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I’ve had the same experience, or I am a preschool teacher I think that’s what it’s called. Kids from 1-6. This happend all the time, It’s strange, it’s your kid you’re the adult. I’d just pick it up, a lot of parents try to convince their kids why they should leave or try to argue with them. Kids just test you all the time. A lot of the time it’s just about power play.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 04:42 PM
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Look up Elliot Hulse, search Elliot Hulse deep voice on YouTube, something like that.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 09:24 PM
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I really like that answer! It’s really helpful to see how a man sees it. But why do you think some men say it’s important with education then? Being in the top schools etc?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/18 02:43 PM
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But there are many people here saying that the career or the degree that women have is important. But you’re saying that’s not actually true, it’s how intelligent she is that matters?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 11:15 AM
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And even then that’s fixed, what else?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/18 07:08 PM
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And what makes a woman damn near perfect then?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/18 07:02 PM
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So she never yelled at you?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:35 PM
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But your mum never spanked you?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:21 PM
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But you did have respect for him? What are things you get spanked for?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:10 PM
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So it was the spanking that scared you? Or did you leave dad scare you like when he was mad at you?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 10:58 PM
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Didn’t it make you really scared of him? Or scared of getting hurt in general. “Damaged”?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 10:48 PM
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Did he discipline you in other ways? Then spanking I mean
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 10:42 PM
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I have asked at RPM too, they usually don’t get very happy when I’m there.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 08:03 PM
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I think that’s if you’re a man.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 08:03 PM
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Yes of course, I understand completely why they are angry.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 09:27 AM
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Did I say something wrong?
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 09:02 AM
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Do you mean by being with an older man, or by not being a perfectionist?
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 09:01 AM
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Okay thank you, that’s reassuring! I’m sorry for what happens to your marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 08:57 AM
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Overthinking what exactly?
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 12:51 AM
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We are out there, go on RPW and you’ll see :). I am from Sweden so I was brainwashed into thinking that feminism is true, I saw the truth when I was 16 (I’m turning 21 this year). As you’ve probably heard a thousand times, but my femininity and my deep desire to submit to a strong man comes from me having a dad who is incredibly strong and masculine. It has completely shaped what I thought a man should be like, I always felt safe around my dad and protected. He taught me what men look for, got m…
/r/askTRP25/01/18 12:01 AM
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Nope not at all, but he seems so confident..
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 06:00 PM
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In what way?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 05:12 PM
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I’m actually talking to a guy like that, that gets mad if I don’t do everything he says. But a dominant do want you to submit? Just willingly, not by threat or force?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 05:11 PM
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Yes it’s not very smart because I always get a bit uneasy or sad when I read it. I’m just so curious of how men really feel and think. I find them complex, I want to understand men. And understand their needs.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 02:35 PM
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Okay that makes a lot of sense! Yes anxiety is something I am working on and have gotten better since I was younger, so I know you can handle anxiety. Even though it comes naturally to me, or shyness comes naturally to me. Dosent mean you can’t get rid of it, it’s like a muscle you need to work on it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 02:31 PM
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🤯 But alphas are desired by women and they still seem to want to have sex with a lot of girls. How do you show desire without being needy?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 02:24 PM
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Would you say attracting them are different from a guy around your same age?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 10:26 AM
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I’ve heard from some that they want to have sex with a X amount of girls before they settle down. RPM I mean.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 10:25 AM
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You’re saying that hypergamy is men’s fault because men aren’t men enough? And not doing what they should? Yeah I’ve seen some men who have commented on mgtow or who are only after sex that they’ve been really hurt by women because not all women are like that. Or that just having sex with women are just stupid and unatrul.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 10:22 AM
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Yeah I think conservatives are best too, they usually have the values I have. Very traditional.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 10:19 AM
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Yeah okay that’s what I thought! Meaning this is very important?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 10:13 AM
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How can you distinguish them? Yeah I have met controlling men, thought they were alpha but alphas probably don’t need to control, you’ll automatically want to follow him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 10:12 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 11:01 PM
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Thank you so much for your help! 💕
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:58 PM
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But that doesn’t mean that they want a nun in the bedroom right? Just that you shouldn’t give it up so easy?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:51 PM
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Trough therapy you mean?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:49 PM
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I am a quite emotional person, not with bitchiness or meanness. More with anxiety and stress, fear etc.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:42 PM
