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Red Pill TheoryBored/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 10:16 AM
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Bored/r/seduction28/07/19 02:02 AM
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Bored/r/MensRights20/01/17 07:15 PM
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FundamentalsBored/r/seduction16/06/20 02:40 AM
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I see what you mean, but I just because most guys have no clue doesn't mean it's not possible. One heuristic I use is to imagine what a guy does that gives me cool vibes. These cool vibes normally translate to what women would find attractive. When you start understanding what makes you or other guys attractive, you can intuitively understand what's creating attraction. Which often times has to do with the context. Most guys have a bad understanding of what makes women attracted is because they …
/r/seduction27/05/21 04:47 PM
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>The main lesson I've taken away is that I can't really trust myself and I think the same is probably true for every guy here. Look, as a man, you will never understand why she is attracted to you. ​ Not understanding what makes you or other men attractive makes me think your experience-learned game is you being conditioned to perform to women in a way you don't understand but know works
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:45 AM
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Is she still watching your stories?
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:34 AM
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reply to people's question without PMing them to show your credibility
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:23 AM
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Aren't incels anti-seduction/game?
/r/seduction22/12/20 03:36 PM
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The easiest way to break the physical barrier is to sit close to each other, like at a bar. Move closer to where you're touching occasionally. The smaller steps you take the less forced and more natural escalation will be.
/r/seduction16/06/20 03:52 AM
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It sounds like you're comfortable being around and talking to women, so you're in position to give it a try. But I don't recommend starting with physical escalation - instead verbally escalate. It's a lower risk way to practice your calibration. Bring up a sexual topic or make a sexual joke that pushes your comfort zone. If you're seen as creepy or awkward your date will likely shrug it off and you can retreat back to a safer topic. Ideally you maintain your frame and not back-peddle on what you…
/r/seduction16/06/20 03:32 AM
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Why do you feel escalating is a struggle for you? Not sure how? You get to nervous? Or are you not sure why.
/r/seduction16/06/20 03:14 AM
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It’s not negotiable - your value as a man to women is constantly fluctuating and being re-evaluated.
/r/seduction15/06/20 05:27 PM
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Transition earlier and not to the number but instead the plan - "This convo is interesting, now I think we should sit together on a park bench". Sounds like you gave away your mystery, even for quarantine, but on the positive side with a few changes you will pull.
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:58 AM
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Coaches, or people who are advanced, don't think about seducing women when they're interacting with them. Their game and their personality is meshed into one. Their relaxed, self-amused mode is also their unintentional seductive mode. So how we seduce women won't be an answer you'll find very helpful.
/r/seduction15/06/20 10:42 AM
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One belief you have that will set you up for failure is the urge to woo her and show interest in her. When you try doing those things it will come off incongruent, deceptive and boring (lacks personality). Put aside your thoughts of trying to talk to her in order to attract. Keep your testing to a minimum and about logistics, not a platform for flirting. This may help take the edge off. So don't try anything you think she wants to see and move to an in person meetup or even a video call
/r/seduction15/06/20 10:38 AM
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Me personally? Missing some context
/r/seduction15/06/20 09:58 AM
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Look at online job listings
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:29 AM
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"Alpha" is a construct that helps certain men err their behavior on the side of more attractive. It is not a way of life.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:28 AM
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Moving things online is a tool. If you have a product that's selling really well then selling it online is a way to scale up. If you don't have a great product don't bother.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 08:54 PM
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I think she wanted to know more facts about you rather than how you process information.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 07:06 PM
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The way to do that is to get in the habit of validating yourself.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:10 PM
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Not just college girls, all
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:52 AM
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Only if that's what you're into, you do it, otherwise no
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:46 AM
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i duno but keep calling them bitches
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:43 AM
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CF likes you, can't trust and you trusted
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:41 AM
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Sounds like you want the title "abundance" and who knows what you think earning that title implies.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 08:45 AM
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There are many countries/societies that see extroversion as unattractive - it comes off as needy, attention seeking, validation seeking, etc. Which goes to show that extroversion and introversion are not unattractive or attractive qualities on their own.
/r/seduction30/01/20 08:25 PM
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Is it any more complicated than seduction?
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:07 PM
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What's the "post" option - i just see submit new link, and submit new text post
/r/seduction16/01/20 09:09 PM
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You can revert to the old version in your settings
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:16 AM
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Sounds like she treats relationships she'll sabotage anyway as an escape or high - you just got some 2nd had dosage
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:48 AM
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Didn't intend to solicit but I stand by my dating ebook for men here
/r/askTRP03/11/19 03:45 PM
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A reminder that I can leave when I want is dread. If she doesn't meet your standard then, sure leave when you want (and maybe even should leave). If she meets your standard and you can leave whenever you want, and it creates dread, then I'd say you haven't managed her expectations well.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 03:14 PM
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In that case I'd say you're not creating dread with your LTR girl - you're setting boundaries without anticipation of fear
