| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 978 | Why is everything related to female identity made pornographic? | MALE DEPRAVITY | BoredOfBeing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 619 | The emotional labor of being hurt | LIES MEN TELL | BoredOfBeing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 03:44 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"Ngl I’m gonna bet money it’s some strong ass kala jadu. My brain refuses to accept any other possibility | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 06:04 PM |
| 19 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"WTF she married the cousin on purpose? But why? Usually it’s the parents forcing the cousin marraige | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 01:39 PM |
| 9 | Clearly an FDS lady in the wild, with a sparkly blue penOr ya know bidets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 12:04 AM |
| 6 | The new "shit test" and Another common Neg Found on OLDOh it very much is, but most women are more compassionate and empathetic where they fall for it because “this guy can’t lie to me like this”. I just wanted to leave this here incase a sister has a moment of weakness. Even if he’s not lying you can be both mentally ill and a piece of shit. This behaviour doesn’t need a lie or truth. It’s unacceptable either way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:26 AM |
| 16 | The new "shit test" and Another common Neg Found on OLDI have GAD amongst a host of other issues. I’ve had depression so bad it physically hurt to get out of bed and open a book. I’ve never stopped replying to ppl. Metal illness isn’t a get out of jail free pass unless it’s so severe you can not function in which case a month of therapy ain’t gonna cut it anyway and you should put dating and relationships on the back burner. You can’t just use your diagnosis to hurt ppl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Ladies who are in Muslim communities or in other very religious communities: how do you protect your children from patriarchal indoctrination?For the time? Yes. Heckuva difference between 1400 years ago and now, which also correlates to how kids develop. Which is why in those days a 16 year old boy marrying was also extremely normal but now would be considered insanity. His first wife was 16 years elder, his second was even older than that. He had the option of marrying any young and beautiful woman he wanted, yet he only married one young virgin. The rest of his wives were older(some even older than him), divorced or widowed. There’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Ladies who are in Muslim communities or in other very religious communities: how do you protect your children from patriarchal indoctrination?A) that verse has been misinterpreted a lot. Even most non psychotic mainstream scholars will tell you it’s in the most extreme of circumstances and a gentle tap with a miswak. The interpretation I agree with the most is that it says to not speak to your wife(it’s the one the prophet did, he never laid a hand on his wife even when rumours were spread that Hazrat Aisha RA was Anaudubillah unfaithful) B) the narration that places her age at 9 was by a single man, taken when he was quite old. Other… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Feel like a million bucks without breaking the bankLemme knows how it goes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 01:39 PM |
| 14 | Ladies who are in Muslim communities or in other very religious communities: how do you protect your children from patriarchal indoctrination?I’m Muslim and honestly most of the stuff I read on FDS my mums told me my whole life. The best thing IMO is to tell your daughters their rights (starting from haq mehr. No one but men benefits from you not taking your mehr). And don’t make them petrified of divorce. Tell them to not accept bad treatment from men. Stand up for them and teach them to be strong. Islam has a tonne of strong women who’ve lead wars, were scholars, were jurists etc etc. Teach them lessons of strength from their lives.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Feel like a million bucks without breaking the bankFolic acid is extremely important for ladies planning on kids too, it’s just that where I am we’ve started prescribing myoinositol+folic acid for PCOS and we’re seeing p good results due to the antiandrogenic properties | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 01:07 PM |
| 6 | Living rent free in his head: A guy I criticized YEARS ago turned his life around because of a comment I made.For me peak dad bod would be nick offerman. Not ya know??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Feel like a million bucks without breaking the bankAnemia in ladies is so freaking common and so easily diagnosable. It takes the most simple blood test to see if your haemoglobin is down. But if you genuinely can’t afford to go to the doc, if you have heavy periods and the palm of your hands look pale and not pink, eat some iron supplements. But remember you have to not eat 3 hours before and 4 hours after for them to properly absorb Another good one for ladies is calcium. Especially if you’re planning on having kids. We see older ladies come i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Feel like a million bucks without breaking the bankAlso the inkey list! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Feel like a million bucks without breaking the bankWAIT THIS IS LITERALLY MY TIME TO SHINE Okay so I have amazing curly hair, like the kind ppl are jealous of, 2C 3A. One extremely cheap deep conditioning mask that will do WONDERS for your hair(like SWEAR by it legit): 1 banana(or whatever soft mushy fruit is cheap or gone off in your fridge) 2 tablespoon honey 2 tablespoon carrier oil(of your choice. More moisture? Use olive. More protien? Use coconut. Etc etc) 3 tablespoon aloe Vera gel Blend it all in a blender, strain and apply on your lengt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | WHAT IN THE PICKMEISHA DID I JUST READ? 🥴Someone called her lipstick bad and now she’s salty. That’s the only thing that makes sense to me. Also obligatory makeup can’t change it can only enhance what’s there, and if some fucking idiot thinks I naturally have gold eyelids and red lips maybe they deserve to be duped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | I am done with trying to make pickmes see the lightDo the same amount of emotional labor as you would do for a LVM. None | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:19 AM |
| 3 | If a man has a beef with another womanSomething I learned the hard way from my NVX “you’re not like other girls” is not a compliment it’s a red flag. Run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Wedding advertisement from the a newspaper personals section, according to the BBC article it was a “small prank” but it was too good not to share here! Did anyone else see this story?Oh God don’t even get me started on the sexist bullshit of the marraige market | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:01 AM |
| 28 | I Married a Homeless Man Living Under a BushYeah the people you give a chance will use you as a punching bag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 12:11 AM |
| 16 | I Married a Homeless Man Living Under a BushOkay so now the standards we can set for ourselves shouldn’t include “must have a place of residence” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹✨Be violent to women I consider lower class not me✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 05:03 PM |
| 21 | He Could Have Drowned HerFor gyms and swimming pools, if you have an Islamic centre in your area check if they have a gym or swimming pool. If they do it will have female timings/female only, and they might be willing to accommodate you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 15 | He Could Have Drowned HerI live in a country where women only gyms and swimming pools are the norm. It’s SOOOOO amazing! The environment is so lovely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:56 PM |
| 6 | He Could Have Drowned HerShe needs to file attempted manslaughter charged or atleast aggravated assault. People have absolutely died or risked permanent brain damage/lung damage from this exact scenario | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:54 PM |
| 13 | He Could Have Drowned HerThank you for sharing this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:53 PM |
| 0 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meOkay so you’re gonna claim that the experiences I’ve had with brown men, everyone else around me has had with brown men, living in a brown country, working in the medical profession so constantly in contact with every single socioeconomic strata are invalid because of your abusive experiences? I’m not claiming brown men are all angels, but on average there’s the same amount of bad and good as in the west. We’re not being forced into child and arranged marriages in droves. I worked in an ob/gyn h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:01 AM |
| 0 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meI hope this is a poes law thing but ofcourse we do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 11:42 PM |
| 5 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meThe current laws in my country don’t permit second marraige without the consent of the first wife, and Islamically a woman can have it written in her nikah papers that her husband can’t marry another woman. We have resources available to us, but it’s in men’s best interest that we don’t know about them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:05 PM |
| -6 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meUm no? Wut? That’s kinda racist? Im from one of those countries where polygamy happens and women are never really okay with it. If they are it’s because they can’t have kids of their own? Or some other fringe reason. Your viewpoints about brown men as animals and brown women as weak and submissive are extremely orientalist at best Why do white people always assume we have no agency? Child marriages aren’t as common as you’re assuming and most of the time the guy is a year or two older, you’ll se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meIt’s. Not encouraged in Islam either. The thing said is that if your needs aren’t fulfilled by one wife then get another only if you can fulfil her rights and Allah knows one is better for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:45 PM |
