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No offense man but yeah, you are acting like a bitch. Why are you asking other men what YOUR physical preference should be? I don’t give a single fuck what social standards tell me what is and isn’t attractive. “Do I want to fuck her, yes or no?” If you don’t want to fuck, then don’t fuck. If you want to fuck, then go fuck. But it is a stupid waste of time to ask other men if you should fuck. Like, grow a back bone and figure it out for yourself man.
/r/seduction31/10/22 09:06 PM
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Not delusional. You’ll just weed out a good portion of the population. Won’t meet these women in bars.
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:02 PM
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Naw dude, that’s a self fulfilling destructive philosophy. Trust me man, that type of talk isn’t productive. I’m telling you man, follow those steps I listed and you’ll get where you want to be. Do it in baby steps. Connecting emotionally comes with time. But you’re way to consumed with earning a woman’s approval. You have to do things for yourself. Be SELFISH with your time. Be OKAY saying “no, that doesn’t work for me”.
/r/seduction28/10/22 09:55 PM
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If you wouldn’t date yourself, why would a woman? The truth is there is no shortcut to being attractive. Most men straight up have terrible social skills when it comes to dating and it’s a muscle like everything else. You have to put genuine effort into your appearance. Wear adult clothes and ditch the band tshirts. Basic grooming. If you’re balding, just shave your head. If you have a patchy beard, go clean shave. When it doubt, keep it stupid short. For clothes, wear what fits and compliments …
/r/seduction28/10/22 09:36 PM
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Bro probably has herpes and he’s worried about whether he can eat pussy. SMH some people just have fucked up priorities.
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:31 AM
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Date older women. This is less of an issue as women get older. Younger women don't know what the fuck they're doing.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:21 PM
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Hey when a man's gotta eat, a man's gotta eat.
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:52 AM
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Lol hookers likely get tested at 4X the rate of tinder hoes. Not sure why the sub is shitting on OP. It's not that big of a deal.
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:16 AM
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No man because your advice is completely nonsensical. "The best seduction there is, is to get to her want you" -- I'm trying not to roll my eyes into my skull. You win Tinder game by having interesting photos, non-serious bio, and being funny/witty. Not complicated. Being good looking isn't even a thing. But your advice is just trying too hard.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:42 AM
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This is the stupidest fucking post I've ever read. How to say absolutely nothing while trying to pretend you're smarter than you are.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:36 AM
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1) This was a first date 2) If we're not meshing, the answer is no. I only go for a kiss if there is obvious chemistry. If she's touching me back frequently, I definitely will. If there's been no touching, then no.
/r/seduction10/06/22 02:04 PM
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Naw. You're projecting your insecurities. If you're vibing and the mood is there, just go for it. Most women will make it clear if they aren't into it. It only becomes an issue if you ignore them.
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:49 AM
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Sucks to suck.
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:45 AM
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If you both are aware "this is a date", if she's touching you frequently, if she's giving you extended eye contact, if she's holding your hand -- just go for it. In my date, when I put my hands on her hands and held them for just a couple of seconds, she then naturally would reach for my hands. I also moved us from different locations. So we went from sitting outside, to going to the bar, to walking by the lake. When she started following my lead after the bar and still didn't leave the date, it…
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:58 PM
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Bro if she'll cheat on her fucking husband, she definitely will cheat on you. If you have to ask this question, then the answer is yes. Don't justify shitty behavior.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:23 AM
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Once you pay for sex one time it changes your mentality. Pussy immediately loses it's power over you because you can tell yourself "if the night doesn't go good, I can just buy sex". It is an empowering feeling knowing that I can control the outcome of my night which transforms my interactions with women because I don't seek their approval and can just act myself. Don't worry about the negative stigma. Besides that, it'll make for a good story.
/r/seduction26/04/22 12:10 PM
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Be curious. Ask questions about experiences. Talk openly about yourself. Share stories. Share your opinion on things. Do an activity and talk about it. It gets easier with time.
/r/seduction22/04/22 02:44 AM
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You start first by stop saying the girl is out of your league. Then she becomes in your league.
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:23 PM
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You are trying way too hard to be edgy my guy. Chill.