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:17 PM
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Agree, I just don't condone dread in LTR's.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:10 PM
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I disagree with Rollo on this. Happy to hear your side. Don't need to show my boy scout badges for that.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:08 PM
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It's not ok, I was showing the slippery slope of accepting dread as normal
/r/askTRP03/11/19 01:53 PM
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How does dread make people feel?
/r/askTRP03/11/19 01:47 PM
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Don't, this is borderline abusive. Learn to "argue" differently instead and listen to the emotions communicated. Implementing dread could work too, so does gaslighting, put-downs, etc.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 01:05 PM
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The same logic applies to any woman who's ever been with men 1 on 1. "Devil's threeway" is not a dealbreaker.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 01:00 PM
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You didn't believe you could get as far as you did with your plates so you cling. Don't suppress your ability to express affection, instead, manage your expectations with your plates more accurately. You may be seeking them for certain attention/emotional needs you've been denying yourself.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:54 PM
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Set boundaries before there are any guys/girls night out
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:47 PM
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Your inner confidence isn't caught up to your outer appearance.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:45 PM
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High status mannerisms
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:42 PM
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Don't buy into his weak frame of fighting. If you do, he automatically brings you down to his level. Backing off completely is also buying into his frame. Pretend like you're the adult in the situation. If he brings up fighting, say: Hey I get it, I'd be upset if I was in your situation too. But I'm not going to fight you because you're upset. If you want to talk it through I can do that. If he continues [record convo] If you threaten me again I'll call the police.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 12:38 PM
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You asking puts pressure on her to exaggerate her disinterest in him. Better to not ask and observe her behavior, like if and how she interacts with him.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 10:30 AM
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Are you the one asking how she feels about him?
/r/askTRP03/11/19 10:18 AM
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TRP often exaggerates how 'alpha' men should be because their audience is often recovering betas at a certain stage in life. Following it too literally will end you up in the situation you're in.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 07:48 PM
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You should be focusing on acknowledging that it's ok how you feel given what you'v gone through.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:22 AM
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Thank god... I read the title and assumed youd lost your dick and balls out camping. Read 3 times just to make sure
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:10 AM
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Extroverted guy approached introverted guy
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:01 PM
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Befriend him first
/r/askTRP13/09/19 11:03 AM
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Become a freelance marketer, make a name for yourself, recruit others to do most of the work you source.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:46 AM
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Something tells me you come off like you have weak boundaries.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:43 AM
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Is there a lead guy in the group you can befriend first?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:41 AM
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Yes, associating with you now improves their odds
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:38 AM
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Drop hints you're kinky earlier in the date
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:37 AM
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Using more words than necessary to get your point across.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 07:02 PM
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Then end the relationship in it's current form
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:16 AM
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This is probably said following an uncalibrated escalation
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:14 AM
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Doesn't have to be number just a way to stay connected. Like IG follow.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:12 AM
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Don't demand her to act the way you want.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:10 AM
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Your question is implying you're looking for a way to define yourself as a valuable man. "N count" is the wrong focus.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:57 AM
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Don't start "a company" start a product or service that at least one person would pay for.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:36 AM
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More like a few bad actors in the scene
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:04 PM
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It's not lost, start a new conversational thread like the age one didn't happen.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 06:35 AM
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Yeah, your frame being "this isn't a non-issue, I'm going to tease you about thinking it is"
/r/askTRP11/08/19 06:29 AM
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You positioned your response as if you believe she's bringing up a legitimate point about age differences that's worth clarifying.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 06:23 AM
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It was a shit test. You bought into her frame a bit too much, you could've responded with "Learn to embrace your new young guy fetish"
/r/askTRP11/08/19 06:14 AM
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"Want to know what I'm feeling?" If the response is condescending.. "My dick" If not... "We're really connecting right now, [question]"
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:31 AM
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I think it's her way of saying "hope you follow through when I'm back".
/r/askTRP11/08/19 05:15 AM
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Keep only 3rd, 4th and 5th. Take out "looking for adventure"
/r/askTRP11/08/19 04:40 AM
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Ed got reactive, bad response. He could've said "why are you intimidated?" and turned it into a smooth conversation. He could've walked out with her but instead clung closely to his false sense of superiority.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:56 PM
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In that case remain out of it
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:49 PM
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thx
