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*facepalm* The fact that you are wasting Peoples time and the fact that you are a part of Purple pill and well the fact that you call yourself Chads GF LMAO Have a nice Day kalashnikov
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:45 PM
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Lol waving more red flags then the Chinese parade, not worth the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:19 PM
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You said now at 20 you dont care much about waiting for sex, thats a bad mindset. It also means you are desensitized about Sex. I dont see anything well going on with that mindset. Thats a promiscious mindset be careful around 5 and upwards the likelihood of divorce rate would be already 80% and majority of woman have much higher body count. This and when woman usually say they have a body count of x you have to multiply it by 3. So your real body count is around 9 and Im very likely right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:51 PM
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SOunds like you are bad in chosing Men. Terrible to have already slept with so many men in that age, your future and long term relationships will suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:09 PM
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Op I’m also making the same experience and I also made a post about it else where referring to pook. Do you have any updates on your situations so far? Because it kinda started to kill my confidence with women
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:36 PM
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Yeah the poor ex-redpillers. I def. agree with that.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 12:40 PM
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that women are more attracted to muscular guys is scientifically proven, because it shows that you have discipline, are healthy and can take care of yourself. 2. Lifting increases Testosteron, which has anxiety relieving effects, that makes you more feel confident and helps you to stay emotional stable, which is scientifically proven. 3. The so called Chads, are just those possessing the traits, that women find attractive - intelligence, social, humor, ambitious, independence, discipline, physic…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 12:39 PM
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that's not funny, that's sad that some people believe that
/r/askTRP21/06/21 06:17 PM
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Yeah, it was my first time using Dating-App, but look when you cold Approach a woman, there is a chance that she might be using a Dating-App too. There is no guarantee for this, but honestly also my last time with that App
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:03 PM
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better guys I don't know what you are talking about, I'm the prize. No needed to be disrespectful here.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:00 PM
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Do it because you want to... I would never give up that habit. I study Psychology and know how such circumstances can affect a Person, you don't have to be a psychologist either to know that. It is something I do and live for. Just curious about your thoughts and experiences
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:26 AM
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Just curious about your thoughts, would never give up that habit, but thanks for your input.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:20 AM
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I volunteer at both my church and a local non-profit(big brothers big sisters) and girls love that shit. same
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:23 PM
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I agree with that
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:19 PM
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Yeah, won't make the mistake again
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:48 PM
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Not that long. It was our second date, had some Red Flags/ Green Flags on our first Date, but the second Date confirmed me that she belongs to the Street
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:28 PM
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Dating-App* forgot to adjust
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:27 PM
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You can reduce your anxiety with breathing techniques, that's why People who smoke reason that smoking makes them feel calm, but in fact, the molecules of the smoke change the way you breathe, which results in calming. And your situation is the best way to try it out, make the interview with 1-3 without the technique and compare it with technique afterward. Also after the interviews, there is the chance you might be less anxious in the presentation because talking to strangers can give you a sen…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:46 PM
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thanks for input
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:37 PM
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Im still spinning plates. She brings value to my studies, passion and I try to maintain contacts abroad, because they will be useful one day, thought the situation now would perfectly fit in, but still unsure because of the possible pressure and thats where the problem lies
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:07 PM
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Do you remember what the name of the video was?
/r/askTRP02/06/21 11:10 PM
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Because lots of people do that, doesn't mean it is not validation seeking. We are talking about how females would perceive that, they are differently wired and it makes a big difference when you make a Picture of how you study and a picture of your body posing like females do, for attention and validation. It is a female trait, that's unattractive.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 10:37 AM
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it depicts validation seeking and that's unattractive for women
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:25 PM
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Yeah, I agree just meant to be aware of what knowledge you adopt, because in some points of other Videos he is wrong.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:16 PM
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I agree, especially in No contact much better, because it would probably something that deviates from his routine, hence a bit sense of unpredictability
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:08 PM
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No contact is scientifically proven, AMS has no idea about that, he only talks about his experience. For you look for proven facts first, before you adopt someone's opinion blindly, a bit of good advice from me.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:49 PM
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Yes you can, but make sure it's only something, that shows you have an interesting life, that you have something valuable going on in your life and not trivial things like going to Starbucks, Posing in Gym, things that screams for attention and validation etc. Also you shouldnt post much, because no contact means also keeping the mystery alive Good Luck
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:46 PM
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Did you try to mirror their behavior? Like when they need 10hours to respond, then respond also after 10hours
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:46 PM
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I have some information from my Social Psychology lectures, that shows what increases liking and hence helps you to build a friendship. You can remember it in this Terms: PRO/FA/SI = PROFASI Pro= Proximity: The best single predictor of whether two people will be friends is how far apart they live, due to easy availability, lower cost in terms of money and time, cognitive dissonance pressure to like those with whom we must associate Fa= Familiarity: The mere exposure effect: simply being exposed …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:08 PM