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And you’re saying that the main chick dosent have to be pretty? So they need a woman who inspires that?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:41 PM
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Are there any books on this? To get more in depth? Who have little confidence?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:37 PM
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Loyalty, helpful, pleasant (or I’m guessing this means not being a bitch) those qualities that you said :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:33 PM
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I just feel like this is really complicated. Everyone have these qualities, maybe not the talents. But the other things, but they aren’t seen as high quality.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:15 PM
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It’s just I’ve never met an alpha man really, maybe 2-3. Yeah I don’t have talents, I want to start but I wouldn’t be a pro. When I say models I just mean very attractive women.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 10:07 PM
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I’m thinking more classy dancing or do you mean even more sexual dances? Do you have to be an 9 or 10 to get an alpha? The majority of the guys I’ve asked have said I’m an 8 do I have a chance? Or do alphas only goo for models?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 09:48 PM
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Yes that makes sense, do you mean a lot of money too? Or what do you mean by resourceful? What type of talents are you talking about? But will a 30-40 man want someone in their 20’s?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 09:08 PM
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What makes them settle down? Yes I know it’s hard but don’t know what makes them settle down. Okay I will!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 08:51 PM
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Yeah I would want to marry someone 10-15 years older. But they are really intimating, I feel like it’s harder to attract them. I’m shy and introverted and I get nervous around guys in general.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 08:27 PM
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Thank you, it’s nice to hear that from a man. I read your comment, it was great and there were many upvotes so that do say something as you said!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 06:50 PM
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Okay thank you! I needed that 💕
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 06:46 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 05:55 PM
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You’re right. I don’t have a plan, I don’t know where to find them or what to do. I feel really confused. I am desperate, I know that I don’t have years and years, maybe 6 years or something. Yes I know that desperation isn’t a good thing, I am not sure how to calm it down. I just don’t know how to become high value enough for that kind of man.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 05:52 PM
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My question is, is there masculine/dominant/alpha guys that want to settle down? I feel like RPM hates women.. just want us for sex. I don’t know why it affects me, just sad.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 05:43 PM
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Thank you! I haven’t really met a woman who ooze femininity.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 03:01 PM
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Well that’s true! I’m really shy, I feel like that will be a problem because of socializing. Should I change?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 06:18 PM
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But should it be jobs without an education? Or should you go to uni for 5 years and then work?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 03:25 AM
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I do feel guilty, feels like I’m a gold digger or something.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 01:51 AM
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Okay good, it feels good that I’m not crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 08:14 PM
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It’s just I always was sure that I wanted a career and now I don’t. It just feels so so odd.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 07:44 PM
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Yes it’s so strong. I can sit a whole day scrolling trough Pinterest looking at babies. Look at baby videos on YouTube.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 05:59 PM
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I won’t! Thank you :) Do you have kids?
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 05:13 PM
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Oh like baby fever? I’m not.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 04:05 PM
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Not single mum, but usually the mother spends more time with the kids because he dad works more. There will be situations where the mum is alone. Kids knows who they can control. So if the dad is there and the mum never disciplines and she’s alone with them they know they can test the waters, and not behave as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 09:58 AM
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So you’re saying if the mum is alone with the kids and then kids aren’t listening or acting crazy she should just let them?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 09:44 AM
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How do boys grow balls? What are things you should avoid? I don’t have kids yet but when I don’t I don’t want to be the reason that they aren’t masculine. I can’t teach them that their dad would have to of course but are there things I should avoid doing? Also kids nowadays are crazy, I’m a kindergarden teacher so I have experience with kids. They’ll test the limits with you to see if you’ll let them get away with stupid things or if you’ll discipline them kind of like women do with men to be ho…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 09:08 PM
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Trodde du va samma kille, såg inte namnet.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/18 10:01 AM
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Ahh då har jag fått fel uppfattning.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/18 03:42 AM
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Jo det är jag medveten om men alla tjejer har varit med om att en kille har kollat in henne etc. aldrig hänt mig så blir osäker. Kan skicka i privat chatten, fick ganska högt, men du bor i Sverige och ser svenska blåögda hela tiden så kommer inte vara något speciellt men visst uppskattar alltid ratings och vad som kan förbättras. Jo jag vet, fyller 21 i år och får så mkt ångest att min tid kommer rinna ut.. kan inte få en alpha vid 35 års åldern. Plus vill gifta mig ungt. Alltså tror att mycket …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 08:33 PM
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Är inte helt hundra, blev medlem på reddit för jag var orolig att jag inte var attraktiv så ville få en rating. En kille ha aldrig gått fram till mig eller kollar inte på mig etc. så kände mig jätte osäker. Betyder TRP the red pill? Är sjukt förvirrad med alla förkortningar hahah. Men visste om redpill, slutade vara feminist när jag var 16 är 21 i år. Sen så kom jag in på mgtow sen redpill, och massa där emellan. Alltså vet inte riktigt vad deras principer är om jag ska vara ärlig. Är det att kv…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 07:59 PM
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Ahaaaa.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 03:59 PM
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Papas pengar shittest vad är det?
