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What I find fascinating with "beardfishing" is that it is not a wholly new concept. You would have assumed it was born with the hipster movement, back in the 2010s. But actually, my 69-year old mother told me this one story way before facial hair made a comeback, somewhere in the 2000s. When she was a young woman in the 70s, she had this really attractive male friend. She says he was really something. But one thing she did not understand was why such an attractive man would be wearing the equiva…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 06:32 PM
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Well, Dostoevsky is a very elusive man when it comes to women, their intellect and their rights. He is not your average 19th Century misogynist. Nothing like Nietzsche or Schopenhauer. On one side, he had great love and respect for the women in his life. Though his first wife and himself were not a good match, he loved her dearly and tried to do his best to be a good model for her son. He was very devoted to his second wife and valued her mind above everything else. He tried to keep his sister-i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:52 PM
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You want the douchebro who thinks he is so above all of humanity and wrecks the lives of 5, I say 5, poor women, ranging between the ages of NINE and fifty-something, going from torturing and murdering a woman with a mental illness, raping a child, driving another girl who loved him to suicide and also plating another girl, who also happens to be an orphan, while sucking all of his mother's blood out of her body (figuratively - though with how Stavrogin is, I wouldn't have been surprised if he h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:19 PM
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Oh, I agree with these guys! I, for example, "stan" Dostoevsky. And I can guarantee anything he has ever written has ruined any relationship with men I could ever have before it even started. He has taught me that the red flags we see in the garden-variety lowly male actually hide pedophilia, rape, murder, pimping, torture, abuse of the mentally-ill and children. Therefore, if you are a man with as much as bad hygiene, I will assume the worst about you. Because my darling Dostoevsky taught me to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:37 PM
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We find them attractive. As simple as that. As it says: "Fine AF Friday", it ain't our fault that when Asian men are fine, they are fine af! ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:04 AM
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Feed me more Asian hotties. I joined FDS for the intellectual conversations and the opportunities to broaden my horizons by exploring the life experiences of my fellow women. But I am definitely staying for all this Asian eye-candy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:57 AM
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10 bucks he's lying and he's got no wife. Like the rest of his little virtual goblin friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:14 AM
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I like how FDS has turned out to be a safe-space where I can let all my attraction to handsome Asian men loose (though my primary attraction is for Chinese men rather than these sultry Korean gentlemen - I have met some handsome Cambodian men as of late as well). It is insane how much verbal violence I have faced from people when I would just hint that I found Asian men especially attractive. Actual violence that made me fear for my security. Comments about how I should be sexually assaulted by …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:13 PM
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"I brough back a woman TO SHARE with him." How dehumanizing is this?! As if this other woman was nothing but an object, a material belonging made of synthetic material. You do not bring back animals to share with your partner. What is it that is shared? Things of convenience! Cars, flats, etc. More often than not, you do not even share towels with your partner. In my eyes, this is a form of trafficking. Did this woman know that she was nothing but A THING to be shared by two partners. That she h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:03 PM
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We NEVER ask where the good men have gone, honey. History has shown us that all the good men, those who fight for an equality transcending genders, race and religious affiliations, get interned, tortured, murdered by NVM. We know HVM are an almost extinct breed. We DON'T have to make any efforts to get ourselves a HVM. We DON'T need a HVM. When you get an education, a job and provide for yourself, you don't need to make any efforts towards the majority of other people (besides your boss - and ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:59 PM
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Honestly, I feel like, with the amount of illustrated cringe that book would contain, teenage girls would most probably be reading it in secret and trafficking it throughout high schools. It would become contraband goods, I swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:45 PM
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Actually, I think this is a very good idea. I think a lot of the women on here are very talented. We see that FDS has branched out into making pretty good, professional podcasts. I am sure that there are ladies who are good artists and writers on here too. I personally would consider buying a FDS storybook for my (future) daughter to prepare her slowly to what the dating world would be like for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:52 PM
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Mineko Iwasaki depicted a specific scene in her autobiography "Geisha - A Life". She was coming back from an event and was being followed by a pervert who dragged her into an alley to molest her. Now, she obviously had one of her intricate Geisha hairdos, filled with all sorts of expensive and sharp hairpins. She just grabbed onto one and pressed it against the pervert's carotid. He was so scared by her that he fled like a coward. (That book was written in response to Arthur Golden's "Memoirs of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 12:03 AM
