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I see. So it's more like you think people don't have your best interests at heart when you're dealing with them? People definitely can be deceiving and opportunistic. It's good to be cautious.
/r/newTRP30/08/21 05:43 AM
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Uncomfortable as in you feel intimidated?
/r/newTRP30/08/21 01:07 AM
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Always have something scheduled. If she's not the last or only thing on your agenda, your mind will be busier. That's not a complete solution to the problem but it can help. We all know that dating is nothing more than entertainment. There's no need to feel hurt because of a woman. She can't do shit. Handle the situation as such.
/r/newTRP29/08/21 07:26 AM
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Well said.
/r/newTRP29/08/21 07:24 AM
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You can't play games when it comes to that. Anything beyond being straightforward looks creepy af. Tell her "let's move this date to your place" or "okay, okay. You've convinced me. I'll come to your place. Let's go". Don't wait for her to invite you. Only a small number of women will actually take initiative and ask you.
/r/newTRP20/08/21 09:42 PM
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This whole scenario doesn't work after the first sentence. You've stated your rules and she broke them. Be a man and move on.
/r/newTRP20/08/21 09:37 PM
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This is the demise of manhood, gentlemen.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/21 02:45 AM
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Nope, not desperate. It's more efficient. You don't waste any time and you'll also know if she's a valid option or not. Text her you'll be at [X spot] on [Y date]. And then tell her to join you. She'll either agree, try to reschedule or tell you she won't be available. If she doesn't give you the first option, she's out. It's really that simple.. The magic happens during the date, not when you're texting. Once she likes you due to your physical presence she'll have a warm image of you in her min…
/r/newTRP07/08/21 08:53 PM
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You're talking about recovering the current one?
/r/newTRP06/08/21 04:29 AM
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You're way too slow brother. Ask them out before even getting the number. Get the date, then the number. Trust me, it'll be more effective. It works wonders.
/r/newTRP06/08/21 03:12 AM
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Gifs aren't effective as conversation reanimators. You can sprinkle them on top from time to time when the convo is going well. Lead me through a typical conversation up until the moment of drying down.
/r/newTRP06/08/21 02:40 AM
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It's okay to text back and forth a little bit before a date. Assuming they find you attractive there's virtually no way to mess this up unless you're extremely annoying or weird. Just be a little smooth. Use the conversations as circumstantial teasing opportunities. If she texts you that she's making lunch or food in general, you say "good, I was hungry anyway". I'm sure you know what to do. But asking for a date right away is the way to go. That should be the ultimate goal when you text her. If…
/r/newTRP06/08/21 02:03 AM
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Okay you completely lost me there. Don't know what you've been smoking. Smells like your mommas pubes though. But then again, how is she available at this hour? I got her schedule on my cloud and she should be busy rn. Yes, I am your father. Live with it. It'll be easier. It's okay if you call me sir or dad. No need to mix this up with one of your sugar daddies.
/r/newTRP06/08/21 01:48 AM
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Wow, super creative, buddy. Gotta remember those lines so I can be ready for future confrontations with men who have extremely low testosterone. Let's talk sometime soon when you're off your period. No worries, my son.
/r/newTRP06/08/21 01:27 AM
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You write like a jealous ex girlfriend who's angry about being ignored and that nobody wants to listen to her. This dude is really using terms like "mate guarding" in a club scenario and calls other people "redpill visionaries" with a passive aggressive undertone. This post is meant for men who want precise fundamentals, not for fortnite playing bitches. What do you mean with "unique red pill school of thought"? The human psychology doesn't change all of a sudden within thousands, let alone 20-3…
/r/newTRP05/08/21 11:00 PM
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Doesn't have to mean shit tbh. Maybe she's just bored at work and doesn't have anybody else to mess with. Either way it's unprofessional. You don't know what she'd pull if you seriously upset her. It's your choice. Ask her out if you wanna hang out with her. If she says no you got your answer. Keep in mind that she'll most likely try to mock you for making a move on her afterwards. Perhaps even in front of your coworkers and boss. If you can deal with that smoothly, you can give it a try.
/r/newTRP05/08/21 08:59 PM
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You've clearly skipped reading the post. Read beyond the first bullet on the list and you'll see.
/r/newTRP05/08/21 08:54 PM
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🌷Stop chasing men that are out of your league and will raise your bar artificially, which will lead to delusional standards that will destroy any potential of a fulfilling long term relationship.🕺
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/21 02:13 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/newTRP05/08/21 04:55 AM
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Number two is some pussy shit bro. You'll look way too butthurt if your message is that overt and has a warning undertone. Although I agree that you shouldn't let it slide altogether. If she's playing that game, you play it too. When she says "he's only p&d'ing" your reply should be: "that's something only you would know" or "looks like we got us a pro". Something to that effect. She's being a little condescending, but nothing too disrespectful. She's doing it in front of you at least. That mean…
/r/newTRP04/08/21 10:16 PM
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You create eye contact and confirm her interest in you. She's having a smoking pipe in her mouth while looking at you. It couldn't be more ideal for you. Look at her until she takes a hit and let's the smoke out. If she's still looking at you, you go over to her table and ask her what flavor she's smoking. Her answer doesn't matter. You tell her you know a better flavor and that you'll show her yourself. She'll probably say something reserved like "okay" or "sure" That's when you ask for her nam…
/r/newTRP02/08/21 09:48 PM
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The issue is not her texting pattern. It's your fear of losing her. You've gotten so attached to her that you're at a point where you're worrying about her attraction level in the middle of the night. The more this happens, the harder it'll be to be in your frame when interacting with her. You'll be putting her on a pedestal without even seeing it as such. It's okay to text her when you got some time on your hands. Don't hold back your thoughts because of the "rules" on the sidebar. Just don't e…
/r/newTRP02/08/21 09:25 PM
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They're not your friends. Dump them altogether. Find new friends who won't mess with your women. This is a different animal right there. It's not just her disrespecting you. It's your "friends". If you feel disrespected when your plate entertains other men, make that clear to her from now on. It's okay if you want to be the only dog on the block. The moment she tells you about other men, you dump her. I'm not talking about the woman you're dealing with at the moment, obviously. This goes for the…
/r/newTRP02/08/21 05:51 PM
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It's triggering the same reactions universally. Doesn't matter in which part of the planet you fail to get it up. It can and will happen at least once over the years. And when it happens you can't make excuses. If the woman is still in the mood, you calm down and make it work. She'll forget that it even happened once you give her what she wants. Nevertheless, if you repeatedly fail to perform she'll undoubtably lose respect for you. Ignore her affirmations. Once or twice (not in a row) is okay. …
/r/newTRP27/07/21 11:27 PM
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Not some, almost all women use their body as leverage to get what they want. Sometimes the action isn't even required. Most of the time the sole possibility makes dudes so crazy that they'd do anything for a woman. Men have to be more consequent and not do things for women in order to get some action. If you wanna treat her well, do it because you genuinely want to and because she brings legitimate value to your life, besides her body.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/21 04:17 AM
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What's your goal when you think about approaching this woman? Her pics shouldn't mean shit to you if you want to meet her in the short term. But ltr? Hell no. She's looking for attention outside of her self and does this in the worst of places: social media. Keep your distance from women like these if you're looking for a proper relationship. But as I've said, she's probably fun if you don't expect anything in the long run. Just don't develop any feelings or start justifying her bullshit ig stor…
/r/newTRP26/07/21 10:13 PM
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Yeah, parties are easy for closing. She has to get physically comfortable with you and trust you first. Take her by her hand and tell her to join you for a dance. Lead her, spin her and move slowly towards the next available bed room. I know it should be obvious, but I'll say it anyway: if she doesn't feel like having action or pulls her arm away, you'll stop any approaches then and there. Don't engage any further and then leave her alone. Scenarios like this are extremely sensitive. Only contin…
/r/newTRP24/07/21 07:50 PM
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This woman is a frat bih my guy. She's orchestrating the whole gang and you thirsty dogs are playing along perfectly. Do you have a chance? Sure. Will it get messy? You bet. And what you're describing means nothing. You haven't even made an approach. If you want her, ask for her number and go on a date with her. If she says no you won't be wasting empty attention on her. Plus, if those dudes are your friends you shouldn't be entertaining her anyway.
/r/newTRP24/07/21 06:48 PM
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Bro if you're exhausted and busy otherwise, don't bother wasting energy on chitchat. And what are you doing that's drying up the convo? You should be texting her for logistics and then meet her. Which you seem to have done. So? What happened during the date? You left the most important part out.
/r/newTRP24/07/21 06:43 PM
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They got kitchens in the barracks. Time to cook for the whole squadron.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/21 01:47 AM
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Text her when you feel like texting her, but don't play stupid shit like "hey what would you do if..." and don't engage in her attention seeking games. And next time she asks you some ignorant bullshit about why you're only texting her when you want to meet her you respond that you don't have the time for chitchat and you're about real connections. The fuck? She has to grow up. You HAVE to meet new women. Don't talk to one girl only.
/r/newTRP21/07/21 09:46 PM
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You're wasting way too much energy for this woman. She hasn't even given you some action yet. Also, be careful. If there are societal repercussions for being intimate, she could potentially ruin your reputation if she's desperate enough.
/r/newTRP21/07/21 05:54 PM
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How many times have you met in total and did you have any legitimate action?
/r/newTRP21/07/21 05:24 PM
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Doesn't matter what comes out of your mouth unless you're extremely creepy. You could literally say "Hi. Let's eat burgers this week" and get the number. Done. Your body language and voice matter more than what you actually say. Don't twitch around or smile too much. Don't laugh at anything she says if it's not genuinely funny or she'll see you as a clown. Be serious and hold eye contact. If you look away every now and then, don't look up or down. Look to the left or right as if you're thinking …
/r/newTRP21/07/21 05:03 PM
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Is this the woman you told that you loved her?
/r/newTRP21/07/21 04:53 PM
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Doesn't matter if she "leaves" you. You should be in no state to be left. Don't keep her. Then she can't leave you. I know you want to be that strong dude that protects his woman and never gets disrespected. But you can't control her. You can only control what you're doing. Most of the time women won't do shit like that. And if they do, they belong to the streets anyway.
/r/newTRP18/07/21 10:56 AM
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Calm down man. And stop watching dirty videos on the internet. You're way too focused on what other think. You shouldn't even be in a position where a woman talking to other dudes makes you nervous. If you have enough options you won't care. Also, if you're really high value she'll never think about destroying her chances with you. And if one of your friends does some shit like that he's not your friend anyway. Meet a bunch of women and don't think about what comes next. You write like you think…
/r/newTRP18/07/21 05:12 AM
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High value depends on more than just income and looks. You could have both values close to or within the upper echelon and still be lower in the market place than him. Status is also an important factor. Let's say you're confident as fuck and you have a big circle, but you're broke and not very attractive. It won't be hard to find women who want some action with you. If you're good looking with high status and no money, it'll be even easier. You'll be a heart breaking dog who has to block some w…
/r/newTRP15/07/21 01:09 AM
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You're not redpilled to the core. If you were you wouldn't write another post about her and dwell on some random bitch. Honestly man, just meet new women and have some fun with your friends. Why are you still thinking about her? And stop saying shit like "probably f**ks a new guy every day". That's the ultimate cuck statement. So what? Are you going to just sit there and think about how she lives her life? Or are you going to pull yourself together and be a man. Go on a vacation or swipe right o…
/r/newTRP14/07/21 10:22 PM
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Appreciated, brother.
/r/newTRP13/07/21 11:14 PM
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You do you, brother. See what happens. It's your time and your decision. But don't let her make a fool of you.
/r/newTRP13/07/21 10:02 PM
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I don't know man. It's hard to assess the situation without having all the details. What did you do to know that she doesn't want it anyway? Has she already rejected your attempts? If yes, I don't know if there's any hope with this one. Maybe she gets off on helping dudes in need. Like a nursing kink or something. If she doesn't want you, she doesn't want you. Don't engage any further and go live your life.
/r/newTRP13/07/21 09:51 PM
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She might as well test whether you'll stick around when she doesn't give you what you want then. She knows you want to fuck her. Every woman does. Don't give her free attention. She's feeding off the validation while at the same time you don't even get a single bite to eat. The further you entertain her without receiving anything, the more she'll lose respect for you. Yes, you might risk losing her as a prospect. But after four dates of no contribution she probably isn't even worth it.
/r/newTRP13/07/21 09:35 PM
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Answer these two questions first: Are you wealthy or do you look like you could be? Has she been in an ltr recently?
/r/newTRP13/07/21 09:25 PM
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You gotta learn something first: she didn't block you for "some random reason". She dropped and blocked you because she's lost her respect for you. Women break up emotionally weeks and months prior to the actual breakup. You probably were behaving increasingly like a pussy and never showed her that you're a solid rock or even a mountain. You're afraid of losing her because you don't have any other women at hand and you don't believe that you could be able to. Get your shit straight first. Work o…