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 03:28 PM
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På dig och generellt.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 02:01 PM
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Vad är shittest som tjejer ofta använder? Är från Norrköping men flyttade ner till malmö med familjen pågrund av att pappa har jobb i Danmark. Det är sjukt sorligt :(
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 11:49 PM
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Håller med dig! Det finns sjukt många killar som låtsas vara maskulina men dem inte är det. T.ex. många redpills, självklart kan man förändras men känns som dem följer riktlinjer som dem lärt sig men det kommer inte inifrån liksom. En tjej vill innerst inne bli dominerad helt klart! Även feminister, i vår natur bara. Men tror faktiskt det finns många som trycker ner det eller hur man nu ska säga. Eller tror de flesta kvinnor vill har en maskulin kille men tror dem ljuger för sig själv när dem sä…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 10:20 PM
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Jo det är sant, hade en väldigt stark relation med en pojke. Alltså skulle nästan säga att jag älskar honom, han blev missförstådd mycket, blev lätt arg och irriterad. Satt ofta och pratade med honom bara för att förstå honom och för att han mådde bra av det. Han ville alltid spela fotboll med honom och vi retades mycket osv. Han var väldigt macho, sjukt roligt han blev as irriterad för att tjejerna ville spela fotboll (och man måste ju låts tjejena vara med) han blev as arg och sa tjejer suger …
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 09:26 PM
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Hahah ja! Jobbade inom förskola för några månader sen, är utbildad barnskötare. Men det är HELT sjukt, killarna är så nedtryckta på något sätt. Dem får inte brottas, allt som killar gör när dem är små är sett som dåligt. Det är verkligen så synd om dem.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 08:43 PM
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What would a man enjoy? Thought men liked intellectual discussions. I’m interested, even though it may come across as angry :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 07:13 PM
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Are you from Sweden?
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 07:06 PM
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Can you explain what you mean? I’m really confused
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 12:00 AM
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What about 15?
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/18 05:25 PM
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I think I saw that women 75% of the time ask for a divorce so hopefully if I am a really good wife that won’t happen. I think you know after 6-24 months if the person is right for you. Also not to go on your feelings to much which a lot of people might do, but you truly have to work like a team.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/18 09:09 AM
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Yeah I didn’t think it would be that much either. Maybe it’s this space that attracts more introverted women.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/18 09:06 AM
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I’ve heard that it’s the guys who get a punch in the court room when it comes to divorce and children. But if the woman is home with the kids and the guy is working idk, just makes me a bit worried I guess
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 06:24 PM
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I’d want to date someone 10 years older then me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 09:09 PM
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I actually don’t know much about it other then that it protects your money somewhat. My concern is that a lot of guys that I want to attract prefer if the woman is home at least when the kids are young, which I also want but if a divorce happen and you haven’t had any income that you could’ve saved from every month or that you haven’t had work experience for years then you’re screwed basically.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 09:08 PM
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But have they had a very masculine approach with guys, or have they just not been very feminine. I think there are a lot of people who are like both they don’t have strong male characteristics but they don’t have a strong female one either. It is a personality thing for SURE. Okay good!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 06:00 PM
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That’s honestly such a relief, or it depends on what guys physically think of me of course. But it’s a relief because I don’t have to change my profession or have to feel bad that my focus won’t be work when I’m with a guy. What are some personality things you look for in a girl? I just think that because we are attracted to a guy who can take care of us (I won’t lie and say that money don’t matter at all because that’s just my nature to be worried about that) but I think it’s the fact that you …
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 04:16 PM
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Yeah it’s kind of hard to not use the female logic hahah, I also can’t understand why a guy would ever want a woman to be submissive, but that’s just because I’m not attracted to it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 09:18 AM
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Ohhhh okay, thank you for clarifying.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 02:01 AM
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Same hahah🙈
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 01:10 AM
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Puts me in what category?