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:42 PM
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Dead eyes comes from compromising values to sleep with guys as a means to an ends. Sometimes it's cause of a very low supply of attention/affection and sometimes for drugs or what not. Chances are your dead eye woman just has 'not interested' eyes.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:41 PM
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You're fine
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:38 PM
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So in other words you not liking it is part of you transitioning
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:36 PM
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Just walk away. You feel like she needs to change her mind for you to feel like you're actually an 8. The harder you try though the more you establish you aren't.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:35 PM
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"you should come say hi to my [pet name]" or "we should listen/watch this video/song"
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:32 PM
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That is because part of you is still holding onto that idea. When you let go you don't care who sings about whatever.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:28 PM
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relationshiphero.com/conversations
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:23 PM
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Be nice/kind to the sister and she'll give her stamp of approval
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:21 PM
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You're getting blowjobs cause the girls you're with are just ~16! Just wait
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:19 PM
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Pretend like you never said what you did and just act as if she's another plate again
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:18 PM
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What would make a woman not cheat but the answer isn't "alpha". You will know when she won't cheat in that you provide alpha benefits and provider.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:18 PM
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Imo you can only keep the same dynamic right now and if you want down the line you can change it if you want. But it's an uphill battle.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:15 PM
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This question sounds like it's motivated by someone who wants someone who won't cheat. That's not a good mindset.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:12 PM
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blue piller^
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:10 PM
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Higher LTR count is pointless. Rebuilding frame with the same LTR is much better. She represents every girl in the same position in most cases.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:09 PM
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The focus shouldn't be on the plate, they should be a detail in the story.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:07 PM
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You interacted in a way that communicated she was just a fuck buddy and she accepted it. Your reaction said the opposite "we're not just fuck buddies what are you talking about?". This incongruence would drive her away.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:06 PM
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Invite her to a cool event, no context to reason why you're asking her
/r/seduction04/08/19 08:24 PM
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More like non-verbal compassion - helpful actions that imply the guy must be attuned to people. Does not come off as being nice to get something in return.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:36 PM
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Dirty talk is porn for women. It's the a equivalent of men asking for nudes.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 12:39 PM
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What was the trip and did you have any sort of relationship with her prior?
/r/askTRP15/06/19 05:05 AM
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Maybe she's not single but her friend is, so she's transferring you over to her.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:26 AM
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Status Frame control Have a greater purpose (Women should not be your top goal) Know why you’re doing what you’re doing at any point Aware of actions that aren’t leading you closer to achieving your goals and adjust accordingly Act with direction Humor, but be a self-entertainer, not an entertainer Emotions are self-validated Don’t need to justify how you feel Feeling bad about feeling bad (This is another form of not accepting your emotions as valid) Know who you are, likes/dislikes, aspiration…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 04:17 AM
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Never savage, you're saying that because you're angry or hold resentment for the person who ghosted you. Admit you like her to yourself and process that feeling.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:49 AM
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Initiating conversations without any direction Tolerating rude behavior or being mistreated Express interest in everything she's interested in Bending your schedule to fit hers Not having anything to do if you can't hang out with her
/r/askTRP18/05/19 09:12 PM
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When you try going towards a relationship, do you start behaving significantly different?
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:24 AM
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Him asking that will probably make them more intrigued.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:19 AM
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She didn't create a threat in order to control you, so not abuse. I suspect she wanted more affection from you.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:08 AM
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Wait until Sunday and say "Sure"
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:05 AM
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It depends on how much her self esteem is wrapped in her worldview. Defense mechanisms may prevent her from acknowledging her attraction to you.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:59 AM
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What's your goal
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:46 AM
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Sounds like she wanted validation from you.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:37 AM
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It has always been difficult, but in different ways. In the past couple hundred years, the rules for dating/relationships were well-known and those who succeeded just had to do their best while following the rules. Those who had trouble following the rules would find pickup difficult in this era. But today, there rules of the past don't apply anymore, and the hard part is figuring out what the rules are. "Naturals" will have a slight upper hand in this wild west of a dating era because they can …
/r/seduction05/07/17 10:50 AM
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Neurotypical people do subconsciously pick up on social cues better. But that's a small part to learning social dynamics.
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:44 AM
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It's common for old school indian parents to reject their kids dating any race, or caste, outside of their own. But what matters is how she feels about it, not her parents.
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:31 AM
