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ConversationBluedragon75/r/seduction15/11/20 03:31 PM
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A short hispanic friend of mine was moderately attractive. But he was loud, confident and boisterous. His number was around 100 when i met him and that was many years ago. If you give women positive attention and are confident, looks dont matter
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:05 AM
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Its not horrible advice. You literally vet people while being friends with them without spending excessive time and money on random people. You pick the person who vibes with you the most and you have a foundation to build a good relationship on. Its how I met my ex and my current boyfriend. We shared hobbies and after figuring out a baseline of who this person was, I felt comfortable dating. If you end up not liking them, it builds onto your value because you stay friends and have people to do …
/r/seduction17/08/21 04:18 PM
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Good job with asking them out. I think if you try making friends first, and flirting with people who get to know you, you'll get more success
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:44 PM
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If they are healthy they will change their ways and understand that the same guys are coming into their life as a direct consequence of their choices
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:45 PM
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She doesn't owe you anything just because you talk to her. It has nothing to do with wanting the attention, and everything to do with how she feels towards you so far
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:48 AM
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Just don't compliment them. You can ask for a number at the end but don't compliment
/r/seduction17/07/21 11:55 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction11/07/21 01:57 PM
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People don't owe you anything if you compliment them. You have to keep in mind that it's a random stranger coming up to you demanding something. If you come up with the wrong kind of energy she's going to sense that immediately.
/r/seduction11/07/21 01:36 PM
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It's not about value, he made her uncomfortable by his approach. It's the behavior, not the person that she reacted to
/r/seduction11/07/21 12:28 PM
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I wouldn't make fun of her to her friends because they will take her side and get really mean with you really fast. If they see she's uncomfortable it's a situation you need to exit. If you come up to a girl and just act friendly (don't even compliment her right away) just say hey what's up. Talk to her like a normal person. It will separate you from all the other men who act all pushy. Once you establish rapport with the group, the other girls will make themselves available to you and you may a…
/r/seduction11/07/21 12:26 PM
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If someone is kind enough and worthy of you they won't mind that you are nervous. They will take it as a compliment
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:17 AM
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You're young, just starting out in the world and our generation is hook up culture. But everyone has their own take on hook ups. Some people have hook ups because they truly don't give a shit about the other person, it was a fun time, they both move on and is perfectly happy. Then there's subsets of people who don't like hookups because of all the reasons you just gave. You can have hookups less often, or choose to date casually for hookups that way you know the person, or you can wait until you…
/r/seduction04/07/21 08:00 PM
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If you can't find anything interesting about someone, then it makes you boring. No wonder you've been striking out. Your opinion of yourself is too high.
/r/seduction04/07/21 12:52 PM
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I don't know what kind of women you talk to, but the women I hang with read books, play dungeons and dragons, sing, dance, and have interest in animals, etc. You just met a boring person. Don't label the whole gender.
/r/seduction03/07/21 03:01 PM
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You don't have to be superior, you just have to be interesting. Have your own hobbies. Don't be boring. Done
/r/seduction03/07/21 02:00 PM
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Good luck i have no doubt you will be more confident
/r/seduction13/04/21 06:49 AM
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Grats on the sex If shes willing to be called cunt and then in the next minute give a guy her body, just goes to show her standards. Doesnt really say much about women who have actual standards. Lmao.
/r/seduction04/04/21 10:03 PM
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I am in therapy and one of the things we have covered is that your theory that you come up with based on your experiences will continue proving itself over and over unless you break out of the mindset. Its called cognitive behavioral therapy. The fact that two girls didn't love having sex with you=now you feel that you are small, terrible at sex, and will never been good enough for love. You have to understand that just because two girls didn't fall in love with you, doesnt mean no girl will and…
/r/seduction31/01/21 01:24 PM
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If you know your unattractive and having trouble getting dates, then aim lower and you will score. Problem is a lot of guys who think they are unattractive aren't
/r/seduction03/01/21 03:35 PM
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Validate and be kind to yourself. Then you wont worry about others approval
/r/seduction29/12/20 05:54 PM
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Yeah in america its illegal to have sex in public and tinted windows vary by state but most states you cant have them
/r/seduction24/12/20 12:24 AM
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You can still see through tinted windows and its super obvious because the car fogs up. Also, ITS AGAINST THE LAW. the cops will fucking arrest you if they catch you. Why ever risk it unless your out in the middle of nowhere
/r/seduction23/12/20 11:14 PM
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Yeah i mean let her touch you. But if you want to touch her its better to let the tension build up in the car and then move elsewhere like to a bedroom where you can give her a much better experience
/r/seduction23/12/20 11:12 PM
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Dont ever try to start something in the car. Its awkward as hell. And uncomfortable. Maybe giving a blowjob is fun but it still risky as hell because everyone can see you. The most you should do is put your hand on their knee or thigh and move it to somewhere else.
/r/seduction23/12/20 03:31 AM
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Oh, and its pretty easy to see if a guy just wants to sleep with you on an app. They are usually pretty straightforward, they're profile doesnt usually have "wants a relationship", and they talk suggestively right from the get go. In real life, its the exact same but your time and energy are wasted. You get lead on and flirted with all night just to sleep with him or ask him out and he ghosts you. Fuck that. Apps are great because you can comfortably ask someone what they are looking for from th…
/r/seduction16/12/20 12:23 PM
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Youre using the wrong apps. Dating today is just not the same as it used to be. Men don't ask girls out anymore because they would rather just match online. I went years without going on a date and then as soon as i download bumble, im getting 2 dates a week (because i want to pace myself) and all of these guys are looking for a relationship. Dont hate on the app. I find it harder to get a guy who wants a relationship outside of bumble and hinge because when i go out to parties and bars, you are…
/r/seduction16/12/20 12:14 PM
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This whole entire subreddit is consistent with a bunch of dudes who dont get laid very often and have a lot of social insecurities. I joined this subreddit to help these people and give occasional advise coming from a girl. As a girl (plenty of relationships, above avg attractive, has hobbies, can carry on a conversation) i want to tell u that half of those things dont matter. Men want you to smile at them, laugh at their jokes, show a little skin, and have somewhat of a life. Thats all it takes…
/r/seduction16/12/20 01:14 AM
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Validate yourself and love yourself. No one else can do that. But we also need love from other people, no one is so weird as to not need love.
