society. It should come first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:17 PM
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That's a little robotic but it's definitely the right sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:18 PM
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Emma Watson and Carey Mulligan are totally upgraded with them. It adds so much class and intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:29 AM
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Isn't that the whole point of the subreddit? Guys don't like being virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:27 PM
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Are your surprised? It's practically the whole concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:21 PM
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Bro, I talk to women I like. I just know that I don't exist in the same universe to them that they exist for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:49 PM
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In the past year? You're right, none. But I did a lot of asking out plans my senior year of high school, and it was mostly just an embarrassment. Some guys aren't meant to attract women, and no amount of practicing your dialogue can fix that. Yes, I need to get in shape, but there is no gym in my town, and I'd probably be too busy with work to do that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:33 PM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:52 PM
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For real?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:03 PM
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Isn't it? The average man will have the same results whether he does everything he can to impress women or if he doesn't and saves his energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:26 PM
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No, you didn't say any solutions. I'm reading into your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:01 PM
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The difference is that the men were ugly. Go ahead and say that; it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:59 PM
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I feel it's the opposite. The first guy had nowhere else to look. They were both stuck on the bus in that position. The second guy had to turn his head, but you are right that he also probably wasn't trying to be a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:58 PM
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I agree, but I don't really see how those guys, particularly the first one, were "leering." He was positioned in front of her. Was he supposed to be looking somewhere else? Keep his eyes shut for the whole ride? The second guy had to turn his head, so there may be a case there, but there was still nothing that bothersome about it unless the woman involved watches too much true crime and thinks any man wants to kill and rape them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:55 PM
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It was two people stuck in the same place. Was he supposed to close his eyes the entire time for the woman's comfort? Again, this is a sensitivity issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:52 PM
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Yuppp.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:51 PM
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How about "men, be better"? What kind of strategy is that? Expecting other people to change around you to fix your problems is age-old bullshit. If you find ways in life to take more responsibility and independence, you will be way more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:54 AM
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It's still not good for you, and there are societal myths that a few drinks a week (often said to be red wine) are good for you, but it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:06 PM
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According to recent studies, there is no "drinking in moderation." That said, I still don't care if people want to do it. There's nothing wrong with sacrificing a little if you need it. Moderate drinkers at risk for alcohol problems if they binge, study finds | CNN
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:14 PM
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Yup. AI lets men and women maximize stimulation without bothering with the pesky flaws of other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:16 PM
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Red flag? 24. Massive red flag? 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:24 AM
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There are some early video trials that are starting to surface. Interesting. Do they look like animation, or closer to reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:12 PM
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Check out r/CharacterAI. The future you're describing already exists. Today's introverted women can chat for dozens of hours a week with people who don't exist, usually in a romantic context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:11 PM
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It's satisfying for men to think they're better than women. As it is for women to think they're better than men. It's psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:12 PM
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Isn't sex an equal arrangement? Are you saying women don't have kinks, and that those kinks don't/never intersect with their traditional gender roles, similar to men? I have something to break to you. r/1950sHouseholdWives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:44 PM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/11/opinion/marriage-women-men-dating.html This article has some gems about the absurd standards of women. One woman completely admitted to going on as many dates as possible to use them as a checklist. Women simply don't "date down." They want someone who elevates them socially, monetarily, entertains them, gives them peak romance, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:52 AM
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Nah, he was a crazy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:24 PM
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Great work, King. Practice is the key. I try to talk to strangers everywhere too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:15 PM
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Yes, they are rare!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:19 PM
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What kind of melodramatic hyperbole is this? Come off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:43 AM
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I'm 19 and there are women who are quite attractive into their 50s (Kate Beckinsale, the Jennifers), so in an idealized scenario, I don't see why I wouldn't marry a woman as old as that. I do want kids, though, so probably closer to 35 and under.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:01 PM
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🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:12 AM
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You don't have to agree. It's a "change my view" post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:09 AM
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We have laws in place that make paying women less in almost all cases impossible. If that was so common, employers would only employ women; payroll is expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:04 AM
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The women also make more in New York, so that balances things out for the native citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:24 PM
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That was lucky for men but not for women that wanted casual sex and not starting a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:44 PM
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The issue is not "good men." As we all know, women have nice guys lining up to marry them if they're average or higher. What the women in the article struggle with is finding the Chad made of gold. He just ain't coming, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:33 PM
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One of these friends, with whom I went to college, would like nothing more than to be married. She’s beautiful and successful and not, as far as I can tell, overly picky. She has had long-term relationships and cherishes the intimacy and stability they provide. To that end, she keeps a Post-it note on a bulletin board. On it, she has drawn out 10 lines of 10 circles each. Every time she goes on a date with someone new, she fills in a circle. She’s committed to going on at least a hundred dates a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:30 PM
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Yup, cultural differences exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:09 AM
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How does this relate to men's attraction? How are we different?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:25 PM
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Both designs are good, but the Suicide Squad one is better.
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/23 03:44 AM
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Do you smile at men? Are you approachable? Is your personality tolerable? Do you ever use signals?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:07 PM
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With one of the men you broadly hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:32 PM
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misandry edits, mogged slideshows What are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:33 PM
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IDK, that doesn't seem normal. You see women as porn categories first, regular people second.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:32 PM
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That's pretty mean spirited for a woman working out specifically to fix her issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:31 PM
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It's nice to have a drink, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:30 PM
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☕
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:26 PM
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Home Depot and golf courses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:26 PM
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If you hit puberty around 13 or 14 (at least the most hormonal/development of attraction part), by 24, you've been "on the market" for at least a decade. If you haven't even successfully approached or gone out on a date by then, you probably are hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:27 AM
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Beautiful. Good sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:32 PM
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I've seen women call Henry Cavill an incel because he dared to have a personal opinion on #MeToo (it was a good and interesting opinion, and he was credible to say it). The term is absurdly watered down at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:11 PM
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Which state do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:27 PM
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"Traditional men" are coming into swing, but because of what "tradition" they are referring to, they are talking about the wife staying home and them working.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:18 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:43 AM
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I accept your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:14 AM
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https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/why-men-often-die-earlier-than-women-201602199137 This article seems both interesting and correct. It is a good question. Men have more dangerous jobs, have higher rates of heart disease, they're usually the victims of violent crime, they have higher rates of suicide, and they avoid doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:13 AM
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Men age better. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:42 AM
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Social interacting is an art of practice and refinement. Social circles help a lot with this, but you're not hopeless without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:13 PM
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Porn isn't real life. There is still a difference between the zany stuff some people watch and what they would ever dare to try in the bedroom. Only a certain type of man would want to be violent in the bedroom, and that predates porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:46 PM
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No, I don't believe you. Women these days are addicted to noticing red flags and abusive men almost always show signs, even if they're little (sometimes it's violence in the bedroom, sometimes it's little comments and overrulings that she should have picked up on). Women ignore them because they like the guy, he's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:42 PM
0

