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| 112 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed Mindset | Field Report | Bogey_Kingston | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 04:13 PM |
| 19 | [challenge] "The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation" | Bogey_Kingston | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 05:27 PM | |
| 2 | So I'm stuck in a hotel because the airline made me miss my connection flight. The clerk at the desk is insanely cute, and was checking me out the moment I walked in the door. How do I play this? | Bogey_Kingston | /r/seduction | 03/12/13 02:40 AM | |
| 1 | An interesting realization I recently had, and I am wondering if anyone else noticed this as well. | Bogey_Kingston | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 11:51 PM |
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| 8 | Calling instead of texting has worked for mei have found audio messages to work really well. no one does that shit | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 01:02 AM |
| 2 | is this subreddit just filled with men & mostly bad advicesort by Top Posts of All Time and read everything from u/tofutofu for the better posts on this sub | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How would you address why you don't have anything on facebook/no friends on it? Say she asks you for your facebook or searches you, only to find a blank page with your name on itIt’s super easy to make a basic social media presence, literally google how to take pics for fb, insta, etc whatever app you like the most. I only do insta bc there’s virtually no politics / debate it’s just like hey I made this bomb ass steak, or look I did a headstand on a mountain, or check out my baby isn’t it fucking cute? And I just literally go to cool coffee shops w a friend and get a pic. Comment on hashtags and local posts, bars restaurant that you frequent and people will follow you b… | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 08:14 PM |
| 7 | The 7 Keys to Massive Confidence In LifeI tend to agree with modesty, but hear me out.. There's a big difference between massive confidence and being a dickhead - anyone can be a dickhead at any given moment, but having Kanye confidence means you've earned it. My favorite Kanye quote: "My life is dope because I do dope shit." Straight to the point. And to say "I won't be massively confident in myself because girls will have pejorative synonyms to associate to me" is a bit of a cop-out, and if those girls call me a dickhead - why shoul… | /r/seduction | 03/11/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | German guys numberclose girls and ask them afterwards what they think about being approached. Their answers motivate me so much to go out there and approachI owe a lot to these subs.. | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Why are unattractive girls easier to approach?You're putting the pussy on a pedestal. Just realize that everybody you meet is probably equally or more self-conscious as you are. They're too busy worrying about their pimple to notice yours. | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 03:41 PM |
| 1 | 6 World-Class Dating Coaches give their First Date Secrets...0 CHANCE OF REJECTION OPENER!!! Immediate red flag, I didn't even read what these "World Class Dating Coaches" have to say. How does one become qualified as "World Class" anyway? I decided I should at least go read the article before talking negatively about it... Doesn't even tell you who these 6 coaches are, just link to YouTube videos. What a load of shit. | /r/seduction | 08/07/15 04:12 PM |
| 6 | Autism and seductionI think your best bet is to master having fun - if you're having a blast chatting to a cute girl about trains and she's not at least somewhat enthused to hear about it, then she's probably not for you. The best thing about talking to people, particularly strangers is that you're starting off with a totally blank page. More than likely they don't really know what to say to you even if they do want to talk to you. I think of Joe Rogan's podcast where he will go off on a tangent about some topic th… | /r/seduction | 02/07/15 07:00 PM |
| 58 | Just deleted facebookI'm just a guy at a computer, but I went through a big transition a few years ago, thanks to this sub and maybe I can give a kick in the ass. Here's a reveling moment I'll share: Before one of my daily jog/workouts I literally stood in my bathroom, leaned into the mirror and looked into my own eye balls asking myself "What don't you like about me? What is wrong with me, and how can I make it better?" After that I went for a run and had this breakthrough moment (probably the serotonin) where I re… | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Are you ever afraid to be intimate or really connect?Ended up typing a lot more than I meant to, but this seems applicable and often it's other people's perspectives who help us realize our own so here's 2 cents... I definitely know where you're coming from. I think practicing a lot of the seduction methods was really helpful with forging connections that I didn't have the confidence or real desire to achieve before, but then I would sabotage myself from maintaining anything other than lust because I basically didn't know what was lying beyond the… | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Recommended books not about pick-up?The author of Outsiders has a few other books, none as good as Outsiders IMO, with relatable characters and stories. | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Oneitis , or that special girl ... how to get it out of your mind ... good articleYour wife doesn't care that you have side pieces? I'm genuinely interested how this came to be, and why you got married. Not to be intrusive to your life but if you could, please elaborate | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Recommended books not about pick-up?The movie follows the dialogue pretty closely, for good reason. The dialogue is wicked. I promise if you read it, you won't be able to not read it in Brad Pitt and Edward Norton's voices. It's worth a read if you really like the movie. | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Recommended books not about pick-up?Theodore Roosevelt's biography, his life story is quite inspiring. His brother, who nobody knows about, got all the girls. He was more handsome, he made better grades, he was more athletic and yet nobody knows about him. That's because he threw himself out of a window after having an affair, impregnating a 14 year old French maid and becoming a wild alcoholic. Teddy, on the other hand was a talented boxer, owned and operated his own ranch, an accomplished and ethical hunter, created conservation… | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 06:35 PM |
| 10 | Recommended books not about pick-up?Ironically, Fight Club is a book. | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 06:14 PM |
| 2 | The Difference between a Confident Man and a Show-Off – 10 Ways to share your Accomplishments without coming across as a BraggartWhen someone compliments you just say thanks and move on. Take the compliment, even if you think it's not a big deal. | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 09:07 PM |
| 2 | “You are really nice and that scares me.”I'm currently reading a book about Theodore Roosevelt, in my opinion the greatest President, and he actually moved West and built a cattle ranch which for a New York dude of high society was unheard of. He was teased by the locals, who were hardy Western cowboys and hunters, and called Four Eyes and mocked and so forth, but he put up with it for the time being and didn't lose his composure or let it get to him. A few years later he was a Deputy Sherriff and tried and true cowboy ranch hand. He a… | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 03:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm very proficient at cooking and dinner dates (as both First Dates & Day 2's). Here to answer any questions on dating/cooking.There's some good stuff, right here on reddit. /r/cooking and /r/eatcheapandhealthy are two of my frequents. There's now /r/cookingforbeginners as well | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 11:46 AM |
| 0 | Positive Self-Improvement HelpI've been trying to get back on track with this myself so maybe talking about it will help. First and foremost, start reading the Best of The Art of Manliness. Tons of great advice. Second, hit the gym. Find a routine you really like and work at it. I recently started doing Stronglift5x5 and it's great, but I would recommend getting your heart and lungs in shape first. Rookie mistake is to just start lifting while out of shape. Not the best idea. Make your schedule to go to the gym and GO. Also,… | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Starting senior year at a new high school. Advice?I was shy and I never did anything about it. How can I make sure this year is different? Do something about it. I had this conversation with my little brother last night. He was telling me about a girl he met at a bar, and they really hit it off. Then a bunch of her friends showed up and he never got a chance to really talk to her or re-introduce himself into the conversation. He, and you should seize an opportunity when you have one. Don't wait. Just a simple "Hey, you're fun we should hang out… | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 07:54 PM |
| 1 | What do you have that makes your interesting and gives you value that others don't?I have a really kick ass pit bull, he garnishes more attention than I do hands down. He's ridiculously good looking and friendly, sometimes to a fault. I worked my ass off to get him to be so well behaved, socialized and well trained but he's my best friend and has given me countless easy openers with pretty ladies. But aside from that, I'm really passionate about cooking particularly BBQ. I didn't think food could create a social circle, but I have a group of regulars who come by on weekends to… | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 08:56 PM |
| 3 | If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back?Give less fucks. Got it. But seriously, I find this really hard to actually follow through with. Even when I'm acting carefree, I know deep down that I do care what the outcome of any given situation is, even if it's just a fleeting notion. | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 12:14 AM |
| 3 | If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back?Damn, well some of that may be true, I resent the fact that you just told an entire gender that we overcomplicate things. I mean, honestly you may have good advice but women over complicate shit just as much as we do, you're just seeing it from the other side. | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 11:49 PM |
| 1 | If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back?Metaphors in my head always so much sense, and then I use them and it's generally percepted as "Yeah, no." | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 11:47 PM |
