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Field ReportBodegaz/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 01:07 AM
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Bodegaz/r/seduction25/07/14 08:47 AM
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FundamentalsBodegaz/r/seduction16/02/20 07:40 AM
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White knoghting is helping a woman in hope that it wins her affection and is some of the saddest shit out there. This is coming from an ex red piller. Helping someone that genuinely needs help and is in danger regardless of gender is just human decency and should be done if possible.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 06:35 AM
8

Do whatever the fuck you want. I say this is the perfect time to get your fuck on. All the girls are bored at home.
/r/seduction18/04/20 10:22 AM
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Anti depressants will ruin your sex drive. I love sex and since I started antidepressants it has been very difficult to orgasm. I still want sex all the time but findit harder to stay hard and harder to cum. He can get Viagra from the doctor or switch anti depressants.
/r/seduction15/01/20 01:48 AM
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Find a balance between them all. Improve yourself to the point you don't have to fake things like being unavailable when you actually are.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/20 10:43 AM
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me too. I connect a lot better in one on one situations and have more control.
/r/seduction21/12/19 06:29 PM
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Don't chase with shitty game. Chasing with good game = gaming.
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:43 PM
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I am 29 and I still live at home, but I own a condo that I am renting out so I am also a landlord. My parents let me stay there while I finish school. My gf works fulltime and has her own place, so we hangout there and she lets me sleep over sometimes. She makes fun of me for still living at home but she knows I got my shit together and when I am done school and get a job, I can return to providing for myself. Basically for a LTR, if a girl likes you a lot she won't mind if you still live at hom…
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:58 PM
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TL DR?
/r/seduction10/11/19 02:06 AM
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The pretty standard opener is "Hey i know this is super random, but I think youre really cute.. im blah blah, whats your name?"
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:51 AM
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Then just go for it from the get go. No need to play these obvious games leading up to it. I just kiss when I feel like it.
/r/seduction18/10/19 04:34 PM
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You want to kiss me right now Her : doesn't drink.
/r/seduction18/10/19 02:52 PM
3

