I was Dating a girl and I realized very often, that she tries to maintain a balance in a subtle way. For example, when I say very often No, she will ask me something where I would definitely say yes. When I don't comply with some of her requests, she will ask or find something, where I have no problem with complying because that would be something I usually do, but the point is she is doing that always before the end of the date. Does that have any meaning?