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I think you will gain more confidence when you study and dive more into RedPill, because RedPill is not only about understanding female nature, it is also about self-development. Also the more you learn about female nature, the less you are prone to their BS. I'm sure that the breakup and the whole thing you are going through affected your confidence negatively, but it would happen anyway one day and without that part, there would be no chance to grow through it, so try to see it also positively…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:48 PM
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Vulgar= sounds more aggressive non vulgar= calm You can try to think it in that way, would James Bond use vulgar words?
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:32 PM
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How can I find the insecurity?
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:12 PM
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And how would you handle it Online? like someone insults your loved ones over Social Media? Just blocking?
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:29 AM
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Thanks for input
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:58 AM
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Lets say it comes to a physical confrontation, I lose I lay in the ground. WOuldnt that also kill the attraction
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:44 AM
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I know I know, I get your point, but the point I'm referring to is that it can escalate easily, because you don't know the Person you are confronting like some gangster, fighter - I cant know that
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:38 AM
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WHat if the Person is much stronger, muscular, taller? IMO ignoring would be always the best, because people who insult are just waiting for such a situation, especially when they know they are physically better in shape
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:35 AM
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Is she just a friend? If so apologizing would be ok, if you don't want to apologize just compensate it by making a compliment of how well she is playing it next time or asking her for a guitar session
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:23 AM
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If she sees the other dude as higher value than you she might entertain it, but that's when you walk away. what do you mean by that? ALso entertain it? didn't really understand it
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:14 PM
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Psychology is about every human being and the knowledge can benefit mostly everyone?! And most women major in Psychology. I truly don't understand why they won't ask anything, but when I throw with facts about my passions they came along with that's so sexy, you are very smart, that's what an intelligent person would say and so on like reinforcing my behavior to talk more about it. But I don't get questions lol
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:29 PM
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Not like teachers, they indeed go into unnecessary details. I could teach it in a more interesting and fun way, but its crazy that probably most women really don't care about anything you are doing. thanks man
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:22 PM
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She does, also delivers excuses to her friends when I'm very quiet like that I have been working very much and had a hard week, which is actually not true. She is putting me in a good light, but it cant be always like this. I'm sure she also knows that I have to work on this, thanks again
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:56 PM
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Yes, as a kid I was also comfortable in groups, I was literally a Leader. But through experience in my adolescence stage, it changed.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:52 PM
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The thing is the friends can influence your gf thoughts. Her friends are kinda social basis for her, without them she is nothing since females are social nurturing beings. They have the need to maintain a " close group" and with a wrong impression, one or all of her friends might say, this guy is not good for you and will try to change her behavior.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:21 PM
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Yeah especially when it comes to a topic, where I'm not much knowledgeable and exactly there I'm asking myself, should I let them talk or ask them questions to elaborate my knowledge on that field, but then I feel like I would just disturb the conversation. I had once the experience, that some just look weirdly at one when I tried that in the sense of "just shut up dude", but saw that also on other People, where I wasn't really involved
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:15 PM
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That brought me to an idea to improve it, thanks
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:28 PM
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Thanks for the input. I'm chill and polite, but I think sometimes that's not enough to make them think I'm a good boyfriend to her. I will definitely apply the second point when the weather will be good, but Summer is coming so I guess it will work out well
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:02 PM
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sounds very exhausting, but avoiding group situations completely is not always possible, better to level up
/r/askTRP20/05/21 12:32 PM
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Yeah you are right, maybe you should take a look, because for me it seems great: https://www.youtube.com/c/LeonAlex090497/videos
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:44 PM
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I dont really experience that, but I think thats due to my introvertness so I enjoy my own Company and dont need anyone around me. Craving for Attention and Validation can in your case be a Biological concern since you enjoy it and crave it only from women, hence anytime you get it from women your Dopamin level rises and you want more and more of it. It is the same with Nofap or playing Games, gambling etc. It is basically based on the reinforcement shedule - variable ratio. I would recommend yo…
/r/askTRP19/05/21 02:07 AM
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Yes, im leaning more on avoiding Social Media. I can do professional photography, play instruments on pro level, but people would rather appreciate much more those tiktok or onlyfans snitches.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 12:02 AM
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I have no problem with all the 3 Points. Im currently thinking about to post Videos/Photos, where I just play Instruments like Guitar or Piano in more Advanced/Pro level. But Im also unsure about that, because there is one youtuber, that does that with over 180k subscriber, but has only 4k follower, which seems very odd. Nowadays people rather go for tiktok onlyfans snitches or wannabe models and appreciate less art and mental effort.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:52 PM
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That was also my first thought since female nature is emotionally wired, saying they prefer Mr.Perfect, but go for bad boys. It is like, who the fuck in the world has 5000 followers, knows them all and is friends with them, maintains contact with them or offer them something just with pictures of themselves or stories about nonsense, thats heavy unrealistic. I feel like some of them follow each other to see whether the other will follow too, using each other just to increase the status.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 06:57 PM
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How did you get 7k?
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:41 PM
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Yeah.. I think many People started with few amount of followers..
/r/askTRP18/05/21 12:45 PM