So stop initiating contact basically?
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:28 PM
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Sup
/r/seduction03/10/19 06:01 PM
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Just send her a funny meme. Or snap her something funny.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:12 PM
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This is great. Thank you for sharing this.
/r/seduction20/09/19 05:28 PM
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So it basically just takes longer to seduce or is there a working method
/r/seduction20/09/19 05:28 PM
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Why would that be a huge red flag? Maybe she is super hot, made herself vulnerable and was hurt in the end.
/r/seduction20/09/19 04:58 PM
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Just theory-crafting here. What if the girl went through a major change, like cutting off her long hair for example. Something crucial to remind herself to never be hurt again, etc.
/r/seduction20/09/19 04:52 PM
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Yeah. There are stories where the girl claims she didn't like the guy at first then for some reason she gives him a chance then they end up getting married
/r/seduction20/09/19 10:53 AM
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Non-available in my area. What do?
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:36 PM
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Getting a phone number doesnt mean shit. SquattinCasanova did a video where he went to the mall and got like 100 phone numbers in like 4 hours. Maybe you made her day, made her have fun, or boosted her self esteem infront of her friends. It only counts when you smash that pussy. Overall, I'd say you are headed in the right direction. Be able to approach and get a number already sets you apart from the average male.
/r/seduction27/07/19 03:18 AM
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Just say the word SEX. Sometimes when they ask me what I like to do, I drop the SEX word right away. For example, "I play video games, watch movies, workout, have sex ;), work on my car. What about you?". It usually catches them off guard and they are like "wtf lol". Then they know I am pretty comfortable with my sexuality. I usually do something similar when I get a "friend zone" vibe. I say "are you trying to friend zone me? that's not happening no way". It works sometimes but sometimes there …
/r/seduction30/06/19 12:30 AM
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This is all waaaay to planned and smart girls will know you are doing all this to smash her tonight and either never call again or call after you fail at other girls. Also, this date sounds like a lot of effort and money spent. You are setting the bar pretty high for future dates. Best first date IMO is grabbing a coffee and going for a walk somewhere nice like along the beach or river or park. You're just getting to know each other and meeting for the first time. Things shouldn't be taken too s…
/r/seduction09/06/19 07:50 AM
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Yeah, there is a huge problem because of online dating. I have met girls that have POF and they showed me their account. As soon as they go online, they are immediately bombarded by messages. Every girl that is not mentally retarded or over 300 pounds pretty much has access to unlimited dick. Basically, women have the upper hand, when it comes to hook ups and abundance. However, finding love is different. They can get dick easy, but finding a man of value to stick around is more difficult. Also,…
/r/seduction12/05/19 02:39 AM
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I hate how we gotta do all this just to keep a girl attracted. This is why I am forever single. As soon as you get lazy and let your guard down, its over.
/r/seduction11/05/19 11:31 AM
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No, but id be down, just for the story :)
/r/seduction11/05/19 12:25 AM
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For me I respect them less if they give it up easily. Most of my relationships, she didn't give it up right away. If she is willing to put out that easily, what's stopping her from giving it up to someone else?
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:16 PM
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Pretty much sums up what I have been doing for the most part. It gets boring after awhile, because you know this routine works 90% of the time. If the girl doesn't give it up, it's annoying because it is supposed to work. If the girl does give it up, then you dont respect her because she's just like every other girl, easy. I pretty much follow the same routine. Pick girl up or meet, usually for coffee. Order coffee, sit down and chat for a bit, suggest to go for a walk, have fun conversation, es…
/r/seduction10/05/19 04:26 AM
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shell get over it. and who cares. she can get dick anytime she wants. 99% of the guys shes swipes right on, she will match with.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/19 01:59 PM
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act like a dick and make her dump you. I am trying to get away from TRP, but I still think that damaged women are bad news and a waste of time. Up to you what you want for your future.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/19 01:20 PM
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But playing games is literally the only thing I still enjoy in life other than food and sex :(
/r/seduction24/04/19 05:15 AM
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I feel the same way man. However, game has gotten me laid a lot over the past 6 years. I wasn't able to settle yet still.
/r/seduction06/04/19 08:27 AM
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Not sure. Wouldn't reciprocated oneitis be good? Given they are both healthy and same levels?
/r/ExRedPill29/03/19 10:17 PM
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Workout for yourself, not others.
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:14 PM
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"Whatever youre smoking, I want some"
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:34 AM
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so you think. you dont know whats going on in her mind.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/19 06:50 PM
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I dont know if I agree with that. My last relationship the sex wasn't that great tbh. I left because of that and also I saw some red flags. At the same time, I did a lot of RP concepts like investing less. I'm wondering if my RP actions caused her to react a certain way.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/19 12:35 AM
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I've seen it and I agree. TRP made me kind of toxic and bitter towards women. I think most women are generally similar in nature, but we just have to accept that and somehow embrace it(?).
/r/ExRedPill08/03/19 11:01 PM
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How to not pay for everything when she never offers?
/r/seduction08/03/19 09:45 PM
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I think redpill concepts work on damaged women. And that is the flaw in itself is that it seeks out damaged women and works on damaged women.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/19 08:08 PM
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I just dumped my gf
/r/seduction15/02/19 05:46 AM
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My hobby was mostly fucking random girls. She was one of them that wanted more than fuck buddies and I invested.
/r/seduction01/02/19 09:17 PM
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She has yeah. But she cooks for me sometimes,. Let's me sleep over. Is available whenever I want to hangout and puts out prettty much everytime I want some. She farts infront of me too now and we make fun of each other.
/r/seduction01/02/19 09:15 PM
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Gotta keep her interested and attracted. Too much comfort can kill the attraction.
/r/seduction01/02/19 08:57 AM
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I grew up conservative. Went through a bulk of women after learning how to and gaining confidence. After awhile it gets old and repetitive. It also desensitized me. I've seen tons of women. I've had girls cheat on they man, give me head in public and on campus, etc. I hardly get impressed and excited anymore. I met a girl recently and decided to give a relationship a try after she asked me if we would ever be more than fuck buddies. Few months after now, I am bored and uncomfortable. Relationshi…
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:04 PM
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"Hey im omw now" She either responds with okay, or a time.
/r/seduction05/01/19 07:39 PM
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Well when a girl has sex with you, especially if unprotected. She is essentially giving you everything and opening up. At this point she is vulnerable. Unless she is a super slut. But, that can be ruled out if she spends a lot of time with you or wants to.
/r/seduction29/12/18 02:28 AM
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How to know if she likes you: she sucks ur dick
/r/seduction28/12/18 04:42 PM
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Not worth.
/r/seduction09/12/18 04:06 PM
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only woman that will love unconditionally is your mother and your dog
/r/ExRedPill08/11/18 02:48 AM
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So would you switch up when a rich athletic doctor asked you out? Probably. Unless ur unattractive.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/18 06:22 AM
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Whats wrong with meeting outside of school for coffee then fucking? Keep school seperate.
/r/seduction12/10/18 12:09 PM
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How does her boob touch your leg when kneeling down? Can someone draw a pic please?
/r/seduction12/10/18 12:08 PM
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Thanks, this is solemn advice.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 05:58 AM
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This was my strategy: I assume she is crazy infatuated with me. I withdraw my attention and presence from her as a punishment for not taking the pill and lying to me. I threaten that I will seize to exist in her reality if she does not take the pill. She messages me on Snapchat because I blocked her on Facebook. She apologizes on Snapchat blah blah. I tell her clear and concise that she breached my trust and to not contact me ever again until she can provide me proof that she took the pill. She …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:03 PM
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Your right about my poor judgement. What makes her crazy is that she WANTS to be pregnant meanwhile disregarding all rational thought.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:14 AM
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Can you expand on the your statement about women needing the mans consent in regards to going through with pregnancy? Is this true? If so, this is new to me?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 05:17 AM
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For research purposes. How did he convince her to get an abortion?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:23 AM
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I know, that is why I wanted her to take the plan B. How does it work for example if you hook up with a girl from another state in the bathroom of the bar. She gets pregnant and knows pretty much nothing about you other than your face?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:14 AM
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Already tried. She repeatedly told me, she "wants" a baby. Doesn't care if I am around or not or will support financially. She's crazy. I should have known better.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 02:46 AM
