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Yes, seeing such comments is so disappointing for me as a Ukrainian man. Wishing my country to be occupied by Russia is not helpful at all. Or when they say things like "don't support Ukraine if it treats men like this". People who say it literally promote men's deaths. Less military aid = more dead Ukrainian men. Less air defence = more dead Ukrainian civilians (the majority of whom are men and boys, by the way). People who promote ceasing military support for Ukraine actually promote a higher …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/26 05:35 PM
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OP is ideologically pro-Russian I don't have the impression that he's pro-Russian (see his later comments).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/26 01:55 AM
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Some people here in Ukraine do argue for conscription of women, though this is not the dominant point of view (yet?). Here are links to two Facebook posts, where women in the Ukrainian Army argue for conscription of women (huge respect for both): https://www.facebook.com/yaryna.chornohuz/posts/pfbid02aExNfeS1Lbg9PN7M8XXW9YRsTJLLphE6aRMTMCeemzBQrn9QsVPGbhWZYy3JmzPHl https://www.facebook.com/kolesnikova.hanna/posts/pfbid0MPpL8Y46BcmqCBKsNtQ8H9G1fKg8kLpVkKeVFyqduyBoX2RaqdvUh4FgndRykZxul
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/26 12:47 AM
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No one in Poland is against you, we all support you Thank you. We are very grateful for your military, financial, and moral support. If the Bandera supporters don't want to fight. They sure don't want to fight Poles. This recent argument between Ukraine and Poland on historical issues upsets me so much. I hope we'll manage to resolve it. Ukrainians and Poles should not be enemies, we should be friends.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/26 12:31 AM
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No, no, and no again. Regardless of your political views, gender-apartheid can never be accepted. Where did I say it can be accepted? Please read my comment more attentively.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 11:28 PM
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European Commission itself, which intends to deny men the right to asylum in a new package of laws Yet at the same time the EU wants Ukraine to "combat violence against women". The Council of Europe has a separate page dedicated to that: https://www.coe.int/en/web/kyiv/combating-violence-against-women-in-ukraine-phase-iii-covaw-iii-#{%22194386864%22:[0],%22200055837%22:[5]} They literally demand special protection of women against violence as a part of Ukraine's integration into the EU: https://…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 09:47 PM
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Yeah, that's why this "Ukraine bad, see how it treats its men" talk isn't quite fair. All countries have this "women important, men disposable" attitude. EU has this attitude, Poland has this attitude. The vast majority of people, both conservative and liberal, have this attitude. The only difference is that Ukraine is at existential war. Other countries in a similar situation would do more or less the same (maybe except Sweden, Norway, and Israel, where women are drafted, but I'm not sure, as d…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 09:39 PM
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What we are "whining about" is not simply feminism, but institutionalized feminism. Please read the example from the OP's link, if you genuinely don't understand why we are complaining about feminism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 09:20 AM
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The support for the war was never as great in Ukraine as has been portrayed in US/Western media. And what support there was, has pretty much dried up. Actual people in Ukraine -not the government -but people, want this war to end. As a person from Ukraine, I can confidently say this is a lie or at least a manipulation. The vast majority of Ukrainians don't want to be occupied by Russia. Of course, people "want this war to end", but not on Russian terms, which are actually a threat to the very ex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 09:04 PM
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Patriarchy does not exist in the feminist sense, but it does exist in the anthropological sense, where the word means a system in which most positions of political power are held by men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/26 01:35 PM
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Very nice post, I'm going to save it. But it has one point I don't agree with. imagine if our society routinely told young girls they were "not real women" unless they married or had children Actually, such things existed for centuries and still exist to some extent, especially in more traditional societies. Female traditional gender roles are real too, just like the male ones, and they are enforced through pressure too. The phrase "a real woman" is indeed rare, but women are pressured into trad…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/26 02:52 PM
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This is why the word "patriarchy" is so misleading and manipulative. It centers masculinity around power, while in reality it's actually centered around other, often quite opposite things, like the exploitation of men. Patriarchy is a side effect rather than the cause.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/26 02:30 PM
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in a world where there were no men, women wouldn't need protection because men are the ones doing all the harm. Women would need protection from wild animals, disasters, cold, hunger, diseases, other women etc. So no, it's objectively not true that women wouldn't need protection without men. And men have always protected women from the abovementioned things, often by risking and losing their own lives. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying "let's preserve traditional gender roles". What I'm saying …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 04:27 PM
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Maybe it's even worse than what he mentions. In his example, men can get protection only if they are married. In my examples, men are excluded from protection at all, if they are military age (which is the majority of men).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 09:42 AM
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Denmark from the news: https://www.pravda.com.ua/eng/news/2026/06/25/8041147/ Denmark original: https://uim.dk/nyhedsarkiv/2026/juni/regeringen-vil-begraense-ukraineres-adgang-til-danmark/ Norway from the news: https://www.eurointegration.com.ua/eng/news/2026/02/26/7232042/ Norway original: https://www.regjeringen.no/no/aktuelt/ap-regjeringen-foreslar-innstramming-for-ukrainske-menn/id3150326/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 08:35 PM
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+ Norway, + Denmark
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 04:35 PM
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As a man from Ukraine, I constantly feel like I'm surrounded by enemies. 1) Russia is an obvious enemy. It literally tries to kill me with their rockets and drones. 2) Ukrainian recruitment officers (ТЦК) are enemies, because as a person with a mental disorder I literally don't leave my apartment. I can't be sure they won't take a person with a mental disorder. They take everyone. There were cases when even people with schizophrenia were mobilized, while my disorder is not as severe as schizophr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 04:32 PM
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Yet at the same time the EU wants Ukraine to "combat violence against women". The Council of Europe has a separate page dedicated to that: https://www.coe.int/en/web/kyiv/combating-violence-against-women-in-ukraine-phase-iii-covaw-iii-#{%22194386864%22:[0],%22200055837%22:[5]} They literally demand special protection of women against violence as a part of Ukraine's integration into the EU: https://enlargement.ec.europa.eu/document/download/17115494-8122-4d10-8a06-2cf275eecde7_en?filename=ukraine…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 03:35 PM
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In my experience, AI is not very biased. Before making a post here or in other MR subs, I usually show it to an AI, asking it to check it for mistakes and tell me what it thinks. Usually, it agrees with me in general, though it often corrects my mistakes or shows me where my logic is weak or my conclusions are too strong. I don't remember it ever trying to shift the focus to women or saying that men's issues are not important. At most, it might say something like "Your opinion is too strong in t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/26 10:16 AM
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These people are sick. They need treatment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 12:09 PM
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So they want to censor anti-hate speech, anti-discrimination and anti-disinformation. Gender misinformation Lol Internet intermediaries that carry out content curation activities must ensure that the criteria used to select, organize, and present information, data, or digital content do not perpetuate gender stereotypes or reinforce discriminatory biases that disproportionately affect women. So discriminatory biases that disproportionately affect men are OK? These people sick.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 06:04 PM