/r/newTRP13/07/21 08:17 PM
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You have no options and you've never experienced how having options feels like. That makes you clingy by default.
/r/newTRP13/07/21 07:39 PM
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That's your first problem. Some trivial bullshit like that bothers you so much that you've been thinking about it all day. Distance yourself from these kinda thought patterns. You've said what you've said. It was stupid and dorky, but that's it. You did nothing bad per se. There's no other advice. She's not special. Either she wants some action or she doesn't. If she doesn't, you move on.
/r/newTRP13/07/21 07:10 PM
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First of all, don't drink. Second, it's not lost yet. You can't correct this by explaining yourself. Every attempt will make you look pathetic. Don't initiate contact for a while. At least for a week. If she hasn't messaged you by then, you invite her to join you to grab something to eat. This is a test to see if she's worth your energy any further. If she doesn't reply or seems indecisive, you never talk to her again. Seriously bro, never tell a woman you love her if she's not going to be the m…
/r/newTRP13/07/21 11:17 AM
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Sure thing brother.
/r/newTRP04/07/21 09:17 AM
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Why are you so eager to win us over and prove that the website is supposedly superior to the subreddit? If you left reddit behind, like you're stating here, why are you still here? Work on your forum and stop fucking with your past. You look like an ex girlfriend who can't accept the breakup. Nobody denies that you've put work into your website. But the people here don't want to switch and you can't force them to. Not directly and sure as hell not with passive aggressive comments.
/r/newTRP03/07/21 05:19 PM
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Just envision for a second what would happen if you gave her gifts and treated her with respect and loyalty. That thought experiment alone repulses me immediately from building a further connection.
/r/newTRP03/07/21 02:16 AM
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I mean there's not much you can do if she's in a hurry. I wouldn't recommend tapping her shoulder from behind or running after her. Just speak with a clear voice and say: "Hey, you're cute. Let's grab something to eat this week." Either that or you pay attention to her spot at the beach. Chances are she doesn't have her phone on her and has to go get it first anyway. That's where you give her your number or get hers. Although I'm someone who gives women his number first.
/r/newTRP03/07/21 02:08 AM
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Where were you swimming? Indoors or outdoors?
/r/newTRP02/07/21 01:11 AM
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Don't go clubbing. That's like one of the worst places for picking up good women. Most of the time they're either hunting for some idiots who can provide VIP opportunities or free drinks. Plus the music is way too loud. Yeah you can ask some washed up broad if she wants to come home with you. It's fucking easy if her friends are attractive, too. They'll encourage her to have some fun with a dog like you. If your peers do something you don't like doing, you look for other people. I guarantee that…
/r/newTRP02/07/21 12:40 AM
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Damn. Stay strong brother. Are you cohabiting?
/r/newTRP01/07/21 07:09 PM
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Try using Meetup and social events on Facebook built around a certain hobby, sports or industries. Everything you need is this one extroverted person that introduces you to their friends. It's a piece of cake after that. But you need to bring something to the table. If you want to speak about something that interests you, you better be well-versed in that particular area. If you have good articles or books, tell them you'll text them when you get home. Get the number and stay in contact. Even be…
/r/newTRP01/07/21 06:38 PM
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Fuck the new website. That whole play is a plot to gather potential eyes for present and future revenue streams. They want to isolate as many people as possible in order to lead a monopoly that users depend on to gain knowledge. I don't care about their ideologies and political views. Nobody even cares about the Red Pill on the internet. We're a bunch of dogs. Why would anyone try to mute us? Come on, we're not that important. They're acting under this pretense that reddit is behind the whole th…
/r/newTRP01/07/21 06:29 PM
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Hug her, as u/js0225 said. And then watch how she reacts to teasing. Insult her in a fun way. When you catch her staring at you while you're doing something on your phone or merely looking in the distance, you can say something like: "Woah, were you staring at me you perv?" and then bump her lightly with your elbow. Depending on how her demeanor or mood is up until that moment, you vary between intensities. If she's a sunshine who's jumping around and cracking jokes, you can hit her with your fu…
/r/newTRP29/06/21 12:46 PM
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Exactly. Let's make this shit work together in this sub.
/r/newTRP27/06/21 02:13 AM
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Yup. It's a tactical move to isolate the content and thus create possible revenue streams.
/r/newTRP27/06/21 02:11 AM
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We, the users, are providing content for free. The mods provide their fair share, but there is no community without the people. This was is the mods' doing. If you don't realize that, you're naive as fuck. They've been pushing the forum for months. Even before they closed the subreddit. You guys really think you're going to act freely and independently on an external website? Wait until that shit dries up too because the owners "ran out of funds" due to lack of patreon contributions. I wholehear…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 04:58 PM
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Good call.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 02:58 PM
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Yes, that's why I've said "efficiently". Doesn't mean everybody will move there and start contributing helpful content. Reddit is still the more convenient option, since people can quickly switch between favorite communities.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 02:53 PM
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I agree. This is a shit show unfolding right in front of our eyes. Men need an unbiased and open space to discuss their thoughts and learn healthy habits from other men. There is no other subreddit that provides brutally honest but genuine advice like asktrp does/did. It's sad to watch tbh. Hopefully this can be sorted out or at least efficiently moved to the external forum. Weird how it goes. Subs like FDS stay active and keep strategically planning on how to use men, while we're getting shut d…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 02:49 PM
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Look at the space between the eyebrows.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:33 PM
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Never heard someone combine dramatic and drastic.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:55 PM
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You're right. It's indeed weird that he's 24 in one post, 25 in the next and then 24 again.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 05:19 AM
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Working out like a mad horse and reading books will sharpen you. Don't think about any other self help methods right now. Work yourself to dust. Train so hard that you won't have a single unnecessary thought left in your head. Go for a run every morning and then hit the gym late at night while listening to some badass music. Punch yourself in the fucking head when you feel weak and too comfy. Be strong and energized. Stop watching the big P. Save your masculine energy for your upcoming efforts. …
/r/askTRP22/06/21 04:19 AM
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Get shredded and dress well.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 04:11 AM
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Appreciated brother. I don't want to make it look dramatic but, as you've mentioned, I've noticed some dudes who keep posting the same stuff over and over. If a brother needs help, we're here. There's no need to be ashamed of it.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:24 AM
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I remember this post from last week. I urge you to find a therapist. Your problems don't start with game and having a mission. You need to address deeper issues first. I think once you're feeling better things will fall into place. I mean you're saying you feel empty and that you're unproductive, and then a couple of paragraphs later you say you're preferring high pressure and competitive environments and that you have great interpersonal skills. How does that work? This whole post contradicts i…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:02 AM
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Even if preventing the earth from collapsing was your occupation, you'd be bored within a month if the job was monotonous enough. Like watching a single screen or button for hours. We are creatures of habit. This has superb upsides, but also destructive downsides. Your brain can get accustomed to almost every (safe) condition or process there is. You could endure mentally stressful situations for weeks and months without feeling an itch, but the moment you're comfortable for too long, your body …
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:17 AM
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Gotta be faster than women when they bring shit up from the Renaissance bro. But if I'm wrong I'll apologize of course. This could just as easily be an extreme coincidence.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:01 AM
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So far I'm pretty certain. The "neighbor" posts align and their handles have the same number of letters and syllables, plus the random single digit number at the end.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:54 AM
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What do you mean? If I'm correct the dude is posting with two accounts. This one is already on the watch list. Not only are the handles similar in their syllables and letter counts, but some of his posts also match in their cores. I've called him out some posts below and he immediately created this post afterwards. He's playing a double game with the community in order to get his story across. If I'm wrong I apologize, OP. But I'm certain.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:52 AM
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Life is too short my man. Just say what you want to say.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:43 AM
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No it's not. It's one of the requirements, but the house needs 4 walls to at least stand properly. You can get women without being physically fit, but only being fit doesn't suffice. You have to be able to start a conversation and schedule the date at least. And don't be a creep. If you stare at her for 5 minutes without saying a word, a stone chest won't do you any good. Having said that, a fit body will open more doors with women than you can imagine, once you learn how to handle yourself duri…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:41 AM
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There he is. Agent Double Identity aka u/alexys8
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:28 AM
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Not gonna lie, I think you're u/natery5. Same story, same protagonists lmao.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:21 AM
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I know right lmao.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:13 AM
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You tell her to order something with garlic too. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:43 PM
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It's about time you stop sending those pictures my man.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:47 PM
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Bruh follow your mission. Only make exceptions for your brothers and your family.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:42 PM
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What are some things a plate should do [...]? How are we supposed to be able to answer that? You can't use other men's wishes as your own when choosing a woman in your life. Look for what's dear to you and what would make you happy. Ideally giving you these things makes her happy too. Tell her what you expect in a relationship beforehand and the rest should fall into place, as long as you don't crumble under occasional pressure.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:35 PM
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What do you expect from a 20 yo who got herself a 40 yo provider bro?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:07 PM
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You've made a tactical mistake. When she said she was sick she wanted to see if you're a creep who wants some quick action. You've presented her two options and even phrased them as questions: do you wanna go or stay home? That's too indecisive. Then she even gave you a second chance to man up. I'll let you know later At that point you were already acting a little bit pushy about it. let me know soon combined with If not, and been wanting to see this movie for a while I know it sounds decisive a…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:01 PM
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What do you mean the viggy didn't work? Is that even possible?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:45 PM
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Don't even know the significance of that score number. But you'd have to assume that a hot woman in her 20s is actively using snapchat or at least ig. Ig can be even worse. You don't have an indicator of the messages sent and it's possible to send temporary photos, messages, and videos too.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:41 AM
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Never marry. You've somewhat dodged a bullet. Could have been worse if you had children together. This is what I'm talking about constantly. It doesn't matter which cultural background they're coming from. Once the sweet fruits of unlimited social media attention hit them, they get this itch in their asses. Thus, they wanna see if the grass is indeed greener on the other side. Doesn't even necessarily have to be caused by social media. This behavior can easily occur when you're at work and she s…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:30 AM
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You said it. 1 - 10 = - 9. You'll have to meet at least 9 fire women to make up for this bullshit idea.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:09 AM
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I'm not a friend of marriage so the argument would end for me here usually. But for argument's sake: if you wanna take the traditional route, I'd say the whole family is under the protection of the man. He takes risks in literally all aspects when he provides for his family. If he doesn't act responsibly, the family can't have a comfortable and safe life. This is at least how it was originally. Nowadays men are obviously interchangeable and almost obsolete if you're asking women. Also, women are…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:59 AM
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Some women are like that. They magically find the situations where you're most vulnerable and use them as an escape trigger. Imagine if this day were perfectly fine and you had some fun with your friends. She probably would have tried to reach you asap and then drawn all your attention to herself. This woman is a mess. Going from calling you aggressive to wishing you best. Typical narcissistic behavior. She's trying to make you feel bad about losing her one last time so you're hurting more durin…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:29 AM
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Normally I wouldn't answer such an ignorant question, but I'll do it anyway for my brothers who might still have doubts and questions. If anything, we're improving to be the best version of ourselves. This isn't only a benefit to us, but to women too. It's typical for judgemental people like you to take terminologies at face value and rationalize that we must hate a certain group. We respect women as humans. It isn't about speaking "horribly", it's about using what constantly and reliably happen…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:36 PM
2