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My self esteem when I am at the gym drops pretty low because I look so small compared to all the other guys. Makes approaching the 10s at the gym pretty hard.
/r/seduction03/09/18 09:26 PM
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No, it means you're inexperienced and had no real father figure.
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:51 PM
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Please elaborate? Also, don't they have tinder/some kind of substitute?
/r/seduction15/08/18 10:37 PM
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Do you get desensitized to emotions/sex? I feel I have. I literally dont even know how to love anymore from all the meaningless sex. Even when I go on dates now, if they are not willing to give me head or get sexual within the first few hours, I am getting irritated and about to go "next!".
/r/seduction15/08/18 09:54 PM
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abundance mentality literally
/r/seduction11/08/18 06:46 AM
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What time works for you? *<no response>* I could do 7:30 PM I love how he switches it up and takes the lead because she wasn't responding haha
/r/seduction02/08/18 06:49 PM
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Patrice O'neal is red pill and he gets a lot of action. There is definitely some truth to red pill, but don't take it all and become bitter. find a middle ground.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/18 04:41 AM
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find a middle ground, red pill has some truths.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/18 05:26 PM
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I read the comment post that you suggested. Thank you for breaking it down. It makes a lot of sense to me. I was at the point of basically discovering what you said, but you compiled it together and basically solidified my understanding.
/r/seduction01/05/18 05:08 AM
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Hey man, this resonates with me. I have to act/behave a certain way to increase my chance of getting laid. If I was to be my true self, the chance of getting laid significantly decreases. Obviously I am not a true natural, but through experience I have learned. As a result, I don't even respect women anymore, because their behaviour is controlled/a result of what I am doing. I already know the outcome before I even cause it.
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:02 AM
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Just say yes
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:23 AM
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90% of youtube videos these days.
/r/seduction11/04/18 02:20 AM
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You're always gonna get that feeling of wanting to fuck other women. I don't think it will ever leave you especially after you reach a certain level and have been with many different women. It all boils down to how much you love/care about this person. IMO.
/r/seduction27/03/18 02:31 AM
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I've been with a few escorts in the past. The sex is terrible because they are not genuinely attracted to you they are just trying to get that money so they tend to rush you. Their pussies also aren't naturally wet and their moans are usually faked and its so obvious especially if you've been with many women. Basically, it is a waste of money and the sex isn't as good as you think it is. The best sex is usually the ones that you earn/deserve. The blow jobs are usually worth it, but the sex is us…
/r/seduction25/03/18 11:31 PM
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I agree, waste of money. Most of them will be dry as fuck and rush you to finish, etc. it will also make you lazy as fuck to go out and get better. I'd rather recommend you to lower your standards and game on fat/ugly girls and work your way up to someone you're happy with.
/r/seduction29/10/17 03:35 AM
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initiate hangout -> sex if reject again, make nothing of it and move on.
/r/seduction17/09/17 09:42 AM
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im kind of the same. I think its because I've had so many easy lays
/r/seduction15/07/17 07:12 AM
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How is this relevant
/r/seduction15/05/17 06:00 AM
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This. Try to get an older lady to bang you, if you are young. Wasnt really a challenge for me, but you get the gist.
/r/seduction29/03/17 07:55 AM
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TL:DW?
/r/seduction03/03/17 06:48 AM
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It's a neg. Are you people really that triggered by such an unimportant statement from such an unimportant individual?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 06:12 AM
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You just played out. You're bored of how the game works. You've probably bored of doing the same thing and it works to get you laid. You probably wanna just be lazy and comfortable with a girl you like. Maybe you've matured and it's not just about increasing your lay count. I'm 27 now and I don't really like to party or anything anymore. I'd take. Cuddling at home over going to a crowded bar full of mini skirts.
/r/seduction08/12/16 05:07 AM
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Hi
/r/seduction19/11/16 10:29 AM
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Well put. And I completely agree. I was using the terms to better explain myself. The previous poster was explaining what he "would have said" vs what he "actually said" in response to his partner.
/r/seduction10/08/16 04:38 PM
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Always be alpha, but you don't have to act tough all the time and be all secretive. It's okay to open up and show kindness/empathy. You don't have to treat everything like a shit test. But definitely have the mindset that you have more value (which is true in the long run) and that she is replaceable if she steps out of line.
/r/seduction10/08/16 03:07 PM
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I think the key is to have mixed qualities of alpha and beta. You can't be alpha all the time and do what you "usually do", it will get annoying over time and there would never be enough trust built to take the relationship anywhere beyond sex imo. Too much beta makes you seem needy. The key is to have a health combination of the two. (IMO)
/r/seduction10/08/16 07:32 AM
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What if she wants to lead (Shes the one doing the chasing)
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 10:54 AM
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For a LTR, yes. She is submissive and I can do whatever I want. For marriage? I don't know. Never been married.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 06:03 PM
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I do lose respect for her because she puts up with my bullshit. But at the same time I respect her for being able to deal with it if that makes sense. It's almost like a women loses respect for her husband for being a beta provider guy. But also respects him for sacrificing his "manly interests" for the betterment of the family.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 12:13 PM
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I believe what OP is trying to explain is his way of shit testing women. He tests women by changing his behaviour from being that "Alpha" to a regular normal guy and see how her behavior changes. I also test my girls in a similar fashion. After the girl sleeps with me a few times and she's hooked, I would purposely act like a complete dick to see what I can get away with. Basically, I would be an asshole and see how much she would put up with to stay with me (aggressively push away til she break…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 10:59 AM
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Because she probably doesn't feel anywhere near the same yet. I've showed emotions and even teared up/cried a little during a serious relationship talk before. It's normal to have emotions, it depends how you express it. Also, it takes mad courage for a man to show his soft side. Be proud of yourself for taking the leap. If she finds it unattractive that a man has emotions then she will probably hop from Chad to another Chad and eventually wonder why she can't keep someone good.
/r/seduction16/05/16 09:56 AM
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"What's his name?" "YOU LIAAAAR!" then storm off
/r/seduction14/05/16 08:45 AM
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This is why I think it is important to test your girls by going "chode mode" for a bit and see how they respond. Do this early on and continue to test. If they stand by you and support you early on, chances are they will also in the future and long run.. I try to keep a balanced mix of being a boss and being a bitch. I think that if you're alpha 99% of the time and when that 1% of beta shows, she will think that you have changed forever. But if you bounce back and forth from beta to alpha, it wi…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 05:40 AM
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That why you find a girl that likes you at your lowest point. Or act like a total chode for a month and see how she reacts.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 08:10 AM
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If you want to get over your ex. Challenge yourself. Make it your goal to please your new man. That's how you get over an ex as a girl and this how you keep a man happy and make him yours. If you please him confidently, he won't need to go elsewhere.
/r/seduction12/04/16 12:14 PM
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It may or may not be. I'm just saying OP is looking for something serious and it seems a lot of people were giving ONS advice.
/r/seduction29/03/16 06:44 PM
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Guys, he's looking for love. He's probably tired of playing the field and just getting laid. He wants to settle down with someone who loves him and shit. I'm in the same boat. Been playing the field for a few years and have slept with all kinds of women. Tbh I'm kinda tired and starting to look for someone to settle with.
/r/seduction29/03/16 09:35 AM
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IMO you will always want to fuck other girls. Just like your girl will always have fantasies of being gorilla fucked by several guys she sees everyday. But at the end of the day you have self control.
/r/seduction27/03/16 05:03 PM
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Not sure. But I met a girl about 9 months ago. I have the tendency to over neg over a long period of time. I think she went from high self esteem to low self esteem. I guess it worked out since I did get laid, almost every time we spent time together. I kinda feel bad and I am not sure how to bring her self esteem back up now. I was quite the asshole/jerk to her for awhile, not sure why she even put up with me, at this point I think being friendly/nice will make her believe that I am "faking/not…
/r/seduction19/03/16 12:20 PM
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"Introduce new people to your friends"
/r/seduction19/03/16 12:00 PM
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I text this: "If you're not interested just say so, I can take it, I'm a big boy" Text/communicate that early in the relationship. Judge by their response or lack thereof, and react accordingly.
/r/seduction14/03/16 06:31 AM
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WHY
/r/seduction05/03/16 12:08 PM
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Cons: No kids. I want to eventually start a family and create 1-3 mini me's
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 07:06 AM
1