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 12:41 AM
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What does act young mean? You don’t mean immature right?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 11:25 PM
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Is it weird that I want to marry someone whose like 10 years older then me? Do guys even want to marry someone that much younger. Most people I know are very similar in age.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 11:07 PM
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But will it affect if they want to marry you or not? Don’t guys think at all about how much money I can bring to the table since most of the time you upgrade to a bigger space etc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 10:42 PM
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That’s such a good advice! I heard somewhere that you build confidence or self esteem when you do the things you tell yourself. The things we tell people we most of the time do them, but there is a lot of things we tell ourselves but we don’t do them. But if we start doing the things we say we build trust within ourselves or something like that, I think that’s interesting. Because a lot of the time I say “I never do what I say I will do”. Or just changing the story we tell about ourselves, we de…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 10:28 PM
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Oh okay! Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 09:26 PM
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I really hope that there is more men like that out there. That’s a good idea, how old are you? I still don’t know what you mean I’m sorry, it’s the language barrier you used a bunch of words that I’ve never heard of before. But vet mean examine? How do I vet a guy? You ask them a bunch of question to see if they have the same values?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 07:58 PM
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Yeah that’s very true! Also you mostly help women, even though a masculine man can make you feel SUPER feminine it’s because it’s not in a work environment but if it was a lot of men around at work you’d be in your masculine a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 06:17 PM
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I totally agree, but haven’t thought about it before, or not like that. But it’s true if people are clear what role you have you won’t argue on who should clear or do dishes or about money etc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 06:14 PM
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I loved that you told me your whole day! That’s so so true, never thought of it that way, I’ll use that one when people say I’m risky haha. How many kids do you have? Did he tell you that he expected those things? Or did you just notice? Examine the guy or myself?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 04:30 PM
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Yes that’s a really good idea! I feel like people think that self employment is to risky or won’t work but I’d rather try really hard to make it work, your flexibility with time is incredible. I don’t want to work in something I hate for 40-50 years just to get money ofc if there is no other way I would because that’s just how life is but if I have a chance (which I do because I live in a 1st world country) to work from home and do something I enjoy then I will. I agree mornings are the easiest,…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 02:58 PM
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Well I want to put my man (future man) and family first but the world is changing. It’s not always optimal to be just home, and if I have bosses over me I can’t decide everything. I might have to work hours I don’t want etc. but that’s why I want to work for myself, now that’s much harder to succeed but it’s worth it in the long run because I’ll be able to spend more time with the guy and kids. Which will always be number one for me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 12:55 PM
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Okay but what about a wife? Attraction I can see how it’s not an attraction like it might be for a woman but will a guy look at a girl who might have a high status job and say she’s not wife material because she might not bring in a lot of money.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 12:52 PM
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Yeah I defiantly have career goals. Sometimes I feel like people think I can’t do certain things, but so many people have success in this life, and why wouldn’t I be able to reach what they reach? I do have a need for validation, both emotional and physical. I feel like I’m not enough, or like my personality isn’t as good as other people. But that wouldn’t be fixed because of a certain career. Also there are so many amazing girls on RPW and I feel like I don’t add up at all, but as I said before…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 07:46 AM
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Why would you want to do a Brazilian butt lift? Even the flattest asses can get a nice round ass if you do weights and increase the calorie intake. Look up girls butt journeys on YouTube, that will truly save your money.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 06:24 AM
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You feel like she says something but means another? Hmm I’m not to sure, not something that pops up right now. I’ve defiantly met people who emotionally drain me but not someone close to me I think
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 08:29 PM
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What people did you need it from?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 05:53 PM
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Wow that is very impressive, i wish to be like your wife.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 04:08 PM
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So you’re saying it’s alpha to stay with one woman and help her with the family? Why do you think they would? Because she’s a model? Or ex model.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 03:17 PM
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Hahah aww love them!
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 03:15 PM
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It could be!
