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Bonkers_Way7291/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 02:55 PM
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ah thanks ill add those to the reading list, thats an interesting quote, consiousness realising the true nature of itself, ill have to give that some thought
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/23 06:52 AM
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ok point taken, i guess what i mean is, thaks for sparing the time to comment on my post, being able to post and have people comment and given challenge back is part of the process that helps me hold myself accountable
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/23 06:45 AM
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Wow, this got very deep. I hadn't known that about Taoism, but its good wisdom. actually i think the point about not being able to speak about it without creating polarisation and stopping the flow, I think is quite relevant to why woke is toxic. its impossible sometimes to have a position without it creating a paradox. Woke likes to think its tolerant, i.e. of different race, religions, beliefs, ways of doing things, and that seems all very nice when you first come across it. But in being toler…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/23 10:30 PM
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Many thanks for your replies and holding me accountable redmateus.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/23 08:15 PM
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haha indeed so, there does seem to be a lot of it going around, i dont necessarily think the labels are that helpful, and our understanding of it as being a disorder will almost certainly be overturned in the future, i think that and autism are really just part of the more extreme reaches of normal human characteristics rather that disorders, (except for e.g. severe autism that prevents normal function) that said, i think there is a lot of value in understanding how to get the best out of yourse…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/23 08:28 AM
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Hello Fritz. I suspect youre right, there will be a lot of ADHD people on here, and also autistic. I think youre right that a post about it is needed, and now youve suggested it i think i will try to put one together one day. I am nowhere near ready to make a good job of it at present though, im midway through my redpill journey and only starting on getting on top of my adhd, which is another separate redpill journey on its own so i have little of value to teach just yet, but ill get there.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/23 08:23 AM
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Many thanks for the reply Blarg_risen, im interested about your suggestion to people to look up the pick up artistry videos, can you tell me some names to look up agree that some of Petersons old stuff was quite woke, hes definitely moved past that phase now, i used to tolerate woke thinking when it first came out until it became aparent how toxic it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/23 08:14 AM
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Hello redmateus, thanks for the feedback. "A reflection of me" Yes i quite agree, having got past the anger phase i acknowledge that most of this is my fault. i respectfully disagree on your thoughts about the youtubers i mentioned, but i see theres already some discussion about that on the comments. Yes none of them are perfect, a lot of them say some stuff i disagree with, Andrew tate is sometimes well over the top, but broadly all of them have a very strong red pill message agreed about the c…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/23 08:09 AM
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its called "ADHD effect on marriage" lol, by melissa orlov
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/23 11:31 PM
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I'm about a year and a half in from first taking the pill, and 9 months since my last post. as was rightly pointed out to me then, I am a type 3 dysfunctional captain, and my early attempts were essentially a dancing monkey type approach, ok i had to start somewhere, but i believe i've moved past that now, and the comments on my post helped me to realised i needed to do that. I got past the anger stage, i had been obsessively re-reading the sidebar books and making shorthand notes, but i became …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/23 11:23 PM
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Dunlop60. you're quite right, i am still in her frame, but i'm a huge amount less so than i was a year ago. i agree, i should have posted in OYS, in my head i've made massive progress so far. but having read some of the replies and links people have sent has made me realise i still have a hell of a long way still to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/22 12:15 PM
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Hi El0vution, good to meet another ENTP too. i've started reading a lot more about this, and its really good for self awareness. from what i've read its one of the harder hands to play, but can be a very good one if played well. have you done much research on it? loads of good books and youtube videos on how to make the most of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/22 08:30 AM
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Thanks so much for this. i like that phrase "ringing the bell" ive not heard it called that before. this is something i have started doing, it was something i got out of jordan petersons book 12 rules for life. Before, I would let everything go to avoid conflict and she got worse and worse, she knew she could be openly rude to me, i would take it all for weeks then eventually explode and we would have a horrible arguement. it got to the point where sometimes if i tried to defend myself she would…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/22 07:48 AM