Where can someone get their hands on some Beta Blockers? Beta blockers Vs Phenibut?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 10:49 AM
2

Trenbolone Where can someone get their hands on some?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 10:48 AM
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Hmm I met a girl that has a great personality, smart, etc. Nice face, perfect skin, nice ass, but small tits. I don't think it's gonna workout because I'm a shallow ass motherfucker.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 05:22 AM
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As of right now you're not getting laid. Things can't get worse than that. It's like when you see desperate poor people committing crimes because they have nothing left to lose. That's why nofap works for many people because it "starves" your sexual hunger to the point where your "survival instincts" kick in because you need to "eat".
/r/seduction30/01/16 07:03 PM
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What about if you want to progress the relationship? A girl assumed I wasn't interested in her or what goes on in her life because I never seemed to "care".
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:17 AM
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If it is an ongoing thing. I usually get them to come over to my place first, then I'll drive us somewhere to eat or something. This way it guarantees we come back to place for "Dessert".
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:51 AM
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TBH I've become pretty desensitized and cold after going RP and getting so many easy free lays. I've been dropping plates for no reason. I think I need some monk mode.
/r/seduction03/01/16 03:25 PM
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I mean, I would like them to leave after the sex. I feel uncomfortable actually spending the entire night sleeping with someone I have no feelings for. I let a girl spend the night one time and I couldn't fall asleep for hours. It was pretty uncomfortable.
/r/seduction03/01/16 01:11 PM
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What did you do for NYs? Nothing :)
/r/seduction01/01/16 07:24 AM
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Shit test in front of her mom and sister: Babe would you be mad if I stopped wearing makeup? My response: If you even cut your hair shorter than shoulder length...It will be over between us. So you looked like a dick in front of everyone. Should have used agree and amplify. Didn't he? seemed pretty amplified to me. I say he should of amplified it even further by telling her he would kill her if she stopped wearing the slightest make up.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 09:24 AM
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Imo running night game alone kinda sucks and i wouldnt recommend for beginner. You can if you want but i prefer day game. Example, talk to people when you run your errands. Also online dating did wonders in building my confidence.
/r/seduction23/12/15 09:17 AM
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Well I could care less if I came off as a douche or not if I didnt like the girl. In fact even better, because I don't want her contacting me again. If she was high quality, i would go down all day.
/r/seduction20/12/15 04:57 AM
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I dont usually go down unless i actually really like the girl, like girlfriend material. If it is just casual i let her go down
/r/seduction19/12/15 09:06 AM
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If you ugly, you better be muscular and tough.
/r/seduction09/12/15 08:05 AM
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All games set aside, I would.
/r/seduction05/12/15 01:35 PM
1

Thanks. I believe I have been doing most if not all the mentioned points. How can I reward her? Should I be open about my affairs if she asks or simply ignore? (She keeps suggesting that I am getting a lot of pussy. Which I have been. But I usually just brush it off with a "yup")
/r/seduction01/12/15 11:20 AM
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I am in a situation where we are friends with benefits. I wanted a serious relationship but that is not possible because of her religion. However I feel she keeps trying to lead me on and trying to get me to invest by pleasuring me very well and doing wifey things like cleaning my place for me. I've been treating her like shit to try to get her to hate me and go away but it is making her act more affectionate to try and "keep me". What should I do if I want to date? Also, wtf is her deal? Did sh…
/r/seduction01/12/15 07:40 AM
0

Shy girls are the easiest to escalate. Escalate = manly, Manly = turns them on. Just keep escalating. They are shy because they are probably inexperienced. Inexperienced girls = naive/easy lays as douchey as it sounds. But that's from my experience.
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:17 AM
2

IMO there isnt anything wrong with being a sweet/nice guy. Just make sure she earns it. ITT every girl deep down wants a badass that will buy her flowers and shit. So don't completely lose your sweet/nice guyness. Instead, develop your inner badass.
/r/seduction24/10/15 07:54 AM
7

ME TOO. I dont have any real friends either. I am either with a girl or alone.
/r/seduction27/09/15 07:54 AM
1

I have this same problem.
/r/seduction11/08/15 07:49 AM
4

This is how you deal with shit tests. "mhmm" continue doing whatever the fuck you want
/r/seduction26/07/15 07:50 AM
0

Take steroids?
/r/seduction28/06/15 09:52 AM
1

This is pretty true. However, there are lots of guys out there that will kick their women to the curb when they are tired of them.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 02:12 AM
-1