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Complicating the matter further is the reluctance of men, often the primary breadwinners, to undergo surgery. This hesitation significantly contributes to the gender gap in organ recipients. The study underscores that when the recipient is a male breadwinner, family members, especially wives or parents, feel a heightened responsibility to step forward as living organ donors. The dynamics of societal expectations and traditional gender roles continue to play a significant role in perpetuating thi…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/26 05:04 PM
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One reason is simple. Spouses are often the first to volunteer to donate a kidney to their loved one. And while women are more likely to get chronic kidney disease, men are more likely to be treated for end-stage renal failure – meaning of heterosexual couples, more wives than husbands may feel compelled to step up. In a study of 631 living kidney donors in Switzerland, for example, 22% were female life partners while 8% were male partners. Another reason may be economic. Donors need to take sev…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/26 05:00 PM
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Across all organ types, men received 64% of deceased donor organs and 58% of living donor organs. We have found sex-related differences in transplantation activities conducted in the Council of Europe Member States. However, these may be the consequence of the higher incidence of some diseases in men, organ size mismatch, or the greater difficulty in finding immunologically compatible donors in women. In summary, altogether the data collected from 26 Council of Europe Member States and 3 observe…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/26 04:54 PM
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Isn't it misogyny in this context? This post is not anti-women, it's anti-misandry and anti-bigotry. Women are indoctrinated into toxic ideologies no more than men. Both sexes can be toxic and bigoted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 07:54 PM
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No idea why you sensor it Rule 6
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 07:36 PM
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Just presenting facts Not facts. Lies and manipulations. Extremely disgusting, by the way, morally repulsive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 05:09 PM
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Russian elections are much more free and open than Ukrainian ones Lol. I don't understand why this troll spreading Russian propagandistic lies is not yet banned here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 04:47 PM
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Hahahahaha. These are all pro-Russian parties. They are not even parties — they were more like a pro-Russian lobby in Ukraine. Banning "parties" that support an enemy who wants to destroy your country and kills its citizens daily has nothing to do with "authoritarianism". It's simply a survival instinct. These bans are supported by law, which has clear provisions stating that threats to the territorial integrity of Ukraine are criminally punishable. Also, these parties have nothing to do with so…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 04:44 PM
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So now I'm some sort of Russian agent because I don't demonstrate sufficient agreement with the official US/NATO propaganda line? No, because what you are saying is unbelievably stupid and OBJECTIVELY does not correspond to reality. Also, because you are equating the aggressor and its victim, which is morally repulsive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 04:26 PM
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The law and constitution in Ukraine can and has been changed at Zelensky's whim. Hahahaha. It's so unbelievably stupid I can't believe someone can seriously say this. The law that prohibits elections during wartime was adopted long before Zelensky came to power and hasn't been changed since. And this law absolutely makes sense, all political forces and the vast majority of citizens in Ukraine, including myself, agree with that. Learn at least something about the topic before saying such stupidit…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 04:20 PM
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Lol. What you said is objectively a lie. I'm telling you this as a person who lives in Ukraine (and not a fan of Zelensky, by the way). It's so stupid that I don't even want to comment on that. Can you name one party that Zelensky banned? Lol, the only reason I'm responding to this bullshit is that someone else can read it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 04:02 PM
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This
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 12:59 PM
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Zelensky has cancelled elections, eliminated all opposition media, banned opposition parties there's nothing like that in Russia Lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 10:19 AM
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eliminated all opposition media, banned opposition parties Dear moderators, please delete this propagandistic bullshit. What this person says is objectively not true. Opposition media in Ukraine are not banned and opposition parties are represented in the Parliament. These things are easy to fact-check.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 10:17 AM
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Zelensky has cancelled elections Russian propaganda in LWMA is something new. Ukraine is in the state of war. In Ukraine, elections in the state of war are prohibited BY LAW. Not to mention elections are impossible under Russian drones and rockets.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 10:11 AM
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What a disgusting comment. "We shouldn't believe what Ukraine says, though I admit that maybe Russia commits crimes too". Ukraine's propaganda organs What are you Russians doing on the Western Reddit? You've got Max, isn't it enough for you? The victims of these crimes are real people. Many of them gave detailed interviews. There are countless horrifying photos and videos of Ukrainian POWs that look like skeletons after returning from Russia. Saying it's not true is DISGUSTING. Dear mods, please…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 10:07 AM
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Men are already the vast majority of the most severe violence (homicides, aggravated assault). But people who produce and sell these t-shirts want more. What they do is deeply disturbing. By allowing such things Shopify actually reflects the same attitude which leads to men being disproportionately affected by physical violence. "Violence to men is OK" is an attitude that makes violence to men possible. If these t-shirts are bought by women, it doesn't mean it's not serious. Studies show that me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 09:48 AM
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Do you mean your commanders told you that directly? Or was it more like implied but not explicitly expressed?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 01:53 PM
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but seem to miss or undersell the point that modern militaries presume all men between the ages of approximately 18-45 (military fighting age) to be militant combatants. Maybe they did miss this point, but anyway it's a rare example of pure, good-faith male advocacy in a (relatively) mainstream outlet. They didn't even mention the words "patriarchy" and "toxic masculinity".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 01:27 PM
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This is so unbelievably stupid. Do stereotypical gender expectations exist only for women? Isn't it obvious that they are two-sided? — A man who expresses feelings is a bad man, but it's an average woman. — A man who's afraid to do dangerous things is a bad man, but it's an average woman. — A man who doesn't know how to repair things is a bad man, but it's an average woman. — A man who doesn't earn much money is a bad man, but it's an average woman. Also, a single mom is an awful woman? I honest…
/r/EverydayMisandry05/07/26 01:15 AM
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" Regarding the effect of gender on deaths from floods, some studies have mentioned that being male [ 1 – 3 , 6 , 9 – 11 , 16 , 28 , 29 , 38 – 40 , 48 , 50 , 52 – 55 , 57 ] and some have mentioned that being female [ 8 , 58 ] is a risk factor, and yet others have mentioned that both genders [ 6 ] are risk factors. Men are at risk since they are more exposed to risk factors, and women are at risk because of their higher vulnerability. In agreement with the 2018 study by Salvati et al., the curren…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 12:05 PM
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"Higher disaster mortality among men has been observed in both developed (Ashley and Ashley 2008; Badoux et al. 2016; Doocy et al. 2013) and developing countries (Delaney and Shrader 2000). A review of flood events in Europe and the United States finds that males account for 70% of flood-related deaths (Doocy et al. 2013). Men are often overrepresented in risky rescue work and other outdoor activities, such as forestry and construction, increasing their direct exposure to natural hazards and oft…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 11:16 AM