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 06:16 AM
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I’d try to as fast as possible get work and not depend on his money.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 06:16 AM
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I just think that kids should be home especially when they are young. I’ve worked in daycare and it’s so sad when a mum is leaving her 1 year old and it’s screaming and crying. I think they even did a study showing that day care kids got more insecurities and felt less safe in the world because they got left as a child.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 06:15 AM
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I agree, I think that’s a good point.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 06:14 AM
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Well i see him alpha i would say don’t care about what others think and just say what he means but you probably see him as beta because he is married.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 06:11 AM
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Do you have any books recommend on this topic?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 06:09 AM
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Oh wow now I’m embarrassed. I was thinking of liberalism. Yeah I’m thinking of the south.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 06:08 AM
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So you don’t think a woman should stay at home and raise the kids or homeschool. I’ve never felt comfortable about the thought of not having my own money, because something can happen. But because the world is changing I’ve wanted to do it online and therefore being able to stay at home and take care of the children. I won’t sit here and say how horrible it is for men because I’ll never understand the injustice that’s being done to men. Not just in court but I feel like there is a lot of pressur…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 11:22 PM
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Hahah what? Sweden is libertarian and that’s why I’m moving because I’m tired of it. That the government has so much control.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 09:51 PM
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But RPW aren’t recommended to marry RP men, there is still masculine men out there. I think the beta blue pill thing is to blindly get married not think of your assets or think of a woman’s nature. But I don’t want a RP man, because he won’t get married.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 08:18 PM
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I might be but I’ve always wanted to move from Sweden ever since I was young. I’m really tired of the politics and the society in general. Super high taxes on everything, you can’t homeschool here etc
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 08:16 PM
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That’s actually really good advice that if I act like a wife then he might not push to marriage. But I still have to show him somehow that I’m wife material, so great advice. But don’t you think a guy who is looking for someone submissive will be turned off if the girl isn’t as submissive as I would be in a marriage for example? Yeah I’ll look into that, and hopefully find some women who have that same opinion on sex. Well In Sweden women are the man pretty much women still want those typical cu…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 07:09 PM
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Hahah really?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 06:47 PM
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Wow that’s amazing. But it’s not real estate that you rent or something it’s for you guys to live in? I don’t know why people are scared of talking about money either, I don’t always want to talk about it because the person seems to get uncomfortable. I can feel shallow talking about money sometimes though. So you guys talked about how often you guys were going to have sex? I think it’s really cool that you never wanted to be separated, is there a reason for that? I’d really want to know things …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 02:03 PM
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I’m confused on what you mean.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 01:18 PM
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How is your life spread in 3 states and 2 countries? What do you mean by that? And I completely agree that you have to be able to discuss the money thing when you’re in love and if you can’t then it’s a bad sign. Love is really important but love can’t fix everything. Sadly that’s one of the reasons why I broke up with my boyfriend, he is from a poor country, no income and no financial future really and he’s 27 and I just know in my gut that we wouldn’t be able to have that many kids or built a …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 01:18 PM
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So you’re saying you don’t think marriage is a good idea?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 01:12 PM
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Hmm I honestly have no idea
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:03 PM
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What’s BP?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:02 PM
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Are you asking me if I think cash is attractive?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 11:17 AM
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Hmmm I think you need to be similar but not completely the same. I had a best friend who I was so close to, I could just spend the day laying next to her not doing anything. But she didn’t want to be friends because I didn’t tell her I wanted to marry this guy (we aren’t together anymore) so she felt like if I thought I was her best friend I would’ve told her. Talked to my mum and she thought that was bullshit (I’m a really private person, and I would’ve told her just wanted to be sure idk) but …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 11:13 AM
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Yes probably... but if that’s the truth then I need to know it. But you don’t agree that you should marry young to find a quality man?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 11:09 AM
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Well that’s true, that’s my mum and dad. I just get worried easily.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 11:07 AM
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Ah self improvement is the best and I get so confused when people aren’t interesting. I was helping my sister and dad picking up this sofa thing for my sister and I said I’m probably go for a walk when I come home. And my dad is someone who is extremely extroverted, so he wanted to go with me. And I love the talks I have with my dad, my mum is more of caring person and I have more talks about experiences and the past, memories etc. but my dad is like politics, economics, business more intellectu…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 11:06 AM
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Wow! That’s a great analogy, that would feel really shitty.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 11:00 AM
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I loved your respond I’ll defiantly screenshot it. Thank you for taking the time to give such a thorough response. I need to cook, because I hate eating unhealthy food, my skin freaks out if I eat to much crap. Also I know that a big part of aging well, not getting diseases etc is how you treat your body from within. So I’m big on health, but most people think it’s really boring, that you can only eat chicken breast and salad. Which isn’t true, a lot of stews and middle eastern food, and as in f…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 10:58 AM