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She mentioned the guy she was talking to was her husband (I called bullshit right away, they were so distant) and I quickly told the guy "Ok so show the ring" I was totally playing around in my tone. You came off extremely butt-hurt and douchey. It's ok to joke that their marriage is "bullshit" - you'd be pushing it but it might get a few laughs. Telling him to show the ring isn't funny at all. You're making him jump through hoops to help you, and only you, make a stupid joke at his expensive. D…
/r/seduction24/05/17 08:58 AM
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Oh heh, my bad, that comment was supposed to be for https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5z2k1t/doods_who_are_doing_well_with_tinderonline_dating/deuu7qa/
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:14 PM
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I would advise on friend-zoning yourself with girls (in real life) to get game building experience over chatting online.
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:49 AM
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From the article you are going to have to come up with a good answer for the question “If you’re such a ladies’ man, why do you need an online dating profile?”. Why is this emphasized so much throughout the article? It's not even a question that comes up if you're doing things right, i.e. not overdoing attraction and neglecting comfort.
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:43 AM
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Next one "getting laid like Hitler"
/r/seduction22/02/17 12:44 PM
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Thanks, that's a good reply. Do you think if these men would be less abusive online if they were taught better online text game?
/r/MensRights15/02/17 06:30 AM
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Lol well I'd like to hear your perspective
/r/MensRights15/02/17 04:44 AM
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Men aren't good enough at picking up women online, thus patriarchy That's the mainstream feminist take on it.
/r/MensRights15/02/17 04:26 AM
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but you shouldn't be trying to have a conversation through text. What if you met them through online dating? Then it's a must. You don't have the time to be having a conversation through text. But I personally like texting.
/r/seduction27/01/17 03:09 AM
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Makes sense
/r/seduction26/01/17 08:02 PM
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Well, you just did..
/r/seduction26/01/17 08:01 PM
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Also texting is a common newbie bait, who end up texting for hours and hours, and never meeting the girl. So are shit test. Doesn't mean there's no way to counter it. As for dating apps like Tinder, if you matched you're already "pre-selected" and just need a few messages to show that you're not a complete weirdo before checking out the logistics. Nope. They pre-selected you for looks, but not personality, which is important to them. You still need to convey your personality through text post-ma…
/r/seduction26/01/17 02:47 PM
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Shameless plug, but relevant: I just started a new service that specifically helps with text game: https://hermes.social You'll get connected with dating advisors that not only give you general advice, but also provide real-time advice for your on-going text conversation. Our unique platform allows you to upload screenshots of your conversations, which helps the advisors figure out what you're doing right or wrong.
/r/seduction26/01/17 11:41 AM
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Hey, I'm the author of the post. I really believe that if guys had better text game, they wouldn't lash out like the Bye Felipe guys. That's part of why I developed a new app http://hermes.social where men can get live texting advice. Even the more civilized guys have some resentment in their texts when they get rejected or flaked on.
/r/MensRights21/01/17 12:14 AM
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Oops thanks
/r/MensRights20/01/17 09:59 PM
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It will just make the identified guy more angry and feel more hatred towards women. Also related: fat shaming doesn't work
/r/MensRights20/01/17 09:05 PM
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90% body language, 10% compliments. More specifically, substitute compliments with messages that qualify yourself to her. The word "compliment" has messy connotation, what you're really trying to do is communicate what you authentically find (in this case sexually) intriguing in her.
/r/seduction28/12/16 01:20 PM
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Yes, it's an authentic expression and congruent with her ideal self.
/r/seduction28/12/16 01:13 PM
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Misread, thought you said "oh you look so pretty you'd look great with no makeup" line.
/r/seduction28/12/16 12:53 PM
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Every girl knows that line is BS deep down. To achieve the same affect, be specific about your compliments, e.g., "You could be an eyebrow model". It comes off more genuine, less cliche, and a reliable signal of your observational skills.
/r/seduction28/12/16 12:31 PM
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Is there a process for becoming someone that gives the advice? Unfortunately there are no official credentials you can get for giving such advice. But the advice is easily verifiable. With a few text suggestions, people can tell they're getting more positive responses than they're used to. Is there money involved for my time doing so? No. Like I said, there's no official process. The text advice market doesn't even exist yet, so it's difficult to assign a monetary value to the skills required to…
/r/seduction28/12/16 11:54 AM
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Here is the direct link to the web app. We are in the very early stages of the product, but would appreciate any feedback you guys have.
/r/seduction28/12/16 10:11 AM
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Are they picky about the race they date? Most of the time. Are they racist for it? No
/r/seduction10/12/16 10:13 AM
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Approach girls on your own and have female friend stop by and say hello, even come off a bit jealous.
/r/seduction10/12/16 10:12 AM
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Humor = self-amusement
/r/seduction10/12/16 10:09 AM
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At this point my mind kicks in and tells me to let her vent to me so that I don't become friend zoned. Uh, letting her vent to you puts you in the friend zone
/r/seduction10/12/16 10:02 AM
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None one "should" need this service or no one needs this service?
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:01 PM
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For the past several years, I've been developing a new technology that enables guys to easily share their text convos and get instant text advice. The tech is in the early stages of development, but fully functional. I'd love for you guys to try it out (for free) and get your feedback.
/r/seduction08/11/16 05:33 AM
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Have you ever done cold approaches?
/r/seduction29/05/16 09:10 AM
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People don't find you as intimidating so you could get away with being very edgy and provocative. Take it as an opportunity to do and say whatever you want.
/r/seduction27/05/16 06:54 AM
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They are very bitchy towards natives, cause everyone knowns everyone. Being a foreigner, you might be in a good position to be their secret hookup.
/r/seduction27/05/16 06:46 AM
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Sounds like you're doing a routine on guys, event starts with a cold read
/r/seduction27/05/16 06:38 AM
0