I know you think you're like Sheldon Cooper with your analyses. But you're missing a part of your brain.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:29 AM
2

That's what I was wondering too.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:21 AM
1

Sure buddy. Up your ig game. You'll soon have women sending you these kinda reactions. Welcome to 2021.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:16 AM
4

Surroundings? Two dudes who are as good as strangers to you react to your story and you start questioning their intentions and feelings? Come on, man. People do that all the time. It has literally no value.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 04:07 AM
1

It's not that big of a deal tbh. If you wanna take a little risk you could tell her to get her ass over there and that it isn't that far. She might cancel on you though. Calling an uber is much easier.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:52 AM
2

Get a hold of yourself.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:46 AM
6

Why do you even think about that?
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:22 AM
1

Legend.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:16 AM
14

This is bad on so many levels, it almost sounds fake. Get a good lawyer, document the ridiculous shit she's been pulling off with that dude and collect further evidence if needed. How the fuck are you willing to stay with a fat woman who's already cheating on you emotionally through social media like a damn ICQ emo. Act quickly, brother. The sooner the better.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:15 AM
2

Whenever you go out with friends or coworkers, don't give her too much information about who's coming and where you're going. Don't know if your gf is curious about these types of things, but I'll make an example. Her: I'm hungry, let's go out for dinner. You: Can't, I'm going out with friends. Her: who's coming? You: wouldn't you like to know? Her: any women? And then you leave her on read. She'll go fucking crazy depending on how suspicious she is. Reply when you get back home. If she's anxiou…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:35 PM
15

I can't believe what I'm reading in this sub sometimes.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:38 PM
1

What country are we talking about?
/r/askTRP19/06/21 08:18 PM
3

Seeing women as people and not putting them on a pedestal is also one of the fundamentals. If every men applied that one simple piece of information, there would be far fewer sob stories where the guy wants to "fight" for her and give her a chance after she stopped being feminine.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 08:15 PM
3

Obviously it was disrespectful as fuck of her. But there's nothing you can do when she starts doing shit like that but next her internally on the spot and then have a good time. This is beyond shit tests and teasing. That's just a lack of manners. Even if she wasn't interested in you, there was no reason to search for action in front of your nose. And it was probably you who brought her to the party. And then she goes on to use your help as a stepping stone for further connections.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:50 PM
1