Whats the point in reading it when you just told us the main message behind it.
/r/seduction30/05/15 09:31 AM
0

She's just an idiot that's all.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:56 PM
2

How old is your mom? I know when people reach a certain age they start to feel like it is time to settle. My biggest fear is getting to a certain age and still not have found my "perfect partner".
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 02:13 AM
1

I can take rejections. I hate when they just stop responding to texts due to whatever reason. I hate when they play games. If they do any of these things I automatically assume they are immature.
/r/seduction06/05/15 08:53 AM
1

I think I've been going through the same thing. I get bored extremely quick and easy now. Have you been successful for some time now? Maybe you need to start working on other aspects of your life like your career, some hobbies, skills, etc.
/r/seduction03/05/15 08:23 AM
2

I kinda agree and I kinda don't. It really is hit and miss depending on the girl IMO. I've had a girl tell me she thought I wasn't "invested" and then realized she didn't want a relationship or anything at all when I kept texting to a minimum. I've also had a girl flat out stop responding to me when I kept in touch often via texting..
/r/seduction02/05/15 11:29 AM
-6

I think all girls like attention. Even girls who claim they are "independent".
/r/seduction24/04/15 02:45 PM
3

I think all girls like attention. Even girls who claim they are "independent".
/r/seduction24/04/15 02:45 PM
1

I havent been in a relationship in awhile. But one reason I would consider having a relationship is if the girl is somewhat decent when it comes to values, morals, dreams, and goals. Oh and also, I am so tired of using condoms during sex.
/r/seduction11/04/15 09:11 AM
1

"oh yeah totally. You can like change infront of me n shit"
/r/seduction09/04/15 11:42 AM
1

I agree with you that sex is fun. But I see a clear difference when a girl sleeps with me within an hour of coffee vs actually getting to know me for a little. Since I've been with so many girls who just give it up so quickly. I just feel that I respect a lady that can resist my charm, I guess.
/r/seduction07/04/15 12:08 PM
2

That hurts man. Why?
/r/seduction07/04/15 08:44 AM
1

That makes sense. So if I wanted to give off a vibe that I would like to have a serious committed relationship with no side bitches. How would I do that without coming off as needy and "too nice"?
/r/seduction07/04/15 03:07 AM
0

My last Gf waited months until I finally made it "official" by bringing it up. We were doing everything besides fucking for several months. What did I do wrong, that she never asked?
/r/seduction06/04/15 08:37 PM
-1

My last Gf waited months until I finally made it "official" by bringing it up. We were doing everything besides fucking for several months.
/r/seduction06/04/15 08:37 PM
0

Well true but I think there are levels to this shit. Like there are some girls where I barely have to even try and she still lets me hit it. Where as some I have to try a little bit harder. Some takes a few minutes, hours, dates, etc.
/r/seduction06/04/15 08:32 PM
1

I've been treating her like a GF.
/r/seduction06/04/15 08:30 PM
1

Has anyone mentioned Napoleon Bonaparte? I mean they named an ice cream after him.
/r/seduction24/03/15 09:06 AM
3

TLDR: Confidence = not afraid of failure.
/r/seduction22/03/15 10:02 AM
1

Impossible to be "The best option". There are simply TOO MANY options, and that goes for women as well.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 09:51 AM
26

Did she show up? lol
/r/seduction15/03/15 02:24 AM
-3

I forced myself to fuck a 1 once. Now I get laid ALL THE TIME ;)
/r/seduction05/03/15 08:52 AM
4

Whenever I'm bored. Probably not the answer youre looking for though. I like to keep in contact with as many girls as possible, good looking or not. Just like girls like to text for attention and when they are bored. I just do the same.
/r/seduction16/02/15 11:44 PM
1

I had bad acne when I was a kid. I've seen people with worse acne, but mine was a lil more severe than average. It really brought me down and lowered my self esteem. Im a good looking guy with pretty good facial features. Acne really brings down my SMV perceived by other people, and also my confidence. I've been on Accutane over 4 times. When I have no acne, I am constantly getting IOIs. When I breakout really bad I just stay in and get depressed.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 08:31 PM
-1

My mom does. Source: My dad.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 05:07 AM
0

Yeah, just fuck them then dont tell anyone.
/r/seduction06/01/15 09:50 AM
-2

Listen guys... You gotta do both. You gotta stand your ground. But sometimes when shes upset and sad, you gotta comfort her. Don't be predictable. Mix it up. I did this unintentionally when I didnt know about TRP. I was getting laid 1-3 times a day everyday for over a year. I got away with some of the most ridiculous shit. I dumped her because I got bored of the sex. She texted me like 2 months later and wanted to meet up for coffee. We met up and she wanted to get back together and offered to "…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 04:33 AM
1

This is NOT always true. Some girls may think that you are being "too aggressive" or "trying too hard". It really depends on the girl and every girl you meet you gotta play it by ear.
/r/seduction17/12/14 05:18 AM
1

TL DR: Stay trendy
/r/seduction12/12/14 07:31 AM
1

Id put on male cologne then spray perfume on a cloth and wipe it around my neck and dick. Then walk up to bitches and be all my neck in your face n shit. feel? that make them bitches wanna take a mad whiff and get all horny after.
/r/seduction07/12/14 03:03 AM
2

Wear ladies perfume. what?
/r/seduction07/12/14 01:55 AM
4

Be direct IMO. Everyone knows you wanna fuck her/thinks shes attractive. Otherwise you wouldnt even look at her. Save time. Be direct IMO. "This is completely random, but I thought you were really cute and was just wondering who you are. I'm [insert name here]. shake hand" Or After regular conversation with a waitress or someone that's helping you in retail "This is completely random, but I thought you were really cute and was wondering if I could get your number and we could grab a coffee somet…
/r/seduction01/12/14 08:52 AM
3