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Contemporary disasters may not kill more women than men: an empirical inquiry into sex‐differentiated fatalities in the twenty‐first century Abstract This study investigates the claim that women are disproportionately more likely to die in disasters by reviewing existing data sources and compiling new datasets on sex‐differentiated disaster fatalities in the twenty‐first century. The analysis is structured by disaster type, covering geophysical, meteorological, climatological, hydrological, and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 10:50 AM
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Yes, it is, unfortunately.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/06/26 09:46 PM
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It seems like they don't even make an effort to hide or mask their hypocrisy.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/05/26 04:59 PM
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Hello, my comment is in the list of screenshots here, it's in the fourth image. If you read through the comment again you'll see that the response is entirely positive and in no way victim blaming him. Maybe your comment is not the worst one in that thread, but look what you said: That's the thing: you're not like the men who do awful, atrocious things that have given us such a (deservedly) bad reputation. The hate isn't directed at you. You aren't the person all these posts talk about. The hate…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 04:55 PM
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But I still advocate for a better future That's how I feel, too. Feeling misanthropic doesn't mean wishing bad things on people. If the internet tells you to hate a group of people for the "correct" reasons, they will. This goes for the right and the left. Exactly. Hatred can be bred / cultivated.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 04:39 PM
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I have already shown him the link to LWMA.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 03:37 PM
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No, it wasn't asked sarcastically. Thank you for the direct reply to my question. All you said makes sense: supportive people in real life (including women), LWMA and other supportive resources like The Tin Men, hobbies and interests. These are really helpful things, thank you for reminding that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 03:23 PM
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And I was having a pretty good day till I read that. I'm sorry for that. But not showing such things and not drawing attention to them is not a better option. Someone should say that black is black and white is white. I find the LWMA sub very supportive because it helps me see like-minded people and resist gaslighting. But sometimes I deliberately avoid reading about men's issues and misandry because it often triggers me a lot.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 03:13 PM
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Another thing that I need to constantly remind myself so that I don't completely lose faith in humanity: Reddit is a toxic place that amplifies the most hateful voices. Reddit (and social media in general) is not representative of society as a whole. Also, Reddit strongly leans towards the distorted, deformed, grotesque, hateful version of left liberalism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 03:01 PM
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Exactly. Their words reinforce traditional gender roles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 02:47 PM
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"And who started this war?" So the fact that Putin has the same genitals as Ukrainian men somehow justifies their suffering and death? I'm from Ukraine, and these comments make my blood boil. They are DISGUSTING.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/26 11:25 PM
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the far right is past its peak I hope so Trump's poor performance reflects badly on all of them considering how in-bed with each other they all are 100%
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 07:18 PM
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It's a nationally representative sample. People from all parts of the UK.
/r/MensRights20/04/26 12:10 AM
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bringing this up as if it matters It matters because 1) Negative generalizations about the whole gender are what we, as MRAs, are actually opposed to. If we are against negative generalizations about men (e.g. men are violent, rapists etc.), we should also be against negative generalizations about women (e.g women are selfish, illogical, etc.) 2) If we care about our reputation and want to promote our concerns to a wider audience, we should avoid misogyny, because if people see generalizing comm…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 11:22 PM
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It definitely will, though actually people who criticize feminism are very often not against its pro-women part, they are against its anti-men part.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 10:46 PM
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There are a lot of women who care about men too, not only themselves. Don't demonize the whole gender, as the misandrists do.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 10:38 PM
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I've seen multiple people saying that you do not believe most people saying that they have been raped as a child or adult, because most are simply lying. Same with abuse -- many of you believe it's all lies. Are you sure you've seen such posts or comments in this sub? I don't think I've seen a single comment like that here. I've seen many posts and comments with statistic comparison — like, do men become victims of sexual violence as often as women? I've seen posts and comments about false abuse…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 08:07 PM
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They do it because to acknowledge its existence, they have to admit women have agency and power to negatively affect men. No one denies women's agency as persistently as feminists do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 07:46 PM
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According to the statistics in your link, as of January 2026, Reform UK was the most popular British party, especially among men. Even regardless of the gender gap, such things almost scare me, honestly, taking into account similar tendencies in other countries across Europe.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 07:37 PM
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OK, but still young men are two times less likely to be left-wing than young women. At the same time, young men are twice as likely as young women to vote for UK Reform and almost twice as likely to vote for the Conservatives: https://yougov.com/en-gb/articles/49978-how-britain-voted-in-the-2024-general-election The same trend is observed in Western Europe in general: https://bristoluniversitypressdigital.com/view/journals/ejpg/aop/article-10.1332-25151088Y2024D000000065/article-10.1332-25151088…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 12:39 PM
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men are generally slightly more likely to vote right Not slightly. According to the 2025 UK Youth Poll, young men are almost twice as likely as young women to vote for UK Reform and the Conservatives https://www.johnsmithcentre.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/2025-03-27_UK-Youth-Poll-2025_DIGITAL.pdf (p. 40) YouGov shows the same results in the 2024 election: young men were twice as likely as young women to vote for UK Reform and almost twice as likely to vote for the Conservatives: https://yougo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 12:23 PM
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It was refuted very recently in the attached New Statesman video Every single study on the subject shows that men are far more likely to vote for conservatives than women. I don't understand how it is possible to "refute" that fact. If in one certain country, in one certain period of time, under certain conditions, men are gravitating towards a party other than conservative, it doesn't refute the fact that in general, across Western countries, men tend to gravitate towards conservatives. Also, I…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 12:08 AM
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the myth that young men en masse are gravitating towards Reform UK/the far right in general It's not a myth, it's a well-established fact supported by research (example: https://archive.ph/v0Isd )
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/26 06:09 PM
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These are from works by David Buss, one of the founders of evolutionary psychology. One of the screenshots is from this article: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/312133506_Sexual_Strategies_Theory The other two are from his book "The Evolution of Desire" (chapter "Barriers to Understanding Human Sexuality").