How long have you been seeing each other and was there any indication of being exclusive?
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:59 PM
2

Include a tldr ffs.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:52 PM
36

Sure buddy "bad injury".
/r/askTRP19/06/21 04:42 PM
3

This has to be top comment.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 04:33 PM
9

She's a spoilt bitch. You gotta have zero tolerance for delays. Do whatever you wanted to do with her alone instead. She missed her chance.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 04:20 PM
6

Yes, good eye.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 04:08 PM
19

Write "slut maker" as your job title.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:46 PM
1

Why the fuck would you share the same social circle?
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:35 PM
57

Her hands. Look at her hands. They almost always give away her physique. Forearms are a good indicator too.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:30 PM
1

Feel free to name the values that define a man for you.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:16 PM
1

Handsome bastard.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:49 AM
5

The first one is a backhanded compliment. It mentions her ex in order to see if you'll make any negative comments about him.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:47 AM
4

If you're socially autistic, you probably shouldn't even be worrying about frame and shit tests. Get good at reading situations first. You have to be able to distinguish usual banter from comments that are meant to push your boundaries. Here's an example at the most basic level: you smell good, my ex had the same fragrance I like your jacket, you look like a biker Which one is the shit test?
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:35 AM
7

This is an opener I've used for about two weeks. Worked wonders. you look like a tedious and expensive divorce 8 out of 10 women responded positively. I usually don't text first but I wanted to try something new and it made them all giggly and playful. It's like they inherently want to fuck you up on day 1 already lmao.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:16 AM
3

Text game can be helpful if you're attractive. Even better when you're more attractive than her. She'll be nervous about meeting you and thus she'll want to extend the period in which you guys text back and forth. If you're dealing with above average women, I wouldn't put too much time in texting. They're getting easily 40-80 matches per day and almost every match texts them. You don't wanna have a dialog during rush hour. You'll disappear in her dms if you can't get her number and then schedule…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:04 AM
4

Lmao. Just meet her bro. Verify whether she's using other people's pictures first though.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 01:40 AM
7

There's no reason to apologize. She's the one who left. She should be apologizing to you.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:45 AM
18

No.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:37 AM
1

Ngl this reads like a milestone announcement disguised as a question.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:33 AM
2

Many will disagree with me, but you should try this anyway: don't pull out your phone, but give her your number. I'm telling you, if she's really interested she'll text you. By doing this you don't risk getting a wrong number and you also won't put any pressure on her because she won't feel the need to give out her number to a total stranger. This works, my brothers. I've tried this method and experienced success with it. This is something few men do. It legitimately throws her off because it's …
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:24 AM
36

It doesn't matter how good and loyal of a woman she's been up until a given moment. Once she thinks she's found a valid option that will be worthwhile, she won't hesitate to change islands immediately. Never mind the fact that the former island has been feeding her and kept her safe. The moment she thinks she could potentially feel safer and better fed, she'll use the opportunity. It's like a damn summer sale or Black Friday. You buy shit only because it appears to be limited and irrationally va…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/21 11:58 PM
14

Literally if the crave for sex wasn't there Lmao that's literally what makes you a man. Your testosterone and thus aggression and sexual drive.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 11:19 PM
9

You should have stated your rules and boundaries before entering a damn LTR with her. It looks weak now that you've waited to express your thoughts. She'll think that you had to gather your strength and bravery to even raise that issue with her.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:19 PM
2

One way to prove you're not the problem is to withdraw the system or program in question completely without them knowing and document the abstinence. It might get expensive as hell. But if they still keep spamming you afterwards, you could destroy them with evidence. Don't know how interdependent your departments and systems are. Maybe this isn't even an option.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:03 PM
2

How are they creating that impression? What's the indicator here?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:34 PM
4

I know tinder is a shit show, but it's not that bad. Getting matches and dates is harder than 3-4 years ago. Nonetheless it's possible. You just gotta cut to the chase and schedule a date. Don't chitchat, don't make her compliments. Be efficient.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:30 PM
1

In my opinion, it's way too complicated to go this deep and categorize people like that. Doesn't matter which labels you read up on the internet and attach to her. At the end of the day it's about you being your own man. Don't worry about her.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:48 PM
5

Gotcha brother.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:28 PM
15

Can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not. It's not that obvious of an approach tbh.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:23 PM
40

It's a good opportunity to collect some numbers and take it from there after you've hung out. Just be laid back. Don't, under any circumstances, play the comedian. Start a conversation with the one you find least attractive. You'll have little to no confidence issue talking to her, because you won't care if she likes you or not. If you're clicking, the other women will ask you questions about your personal life, hobbies, etc. It sounds harsh towards the first woman, but that's the game. Everybod…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:18 PM
10

Breathe slowly and take your time between responses. It's important that you don't let other people rush you. Never be afraid of not getting your point across. Stand firmly, breathe and talk about 30-40% slower than you normally would. Even if it sounds too slow, go through with it. Get accustomed to pronouncing words correctly. Also, train your tongue muscles. Say words like "flick" and stress the L as your tongue pushes against the roof of your mouth. Do that in sets like you would in the gym.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 06:04 PM
8

Start giving the dudes at your work place small compliments. Nothing too big. "fresh sneakers" or "badass jacket". Stuff like that will make them remember you positively. In order to feel more energized and alive at work, you should also actively try to sit upright and walk with a straight back. Go for a walk during your lunch breaks and always take the stairs. Don't smile too much when walking by or interacting with coworkers. Give them a light smile or a nod. That'll build the minimum amount o…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:57 PM
1

How does a usual conversation go when you talk to people?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:01 PM
2

That's the only opinion that matters in this case.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:59 PM
1

Yup. If it isn't visible or too far away, she's full of shit. During the pandemic many women (and dudes probably) used the passport feature to see what's up in other cities and countries.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:23 PM
3

What is her distance in her profile?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:07 PM
5

I remember you. Double down on the looks and dress extremely well. If you're able to get a tan, do it. It'll look much better than having no eyebrows and being pale. If you're already dark/tan, all the better.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:59 PM
2

Genetic/behavioral changes in women: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/250190#1 https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2021/05/210517102645.htm Biological conflict between men and women: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2002/02/020215071247.htm Very interesting reads. Also gives clarity about the dynamics between males and females.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:36 PM
6

There's no other solution than to stop chasing her. You should try dating women who are either close to her or at least in the same area, if you really want her. I wouldn't recommend doing it for the sole purpose of seducing her. But it's your choice. Maybe you'll forget her in the process anyway. It's a win-win situation. The worst thing you can do after being friend zoned is to stick around. Show her you don't concur. She'll respect you for it.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:40 PM
2

Appreciated, brother.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:21 PM
1

Good strategy.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:07 PM
1

She thinks she's the smarter one in this scenario. She can't explain this feeling that makes her gravitate towards him. She thinks it's ridicule. But it's extreme attraction. This can be described as the common phrase "he's an asshole!" coming from women. It looks like she doesn't want the dude, but in reality she adores him because he's confident enough to be audacious. As for posting it, I'd say she's just showing off in a manner that makes her look good and not thirsty.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:54 PM
1

This 2.0
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:41 PM
6

Lmaooooooo it's OPs gf in disguise, guys.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:39 PM
3

You're not insecure for thinking things through. Get that ambiguity of your head. You've said it yourself. She comes from a toxic environment. She wants to use you as a stepping stone into a better life and also wants to be taken care of (rent).
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:36 PM
2

When you make comments in order to tease her, it's easier to build a connection when you address her physical appearance and how she looks at you (connection). Frame your dialog to make it look like she's the one chasing you.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:23 PM
1

What you've said doesn't make sense. Physically weaker? Sure. In terms of logical thinking? Depends. As I've said there are exceptions. And women can apply logic as efficient as men in their respective professional fields. It's the private/romantic life where women keep behaving like what I've described above. I think there is a deep rooted defense against men in a woman's body. I've read that the body of a woman constantly evolves in order to be able to defend against impregnation. I don't know…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:21 PM
7

They're redpilled by default. But that default isn't solely a biological variable, but also a social one. Precisely because they're constantly getting their ways with men with no effort at all, they have inherent abundance. Sadly it's that simple. Their behavior is a reflection of what men show them. If all men simultaneously decided to never chase a woman again, the dynamic would change immediately in our favor.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:11 PM
5

This reads like a Red Bull induced diary entry.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:46 AM
1

Which sentence specifically?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:27 AM
4

That's the whole point. You're not ready to drop her if shit goes south and she hits you with an attitude. Fix that.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:10 AM
1

Yeah that's the problem. To them it doesn't matter if you want the best for them. They can't believe that their partners are flawed.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:08 AM
3

