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I agree that luck isn't a sharable secret, but you can maximize your luck by putting yourself in situations where it is possible to be lucky. The moment I learned that women were not at my house and I wasn't going to meet anyone there was the moment I started going out more. This made me more interesting and it increased the amount of times I got lucky.
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:22 PM
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Valid way of breaking the first and second rule of fight club.
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:32 PM
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I found that texting conversations would last too long and both the girl and I would get bored of them. Saying introductions and then asking them to meet in public worked a lot better and filtered out the girls who only wanted to text.
/r/seduction23/07/18 03:04 PM
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Thank you for elaborating, but this is still a tad too Donald Trump for me. There is a lot of room between overthinking and this sort of behavior.
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:27 PM
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That's great man!
/r/seduction17/08/17 02:42 PM
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Don't get discouraged over this. That happens from time to time. I always tried to meet girls for lunch so if they stood me up I could still enjoy a meal. I tried meeting women through tinder, pof, etc. For a couple of years. I had a few dates but nothing worth turning into a relationship. So, I decided to drop all the apps and ask a girl out in person. That day, I saw this girl at Walgreens and decided to approach her. That was over a year ago and we have spent every day together since then.
/r/seduction12/07/17 06:24 PM
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Social Media is not needed and I believe that it hindered me when I did have it. You see, we live in a time that it is so easy to over expose one's self too early in a relationship. Social Media plays a large role in this.
/r/seduction12/05/17 08:24 PM
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That is an even better reason for you to approach more women. You won't get better without practice.
/r/seduction12/01/17 05:53 PM
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It is impossible to fuck up in this situation. You'll either get more time with her or not. Either way, I'd suggest approaching and interacting with more women.
/r/seduction12/01/17 05:15 PM
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The people who have written on here before me have been 100% correct in what they have said. We are all on this subreddit to grow by discussion. You're openness and honesty just make the process easier. I am also 27 and felt similar to your description for years before forcing myself out of it. If you try to pick up girls right now one of two things will happen: 1. You find a lady that jives with the type of person you are now. 2. You get a lot of rejections and go nowhere. It sounds like you're…
/r/seduction26/12/16 06:39 AM
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What would your suggestion to him be Kurt_Kobain?
/r/seduction15/12/16 12:14 PM
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I have been in your friend's position at least two times in my life. I am naturally charismatic and picking up women has always come relatively easy for me. Chances are your friend does not even know what he is doing and how it is affecting you. The first time this happened to me my friend just stopped going out with me on the weekends. We spoke less and less until we stopped and I didn't know why. A little over a year later I ran into him and we started hanging out again. He told me almost exac…
/r/seduction14/12/16 03:07 AM
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Kurt_Kobain, you really aren't the type of person that should be trying to give advice on this subreddit. This is not helpful and not true. If you need to talk to someone, you're welcome to private message me. From what I have read in your history you are failing miserably with women (in addition to any other issues). Instead of spending your time on here putting your untrue and toxic shit all over this subreddit, start working on making yourself a better person. Life is too short to be as bitte…
/r/seduction07/12/16 09:27 PM
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Confidence Ambition Passion (for something other than women) Physical Health (Grooming, general well being) Nonemotional Decision Making Skills Good luck bro. The trick is to have goals that you're actively working toward, take care of yourself, and smile and be sociable.
/r/seduction07/12/16 09:22 PM
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Can you walk out of class with her?
/r/seduction03/12/16 11:41 PM
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Get off this subreddit
/r/seduction02/12/16 05:16 PM
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Your post history is riddled with aggressively negative and harsh posts full of pseudo logic. All you do is try to bring others down. A positive outlook can go a long way.
/r/seduction30/11/16 05:51 PM
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Live and earn man. Good luck and keep me posted.
/r/seduction25/11/16 12:51 AM
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It sounds like you need to do two things. Make some casual friends outside of your friend base. Some single people that'll have a beer with you. Work on your day game and be an overall friendly person. Going to lunch solo is much more kosher than dinner plus you can run errands and talk to girls you see through your day. All I am saying is that you really don't have to go too far out of your way. I met my girlfriend at Walgreens, while I was doing chores during my lunch break.
/r/seduction25/11/16 12:07 AM
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I had a puppy when I was in college (he is a dog now and I have graduated). I was also asked this question fairly often. My response was "And here I thought it was me (haha). My name is John Smith, what's yours?" It worked for me very well. It displays confidence, humor, and starts a conversation.
/r/seduction24/11/16 12:18 PM
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This isn't helpful.
/r/seduction24/11/16 12:11 PM
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I am and will always be respectful of others, including women. I wouldn't want to date anyone who didn't value respect.
/r/seduction19/11/16 03:05 PM
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Actually Kurt_Kobain, those aren't the only two options.
/r/seduction18/11/16 12:15 PM
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I wouldn't consider people on this subreddit idiots. They are learning and trying to grow.