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So wait ... is he saying that BDSM equates violent abuse and murder?! "So you agree? You think BDSM equates violent abuse and murder." Thank ye for making our point for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:46 PM
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Men are living the life. They have everything handed to them FOR FREE. In their childhood, there is the udder-maid to do everything for them. And in adulthood, there is the abused, gaslit, traumatized bangmaid. And if there is need, they are very willing to import their customized bangmaid from some poorer country, using the udder-maid's money (the udder-maid who has become old before her time and can only expect being shoved into the most run-down elderly home as a thank-you for having ruined h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:34 AM
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"Liberal men will abuse their SITUATIONSHIPS and call it a kink." Fixed that for you. Yet have to see a liberal man as much as come close to any form of legal commitment. Conservative men are a bit more adventurous. They will twist the legal commitment into asserting dominance over their spouses (you know, the guy who blocks the account whenever he decides his wife has irritated him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:58 PM
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From now on and until the day of my death, I shall ensure that my panties always be outlined! Even when I wear baggy pants (my favorites), even if it means to wear the biggest panties to be bought at the local Walmart. I promise this to myself. If nothing else, it will keep a particularly hideous breed of idiots away from me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:39 PM
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Women are constantly being held responsible for the "survival" of humanity, as if our planet was not about to explode because it cannot feed the 8 billion of us! The toys we give our daughters are meant to reinforce this belief that a woman's place is by a crib and that this is all of her creation power. But it is NOT! And by not buying into this rhetoric, we are not dooming unicorns to disappear! Rather than focusing on the fact that a woman supposedly "cannot" conceive past the age of 35 (or w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:25 PM
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That picture looks nothing like an eighteen-year old. That style of shonen manga characters was purposefully made to depict very young teenagers. "Chloe" looks closer to 14-15 than to 18. What I find fascinating (enraging, disgusting?) with this type of art is that it brilliantly eschews laws and regulations meant to regulate ambiguous art (if you wonder, you already have your answer). For example, there is an untold rule for the legal prosecution of child por*nography in the form of animation (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:05 PM
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You've answered my question. In my province, 63% of medical students are women. 55.5% of residents are also women. Now, where practicing doctors are concerned, only 50.1% of them are women (still substantially more than in the rest of the country). But we believe that in the next few years, this proportion will rise dramatically especially as retiring male doctors are replaced by newly-licensed colleagues who happen to be women. And the President of the Federation of Specialized Physicians of my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:29 PM
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I don't know whether this is an American thing. But as a medical student in USA's hat, the only instance of romance in a medical setting I have witnessed was two married residents sleeping in the same bed because there were no more nightshift beds available (they actually kicked me out of that one - nicely, though). The most sexual thing I have been told by a male attending was: "Hold that uterus, kid." I really don't know whether American doctors have that much time on their hands (the attendin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:56 AM
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Child. While you are working so hard to project the perfect image of the woman to be picked, with your nice, soft pink cardigan, your elegant, "natural" lip gloss and your smug little 1950s housewife smile as she sees working women leaving every morning for the factory, the same ladies who try to make you realize what your behavior looks like from afar and want you to protect yourself from the dangers that it exposes you to are working towards security and independence, are collecting experience…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:20 AM
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That is its actual face. For a ray fish, that is pretty cute, according to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:40 PM
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If I had to choose between spending my life with a rayfish and a LVM ... I would choose the rayfish without thinking twice. They look beautiful. LVM rarely do and when they do, as soon as they open their mouth, the illusion is dispelled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:40 PM
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You can download the main article that started the conversation here: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/8448601_Sexual_arousal_and_orgasm_in_subjects_who_experience_forced_or_non-consensual_sexual_stimulation_-_A_review Here, you have one reporting that women can develop physical arousal (not mental - we need to divorce physical arousal, which is a physiological response, from mental arousal, which includes consent) on many different stimuli, many of them surprising and contradictory: htt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 01:11 PM
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I believe that women should be told about all the options offered to them when it comes to becoming parents. Yes, there is the traditional two-parent home, whether these parents be hetero- or homosexual. However, women are not often told about co-parenting, for example. This is a less known modality that can be just, and at times more, satisfying than the tradition model. Co-parenting is the association between two persons who desire children, but do not wish a relationship, for example. And thu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:58 PM