Besides the cooking/cleaning part, couldn't this list also apply to men?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:47 PM
3

You should work with these guys
/r/seduction25/03/16 05:52 PM
3

Energy. Is. Contagious. It is the MOST important aspect of game, inner and outer. Nope. In general, provoking positive emotions in girls leads to attraction. Brining energy in a social setting is just one way to provoke positive emotions. You can create these emotions in many other ways, like by telling a story, performing a stunt, teaching her something, etc. "Bringing the energy" is just one amongst many.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:05 AM
1

Your young age is going to hurt your chances in online dating. My advice is to social circle game. Make as many friends as you can and build a big social circle with your peers in school.
/r/seduction07/03/16 10:29 AM
1

Instead of focusing on what your new goals should be, ask yourself why you're still in your rut. Have you made any attempts to change your routines?
/r/seduction07/03/16 10:23 AM
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In other words, it doesn't have to do with gender.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 07:35 AM
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However, I think she's doing them to appear attractive Correct
/r/MensRights14/08/15 05:53 PM
1

Who cares, in a few years everyone will just accept his new persona.
/r/seduction22/05/15 12:18 AM
1

This is good advice. The more you ignore it the less of a habit it becomes. Eventually your mind will automatically ignore it (to an extent).
/r/seduction26/03/15 08:04 PM
1

Didn't you get some confidence from learning how to do it or what it involves?
/r/seduction14/07/14 03:58 PM
1

Why is that?
/r/seduction01/05/14 06:56 PM
1

I guess we have a different idea on what it means to stand up straight.
/r/seduction10/06/13 11:01 PM
1

I'm talking about guys like this http://www.gap.com/products/mens-clothing.jsp You think the models in Gap men are trying not to look normal?
/r/seduction10/06/13 10:30 PM
1

I don't agree with the posture one. Best to have the most relaxed posture, which isn't always about standing straight. Just look at images of male clothing models, they rarely stand straight.
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:47 PM
1

Just start acting like a normal cool guy. A lot of college hook ups comes from social circle gaming anyway. As long as you're liked in some group, you'll be a sex target.
/r/seduction19/02/13 08:24 PM
1

Once is ok
/r/seduction28/11/12 07:51 AM
1

The guy seems totally state-dependent in his game.
/r/seduction28/10/12 06:12 AM
10

You're THAT guy
/r/seduction28/10/12 03:54 AM
1

It has resorted to Tyler spewing out stream-of-consciousness with nuggets of substance.
/r/seduction17/10/12 04:34 AM
2