"alright see ya"
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:05 AM
1

You can't make her stop seeing him. She'll do it behind your back anyway. But what you can do is telling him to stay away from your house if you don't want him lingering around. I get it, he hurt your sister's heart. But your sis is responsible for ending it. Get a minute alone with him and tell him what you think without getting violent.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:01 AM
2

She doesn't know what the fuck she wants. Once she brings it into this world it'll be all about the little one, and you'll be second place forever.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:26 AM
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Because they mostly don't follow rational thoughts and logical planning. When she feels like doing something, she just does it. Deep inside she probably knows that what she did, even if it means negative consequences for other people, was inherently wrong. She can't live with the thought of possibly wronging people. That's why she shifts the responsibility to her past emotional states. It wasn't her. It was her, but in a different mood/emotional state. She did it for "love", or to be "strong". N…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:58 AM
15

It's like a car crash. You don't want to watch, but you have to.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:57 AM
12

Search for "instagram" in this subreddit.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 10:52 PM
2

I don't know about other people, but when a woman I'm seeing tries to give me some strategic mind games, I'm out there real quick. Don't even think about it. Once it starts there's no margin for error.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 10:42 PM
2

What about therapy?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 10:26 PM
2

How the fuck do you even worry about this?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 10:05 PM
3

Either this is a troll post or you live on an island with her and no one else around for 4000 miles. Anything else is unacceptable.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:53 PM
6

Don't stick your foot in Brady.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:14 PM
5

She's just fucking crazy man. It's her thing. She wants to play a role and in her story you're the dude who's supposed to be King Kong who has no mercy. Don't do it. That shit can go south easily.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:10 PM
1

To clarify this: I meant for LTR and settling. If you wanna have a good vacation and date some beautiful women, there won't be many objections language wise.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:57 PM
3

Couldn't agree more.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:55 PM
12

There was this woman once I was seeing from tinder. We grabbed a coffee and walked along the water. She was a nice woman. Fat ass and solid legs. She was definitely working out regularly. Everytime she walked close to me, I've used it against her and said some stupid shit like "calm down are you trying to kiss me?". She always giggled and got even closer afterwards. I was teasing her the whole time. It was a back and forth for almost 2 hours. Finally, near the end of the date, we were sitting on…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:52 PM
0

That really depends on your taste and what typa of woman you're considering to be attractive. In Russia, Ukraine, Japan and Vietnam you're basically useless without knowing the local language. You're not going to be taken seriously in a conversation if you're not on par with the locals.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:34 PM
3

If you move to another country you'll have to pick a Eastern country because the women in the US aren't unique in their standards. That behavior occurs all over the Western world. If you're choosing an Eastern country, the women there will immediately realize why you're there. Namely for "easy women". They'll use you like a toilet seat until you're full with shit and then flushed empty. Be careful. If you're not already successfully dating in your country, don't try another country. You'll only …
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:06 PM
3

You're naive as hell if you think this woman won't do the same shit to you that she's done to other men. Not to mention the LTR part, but moving to another city together?! You're isolating yourself from your pack in order to be with a bitch in another city? Have you ever heard of vetting? You should give it a try. And what was that random bs about the kiss list? This woman gave herself to you within hours. If she's really as attractive as you make her out to be, there was more than kisses during…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:59 PM
2

Brother, drop her. It's easier said than done, but you'll be the happiest mf on earth afterwards. As you've said, it's good you don't have any children. This makes the whole situation a whole lot easier. Her body isn't going to get any younger, nor will her tits be firm and bouncy all of a sudden. Go through the desert and you'll find the ocean. You're not old yet. Still got your late 40s, 50s and 60s ahead of you. Those are good years if you take care of yourself. And the stress will take a tol…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:41 PM
2

A lot of women are fundamentally insecure. It might sound far-fetched but your woman might be compensating for her own unfaithful behavior, by pressuring you into feeling guilty. These psychological attacks are inherent in women who did something that's, in their minds, not part of their personalities. That way what she's done isn't wrong anymore.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:32 PM
1

I see. Thanks man, I'll check it out.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:24 PM
28

Who the fuck uses 30 as a scale?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:05 PM
5

Forget about her for now. I know this is the go to advice 90% of the time, but it works. It either pulls her back into your frame or shows you she wasn't interested to begin with. It's the perfect result.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:58 PM
5

You're worrying about the wrong things. Set your priorities straight first.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:56 PM
17

To get women, you have to already have women. It's just that way. Women want you if other women want you.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:54 PM
2

Calm the fuck down.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:53 PM
3

This is a solid approach.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:09 AM
10

Don't let external factors decide whether you go to a place or not. If you enjoy being there I don't see why you wouldn't go again.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:40 AM
4

Bro you need to try cold approaching the rapper and plate him. Alpha move.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:05 AM
2

I don't deny the mental toughness needed for martial arts and other physically and mentally straining activities. But I don't think that this small motivational booster will really make a difference. Is a person really in a good place to begin with if a minor factor like music is the make or break point? If we're talking competition as in Olympics I'd somewhat agree with you. When you're comparing identical tasks, some people might have a motivational disadvantage due to the lack of music during…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:34 AM
15

Sounds like a regurgitated Goggins mantra.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:08 AM
26

Drop the "haha's"
/r/askTRP16/06/21 11:54 PM
68

What's her name bro?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:38 PM
1

Think long term. How do you feel 10-20 years from now with the respective options? Are you happy or do you hate your life every morning? Also, it's not like you're choosing between homelessness and the accounting job. I'm sure there are many valuable options and niche jobs in psychology/counseling.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:01 PM
10

She baited you into her realm and you fell for it.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:41 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:05 PM
7

You're living in a fantasy world. Every adult person is checking out other people. Are you telling me your women are mesmerized 24/7 and you're the only person that matters to them? If she isn't looking while you're paying attention, then she's looking while you're on your phone or ordering food etc. Looking and actually wanting that person are two entirely different things. When you're hanging out with your woman downtown and a Latina with a fat ass in jeans walks right in front of you, I bet e…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:57 PM
1

Yup. You can change an Eastern woman within months to a bitch in roller blades at Venice Beach, who has more orbiters than the sun. They'll start changing immediately once they meet other Western women and see how easy it is to juggle dozens of men at the same time.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:17 PM
2

You're going to burn a lot of bridges with that anger. Be careful.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:36 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:48 PM
2

I mean if you have people to answer to, it is what it is. Respect the people above you and follow their advice. No need to be a bootlicker. Just do your job with a cold precision and be respectful. If you deal with patients, I can't give you advice since I'm not qualified to do so.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:47 PM
1

Then you know what to do.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:31 PM
2

This is even better put than what I've said.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:31 PM
3

The doctors I know are confident in their roles. They give firm advice and tell you how they see the situation. I've never seen any submissive behavior from the ones I've encountered. These doctors all have their own practices btw.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:28 PM
1

What type of doctor are you?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:25 PM
3

If you share your own turf with her she'll see you constantly. All the novelty, passion and electricity will be erased because you'll be going to bed together and wake up together. She'll see you at your most vulnerable moments. The mythical aura you have when you appear out of nowhere for a date is important. There have to be moments when she doesn't know where you are and with whom you are. Plus, if you see yourself in such a negative way and want to lock her down with cohabitation urgently, i…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:24 PM
3

No. Anyone who responds differently to this post is wrong.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:52 PM
26

Since your name is nofap hero I assume you don't fap?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 12:46 PM
5

Yeah. I'll tell you something that'll work if you have a solid body. Pull up a story showing you at the gym or at the beach with your friends (female friends too). Maybe even with a dog or a cat in the picture. When that's done you check out alle the women in your area who have open profiles and then you watch their stories. Don't DM them, but react to their stories. It's more visible than dms and motivates them to look at your story. That'll start a dialog.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:30 AM
6

The shallowness on IG is even worse than on tinder. Add the follower count, likes and the adventures you have to show. Either that or you're lean like beef jerky and know how to show your body without looking too pretentious and arrogant. If you're set on that end, you just need to DM them and ask if they wanna join you to hang out. Back when ig was rather fresh and they didn't have built-in dms, I was meeting lots of women from there. There was a 3rd party app called ig direct messenger or some…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:20 AM
16

50-100? If that's your standard, how are you still able to type with all the action going on my man.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:01 AM
7

She might be scared and anxious about your current status right now, but will definitely next you once you give her the assurance she so desperately needs. Let her crave the feeling of love. Tell her you want to take it slow and don't rush things. Crack your usual jokes and be more scarce. She doesn't even know what she's going to feel the next time you see each other. She's trying to break through the ice, only to find nothing and jump to the next glacier for some climbing fun. Be safe.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:12 AM
12

Awkward? I delete and reinstall tinder all the time. Some of my old matches even match me again and we talk about the fun we've had. Don't sorry.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:05 AM
1