Hey I feel the same and would like to know as well. From my experience, a lot of them get nervous when I ask them questions about themselves. Maybe they feel they are lesser value? I went out with this girl and she could barely look me in the eye, she was literally looking straight while I sat diagonal to the side of her during coffee.
/r/seduction28/11/14 07:42 AM
1

Exactly. I ain't gonna get charged for assault or get my nose broken over some skank I can replace in literally a days notice. So what's more alpha gais? Giving a damn? or not giving a damn?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 10:41 PM
3

Lol your condoning murder within a nightclub over a girl?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 05:10 PM
6

My inner game might not be James Bond yet. But, it's a fact that I will never be a "buff dude". Doesn't mean I am scared of buff dudes. Most of them are pussies that can't hold eye contact.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 03:24 AM
11

This is my biggest nightmare. I have genetically small. But I am definitly toned and ripped as fuck. No matter how much I lift, there will always be a bigger nordic or west african guy.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 02:51 AM
5

Foreigners should be careful when they are in an asian country that places high value is being polite and what not. Have a Thai friend from Pattaya that told me his buddy ran up and knee'd a foreigner in the face for being drunk and disrespectful to women in a tourist area and had to hide from police. The foreigner was in a coma for awhile. Not sure what happened after.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:36 PM
1

Oh yah, I believe it aswell. I turn heads and get deer in the headlights look sometimes. As a guy, that is a good thing for me.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 07:44 PM
1

You can't trust these types of videos. People will do anything these days for views and money.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 02:40 PM
-5

Fake as fuck. For entertainment purposes. The last bit where the girl did a complete 180 with her body and her bf or friend physically readjusts her? seriously.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 08:51 AM
9

But I just wanna smoke weed, play video games, and have sex with 10s all day....
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 03:20 AM
0

TL DR: Be tough and strong.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 12:39 AM
1

You can always just go direct and block everyone else out if you dont plan on staying for awhile. Like I didn't have any goal in mind in the first place. I was just out with a friend, and just having a good time approaching people and getting failed on.
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:18 AM
1

Yeah, its not the first. I think i have a thing for girls that are a little bit tomboyish. Over half of my pulls are girls that are bisexual. I still have yet to get down on a threesome though.
/r/seduction27/10/14 03:33 AM
7

I approached a girl that was in a group of like 6 people waiting to cross the street at a crosswalk. There was a couple girls and a couple guys. I was outside on the street corner eating a sandwhich and had a cup of cafe mocha or something. I was with a buddy. I had just gotten the phone number of the asian girl who was taking my order. I approached the white girl on the corner with my oh so original opener. Got her attention, said "This is gonna be random but I thought you were cute and was won…
/r/seduction26/10/14 09:05 PM
3

No one cares.
/r/seduction26/10/14 02:16 AM
1

Similar here. Escalate till they ignore you. The theory is "Go hard or go home". Basically burn the set to the ground.
/r/seduction25/10/14 05:34 AM
2

I think just wait it out. Texting again looks desperate as fuck.
/r/seduction25/10/14 05:11 AM
2

Wanna feel like a man? Move to Afghanistan.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:14 AM
2

That is a little over the top tbh. I think no porn, masturbation, working out, and carrying on with daily life is good enough. I was single for a very long time. I decided to do the nofap thing I heard so much about. After a month I did not give a fuck about ANYTHING. I was doing things outside my comfort zone with feeling any anxiety. I met a girl and was in a relationship at around 3 months of no fapping.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:07 AM
4

I agree with this guy. I am definitely more confident when I abstain. Even when I was in a serious relationship and getting pussy 1-3 times a day, I became beta as fuck. Why? Cuz I was getting laid so much, I didnt have the energy or the need to even talk to a girl with sexual intentions. But being in a relationship, I think is attractive to girls because of the "Want what you cant have" mentality. Plus the fact that your tied down, girls think you must be a quality man.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:49 AM
1

All you people who live in large cities like NYC, here is a challenge. Try this shit in a small town/city. Like a city with a population of 300,000
/r/seduction15/10/14 05:27 AM
0

That is pretty good. Sounds natural, not lame and canned. Follow up with "So, what's your story?".
/r/seduction09/10/14 04:20 AM
0

jack off.
/r/seduction04/10/14 05:16 AM
0

I like to troll people. Fuck with people. I do it cuz it's fun and I won't see these people again probably. For example, I will purposely act like I'm singing the shit out of my self in the car at a red light. I'll stare at people and maintain eye contact in a creepy way to make them feel awkward, then burst out laughing after they zoom off. I've chatted up cashiers by telling them random things about me like "I'm hungry", "I'm sick".
/r/seduction22/09/14 02:05 AM
3

Seeing this pisses me off. These bitches are making hella good money and they CAN'T PROTECT AND SERVE. They just eating our tax dollars. In my city there has been a huge rise in female police officers.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:44 AM
0

Just say your fuckin sorry!
/r/seduction16/09/14 11:59 AM
2

If this bum is a natural alpha, why hasn't he used his alpha skills to land himself a job at McDonald's? He'll be getting paid, free eats, make friends, meet all the girls that come in, and with his abilities, he could probably land Manager pretty quick, after that, apply at a bigger company with Manager Experience.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 10:55 AM
1

Wynn, hands down. Or Mandalay bay.
/r/seduction05/09/14 03:06 PM
1

I kept repeating it in my head and it sounded very weird and off, but I couldn't think of the correct phrase. Thanks.
/r/seduction23/08/14 08:49 AM
2

Mine aswell try this. If your gonna burn a "set" mine aswell experiment and burn it all the way.
/r/seduction23/08/14 08:20 AM
1