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/26 06:01 PM
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/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/26 09:12 AM
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Evolutionary psychology exaggerates human sex differences. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/1047840X.2013.804899
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/26 08:57 AM
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Femicide laws do not specifically target hate crimes. Look at the criteria of "femicide" in the screenshots in my post. These criteria are very loose. Almost any murder of a woman in a domestic setting can be interpreted as "femicide". Usually they count almost all murders of women as "femicides" (for example, in Italy 106 out of 116 murders of women were classified as falling under this category). There wouldn't be a problem with such laws if they really addressed hate crimes. But they don't. T…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/26 09:19 AM
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Based on the statistics shown in the screenshot in my post, the number of women killed in Peru increased from 400 in 2015 to 665 in 2021.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/26 10:34 PM
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OK, but in that sentence it seems like Dr. Anne Campbell is talking about violence in general, not only domestic violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/26 07:05 PM
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premise that, statistically, the vast majority of severe violence -> including domestic abuse, sexual assault, and stalking -> is perpetrated by men against women What? How can anyone in their right mind believe that? Homicide victims are 4 times more often men, aggravated assault victims are multiple times more often men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/26 05:52 PM
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100% agree
/r/MensRights09/04/26 10:02 PM
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I have also seen such comments and I also try to call it out. But it's not "most of the posts" on this sub.
/r/MensRights09/04/26 08:58 PM
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Those who explain violence by coercive control usually overestimate how often men are driven by this motive and underestimate how often women are driven by it. There are numerous motives for violence, and coercive control is only one if them. And in those cases when violence is indeed driven by the desire to control and/or coerce, it's far more gender neutral than it's usually presented.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/26 08:43 PM
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We will not convince the "progressives". They usually have a very rigid dogmatic worldview, and trying to change their mind is a waste of time in most cases. We should instead focus on more neutral people, especially young.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/26 08:02 PM
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most of the posts on this sub are still *women bad* Are you sure? "Feminism bad" — yes, but "women bad"?
/r/MensRights08/04/26 11:19 PM
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I see stereotypical beliefs about male hyper-agency and female hypo-agency as manifestations of traditional gender roles or something that results from them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/26 09:43 PM
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I suffered from it to the point where it cost me my mental health. Yet many people act like it's nothing serious as compared to the gender roles placed on women and/or victim-blame men for such things.
/r/MensRights07/04/26 09:06 PM
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It doesn’t contradict what I said — it expands on it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/26 08:23 PM
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Before women’s safety was used either maliciously or unintentionally to control them Saying that men who sacrificed themselves for women did that because they wanted to control them is disgusting. It's the same gaslighting the OP is talking about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/26 05:09 PM
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Movember is a pro-feminist resource that exploits men's issues to promote anti-male propaganda https://bettinaarndt.substack.com/p/movember-rips-off-mens-health-dollars
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/26 01:19 AM
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I've never seen it as something innate. It's more likely a habit, an unconscious belief.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/26 11:12 PM
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Yes, the empathy gap is the cause of injustice towards men, but we need to go deeper and ask what causes the empathy gap itself. The empathy gap stems from traditional gender roles, declaring that women should be cared for and protected, while men must be strong and able to take care of themselves. Also men don't have emotions, so there is no need to worry about them when they suffer. They don’t suffer because they have no emotions (they only have egos). And if a man does have emotions, he is we…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/26 10:44 PM
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to counter the mostly mythical toxic masculinity/rape culture/male hegemony That's not what I'm talking about. Countering the so-called toxic masculinity/rape culture/male hegemony is counterproductive, I agree. What I mean is that men and boys constantly receive messages that they have to be strong, tough, (conventionally) successful, etc. And now with the mainstreamization of feminism, they also receive messages that they are a potential threat, they are evil by nature. And many of them feel t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/26 11:23 PM
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Yes, institutions supporting feminism is one of the biggest problems. That's the reason why we criticize feminism. When we criticize feminism, we actually criticize institutions supporting it. We wouldn't care about feminism if it weren't supported by institutions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/26 11:49 AM
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There is a grain of truth in it, but it's not the whole picture. An important (and probably the main) factor is socialization. There would be much less violent men if they weren't force-fed with ideas of traditional masculinity starting from early childhood and weren't constantly shamed (often in advance, "preventively") for not fitting into them. Also probably one of the factors is neglect. A neglected boy will more likely become violent than a boy from a fully functioning family that cares abo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/26 11:39 AM
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Kafka and similar authors like Camus as well These two were my favourite writers in high school (and probably still are, M40+)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/26 09:10 PM
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I am on the side of specific ideas. The modern left does not live up to these ideas, and that is why I criticize them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/26 07:15 PM
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Because I have my own principles and don't like it when someone tries to manipulate me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/26 01:27 AM
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I, personally, fundamentally disagree with virtually everything else about the conservative belief, and I think that’s a feeling most in here don’t talk about. People here do talk about it, but maybe not too often, because this sub is not about left ideas in general, but specifically about male issues, so things like foreign affairs or migration are outside the scope of this community. But topics directly related to male issues, like race and sexual orientation, are discussed here quite often (b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 09:24 PM