Yeah, it's called a risk. You could embarrass yourself or you could be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:33 PM
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I wrote her very sweet haikus on our three-month anniversary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:14 PM
3

Yeah, yeah, marriage is stupid and all that crap. You can call it thin or a metaphor, but it still has a theoretical purpose, and the average woman would find it concerning or suspicious that their man doesn't want to take the last step in their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:10 PM
2

Tell a modern woman you would give her your 100% commitment except you won't get married and there won't be a wedding and see how they react That's not 100% commitment. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:22 PM
3

Don't men do the 'flowers and chocolate' schtick because they feel it's standard or routine?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:15 PM
6

Rule 1 and 2, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:58 PM
1

I think it's too hard to say conclusively. Women have feelings of love that are just as strong as men. I agree with the women in this thread that when a woman decides to get married and have kids with you, it is a very big commitment, so big that it is almost always an act of love towards the man. But the whole acts of service thing is definitely more male. Whenever a girl goes out of her way to treat her man with something like that, it usually gets turned into an Internet meme because it never…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:32 PM
2

Why does this make me envision an anime character? Probably because of that viral Japanese McDonald's ad recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:28 PM
10

This is so true. Masculinity is about doing things and femininity is about having things done to/for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:16 PM
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Isn't commitment romantic in itself though? I'd say having babies and changing her last name would be romantic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:14 PM
2

No, that was her fault, bro. You can cringe about the whole thing, but she was using you and playing with your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:56 AM
1

No. My dad is quite overweight, so he would have been vetted pretty hard nowadays. He used 90s-style rizz (love letters and emails) because that's what he came from. I don't think he quite grasps what today's dating and women are about, but he tries. My mom is an acceptable-looking woman who wanted to get married and have kids young, so she did, and that's still something women can get these days (just at a lower rate due to the economy), so she'd be fine. The limited options of a quarter-centur…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:03 AM
1

Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:31 PM
2

How often do you initiate? Are you that type of person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:58 PM
2

I think it's mostly coincidence, but people are usually most attracted to their own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:51 PM
17

That would be paradise, wouldn't it? I don't think it's that easy given how many women there are in the real world and online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:45 PM
1

I will agree with that, but at the same time, technically there is positive intention there. What it means is that this guy asks out a lot of young women, and the high school question keeps him out of trouble. It would be more problematic if he didn't ask it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:09 PM
1

They were separated by the counter and the guy made no threats or sexually aggressive statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:22 AM
2

Why didn't she end the conversation? 😂 "Ok, have a nice day." would have sufficed. Also, why did she record it? To flame him? To make a statement about what men are like (this is the most likely based on the caption she overlayed) or what being the average woman is like? It all seems pointless since he does nothing but seem idiotically unprepared to talk to this girl he chose to talk to. He doesn't harass her, she wasn't in danger. He only accomplished embarrassing himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:17 AM
1

You have to be a little clever with it. No 🍆 emojis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:08 AM
5

How funny that Lizzo coined that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:54 PM
13

Gen-Z will probably bring marriage rates down even lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:26 AM
8

There has been no other time in history where the average woman had so many options when it comes to dating and men so little. This is our fault. That's what men being simps has done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:26 AM
7

Yes, it's definitely a psychological effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:44 PM
6

And yet, those same women would gasp when you ask them to make dinner and raise your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:18 AM
8

Stop forgetting about rule 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:26 PM
1

Your range is what you can attract. Most guys can't attract anyone. Thus, most of us must be pretty damn unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:56 PM
3

Because men have a part of their brain that can fetishize anything. It's just how we are. Women, on the other hand, have to be much more genetically selective, on top of the fact that they are horny/deviant on a lower percentage and level than men (less testosterone, different brain wiring, evolutionary stuff), so they don't fetishize irregular qualities as much (those last two words are important).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:58 PM
2

What kind of a mind-blowing connection is this? Doy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:41 PM
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I don't know. I don't think you can deny some women like older men better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:17 PM
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The 20-year-old would look boyishly handsome. The 35-year-old would look manly/mature and handsome. Women usually prefer the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:07 PM
0

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:25 PM
5

Give me an average girl with good values who will raise my children over a 10/10 supermodel who is insufferable to breathe the same air as any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:47 PM
2

Didn't we solve this issue? You can ask out a woman anywhere and anytime if you follow rules 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:37 PM
1

No, I wouldn't expect a woman to. And that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:30 PM
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Men love Amazons (men love any type of woman, really). I'm 5'9, and I can imagine myself dating anyone shorter, the same, or taller. In fact, if I really had to pick, I'd pick a woman of the same height.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:20 PM
1

Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:57 PM
1

Ok, thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:41 PM
2

The JC Penney couples are late Millennial to Gen-X and beyond. Everyone younger than 35 is using dating apps right now. Those issues that you even acknowledge in your comment are more relevant than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:16 PM
1