| 18 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meI have once where the first wife picked out the second wife cause she couldn’t have kids. Then that asshole went and married a third one and fucked the whole arrangement over. So even if it seems like it’ll work, never doubt the power of male stupidly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:44 PM |
| 7 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meMuslim pickmes are my favourite thing. They’ll get 10K comments from guys being like “I wish all sisters were like you” but then theyll go DM and propose to the girl whose publically saying she wants nothing to do with polygamy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 9 | Discovered this sub and I’m in heaven but going incognito for safety, because men.Yup! Made a separate account for this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:39 PM |
| 79 | The caption 😂Because they want a porn fantasy not a flesh and blood woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:19 AM |
| 30 | The emotional labor of being hurtOh God one of the first things I tell my girlfriends is “you have every right to be mad and you don’t need to be the cool girl unless you want it to hurt more” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 10:38 AM |
| 19 | The emotional labor of being hurtWhat are sisters for? As long as you remember other women are the only ones who’ll protect you NEVER men, your life will get easier and easier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 09:33 AM |
| 9 | The emotional labor of being hurtOh God can you please be my big sister? I’m saving your comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 09:26 AM |
| 33 | The emotional labor of being hurtOh and let’s not forget the photographic memory of their “crazy” ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:53 AM |
| 29 | The emotional labor of being hurtOh they know. Like they have all the introspection when they want to. Hurt them and see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:49 AM |
| 152 | The emotional labor of being hurtOh that’s the straight up block signal tbh. A bigger red flag couldn’t exist. This is about the guys who pretend to be good guys, meanwhile they demand a fuck tonne of emotional labour for hurting you. The subtle red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 03:57 AM |
| 59 | When they lie about their ages on dating apps and think we won't notice 😂Oh but women are still stuck up bitches for not giving them a chance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.I love how aise absolutely matters when it comes to boob preference but dicks??? Nah :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:56 AM |
| 47 | Refinery29 Article: I Earn Much Less Than My Partner, But We Split Costs Evenly. How Do I Stop Resenting Him?If you’re letting a man nickel and dime you to this extent, might I suggest dumping him and getting a roommate so you can atleast adjust your expenses and lifestyle so you can save more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:42 AM |
| 24 | Just doing pick me things, oopsie! 🤪Imagine doing your exes chores and thinking it makes you superior to other girls. I come from a culture where polygamy is allowed(but rarely done. Most men still whine about wanting it) and I never understood the rare women who spent their lives serving their husband and his second wife(touted as a paragon of virtue because ofcourse) but now I see it’s far more universal than I thought it was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 61 | Just doing pick me things, oopsie! 🤪I fucking love the comment saying “and that’s on not being a toxic person” I’ve never been so happy to be a toxic person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:59 AM |
| 14 | Nah a degree >>> a man. A man can leave, die or be broke. You will always have your degree & it will always put money in your pocket. A good piece of Red Velvet cake can replace a husbandMy MBBS isn’t gonna lie to me, use and abuse me, cheat on me or be a dick to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 11:14 PM |
| 61 | AskFeminists: “We do not allow FDS users to participate here. “ Explain like I’m 5?I got banned for being a Muslim. Men silencing WOC for feminism, this is what we worked for huh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 14 | AskFeminists: “We do not allow FDS users to participate here. “ Explain like I’m 5?The top mod demmian is a male with a LOT of sympathy for MRAs. Hell ban every religious feminist because white men silencing women of color is totally what feminism is about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:15 PM |
| 19 | Why is everything related to female identity made pornographic?I once made a post about cats and someone tried to get me to watch them masturbate on some video call app | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:38 PM |
| 29 | Why is everything related to female identity made pornographic?I just remember how men twice or thrice my age were and continue to hit on me ever since I was 13 online and I realise so many of them are pedos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastThe smell. The mold. Just no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:17 PM |
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