/r/seduction06/04/22 04:30 AM
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Shaved my head completely and grew a beard. Chics fucking dig it. It's just a style man. Own it.
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:26 AM
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Oneitis isn't the answer. It's already been decided. Move on. I promise there are other women.
/r/seduction02/03/22 01:21 AM
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Naw, I'm moving on. No sense dwelling on it and I wouldn't get an honest answer even if I asked.
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:22 PM
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Naw, this comes off as shallow and looks bad as a personality flaw. "Don't be an asshole" is much better. I match with solid 8s daily and it isn't necessary to be edgy.
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:16 PM
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Yeah. I shaved my head and grew a full beard and wear clothes that fit me. Usually happens when I go to a bar and order an unusual drink but more often than not I just look approachable.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:21 AM
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Sounds like you have it all figured out then. Good luck.
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:43 PM
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You don't. You move on. I promise there will be others.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:10 AM
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This is beyond stupid. Don't actually do this. I feel dumber for having read this.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:08 AM
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You're not going to like this answer but you have to socialize more and get out there. There's not a magic bullet to avoid this. It gets much easier with time and experience.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:06 AM
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Check out /r/malelivingspace for idea and you'll see how to make your home more masculine and accommodating.
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:11 PM
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I don't need a female companion to have fun in Hawaii, which is the point of this post.
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:18 PM
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You shouldn't feel ashamed over your natural tendencies. It's not as big of a deal as you think it is.
/r/seduction18/01/22 03:14 PM
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Well you certainly give that vibe off. If you can't handle it then fuck off. There are guys here who aren't as lucky as you. So fuck you. Aren't as lucky? Luck has nothing to do with it. If you live in your basement, don't work out, don't eat right, don't have a backbone, aren't interesting, don't have an identity -- that's all on you why you're not successful with women. Like, ditch the band shirts, do basic grooming, pick up a hobby, read a few books, buy some clothes that fit, and don't have …
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:32 PM
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Lol what a useless post. So basically you're lazy and don't know how to date? Got it. If dating isn't enjoyable, don't do it. You ghosting women because you have poor judgement is a reflection on you bro, not them.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:05 PM
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Yeah I told her it was weird and that she should try to get a refund on her tickets. I decided to just go to Hawaii so I'm good either way.
/r/seduction11/01/22 09:44 PM
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It took me a year to grow a full beard. I'm not shaving it for anyone, especially not for pussy.
/r/seduction11/01/22 09:41 PM
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Yeah it really sketched me out, particularly because it came right after she paid the tickets. She started saying some things that were frankly odd and mid way into the conversation I started to regret planning the trip. Then she started going mute and non responsive to my messages and I was like I'm not going to be fucked off trying to figure this out. She's now blocked.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:20 PM
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I just assumed that if she agreed, she was down for the beard. No beard shaming.
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:44 PM
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She's memes you, clearly that must mean she wants the D. Lmao fucking Reddit man. Maybe she's just a cool broad.
/r/seduction21/12/21 12:21 AM
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Smile with your eyes.
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:48 PM
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So giving advice on having a good time makes me a fuck boy? Get over yourself loser.
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:48 PM
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Wow You guys in this thread are assholes. This man is calmly explaining a cultural difference, while being down voted and getting shit comments like yours which are absolutely no help at all. He's also not yet 40, and certainly not been trying for days for the past 40 years. A sub about seduction is filled w lots of narrow minded haters, that sucks. Naw man, cold truth sucks. He mentions he's ready to lose his virginity and then the first piece of advice that suggests exactly the thing he needs …
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:27 AM
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I'm in the UK, not really socially acceptable to approach strangers here. I'll have to try find some hobby groups No offense but that kind of thinking still has you a virgin, so maybe try something else.
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:23 AM
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Leave it alone.
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:49 AM
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Suggestion: stop texting her, it looks needy. Just ignore her for a while. Could be a few weeks, might even be a few months. Don't delete her number or social media. She'll either eventually come around on her own or she won't and you got your answer.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:57 PM
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I'll disagree completely with your argument but respect you have your opinions. I work in tech and see a ton of brilliant female minds that dwarf the intelligence of myself and many of my male peers. Likewise, I also have worked with founders that also were incredibly brilliant that are men. It's relative to whatever industry, not black and white.
