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Bobandjim12602/r/seduction01/04/19 02:55 PM
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ConversationBobandjim12602/r/seduction29/09/20 03:42 PM
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It could be a plethora of reasons. Maybe she found someone better, maybe she just lost interest, maybe she lost her phone, maybe she reconsidered the idea of dating again, the list goes on. Don't get butthurt. Just move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:47 PM
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Huh. This is one of the most accurate and non-toxic post I've read on this sub. Good job OP.
/r/seduction01/05/22 11:09 AM
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It depends on what "showing emotion" means. If a woman gets upset and leaves because you're crying at a funeral, she's a bitch. If she gets upset and leaves because you LIVE and make decisions exclusively on your emotions, then she has a more understandable reason to leave. If a woman gets upset at you for having emotions, then she is, by and large, not worth having in your life outside of sex and potential career connections.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:25 PM
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Wait, you know she has a BF and you're actively pursuing her? Be a man, have some integrity, walk away and let her relationship fall apart. No need to get mixed up in that drama. If you're absolutely desperate though, you should subtly let that dude (without telling him/letting him know it was you or that you're involved) know what his chick his doing. Then when he dumps her hoe ass, fuck her and leave her for the rest of the dogs in the street.
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:42 PM
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Women's advice on how to get other women need to be taken with a grain of salt. They're used to being pursued, not being the pursuer. They're not giving you "bad advice" to sabotage you. You should actually listen to what they have to say. Not necessarily the words, but how the feel. When you understand how to sense how they feel, you'll begin to see that women are actually brutally honest. Men can also give really shitty dating advice? Look at some of the terrible, borderline sexual harassment …
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:11 PM
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"No thank you, bye". OP, do not ruin a good thing just because some bitch from the past wants to shit test you. You want to impress her to show her that you've changed? Ignore her.
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:20 PM
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No it's not. Brain surgery is way more complicated and potentially dangerous than getting a f*cking girlfriend dude. Yes, you'll probably have a more difficult time than some, but it is far, FAR from impossible. You're making it to be way more than it actually is. Stop with the self-defeating attitude, get yourself to the gym to help build your confidence and go out to party with friends more. Get comfortable talking to people and grow to withstand rejection like a champ. Don't act desperate, do…
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:30 AM
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Well, username checks out lol. Dude, fuck em. They make fun of you for being alone, if that's all they have to offer then boot them out of your life. Don't even talk to them. It doesn't matter how alone you are rn, what matters is that you keep improving upon yourself and putting yourself out there. Once you get a girlfriend and begin having sex everyday, you'll realize how stupid it is to brag about it. Hopefully, when you're there and you see someone who feels bad about being alone, you won't …
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:09 AM
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Turn your porn up to max volume and compete for who can be the worst neighbor.
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:00 AM
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"I'm gonna rape your Mother and kill your sister" It doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it ~ OP
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:24 PM
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You're good my dude. A gripe of mine really is that some dudes on here are giving borderline stalker advice and that shit needs to stop. It really feels like the blind leading the blind sometimes.
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:54 PM
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I don't think it's women saying that they want one thing and then meaning another, I think it's an incorrect extrapolation. For example: Women say that they want nice guys. That doesn't mean her best friend or someone who simps over her. It's a dude that she can be chill with. Not a push over little bitch that obsesses about being nice to get with her. You can be a nice dude and still be a flirty "asshole". I've never heard a woman deny that they don't like a confident man, and it is true that w…
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:48 PM
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This. It's genuinely sound advice. Look good, dress good and act good. It's literally coming from a woman too. What level of narcissistic idiot do you have to be to believe that you know more about what a chick wants than an ACTUAL chick telling you what they want (which doesn't even contradict half the shit on here). I think people should realize that teaching people to "just be confident and persistent" doesn't work if you look like you crawled out of a dumpster. God this sub is so incelular a…
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:21 PM
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The girl is allowed to have had sex outside of you with whomever she consensually desired to do so. Just like the guy is. Me and my GF have both slept around, got it out of our system, and have a wonderful sex life. She's been with dudes who have bigger dicks and I've been with girls who have better bodies. Regardless of those people in the past, remember, you guys chose eachother. The giggle indicates she had fun. Because guess what, sex is fun. I know I had fun fucking around. If you feel real…
/r/seduction25/12/21 11:45 PM
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"Go to a dermatologist and fix your imperfections, it's not as expensive as it seems" sighs in third degree burn victim living in America
/r/seduction21/05/21 04:58 PM
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It's less about not opening up, and more about controlling when and how you open up. I agree that there are a lot of ideas based in stoicism on this form, but it's just generalizing. Girls are as varied as men, yes there are lots of commonalities, but each girl is a different beast.
/r/seduction08/05/21 04:26 PM
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True, Peterson is a pretty good self-help coach. But I have some pretty hard core disagreements with his academic philosophy. Very true. People become so focused on power plays and dominance hierarchies that they forget that relationships, love and sex are supposed to be FUN.
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:59 PM
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Seriously. A lot of advice on this sub sounds like people read too much seduction scam artists and Jordan Peterson. Here's an idea. Maybe just start interacting with women you know, so you're not as nervous about approaching others. Be charming and likeable. Worried she's not attracted to you? See what you can do to boost your physical appearance. Unless you're going for 10/10 supermodels, you'll find that lots of attractive women don't really have an incredibly high threshold for how attractive…
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:51 PM
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Then you haven't spent a long time on this sub.
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:30 PM
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This, thank God. The entire time I was reading OP's post, I imagine him walking into a bar, going up to the nearest woman and being like https://youtu.be/fFyHTU8tg_0
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:25 PM
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No. Men aren't particularly attracted to power in women. And men aren't generally attracted to power in other men either. This simply isn't true. I know plenty of gay men who are attracted to powerful men. The same thing applies to lesbians as well (powerful women). People are attracted to people in power universally, whether that be socially or sexually. Weak men are often envious or afraid of powerful men ... this can manifest as simple fear or as disgust/hate. Sometimes this is the case, but …