I'm a 38 year old gymmaxxed virgin. Off-topic, but how is the gymmaxing experience? Are you happier? How hard is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:14 PM
11

Did u actually try? Bro, we're all trying. Effort doesn't work like that in this instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:12 PM
1

The 3-4 women I have been to bed with were also all 5-15 years older than me. You should elaborate on this. Do you seek out older women, or do they seek out you? What do they like about you if so? Maybe you accidentally specialized in the wrong attributes for what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:11 PM
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Hm, good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:11 AM
1

Yeah, sure. There's the occasional interesting or informative discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:43 PM
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Nah, I wouldn't have assumed thousands. I also don't know if you're on dating apps or anything. But you have a selection. Y'know, anything greater than 0. That's what I'm talking about. And definitely don't discount yourself. If you are looking for a "high value man," (your definition is good) you will find him eventually. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:31 PM
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Both. I can confidently say both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:11 PM
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The average women attracts a ton of men. Both good, high value, attractive men, and not so good, low value, creepy/unattractive men. I don't know the percentages. On the contrast, the average man attracts zero women of any kind (unless through a cosmic event), leading to an assignment of low value and overall frustration, and in the long term, loneliness. You can complain about your situation, go ahead, but the fact that you and I exist in different binary worlds of dating/existence/acknowledgme…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:10 PM
13

Agreed. A little self-reflection goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:19 PM
3

Read your partner. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:37 PM
6

What is your experience on the apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:24 AM
3

Can and want are different. What a weird question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:07 PM
2

Yup. Women are physically disgusted by awkward men. All it takes is not having a really smooth voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:12 PM
1

Ooh, that's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:25 PM
2

Across the board, all men are aspiring to less on the dating market as it becomes more lonely and more competitive. But average/above guys struggling is definitely tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:08 PM
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Yep. Women used to value a man flirting with them. Now, it's sexual assault to even look at someone. And yet, women still biologically desire and prefer masculine guys who can approach, compliment, and initiate a relationship. What a bloody tightrope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:45 PM
2

You have some interesting examples there, but yeah, maybe a 'happy medium' is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:44 PM
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New students were all required to go through sexual assault training which essentially said men are constantly stalking women with the intention of going them harm. This of course puts women on the defensive when approached Yes. Absolutely. More so than just actions, we have changed how women think about men approaching them. It's socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:02 PM
2

Dating apps are so crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:01 PM
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Women who only want "666" are mocked and criticised all the fucking time online. And yet, they exist in the first place and they continue to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:57 AM
1

I think most guys get along with each other regardless of age. Once again, adults are adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:03 PM
1

Sheesh, I hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:50 PM
1

No, women like dicks (in a few ways?). They just pretend to have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:24 PM
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The idea of being compared to a loser and being found unfavourably, ya rather stay single than be like any of them. Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:23 PM
2

the "hole that god can't see" Who coined this term? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:59 PM
1

But which is the majority, and which is the minority? That is the true place where we differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:52 PM
1

I'm not talking about people with suicidal thoughts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:59 PM
0

Hey, you were asking for help, an explanation. I gave it to you. What answer to your question ("Are you suggesting that we should put all our focus into having families? Why do men want this for us?") should I have given?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:57 PM
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...Yes, and we are talking about why. Quite simply, families give life indescribable meaning. It's why we all exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:32 AM
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I don't need pity! If I'm fat, don't gaslight me. I know I need to work on myself. I can face the facts. Let women stick with all the 'lie to me' nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:34 PM
1

Sex dolls? We totally have those over here. And like with many modern sexual deviances, those are becoming more acceptable every year due to what we are exposed to of culture on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:50 AM
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Yeah. I've gotten some dating advice from my dad, but it's loose, and I suspect he's not even an expert. I wonder how he and others of the Gen-X and older generations learned how to do it. If you watch tapes or movies from the 50s, society seemed more romantic overall and the men were very confident. Courtship was a real thing, not like today. Feminism and #MeToo fucked shit up. Even guys like Henry Cavill (yes, literally him) are nervous to talk to women anymore. That is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:49 AM
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I feel like men aren't learning the correct things from a young age about dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:10 PM
2

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:49 PM
3

We will probably end up like Japan where 25% of young men haven't been on a date. Are those men too busy or too unsocialized?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:48 PM
2

Yep. Kids are an inherent sacrifice, but people are not interested in that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:41 PM
0

I'm sorry about your home life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:37 PM
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All three of the women OP's post was inspired by want partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:10 PM
2

Sounds like a fun Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:09 PM
4

Thank you for bringing peace and logic to Reddit today. You're needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:39 AM
4

Obviously, people are allowed to have different opinions about stuff. But to see a cultural movement where a majority has shifted their opinion, and on the opinion of whether it makes sense to continue the human race and find satisfaction through family, as every single generation of our species has? That's startling, or at the very least, worth analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:08 PM
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Complete failure and embarrassment, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:49 PM
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Yes. Also, goodness gracious, what changed? I know things got expensive, but the attitudes towards starting a family are in the gutter now. It's horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:00 AM
0