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in this sub I’m just a lurker but it feels like some people just justify themselves to why they voted for Trump Are you sure? Most people here hate Trump. Most people here support Democrats, but criticize their gender policy. Just because they are against the man-hating attitude of modern mainstream feminism doesn't mean they support Republicans. The dominant position in this sub is that both the Left and the Right don't care about male issues, and both deserve criticism for that, but there is h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 08:59 PM
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Austria is one of the few exceptions. In the majority of peaceful European countries, most homicide victims are men. https://data.unodc.org/datareport/hom-victim
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 01:41 PM
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Until the 1990s Women were voting more Right Wing and Men were voting more Left Wing in the West In the US — until 1975-1980
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 12:16 PM
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I don't ignore it, I'm just focusing on different aspects here. Man-hating ideology that comes from the left is obviously an important factor, I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 09:41 AM
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Yes, that's what I meant. Relatively more acceptable or looking acceptable, not "good in principle".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 09:24 AM
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it provides a "positive" view of oneself That's what I meant by "appealing". It's illusory, of course. I'm not a native speaker, so I may be missing some shades of meaning in certain words. I hate that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 09:18 AM
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Maybe Scandinavian countries. Gender-neutral laws, military service for both genders, part of parental leave reserved specifically for fathers, a relatively small gender gap in breadwinner responsibilities — such things give the impression that their gender policy is really about gender equality (rather than prioritizing women at any cost). Maybe they still focus more on women than men, but at least their policies (and maybe their way of life) have strong elements of REAL pursuit of gender equal…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/26 01:15 AM
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Yes, modern mainstream feminism is a populist ideology. It gives simple answers to complex questions. No matter the situation, just say that men have a lot of power, men want to dominate women, and women have limited access to resources.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/26 11:15 PM
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Any political system can harm men. Political system itself does not make much difference here, because the roots of gender inequality do not lie in power relations, as feminism seems to believe. The roots of gender inequality lie in the gender stereotypes deeply ingrained in people's consciousness and subconsciousness. Unless challenged, these stereotypes will persist regardless of the political structure. In any political system people will find ways to protect women and to deny that men need p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/26 10:57 PM
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Quite correct, but in the case of feminism the ideology is also reinforced by gender stereotypes. A person criticizing feminism is seen not only as someone attacking the ideology, but also as someone attacking women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/26 09:24 PM

The problem with the left (e.g. US Democratic Party) is that: They don't care about male issues (e.g. life expectancy gap, a few times higher suicide rates etc) while caring a lot about female issues (abortion, domestic violence etc). They promote hate speech against men (most often indirectly through feminism and feminist-influenced media, but sometimes directly — e.g. Obama said "men have been getting on my nerves recently").
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:17 PM
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Within online “manosphere” groups, a shared belief is that current society is hostile to men and boys, with institutions and governments acting as instruments of an emasculating feminist agenda. Well-intentioned governmental attempts to educate boys might alienate those already prone to embracing such conspiratorial narratives. Are these narratives conspiratorial? No, they are not. Institutions and governments do promote feminist agenda. Anything related to gender equality is seen through a femi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/26 11:19 AM
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Good therapists exist. I wouldn’t trade mine for anyone in the world. It might take several attempts to find the right person (a good specialist + compatible with you personally). Don't lose hope if the first attempts don’t work out. Good luck!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/26 12:26 PM
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it took me several attempts to find a good therapist Same here. And it’s like that for many people. It’s not just about finding a good specialist, but also someone you feel comfortable with. It may take a few tries to find the right person, but it’s worth it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/26 12:10 PM
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I don't think Paul Elam is a good example of a MRA. He is rather someone who makes things worse by ruining the reputation of men's rights activism. He literally promoted violence against women. https://www.splcenter.org/resources/extremist-files/paul-elam/ UPD: I checked the sources of the quotes and I see that the Southern Poverty Law Center is being manipulative — Paul Elam did not call for hitting women. The first quote is taken out of context: in that very same text he writes "A man should n…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/26 10:12 AM
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Yes, it's blatant misandry. It portrays boys as a potential problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/26 09:05 PM
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Misandry IS systemic. Feminism is not a disease, it's only one of the symptoms. And yes, criticizing feminism gets too much attention. Placing feminism as the main enemy somehow displaces focus. Some of us forget that we criticize not so much feminism itself, but rather its dominance, mainstream status and wide acceptance. We wouldn't bother ourselves so much by feminism if it was a marginal movement or one of several competing movements. The problem is that it monopolizes the mainstream gender …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/26 09:02 PM
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Don’t talk with them. It’s a waste of time. They will not change their position, they’ll defend it to the end, against logic and common sense. It’s more effective to focus effort on people who are neutral and haven’t been brainwashed into a dogmatic rigid ideology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/26 08:44 PM
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I refuse to consume products that are in any way linked to Russia You are doing the right thing. Respect.
/r/MensRights13/10/25 06:53 PM
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1) Yes, we DO have a democracy, because things like draft and mobilization (only for men) is in our laws and our Constitution. People voted for that, people support that. The majority supports that. The majority of Ukrainian men and women (like in most countries, I think) believe that war is something that should involve primarily men, while women should be protected from it. People who are against draft or against gendered attitude to such things are a small minority. And now, at the time of wa…
/r/MensRights11/10/25 04:32 PM
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I'm from Ukraine, and I can tell you with full confidence that your comment is a bundle of lies and manipulations straight from Russian Goebbels-TV.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 03:50 AM
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Honestly, I didn't expect to see such explicit Russian fascist propaganda here in a men's rights sub. Your comment is a dense concentration of bullshit.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 03:16 AM
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Thank you. I'm sorry then for this misunderstanding.