Make them pay you? I was dd for 4 girls. My car is old as fuck. I made them pay me and they were happy too because I did it in a boss manner. I dressed up and partied with them. I was the only guy at the club with 4 girls. They were all drunk as fuck but I was sober and they were all over me. It was pretty nasty though and I was kind of turned off. It was my first time doing this and I probably could have done many things different. But I felt like a total boss and other women in the bar could s…
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:55 AM
2

Focus on different aspects. For example, you read or watched a video on kino escalation techniques. When you go out make it your mission to apply that one or two techniques. If you did, that's a success. See it as a win. Your motivational success will start building. Have an opener ready, a hook, and pull tactic ready. I've gone on 3 dates in one day before. I used roughly the same strategy and techniques with minor adjustments to the lines and delivery and had all success before. I make sex my …
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:48 AM
1

Honestly I just say "do u have a bf?", "why not?"
/r/seduction17/08/14 12:42 PM
1

I don't kiss on the first date? Challenge accepted
/r/seduction17/08/14 12:31 PM
3

I try to come off as fun on the phone. I've called girls immediately after getting their number online. Young girls (18-22) I found are usually shy and easy to bust their balls. Almost anything you say with enthusiasm will make them laugh. But some things I've talked about are their voice. Like, I just wanted to hear their voice and make sure they didn't have a cave man voice. Try to set up a date, "you seem fun/cool/nice, I wanna meet you. There's x going on, wanna go?" If they flake whatsoever…
/r/seduction07/08/14 04:36 PM
1

Yeah but she wouldnt stop leaving me alone. I was at the club with 4 girls (she was one of them), and she wouldnt stop being obnoxious, kept going super close to me, putting her face super close to mine and trying to kiss me. It was annoying as fuck, and she cock blocked me from getting to know/building rapport with the other girls. I kept trying to pull away, but she kept advancing with no shame, i think it made me look like an asshole in the eyes of the other three girls, because she was looki…
/r/seduction05/08/14 05:46 AM
1

I can literally count the hairs on my mustache/chin haha
/r/seduction26/07/14 04:35 PM
1

You're right I am getting pretty old. I'm so used to dressed hip hop/skater. It's so easy, comfortable to just wear a SnapBack. I was a breakdancer for a very long time.
/r/seduction26/07/14 04:34 PM
0

Well ive looked over that book before and basically what I got out of it was to smile more and take a genuine interest in others by asking questions about them.
/r/seduction21/07/14 04:45 AM
-2

Why? Does it enter my brain differently if I read the entire book versus reading the main points given to me? (Serious). I've always found reading to be extremely boring and difficult to keep focus. I still managed to graduate from university though.
/r/seduction21/07/14 03:16 AM
1

Is actually reading this book going to help me? Or could I save time by just finding a summary/important points? I hate reading books.
/r/seduction21/07/14 02:59 AM
2

Accept the fact that some women are attracted to different things and it's impossible to cater to them ALL.
/r/seduction18/07/14 08:47 PM
1

Everyone has already said this. But I'll say it again, the send off text shows her that you got butt hurt, that you let her affect you. You let her affect you, so you failed her shit test. Your "the shit", nothing she does should affect you. Her affecting u = putting her on pedestal. Time is precious. Anyone here that works full time knows they only have a few hours a week to actually play. This girl doesn't respect your time, don't waste it on her. I know it sucks that you already invested some…
/r/seduction17/07/14 04:43 PM
1

she said "when"... how is that bad? "Thursday at 11 am", how hard is that?
/r/seduction17/07/14 07:24 AM
2

Similar situation here. Have you moved on yet? Or you gonna give it another shot later? What's the plan.
/r/seduction16/07/14 05:36 AM
1

I feel ya dude. All the girls that like me are the ones I couldn't give a fuck about. The ones I actually want a relationship with aren't attracted or something. It's hard. I don't really wanna sleep with the girls I'm not really attracted to either, but they are the ones who actively show interest and take initiatives.
/r/seduction16/07/14 05:32 AM
2

Hey dude. I am in a similar situation too. I don't think it's that big of a deal for me though as I have a pretty strong mind and can usually force myself to move on no matter how hard. I'm just wondering how did you fuck it up? I agree with most ppl here about going to the gym and also approaching. Go out, be spontaneous, do something random. I got flaked on. I went out met this girl and had one of the most epic random nights ever. Got super drunk and high for free. And made a really cool frien…
/r/seduction15/07/14 10:06 AM
1

Thanks dude, this is good stuff.
/r/seduction14/07/14 03:50 AM
1

What should I do to find out if the girl is playing hard to get or not interested and just being nice.
/r/seduction13/07/14 11:35 PM
4

I saw someone do this and I thought it was pretty original and funny. A nice way to not let it affect you. When the girl says "sorry I have a boyfriend..." You respond: "oh... I forgive you.."
/r/seduction12/07/14 08:47 AM
3

I posted something about shy girls and was told it was in the wrong sub. Anyways I wanted to know how to keep contact with shy girls. Like is it bad to have to initiate contact everytime via text/call? I feel shy girls have low self esteem and think that if I don't initiate contact, I am busy/not interested. What do? I'm tryna get these girls hooked on me like cocaine.
/r/seduction12/07/14 08:15 AM
1

WTf just leave dude. And fuck ur friend. Or be a bro and congratulate him and tell him he owes u. This is so dumb.
/r/seduction12/07/14 08:12 AM
1

This is probably the most accurate description of online dating.
/r/seduction11/07/14 04:23 PM
1

Just wanted to add a point about hitting the gym and how it will boost confidence. The fact that you are there surrounded by a bunch of big alpha dudes or whatever you wanna consider those muscle men. You are lifting weights, not giving a mother fuck, you are focused, people are watching you, you are getting beat down by your weaknesses. You are now just like them, an alpha man.
/r/seduction08/07/14 10:44 AM
1