Lol what's with pua's and the term "money"
/r/seduction28/09/12 05:23 PM
2

I think this is a bad idea. Thinking you shouldn't feel anxiety when you feel it, perpetuates more anxiety. My suggestion: Just be an animal about escalation. You're just like the dog wanting to hump anything it sees. Touch her because that's what your primal instinct tells you.
/r/seduction28/09/12 05:22 PM
1

Regarding dating coaches and personality disorders, I think it's a result of a small market growing quickly. You have a lot of lemons that aren't weeded out by competition yet.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:11 AM
2

This is a technically better version with the "support" pun, but the OPs is easier to digest.
/r/seduction23/09/12 08:30 PM
20

This will not work on anyone remotely jewish.
/r/seduction23/09/12 08:25 PM
6

This http://youtu.be/C0JcQlZqF4E
/r/seduction22/09/12 10:25 PM
1

It's also not practical to ride a street motorcycle in the mountains without a helmet... I'm obviously not saying there's a 1 to 1 correlation with reality. The banter, the body language, the non-reactivity, the playefulness are all good examples of what works in the real world.
/r/seduction08/06/12 08:37 PM
1

What about it contradicts your knowledge of game?
/r/seduction08/06/12 07:00 PM
1

Movie or not, that's how it's done. I can't imagine a bad pua even act the part convincingly.
/r/seduction08/06/12 06:46 PM
0

I agree with the blurting out part. I think I'm thinking of a small subset of compliments possibly.
/r/seduction29/05/12 09:08 PM
1

Ah, can you point out a specific movement? Have any of your friends ever pointed out a guy's hips?
/r/seduction07/05/12 01:19 AM
1

Nope, should've added that.
/r/seduction07/05/12 01:11 AM
0

How would you say "no" to someone who can't give you sex? Like a male friend or child? Personally, I'd give them a little advice on how they can do it themselves in a matter-of-fact way. If they push me to do it, I'd just express a little annoyance and say something like "just do it yourself dude".
/r/seduction09/03/12 08:16 PM
1

Very much not trolling. Can you pick out an example where I do this?
/r/seduction09/03/12 08:08 PM
12

No offense, but you look equal status in the pics. And I actually mean no offense, in that you don't look like a loser in the first pic.
/r/seduction25/02/12 04:25 AM
2

When you develop your game more, you'll realize that you're actually becoming more authentic.
/r/seduction25/02/12 04:20 AM
1

What kind of girl would be labeled HB1 by your definition of HB and 1?
/r/seduction20/02/12 07:00 PM
4

"HB" is the most useless acronym. HB10 is just redundant. Which is pretty ironic considering the whole point of acronyms is to be more concise. Makes me wonder whether men just get a kick out of shortening words.
/r/seduction20/02/12 10:07 AM
1

So one person cannot be a set?
/r/seduction20/02/12 10:03 AM
3

What made you think that?
/r/seduction20/02/12 12:57 AM
1

lol I always thought of a "set" as a set of women.
/r/seduction19/02/12 11:04 PM
2

Sure, I agree.
/r/seduction15/09/11 10:17 PM
1

Being wanted by what kind of girls? If they're all ugly, poor, drugies, then, no, it wouldn't be a DHV to a woman with a PhD. The higher the status the girls you can attract, the stronger of a DHV it is. In other words, your point is vague and doesn't disagree with my perspective.
/r/seduction15/09/11 09:43 PM
1

Agreed, but a lot of people still hold it to high regard.
/r/seduction15/09/11 08:12 PM
3

Despite your anecdotes, hypergamy still exists. I am sure in all your cases, having a PhD will only improve those men's attractiveness. They may be alpha, well connected, charismatic, charming or good looking enough that lower paper status hurts less... but it still hurts.
/r/seduction15/09/11 04:56 PM
2

A guy with lower paper status would turn them off as potential long term partners.
/r/seduction15/09/11 04:29 PM
4

Read "Bad-boy douchey boyfriends become provider-material when they do these things"
/r/seduction30/06/11 06:37 PM
8

Why dating multiple women means you have good game ftfy
/r/seduction28/06/11 07:54 PM
1

I suggest to change the last line to: "jk, I don't do that for free"
/r/seduction25/06/11 05:03 AM
17

http://vvcap.net/db/Odd2ArzozyiAt7BPNaJ5.htp No need for this line, ruins the joke.
/r/seduction22/06/11 06:23 PM
1

They're not presenting, they're asking.
/r/seduction02/06/11 04:02 PM
1

Check it out: http://www.reddit.com/r/amicool/comments/h6bdd/example_rating_two_different_men_taken_from/
/r/seduction07/05/11 09:52 PM
1

