Bobelle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to flirt with someone who can’t flirt back?	Logistics	Bobelle	/r/seduction	17/07/24 09:39 PM
0	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men	Debate	Bobelle	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:05 AM
0	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt?	Escalation & Calibration	Bobelle	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:00 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men With friendship you still get bonding	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 12:53 PM
3	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men I do not have sex with the men and this is such stupid vague unnecessary advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 09:50 AM
-1	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men Correction: I have never dated a man successfully. And I think that matters a lot because men go out of their way to make sure to insert themselves into women’s lives. Women do not do this to other people. So any woman that a man gets rejected by - he is the one who put in the work into making her a part of his life, but for a woman, the man just appears and is extremely persistent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 09:19 AM
0	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men I have never dated successfully.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 09:12 AM
8	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men I am sorry you have been physically assaulted and female predators are definitely an issue that isn’t being taken seriously but this has nothing to do with my post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 09:08 AM
2	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men Friendzone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 09:03 AM
4	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men Friendzone is not worst of both worlds especially for a woman because it means the man genuinely values her company and not just secretly waiting for the right moment to make a move. I am extremely wary of making male friends because of how many times we have been friends for months or years only to make a move on me. I honestly have felt rejected when a man has revealed that pretty much the entirety of our friendship has been a lie.. Rejection can mean you are undesirable for multiple things - …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:54 AM
1	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men No it isn’t. I first want to state that it is normal for a small percentage of the population to feel sexual chemistry preceding romantic chemistry but there is something deeply wrong with you if you truly believe it is normal for the average person to lose interest in a romantic relationship simply because sex was not brought up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:44 AM
3	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men I date women as well and they don’t do this shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:39 AM
7	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men No it is a man’s perspective because you are placing an inaccurate amount of value on sex. In fact with your logic, you could even say friendzoning is not rejection either because the men are valued for their personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:36 AM
2	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men But at least they end it properly. They don’t try and decieve to lead on	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:35 AM
1	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men But why would they try to lead me on instead of just ending it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:34 AM
2	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men Well a lot of Chads and non chads do not make it clear. Every time they make a move, I say I am seeking something serious, and they say - no problem, they are looking for the same thing, etc etc etc. And they end up disrespecting me anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:33 AM
4	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men I have been rejected for sex by a man before and it was not a big deal. It hurt for sure but it definitely was not worse than what I described in my post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:31 AM
11	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men You are looking at it from a man’s perspective. For a man, sex is difficult to obtain which means men attach a lot of value to it. So of course a man would not view sex as a rejection. Men in general would sleep with most women. Since men would sleep with most women, that makes sex extremely easy to obtain for at least 99% of women. Men are very willing to sleep with women they do not respect but the reverse isn’t necessarily true. This creates a dynamic where if a man is willing to have sex wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:29 AM
2	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men Dumping is very different from what I am talking about. I do the dumping because I notice their disrespectful behaviour. And I don’t have sex with these men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:22 AM
1	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men Good point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:20 AM
5	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men It is. Friendzone is rejection and so is fuckzone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:20 AM
1	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men Good point. I think because the men in my life are always like “men’s rejection is so bad - you will never know what that is like etc etc” when I would definitely prefer it to what I go through.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:18 AM
2	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men But this doesn’t negate my statement that women experience worse rejection than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:17 AM
1	The rejection that women go through is worse than that of men But it’s not because they know who I am. Otherwise I would have problems making male friends or friends in general - so I know my personality is not the problem. The frequency of times this has happened to me shows the men were set on behaving that way from the very start. Almost as if they were interested purely for the chase and didn’t care about what happened afterwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:15 AM
1	Why Don't I have a Date with a Woman Right Now? Is this supposed to be an insult or something? You should look into a diagnosis because you have symptoms of it	/r/seduction	12/10/24 01:08 PM
1	Why Don't I have a Date with a Woman Right Now? You can’t answer a question with a question	/r/seduction	12/10/24 11:59 AM
1	Why Don't I have a Date with a Woman Right Now? Are you autistic??	/r/seduction	12/10/24 10:25 AM
1	Seduction is not for everybody 5’8 isn’t super short tbh	/r/seduction	23/07/24 09:50 PM
1	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? We are not in the friendzone yet	/r/seduction	26/06/24 11:50 PM
2	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? Thanks!	/r/seduction	26/06/24 11:50 PM
2	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? Thank you!	/r/seduction	26/06/24 10:38 PM
1	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? I’ve only spoken to her for about 4 days. And both of us are slow to reply. she’s only just started opening up and she lives about a 2 hour train away from me. I should still ask her out?	/r/seduction	26/06/24 10:37 PM
1	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? Okay, what do I say?	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:59 PM
2	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? I don’t want to pump and dump nor do I want to have sex with her immediately. I just want to date her.	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:46 PM
1	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? Ok that’s true. What do I say?	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:40 PM
4	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? I honestly don’t know where to place her. She’s all over the place on purpose I believe. She’s in a masculine career, has gender neutral interests, dresses masculinely, is shy in an extremely feminine way, feminine hairstyles, etc. I’m also a bit androgynous in the sense that I dress femininely, but I flirt with women like a man (it’s masculine to chase women) So in this context, she dresses like a man, behaves like a woman. I dress like a woman, behave like a man. What do I do in this sort of s…	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:37 PM
0	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? We’re currently having a conversation about a project I’m working on so the conversation would be like: Her: Cool. You’re studying Geography right? Me: I’m trying to date you, not fuck you. I don’t want you to think I see you as something short term. I’m not seeing how this is beneficial..	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:26 PM
1	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? What do i say?	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:20 PM
1	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? I’m trying to date her though, not fuck her. I don’t want her to think i see her as something short term	/r/seduction	26/06/24 09:16 PM