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Will do! How do I make it flirty though? I don’t wanna be just a guy friend.
/r/seduction07/09/18 04:38 PM
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Thanks! I also go to a school where a lot of people are married, and those that aren’t, don’t necessarily “take care of themselves”. I know this can only get me so far, but I want her to like me for me.
/r/seduction07/09/18 04:37 PM
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Thanks man! I was hoping upscale. All the guys like her and I’m confused why she likes me. She’s also super outgoing so I don’t wanna bore her to death.
/r/seduction07/09/18 04:16 PM
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Thanks but that never gets rid of a blank mind.
/r/seduction07/09/18 03:49 PM
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Thanks, man. When I take risks, I get euphoric and it feels great. After a while, though, I start to get stagnant again. I really think it's my area since I live in a secluded town for school.
/r/seduction08/05/18 01:51 PM
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How did you beat it?
/r/seduction08/05/18 10:59 AM
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I'll do that, man. My main goal is to just be more social. I fear rejection, and I still think about awkward moments at night from years ago. They're like scars that never heal.
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:01 PM
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Your post is inspirational, man - You're what I hope to become. I've come a long way since my childhood. I've taken public speaking, became a president for a school club w/ ~20 people, and have volunteered/interned. I still get anxious and self conscious, and I'm working on it. How did you deal w/ rejection? I ruminate it for years, and it's like a permanent scar. I can CBT all I want, but the rejection still stings.
/r/seduction07/05/18 10:59 PM
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Won't having a messed up approach ruin my rep. I live in a really small town, and if word spreads, then it'll affect future approaches.
/r/seduction07/05/18 10:55 PM
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I do that! It helps me calm down. The guy has a great voice too.
/r/seduction07/05/18 10:55 PM
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Im glad it worked well for your friend. I've been on anti anxiety meds in the past, but they dampened my emotions and turned me into a zombie.
/r/seduction07/05/18 07:56 PM
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I don't know. Any tips since you're a coach?
/r/seduction07/05/18 07:32 PM
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We got this!
/r/seduction07/05/18 06:39 PM
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Any tips?
/r/seduction07/05/18 06:39 PM
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Thanks. Care to help a brother out?
/r/seduction07/05/18 06:38 PM
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I've hit rock bottom many times, I pick myself up, and then stagnate at a comfort level.
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:56 AM
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I get this mentality, get rejected, and feel extremely shitty.
/r/seduction04/04/18 07:25 PM
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I understand, but I still remember awkward interactions from years ago. Logically, I can make sense of all the ridiculousness I'm saying but my self worth automatically diminishes.
/r/seduction04/04/18 07:19 PM
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I went monk for a couple of months last summer, and I did cringy af things like message girls I never met on insta, snap, fb. It got to a point where I felt it was creepy. I hit the gym about 5 times a week. I do a lot of cardio and do a full body workout. I downloaded mindspace, and I'll check it out this weekend.
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:57 PM
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For sure! It's just that I feel like I'm controlled by this. If I don't see an attractive girl check me out, I feel like shit. Weekends are like this since no one's on campus, everyone studies at home. I can't party since I have tests so often, and I need study hard to become a dentist.
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:55 PM
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Yeah I've reduced it in certain situations. The thing is, when I mess up a social interaction, I remember it years later. It sometimes wakes me up at night, despite knowing that nobody remembers the conversation except me.
/r/seduction22/02/18 10:54 PM
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I definitely have an emptiness inside of me, a darkness that I can't fill. I've tried therapy and meds, but it's still there. I need inner self help, but idk where to start.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:30 AM
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I need inner self help but Idk where to start. I downloaded a meditation app, which I'll give a go in the next few days.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:29 AM
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We got this meng! I hate also hate being alone, and away from female attention. I love the feeling, it's like an addiction - but at the same time...deep down, I feel enslaved.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:28 AM
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I've had terrible social anxiety my whole life. I couldn't approach if my life depended on it. I need help.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:27 AM
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We got this, meng. The female interest is a high that can't be beat. It just feel too damn good.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:27 AM
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My ego def needs to be sat down. I downloaded the app, and I'll give it a shot in a few days, thanks.
/r/seduction22/02/18 02:26 AM
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