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OR au pair, love kids so that would be a dream. Day care can be hard because their is like 20 kids and in Sweden it’s kind of chaos in the day care system because low pay so not many teachers so we usually have to many kids. And I’d stay there for longer, I could work online and I could find a guy. I probably sound crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 02:59 AM
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It’s extremely hard to come to America, but I know that’s where I want to go. I’m just worried ill be to old when I get there. Though I could be in America for 6 months with a travel visa I think, can always try to find a guy while I’m there so long distance for a bit and then get married and move there. But maybe that’s hard because no guy would ever do that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 02:27 AM
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I guess I want a guy who is paid pretty well because I want 5 kids. What other things can narrow down what type of guy you want? Does that sentence make sense?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 02:25 AM
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I do cook, I use cookbooks a lot though. Of course I know basic cooking by heart but I like using cookbooks. I do I’m a day care teacher (is it called that?). I’m pretty well read, could be more well read though. I’m really submissive, almost in a bad way I feel like. I want to please others so badly especially the guy I like but it can be taken advantage of. I kind of can, I still live at home because I study so it’s better to save and invest my money then use it on rent while I can. So I still…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 02:21 AM
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Leader, confident, assertive
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 01:08 AM
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We do but not everyone thinks so :(
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:47 AM
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None. I want to move to America and get a permit there so I don’t see why I should date here. Plus Swedish guys are EXTREMELY feminine. Plus I don’t feel like I have enough value to give, but I don’t know what men want other then looks.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:46 AM
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I just want a dominant masculine man. What type of other value?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:45 AM
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Well the thing is you can get healthy children when you’re 30. But it’s just because I know my beauty matters so I need to do it early and I want to I don’t like being single, I yearn the masculine so much.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:44 AM
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Yeah that’s true! But just want to be prepared. It’s just even since I got into redpill I’ve obsessed about aging, I always have but now much more. Let’s say you marry someone with money and he gets a raise or whatever and he gets much more “high status” and I’m then 40 because of nature he could leave because he has the option to be with a 20 year old since he’ll be a millionaire. I’ll really feel like I have no value after 30, it’s stressing me out so much.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 10:48 PM
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Hahah really? How do you know? I do want to be a stay at home mum actually. Though I want to work from home like a part time side job because I’d feel to bad not contributing money.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 10:03 PM
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That makes me really happy that you say that, I always feel boring because I’m introvert.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 11:16 AM
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Do you find it hard to “fit” in?
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 11:15 AM
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But do you still offer to pay sometimes? Maybe I just have a problem receiving. I don’t have a problem receiving with everything. But compliments and money I aren’t the best at receiving. From my parents sure, but from people I don’t know I feel bad or like I owe them. Same if someone does something super nice I feel bad if I don’t give back. I was kind of dating this guy and he helped me with so many things, like advice and stuff like that and I felt so bad because I wasn’t helping him. But I j…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 11:14 AM
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Hahha yess me too! ❤️ i don’t know if it’s jus a part of our personality or just insecurities. Yes I tried doing that but they didn’t want to take it :(
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 11:10 AM
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And don’t forget chest, neck and hands!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:14 PM
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Why is it bad to say that we don’t need to go on fancy dates? Or I can pay half? I’m just afraid that a guy will find me a gold digger if I don’t pay.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:08 PM
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Which books is it that you’ve read?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:07 PM
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That made me want to cry, thank you 🌸
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:00 PM
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I’m what way do you feel like it hinders you :( I agree that it’s hard to find similar female friends.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 09:24 PM
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Well most women who find quality men already have a bf at my age and get engaged at like 22-23
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 09:20 PM
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How you mean?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 08:51 PM
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That’s so amazing 🙈
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 08:35 PM
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That’s so romantic 😍😍
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 08:25 PM
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Hahah, wish I had your extroversion
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 07:27 PM
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Hahah yesss!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 06:13 PM
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Yayy! Do you feel like some of the things you read wasn’t true?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 06:13 PM
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It’s so interesting to learn your personality more in dept I think.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 04:40 PM
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Yes!!’ Agree so much about thinking about what they think of me, if I offended anyone. I think I do it less now but it’s still there. And yeah the compliment thing, so true. It’s annoying because that makes me kind of give away the power to them, because my emotions are based on other people’s feelings and their feelings about me. So if they think I’m ugly, in my head I’m ugly dosent matter if 90 people have said I’m pretty. Yess I’ll defiantly do that ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 04:39 PM