That's being generous, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:01 PM
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B is cute and has nice and natural curves. She is also a fitness influencer, which speaks for itself in terms of genetic promise. D has an appealing face, probably the most out of all the options, but her ass looks way too fake and disproportionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:27 AM
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Yeah, sure. But I think male approaches in general would be much lower if the norms were flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:47 PM
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It's because women would not be asking out creeps, removing those interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:49 PM
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Women secretly love traditional approaches. They don't want to give that up, and they would feel desperate if they tried to do it. On top of that, yeah, they have no idea how to rizz up someone they like. They'd look like apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:46 PM
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Long hair is almost always the best. If a girl has braids, we notice that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:49 PM
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That last one is perfect. Saves you both embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:42 PM
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I have never gotten a cavity, and the dentist always makes me feel good about that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:51 PM
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There are people who are bad at guessing heights, but also people who are good at it. My brain likes details, so I'm quite good at guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:51 PM
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People who lose a lot of weight can gain it back very easily. At least she's working it off again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:49 PM
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It's not about what supports you can place over "the system." It's about the system itself. The universal school practice of sitting in a chair all day with no physical activity or nuanced learning, really just learning facts, is bad for all kids but hurts boys more. There's nothing that can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:38 AM
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Find a man who won't cheat or murder you. It's not that hard. Also, there are women out there who look fantastic after pregnancy. You just work back into shape. Also, also, people don't have kids for fun. They do it because they want them. Moms accept the pain, physical changes, and all of the time sacrifices because kids are the reward. Your life becomes about them, which is a beautiful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:36 AM
3

Good analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:56 PM
5

What about the lesbian stuff? Some guys only watch that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:40 PM
10

You had to do it to 'im.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:34 PM
2

Honestly, terrifying to think about. Some.people really are that ugly. There's always settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:37 AM
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There is a growing counterculture of young women who yearn to not work, ala women of the pre-80s. They're becoming more vocal. Even a college educated woman could secretly wish for an easy lifestyle with a man in a completely different tax bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:23 PM
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Do you live in California or something? 500k is a crazy amount of money to most Americans. Making 6 figures is shorthand for "doing really well" even if it's just 100k flat. The average woman would absolutely jump at a guy who makes half a mil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:18 PM
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The median salary is 54k. 100k looks pretty damn good compared to that. But you might be right that it wouldn't completely turn attractiveness around for a guy. Maybe anything over that, like 110k+. If you make 150k+, clearly, you're doing something right in life, so a girl would be attracted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:10 PM
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Mm, sabotaging herself. I get it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:52 PM
2

The girl married this man explicitly to take the opportunity of him from others?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:07 PM
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Women who "aren't looking for someone right now" are not stressed about finding a partner (we should both assume we're talking about respectful and reasonable approaches from men here). If you think about it, the logic comes naturally. This type of woman has an "it'll happen" approach, and presumably has confidence in it. The average single man is always "looking for someone," lol. They can't afford to only accept options that come from one or two avenues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:03 PM
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I'm explaining the phenomenon OP described in their post. Being in this comments section means accepting the existence of that said phenomenon. Now, why are there women who seemingly don't put any effort into getting into relationships, in fact being negative towards approaches? It's because they are allowed to be very picky about how they start relationships. And they aren't stressed about it because attaining a relationship is a lower test of a woman's value than a man's. This is a female thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:11 PM
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These women clearly do not value having a relationship highly. It will happen to them when it happens through the three means you listed. Also, women are women. They will drift into a partner no matter what. It's not stressful for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:07 PM
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The issue is that women think it's uncouth to be honest about what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:28 PM
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Just think: the opposite is way worse. Overly clingy girls are way better than girls who are apathetic to be your girlfriend and don't make you feel special, appreciated, or masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:04 PM
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Yes! Keep up the great work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:06 PM
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Some women have taken heed of the negative consequences of having a hoe phase, but not many. Whenever accounts like TradWest on Instagram promote these values for women, many salty women complain about it in long form in his comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:00 PM
1

I agree that the younger women in the slideshow look fine. Men would go out with them. But, yes, men like faces too. A fatter or older woman could compensate with a cute face. It all balances out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:46 PM
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Military men are buff. Everyone knows that. Sure, PTSD is rough, but it's a poor evolutionary decision to flat out avoid military guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:38 PM
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That lady better look like Jessica Alba to be that picky. Hell, with the proximity requirement, I don't think her ideal man exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:45 PM
5

Ok, thanks. Good expertise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:58 PM
5

There are hundreds of species that are not pandas that are also in captivity that do not have a reproduction problem even close to pandas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:43 PM
1

That was nonsense created by Internet trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:06 PM
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I grade on a curve. This woman is not overweight, has no piercings or alternative style choices, and as I said, I am counting the fact that she's into me. Most women can not fit all these criteria. My infatuation can be guided.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:19 PM
1

You didn't make this deal sour enough. It sounds like she's reasonably attractive and cares for you. Hell, the "obsession" stuff will increase her value, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:49 PM
1

But it could within the fabrics of our reality. Hypotheticals, brother. All I need to do here is to prove that luck is even 0.1% relevant in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:47 PM
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And the target audience eats it up anyway. I'm a man, and it also ticks me off that women ask for so much pity and pretend that expectations are destroying them when they actually live normal lives. However, I am happy that women got a colorful movie this summer that made them feel "seen." I can't take that away from them, nor do I want to. I have Spider-Man to make me feel cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:41 PM
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Hypothetical: The most handsome, best-smelling, well-groomed man in the world gets raised in an all-male house, gets sent to an all-male school, is taught all-male hobbies, and lives in a community of all-men. What are his chances of dating or settling down with a woman? Zero. That's luck. Again, a hypothetical, but environment means a lot. You can't choose who you get the opportunity to randomly meet or go out with. There are people out there who never meet the best partner for them because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:27 PM
2

That doesn't matter. The Barbies were interested. The movie claims that's due to "brainwashing," but I haven't been able to wrap my head around that since I watched it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:24 AM
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Shoe was the only other person I noticed pointing out how the Barbies were happy under "patriarchy." The Barbies' lives were less stressful, and they were connecting with the Kens and having good conversations with them for the first time in their lives. The movie compares patriarchy to "smallpox infecting the unprepared Indians," which makes absolutely no sense, nor does the idea that patriarchy brainwashes people. Maybe it was a good idea, that's what the damn movie showed us!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:32 PM
3