Well he's younger and a bjj black belt. But who has he fought? Only two fights in the UFC so far and mostly wins by submission in total. Submitting Hall will be tough as fuck.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:02 AM
3

Make her come to yours next time and for a while I like this part. Tell her straightforwardly to come over. If she can't be bothered, you've saved some time and headaches.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:40 PM
2

Yeah unfortunately. One of the most avoided fighters, too.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:29 PM
12

It's not like women are cyborgs that want to cut your D off. You can still have a good time with a woman and not feel like you're attached to a virtual reality machine.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 09:43 PM
1

I feel ya. Grab some wings and enjoy the fights with the gang.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 09:37 PM
2

Yo I'm so stoked for UFC 264. Although I can't fathom how the fk Ryan Hall is only on the Prelims.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 09:07 PM
2

If this behavior occurs independently of the respective groups you're hanging out with, there is a high possibility that it's because you're awkward and show your lack of confidence whenever you're around people. Even if they're punks, you have to stand up for yourself and ultimately look for new people to connect with. Friends have each other's backs. And even if they roast each other it usually doesn't get personal or disrespectful. I'm afraid, right now, you don't have either the mental nor t…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:20 PM
1

What do they say?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:00 PM
2

What effort do you make to meet people?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 05:34 PM
0

Add that info to your post. That missing part makes a difference in context. You literally have no way out of this without looking butthurt (except for being legitimately busy). Hang out with them and make the guy look good in front of the other women. Drop a funny story or two when the situation invites it. Don't engage too much though. Lean back and behave like a solid concrete foundation. Nothing fazes you. You can't make him feel too important. Otherwise it'll look like you're licking his sh…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 05:14 PM
5

Your woman wants you and you're suspicious? Dudes literally start creating problems for themselves now.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:49 PM
2

What?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:46 PM
0

She's in your territory and starts inviting people over you don't want to hang out with. Tell her you don't care whether the whole group plays Twister together, and that they should go grab a pizza outside or something. It's that simple. And it's not about her potentially liking the guy. That's something none of us here can prove without further indicators. It's about having your den available whenever you want. If she isn't paying rent, that is. Otherwise it'll be hard to argue with her about c…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:40 PM
3

Did you move in together, or did she move into your apartment?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:24 PM
13

Bro you're really pushing your luck with the diarrhea provoking foods lol.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:49 PM
1

Indeed.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:23 PM
13

If you really pull high level women, I'd assume that the less attractive ones are either giving you a tough time just to mess with your ego or they legitimately think you're beneath them. If a woman thinks you're not her equal she'll do her best to show you how much she doesn't want you.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:43 PM
7

My man knows what's up on first dates.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:31 PM
21

It's always easy to fall back into well known behaviors. That's basically the availability heuristic at work. You have to actively fight against your habits and break them. Don't go on expensive dates. Do cheap activities. Grab a coffee and muffins with her and chill out by the water. No need to buy her shit. If she asks you for restaurant dates right away, forget her. She's not a good one. Solid women are cool with hanging out and going for a walk as a first date.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:17 PM
1

That's not the issue here. He's afraid of having caught something. Getting checked answers his questions. Since he's already wearing protection he's doing what he's supposed to do.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:01 PM
1

I'm certain that I've read this post a month or two ago. If it's not you, the phrasing is extremely similar. I'm going to tell you what I've told the dude then. She probably wants to explore her options outside of your relationship. Yes, she might be afraid of the future. But a woman who's crazy for you will do whatever she can to make it work. Damn, have you ever seen a infatuated women apply logic like calculating future time frames and shit? You started dating when she was 19. That's about 7-…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:58 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:46 PM
12

Fuck eyebrows. Get shredded as fuck and look like Saitama in One Punch Man. That dude's a badass.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:32 PM
2

If you think that giving her stuff back means "giving in", you're wrong. It's not weak, it's not BP, or whatever the fuck goes through your mind. It's the mature and right thing to do.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:28 PM
1

You mentioned your first badly impacted LTR right away. Sounds like that's still bothering you. I mean, you must have thought about it and let it influence your present thoughts if you created an entire post.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:22 PM
2

Don't make your parents responsible for your fuckups and lack of success in your dating life. Nobody's perfect. Your parents raised you with a solid head on your shoulders. Nonetheless you're bitching here. Go out, work on yourself, be thankful for your parents, and be a damn man. You only have one pair.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:18 PM
3

Get yourself checked then. Or what until it itches. Pop some penicillin in the meantime.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:18 AM
1

Plan B, brother.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:09 AM
2

This. And many women don't even feel like they have a chance with shredded men, so they say things like "I don't like muscular guys".
/r/askTRP15/06/21 03:14 AM
5

Well first off, don't move in with a woman. That's exactly where the doing things together starts. Plus, you can't pull back efficiently. In your current case it's crystal clear. Your place, your food, your rules. It's downright impudent of her asking you to clean. You provided the food and accommodation. She has to provide a helping hand in the household. Listen, if she would have brought some spicy chicken wings and baked them for you, I'd understand the cleaning together part. When you got yo…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:34 AM
10

Your place? Your food?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:34 AM
5

Don’t ever cohabitate, marry or impregnate them. Once you do you’ll lose all leverage. This. That's the key.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:32 AM
24

Let me tell you something man. Some women get off on shit like that. They know their men are close by and start some romantic action knowing damn well he might drop by and see what's happening. Maybe that wasn't the case with your scenario, but it's still pretty dodgy.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:14 AM
6

Even if you go for 3rd world country women, their priority will be to move to your country and have a better lifestyle. And when that happens they're going to be transformed into the same women you're trying to dodge in your own country. It's inevitable. They will be molded by the Western women and start making your life miserable. And if you decide to stay there, wherever that might be, she'll want you to not only provide for her but also for her whole family. That's almost worse than getting d…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:00 AM
5

For real lmao
/r/askTRP15/06/21 12:02 AM
11

There was this one time when I was at the gym at night. Nobody was there but this one dude. He was about my height (6ft) and looked in shape. I was doing some biceps curls in front of the mirror, when he asked me if he could have my dumbbells. I looked at him like he was a complete idiot and said "no". He said "okay" and continued his session. Then I got to the dip station. That gym had like 3 dip stations next to each other and the other two stations were free to use. And I'm telling you, while…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 10:56 PM
4

Imo it's okay that he's not planning on seeing her again if she doesn't stick to the plan. But announcing it sounds weak. It looks like a threat stemming from weakness. By phrasing it a little differently the whole sentence sounds stronger: "Can't. Busy tomorrow. See you on Friday." If she goes off on you, you ignore it until Friday and then tell her "see you at [time]" Now you might propose that she probably doesn't want to see him again. If that's the case, her desire wasn't strong enough to b…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 10:27 PM
4

A friend of mine pulled it off perfectly. He was sleeping with one of the female staff members at his gym regularly and a couple of other random women there. Dude was so good she let him use the gym, sauna and all the other extras for free, whenever he wanted. He's a beast.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 09:50 PM
2

Why do you think you don't have any male friends?
/r/askTRP14/06/21 09:36 PM
14

Your ultimatum was way too extreme.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 09:03 PM
2

You don't have male friends?
/r/askTRP14/06/21 09:00 PM
2

Yeah that's what I'm saying. The possibility that she might do some shit that'll hurt the relationships still stands. But when you fear the mere possibility you're going to be anxious all the time and thus sabotage yourself. Are you afraid of not receiving your package after ordering something online? No. Something might happen, sure. But more often than not it'll reach you safely. And in case some shit happens to your package, you'll request a refund or replacement. Same goes for your woman. Re…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 09:00 PM
1

Dude you've just created a post about strength and mastery 20 minutes ago.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:49 PM
1

Check your other post.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:44 PM
14

Tell her 9 and she's the one you need for two digits.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:42 PM
2

Honestly it looks more like you're just feeling guilty because you've cheated on her. There's no reason to not enjoy what you guys have. There are only two options if she actually did meet someone. Either you try to stay and end up being miserable with no self respect, or you leave her. It doesn't matter how much you want the old days back when she betrays you. If you can't live with the guilt, tell her. I'm not here to deliver moralizing lectures. Either live with it or tell her.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:39 PM
4

Workouts, martial arts, reading, cold showers and hanging out with the gang. That will sharpen you like a Katana.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:32 PM
6

When she approaches you to break the silence, you remind her of your rules. If she showed you disrespect, you tell her that you want a proper feminine woman and not a clown. If she starts arguing again, you leave the scene. Don't allow any margin for error. It's as simple as that. Once you start being too agreeable and try to find some common ground with her, she'll pull you into her ocean and take you for a swim. You won't even know what happened and why you feel guilty all of a sudden. It's re…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:28 PM
8