This is supposed to help us remove public speaking anxiety? I think it helped cure my insomnia and put me to sleep. I think a better way of curing public speaking anxiety is to stand on the corner of a street and just read a book out loud. Pretty sure after looking crazy for 10 minutes you'll be fine to give a speech in front of a class. Maybe I'll give it a try
/r/seduction07/07/14 09:00 AM
1

just assume attraction? easier that way..?
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:53 AM
1

I don't know bout you. But people think I am a player because if my looks and how open I am when talking. Like talking sexually. When ur good looking and you are really sociable, girls think u r a player. I must be doing something wrong here. I've tried toning down the energy.
/r/seduction06/07/14 05:26 PM
9

I think going to the gym for sure.
/r/seduction06/07/14 05:22 PM
1

Isn't the whole thing basically about smiling more, and getting people to talk about THEM, showing and interest in others, etc.
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:20 PM
1

The best advice so I thought was good was going to the gym and befriending others there. Other than that I am not too big on most hobbies that guys have like sports.
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:19 PM
1

Do you just work and save up? How can you afford to go for years on end without working? I want to travel so bad but I am working part time and going to school.
/r/seduction18/04/14 12:27 PM
1

Sounds like a bitch. If she doesn't fart rainbows and butterflies, I wouldn't even bother. Unless she has a sense of humor and is joking. I would ask her if she is serious right now.
/r/seduction06/04/14 12:18 PM
2

I think trolling people really helps. What do I mean by trolling? I mean fucking with people and having fun. Keyword is having FUN. For example just mess with people is public. Have you ever seen those prank videos on YouTube? They have fun by trolling people in public just to get a good reaction. I think that if you follow that mindset you can have good conversation and you won't care if it fails. For example, try telling a completely fictitious story like someone mentioned here. "Hey did you h…
/r/seduction06/04/14 12:15 PM
1

Hey I agree with this. I do this all the time, but be careful to no get into an accident. I see so many beautiful women, and I've almost died a few times just so I could get another glimpse at some chick I won't see again. I read this somewhere and tried it. It's one of my new favorite things to do besides sing. Wave at a girl but make it look like your wiping your window. If she waves back.. Then success.
/r/seduction02/04/14 06:16 AM
15

"Umm how about you suck my dick?" (How does that sound ya cunt?)
/r/seduction22/02/14 10:01 PM
12

I got laid regularly when I was in a relationship but now that I'm single. It happens every few weeks. I hung out with this girl at her place this one time for the first time. We watched a movie on her bed and we were like what now? She was like "what you wanna do now?". The whole time we were hanging out she wasn't advancing on me or anything but she wasn't stopping me from advancing on her(I was touching her and kissing her). I just said " how about you suck my dick" kind of jokingly. And she …
/r/seduction22/02/14 08:51 PM
1

How is it creepy? I'm single and bored out of my fukin mind. If I see you alone and your path collides with mine, I'm gonna interact with you. And if u give me the slightest chance. I'm gonna put my dick in you. I don't give a fuck that is my mentality.
/r/seduction22/02/14 05:46 AM
2

I'm not that great at being social, but I rarely get awkward and I am really good at maintaining eye contact with men and women. I was at school and bored/taking a break from assignment. I walked down the hall and saw a decently cute girl. I said "hello, how's it goin?". She replied "good" and gave me a weird look. I just stared at her, smiled, and said "you okay? *lol". She laughed and started telling me about her assignment and that she just needed to go for a walk and take a break. Basically …
/r/seduction22/02/14 05:37 AM
-2

She was 25, 26 now. We banged a few times after that. I just text her "whatcha wearin ;)" and it starts from there. I make up some excuse it's too cold. I end up going there. I make an excuse, that its uncomfortable and we should watch Netflix on her bed. Then just escalate from there. She even supplies the condoms. Its actually super easy once you have a girl locked down. You can literally ask her to do anything(get you water, pass you this, do this and that). The second time I told her to suck…
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:14 AM
1

I am terrible at this. I can't make friends with other "alpha males" because I can see through their little schemes and tactics and I end up thinking they are douchebags. I tend to make friends with beta males because I like helping them improve. And they are just nicer people. I have very few male friends because I am super blunt and honest. I don't like doing douchey alpha male things. I tend to make friends easier with women. Maybe it's because I like being the only guy surrounded by women. I…
/r/seduction28/01/14 05:29 AM
2

I tell her that I had a good time and I still wanna hangout with her, but it's really cold outside and I don't feel like hanging out at ________ place anymore. Then I ask if we can go to her place. Basically use the info she gives and use them as excuses to bang her at her house. Ex. She likes watching Netflix. You could suggest that it's cold outside and that it is Netflix weather. Then go do it at her place. EASY
/r/seduction28/01/14 05:21 AM
1

This works for me. (After lots of kino and comfort building) "I wanna kiss you" "Haha why?" "Cuz I want to" Then I just go do it.
/r/seduction20/01/14 04:45 AM
-1

Why y'all wasting time trying to convince this amateur? Mo girls for us. He'll get over it eventually (if he's smart).
/r/seduction29/12/13 11:40 AM
1

Where do you park your car to get it on? I have yet to find a good spot in my town. I am afraid to get caught.
/r/seduction10/11/13 09:42 AM
2

I was in the EXACT same situation as you. Since you were in a relationship then you should already be comfortable with women. If not, you can begin by saying hello to every female you encounter in your day. Just say hi to people you walk past and smile. This will get rid of the "awkward walking up to random people and talking" feeling. Don't think. Just do. Approach, talk, tell then you thought they are cute so u wanted to go up and say hi. If you feel she likes you, ask for number. If she rejec…
/r/seduction10/11/13 09:38 AM
1

How about grabbing her hand. Take her to a isolated area. Turn her around and spank her a few times. Then open your arms out and yell "ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED?!"
/r/seduction10/10/13 06:42 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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