And headache inducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:26 PM
4

Yes, of course! Physicality. This makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:05 AM
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I also expect respect from people but I am an average guy so I don't get it from everyone. I know it isn't free. That's why I would value it in a partner. Your marriage sounds great! Keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:19 AM
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Yes, it's a compression. Men also want love and women also want respect, but the needs are still different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:43 AM
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Women want love, men want respect. Tale as old as time. Every relationship is different, and a man shouldn't hold their woman back in terms of confidence or comfortability, but submission means trusting and caring for your partner. Every guy wants that from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:57 PM
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Why wouldn't they? It's a natural thing to want when they can attain it easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:55 PM
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Limiting compliments and NEVER use commitment-minded language (i.e. play it cool - don't let him think he has you) Jeeze, how stuck-up. You went from treating dating like a torturous game and being fearful of men and having a good time to acting normal and healthy. Wouldn't you know, you enjoyed it. Hey, keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:35 PM
1

Somewhere out there is a woman who is genuinely worth the effort. I will not stop believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:56 PM
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The bottom middle is the most attractive. Having a noticeable hip-waist ratio is already great, but having generous bosom is super important.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 02:38 PM
4

Great comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:20 AM
4

Good flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:17 AM
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Man, I wish the toothpaste could fit back into the tube with that one. It's not like social media could be unintegrated from society. But I definitely think we could be overall better without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:52 PM
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Dating apps don’t increase the number of men. Explain this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:15 PM
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Guys would rather sleep on nails than ask out girls IRL in 2023. That's up to us, sure, but it isn't all our faults either. The culture and practice thereof has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:14 PM
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There was practically no overselection in normal towns before online dating. The "checklist style" of dating did not exist. So, yes, the 80s would have been easier for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:12 PM
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YOU’RE not inherently more repulsive than your father - he’d probably never have secured your mother in todays dating market Wow, this is nuts to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:06 PM
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Oh, yes. That's what's interesting about it. This user's idea breaks down men and women's values for relationships as strictly as possible. Women care about security, which cheating makes them insecure, and men care about basic success, the first mile. I am not a person who would take the chance at a literally perfect woman unseriously, and I understand women's ease (and by some arguments, need) of diverse relationships, so why would I feel that bad about other guys getting their turn (and I'm s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:26 AM
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But not deceptive, and he's not taking anything away from you and hardly any time. You have to give credit that this is an interesting dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:06 PM
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Women are different from men. We need to accept that because it's a good thing. Women provide the world a sensitivity that is necessary. An attractive woman strikes at feelings that nothing else in life can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:11 PM
1

But still and specifically no sex? The line you have in your relationship is very bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:23 AM
2

By some metrics, it's the most romantic film ever made. What are your arguments against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:10 PM
1

Shouldn't it be the opposite? In times of stress, all that remains is the love (and the practice thereof) you have for each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:15 PM
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The point of this post is to reach last-revision common sense on the issues this sub discusses. I think OP did an amazing job. Perhaps parts of the red pill make sense. Why is it bad to accept some of them in this compromise of sorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:18 AM
1

Animated characters with too detailed faces and bad skin look uncanny. Something about them puts them in the uncanny valley.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:46 PM
1

I think over 500 is a better gauge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:58 AM
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The Fable character looks weird above anything. There aren't imperfections on the face of 46-year-old Richard Ayoade, he looks properly like a video game character. Video game characters aren't supposed to have bad skin and weird facial proportions. Hell, it's animation 101. Microsoft made some weird mistakes with the character, and makeup wasn't the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:21 AM
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You seem genuinely interested in helping men and autistic men. I admire that. I'm not neurodivergent, but this thread has opened my eyes to how dystopic things can be for them, at least in this area of life. Interesting for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:02 AM
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You're a good friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:24 AM
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Decent justification for why an autistic woman would be justified in not dating an autistic man, but this still seems hopeless for those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:24 AM
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Exactly. And most men don't have the energy to divorce because of the nature of these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:50 PM
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Sure, but it's still a more mutual decision than it all being on the wife. A wife can also make her husband get a vasectomy. It's usually all on her will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:02 PM
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Nah, cause all of the things I mentioned are subtle. They aren't abusive or meant to provoke strong feelings. Just little ones that build up over the years and don't make you want to divorce, but still limit your overall happiness. That's how these wives get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:43 PM
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Most women aren't abusive. Most problematic wives are controlling. Meaning finances, hobbies of the man, time that he spends around the house, choosing to have her amount of kids and to name them, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:39 PM
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Thanks, dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:19 PM
6

Good honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:37 AM
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It's a popular song lyric. Also, women with high body counts cheat more. Sure, you can't guarantee anything, but it's true. Also, also, I'm answering you. This is what guys think even if you don't like it. Finally, it's still a good value to have a low body count. I would accept someone with a count higher than 0, but it would still be a matter of curiosity to me. And it's a matter of equality. Man-hoes are a thing, and that's not great either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:03 PM
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Because you can't make a wife out of a hoe. It's considered a "cheat-mode" career if you are a female. Also a "giving up/not trying at life" career. The idea is that when most women could have a successful OF, not making one for the sweet, dirty money is considered self-control, a positive trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:40 PM
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The shitheads get away with being shitheads because they're good looking. There are ugly shitheads too, but the halo effect still does wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:24 PM
1

Honestly, I don't know what the French are up to. They're a bit freaky over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:26 PM
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I think the idea is that it's a risk, and you don't want to consider yourself creepy, but you have to accept that the woman you are talking to may consider yourself so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:26 PM
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That's one of the keys. Hot men can get away with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:18 PM
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I get what you're saying, but also, this guy's friends would be concerned about it if they thought he would ever ask them out. They imagine the type of girl this guy would ask out as being far away and imaginary because he's probably ugly or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:17 PM
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Those girls are just being polite to you. They're trying to give you vague hope with other women. They would be dating you if you were actually worth something. Women aren't that different in terms of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:48 PM
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I don't think the situation is as bad as that article suggests, but it's not great. We can all agree on that. The dating market seems to be getting more competitive all the time, which affects us guys more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:22 AM
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At least fat women have men who adore their shape. There's a sub-fetish for every woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:12 PM
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No, I don't buy it. That is an ego-boosting sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:39 PM
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It's hard for men and women to adjust our expectations. We all want an ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:44 PM
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Ooh, good observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:55 PM
2