/r/MensRights11/10/25 12:30 AM
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No, you are alright. This thing is really sick.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/10/25 02:03 PM
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I really hope no one will make conclusions that misandry and dehumanization of men somehow justify hating women. This post is not about women — it's about double standards and societal attitudes. Dear mods, does this comment break Rule 6 of the Moderation Policy (misogyny)?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/10/25 11:43 AM
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With democracy, there's a chance that these things will improve in the future. With authoritarianism, there's no such chance at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/10/25 11:31 AM
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I’ve been noticing misogyny in this community for a long time, and yeah, it’s depressing. Misogyny is just as unacceptable as misandry, full stop. If moral arguments don’t convince you, look at it practically: every misogynistic comment here is another nail in the coffin of the men’s rights movement’s reputation. It's so hard to watch these people shoot themselves in the foot. If we want to ever be taken seriously, we should avoid misogyny at all costs. Anyone who actually cares about men’s righ…
/r/MensRights09/10/25 11:04 AM
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It's interesting how this report measures inequality in life expectancy (page 72). in the case of healthy life expectancy the equality benchmark is set at 1.06 to capture that fact that women tend to naturally live longer than men. As such, parity is considered as achieved if, on average, women live five years longer than men. If women live 5 years longer than men, this is counted as equality. So does it mean that if in a certain country women live only 4 years longer, it is considered that wome…
/r/MensRights14/09/25 04:02 PM
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It's interesting how this report measures inequality in life expectancy (page 72). in the case of healthy life expectancy the equality benchmark is set at 1.06 to capture that fact that women tend to naturally live longer than men. As such, parity is considered as achieved if, on average, women live five years longer than men. If women live 5 years longer than men, this is counted as equality. So does it mean that if in a certain country women live only 4 years longer, it is considered that wome…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/25 04:02 PM
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It’s obvious that feminism — especially in the broader sense, given its monopoly and dominance in mainstream gender policies at the national and international levels (e.g. the UN) — is counterproductive in at least one respect: it tends to ignore, deny, or downplay men’s issues. Gender roles, which lie at the root of gender inequality, are almost always two-sided. Ignoring the gender-related problems of half of humanity is, at best, short-sighted — and at worst, harmful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/25 07:33 AM
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overall the men in my life have done much better for me than the women As for me, I've suffered a lot from both girls/women and boys/men. In my experience, toxic norms of masculinity are reinforced by contributions from both sexes.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 07:12 PM
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So you telling me how men have conformed to other men's expectations out of fear more than approval needs explanation. Because as it is all it does is make me doubt you're a man. Peers, classmates, neighbours etc shame and bully boys who don't conform to stereotypical masculine norms by calling them "gay" and "sissies", picking on etc. Just because it didn't happen in your life doesn't mean it doesn't happen at all.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 08:05 AM
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But ultimately is another mans approval what changes the world? When men are pressured to conform to traditional gender roles by other men, it's usually more about fear than seeking approval.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 09:49 PM
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.1) "National Corrections Reporting Program data are used to identify sex offenders for the years 1994 to 2004 and the sentences they received for specific sex offenses. Statistical analyses reveal a significant difference in sentence length between men and women, but not in the expected direction. The evil woman hypothesis would assume women are sentenced more harshly, but data show men receive longer sentences for sex offenses than women." https://www.researchgate.net/publication/277416237_Sex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/25 08:31 AM
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some time after we teach some women that you don't have to like a man in order to respect him And also teach some conservative men that what other men do and what other men like is none of their business. Let's not forget that men and boys receive "man up" comments from other men too, not only from women, and it's also a problem. The pressure to conform to norms of masculinity comes from both women and other men.
/r/MensRights13/05/25 07:11 AM
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Not only in India
/r/MensRights13/05/25 04:12 AM
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Feminism feeds on traditional gender expectations, according to which women should be cared for and protected, while men should not complain or whine and must solve their problems on their own. Feminism—especially in the context of its dominance in the mainstream culture and its monopoly on gender discourse at the level of international organizations like the UN and the governments of democratic countries—reproduces slightly modified traditional ideas about gender roles. Compared to openly tradi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/25 07:47 PM
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They believe that if the perpetrator and the victim have similar reproductive organs, then the act of violence doesn't matter. According to their "logic", violence is a problem only when the reproductive organs of the abuser and its victim are different (but only when the victim is a woman). According to their understanding of justice, the suffering of a person with a penis doesn't matter if their abuser also has a penis. In some cases they even believe that having a penis means being automatica…
/r/MensRights20/04/25 02:32 PM
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How fucked up the situation in your region? On the one hand, in my city (very far from the front line), I see many men of military age freely walking the streets; on the other hand, there are so many stories and videos with examples of the abuse of power by military recruitment officers. I want to believe that those abuses are exceptions rather than the norm, but it seems like such things really happen quite often.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/25 12:54 AM
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quite small It's not small. In such a difficult situation, when you feel attacked from different sides simultaneously, every single genuine word of support feels large. Thank you. I also find a lot of comfort in reading this community. I see LWMA as a model of balanced perspective, free from extremes. The world has become so polarized lately. Many people, often without realizing it, express views that lean toward one extreme or another. It’s really hard to find balance.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/25 09:58 PM
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Maybe my post was too emotional and not very well thought-out. I didn’t mean to suggest that Americans don’t support us. I’ve seen the statistics, and I know that the majority of Americans support Ukraine. When I wrote “the whole world is against me,” it was an exaggeration. I didn’t mean it literally — it was more about the feeling that so many different groups, institutions, and public figures, in one way or another, directly or indirectly, act against my interests, that it makes it hard for m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/25 09:41 PM
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The UK is among the countries that helped us the most through military, financial, political and moral support, and we are VERY grateful for that. No one can stop Russians quickly because their military strength is too large, but we hope that military losses, sanctions and Ukrainian strikes on their oil facilities can stop them sooner or later. The Russian economy is already in quite a poor condition, but it may take years before it becomes so bad that Putin won't be able to continue the war.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/25 04:12 PM
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Thank you for your support. The post I'm talking about is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/malementalhealth/comments/1jxrj5i/western_societies_prioritize_women_relegating_men/?rdt=60651 (the post itself was deleted, but the comments are still there).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/25 03:17 PM
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The idea of masculinity is something I have suffered from to the point where it cost me my mental health. Now it means nothing to me personally. I don't try to be masculine in any way, at least consciously. Some things I do may be considered masculine, but I try to avoid seeing them as such. Some things typically seen as masculine (e.g. ambition) are universal human traits — they should not be linked to gender. And people who don't possess these traits should not be shamed (if they don't do anyt…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/25 08:52 AM
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38% of Pornhub visitors in 2024 were women (see 2024 Year in Review on their website).