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:49 PM
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Jesus Christ, get a grip man. That's such a loser mentality to have on life. Would you say that shit to your mother? Friends? I work with absolutely talented women in my life that I respect completely. My daughter is bright and wonderful and I fully hope she surpasses me. Don't be such a toxic asshole.
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:42 PM
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That's literally what they mean when they say "don't put pussy on a pedestal". Don't idolize women. They are your equal.
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:06 PM
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I live by myself. Doesn't matter your age but you've got to enjoy your own solidarity or else you're not going to be happy with someone else. There's a liberating feeling being able to go anywhere, anytime, and just not give a fuck about what happens. I'm also in my 30s. It's a state of mind.
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:05 PM
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So nobody is picking up women in the UK? Ever? It is so culturally shunned that there are absolutely no random one night stands ever?
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:42 AM
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Just be direct and ask her for drinks. Don't complicate it.
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:45 AM
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No woman will ever think you're less of a man for changing plans.
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:40 AM
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"Hey let's just go to the pool and I'll grill" Be flexible.
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:40 AM
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In order to get sex multiple times, you have to get it in the first place. Pedastalizing women is a great way to ensure that you don't. Best case scenario is she'll hold on on you for a few months if you abuse the cell phone. ​ A basic game concept is not to give her much attention until she has earned it. Giving a woman free attention thru texting is no different than any other kind of simpage, like buying drinks for a girl you just met, or complimenting a girl about her looks. Who said anythin…
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:59 PM
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Anyone can have a one night stand bub. It's getting sex multiple times with the same woman that matters more, in my opinion.
/r/seduction22/06/21 03:24 PM
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It takes experience to read into the situation. I also lay the groundwork ahead of time by building comfort before we're even on a date, so I feel confident I know my kiss is going to be received. Example. Went on a date with a single mom. I called her twice in the week leading up to the date, talked for an hour. Before even arriving to the date, she immediately felt comfortable with me and everything flowed much more organically and unforced. Of course if you don't establish any form of rapport…
/r/seduction21/06/21 04:27 PM
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I disagree completely about phone calls. I've had multiple fantastic dates where I set up rapport through phone conversation that led to the woman immediately feeling at ease with me once we hopped on a date. In fact, you increase your chances of them flaking if you aren't developing comfort.
/r/seduction21/06/21 04:21 PM
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Make a point to call them. Seriously. Nobody calls anymore and most women are down for it. It's so much easier to build rapport through a verbal conversation than text. Once you've built the foundation for comfort THEN it's cool to text. Conversations can be however long you want. I found the sweet spot around 20-30 minutes, then bounce. I've also had 2 hour conversations. It's whatever feels natural at the moment. After you've had one or two calls, it's not necessary to try to have full fledge …
/r/seduction21/06/21 04:18 PM
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Don't go for the kiss on the good bye. Go for it earlier on the date or don't. Going at the last moment is a sign of weakness. It communicates: "we had a date, I will now go for the kiss in the hope you like me, if you don't go for the kiss I can quickly walk away and say bye, hoping to save a bit of face" During the date there never will be a perfect opportunity for a kiss but if you feel the vibes are somewhat there, go for it. Waiting til the end of a date to make the kiss this all important …
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:36 PM
1

I met my current girlfriend from the cube. It's pretty powerful stuff.
/r/seduction24/05/21 02:21 PM
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Naw. It's a completely 1 sided dynamic. OP has made his case clear that he is attracted. She decided she is not interested in maintaining a relationship in that manner and he is absolutely in his right to not entertain being a friend when that's not what he wants. This serves as having self respect for yourself. Being friends with someone when you have an agenda is disingenuous. Best to separate.
/r/seduction18/05/21 06:06 AM
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No joke, hit up Target at 10am on any weekday. Soccer mom's, everywhere.
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:31 AM
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You're trying way too hard. Chill.
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:31 AM
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I disagree. A lot of comfort is built beforehand. I find women are more likely to ghost if you aren't developing rapport at all. Text to build mystery. Do a phone call. Go on date. Not texting isn't really good advice.
/r/seduction04/03/21 01:29 PM
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