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In two days, it is my birthday. I will be turning 30. And I've never been feeling better about myself. Stressed? Nope. Worried? Nope. My thirties are going to be magnificent. Because FDS taught me that there is no such thing as a wall as long as a woman works hard on getting her independence. My own bank account. My own job. My own hobbies. The only walls there are are those we put up in front of ourselves. And I like my life open and not constricted by any walls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:13 PM
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It was actually the sentence structure that made me wonder whether it was a man. Or maybe even that girl's boyfriend that replied instead of her. "It seems outrageous to me that you have a problem with your boyfriend watching porn." If I, as a woman, would wish to discredit another woman, I would not be taking out my neckbeard vocabulary. Rather I would use words like: "eww, you're so weird". "He's probably wanking and thinking of your sexual encounters while he does so." Isn't this a bit farfet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:56 PM
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A chick with a dick, if ever I saw one. This is no she. There is no guy watching porn, jerking off but actually imagining his girlfriend and the sex they are not having. What is the porn for, then?! If that be the case, cut the middleman, gentlemen. It is not weird to be jealous of the perfectly curated image that poor porn actresses need to project at all times. There is nothing weird in fearing the effect of the toxic, violent, degrading sexual ecosystem known as "porn"! But he is damned right…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:35 PM
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YOU ARE SO RIGHT! We need to stop humiliating men! Rather, let us turn the tables. Let us show women how it feels! Let us make rape porn, let us normalize violent penetration, force anal sex on unprepared actresses, push their heads down when they suck our unwashed dicks! Oh, wait ... (The sarcasm is so strong on this one I should not be leaving this note, but I still will, in case. I was being sarcastic.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:06 PM
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I think you are mixing up Nietzsche and Freud. Freud did indeed study human development (or rather, as you said yourself, enjoyed a circle-jerk with his dudebros and our dudebros too, who actually think that his conclusions are considered as still valid - newsflash, they are not). Nietzsche, for his part, was a philosopher, considered ambivalent in his position on women. His writings on women were such that they elicited debate during his time, and God knows it wasn't the most brilliant period f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:51 PM
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I just heard Nietzsche, the father of the contemporary male and negger par excellence, scream in pain from beyond his grave. I think you might have hit a nerve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:33 PM
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However, these photoshopped girls wearing barely any clothes that are visually abused, objectified and dehumanized by men on the other side of the screen will eventually grow out of the need to demand constant sexual validation at best and at worst, they will grow out of the "attractive age" (some strange, ever-changing age bracket, fluctuating with male mood). When this happens, these women will seek traditional jobs. And the same men who virtually consumed, used them, got gratification out of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:12 PM
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Thank you so much for speaking up. It is not my place to tell you how right you are about the fact that having an orgasm does not equate pleasure, tacit consent or any other concepts, whatever rapists and their apologists may be saying, so I'll let research speak for itself. Research has shown that around 4-5% of assault victims will experience an orgasm during the assault. However, there is so much stigma associated with the avowal of such an occurrence, that most victims will gloss (understand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:02 AM
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Very well. Now, what are you doing to actively ensure your son, your nephew, your little neighbor, the guys on the football team you are coaching do not become "shitty men"? Boys aren't born bad. If they were, there would not be a whole sub of women willing to praise the good and worthy among them. This implies that becoming a "shitty man" is a learned habit. Where did they learn it from? Women have been denigrated to the point their concerns, their opinions and the solutions they bring to the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:10 AM
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Question ... Is it me or are there never any self-help books for men to dive into the female psyche? I do not think that all the negative, reductive subreddits that victimize us count as such. Men simply do not actively research women. They cannot be bothered with understanding us and thus, taking a step towards rendering male-female relationships healthier. They do not give a cow ... If the other party is closed to returning to the negotiation table, then reading such books is a loss of preciou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:14 PM
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Well, women have given birth to everyone on this planet, having borne every human in their wombs, having cuddled, fed and educated every child in this world are, indeed, less reactionary when it comes to political and ideological differences. I believe that no woman, in her nature (now, whether in positions of power, with all the pressure of their male advisors, military general, etc., they would bow to pressure is another story), would sacrifice the life of would-it-be one child in the name of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:14 AM
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Women, in general, have been known to live much better in solitude than men. We often forget that women live longer than men, which, in many countries, implies living in widowhood for an extensive period of one's life. However, solitude is not the only satisfying option available for women to achieve peace, freedom and the right to self-determination. Female-only communities have been pinnacles of progress throughout centuries (male-only communities as well, for all the male lurkers on here - so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:41 PM