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/25 03:01 PM
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Demonizing boys and men instead of addressing their struggles is a dangerous approach, and we are already dealing with its consequences as Trump has won the election and his supporters control both the Senate and the House of Representatives while far right political parties and politicians are also on the rise in Europe (Germany, France, Hungary, Slovakia, Italy, Romania, the Netherlands, Austria). Trump has won due to male voters. European far right parties are supported mostly by men. If you …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/25 04:06 AM
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Yes, feeling that you are not alone helps a lot.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/24 04:21 AM
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I also used to have suicidal thoughts because of misandry. Here's my post one year ago (TRIGGER WARNING — SUICIDAL IDEATION): https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/18pexgz/how_feminism_makes_me_want_to_die_a_detailed_but/
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/24 03:56 AM
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Yes, while he talks about a certain group of women and says women in real life are good, the title looks misogynistic. We should avoid such things because 1) misogyny is a bad thing as well as misandry 2) we should care about our reputation.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 03:56 PM
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I would add that it’s a very good idea for us to keep reaching out to elected officials and political parties with these concerns, and to remind them that misandry helps to lose elections by alienating voters. Very good idea.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 03:30 PM
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Very good article with a relatively short but very good explanation of why Democrats lost men in this election and how they could have avoided that I believe now is the perfect time to share this article as much as possible. Please share it on your social media, show it to your friends. Show it to as many people as possible. Also, I found Richard Reeves' page on Facebook and I was slightly shocked to see it has only some 200+ subscribers. Then I found the social media pages of his American Insti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 10:49 AM
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The first rule of this sub is "No misogyny. Don't sink to misandrists' level." "Women think with their emotions" is misogyny. If you mean "misandrist women think with their emotions", then you should put it more clearly because your comment looks like a sexist generalization about women.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 06:15 AM
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"6 May, the UN said that 69% of reported fatalities were women and children. Two days later, it said this figure was 52%." https://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-69014893 "GMO has consistently given a higher figure for the proportion of women and children in all fatalities than has the health ministry. On 6 May, the UN reported 34,735 deaths - of which there were 9,500 women and 14,500 children, citing the GMO as its source. The two days later, the UN released a further report, switching its…
/r/MensRights09/11/24 02:59 AM
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Thank you for what you do.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/24 02:27 AM
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Very interesting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 11:00 PM
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For a long time, women voted Conservative more than men here in the UK. Very interesting. Your link gives information starting from 1974 — roughly the time when Margaret Thatcher became the leader of the Conservative Party. The pattern became pronounced in 1979 when Thatcher won, and it disappeared (men started voting more for the conservatives than women) in 2005. In 2005 if only women could vote, Labour would have lost the election instead of winning a third term. According to the chart from y…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 10:58 PM
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Thank you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 10:31 PM
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Communication with like-minded people helps me a lot. This sub, in particular. Even when I don't post anything, don't comment, and only read, I feel I'm not alone. Realizing that many people have sane views on gender equality helps me feel better. And also the opposite tactics — avoiding anything related to gender inequality, feminism, violation of men's rights etc. Focusing on something else. Sometimes I apply the first tactic, sometimes the second one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/24 04:56 PM
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Very nice post. You should post it in LWMA, if you haven't done so yet. Yes, the mainstream progressives are hypocritical. They are extremely uncreative and follow rigid dogmas. All their elaborate writings are actually very superficial repeating of dogmas.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 11:09 PM
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I can't wrap my head around why she doesn't see the connection between her misandrist remarks (04:50, 09:00) and the fact that men escape the ideology she represents.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 10:30 PM
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women not having to depend on men and men not having to take care of women benefits us all As a person who hates (modern) feminism, I can say that if feminism's rhetoric were similar to yours, I would probably not hate it. I hate feminism for being one-sided and hostile to men. If it weren't like that, I wouldn't hate it. I'm not against the pro-women part of feminism, I'm only against its anti-male part.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 09:23 PM
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I was bullied by several girls in my teenage years. But I was bullied by boys as well. Bullying by other boys was often in the form of physical violence, so it was more dangerous. But bullying by girls was especially humiliating.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 09:14 PM
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Also they say "patriarchy was created by men".
/r/MensRights05/10/24 06:23 PM
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Maybe things like saying "nice ass" to a stranger. I think that some things are objectification technically, but they are not necessarily harmful — like browsing erotic pictures. On the other hand, there are harmful things that are often labeled as objectification though actually they aren't, for example: Inappropriate sexualization can be harmful, but it doesn't always amount to objectification (if a coworker treats you as a person most of the time, but sometimes makes inappropriate moves, they…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/24 06:48 PM
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I find the very concept of objectification the way it is used now problematic and even disturbing. This concept makes sense when used in its genuine meaning — treating a person as a mere sexual object. But this word has been heavily overused and now it is often applied just to describe a male attraction to a female person when appearance is an important factor or even any attraction to a female stranger. Sometimes it goes as far as condemning men's thoughts and urges. I try to avoid this word, b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/24 03:58 PM
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If women held traditional gender roles while being okay with fulfilling traditional gender roles, and giving men traditional male advantages, then I'd be fine with it. I would not be fine with it because I see the male traditional role as a burden, not as an advantage.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 08:09 PM
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Unfortunately, the vast majority of people, including most feminists and those who say they promote gender equality, hold sexist traditional views on gender. It's so hard for many people to accept that men may be vulnerable and need protection. The traditional attitude that women must be protected and men can't be vulnerable and/or shouldn't complain is a large obstacle to gender equality, especially when it's promoted by large powerful organizations such as the Council of Europe, and especially…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/24 03:30 PM
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Maybe, for a lot of men, conservatism looks like an ideology that cares about them, while liberalism is associated with anti-male sentiment. Conservatism says to men: you should be stronger, more masculine, more ambitious, more disciplined, take more effort, and you'll be rewarded (you'll become successful, women will like you more etc.). While it actually often makes things even worse, it looks like caring, it gives men hope. At the same time, mainstream liberalism doesn't even try to look like…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 09:40 PM
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Thank you for existing, Christina Murray.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/04/24 08:02 PM
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People either ignored or ridiculed what I wrote or repeated their opinion My experience is similar.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:51 PM
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What happened?