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leave your comfort zone and educate yourself daily, especially in the area you enjoy or you are most interested. You dont have to be an expert in all Areas, there is always something to learn from anyone, because everyone will be better in something, where you arent. For example a 12year old kid might have more knowledge in something, that you dont have. Thats also a positive factor, you can ask those women questions and learn from them, get better, surrounding with high smv people increases als…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:07 PM
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Thats what i was thinking, but then i found this from redpill forum https://archive.is/ruOMT
/r/askTRP16/05/21 12:16 PM
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Where did I say i do that my Autistic girlfriend?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:37 PM
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It shows cowardice to not be yourself and a serious a lack of individuality. I think you didnt get the point of RedPill. Im usually very kind and friendly a genuine bluepilled nice guy, when you ask me on this. Do you think I will succeed with that on female? No, I wont. I have no problem to work through those differences, I can adapt very well, especially when it serves to my benefit and being Redpilled helped me a lot with women. Nowadays you cant be always yourself, when it comes to woman, no…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:46 AM
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Shut up and dont judge people over text. Do yourself a favor and read the rules first
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:07 AM
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So when an Alpha wants to Simp he is Alpha? Are you aware of your logical fallacy? lmao
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:46 PM
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What if you do it subtly? Being wealthy increases SMV. for example you are studying, sitting in front of an expensive fireplace and sending a picture of how you are studying, but also having the rich background on it? Another example; We have a cinema room come lets watch some movies and sending a picture of it
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:35 PM
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It might be possible, that she will delete your number or on social media to make you chase her. I'm currently in the same situation and that's what she did, but I didn't reach her out and that's exactly the point, where reaching out seems desperate, so don't let it come so far. I would recommend you to reach her out since she initiated the first contact before, it would be balanced, when you reach out to her now, also the state of confusion would be still there because you didn't gave her atten…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:39 PM
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it is usually because that person either has not earned or has lost your respect. That's wrong you see it one-sided, it could be the case, that you realized both are not compatible, no chemistry etc. since from both sides, there will be standards and expectations, sometimes People cant meet them for whatever reasons. It is not their fault, It has nothing necessarily to do with not having Respect.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:57 AM
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That sounds crazy! No offend, but do you speak from experience? The second one would be a huge Ego breaker for me. I never experienced that so far, except one creating a fake profile of me on Instagram.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:22 AM
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I think the same, I cant understand why some of them share a different opinion some of them sounds psychopathic
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:10 AM
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Why would that have a negative impact for me, when l tell her that I don't want to stay in contact anymore? I thought being Alpha also means, having Respect for your surroundings, those who spend their time with you like they had the respect to appreciate the time with you, but why not having the respect to take the time and tell that you don't want it anymore. It is mutual?!
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:57 AM
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What do you exactly mean by going full Beta? And why would that have a negative impact for me, when l tell her that I don't want to stay in contact anymore? I thought being Alpha also means, having Respect to your surroundings
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:52 AM
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Why would you do that?
/r/askTRP08/05/21 02:41 AM
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thanks
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:15 PM
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We both were working together on a research paper, she has info and knowledge, that nobody have in my circle, also we both follow the same career.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:33 AM
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It's not about sex or building a meaningful relationship. I enjoyed the connection and intellectual conversations with her, it's nowadays rare to have them with female
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:58 AM
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Yeah I know, but in the Rules are stated, that it has to be from Red Pill Perspective, that's why I'm asking
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:51 AM
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Is that explicitly mentioned in any of the Red Pill Materials? If so could you state the reference, because I cant remember seeing anywhere that writing haha is considered bad
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:10 AM
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Exceptions are always there, but generally, absolvents are more educated (Antonym of being Ignorant is = knowledgable, educated) But that was not the point, we had a conversation about Bungee Jumping last time, She knows that, but denied that it exists lol. I thought after that, she is trying to make me insecure and confuse me or whatever she might be trying
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:56 PM
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LMAO
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:51 PM
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I doubt this in that case, she already finished her studies she probably didn't use the time for breathing virtual cocaine
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:47 PM
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She stated that Bungee Jumping doesn't exist, even though it exist and knows that it exist
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:42 PM
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S: omg thats so delicious S: and why didn't you invite? :0 :s M: ok if you want we can go to eat some day Shit test failed. Why would that be a shit test?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 01:55 PM
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I understand the point, but there is something we have to consider, where it might show weakness. for example, if a women shit tests you and you lack confidence and therefore you block her, would be weakness, but if you block someone, because the person is annoying and spamming, insulting you blocking would be a good option. We of course care also for our privacy. It depends since it is subjectively determined as you said, but yeah in OP case blocking would be unnecessary.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 01:33 PM
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But we set boundaries also due to emotion? Not everything, that is based on emotion equals weakness. It demonstrates, that you moved on and don't need the presence of the Person on the other hand.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:57 AM
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Thanks a lot
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:21 AM
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That's a good thought, thanks
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:17 AM
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covertly and softly per 48 Laws of Power and Sun Tzu. Thanks men
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:16 AM
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Tyler Durden AMOG tactics thanks
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:09 AM