/r/seduction26/03/21 08:15 PM
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I've got a few minor disagreements, but otherwise this is pretty spot on. Everyone is attracted to power, not just women. Power itself is sort of an illusion. Because by ourselves, we don't really have actual power or free will. Our power comes from our ability to persuade other people to do what we want them to do. The ability to maintain power comes from learning how to keep those people listening to you. You usually keep those people listening to you by leading them in ways that brings succes…
/r/seduction26/03/21 05:16 PM
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I cringe whenever someone tells me about karma. Like, yes Crystal, the fucking Universe keeps a tally of all the subjectively good and or bad things you do.
/r/seduction26/03/21 05:03 PM
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I like the idea, but definitely be careful with this philosophy. As it usually leads some down the path of, "if I'm failing, it's entirely my fault", which just isn't true and is an incredibly blind and unhealthy way to think about things. Becoming the hero of your own life will not automatically make things better. It WILL however, provide you with more opportunities to make things better. It'll especially aid in developing more self-confidence. So basically, strive to be better than you were t…
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:59 PM
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Exactly. There are a lot of "self-help" Guru's who conflate the two. Which is very dangerous.
/r/seduction21/03/21 12:29 AM
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I'd be very careful about equating being bummed out because a girl won't date you to having clinical depression. Depression takes away all motivation to do almost anything, and makes you tired all the time, which in turn forces you lower and lower to the point of no return. This should be helped by actual an therapist and or medication (usually both). Some conditions aren't intended by nature for you to improve. Cancer, Aids, Brittle Bone Disease, Depression. These are diseases that shouldn't mo…
/r/seduction20/03/21 10:19 PM
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I do have self confidence.
/r/seduction17/03/21 12:19 AM
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Without being an ass is the difficult part.
/r/seduction16/03/21 08:34 PM
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I've tried this recently, they just end up actually leaving. Which is tough, because if you don't have a lot of options and then act disinterested to try to get her to pursue you, it's just seen as you being an unlikable asshole instead of someone that she needs to compete for. For those who are curious. Yes, I work out. Yes I have interesting hobbies (in the film industry and I explore abandoned buildings, caves, write and hike in my spare time). Sometimes it's the place you're in and how old y…
/r/seduction16/03/21 01:12 PM
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This is some of the best advice I've seen on this sub.
/r/seduction16/03/21 01:05 PM
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Easier said than done. Realistically, there are lots of reasons why people leave other people. It's not always related to your "worth". Sometimes people just drift apart over time. Sometimes either you or the other person get into a fight or one does something unforgivable. It's completely situational. The real reason you shouldn't care is because life goes on. Make new friends, meet new people. The more you get hung up on a person who left, the more likely you are to miss out on a person who wo…
/r/seduction11/03/21 03:25 AM
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Yeah, it also relies a little bit on Objectivism at it's premise. Which is sort of dunk due to it's foundation being built on the faulty idea that humans are/act as rational creatures.
/r/seduction09/03/21 04:03 AM
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What the fuck sort of Yoga classes are you taking and where can I sign up?
/r/seduction25/02/21 03:03 AM
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12.7 cm is how deep I am IN YOU
/r/seduction16/02/21 02:15 PM
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LMFAO Imyourdad101: How many of yall are actually rich and successful and not low value peasants. Reddit users: Sorry, what's that about money? I can't hear you over the sound of me dicking your girlfriend.
/r/seduction16/02/21 10:27 AM
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"How to Break your Man in 7 easy steps - The Reddit Edition".
/r/seduction08/02/21 02:05 PM
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You sure like to assume a lot about me, don't you lol
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:23 AM
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Honestly, just try to find whatever makes you look best. Take advice from people who know stuff about fashion. Get a nice haircut. Like, there are naturally going to be people more attractive than you. But you don't have to be a Greek God to get a woman. Muscles, well fitting clothes and a generally positive and playful attitude will get you pussy.
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:05 AM
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Dieting and getting big muscles won't guarantee that you'll get girls. But it'll definitely help. It's super hot when a chick takes off your shirt and is like, "woah," and starts touching your body.
/r/seduction21/10/20 12:46 AM
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Fuck the Coronavirus bruh
/r/seduction29/09/20 04:13 PM
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Maybe. I'm a solid 7 out of 10. Just need to get the girls in person. Issue is they're super hesitant. Maybe I'm coming off too strong? I don't know. Point is, online dating isn't doing shit for me rn. I wanted to know if there are any dudes who were in my situation and how they got out of it. Cold approaches and dancing is fine, I just need to drive to a good place to do that shit.
/r/seduction29/09/20 04:09 PM
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Definitely a miss now. God damn.
/r/seduction29/09/20 03:46 PM
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This is probably the most realistic approach to milfs on this thread.
/r/seduction01/06/20 04:43 AM
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is pussy worth more than your self respect? It never is, and this subreddit needed to hear this shit desperately. A+ post.
/r/seduction24/04/20 04:04 PM
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The type of women you're referring to sound like assholes. Considering themselves, "higher beings" based on their looks alone. They wouldn't be worth your time beyond a quick plow even if you were someone they'd date. Anyone who thinks that they're naturally better than anyone (unless they're a savant) is typically full of shit. Even the hottest girls are just naked shit throwing apes like everyone else. Most attractive women don't consider themselves as "higher beings" though. Just because they…
/r/seduction20/04/20 04:54 PM
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Downvote this dude as much as you want, but that was funny as fuck.
/r/seduction09/04/20 12:09 AM
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Definitely true. You can be a jerk without being a garbage human being.
/r/seduction24/01/20 06:17 PM
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I agree with your overall message. But texting people who ghosted you repeatedly and going after attention whores is just bad advice. Texting constantly just makes you look needy and desperate. Also, if she has ghosted you, move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. No use fighting an uphill battle. Attention whores will also typically go for the hottest guy in the room. No amount of confidence and humor can actually land you anything more than a lay with her. Unless that's all you're going f…
/r/seduction20/01/20 04:11 PM
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Lol, it takes ONE google search people!
/r/seduction24/12/19 07:24 PM
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Ideas for fun, unconventional dates? "Fun...unconventional, hmmmm" turns to date "Hey Baby, ever had your asshole licked by a fat man in a trench coat?"
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:11 PM
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Was joking bro. I'm all about that hygiene and gym life.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:12 PM
