Being honest with how you feel

cma1993 · 2014-07-12T14:20:20+00:00

You shouldn't be trying to be cocky/funny/douchey though, the reason people get these thoughts is because they see people gaming and get jealous they don't have the balls to do it themselves so they put labels on people. As for your question, always be up front, if you have feelings for a girl tell her you want to pursue something more with her, if she's not interested it wasn't going to work out anyways, move on. Take it from me, I waited about 6 months before I told a girl I had feelings for that I had fallen for her and it "broke" my heart when she didn't reciprocate, I put her on a pedis tool by not saying my feelings upfront and because of that kept thinking about how I could get her and when I didn't it sucked. Now I look back and laugh at how much I cared about someone who didn't give two shits about me besides the sex.

TL;DR: ALWAYS BE BLUNT WITH YOUR FEELINGS

alphamoose · 2014-07-12T14:25:00+00:00

There's a difference between showing desire and being needy. You should be fine as long as you express yourself in a way that's congruent with the former.

sirmrtony · 2014-07-12T19:08:57+00:00

These past 2 or 3 years I've been going out with girls I know there's no "real" emotional connection with, but last night I went out with a new girl and damn, flashback to the last time I was really interested in a girl. I hate it and I feel like Jim Carrey in Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, but I really really like this girl. She doesn't know though :<

Title	Being honest with how you feel
Author	Bodegaz
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	July 12, 2014 8:45 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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