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Up your game? elaborate
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:08 AM
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Really needed these words, have had a really bad past regarding that, seems like I need cut of the contact for a while, otherwise Ill go crazy
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:07 AM
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It seems like a no other direction. For the next time, what if I fail by seeming weak, is there any way to compensate it or take the thought from her back?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:59 AM
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Should I tell her, that she should let me know if someone makes her troubles in that case? or can I expect, that she will tell me that, when it comes to the situation
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:53 AM
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why is blocking low value?
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:14 PM
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Sounds weird, but I resolved it by quitting porn and spontaneously approaching them.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:10 PM
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Women also say they want a kind, generous, extremely loyal and funny guy, guess what? That's usually not the case. Forget her really, not worth to waste any thought about her.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:19 PM
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I thinkg you might hit a good point here. Handcuffs = associated usually with negative thoughts + reinforced through choking + loss of control + uncertainty since she is new in the Sex Game (Humans are usually much more careful with uncertain situation) = Scaring her away
/r/askTRP04/05/21 05:27 PM
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That's an interesting point, why would she be scared? Clarify your thoughs
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:57 PM
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You have to text her to keep the attraction alive? Am I wrong or isn't that usually unnecessary? As far as I know, space creates more Attraction and by sending her that one picture and continuously messaging her, screams for eagerness (You were asking yourself - What can I do to make her like me?). Correct me if I'm wrong
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:35 PM
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Great explanation, thanks for that. Besides that, would I also pass the test by walking away without saying anything, when she does that?
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:00 PM
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Is there no other indicator to measure that before/during the Dates? Something like, when you wanna hang out with her and she wants to bring a friend, would be trying to put in her orbit.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 02:30 PM
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No, not me calling her bitch, I meant when she calls me a bitch, loser or retard - like using more severe actions or words of disrespectfulness, and exactly there I would call her out. Calling me lazy and useless, even though she knows that I'm the complete opposite feels like why even the effort to respond to that, I can't take that serious. A female friend of mine called me useless and lazy, I respond with "ok" or "no", I think she said that to sum up 3 times useless and once lazy on that day.…
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:39 AM
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oh shit. I was always like ok or no, ignoring or compensating it with lowering her self-esteem, because why the effort to respond to this. Would it be something more severe like you bitch, loser, retard etc. Id make the effort by telling her + walking away if she continues.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 10:17 AM
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Plates, LTR, Friends in general with women, who knows you
/r/askTRP01/05/21 10:10 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 12:09 AM
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Just ignoring them seems to me too passive
/r/askTRP01/05/21 12:06 AM
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lol
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:11 AM
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I guess you are right, thanks
/r/askTRP29/04/21 10:28 PM
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I got it I'm on the right path then, thanks
/r/askTRP28/04/21 07:07 PM
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Do you have any legitim reference for this or is that speaking from experience?
/r/askTRP28/04/21 03:31 PM
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I think a lot :)
/r/askTRP28/04/21 03:22 PM
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So liking+intimidating would be good in that case?
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:39 PM
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A woman would hang out with a creepy?
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:29 PM
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Is he Redpilled?
/r/askTRP28/04/21 11:04 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate that
/r/askTRP28/04/21 10:11 AM
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But doesn't that contradict? When a woman creates a Problem and demands something in order to be successful like resources, money, knowledge etc. She will lose respect for you, use you and so on. Also when she is damaged, we save her?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:19 PM
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What about encouraging people to be successful and helping with their problems etc. I read about that regarding Abundance Mindset, is that accurate?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:08 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/askTRP27/04/21 11:04 AM
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it makes sense now, thanks
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:48 AM
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thanks
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:23 AM
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I swapped the names, its a video from stephiscold - it starts at 5:00min https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TpOwIyaoOww
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:03 AM
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Yeah in the beginning she was completely feminine, social but later on, she changed. Turned out she was Autistic and couldn't hide it anymore, she knew that I would leave her because of that.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 05:18 PM
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I already gave you a hint, if you have no idea how science works, then don't reply to my comments.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:41 PM
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Most people don't love Mr. Perfect. You are completely right, just remembered from my psychology course, that someone who appeals perfect, but can also show that he is just "human" at all increases liking of others. Thanks men!
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:35 PM
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I believe in facts, scientists whether quantitatively or qualitatively measured by asking women about their preferred values and statistically evaluating them. You of course can't speak for all women, but I can understand that you value a good listener
/r/askTRP21/04/21 04:29 PM
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That's interesting, is there any list for that? I would like to see, where they ascribe more value
/r/askTRP21/04/21 11:10 AM
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Where did you got the information, that the majority are avoidant? According to studies 65% of the people are secure attached
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 04:02 PM
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Not in Germany, they will probably beat you in debate. It depends widely on the Cultural and Living settings.. In Germany for example education is highly seen as important. In Philosophical terms, Greece would point most here, they have been taught philosophy since they are kids...
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:37 PM
1