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Not sure why he's being downvoted. It's definitely a method to both become rich and get a hot girl. I've literally seen this happen multiple times.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:11 PM
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Yes to all of those, also I'm ugly. Ha! I swallowed those no problem.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:09 PM
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Keep it up man.
/r/seduction13/11/19 11:51 PM
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Literally the one thing we were born to do.
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:56 PM
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reads title spits out coffee You...you made contact with a member of the opposite sex?
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:50 PM
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Thank you for stating this. It's bizarre how many people on this sub think that sex will be this life changing experience. Is it fun? Yes. Does it feel good? Yes. However, beyond a single night of erotic fun, there isn't really much to it. You still wake up the next day the same person you were the day before. To put it lightly, sex is HIGHLY overrated. If you're using sex and women to try and fix some problem you have, don't. JP has really good advice on the subject. I believe one's happiness c…
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:19 PM
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36 chicks isn't that hard to sleep with if you're constantly gaming. Although personally, sex lost a lot of appeal for me after having continually slept around.
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:12 PM
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For some reason, this reminds me of The Office. Dwight: "I never smile if I can help it. Showing one's teeth is a submission signal in primates. When someone smiles at me, all I see is a chimpanzee begging for its life."
/r/seduction01/11/19 09:45 AM
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So she wants a genuine human being and not a kiss ass who is only intimidated by her? Imagine that. Although I will say that "White Knights" and "Nice Guys" already have a bad rep. As they're only doing what they do to get laid, not because they actually care about the chick. Where White Knights fuck up is that they ALWAYS agree with the girl. Even when she says something dumb as fuck, they'll defend them to their dying breath. It's annoying from an outsider's perspective and comes off as desper…
/r/seduction01/11/19 09:43 AM
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My excuse is that I'm a Dolphin.
/r/seduction30/10/19 11:37 PM
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Stop asking for advice as a virgin, would be my advice.
/r/seduction28/10/19 12:15 AM
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But our whole drive to do better, have more things, and even care about stuff like that tends to all be based around reproductive fitness. I'm not denying reproduction has a part to play in it. But it's not that simple. It's also about social power, which guarantees more food and affords a higher standard of living. This is even demonstrated in animals. Regardless, talking about evolutionary biology on this thread is pointless. If you wish to continue discussing this, DM me.
/r/seduction26/10/19 05:52 AM
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Simply put, the only reason anyone improves themselves, other than corner cases, is to be more attractive/successful. It's about being more successful, which garners attraction from members of the opposite sex. However, it also allows one to rise up in a social hierarchy, amongst other things. I don't improve myself to get women, that's just a side effect. You don't actually have to improve that significantly to get pussy. I improve myself because my career and success depend on it.
/r/seduction26/10/19 05:42 AM
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Tigers are larger than Lions. That being said, anyone can improve themselves. People improving themselves solely to get girls are, in my opinion, improving themselves for the wrong reason. As it leads to the belief that once you get the girl, you can stop improving. Which isn't a good mindset to get into.
/r/seduction25/10/19 11:28 PM
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Okay, but then how should I respond to this post? XD
/r/seduction10/07/19 12:56 AM
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Me: "Ha! It's probably a fake number! She be fuckin me boy!" OP Calls her my Mom picks up the phone Me: awww shit! Not again!
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:30 PM
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9 times out of 10, this will fix any issue regarding your physical attractiveness to women.
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:45 AM
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Ditto. A super good tip.
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:44 AM
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Wait, you live in San Francisco? Are you trying to get laid or just find friends?
/r/seduction23/06/19 01:42 PM
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Haha, true that xD
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:15 PM
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Her: "Ewwww get away from me" Me: Shit test. 😎 Her: "stop following me home, I'm calling the cops" Me: Shit test. 😎
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:13 PM
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If you're picking up younger girls, High School/College Freshmen this might work. But this is a very toxic attitude to have in essentially every other aspect of life.
/r/seduction31/05/19 01:55 PM
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I never said that. A girl preferring Justin Timberlake over Brad Pitt is not the same thing as a girl preferring some ugly guy over Brad Pitt. Nor did I ever suggest such a thing.
/r/seduction26/04/19 02:56 PM
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Depends on the girl. But yeah, generally speaking almost all women go for attractive guys lol.
/r/seduction26/04/19 02:30 PM
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If you think you can do better, then try to go for better. Especially if they're interested in you. If a 6.5 is awesome and you love her, then fuck what anyone else thinks. You shouldn't live in fear of the opinions of needlessly judgemental people. This isn't to say that you should ever ditch a 6.5 for an 8 if you're in a committed relationship with the 6.5. But if both options are available, and they're both pretty cool, why not shoot a little higher?
/r/seduction26/04/19 02:21 PM
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Yeah, but they also have money and high social status ontop of good looks. I've meet a surprising number of girls who don't find Brad Pitt attractive. Which is weird, because I'm a straight guy and I even think he's attractive...
/r/seduction26/04/19 02:09 PM
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The video says it has one word that gets girls. That word is Money. Which is a joke. I also never said you only needed money to get girls. Obviously that isn't the case. But if a girl had to choose between a hot rich guy and a hot poor guy, money will be the deciding factor 9 times out of 10. The amount of money shouldn't prevent you from getting girls, but it's a lie to say that you won't have way more success with way better options the more money you have. Lol
/r/seduction24/04/19 08:13 PM
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The one word that gets girls? Money.
/r/seduction24/04/19 07:59 PM
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Ah. They can be, but it's insanely hard and sort of creepy to continue trying if they're not attracted to you. Honestly, I'd just go find another girl who is interested. Don't be the creep who keeps pestering a girl whose not interested.
/r/seduction23/04/19 06:05 PM
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It's in the name, so no. If you get her, then she wasn't really a 'no girl'.
/r/seduction23/04/19 05:55 PM
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Even those at the top can't just get any girl. Although there options are so high that running into a no girl is far more unlikely than your average guy.
/r/seduction23/04/19 05:53 PM
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Dude, he overheard her number and contacted her? When he should have gotten it in person. WTF!? Honestly, if he wanted to play this off, he should have acted like it was the wrong number. Then played it off as a coincide if she remembered who he was. He should have been funny, not fucking creepy. Even then, the way he didn't get the number directly from her is sorta fucked up.