/r/MensRights16/01/24 11:15 PM
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It's not his mother. He was asking for directions.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 09:19 AM
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They didn't mean only women are human. They meant that women are human and, as humans, they don't like to be insulted. This is not misandry, this is misogyny. I don't know why you post such things, they don't belong here.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/01/24 03:39 AM
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Source: Ukrainian channel in Telegram https://t.me/tp\_mlt/15320
/r/MensRights10/01/24 11:11 PM
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Source: Ukrainian channel in Telegram https://t.me/tp\_mlt/15320
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/24 10:57 PM
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I also noticed that. Seems like these posts were made by either a red-piller or a feminist (to prove that men are misogynistic or something).
/r/EverydayMisandry10/01/24 10:43 PM
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It makes me sad to see sexist generalizations about women in this sub, especially when they are upvoted. Not only because sexism in itself is a bad thing, but also because it contributes to the bad reputation of MRA communities. If we want to be taken seriously, we should be intolerant of sexism and misogyny. Sexism and misogyny contribute to the gender war and opposition between men and women. That's not what we need. We need cooperation and mutual understanding. I agree with you, OP.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 06:56 PM
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I wish Reddit was as careful with misandry as it is careful with misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/23 10:19 PM
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I asked it to clarify what you had been banned for. I get upset when I see misogynistic or sexist comments in MRA communities, but I don't think your comment was misogynistic or sexist. You didn't say that most women do it or all women do it. You said "it's a well known trick" which means you didn't say anything about the share of women who do it or how often this happens. I see why the mod might think your comment was sexist. If LWMA mods are especially careful about misogyny in comments, I thi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/23 03:18 PM
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Do you mean Reddit's Rule 1 against hate speech? "Attacking marginalized or vulnerable groups of people"?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/23 09:16 PM
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It literally makes no sense. I posit there is a close to 0 chance anyone in the world actually reduces someone down to an object You are right. It's hard to imagine reducing someone 100% to an object.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 08:25 PM
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Has anything changed since you felt like that? How are you feeling now?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/23 11:31 PM
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Thank you for your comment. I find it very helpful. I'm sorry for the late reply — it took me three evenings to read all the comments to the posts I made three days ago and to reply to some of them.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 09:13 PM
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A very useful exercise, thank you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/23 08:04 PM
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Thank you. No, things are not getting worse. I feel much better after reading the comments here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/23 07:57 PM
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Thank you for your supportive comment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/23 07:38 PM
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Thank you for your reply. There are Women who would not want you to suffer like this, and do not spread this kind of psychologically damaging hate filled rhetoric. I feel it's true. And this thought makes me feel better. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DBG1Wgg32Ok I've been recommended to watch this video a few times. It is already on my watch list. It's only 15 minutes long, and, as I've been recommended to watch it again, I'll try to prioritize it now. Thank you. In the end though if this isn'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/23 10:14 PM
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I try to pay attention to sexist generalizations, especially against women in MRA communities, which is the thing that often makes me sad, but this time I think it wasn't a generalization. He didn't say "women enjoy attention but pretend to hate it". He said "it's a well known trick that they pretend to hate it when they're actually eating it up which really complicates things for the times they really don't like it". It's not a generalization. "It's a well known trick" means things like that ha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/23 09:51 PM
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Thank you for your comment. It helps me understand that I'm not insane. Seems like I've been gaslighted a lot by feminists and pro-feminist people.
/r/MensRights25/12/23 09:35 PM
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Thank you for your reply, it's been helpful. I saved screenshots. Keep in mind I believe in equality and acceptance of men and women away from gender roles, but feminism has only freed women from their role but didn't do so for men. I think it freed women only partially. If men were freed too, it would make freeing women faster and more complete. Women's and men's gender roles are closely connected and intertwined, and I don't think it's possible to completely free women without freeing men. I w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/23 09:30 PM
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One of the best and most helpful comments. I saved screenshots. Thank you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/12/23 08:34 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 07:50 PM
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45% of ALL women believe feminism has gone too far Do you have the link to that study?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/23 07:43 PM
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Yes, it's a sexist comment. Such things make me disappointed in MRM.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 08:54 PM
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Most probably, you are right. I also have the impression that even if most people seem to be pro-feminist, most of them don't actually know much about feminism. They see feminism as something "good" by default.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/23 08:36 PM
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Not all porn is misogynistic. Most is not, I would say. I agree that the porn industry as a whole is problematic in many ways, but equating porn to misogyny is an exaggeration. There are, for example, plenty of amateur porn videos, where people film themselves having sex. There's nothing misogynistic about such videos.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 03:26 PM
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Thank you. Do you have the same feeling that feminists shame male sexuality?
/r/MensRights14/12/23 05:01 PM
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Thank you very much for your reply. I tend to agree with most of what you said.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:52 AM
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A very good explanation.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:41 AM
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Thank you for being supportive. I appreciate your response. I don't object to such interpretations of objectification where women are actually treated in a degrading manner. But often this concept is expanded to things that make me feel there's something wrong with my sexual desire as such. For example: "Porn objectifies women, it portrays them as objects of male desire" (which makes me think there's something wrong about the fact I desire women) "Sexualization of female breasts is harmful to wo…
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:39 AM
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Why femininity and masculinity? Why not women and men? There are bad men and there are bad women. Femininity and masculinity are models of behaviour. Why should we add anything toxic to these models? We shouldn't, because if masculinity is not associated with something toxic, there'll be less toxic men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/23 05:17 AM
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I know that you are FAR from alone in those sentiments It is one of the things that make me feel better. When people say I'm wrong and I don't understand, sometimes I start questioning my cognitive abilities or even doubt my own sanity. I understand that people don't gaslight me deliberately, but some comments really feel like gaslighting. I am going to generalize for a moment: women have so many wonderful gifts, but just like SOME iterations of masculinity can be toxic, so too can toxic feminin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/23 04:52 AM
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Negative generalization is the definition of sexist speech. Such comments contribute to my disappointment with MRA. And contribute to the bad reputation of MRM.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 02:42 AM
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women are masters in projection, they are projecting their experiences from their own choices on you. So look at their actions, they love guys who only care about sex These generalizations seem pretty sexist. Not all women are like that. And I don't think the majority of women are like that.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 01:52 AM
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And on another one of this guys post a feminist said they a proud that this guy wants to die Yes, one person said she's happy that I want to die.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 01:49 AM
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No, it's not a joke. I'm serious.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 04:08 PM
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