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On her visit to the USA, Lyudmila Pavlichenko, the most successful female sniper in recorded history, having served in the Red Army during WWII, was welcomed by mockery from men who had never even seen a gun, let alone fought against oppression, racism and the human right to live, whatever one's religion or ethnic background. They mocked the skirts she wore, telling her American women wore them shorter. They mocked the military uniform she wore, telling her it made her look fat. They asked her w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:33 AM
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Compromise can only exist when there is equal power on both sides and where there is a system of coercion and consequences in place. The US and the USSR compromised because if they did not, total annihilation would ensue. However, when there is a disbalance of powers, the stronger side will never wish to compromise. The King of France decided to compromise when the Revolutionary army had already crushed all of his soldiers, had taken all of his fortifications. Did the people compromise? No, they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:59 AM
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OR! That someone might come to realize that the time they are willing to invest into fixing you is a high risk, low profit venture and they would getter return on the money time represents by investing it into education, independence and coming to the final conclusion that ... damn, singlehood is amazing when you've got money to spend on things that mean something to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:46 AM
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No = No Silence = No Yes from a drugged, inebriated person = No Yes with tears in the person's eyes, with fear in her voice = Fuck No! Yes from someone who is not in a state to make an enlightened decision = No No isn't just a word. No is a look, it is a sob, it is silence, it is fear, it is questioning, it is reluctance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:36 AM
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This girl absolutely did not realize what her MIL was telling her. Her MIL de facto cleaned up her FIL messes for the last 50 years and guilted herself into believing that it was her fault. This is the narrative women are fed over and over again He hit me. It must be my fault. He cheated on me. It must be my fault. He insulted me. It must be my fault. As well, her MIL might not have had the choice but to stay! He picked her out of high school! She had no diploma, no qualifications, no nothing. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:24 AM
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Honestly, I might not know all my worth. But I am already embarrassed of the shit I once settled for (and I mean, I dated once and it has cured me from dating for the rest of my life). I have learned the hard way that the only thing I am willing to put up with in life is work and professional responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:10 AM
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Single mothers are the scariest concept to any man out there. Men are desperate to remain actual. Women have slowly been gnawing at what defines male privilege. Women could not vote. They can now. Women did not work. They do now and also make men lose their jobs, which men can only blame themselves for (women cost less for the same amount of work because we live in horrible societies - so your average capitalistic industrialist, or whatever they are called nowadays, will employ women who will wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:41 AM
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Because sex positivity was meant to ensure that males still have access to their preferred means of sexual satisfaction without the obligations that come with. Back in the days, women were financially very dependent on men. They would remain virgins as that was the only thing they could bring to the table to get married. And they did get married. Once that happened, because of the Judeo-Christian values that shaped most of the Western world, divorce was very difficult to achieve. For both women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:16 AM
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Rather than telling you what to do, let me ask you a question. Have you ever wondered what would be enough for you to break up with him after a six-year relationship? If you have not wondered, how about wondering right now. A few red flags that I picked up and that you can confirm to be red flags or explain to us why you do not consider them as red flags. He has cheated on you when you refused to satisfy one of his desires. The message he is sending is that every time you refuse to do something …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 09:50 PM
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It was very empowering for Marylène Lévesque, a 22-year old, "sex-worker" who was stabbed 51 times by a man, Eustachio Gallese, on parole for the murder of his partner. Eustachio Gallese was not supposed to have contact with women, however, plot twist, since he had "sexual needs", the Parole Board of Canada granted him the right to visit sex parlors (prostitution is illegal in Canada, they said) to take care of his "sexual needs". And this led to a virtual child's murder. Ironically so, Marylène…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:30 PM
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Warning: I am not trying to devalue your experience. I am not trying to question your feelings. I respect and stand by everything you took the time to write and that you kindly shared with us. What I am trying is to give women another perspective with what follows. Everything I write about it should of course be considered once we have mourned our ideals. As OP mentioned so well, mourning is central to this level-up process we try to live! We feel that we may never be loved or understood. Howeve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:23 PM