/r/seduction03/04/19 08:37 PM
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That makes sense to me. Cool stuff.
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:02 PM
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Why would marriage disqualify a woman for you? What if the woman has been in a relationship for several years? Also, I've had no trouble getting with attractive single women. So the "undesirables" are not the only ones that are single. Definitely far from the truth.
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:09 PM
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You are probably the most refreshing commentator on here. I agree with what you say. Note that while I am being judgmental towards these people for a rather selfish philosophy (regardless of what causes it), I'm not actively going to attempt to stop them. If I had a girlfriend or wife who desired to be with another man, I'd like for her to discuss it with me, to see what needs to be improved upon. If nothing can be improved, I would be completely fine with her leaving. It's her choice, not mine.…
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:30 PM
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I actually agree with what you are saying. I understand that there are more complex reasons behind cheating. But there is a subculture of men dedicated to satisfying their sexual desires regardless of who they hurt in the process. This post was aimed towards them, not specifically all cheaters. I understand that mistakes happen, but there is a difference between alcohol and an abusive relationship versus someone completely willing to destroy someone else's relationship to get their dick wet. You…
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:05 PM
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Honestly, it's difficult. Confront him, not her? Insult him, make him look like an idiot or incompetent. If he's better at it than you, you might be screwed. However, if you really liked this girl, you should probably have already had her contact by now.
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:42 PM
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I do lift. I'll remember that next time you think it's okay for me to fuck your mother because your father is a cuck.
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:30 PM
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Or you could see it as not giving a shit about the girl and the other guy and moving onto another girl? If she's a girl you've had your eyes on for a long time, then step up your game and game her out of his arms and into your bed. Otherwise it's not worth it, and you can just move on.
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:29 PM
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If I get stabbed I'll think that it was my mistake to go in that shady alley. You're not understanding what I'm saying. You're blaming yourself for other people screwing you over. Dude you have various ways to look at life. Yours is complaining about things you can't change and blaming others, mine is improving and blaming myself for taking PREVENTABLE and KNOWN risks. No, my outlook on life is to improve myself everyday regardless of women or challenges. I do blame others for doing bad things t…
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:48 PM
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Find another girl. Don't fight someone unless they actually threaten you, it makes you look weak willed by comparison.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:34 PM
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My girl was never taken away from me. Also, this entire subreddit is full of opinions. Deal with it.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:32 PM
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When I steal your mother from your father, I'm glad you'll think it's okay.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:31 PM
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Why do people here want to blame themselves for their woman cheating on them? What if the other dude was just hotter than you? That's not always something the gym or nice clothes can fix. Complacency is bad in any aspect, but things like aging and financial situations aren't things you can always fix. It's literally like blaming yourself for being stabbed by saying that you should have worn body armor. It's not healthy thinking. You should desire to improve upon yourself regardless of there is a…
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:27 PM
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I've stopped responding to a lot of them because most of their arguments are easily defeatable, or they're selfish to the point where they don't care. I'm not sure how some of these guys even game in real life. There is a difference between being an funny asshole and a selfish pychopath.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:16 PM
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You're the enabler, you still hold responsibility. Lol, then you've been lucky. That's all there is to it.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:13 PM
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Right. But what if you're married to this person for like 10 years and they cheat on you? Are you still thankful for the guy who knowingly fucked your wife in your bed?
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:11 PM
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That is a very backwards way of looking at it. It's fine to try and find things to improve. But they may cheat for whatever reason. Stop blaming yourself for something you didn't do. It's not healthy.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:07 PM
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Speak for yourself
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:07 AM
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I do just fine with women and human interactions. You're acting as if I'm looking for people to be nice and respectful towards everyone. I'm not. I'm simply saying that you're a tool if you deliberately fuck someone who is in a relationship. I've actually met and talked with these people. My roommate was one of these people. That violent coworker was not a threat against you. But believe it or not, some guys are not okay with their committed partner fucking other people behind their backs. My co…
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:03 AM
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XD one big human fuck pile
/r/seduction02/04/19 03:57 AM
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They are not a toy belonging to you. I never said they were. If they want to cheat they will. They are not harmless and innocent kids that mean men manipulate into cheating. Nor did I ever said that a woman cheating alleviates her of any responsibility. Read my post. I'm saying that men who specifically target women in relationships are also willfully hurting another person for their own brief pleasure. Yes they do operate on split second emotions sometimes AND THAT'S OKAY. That's the nature of …
/r/seduction02/04/19 03:16 AM
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Because people go through rough patches in relationships, maybe she's looking to get revenge on him for something. You have no idea what the context is, nor is it your business. It's simple. Why potentially put yourself at risk when you can get single girls just as easily? Because it'd be easy due to the fact that she wants you or something? Would you be that desperate to get your dick wet that you'd risk something like that? Especially when single girls, in my experience, are way easier to get?
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:57 AM
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What? You are switching between the two people in the same context.
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:45 AM
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There have been several people I know who were hospitalized by an emotionally unstable bf. Let's hope you don't become one of them 👍
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:44 AM
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Why would a ring stop you from sleeping with her?
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:41 AM
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Why does that stop you?
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:40 AM
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Lil bitch
/r/seduction02/04/19 01:38 AM
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There is another debate to be had here unrelated to the topic at hand.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:43 AM
3