You didn't mention rizz. A rich guy should still have rizz if he wants to be a playboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:25 AM
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A good woman should let her man know that she is there for him even when he is having a tough time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:21 AM
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The first video sounds absurd, at least out of context. How does she think humans have lived for tens of thousands of years?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:40 AM
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Women are trained to have higher standards than men, even though standards are good for all of us. That's how these problems generate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:53 PM
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If it encouraged more women to be mothers, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:14 PM
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This. Women like to pick up foreign guys on vacation too. They aren't as committed to the idea of abandoning their country in the name of love, but they also use the same appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:16 PM
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No person deserves to be murdered in any form. The 17-year-old has very little responsibility, but I would hope that they would be able to see violent warning signs in her boyfriend if they were shown. Some abusive relationships make it difficult to leave, so that's also a factor. The types of situations that I tsk at are when the boyfriend is outwardly uncaring and unsupportive to the girlfriend, or in the other direction lightly insults her or generally makes her unhappy. Those women shouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:21 PM
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Both men and women can stay in bad relationships for bad reasons. We need to have sense and logic even when we love the person. It doesn't matter if it's a woman who thinks she can fix him or a guy who thinks he can fix her, it's silly and ultimately irresponsible. Women get into this kind of trouble significantly more often, which is why they are more relevant to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:52 PM
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Why are we fighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:57 PM
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*chefs kiss* You said it better than I have ever seen before. I wish we would stop infantilizing women and ignoring their responsibility in their own relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:27 PM
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It's not a new thing. It's bred. Women like men with strong genes who have masculine bodies/frames to protect them. Height contributes to all of that. It's evolutionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:12 PM
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I watched your video, bro. He acknowledges that men are physically different in their 30s onward. His message had nothing to do with that, rather that women are into more than looks, like money and stability, and guys in their 30s have that more. Men, however, value looks most, which is a more steep depreciation for women. We both age, but how aging impacts the dating scene is far different. That seems easy to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:50 PM
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The video you shared was interesting, and you don't seem to disprove it. While we can say that the people in the interview clips are not normal compared to statistics, what they are saying still represents a true pattern that we can learn lessons from. You say that "men age like wine" is a false message, but you aren't meant to focus solely on the genetic aspect of it. FBE Capital acknowledges that men are physically attractive in their 20s, but women gain value in trading that off for a little …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:44 PM
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Women having responsibility for dating bad men? No way, you're pulling my leg.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:35 PM
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Sure, some hustle relationships by finding a shy girl (they're both rare breeds), but hookups? How do they have the pickup game for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:20 PM
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You're definitely not arrogant for having classic standards. I believe in those too. And you're not entitled. It sounds like you have an equal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:16 PM
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I know exactly what you are talking about. Yes, it's messed up. I don't know how the culture will shift to address that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:09 AM
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Ok. This may be a personal thing, but I believe men are meant to treat their woman as a prize. Are most women earning that today? No, sadly. But this is an idealization on both sides. A king and queen treat each other mutually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:01 AM
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🤷‍♀️ Should we tell our daughters to find a man who doesn't appreciate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:35 AM
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We don't know if this person turned out to be entitled or arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:31 AM
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Have you succeeded in finding a man with those criteria, who could be just as good of a dad himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:18 AM
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Everything in moderation. Have your pity parties about women. We all have them. They're a part of life (and women do the same for guys). But looking at personal responsibility as the solution will help you out the most. You can't depend on others to lower their expectations. That's just sad for everyone, and it's unlikely to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:40 AM
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Disagree. Confidence is even more important than looks. And we all know how looks are more important than some guys delude themselves into thinking. On an evolutionary level, women need to feel masculinity from a guy to take a chance on him. How does a guy show that? Confidence; meaning, controlling a room, talking with a strong tone, cracking jokes. There's very few ways outside of that to make a girl notice you. The tradeoff is that confidence is easier to fix than looks. Just study enough guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:04 AM
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You have very reasonable expectations. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:15 AM
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That expectation is born out of our culture, and from a precedent that men have (in the past) been favored for better education and more prestigious jobs Yes! Society forced these arrangements for many years. I'm glad we have more freedom for women now in the economic space. When I’ve been on the dating market, income is not anywhere near the top of what I’m looking for. Based on my female friends’ significant others, they don’t seem to care either. So what impresses you and your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:04 AM
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Don't beat yourself up. It will be at the moment you are looking for love the littlest that she will run into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:57 PM
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Interesting article. I didn't know that women's employment went up during that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:56 PM
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You have good points. I don't know the percentages on all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:43 PM
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In times of hardship, the husband would work two or three jobs. It was the man waiting for bread every day and hustling for work during the Great Depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:42 PM
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You are speaking the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:41 PM
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A socialized instinct? C'mon, give me something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:40 PM
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I'm merely saying it's an instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:21 PM
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Your situation with your boyfriend sounds great. I hope your success continues. The average perspective remains that men are usually the higher earners, or the ones working at all. This means that women seeking traditionalism will look for a man making more than them, and in the average case, women will prefer, secretly or not, that their man make more. We still have the pillars that men provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:43 PM
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Your story is fantastic. This really shows what dating apps are doing to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:25 PM
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Like you mentioned, if there is a parental influence on a criminal child, it's from both parents, not just the father. Having two, stand-up parents is what a person deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:44 PM
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I would change his view if I could. He won the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:52 PM
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Very good analysis. Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:25 PM
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You're welcome. May we all find a lady that actually cares about us someday. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:45 PM
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Where did he say that? Are you saying that being cold to emotion is an undivorceable female trait? Genuinely supportive women are what he is advocating for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:28 PM
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Yes. Rather it's the need to prepare for that that can force a girl to be more mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:42 PM
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Good for you for respecting your value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:20 PM
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Good analysis. Yeah, the average point for SEA women is higher, but the bell curve is wider for women in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:12 PM
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Do you find Filipino/Vietnamese women more attractive generally, or do you just take them for what they are as a passport bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:34 PM
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It's a cultural thing. We teach girls to fear the world and the men in it, even if their experiences have been fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:22 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:23 PM
1