You're a mess dude. Calm down first. What are you looking for in a woman? Someone who's slept with nobody and is cleaner than a fresh deck of cards?! Good luck. You're more likely to find diamonds in your backyard before that happens. Enjoy the show. Have the usual jokes with her. It doesn't matter if she meets other people. All the trp facts about hypergamy and the possibility of cheating are correct. That can and might happen. But that's no reason to freak out and drop her altogether. The impo…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:13 PM
2

What is your question, man?
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:04 PM
1

Paris Hilton isn't even hot and never was. If you wanna get a truly successful woman who's also powerful in terms of her industry and social life, you better look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club combined with Johnny Depp in Blow. You're going to be her little toy for when she's too stressed out. The assumption here is that you're lower in the hierarchy than her.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:01 PM
6

If you really want to approach women, don't cold approach. Wait for some hot looks and flirting with her eyes before you approach her. Cold approaches are a fucking waste of time and weak. If she smiles at you nervously or looks at you and then turns her booty towards you, you know where the fire is. Also, I've had women approach me before. It's hilarious since they're not used to it at all. They use obvious pretexts to approach you and ask for advice etc.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:34 PM
0

Next time this happens you hang up on her or leave the room, depending on whether you're in the same room. Don't engage in any meaningless conversations. Now that you've fucked up, you can't let her know how you feel about it. Leave her alone with her feelings and don't explain yourself. When she approaches you and starts the dialog, you tell her she was childish and that you won't tolerate any foolish behavior from her since you want a mature woman.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:18 PM
5

My man.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:14 PM
4

Well said.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:13 PM
65

Fucking beast. Mad respect, my guy.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:56 AM
4

Don't listen to that guy, OP. He probably holds back farts in front of his friends because it's "too beta".
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:46 AM
30

You write like you've lost both legs in battle. What's the issue? You seem to be a healthy 25 yo dude. Go out and meet some people.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:38 AM
7

The fuck? Dude is having fun with his coworkers. Nothing beta about that. It would be weak to intentionally hold back your personality for a couple of bitches.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:22 AM
2

Spot-on.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:35 AM
1

For how sure you are of yourself and your plans. How is she supposed to know that you're not paying? I doubt you mentioned it upfront. For someone who just wants to have some quick action you write way too much and frantically. Just meet her ffs.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:30 AM
1

Women will give you shit about the schedule when they're nervous. Either she's testing you or she's inexperienced. Worst case scenario would be her only doing it for free food/entertainment. As I've said, go bowling first. If your usual plan doesn't play out and she's not interested, tell her you're tired and exit.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:17 AM
1

Man, calm down. You're freaking out because you're afraid that your plans won't satisfy her. Go bowling with her and take it from there. Grab some chicken wings or burgers afterwards. Walk from spot to spot if the weather is good. Jump around and be silly.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 02:10 AM
2

Follow hoodville on IG. Dude is hilarious af and also from Chicago if I remember correctly. That's all the game you need lmao.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:39 AM
3

Your environment will always mold you to some extent. It's obviously more pronounced when you're actively engaging with the people in your city. Like minded people usually gather around similar lifestyles and hobbies. If you isolate yourself from everybody else and live in your own bubble I don't think it would make a big difference, except for the varying living expenses. As for the women, their ideals and expectations definitely differ from city to city.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:37 AM
42

He sounds like a dude that gets beat up in Harold and Kumar.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:22 AM
1

Since you imitate other people, I'll take advantage of the situation and tell you this: take cold showers everyday and start meditating. I usually don't give this typa advice, but your problem doesn't even start with being beta or a thirsty simp. You have no willpower. You're soft. Even though it sounds like some Shaolin movie, you have to do it. Write down a schedule that you'll follow religiously every day. Start with simple steps. Workout in the morning Cold shower Read 10 pages of xyz Work o…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:02 AM
3

I won't be able to help you with deeper issues. All I can give you is pretty basic advice. Work out everyday, eat clean, and go for walks. Drink 2-3 liters (about 0.5 to 0.7 gallons) of water everyday. Do you have a group of friends? If yes, ask them to hang out and grab some food. Having said that, you should still go see a endocrinologist and then a therapist. Your hormone levels are a critical factor that influences your moods and energy levels immensely.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 12:54 AM
9

I fucking love this comment.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 12:21 AM
0

Correct.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 12:08 AM
1

If you do it in a professional way by not expecting anything in return, it will be an honorable deed. Don't flirt, don't try to start any conversations about "us". Wear a denim jacket or a muscle shirt and a masculine fragrance, so she smells you everytime you walk by her with the furniture in your hands. Get in there, do the job and leave the premises silently like James Bond.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:58 PM
22

Exactly. Dude says he doesn't want to seem butthurt, but continues being butthurt anyway. She doesn't owe you shit, OP. That's the issue with a FWB in your inner circle. Even when you're with your other friends she'll be there, right after you had some action. If you don't wanna help her with non romantic activities, then don't. I mean, you gave your word and then went back on it because you couldn't separate your romance from friendship.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:36 PM
8

Wait and see if she talks badly about her exes and all the negative things that happened to her. Also pay attention to how she talks about her father and how she treats waiters/waitresses or staff at other shops.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:57 PM
3

What she asked of you might be what she essentially wants/wanted in that particular moment in time. Her behavior is fluid. Although we have core personalities, the top layers vary depending on the context. Let me make an extreme case: if you start enforcing a strict set of rules and ask her where she goes everytime she leaves the house, she'll hate your guts and call you insecure sooner or later. But if you wait until she makes a fool of herself, she'll be stopped in her tracks and emotionally o…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:47 PM
2

Precisely.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:13 PM
10

Wait. She'll come around eventually.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:10 PM
16

Good reaction.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:52 PM
1

Fuck, this is good.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:46 PM
3

You'll have to get into her social circle. Destroy every evidence she might have. Erase her hard drives and reset her phone(s). If she's smart she probably has copies. Don't do more damage than necessary. Secure yourself and get the hell out of there. If you have leverage in the form of conversations or voice messages, tell her you won't use it if she stays away. Let her swim in her own shit in peace.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:59 PM
20

You're all over the place. You act like dating is the highest discipline. Dating is nothing more than fun. It's entertainment. Unless you're building a family, meeting women doesn't mean shit. Also, you talk like something is preventing you from starting right the fuck now. You want to pick up boxing and you want to try writing. Start right now if you can. Write some poetry or a fun novel. And no need to quit video games. Playing games is relaxing and fun. As long as it doesn't consume your whol…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:38 PM
2

Good advice. Follow that route, OP.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:27 PM
1

So you know about the potential downsides and still did it before marriage? One has to assume that a woman who lives in Pakistan knows about the marriage laws. And yet she slept with you? You should have anticipated her behavior. Seems like you were too thirsty.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:27 PM
1

Is this a real scenario?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:23 PM
1

Where do you live man?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:21 PM
8

You go on a vacation yourself. Book a ticket right now. Today. Fly to another state or even another country, if that's possible. Tell her when you're already there. Don't think, do it.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:13 PM
1

Lawyer up and sue her ass. I have zero tolerance for blackmailing. Go after her with every piece of evidence you have.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:11 PM
8

Watching tapes of yourself during conversations is always shocking the first time. It gets better as you go. Try focusing on a single expression first. Practice nodding when you agree with a point or smiling when the other person entertains you. Make a conscious effort of "overreacting". Take it down a notch after you get used to it.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:58 PM
6

Where did I say you need other people to be an alpha? Stop reading into things.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 02:47 AM
12

Those concepts aren't as clear cut as you make them out to be. They don't see our labels and power levels above our heads with their DBZ scouters. When a dude is "alpha" he usually has a solid social circle, hobbies and goes out frequently. Also, she knows he could meet new women immediately if they were to break up. Why wouldn't she want to marry that typa guy? It's a pretty obvious choice if you ask me. Men are the gatekeepers to relationships. If the man doesn't want to marry her, she can't d…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 12:04 AM
2

I've never encountered that typa shit on tinder. The fuck? And what do you want in a woman? Nobody's perfect. You'll always find women that have personal or emotional issues. It's not rare. You also can't be angry at women for being shallow. Don't hate the game, play it. Being angry is weak. Don't even think about how "unfair" the dating world is to you. Don't talk to a woman about her past relationships or any of that bullshit. Either ignore it when she brings it up or stop it then and there by…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 11:57 PM
11

The line is drawn between wanting to make people laugh vs enjoying yourself.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:29 PM
1

Yo should have hugged her afterwards, whispered "don't do this again" in her ear and then turned away from her.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:34 PM
1

Don't know your dynamic. Some people stay fwb after ending a relationship. Doesn't look like you guys are anywhere near that though. If she's really texting you for nostalgic purposes, inviting her over will give her what she needed and immediately end her interest in you. If you really need to talk to her, be more ambivalent about it. More pool pics, more activities with friends, as far as the current situation allows. Mix in some pics with women you're going out with. Although I doubt the last…
/r/seduction12/05/21 02:54 AM
2