When she breaks up with him, which is very likely, it sounds like she's all yours man. Again, situations end up being more complex than the basic ones I stated here. Just be careful if you do anything. She should break it off if she's not happy with him. You don't want some emotionally unstable dude doing anything stupid.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:19 AM
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That's not at all what my post was about. I said going after people in relationships was a shitty thing to do for the reasons stated below. I didn't say, nor do I think, that women are anyone's property. I was agreeing with his point that women are people, and they have the choice to leave you for someone else if they desire to. That's not being a hypocrite. That's agreeing with an aspect of his point.
/r/seduction02/04/19 12:07 AM
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You don't know that. If they guy is persistent and gets her, It could very well have only been that one guy. You are literally defending the guy who is taking her away from you.
/r/seduction01/04/19 11:07 PM
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Epitome*
/r/seduction01/04/19 11:05 PM
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OP is amused at much by what random internet users are assuming to be his predicament based on an opinion he felt like sharing.
/r/seduction01/04/19 10:17 PM
1

Ah nice, an attempt at a personal attack. Goodbye.
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:38 PM
1

I understand them perfectly fine. You're attempting to change my arguments so that they don't fit the argument you're trying to build against me. But if you want to be done, that's fine by me.
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:36 PM
2

Good for you. 👍
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:29 PM
2

I completely agree with the last part. Again, there are obviously many nuances to both scenarios. The analogy being used is, once again, mean to represent the logic of the statement. It's actually a use of hypothetical syllogism...i believe. People who have their needs fulfilled definitely partake in drug use. I'm not sure where you came to that conclusion. I wasn't saying addicts would be innocent in the situation. They're both bad because they both willingly (less so as the addiction increases…
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:28 PM
1

Even then, being an enabler still puts half the blame on your back. Someone could do the same to you. Someone could do the same to your mother and or father. If she's breaks it off with him because of you, have at it. But don't try and push to make it happen, because then you're directly involved in whatever consequences may fall upon you. If you were the man fucking my coworkers wife, you would have found yourself in the hospital. His hand will actually never truly heal. Is it worth it for a ho…
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:22 PM
1

Accidents happen. Situations are more complex than the base one I stated. You didn't actively persue her.
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:18 PM
2

No, it has the potential to create the same effect. There is also a possibility the the promotion undersales because the product is terrible. I see I take could be applied to any situation. It could also be applied to taking some rich person's money to feed your starving child. The point of my response to his statement was to mock it by using the same logic to justify something stupid.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:44 PM
1

You could be thankful for exposing her as a cheater, and also consider him an asshole for deliberately taking your girl away from you regardless of your thoughts and feelings towards the situation.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:40 PM
2

Nope. Samsung isn't directly taking Apple's money by promoting their product. I see I take does not apply to this situation.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:39 PM
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There was no slippery slope analogy. I said the idea that you not knowing the person voiding you from responsibility is a slippery slope to follow.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:36 PM
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I never intended to change people. Just share my thoughts on the subject. The only way to deal with those guys is to continually improve on yourself and the relationship. Otherwise it's sorta up to the quality of the girl you have.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:33 PM
3

Probably not a healthy way to think pal.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:30 PM
2

I understood what you meant perfectly fine. I was mocking the simplicity of the statement by coming up with an equally stupid scenario where your logic applies.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:29 PM
2