I know, I don't want to come to that stage, where it happens very often either. A healthy relationship is important for me, but I can allow myself to do it since she exaggerates with her tests, also I was always good to her. I did it on that day, questioning her personality and it worked she was trying to justify her, but on the next day, her self-esteem raised from low to very high, because she got what she wanted by luck. So in that case, lowering her self-esteem didn't cause much success righ…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 09:24 AM
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When Dating women, who are less prone or not at all to initiate the contact first, taking it slowly by dating her every week just once, until she starts to initiate the contact I think it was the video with why she doesn't contact your first or something like that I'm not 100% sure
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:58 PM
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Sure and I hold his dick, while you catch his milk with your mouth
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:38 PM
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Nah it won't fit with AMS his strategies
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:35 PM
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I know, but I find it interesting would like to understand that..
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:33 PM
1

Do you think lowering her self-esteem would be the right thing here? Any techniques to maintain the frame? I have no idea how to resolve it, when it happens next time
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:08 PM
1

But why would she trivialize that and still hang out with me after that?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 12:38 PM
1

Why would she prevent me from leaving her, I don't even give her genuine attention.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:40 AM
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I dont know honestly, when i set boundaries she is respecting them, also asked me how she can make it up for me and hold her promise. I think she is just an insecure Person, but sees potential in me. Hence the abrupt techniques from her side
/r/askTRP16/04/21 10:26 AM
1