| 2 | If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back?Truthfully that's how it is but I'm not so apathetic to befriending people that I just shrug and say Oh well I showed up. I mean, I'm not trying to win anyone if they don't want to be friends, fuck it. But I show up and try to be cool with people. And I was using the boss thing as a metaphor. | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 11:40 PM |
| 2 | If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back?What does it say exactly? How do you meet people if you don't care if you meet people? That's like sociopath logic | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 11:26 PM |
| -1 | If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back?What? Okay, so when you go to work you don't want to prove to your boss that you're a motivated and ambitious person who is more valuable in a higher position? Honestly if you meet me in person, and you don't try to prove you're an honest person, a good dude, then I'll never want to know you. How is proving myself insecure? | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 11:17 PM |
| -1 | If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back?You can think that way, but I have something to prove in literally everything I do. The gym, the BBQ I cook, the friends I make, my work ethic. I want to be the best and I want everybody to know it. What's wrong with that? It doesn't make me the best, I'm not arrogant or cocky. But I'm working my ass off to be top notch, and I'm not doing so i can go, " Oh you like me. Cool " I'm doing it because I want the title. And for real, anybody who says I shouldn't is advocating complacency and it's not … | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 09:54 PM |
| 5 | If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back?Right, but you're still having to prove yourself to be compatible, I think of that as selling in the sense that I'm communicating why I'm the best on the market. | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 09:09 PM |
| 12 | If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back?What is dating if not selling yourself and your companionship? Sure, it's not a monetary value but in order to attract a particular person, you have to think about yourself in terms of what you're bringing to the table. Think about online dating in particular. You're basically creating and advertisement for yourself, you're marketing yourself. That is Sales. "can we take a more ease of pace and subtle approach to things." Sorry to tell you, but that sounds like some weak sauce, dude. This statem… | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 08:24 PM |
| 11 | PSA: Don't pursue your friends! (or 'The Post I Wish I Could Have Read A Week Ago')Truuuuuue Chainzzzzz | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 07:19 PM |
| 15 | [OPENER] My go to opener which ALWAYS gets the same reply"Are you as interesting as you look?" Was posted here a year or so ago and it's my favorite. | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 01:16 AM |
| 3 | How to escalate as a potential hookup than potential boyfriend - general pointers, tips, attitude....K. I. S. S. Keep It Simple Stupid | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Purchased a "Pick-Up" book, and I don't agree with it. Opinions?Great starting point is to sort this sub by top posts of all time and read through everything. Make notes of what you like and ignore anything you'd be really uncomfortable doing, but remember to push yourself out of the comfort zone. The best tips you're going to find are learning from your mistakes and won't be found in a book. It sounds cliche but I wasted months reading before I just went out solo and talked to people. I realized pretty quick I should have done the opposite. The best part ab… | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 09:51 PM |
| 3 | How do I join a new social circle with more girls than guys?I started my own social circle with women. I did this by inviting them to my place on weekend for drinks and grilled a ton of food with one other male, a close friend who is good with women and genuinely awesome dude. We grill a ton of food and chat with the ladies. A couple of them like to shoot pool, so we go do that as a group often. Bowling is also a lot of fun. I met most of these girls at school or parties. None of these people knew eachother before I brought us together. I think eating ha… | /r/seduction | 26/06/14 08:45 AM |
| 3 | After reading "No more Mister Nice Guy".It's really hard to look yourself in the mirror, eye to eye with yourself and recognize all you flaws but it's always a big step towards improvement. This comment reminded me of that. | /r/seduction | 16/06/14 02:37 PM |
| 3 | I Want to Stop CussingI used to work on a golf course, and in the heat of the summer it's really easy to get frustrated when equipment/coworkers aren't functioning properly. There will this old guy who would say "Sandwiches!" instead of "Son of a bitch!" and it's a perfect substitute because people don't think you're covering a swear word up, they just assume you're hungry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/14 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Been carrying around these notebooks and I'm constantly reminded of you Guys/GalsI had to check the sub to make I wasn't in EDC. | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Starting to date, first coming up (coffee dates) what do?I like the museum idea a lot, it's usually an unexpected and interesting proposition for a first or second date. | /r/seduction | 10/06/14 07:05 PM |