Agree, I'll do some sample ones now.
/r/seduction07/05/11 09:17 PM
1

Thanks for the input. I agree that sometimes the advice is similar, but I there are many sub-reddits that overlap with each other (like seddit, relationships, male fashion advice and mansformation) and the overlap doesn't detract from the sub-reddit's quality. My main motivation for creating this sub-reddit comes from the kind of imprecise advice I see on amiugly. Guys post pictures of themselves who look like they lack confidence, have bad posture, look too feminine, etc., and as long as their …
/r/seduction07/05/11 08:59 PM
1

Right.
/r/seduction07/05/11 07:14 PM
1

I can actually tell a good amount (try it out). I think everyone has "cool-dar" but many don't know how it works.
/r/seduction07/05/11 06:55 PM
1

"Retards"
/r/seduction19/04/11 10:45 PM
5

You either want to win the game or play another one Upvote.
/r/seduction27/02/11 07:35 PM
6

Depends on the context. Girl you just met in a bar, forget about it. Bringing out a girl on a day 2 or female friend in dating limbo, one drink is good.
/r/seduction27/02/11 07:31 PM
3

Oh oops, I read it as "...be attractive yourself"
/r/seduction28/01/11 02:29 AM
-8

I think it's sarcasm...
/r/seduction28/01/11 01:14 AM
0

Mimic cool people.
/r/seduction14/01/11 01:35 AM
2

Chemistry cannot be generated? What's so mystical about it?
/r/seduction12/01/11 07:41 AM
1

Just a side note - Funny pictures are a lot better when they're witty.
/r/seduction13/12/10 07:11 PM
1

Good, but without the "true story", it sounds like you're qualifying your statement.
/r/seduction10/11/10 05:37 AM
1

Haha, I actually had a conversation like that today. Instead of Uncle's cousins roommate it was brother. I wasn't trying to game the girl though. I would just say "thank you" and change the conversation topic. I wouldn't leave them hanging after "thank you" unless I thought they're going to say something else. You can also respond with "oh really?!" sarcastically. And for the basketball line you could respond with "Hey, don't discriminate against tall people."
/r/seduction10/11/10 04:36 AM
1

You'd be surprised.
/r/seduction10/11/10 03:51 AM
1

Sure it is, you don't react to it like others would.
/r/seduction10/11/10 03:08 AM
0

"Thank you"
/r/seduction09/11/10 11:34 PM
1

But she knows he bought before they even started talking. Bad. Contrasted well with him walking away though.
/r/seduction23/10/10 11:34 PM
1

It's not, but the times it is, it's attractive.
/r/seduction24/08/10 10:26 PM
1

If it's obvious you're just really nervous, you're more awkward than creepy.
/r/seduction24/08/10 07:59 PM
1

What they think and mean are positively correlated with what they say - even though those things may seem to have nothing to do with each other.
/r/seduction24/08/10 05:47 PM
1

In seduction, you have to distrust what women think they want anyway, since most of them don't know. The post is an attempt to break down what they mean rather than say.
/r/seduction24/08/10 05:22 PM
1

A lot of men are consistently labeled a certain way by women and have no clue what it means. Sure it shares some elements of a cosmo quiz, but don't think the quality should be put on par.
/r/seduction24/08/10 04:04 AM
-1

You like them, but are you more physically attracted to them?
/r/seduction23/08/10 06:48 PM
-4

As with men for women, the most attractive thing a girl can do to land a good man is be confident. Wrong. This method only filters out the more attractive guys that your attractiveness level can get. This, however, doesn't raise your attractiveness level. Not to mention, it's a turn-off if women are too confident.
/r/seduction23/08/10 04:51 AM
2

That's the best mindset to start a relationship with. If you feel like you're going to break up with the girl you think wants to settle down, she's just not up to your standard. The mindset isn't the problem, it's the girl.
/r/seduction17/08/10 07:15 PM
1

You have my gf's confirmation.
/r/seduction11/08/10 04:19 PM
1

Romance is great relationship game.
/r/seduction11/08/10 01:09 AM
1

You would if it was extremely easy.
/r/seduction13/07/10 05:23 PM
1

"I can't believe you forgot!"
/r/seduction13/07/10 05:17 PM
0

Awesome opener.
/r/seduction13/07/10 05:13 PM
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