its impossible to handle it, jealousy is a natural response im not a psychopath
/r/seduction16/04/21 09:06 AM
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It can be, because i never validated or made compliments about her, but at the same time i gave her signs, that i might be interested, never made it official. She also tries every single time to get a reaction of me by trying all the Manipulative ways, as described in the Red Pill book. What should i do next?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:56 AM
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the fact that she told you is, what do you mean? You seem like you already know, what kind of Person she is, could you go more in Detail?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:52 AM
1

I understand, like setting boundaries, but doesn't show that weakness by forbidding it?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 06:56 PM
-2

Alphas follow rules? Seems to contradict
/r/askTRP15/04/21 04:02 PM
1

haha i know it's a silly question, just wanted to be sure since I'm not familiar with Red Pill community
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:33 PM
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Thanks a lot, I didn't know that. What do you mean by plate women? I'm not native English/American and didn't get that point
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:29 PM
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Thanks for the contribution, I started learning a lot about Red Pill and it seems obviously legit since it works with me. I read one statement in one Red Pill Book saying: They will test you to see how alpha you are/behave, test how much prone you are to listen to their orders or surrender to any jealously. I didn't get the point with surrender to any jealously. There is also no further explanation, but I'm curious. Could you explain that through some examples, that might can happen? (I'm very c…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:45 PM
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can you recommend some videos about that?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:42 PM
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I must say, I enjoy the shit tests, when you are good skilled in dealing with them it makes fun and so far I'm on the good path then. (As i mentioned above, I'm new at Red Pill Community, so i don't know much about it, but try to learn) About the light switch thing, is there any way to resolve it, when it is switched "off"? Some Principles, I should consider there?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 11:12 AM
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I honestly have no idea how to resolve it, I'm currently watching some Videos from AMS and reading the Red Pill book, but it will take some time until I process those vast amounts of information. Do you recommend AMS books?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 11:02 AM
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What about women with an inflated ego and introverts? (She also told me that, she feels irritated, when she has to message first) All of them above apply to me, but due to both bold underlined terms, I'm the one who has to initiate the contact first.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:50 AM
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Intellectual conversations are important for me, otherwise, I get bored. She is introverted and also smart. Would lowing her lust still apply? That's the point, I wanna see how well I'm doing with red pill lifestyle and if there are really some benefits, as when I live my typical lifestyle. - Learning by doing
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:44 AM
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I have one last question. There was an incident, where I didn't really set boundaries. She was calling me lazy and useless and that very often on a day, I ignored it and didn't react to it. She usually respects the boundaries, when I set them, but I was more under pressure, because she tested me with several shit tests at the same time and I didn't set the boundaries there. The point is she used exactly those words, where I'm the opposite of, it is like she found what she needs to get a reaction…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 11:15 PM
1

Thanks a lot
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:43 PM
1

In short, I can tell that I so far created Mystery that she started chasing me and questioning why I don't react to her validation-seeking questions. I don't know whether this helps to answer my question, but I think I should slowly start to give her some validation, but I also don't want to ruin anything haha difficult
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:38 PM
1

That's crazy interesting knowledge, thanks for your contribution, I really appreciate that! So as I understand, it doesn't matter, which emotion I induce in her to keep her interesting to me and the cornerstone is just to create this kind of mystery? When would be the "perfect" time to start giving her validation? My goal is to build a LTR.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:29 PM
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What about giving validation? I watched so many Red Pilled Videos from YouTubers and so many of them said never give a woman validation because they already get it from the Betas and has no meaning for them. But I thought that validation could be useful to reinforce good behavior, for example, we engage in intellectual conversation and she seems really smart. Couldn't I tell her then, that I enjoy the intellectual conversation with her, because she seems obviously smart for me? ​ its kinda confu…
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:13 PM
1

