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Thank you for this! I’m very disappointed that this group has been labeled as “anti men” by many Reddit pages. It’s literally just a place where women, from all walks of life, can come together and discuss relationship topics. It’s a healthy and supporting environment. It’s also very practical, and realistic. Which I needed 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:28 AM
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You know what, I’ve noticed that he’s NEVER dated a woman with kids, which is quite odd. I know that we all have preferences, but I don’t see how he can be that close minded when he literally has a set of babies that comes with his package. Thanks for your response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:24 AM
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Thank you for your response! Of course there’s nothing wrong with being a divorced person with children. I’m just wary of this particular divorced man with children, especially since I’m not sure what exactly happened. Everyone deserves a chance at love ❤️ I just don’t want to ruin my life in the process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:23 AM
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lol the heels are hitting the back of my head. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:11 AM
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Thank you for sharing your experience! I'm cutting it off, this thread made me feel exhausted. I NEEDED to see that, because it serves as a window of what my life could have been if i chose to continue on with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:10 AM
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I literally became lethargic after reading this post. I feel tired just thinking about all that bullshit. Thank you for your advice! He's been axed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:08 AM
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Thank you! I’m cutting it off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:56 AM
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Thank you for responding! Yea, I’m cutting it off. The last thing I need is to deal with age gap issues. I’m dating to marry, so every issue will be considered a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:56 AM
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Yea, I’m outta there. Im literally going to message his tonight to call off our meetup. I should have been more cautious. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:54 AM
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I didn’t think about the lack of excitement considering that my firsts wouldn’t be his. And that’s super freakin important to me! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:52 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing your experience. What you’ve been through was absolutely heartbreaking. And the fact that you’ve chosen to not only join this group, but to also share this as part of your words of wisdom....is just...girl thank you ❤️I hope you’re doing better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:51 AM
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You’re right. It’s already hard enough that their parents separated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:47 AM
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Thank you so much for providing this. There were a lot of things I didn’t consider, and I honestly feel like a dummy now. I haven’t even met him in person yet, and am glad that I didn’t choose to go further. I’ll def be finishing the FDS handbook and will be annotating as I go. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:46 AM
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Honestly...he’s tall, extremely fit, has a full head of hair, and proportionate facial features. It’s crazy that most men seem to fall off after 28 or so, and are already balding with beer bellies. Even the financially stable ones. I have no idea why guys think women hit the wall at a certain age. Because we’re collectively so much more attractive than them. So much, that when I see an attractive older man, I’m surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:19 AM
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He made you feel so bad that you pressed the eject button. There was a reason(s) for that. Will your life improve if you want to bring him back in? No ma’am, most certainly not. 🙅🏽‍♀️ keep ignoring DA DUSTY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:41 AM
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As a Muslim woman, I’m appalled at this man’s audacity to ask this woman for financial assistance. Not because of his struggle, but because of how he got there. Notice how stated that he had to pay a CABLE bill! How messed up do your priorities have to be, especially when you’re cash strapped? While I wholeheartedly support spouses who assist each other in times of need, please take notice of how the struggle occurred in the first place. This man is financially ignorant and extremely entitled. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:55 PM
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I agree! I find sarcasm in men to be an attractive trait. A lot of these weirdos out there confuse sarcasm with just being a freakin jerk. It’s so annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:28 PM
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I’ve seen this in OLD as well as in person meetups. Heck, I’ve seen this in some male colleagues, classmates, and just men in general. Being well versed in sarcasm myself, I never actually have to tell people that I am. I just...well..AM lol. Thing is, I only display this trait after careful vetting of the person, because not everyone is into that kind of humor, and that’s OK. A person with a high EI understands that. Most women tend to have a higher EI compared to men. We have a better understa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:22 PM
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It’s funny how LVM always pull the clingy card when you do your best to be available or want to spend more time together. YET They say crap like this when you actually are BUSY. When you have a LIFE. How hypocritical 🙄 What are we to do? Just sit around and wait for you to spend time with us? That’s just not dumb, but so boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:10 PM
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Honestly, for OLD, you have to be super careful. But it can be done, and given that it's COVID, I personally think that it's a great way to delve into the dating scene. I wouldn't go on tinder tbh. It's way too trashy for me personally, though I've heard of success stories. ​ I'm a bumble kind of girl and met some, what seemed, normal guys there. My profile pictures were crisp, clean, and filter free. My bio was concise and playful. Prior to agreeing to meet in person, I always scheduled a facet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:31 AM
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These kinds of men will try and “test” (hate that term) you and see how much they can get away with. Idk what’s the point of doing that. We, as women, all have to careful and have our guards up, having much more to lose. But, to the men, If you like someone, why don’t you start with your best foot forward instead of actively trying to push us away? Why try harder when you lose us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:10 PM
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