You're trying to change the point of what the statement was. I wasn't saying, a car and women are both property, therefore taking my car is equivalent to taking my woman. I was saying the mentality of; "someone has something I want. I don't care about the other person's well being, I'm going to go get it". - is the exact same mentality someone could use to try and justify stealing a car.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:27 PM
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A third party guy would be the one enabling your girl to cheat on you. If the girl chooses to do it, then he successfully enabled her. A drug dealer is enabling people to use drugs by selling them in local areas, if the person chooses to purchase the drugs, the drug dealer successfully enabled her. Given the line of logic, the drug dealer should not be held responsible because he was merely the person providing the product, not the one who made the decision to purchase it.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:25 PM
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That's not the point of my statement. I see I take justifies that action of taking someone elses car.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:22 PM
0

The mentality of I see I take applies to that exact same situation.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:21 PM
0

Fuck your finances, I see your car, I take it.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:07 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:07 PM
1

Morality in and of itself is subjective. That doesn't give people the right to do whatever they want if it ends up hurting others.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:06 PM
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Absolutely not. If she chooses you over him, and he sees this, then you've simply won her over.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:02 PM
2

I'd recommend getting aid from a licensed professional in that case. Best of luck to you man.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:01 PM
0

Then why mix yourself into that potential drama? Especially if it's just for a quick lay? People will do what they're going to do. I understand their reasoning, but you're opening yourself up to whatever follows.
/r/seduction01/04/19 07:00 PM
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The logic is exactly the same. You're blaming yourself for other people's actions. It's healthier to grow on your own, regardless of whether or not said growing involves a partner. Telling the guy can be a blessing. Fucking his girl, and him finding out could potentially, as was the case with some of my friends, have you getting the shit kicked out of you by emotionally unstable people.
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:59 PM
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I hate to say it brother, but you didn't make the move. It feels bad, but you gotta just move on and find other girls.
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:20 PM
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You are responsible of being a knowing enabler of causing pain. Regardless of whether or not she follows through with it. No. That's not at all what I'm saying. If the other guy knows it, and she's in the process of actually leaving him, go for it. If you're climbing out his window because you two don't want to be caught, you're partially responsible for whatever pain your enabling causes. Otherwise people like drug dealers would get off the hook because it's up to people whether or not they sho…
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:17 PM
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Dude, that sounds like you need some help outside of just relationship stuff. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Keep on the look out and don't dwell on the idea of her. Improve yourself as a personal and get out there.
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:14 PM
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She is completely equally, sometimes more so, responsible for what happens. I did state that, not a lot of people seem to have seen it. Perhaps I should have articulated that part better.
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:09 PM
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I'm not so sure that's true. Drug dealers for example are intrusive third party operators. The people they sell drugs to have the decision whether or not they want to purchase the drugs. If the person who used the drugs becomes hurt or addicted, does that third party intruder hold no responsibility?
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:07 PM
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Speaking out against something like school shootings would be pathetic then? Huh. Well, there is no more argument to be had here. You do you man. Peace.
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:04 PM
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I never said anything about her leaving him for you. It's when they try to have it both ways that shit tends to hit the fan for everyone involved.
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:02 PM
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Never let a girl, or anyone, treat you like shit if you're in any sort of personal relationship with them. I personally don't stand for that shit. Lots of people here seem to think I'm worshipping the pussy or something. I'm not. I'm saying that if you purposely violate and destroy someone's else's relationship for your own personal gain, I think you're a piece of shit, and you best prepare yourself for whatever follows. Otherwise, there are tons of single girls out there. Go game on something t…
/r/seduction01/04/19 06:00 PM
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Okay, here is the thing. Maybe my post didn't really pull this off. If she has a BF, be friends, flirt, have fun. But if you want to do something that'd violate or destroy their relationship for your own personal gain, don't do it. It may have negative consequences for you.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:57 PM
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Agreed. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Maybe my friends are more violent than other guys here, but I've seen some bad stuff go down because of the situation presented.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:55 PM
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Never said I had control over the situation. Nor do I am to have any control over the situation. I just wanted to share my thoughts. They do have their rights to do as they please. But those rights come with consequences when their choices can directly negatively impact other people. You are not void of the responsibility of your actions just because you want something.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:53 PM
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No, you're calling people who do it pathetic because of vague morals. No, I'm calling them pathetic for the reasons I listed. Which aren't vague moral. They may be based on morals, but telling someone that cheating may get their ass kicked is not a vague moral construct. And secure people understand that there is nothing they can do to prevent cheating from happening and don't try to shame other guys in hopes to reduce the odds of it happening. I didn't make this post with the hope of reducing t…
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:50 PM
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With pain comes gain man.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:43 PM
2