/r/seduction16/11/16 09:00 PM
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With an attitude like yours, it wouldn't matter how good you look. Looks do not matter nearly as much as you think. They do matter, but not the same way they do to males. Women are attracted to people who take care of themselves. Taking care of one's self will make one more physically attractive in some ways, but more than anything it shows that you respect yourself and are able to handle yourself. Kurt_Kobain, I have read a lot of your comments on here. Though I have no understanding of why you…
/r/seduction16/11/16 04:08 PM
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Is that why you're on reddit all the time Kurt_Kobain?
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:46 PM
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This is unnecessary and rude. This is also not the place for bullies.
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:45 PM
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Kurt_Kobain, why are you even on this subreddit. Don't be a dick.
/r/seduction15/11/16 05:44 PM
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People who are interested aren't that complicated and weird most of the time. Even if she is interested, this seems to be causing you some tension and possibly some anxiety. Is she what you want?
/r/seduction11/11/16 05:17 PM
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Sounds like you're talking from experience haha
/r/seduction11/11/16 04:03 PM
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Wrong again. Women do not care about looks nearly as much as we do. You just need to build some confidence Kurt_Kobain.
/r/seduction09/11/16 02:22 AM
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That is very negative
/r/seduction07/11/16 05:48 PM
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I cold approach women successfully often. Maybe your personality is getting in your way.
/r/seduction06/11/16 11:00 PM
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Lame
/r/seduction06/11/16 10:53 PM
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?
/r/seduction06/11/16 10:51 PM
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Is a nice experience spending your day on this subreddit trying to bully others Kurt_Kobain?
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:15 AM
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You're a bully
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:13 AM
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What kind of trophies do they give to people on this subreddit that are trying to hurt others?
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:12 AM
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Yet another amazing and positive message from Kurt_Kobain. Do you need a friend man or what? Get out of this subreddit if you're going to be negative and a bully.
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:09 AM
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Kurt_Kobain, you have been all over this subreddit trying to be a bully. Why should anyone take dating advice from you. From all of the comments I have read from you, you're horrible with women. You need to work on inner strength and empathy.
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:03 AM
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I have read a lot of your comments on this subreddit , Kurt_Kobain. What explains your "bitchy" behavior?
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:01 AM
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Kurt_Kobain, you have obviously had a difficult day, because you are all over this subreddit trying to hinder other people's progress. I am here to help you. There is no need to try and hurt others, no matter how bad you're hurting.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:59 AM
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So, you seem to be going through all of this subreddit trying to make an ass of yourself. You need to recenter yourself and empathize with others. I still encourage you to message me if you're needing someone to talk to. I'd much rather try to help you, Kurt_Kobain than watch you try to hurt others.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:57 AM
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Of course bro. This was the method that worked for me. It took me a long time to become comfortable approaching women. Now it is a rush that I enjoy. If you need a pep talk or anything let me know.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:43 AM
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Honestly Kurt_Kobain, youre not only wrong about everything you have said on here, you have proven that you're a real piece of shit. What kind of person gets on this subreddits to hurt people? I can only assume that you blame your looks for not being able to pick up women. I promise you that it is your personality. No self respecting woman would give a bully the time of day. And that is what you are being. With all of that being said, I am here for you. I think that you can be a better and more …
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:39 AM
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Kurt_Kobain, This could not be more wrong. What is creepy and desperate is comments like the one you made. This subreddit probably isn't where you should be. We support one another here. OP, I moved into a new city a few years ago for work and didn't know anyone. So I couldn't meet women through friends because I didn't have any yet and I find that online dating isn't where I thrive. It was lonely for a bit and I tried the exact same thing you talked about. I realized that I was asking too much …
/r/seduction05/11/16 12:25 PM
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You did great! You should be proud. It takes ball to approach a pretty girl.
/r/seduction05/11/16 11:32 AM
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I was the same way and it seemed like a huge deal. I am 26 now and looking back it really wasn't a big deal at all. Work on yourself. Try to be as intelligent and capable ad you can be. The rest will be easy after that. Girls like guys that invest time into themselves.
/r/seduction13/06/16 03:00 AM
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You know, you're too good for that nonsense. I hate to say this, and I know it can be difficult, but move on and find another one.
/r/seduction23/04/16 05:00 PM
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Work on closing the deal. Kiss the first date. Display that you are interested in something physical. Everytime you see her make an attempt. Do this until you close, get bored, or she stops you. Then move on.
/r/seduction13/04/16 08:55 PM
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Don't learn to deal with shit like that. Just keep looking until you find someone who you enjoy being with.
/r/seduction31/01/16 02:26 PM
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Just don't talk to her any more. Change her contact name on your phone to "do not answer."
/r/seduction31/01/16 02:24 PM
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Man, you are inspiring. I am the definition of confidence. I relate a lot to your post. I have a great family that are all smart and positive. I take care of myself and am always trying to better myself. A lot like your post. Stay strong and message me if you need a pick me up.
/r/seduction28/07/15 12:27 AM
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This is very positive and up lifting. I have been dating a girl for a while. We got an apartment together and she left me then moved in next door with my best friend of the time. It is difficult to meet girls in my current situation. jjpaulkill, are you naturally positive or have you worked on that?
/r/seduction26/07/15 10:36 PM
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