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Yeah I can really relate to that. Have you ever gotten the “I thought you were shy” or something similar. People think I’m shy but I’m just very private but when you know me I talk most of all. But I know I’m an INFP because I’m private and I internalize everything and don tell people what I’m thinking. Do you know why you’re shy around new people? I might be wrong but I think that it’s this need to be validated and liked that we have (or I have, but since you and I are kind of the same I figure…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 12:34 PM
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Yayy! Yeah I think is probably because we attract the same type of person, I’ve had a hard time finding like minded people though so you’re lucky ;). Yeah I can totally see how majority of tumblr users are an INFJ. With people that aren your friends do you feel like it’s hard to be understood? Hahah yeah, though I’m really talkative and extroverted if I know the person, I’m just shy and socially awkward with new people but it’s not always about that. Just the fact that we internalize everything …
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:31 AM
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Are you creative? They say that it’s a trait but I don’t think I’m creative, complete to opposite. And defiantly aren’t a good writer, my thoughts kind of mesh together, and the sentence just become super confusing. But writing have always been my weakness. What about you?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:26 AM
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Hahah that’s amazing! Yeah I’ve heard that it’s the rarest and I’ve found it hard to fit in or find likenminded people. So you’re lucky ;) though I also feel like it can be nice to have friends that are opposite maybe not completely opposite but aren’t exactly like you, but I find it hard because people don’t seem to understand me. Really interesting to see what other people are, it feels more real.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:25 AM
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You haven’t found one? I think it’s probably the T part that makes it hard. Since most women operate and make decisions based on feelings. Not completely without thinking but if it feels bad, not worth it. Would you want a female friend who is like you? Or doesn’t it matter?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:22 AM
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Yeah the home is so good, not a stressful environment for the baby to come into. It’s so unnatural for a baby to come into such a stressful situation, or I don’t know if it is but that’s how my brain sees it. But you’ll have women who help her right? Like duhlas etc, don’t know if they are spelled like that. Or do you mean all by herself with no one to help her?
/r/askTRP07/01/18 11:19 AM
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You have an advantage over for example me who has the feeling aspect. It can be very hard to hear some of the things in RP but since you have the sensing part I feel like that is a big advantage. Though I’m surprised that it’s hard with big changes since you go on facts a lot and they change.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:17 AM
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If you understand women’s hormones and how the body works a woman can have children in her 30+. It’s about health. My mum had me at 35 and my sister at 38.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 08:36 PM
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You say you want a young woman, since you don’t care about the looks is there a reason for why you want a young woman? And what’s young for you?
/r/askTRP06/01/18 05:27 PM
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I just hear a lot of men on this space wanting that. But you’re probably right.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 05:13 PM
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That’s an amazing answer. Gave me something to think about. Thank you.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 05:10 PM
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Yes of course, but I’m thinking personality wise. A guy won’t settle down with you if you’re hot and is a bitch. Hot body is so different for a lot of guys I feel like so confusing.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 04:32 PM
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Swedish myself and I am planning to move just because there aren’t any “real men” left. Gender roles are kind of flipped, and being typical masculine is seen as toxic. Not very pro men here, blame a lot of things on men. You don’t really have conflicts here with each other, its very feminized. And we have this “be as the group” mentality, can’t really disagree, or at least not on the big things such as feminism, immigration, politics in general. It’s free speech here but it really isn’t. I think…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 11:06 PM
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Yes dry shampoo is a life safer. I had curled my hair at Christmas and went to the gym the 27th or something and my hair still had curls I felt so fancy having a curly ponytail at the gym.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 11:39 PM
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I would think they’d just do it in the bedroom. But you’re probably right.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 10:45 PM
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Have you met guys like that?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 09:19 PM
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That’s actually great advice, I agree with you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 08:24 PM
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What do you do in this getting ready routine? Maybe it’s a weird question.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 07:24 PM
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Oh, I haven’t seen it for myself but I do consider more then just one persons advice so it’s okay :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 03:05 PM
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I do, but I notice that a lot of guys don’t know what to do when I do. They want me to lead. But then those guys aren’t dominant probably. How would you say a person submits? What do they do?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 09:41 AM
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Do you know any books about that? I thought confident is good for both genders? I can be outspoken. So having an opinion and voicing that is bad, is that what you mean by outspoken? I’m naturally submissive to friends and guys but when I’m not in a relationship I’ve used a lot of my masculinity even though it’s tiring. I don’t know how to survive this world with not being that. Also I feel bad sometimes of being completely feminine because the guy has to do the work, and idk makes me feel bad. C…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 09:40 AM
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There is girls that like those guys. I’d ask the guys on here how they determine if a girl is using you or not. Because if she is, no good relationship.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 09:30 AM
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Who are you talking about that’s giving bad advice?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 09:26 AM
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How is it that you love her that you think she dosent? Are you satisfied in the relationship?