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I consider that even when we as women try to "go", or try to call someone out on their BS, our needs and desires get invalidated. Either we get mocked, the episode that prompted our displeasure gets laughed off, either we end up being pushed, screamed and sometimes hit into submission. We also forget that walking away from a man who we have been in a relationship with for an extensive period of time is different from walking away from a man we just met. The man we have been in a relationship wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:04 PM
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My language is similar in that aspect to Spanish. Many terms for animals are feminine: fox, weasel, bird, squirrel, shark, snake, giraffe, cat, duck, goose, etc. But the English language is so male-centered that they seem to forget their own grammatical rules. Animals are supposed to be referred to as "it" at all times, unless there is a personal relationship between the animal and the person talking about it. If your dog is a "she", it is not incorrect to refer to her as such. However, if you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:46 AM
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These types of men who speak too much about their feelings are the most dangerous. In our society, we, as women, have been indoctrinated with the idea that "big boys don't cry" and that this causes men a great amount of distress. These type of "melancholic", "sensitive", "empathetic" men flaunting their feelings ostensibly are the types to use the aforementioned narrative against women. Whenever you will do something that displeases them, they will flaunt their feelings in such a way that you wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:22 AM
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I would have to respectfully agree-disagree. I believe it all depends on how the mother brings the subject up. You are absolutely right in saying that children are not their mothers' therapists. That is not their job. Their job is to learn to look out for themselves. Their mother is a grown woman who can and has the responsibility to look out for herself. At the same time, there is this saying where I come from: "Learn from the mistakes of others." As OP herself said, by telling children about y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:34 AM
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How to cure someone from OLD. Forever. I shall be keeping a link for this if ever I get the bad idea of trying OLD (if ever that happens, you are all allowed to slap me so hard my head makes a 360°).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:18 AM
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Honestly, for whatever strange reason, it really makes men feel alive to compete with other men. Unless they consider themselves as the underdog in the competition. How to know you are facing an underdog LVM? He tells you by demanding you dress down, stop wearing heels, wear less make-up (whatever might be construed as that LVM trying to control your life). Other men will actually welcome the challenge like a God-sent gift, peacock around you and flash all of their appeal while while bearing the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:07 AM
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I laughed so hard at "liege of the scrotes, lord king dick" that I peed a bit on myself. The next time I feel that might happen, I will put a picture of Gabriel Mazneff, the embodiment of the Sigma male as per your definition, under my ass and pee galore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:58 AM
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I actually cannot take a good look at these good friends of mine because of my fur down there. My beloved fur down there that is going to stay where it has always been. Forever. Who am I to serve it an eviction notice because some subpar, sleezy pEeNuS wants to rent the space like an AirBNB expecting it to be clean and scented so he can trash it, destroy it and then write a bad review of it on the rental website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:20 AM
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I don't know how well-accepted it will be of me to propose some romance literature on here (Well, romance is a big word. The romance happened I think 2-3 pages before the end). But if you want an FDS Regency woman gaslighting all the men she meets on her path, try "The Grand Sophy" by Georgette Heyer (mind you, I disliked the portrayal of another female character pitted against the heroine - it was unnecessary and not Georgette Heyer's general style). Sophy is insanely modern, no-nonsense, funny…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:11 AM
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I've never met an indecisive man in my life! What I have noticed is that they know exactly what they want and when they want it. However, they may not get it. A strategy old as the world that I have seen repeated over and over again among men of different nationalities in four different countries is that they will remain in a relationship while actively looking for what they consider an "upgrade". I am willing to bet all my savings that during those 10 years the women waited for their ring, thos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:03 AM
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When one actually sits down and pays attention to the pattern of speech of people around one, it is fascinating to realize that no one actually uses "males" when referring to men. Ever heard "males are like this", "males do this"? It sounds wrong to the ear, doesn't it? Because we have been conditioned to refer to men as "men" and to women as "females". It is so dehumanizing to women. It is a term that encompasses all females in this world, from insects up to humans, and seems to stem from a mal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:48 AM
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Ah, the good ol' sigma. This is the misunderstood, edgy wolf. The special snowflake. The lone wolf. He is dark. He is mysterious. He definitely is NOT the reject of the pack. He doesn't give a shite about what others think of him. He is an intellectual. He is an introvert. He never chases, he is always chased. His superior male pheromones are being spewed all over the place from his oversized, radioactive balls and attract all women who throw themselves at his feet, writhing in supreme pleasure …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:28 AM
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