| 1 | A note on confidenceGet some boots that make you an inch or two taller. | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Things I wish I knew years agoProper diet is absolutely essential to muscle gain. If you don't give your body the right nutrition, your workout is not going to be very effective. My training partner is a body builder and his wife has a masters in nutritional science, I think they know their shit. | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 07:38 PM |
| 9 | Things I wish I knew years agoHaving an increasing physical strength feels so much better than I ever thought it would. I swear those gym doors get easier and easier to open with every visit. I can do more in the bedroom and be more dominant than before. It's fun for both of us. Not to mention the increased stamina, I can go for longer bouts and I credit that to exercise and diet more than getting it on the regular. If any of you reading this are new to the sub, the gym is a great place to start building confidence. | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop myself from emotionally invested so early?I pick things I like and apply it. If you looked at football plays as a coach you wouldn't like everything you see or use every play. Architects don't all like the same design and style of buildings. Doctors prefer different brands and sometimes differ on diagnosis. Just because I like to use pick up game sometimes doesn't mean I take everything in this sub as law. | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 04:59 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop myself from emotionally invested so early?I talk to women everyday. Most of my friends are women. I talk about Seddit to my girlfriend, she thinks it's great and loves the way I am and we are both happy and healthy in our relationship, thanks to this sub. Did you ever consider that you do not speak for the entirety of females? Have you thought about your opinions as only yours? Because honestly I find that your opinions are the majority on reddit, but the minority in real life. | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop myself from emotionally invested so early?By far the most strange comment on this sub. Either you're a troll or a very strange woman. Regardless, that was simply awful advice lol | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 02:35 PM |
| 22 | This shit is GOLD -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To CloseIt's just weird to hear it in a setting like that. When a comic like Louis CK swears I hardly notice it, but when someone is presenting an idea and explaining something I'm trying to really absorb and learn, swearing carries more weight and it's kind of hard to hear. | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Unusual question. How to get rid of a girl nicely?It's a cry for attention. Your best bet is to cut off contact completely. It sounds cold, but she's just goin to drag you into more drama and you have zero responsibility to be anymore involved at this point. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Unusual question. How to get rid of a girl nicely?I actually disagree, my comment was mostly sarcastic. I enjoy being very honest and open with people, it's liberating. Lying is something that's necessary at times, but in general I think people respect me for my honesty, especially when I'm truthful about things most people would lie about. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Unusual question. How to get rid of a girl nicely?By doing this you could be feeding that "I Want What I Can't Have" mentality which might create a borderline obsession, next thing you know you're in a Swimfan situation. Just read your edit. My suspicions have been confirmed, you're in great danger. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Unusual question. How to get rid of a girl nicely?Possibly most effective, also a lie which seems to be part of OP's problem. OP, get rid of that conscience thing, it's holding you back. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Woah, an xojane article in favor of "husband hunting" in collegeYes as a man I approve. Personality plays a much bigger part in attraction for guys than society permeates. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/14 06:05 PM |
| 6 | It's not about them, It's about me.I will tell you what worked for me, but these examples may not work for you. I used reddit, looking at the top posts from specific subs that are all about self-improvement. I got into these 5 subs the most: /r/fitness /r/seduction /r/keto /r/malefashionadvice /r/sex The biggest confidence boost came from hitting the gym. Here is the routine I got into. Jim Stoppani isn't some meat head using bro-science, he's a graduated doctor. This workout forced me to do things I haven't seen anyone in my gym… | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 06:32 PM |
| 7 | It's not about them, It's about me.This is the heart and soul of my transition. I focused less on banging the 10 from the bar, and more on growing myself into a better stronger person, pushing myself out of a comfort zone and accomplishing goals for my own sake. That mindset has, in an of itself has attracted more women to me than I can handle. For the first time in my life, I'm being chased and it's because I quit chasing and focused on my own true self and being happy. All thanks to this sub. The people here who teach the philo… | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 02:23 PM |