Good analysis. This is definitely the future we are heading toward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:47 PM
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Is there evidence for this? Most men and women abhor the idea of sacrificing their time and money for children these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:03 PM
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No, but people tend to date within the same economic brackets for a reason. It creates a baseline of equality in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:45 PM
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Because she believes men and women are not equal? Yeah, that's nonsense.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/23 05:23 PM
1

Agreed. Human connection can never fully be replaced by simulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:34 PM
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I agree that people should improve their bodies, but for themselves first and foremost. You can't have a specific image of the girls you're gonna pick up when you're theoretically ripped, because when they reject you, that discourages your positive transformation. Changing one's personality can be both harder and easier than changing their body, it depends on the person. But neither is impossible, so it's okay to encourage both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:59 PM
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Attention is attention. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:11 PM
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Most of the posts I see here are just people complaining about the other gender, supplying no actual evidence and just their personal experience... It's just a lot of venting... Yep. The mods try to flag posts like that as CMV if they're being too argumentative. Also, for a sub that's supposed to be about both the red and blue pill debates, I see mainly red pill stuff on here. Men represent 63.8% of Reddit. Hell, they're probably overrepresented in dating subs because women don't existentially f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:27 PM
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Honestly, that's a really good infographic. You should post that on r/CoolGuides. I like the bit about how every guy has their own image of a ten.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:53 PM
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The shallow horndogs can have the sex robots. That sort of filtering will actually make it easier for men and women with good values to find each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:21 AM
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If men and (notably) women stopped being offered so many options on the dating scene, they would likely lower their standards, which is something we want in the current situation of overselection on both sides. VR sex could theoretically be a balancer of the scales, where women who would normally not try hard to appease men have to to stand out against the digital GFs. Women wouldn't let themselves become obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:22 PM
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We’ll almost certainly reach a point where VR is indistinguishable from reality-including catering to both our emotional and physical needs. Even then, if that is possible, there will still be people who don't trust computers to be in humans' business. The men who want to be hypergamous like Leo (which is not all of us!) can have their VR headsets and the men and women who want to be serious and human with each other will do so even easier with that elimination. If you remove sex and reproductio…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:39 PM
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AI and technology will make real human connection even more valuable. At the moment, I can't imagine that VR or robots will ever have 100% of the emotional and physical capabilities that humans do and we desire in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:15 PM
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Ain't that the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:20 PM
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Yes, height impacts things. Eye colour impacts things. Skin colour impacts things. To be fair, that's overselection. We don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:35 PM
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Does height have any impact on not getting a date? If anything, some guys prefer shorter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:48 PM
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Approaching takes a lot of confidence, and most people don't have that these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:04 PM
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I would date all of these women. Being overweight doesn't instantly mean you are ugly, but it implies other things, like bad genes, an unhealthy lifestyle, and lack of ambition/care for their own body. Those concerns are way more apparent in obese women, which aren't represented here as far as I can tell. Also, having nice, feminine faces cancels out some of the bad genes issue because that partially implies the opposite; these are not the average overweight women in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:42 PM
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Hey, either find another girl or adjust your values. High body count women might not appreciate your love as much (comparisons would be inevitable), but you know they'd be experienced in the bedroom. I promise you that there are other girls, at any rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:14 PM
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Hey, there's always going to be guys who go for sex opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:03 PM
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There is a toxic association with Red Pill men, which I get. Andrew Tate, the mascot for Red Pill and MRA, is a cartoonish criminal. But the reasons men are interested in isolating themselves or hating society are very valid. There are real frustrations with how men are treated in society, men who face a dystopian chance of meeting a woman and finding life satisfaction, largely due to confidence issues given to them because masculinity is discouraged these days. Turning it into a movement is tou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:29 PM
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Godspeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:39 PM
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I would still say don't give up, but it sounds like you're happy with your arrangement. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:01 PM
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I get what you're saying. I remember seeing an r/UnpopularOpinion post years ago where an ugly guy with schizophrenia started that discussion. He had a disorder that he never wanted to pass onto an offspring and didn't want to and basically couldn't date. People like that should feel free to jack off to their heart's content. Now, that was a fringe case. I would say that most guys should be nicer to themselves and adventure into the dating waters at least sometimes. Keep your chin up if you're f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:51 PM
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Yes, but real relationships will always be more fulfilling, and it would be quite dangerous to stop pursuing them as a whole in lieu of 'self-sufficiency'. At the end of the day, everything is fine in moderation, and I think everyone has a personal gauge of if their porn consumption is unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:25 PM
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Yeah, porn encourages men to focus on their fantasies instead of being more productive to get their emotional and physical connections. That's not great, on top of how it can skew expectations, like you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:53 PM
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Short kings can absolutely use good personality traits to beat the odds. My cousin is 5'5 and is a super-masculine, cool guy. He has no issues dating when he wishes to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:34 PM
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Men like thicc girls these days. Also, men fetishize everything. "Big, beautiful women (BBW)" is a huge phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:15 PM
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He will appreciate every one of those remarks when you're not around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:25 AM
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They certainly don't mind helping women with their service.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:59 AM
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Yes, women get infantilized more. There's a tradeoff involved in some of the goodwill women are provided. Men are taken serious more often, and I like that respect and being believed when I go to the doctor and what-not. If we're being honest, gender societal differences cancel each other out. Thank you for your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:58 AM
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Men are respected more, and women are more protected. Men are raised and are happy to provide for women in nearly all ways. Men are the protectors of women, whereas women don't need to outwardly prove their own value as much. We work the hardest jobs for them, we are responsible for bearing all risk when asking them out. We then pay for the dates and their whole lifestyle if marriage happens. Society lets women work any job a man does and is then more generous when viewing the effort of their wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:47 PM
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Chances are that this person's best shot would be finding a similar case in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:38 PM
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This sounds pretty neat. Someone pitch this to Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:01 PM
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Alright, alright, 32%. Not too shabby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:04 PM
2