/r/askTRP01/01/18 02:54 AM
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And you have a new man?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 02:29 AM
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Yeah that was a great review, quite uncomfortable and sad to read.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 02:03 AM
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Yeah I agree people cheat because of those reasons not because they don’t love the person. I worded it wrongly.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 01:24 AM
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Yes that’s the best! Basic things like a bag, shoes, your basics to build a wardrobe, coat etc should be better quality and it will last you for years.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 01:19 AM
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Yeah I think there are guys that pretend to be dominant but actually aren’t. Not to say that guys shouldn’t have feelings, but crying over a divorce from years ago that dosent seem very stable to me, male or female
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 01:06 AM
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Will do! I like kind of classy clothes, feminine but classy. Neutrals, or very light colors I am a blue eyes blonde so if you’ve heard of the seasons some colors look better then other depending on your features. White is my favorite, do you think if you wear skirts or dresses it dosent matter if the dress is black? Or do color matter. I want to spend money on quality pieces but then it need to be timeless so white and black are the best colors for that. I do like light pink a lot though
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 01:05 AM
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Have you always been feminine, or did you get redpilled and was like wow I need to straighten up a bit?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 12:52 AM
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Okay wow yeah, she might be. How is she towards you? Do you have a good relationship? What do you do when you hang out? Do you hang out a lot? No that’s completely fine, a lot of guys haven’t had proper male role models, I’m not the person to go to for how to be more masculine. But if there is a guy who isn’t aware what women want I want to tell them. Because society is saying one thing but it’s the complete opposite. Thank you for helping me.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:50 AM
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Never thought of that, the leading and deadweight thing. When you say shit together do you mean with work or emotionally or in what sense?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 12:35 AM
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And what would you say being feminine is?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 12:34 AM
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I’m not denying who I am. I just believe that I’m doomed because of it. There are things you say that just aren’t true for every woman, my mum have been loyal and faithful to my dad for two decades. There are men who has too even though it might not be very natural to not cheat. Dosent mean you’re doomed. And telling myself lies about how I’m better then I actually am won’t help me to actually become better. I’m just trying to make the best of this situation because life just isn’t good without …
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:24 AM
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We think differently about that, which is fine.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 09:11 PM
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But not know the guy at all, that won’t create an emotional bond
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 08:30 PM
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That actually makes sense, I haven’t had sex but I’m scared to because I know I’ll get some type of emotion for the guy, and I’m scared of being left and stuff like that (no I was never left by my dad as a kid). Is it the same for guys? With the sex and emotion I mean.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 08:05 PM
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Only one? How you mean
/r/askTRP31/12/17 07:49 PM
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Okay actually that’s a great way to put it and you’re right. I need to think about the way guys see love and not just me. I never thought about that to be honest. I just thought love was love. The feeling love. But I’ll remember that. That’s true that the girl can’t be happy unless the leader is happy it’s kind of how even though you have kids your relationship with each other is more important or else the kids won’t be happy. Divorced parents don’t make happy kids and fighting parents dosent ei…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 07:07 PM
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Oh but hypergamy is women’s nature so I assumed you meant money. But would you want us to give what you guys give us? Just curious. Well I appreciate and I’m defiantly considering everything you’re saying. How I can change those things.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 05:03 PM
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I get what you mean by that, it’s sad. Or to me it is at least.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 04:53 PM
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When you say mother do you mean an actual mother, or do you mean the qualities of a mother taking care and stuff like that? Do you mean a guy want a mother and a whore? In the same woman I mean.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 04:07 PM
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Why don’t you think it works? To be a stay at home mum I mean. Did you settle down? Or are you settled down?
/r/askTRP31/12/17 03:24 PM
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Because I don’t fully agree with it, I don’t think woman wants you just because you have money. I think women want to feel protected but i don’t think all women want a guy with money. I think it’s the character that attracts. What are the bad things about women? In your opinion.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 03:21 PM
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I can’t see how this works with a gf, sex or fling yeah. But for the long term I can’t see how this will work. But maybe it does, I haven’t tried that. Of course some things I agree with but the part where you shouldn’t say more then I like you.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 11:10 AM
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