| 2 | How to not be boringTry to read and absorb powerful novels, it will pump emotion into you. Also visualizing the experience you're talking about and what you say will be more vivid and seem tangible. This works for me, hopefully you can get similar results. | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever disagree with some stuff certain RP men say about women?it snot our bailiwick had to google this to make sure it wasn't an actual euphemism lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 04:09 PM |
| 6 | Do you ever disagree with some stuff certain RP men say about women?Spot on. As a guy who browses TRP and RPW I agree more with what you ladies say that the RP. I first discovered /r/seduction in making my big life changes and discovered I should let go of my harsh misunderstandings of women and simply be the best me. Working out, dressing well, being a fun guy, and cooking have gotten me laid way more often than trying to be the alpha male, or feeling superior to women because they are less or weak or whatever bullshit those dudes buy into. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 03:57 PM |
| 2 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamshttp://www.everydayhealth.com/columns/dr-laura-berman-on-love-and-sex/the-sex-appeal-of-a-deep-voice/ | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 03:27 PM |
| 25 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsintrospective comment is best comment | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 03:23 PM |
| 10 | My method for attracting girls I meet in my college classes.Snowballing. I like that term. It really describes the advantage that college presents, which is the ability to gradually build rapport over a couple weeks without being totally direct about it. Just gaining momentum and building a social circle. | /r/seduction | 04/02/14 02:55 PM |
| 140 | How to I stop being an annoying pussy in general?Hit the gym, hard as fuck. Not to get chiseled abs, to better yourself as a person, because you need exercise to be healthy and you need to push yourself to be confident. If you're scrawny, make me people say "Damn, if that kid is doing it I need to step my shit up." Find workout routines online, print off a sheet and track your reps/weight amount. Watch your progress, you're gonna like being stronger, I guarantee it. Take a boxing class. Nothing made me more confident than intense cardio traini… | /r/seduction | 11/10/13 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Two months ago an AFC, progress/FRAlso being a "regular" at bars and restaraunts works out great for me, especially when I'm on a date. | /r/seduction | 11/10/13 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Living in a new area.I recently went through this exact scenario, different city, but I fell into a pit of loneliness real fast. Within the past 6 months I've spent a lot of time dedicated to bettering myself in every way I could imagine. I hated the advice in these kinda of threads Just go out and meet people Find a hobby and meet people It feels so awkward and out of the element when you first move. I became a regular at a top notch pool hall, I wouldn't even shoot I just drank and worked up the nerve to talk to p… | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 04:37 PM |
| 3 | What are some things that make you feel confident before you go out?I said this in a previous post, but before I go out or walk into a bar or class room I just think "They're going to fucking love you." And it translates into reality because I really believe it. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 02:59 AM |
| 2 | How to keep a rock of a mood and not get sucked into women's emotions?I find that plentiful exercise gives me an immense amount of control over my emotions. If I skip a few days, I can get more agitated or absorbed into other people's problems and emotions without keeping a level head about things. Other than, practice taking yourself out of the situation for a moment for the purpose of having a better perspective. If you mentally practice making careful emotionless decisions then you will be more inclined to impulsively adjust that to everything else. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 02:55 AM |
| 2 | "OK, but I won't have sex with you" - how to respondWhat always works for me is just saying "Okay" and picking the conversation back up where it left off or redirecting to a new topic. It shows that I'm obviously not that worried about it and I'm more interested in talking to her and having fun. I've had this go two ways after that type of response, either she escalates kino later and drops hints which end up in having sex or she really wants to put her foot down and enjoy the night without sex. Obviously, the first is great. But even the latter … | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 11:22 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Field Report: Sometimes everything just falls into place. Pulled the hottest girl in the club, after one of the weirdest nights of my life.This was hard to read because it's true. | /r/seduction | 27/08/13 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Seduction in CollegeI introduce myself to people at bars all the time, if they don't respond positively I cut the conversation short but most of the time people want someone to talk to just as much as we do. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 11:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetClick /r/seduction Select Top Posts from All Time | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Seduction in CollegeIf they don't want to be my friend, that's cool. I'm not losing sleep over it. The point is make people like you, enjoy your company, and want you around. I was a freshman in high school with senior friends, I sat at a senior table because I gave no fucks about titles or boundaries. I'm the same way at college, I treat everybody like a person. It irks me when college kids identify themselves by all these titles and their major and their future career, it's so fucking boring because there are 200… | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Seduction in CollegeThat's awesome! Really, you just put a grin on my face. I need to make an update soon. But to expand on the advice for newbies, I spent a solid month going over all the top posts of all time in this sub, comments included, and that's probably where you'll get the best advice. A lot of great tips are in here, just pick out the things you really like and put it to good use. | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 11:38 PM |
| 18 | Seduction in CollegeI just posted recently about my first day at college. I can not stress enough how important it is to introduce yourself to everyone on that first day. Here's why: everyone feels awkward and out of place. The new surroundings, people, and schedule and they just want someone to joke about the long line at the book store or how a teacher is like your grandma. They will love you for breaking the ice, and there's absolutely no pressure since we are all on edge. Girls especially will like that you are… | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Help with girls coming on to me.Also inspecting jewelry and accessories has worked great for me, since basically every article of clothing now has some tiger tooth or bling bling dangling from every seam. | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 03:50 PM |
| 8 | How to get rid of your approach anxietyWell that's odd because I'm in my twenties and all I meet are party animal girls, or baby crazy girls. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 03:03 AM |
| 1 | AMA - I've been on OkCupid for over a year, been on over 50 dates, had multiple first date lays, many fuck buddies, and even 2-3 "serious" girlfriends!I usually go for the number after two or three messages and just say "Can i text you" it works better than I thought it would. | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 09:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetNope, I'm further east. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 09:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetYou're too short. And you're freakishly large. I'm bogey, nice to meet you. I fucking love this. Thank you, I can't wait to use it. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 07:18 PM |
| 4 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetThank you, it means a lot. I am not tall, dark, or a model. I'm 5'9 and have only been complimented on my looks by girls saying I'm "really cute." The hot chick from my hometown, that had less to do with me and more to do with my best friend's girlfriend being related to her and basically using her as bait to get me to go to the dance. Nothing ever came of it, aside from my friends doing a double take when we showed up. Today was a huge ego boost, but it came at the expense of many miserable fai… | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 06:37 PM |
| 6 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetExactly, being outcome independent is an idea I have fallen in love with. It reminds me of those first few days at the gym. You don't see progress yet, but you're doing it and you are sore and it's working. It sucks getting shot down hard with "You're too short." right after introducing myself, but fuck that, she was really rude to me and I hope she dies of a weird cancer. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 05:44 PM |
| 3 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetThank you, I was hoping this would be relatable, useful, and inspiring because that's what I love to see on this sub. The advanced stuff is mind blowing sometimes, and harder to pull out the core concept. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 05:34 PM |
| 12 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetI held eye contact with the blonde after initiating conversation just long enough to make the brunette wonder why I wasn't paying her any attention, and then I made brief eye contact with brunette, back and forth while asking the both of them if they'd like for me to show them around. Then once things got comfortable and we were moving, I started in on the brunette, flirting with her openly. I'm not sure if it's advisable, but I love to play on the jealousy of women. It's like reverse psychology… | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Strategies to get more female FRIENDSIt has advantages, but in my relatively limited experience working off the social circles is like being a gatherer, whereas I want to be the hunter. It's great to be hanging out with a group of girls who can easily point out a strange female's subtle hints of interest in me, and let them watch me work, it creates some chemistry and interest that may not have been there before, and it's fun. Plus, nothing makes me feel better than walking into a bar/venue with 4 or 5 beauitful girls on my arms. B… | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 03:20 PM |