On the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:42 PM
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It's an interesting cultural topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:18 PM
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The culture war has turned everyone against each other. It's tough to not get caught up with it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:57 PM
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Because of the pursuing-pursuant nature of dating, an attractive woman has more attractive men at her fingertips than the reverse, thus leading to more overall choosiness. Yes, women like/prefer hot dudes, but dating down is much more common in women, and there are evolutionary factors that force women to vary their considerations. Women have to balance the potential of good genes and long-term commitment likelihood when choosing a man. If Chad has healthy genes but is a d-bag who will not be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:51 PM
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Men are visual creatures. We know this, right? It's down to our brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:18 PM
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Agreed. We need to find the common language between us for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:01 AM
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It's tough since men and women are both different and alike. Finding understanding in the middle is the only way we can achieve gender peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:10 PM
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Do those traits cancel each other out at all? Arguably, being goal focused will help you find a wife, while all this height and hair business will only detract you from Tinder swipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:47 PM
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I think it's less that young women, or any, go out of their way to date older men, and more so that women date older men at a far greater rate than young men date older women. It's not a harmful assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:08 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:17 PM
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Isn't it? Basically, I said no, virginity rates are not going up in women, because they have the interest and privilege of dating/fucking older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:55 PM
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Anecdotally, yes, sex can be gross to women. Many other women love sex. It depends on where you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:46 PM
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The recent studies that this very sub has talked about confirm that young women are having sex at much greater rates than young men. This means that young women are doing so with older men instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:44 PM
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And r/WitchesVsPatriarchy. Believing in magic is a very fast way to let me know you're crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:36 PM
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r/FemaleDatingStrategy is the perfect gender-flipped companion to your example. The Internet shows everybody the worst in all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:26 PM
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Women can be intimidating sometimes. Being approachable is a real skill that some have, and some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:38 PM
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This! I don't like Andrew Tate (he has a douchy aesthetic written all over him), but it's so easy to tell why he had such a meteoric rise. Young men need confidence, and Tate was pretty inspiring in the way that he always said what he thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:34 PM
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There are more partners out there than ever for men and women, and we tend to date within our age, region, race and class when in a normal setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:55 PM
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I think the fact that there are so many different types, compared to the more traditional, less varied standards of poorer and less liberal countries makes western women stick out. Also, people, men and women, are becoming more open to all kinds of open sexual matters and less interested in starting an honest family when they're young. We know this. The movement is growing in one direction and not the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:53 PM
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I think sex gets pretty intimate either way. Two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:49 PM
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Yes! The internet is not real; we all need to remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:37 PM
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The solution to many of these is having rizz. If your game is good enough, and you're not too ugly (yep, that's very important), most women should be fine with a nice approach every now and then. Also, many women are expectant of dating opportunities in bars and clubs. Again, be natural, have rizz, reduce your doomer thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:03 PM
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What's OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:01 PM
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I like Type A women: natural leaders, good listeners, sweet and high energy; you can feel their feminine side. If she's easy to talk to and smiles a lot, huge points.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:41 AM
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Being able to sort out your personality comes easier for some people than others. Relationships require commitment and sacrifice for another person; this is also something many people aren't willing to do. It's not all about what you see on the surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:28 PM
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Chill. I thought the post was interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:24 PM
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Men these days don't know how to fix their own problems. It is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:30 PM
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Poor husband. This woman wants the men around her controlled in an icky way.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 04:26 PM
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I agree with others that people make bad decisions when they're young. You grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:37 PM
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This is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:59 PM
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Egg freezing has always been a scam.
/r/AntiFeminists23/12/22 07:27 PM
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If they are willing to not take it too seriously, so am I.
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 09:42 AM
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People who consider themselves feminists tend to love "trans rights", but probably not.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 01:38 PM
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Weird subreddit.
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/22 01:04 AM
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Women completely outnumber men in college admissions. They have every advantage in education.
/r/AntiFeminists17/11/22 07:49 PM
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Ah.
/r/seduction15/11/20 01:13 AM
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I think you're on the wrong sub. Seduction is all about putting on your smoothest and sexiest guise that isn't really you.
/r/seduction15/11/20 12:31 AM
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u/repostsleuthbot Also, women care way more about how they look to men than they let on. This bitch made herself look like a fool over a simple insecurity.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/20 09:43 AM
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The guy knows you don't stick your dick in crazy. Fuck that bitch for assaulting him in his own house.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/20 04:08 PM
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The woman who said that is probably too far up her vagina to ever consider what the dude is saying, but damn that's a deeply sick burn. Gotta love when they do their research before roasting you.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/20 04:13 AM
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Bad bot.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/20 11:48 PM
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u/repostsleuthbot
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/20 11:46 PM
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Yup. Happy cake day!
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/20 09:30 PM
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To the guy who gave up his own $75 for someone who doesn't know or care about him: BRUH, you're a damn fool. NoSimpSeptember
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/20 08:20 PM
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FDS?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/20 09:26 PM
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