You that at your own risk. You were a bigger man about the situation. But some of my friends are not, and have done very stupid things to the guys who decided to go forward knowing the situation. It's just easier, at that step, to just find someone else.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:42 PM
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So you'd blame yourself on them cheating on you. Why? Would you blame yourself for getting stabbed by a guy in the street because you're not wearing body armor? You can and should improve on yourself with or without/ regardless of a girl. I never said you give up. If she likes you more, she will likely leave him for you. I never said there was anything wrong with that. But cheating on her and specifically trying to pull her away from another dude is selfish to a sad degree. There is no such thin…
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:39 PM
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It was an analogy to the logic being used. Not to women or men themselves. Essentially, it has to do with voiding responsibility via lack of association, which is too much of a slippery slope to actually be reliable.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:35 PM
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It's not. I know many of my childhood friends who were devastated by their parents divorce. The message was that you being an enabler could potentially hurt people for your own selfish gain.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:33 PM
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If you don't know she has a partner, it's completely her fault. If you know she has a partner, you're still part of the equation and you are still partially responsible. Just because you wouldn't rob the house of someone you know doesn't void you from the responsibility of robbing someone you don't know.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:31 PM
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But that person is instigating that affair. It's like this, if someone with more money buys something you wanted before you can purchase it, then that's completely fair. However, if you have said purchased thing, and someone steals it, that's different. Note, while I did just compare women to something being bought and sold, know that this is only a reflection of the logic of the situation. It could also be applied to men.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:29 PM
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I agree. Women make their own decisions. They would also be shitty people for doing what they do. Being an enabler doesn't void you of responsibility. Cigarette companies and drug dealers provide products to people. They're all enablers, it's the person's responsibility to choose whether or not to follow through. But being that enabler does make you a shitty person still. Especially when another, and far less dramatic option, is to just move on and find someone who is single.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:24 PM
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Yeah, that's definitely true.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:21 PM
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The statement you quoted was in reference to me stating that if she's with someone, move on. I thought that is what you meant in calling me insecure. To address your point of insecurity. I'm saying that stealing someone's gf is a shitty thing to do and giving reasons. It has nothing to with me being secure or insecure in my own abilities to keep a girl.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:20 PM
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Haha, with your alpha male attitude there you've just seduced me. Wanna meet up later? 😘
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:15 PM
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I've never had a girl stolen from me, but I do have friends who have. Again, you better hope someone doesn't do the same to you.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:13 PM
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If they persue you while they're taken, then it is far more her fault than yours. However, acting like doing it to someone you don't know takes you off the hook completely is a bad argument. Is it okay to rob someone who left their house door open just because you don't know them? You would still be involved in the equation of someone's suffering knowingly doing so. If you want to deal with that, fine by me. I just find it better to game elsewhere.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:12 PM
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I don't disagree
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:07 PM
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Ah, so you like cheating on cheaters. Again, as I stated the situations can definitely be more complicated than I presented here. Again though, fair warning. "Beta males" pushed too far, like anyone, can be very dangerous. My coworkers in my post is a "beta male" type guy. He still fucked up the other dude pretty badly.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:06 PM
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I completely agree.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:03 PM
2

When did I say it wasn't the woman's fault?
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:01 PM
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The girl never agreed to be in a relationship with him. There was also no hiding it. One breaks a person's trust. The other just hurts the less skillful player.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:00 PM
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Well, let's hope that women for you doesn't find a better man for her.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:57 PM
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Good for you I guess. Let's just hope none of their partners are unstable. Also, best of luck to you if someone like you steals your wife or GF.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:56 PM
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How is being man enough to move on being insecure? Also, you can disagree with me all you want. I don't really care. I'm not downvoting anyone.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:53 PM
1

Nobody deserves anything. They earn it.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:51 PM
1

All of them can ruin a kids life. I agree. Divorces can absolutely ruin a kids life. It can also be beneficial for the kids. My point was that your Mom and Dad separating from an otherwise healthy family relationship due to one of them cheating could absolutely scar a child.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:50 PM
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I'm aware this post won't stop cheaters from cheating. It wasn't even meant to. I actually agree with you up till the last part. I tend to tell the BF, but that's just me. She'll be single again either way. You can keep on fucking, but I've seen that end terribly for some guys and girls.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:47 PM
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I'm sorry to say, you were just outplayed man. Improve yourself and move forward.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:44 PM
12

Respecting other people and still being successful with women seems to be a challenge for some people here lol.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:43 PM
2

Well bud, then let's hope that you are the best looking, richest, most intelligent and most charismatic man on the planet.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:41 PM
1

There are people commenting here that seem to think this post implies the current partner of the girl should do nothing to improve if he isn't satisfying her. I never said anything about that. That's the business of the couple, something that they have to deal with on their own. Most of the time, that's not the business of the guy knowingly pursuing her. I can understand the reason people desire to improve upon themselves after being cheated on. But why they blame themselves for other people bei…
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:33 PM
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Good for you pal. Just watch out, because there are people out there who will fold you for doing what you do. I also hope, if you ever decide to settle down, get married and have kids, that some guy similar to you doesn't show up and do what you do. Because that very well may ruin your kid's life.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:20 PM
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Keep the ball in her court and move on. If she answers, good for you. If not, you've got other girls who are far more interested.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:16 PM
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Let's hope your future GF/wife doesn't run into a guy that feels the same way about you.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:07 PM
2

Then that's what you do. I merely stated that because it's best to avoid the potential drama. Her partner could potentially be unstable. In a situation like that, it is far more her fault than yours. I've personally found it easier to drop that mess before it starts and go game on someone else.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:41 PM
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I have a better idea. Read the part where I stated that I'm aware situations are more complex than just the ones I stated.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:36 PM
4

I'm going to stop you right there. I actually fuck plenty of women. Also, your definition of White knighting is far from what I'm saying here.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:34 PM
2

So you're assuming you know our situation? Nice. For the record, I've never had this happen to me. Never once did I say the other guy shouldn't improve. Nor did I saw it wasn't also the woman's fault. In fact, I actually did say it was equally the woman's fault.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:32 PM
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I'm me. I'm not telling someone they can or cannot do something. I'm simply stating my opinion on the subject. I am fully aware that people will continue doing what they do regardless of my post. I don't care who upvotes my content. I wanted to post this because these type of people have hurt and or been hurt by people I know. This subreddit is full of people's opinions, deal with it.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:22 PM
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I never stated that women are objects. They are allowed to do and sleep with whoever they want. But being in a relationship is different. Because now more than one person is involved with your actions. At that point, doing whatever you want (man or woman) becomes hurtful to the other person.
/r/seduction01/04/19 03:04 PM
3