What about having intellectual conversations? Could someone with Redpill engage in intellectual conversation with women or is it a no go? I honestly didn't get the point of being Red pilled, it seems just weird. I know for example some People, who dont fit in the Red Pill schema, but are happily married, have kids and a purpose in life
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:06 PM
0

What about having intellectual conversations? Could someone with Redpill engage in intellectual conversation with women or is it no go? I honestly didn't get the point of being Red pilled, it seems just weird. I know for example some People, who dont fit in the Red Pill schema, but are happily married, have kids and a purpose in life
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:04 PM
1

You have really no idea about Human Nature. I'm saying that as a Psychology student. I did everything right, wish you the best
/r/seduction13/04/21 10:28 AM
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Where did I act cool, which post do you mean? And what do you mean with cool- cold? lol I have exams this and next week and during this time I message with no one. Should I let her know? One problem is also, that she is an introvert, hence I have to initiate the conversation first. I'm not eager lol just don't want to ruin anything since it is my first time with women, better be prepared, rather then face the problems and being unprepared - my thoughts ​ By the way i think as she said, it was a …
/r/seduction12/04/21 06:03 PM
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thank you for your contribution and what do you think about just meeting her whenever I want to? Wouldnt be that bad? I have a lot to do, but sometimes not, so it can vary that I start hanging out with her after 1-2weeks.
/r/seduction12/04/21 12:33 PM
1

How often should i hang out with her? like how often in a week?
/r/seduction11/04/21 11:04 PM
1

We rarely know us, we are not even official friends.. westernized portobello lmao
/r/askTRP11/04/21 02:16 PM
1

lol I said afterwards Okay. Good night
/r/askTRP11/04/21 01:57 PM
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She likes me. I'm asking if this was a shit test, nothing else
/r/seduction11/04/21 01:54 PM
1

what
/r/seduction11/04/21 01:53 PM
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what
/r/askTRP11/04/21 01:52 PM
-2

Doesn't make sense, women don't test betas
/r/askTRP11/04/21 01:51 PM
1

but what about long-distance relationships?
/r/seduction11/04/21 11:53 AM
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LOL, I have no idea what to believe now, but I thought the same as you..
/r/seduction11/04/21 10:38 AM
1

So i should have had approve her?
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:46 AM
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Thats what i did, but why is everyone saying here the opposite? That i just should tell her
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:43 AM
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As i said its my first time, i recognized it, but was unsure if it was genuine, because she ones also talked to other men as we hung out
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:41 AM
1

I think women should get to know Men much better by using their time. I told her, that I want to get to know her better. I could be the wrong Person for her, that's why I take it slowly. She also told me, that she is scared to get her heartbroken and I don't want to be the one. I feel responsible here. (I meant I would tell her, that I can imagine a relationship with her and that I would give it a try, if she feels the same) We both are 22, no judging...
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:43 PM
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Yeah just 2 Dates, but we hung out before 3-4 times... Poorly, we have a long-distance relationship, due to corona things got hard, first because of my studies and second, she lives far away. I didn't make her clear, that I'm into her, how would she understand that? She tests me a lot, but respect my boundaries. She also cares for me asked me if everything is ok, when i act differently.. No kissing, i believe it is to early for that
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:31 PM
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I love her, so I should tell her straight, that I want a relationship with her? (It is my first time dating a women, i have no experience with that)
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:19 PM
1

Are you sure? We had just 1 Date before, why would she expect that I open up my feelings to her on a 2 Date?
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:12 PM
1

But why is that a funny question? Why would she say that lol
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:06 PM
1

tbh it makes fun to deal with them, but at a certain point where they try to get a reaction from you with directly insulting- is just too much
/r/seduction10/04/21 09:41 PM
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The problem is, she is an introvert. She wants always, that I initiate the first contact, she never text me first.... So when i walk away, she wouldn't even approach me
/r/seduction10/04/21 09:39 PM
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Yeah, I realized, that she started to talk with another man, while we hung out. I set boundaries told her calmly, I took my time to hang out with you and not with others. She apologized and asked me how she can make it up for me. Later she started calling me useless or lazy about unnecessary things.. I have no idea I just ignored the last one, any idea how to deal with that next time, besides just walking away?
/r/seduction10/04/21 05:27 PM
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