/r/seduction13/12/20 01:41 PM
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Yeah its really about the personal growth of a person. It takes more than someones career choices to make a character assessment. If they have a steady job for 10 years but i can tell that they are into doing things, seem dynamic and reflective, the job doesn't really make a difference because theres more to them. This guy was completely stagnant not just in his personal life, but ALSO career which added to the shitpile. He had trouble reflecting on why his ex gf left, he showed no signs of "may…
/r/seduction21/11/20 08:09 AM
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Excuse my question, do you have a job? Is that job a stable source of income? Reason I ask, I know two women who both share a child with a man, and he has barely been able to help financially witn the kids and they are effectively single moms. He has contributed 40 dollars to child support in the last two years. So from the prospective of the single woman, theres this deep seated fear that she will be in this situation of desperation, living a hard life finacially alone with a child, which keeps…
/r/seduction21/11/20 07:51 AM
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Theres gotta be a balance dude.
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:47 AM
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I dont know what that means.
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:31 AM
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But also if someone doesnt aspire to be something, or do something more, it speaks volumes because relationships are work and it requires looking in at yourself and seeing what you could do yourself differently. If someone doesn't want to grow in some way, it signals that they are stagnant. And stagnant does not work inside of a changing relationship over the years.
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:26 AM
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Combined with his zero hobbies, lack of interest in anything besides TV, he was an extremely boring person. Hell he could talk about his awesome sticker collection for all I care. If you aren't passionate about anything, you dont bring much.
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:23 AM
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Yup.
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:20 AM
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Amen brother
/r/seduction16/11/20 02:58 AM
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Yep. Us girls are not usually as interesting but we've got other areas covered like being comforting and sensitive to needs.
/r/seduction16/11/20 02:57 AM
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Different strokes for different folks 😉 i personally prefer social media as a platform to share photos because photography is a hobby of mine and it allows me to show others my art. im comfortable to have enough self concept to do my own thing without letting my social media run the show. And its also a good way of looking into someone's lifestyle at a glance (if theres alcohol and women in every other picture, hard pass 😆)
/r/seduction16/11/20 02:49 AM
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Ummm no you can definitely ask to be in a relationship or exclusive before getting physical. It should be at least a few dates before getting there. But some people are different. That doesn't mean you should change. If i really like someone i would say maybe after three dates, i would be pissed if he were dating anyone else.
/r/seduction16/11/20 02:42 AM
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My point was that while men have it harder to date online, that "con" is not as bad as it seems. Dating apps are definitely worth a shot! I wanted to show that even when dates are handed to you, its a struggle too. Im aware that its hard as fuck to get girls to respond let alone go on a date so this is a way of making men feel better. That the grass is not always greener on the other side. My guy friends are always sad that girls wont respond to them, which i always say keep trying! Youll find o…
/r/seduction16/11/20 02:38 AM
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Having rapport. Feelings can be built over time but if conversation is forced for a whole hour and I dont enjoy at least talking to them for half of it then it feels like there is no potential. Or lack of physical attraction (like they could be attractive in the picture, but not sure because picture quality is notoriously bad in guys)
/r/seduction16/11/20 02:28 AM
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The point is that meeting in person is going to save you more time than not, and online dating while useful in its own right, is not a replacement for the real world and in reality leads to less success when soley relied upon. The fact that women have success online really does not translate into a relationship quicker. So keep approaching women in person and dont feel like your losing out from being a man in the dating world.
/r/seduction16/11/20 02:20 AM
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As a woman online dating is so easy.
/r/seduction15/11/20 03:03 PM
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Most people would get weirded out, some would say yes (the brave few). There was an experiment like this on youtube
/r/seduction15/11/20 03:01 PM
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Physical attraction is just the starting point. Your vibe and personality will put you up or down from their, so just don't even worry about looking young or whatever.
/r/seduction15/11/20 02:56 PM
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No, this sounds really creepy tbh. And when a man is leering at me i just want to run away. If you really want her to feel your desire, your doing it wrong. Get her to desire YOU. by acting like you couldnt care either way what she does, but you thinks shes attractive and ask her out
/r/seduction15/11/20 02:50 PM
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No, this sounds really creepy tbh. And when a man is leering at me i just want to run away. If you really want her to feel your desire, your doing it wrong. Get her to desire YOU. by acting like you couldnt care either way what she does, but you thinks shes attractive and ask her out
/r/seduction15/11/20 02:49 PM
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Why would you have sex on a couch and not go home to have sex where you can get wine, weed, a big bed.. etc? But who knows what her experience was, every girl is different in what they find exciting. Especially being on a fucking couch. What the fuck
/r/seduction15/11/20 02:45 PM
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Woman here: First congrats on going on a date. I know it takes a lot of courage and strength to even get to that point. She already has a boyfriend, he probably thinks they are monogamous and because she told you, you are now a side hoe for her long distance relationship and consenting to being a side hoe. Do you really want to be someone's side hoe while they go back to their long term bf? On the first date, things went sexual really fast. Great if you are looking for a hookup, but its not rela…
/r/seduction15/11/20 02:26 PM
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