Bruh, if you have the charisma to pull off getting laid in a racecar bed, you should run for President of the United States.
/r/seduction22/03/19 01:05 AM
1

"Only if it's in your bed" 😎
/r/seduction21/03/19 10:29 PM
1

How does one low-key conquer a nation for a woman? Asking for a friend.
/r/seduction06/03/19 02:37 PM
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If you know she has a BF, don't ask her out. Even if she would say yes, you're not doing a favor for the guy. Let some other jackass be the guy she cheats on him with. It's a pretty low move otherwise.
/r/seduction23/02/19 01:29 PM
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Depends on the scenario A hookup? Hell no. A girlfriend? Nah, probably not. A serious girlfriend? A little. Wife of 0-5 years? About average. Lifetime partner? Absolutely.
/r/seduction16/02/19 12:17 AM
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As a guy who has talked to many women about this, this is definitely a common thing. The only time I've seen girls hit on guys is when they find the guy unbelievably attractive.
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:17 PM
56

Chasing after a girl like this would be toxic. She just wants to feel good being pursued. She's the type of girl who would leave you if anyone more successful comes along. Not worth your time or effort unless you're just looking for a quick lay.
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:21 PM
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Dude looks like he should be ruling Atlantis right now.
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:04 AM
4

He's either shy or not reading the signals correctly. Just kiss the dude
/r/seduction16/01/19 01:27 PM
1

Depends on your definition for either term, but no, you definitely don't have to be an asshole to get laid. You just have to be motivated, not clingy, confident and take care of your appearance. The idea that girls will only have sex with/ date complete assholes is untrue. Don't start being an asshole and expect to get laid. It's not the asshole part that women like, it's the confidence. That being said, you have to be an actual nice guy, not a creep that is just her friend hoping that one day y…
/r/seduction16/01/19 01:21 PM
5

This man speaks the truth.
/r/seduction23/12/18 03:37 PM
3

Very informative. Thanks!
/r/seduction22/12/18 10:11 PM
1

Honestly, you're doing pretty good so far. Keep messaging her for about a week, make her laugh, get her more comfortable to meet you in person then go from there. Just don't let the conversation become one sided. Tease her, ask her a bit more about herself. She should be interested enough to continue talking with you.
/r/seduction19/12/18 01:07 PM
1

Yeah, pretty much sums it up.
/r/seduction14/12/18 10:30 PM
1

Don't be angry about it man. That anger is stemmed from jealousy, which is never good to have. Accept it and improve yourself. If you have muscles and money, looks don't matter worth a shit to girls. Do things that help you improve your confidence. Go out and talk to girls more. You have to put in the effort. Life isn't going to be fair, but people who seem to have nothing can bust their ass and acquire everything.
/r/seduction13/12/18 07:11 PM
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Dating sites are a load of bull. Too many thirsty guys, very few good women. All of whom are typically very picky, and only go for the hottest guys.
/r/seduction13/12/18 06:49 PM
1

First step requires the money I'm making right now. My career and financial improvement are more important than girls. But I get what you're saying.
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:51 PM
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Nah, it's because of my location and the fact that I'm out of practice. I'll solve both of those issue. Just wanted to know if anyone has gone through long dry seasons like this as well.
/r/seduction07/12/18 02:40 PM
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I live in a small town in Minnesota. It has about 20,000 people. It's about two hours from the cities.
/r/seduction07/12/18 01:54 PM
1

True. Dry season just sucks when you live far from anything and are typically busy. So shitty online dating is what I have to resort to. Oh well, until I move out, I'll just continue to hit the gym and focus on my career.
/r/seduction06/12/18 10:04 PM
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The amount of guys who don't know this stuff is astounding. The more sex you have, the more you pick up on it.
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:01 PM
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Stand your ground. Talk to more girls. Don't seem desperate going after her. Your best course of action is to convince her that she'd rather spend time with you than the other guy.
/r/seduction04/12/18 03:10 PM
6

Disagree on a couple of things, but the vast majority of what you said is true. Keep spreading the word to those who need to hear it.
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:56 AM
1

It could be anything honestly.
/r/seduction28/11/18 07:31 PM
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Basically, it means that you might be looking for confirmation that you can get girls rather wanting an actual girl.
/r/seduction28/11/18 06:45 PM
2

You think you could do better? Which is a sign you're looking for confirmation, not a girl.
/r/seduction28/11/18 01:42 PM
2

You might not be keeping them engaged when it comes to conversations. You have to have both the correct conversation and the vibe to match what you're saying. Keep talking to girls. You were beaten that night. If you really want some girls, pick yourself up and try again. Notice what you're doing when they start to seem disinterested and try to avoid that. You're a good looking dude, you've got the initial catch. Use that to your advantage as a boost to your confidence. Then refine your flirting…
/r/seduction22/11/18 01:57 PM
1

Probably approach them and see if they're interested. What's the worst you have to lose? Sometimes it's hard for guys, myself included, to tell the difference between a girl just being friendly and a girl who is actually interested in me.
/r/seduction22/11/18 01:53 PM
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Don't change who you are or how you act for the sake of getting girls. It shows a lack of confidence in yourself as a person, and is honestly rather pathetic regardless of how successful it is. If you feel that you personally cannot get girls because of some negative traits you have, then improve on said traits. Being yourself and improving yourself are not two different things.
/r/seduction22/11/18 01:49 PM
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