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Youre right of course, me gaining sadistic pleasure from her confusion is perhaps an initial revenge response, perhaps to be expected but as you say, this is not the way forwards, it will do no good in the long run, and yes, she is very perceptive and will notice. Im going to work on eliminating this, her poor behaviour is ultimately my fault anyway, so there is no justification for it. and regardless of that my improvements are for me and me alone.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/22 04:05 PM
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This 3.0 is me and my wife. absolutely spot on
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/22 05:26 AM
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Thanks Tyred. yes, i still have a long way to go, i don;t believe i'm doing things for my wifes reaction, perhaps i was when i first started, but i have internalised the fact that i need to do this anyway for my own self improvement, whether i stay with my wife or whether we split up, the work i need to do is still the same. but yes, perhaps i am still guilty of it in some ways, all i can say is that i'm gradually moving more and more away from that mindset. i'm happy for to be moved to OYS if y…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 09:40 PM
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Many thanks Ragnar. yes i'd like to think pretty high functioning, and youre right, her emotions are her problem, i do need to start not giving a fuck about it. i have definitely made progress on that front, but there is furthur to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 09:34 PM
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man_in_the_world. Thanks for that link, that had really useful reading. im definitely a type 3 dysfunctional captain, the text on that describes me and my marriage exactly. Yes i am guilty of the dancing monkey approach, perhaps it not such a terrible way to start though, you need some quick easy wins after all. i need to make sure i keep the momentum going though and move past the dancing monkey stage. I mentioned i had some business ideas to get extra income streams, well i need to actually do…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 09:28 PM
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Jonydevidson, you are quite right, I shouldn't be doing it for her reaction, really i do also value the thought of having a stacked body for my self, not for her. but i also can't help the sadistic pleasure i get from seeing her realisation that i'm changing and she doesn't know why. look if it helps me to motivate, i might as well bloody use it to get me where i need to go anyway
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 09:12 PM
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haha. if you re-read, i have read plenty of books on the kindle, my problem was de-linking the sharing rights of my library with my wife. without her knowing i've done it. and yes, i did find the solution, and yes, i'm now continuing to read. my shortcomings in using technology, are really not relevant to my use of controlled substances, they are really two quite separate matters. sounds like you are judging me for it though? each to their own, it may not be right for you, but it might be for me…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 09:08 PM
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This would be my preference, but its a controlled substance, i tried to get some from an online pharmacy but you need to take a testosterone level test first and they will only give you a prescription if your natural test levels are low, below a threshold amount. i bought from a site which i have had recommended by some friends into bodybuilding.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 09:03 PM
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apologies, wrong wording there, perhaps not anxiety but it does help me stay calm though, when she is having emotional meltdowns it helps me to keep disengaged.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 09:00 PM
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GutRasiert, thanks for this. To be honest i'm now indifferent to saving my marriage or not, i have seen enough to realise i need to be on this journey of self improvement anyway, if she responds positively to it then great, if she doesn't then i'm beyond caring and i have stuff to do and places to go. youre quite right, the changes i have been making have already got her attention, and she is definitely slightly worried, and already trying to sabotage my weight loss. i've been fighting the urge …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 08:59 PM
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Yes, i have been doing leg presses, leg curls and extensions, and just today i used the chest fly machine, i can't do anything like bench press for another 6 weeks, but the chest fly machine seemed ok, didn't really put any strain on the elbow. as you say, there is plenty that can still be done.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 08:51 PM
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Praexology. many thanks for your detailed reply. I do think you have mis understood some of what i have written though. my elbow injuries were excuses but they are not any longer as ive now had them both fixed Re the books. same, it was my excuse, but now having figured out how to do it, i've bought the books and started reading them. the point i'm making on both of these is that i've taken the problem on and broken the barriers down and i'm pressing ahead with both the lifting and the reading, …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 08:46 PM
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I very much appreciate the feedback. i admit im at the start of a very long journey here and im here to learn
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 07:46 PM
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