| 9 | Oldschool pua! The most dangerous routine in the known Meta-Verse..."Insta-Girlfriend."That like actually made me chuckle, because I imagined it being said by Dwight from The Office. | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 02:54 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/9/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I just moved to a new city for a better job, I sell robots. No really. I've been going out solo a lot, every weekend. But one thing I'm noticing is that I have a short term appeal and value in that I'm funny and social in the moment, but it does not translate into follow ups with many friendships/dates occurring. There are occassional hook ups when I get bored, but I'm missing that quality connection. What can I do to develop value and interest for others that will create the social circle I was… | /r/seduction | 09/08/13 07:13 PM |
| -5 | Some gold from an old PUA forum, advanced kino techniqueI don't think it's creepy or wrong, it's just kind of sad and pathetic. What does it accomplish, aside from momentarily touching a boob? It just seems like a low move to me. I can see how it would work but this is not the man I want to be, sneaking a boob touch with my drink hand. | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 01:55 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)If you like them, ask for their number to hang out and enjoy whatever activity you both do and the rest is easy. Most people in the states have moved before, and they know what it's like being new to the area so don't worry about it. Are you going to school somewhere? | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 03:51 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Yeah I wouldn't open with that. Keep a positive vibe about you and people will be more likely to want you around. | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 06:28 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I just moved to a new city, new job, little free time. It's worked out pretty well but honestly nothing beats hitting bars and events when you're young. | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 06:06 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)How do you know if you've never used it? I'm 23 and I meet mostly younger girls around 21 on there. | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 05:55 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)You find it hard to believe, but you clearly don't know anything about it? Makes sense. Plenty of fish and ok Cupid have given me several good lays over the past few months. They're mostly crazy or just too damn weird to date, but a good time nonetheless. | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Getting a job in sales, being paid commission. I need some reading material on influence.48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene showcases historical figures and how they rose to power. Not exactly the salesman go to guide, but I certainly reccomend it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 03:36 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Just landed phone number on the 3rd reply, and set a date on the second text. Thanks for the advice, it felt like clockwork. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, not only a tool and place to learn about the game, but also guide to self direction and inner growthI've been here about two weeks as well. The other day, on my daily run, my mind was on auto pilot recapping everything I had just read. Being a better person, becoming a better son, better friend, and being honest and comfortable with myself and spreading love and value with zero expectations of return. I thought deeply about how I was starting a journey, and right now my focus is not picking up women, but attracting them. Everyday learning and growing. Basically, knowing I'm a glorious butterfl… | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Newbie field report. How could I have done better?I noticed you were ordering cokes at the bar. Loads of carbs in soda, and beer. Sugar = carbs | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 06:57 PM |
| 8 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)What's the best process for turning a conversation at an online dating site into a meet up? I've noticed timing can be crucial and different for every girl. Some demand two weeks talking on the site, others are ready to call and set something up. | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Can you share your best advice that helped you become a better man?The context of the joke is important, but yes I agree with you on this one. | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 05:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle others pointing out your imperfections in front of girls?That last joke was really funny. Well done. | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 01:07 AM |
| 6 | The importance of engaging immediately (Semi-FR)I think by showing up early and being the first person in the room, you basically marked the territory. I find I'm much more sociable and prone to interact when I feel prepared, and your story here plays right into that by remaining one step ahead of the group. Thanks for the post, it brought some personal insights of my own to light that I hadn't quite grasped yet. | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 09:17 PM |
| 2 | I am the prize.Brought a tear to my eye within the first paragraph. What gorgeous inspiration you are. Thank you for sharing these thoughts. | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 01:46 PM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Kino Guide (Must Read)Rest in Peace, Mom. LOL! | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 03:10 PM |
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