You better be dropping some more knowledge in future comments hehe.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:48 AM
2

Damn. Then you're a virtuoso in the IG game.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:38 AM
1

My man. You're going in the right direction, but you're taking the wrong train. Don't text. If you see her by chance and you guys start having a conversation, then you can play your cards. I wouldn't text too much. That'll give her way too much validation.
/r/seduction12/05/21 02:36 AM
2

Ig is almost always an attempt to more clout. How do women not give their numbers but their ig? That would mean that one thing requires more trust or attraction than the other. Usually a woman will give her number right away if she's interested enough.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:34 AM
2

There's so much context missing here. In general you shouldn't go back to the past though. Maybe she's trying to use you for emotional support, maybe not. She's your ex for a reason.
/r/seduction12/05/21 02:31 AM
3

Men are romantics by nature. We have to lose that trait in order to be successful with women.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:27 AM
1

Just ask for the number right away if you aren't experiencing any success with the texting.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:23 AM
3

It sounds like you'll just have to go through the practice phase again and rebuild your lost social skills. It'll be easier than the first time. You know what you're capable of. I'd say a couple of crowded social events and awkward conversations will do the trick.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:42 AM
1

Ask for a FaceTime? Why didn't she offer to see you over FaceTime in the first place? Ask yourself that question.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:37 AM
2

You're worrying over nothing. Most people will avoid conflicts like the ones you're describing. And verbal fights? What argument could possibly be so important that you'd have to battle a group of people about it? If you're nervous, join a boxing gym. That'll eradicate all of your anxieties over physical altercations.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:36 AM
3

For real, I was thinking the same thing. It pulls you in and makes you want to know what happens next.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:25 AM
3

You can have these types of conversations with your peers. Why do you want to have them with a female so badly? She will only talk to you about interesting topics if she's into you or if she isn't into you. The former is not possible if you're not physically available, and the ladder is a paradox, assuming you aren't bound by a mutual goal or living condition.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:16 AM
3

Then tell them about that experience. If you think it's too boring, go into detail and explain what fascinates you about surfing or other activities, books, sports.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:25 AM
3

Sonic Boom!
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:17 AM
5

I don't deserve that credit, brother. But thanks.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:16 AM
2

Oh, you're that typa dude. I bet you recite Elon Musk quotes in class when people talk badly about solar energy.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:42 AM
-6

It's only hard work if you are needy and not valuable enough.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:36 AM
6

I never date below my standards. A woman has to be the whole package in order for me to feel attracted to her.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:30 AM
1

My man.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:19 AM
6

She's using you for free attention and you're falling for it because you miss the romance. It's very obvious that you currently don't have any other options in regard to dating. Also, every time you welcome her contact attempts you're reinforcing this image in her head that you're content with having no sex. Doesn't matter if you state your intentions. As long as she gets to dump her emotional garbage on you, she knows that's all you're good for.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:58 PM
3

If you were talking every day before, take it down a notch. Take your time with your answers. If she asks you what's wrong, tell her you're busy. She'll get it. And don't answer in case she asks you if "your behavior" is about that picture. Well, obviously your behavior implies that you're pissed, but you can't make it explicit. You reply "what do you mean?" or "what picture?".
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:47 PM
9

You said it yourself. You wouldn't talk to her anymore if she did that. And she did it. If she wants to make it right, she better have a good apology for her behavior.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:27 PM
8

Did you recently lose a street fight or something bro?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:35 PM
15

It's an IQ test. And she failed.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:49 PM
3

It's not weird. But I saw your post history and I doubt you can pull that off anyway. Focus on yourself and your future for now, brother.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:21 AM
2

What do you want to do instead? Talk to them on the phone until you get bored, or are you saying you want to meet them at your place immediately after matching?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:16 AM
2

What? You think it's inappropriate to ask for her digits in a dating app?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:58 AM
11

For real lmao. That's what I've been thinking for a while now too.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 03:56 AM
5

Once you enter the abyss you won't be able to get out. Stay neutral.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:19 AM
2

Woman in a relationship, no. Married woman, yes. Edit: read the question wrong and switched the answers.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 01:54 AM
2

My man's spending his weekends at the Hilton.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 01:43 AM
9

Man, a month ago your girlfriend told you that she might consider replacing you with another guy once you go to different universities. Are you seriously asking this question now? Your girlfriend isn't only emotionally not close to you, her zodiac sign is also already twerking for other men on a different campus right now.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:33 PM
1

Hahahahah
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:29 PM
2

But he was faster though. Be faster next time.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:26 PM
2

I wouldn't say they're complete opposites to each other. In some chapters they're even similar. But Carnegie was always more of a Puritan in his books. It's like you as a social being don't even matter. It's all about pleasing others. I guess he approached his books with the intention of making them complete mainstream products, so everyone would use those concepts. If that were the case, his strategies probably would have been perfect. But no one is a selfless and perfect listener who's satisfi…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:21 PM
3

What did she lie about?
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:14 PM
4

It's like some of you guys don't even bother reading older posts. I'm not even talking about posts from a year or month ago. These typa questions are asked and anwerfed every day.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:44 PM
2

How did that even come up? She just said it to make her look more valuable? Weird thing to say out of nowhere.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 12:35 PM
2

In the book "The Alchemist" the main character faces a similar decision. He meets a woman during his travels and falls in love with her. But this man is on a mission. She wants him to stay in her town and live and grow old with her. But he knows that he has to reach for the stars and complete his mission. He also knows that if he stays and abandons his own goals, his woman won't respect hin anymore. At the beginning she'll be happy he decided to stay, sure. But after some time passes she'll be f…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:53 AM
6

She doesn't respect you anymore. That's why she's pulling stunts like hanging out with a guy who wants to sleep with her, and then tells you about it. One might think she's being transparent here. But every healthy person knows that this is just provocative behavior. She's testing your limits to see how far she can go with this disgusting behavior. That's not even within shit test territorial anymore. She's shitting ON you. Your best course of action would be to make this a legitimate next. Don'…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 11:36 AM
32

My man knows his tactics and strategies.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:11 AM
25

You're too frightened of losing your woman. You won't be able to be strong if you continue having these thoughts. What if you do this, what if you say that. Who cares? This woman is literally talking to another guy who takes her on emotional roller coasters. Why stick around? Work on yourself before you let a woman into your life. And no, you're not giving up on her by leaving her ass.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 04:03 AM
13

No. Ideally she should know that she can let you know if something is wrong. It would look too weak otherwise.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:55 AM
60

Look, "your" woman has to decide whether to embrace another man's approaches. Once she says no and that dude keeps pushing, you can intervene. If, on the other hand, she behaves ambivalently towards him (no clear rejections) you can't do shit about it. You either drop her or you watch that shit unfold in silence. If you want to give it a shot, don't mention him or anything that resembles jealous behavior.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:47 AM
2

Well, it's not entirely possible to be outcome independent in your case. You clearly care about your partner. So in the long run you want her to behave in a way that makes you feel good as a man. The difference lies in what you want to accomplish. Do you want to appease her, or do you want to make her want you more? When you ask her "what's the matter?" you make the whole scene dependent on her answer. You care, yes. But you don't care about the short term situation in her head. Literally don't …
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:24 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:17 AM
2

Read his post again. He said everybody knows each other. There's no way he can go out and meet women he never met before. They probably also share their experiences. It's a small, but highly active network in those smaller towns.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:04 AM
8

My wardrobe contains polo shirts, button down shirts, short and long sleeve shirts, sweatshirts, turtlenecks, trench coats, pea coats, long coats, overcoats, denim jackets, dress pants, chinos, jeans, drawstring trousers and also wool trousers etc. As for shoes: sneakers, oxfords and lace up boots. Only simple colors (black, white, gray, khaki, beige, light blue, burgundy etc). No unnecessary prints except for brand logos. You can go a little crazy with sweatshirt colors. I wouldn't experiment t…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 03:01 AM
2

Don't ask if anything is wrong. Skip right to pulling back when she plays the cold princess. Who the fuck cares if she has stress or issues. As long as no one has died in her family, no event warrants her pulling back from you, her partner. Sure, she's allowed to feel what she wants to. But so are you. Give her her own medicine.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:22 AM
6

Yeah, but it depends on your taste. If you want to be able to meet a new woman every other day and then never see her again, bigger cities might be more of an attractive option to you.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:25 AM
21

You're either a big fish in a small pond right now or a shark in a big ocean in the future. Decide for yourself. I've heard sharks eat more and better.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 12:26 AM
2

My man hahah
/r/askTRP05/05/21 12:13 AM
2

Lmaooooo
/r/askTRP05/05/21 12:04 AM
3

What the fuck man? You're putting way too much effort into this. Don't even think about all these processes and tactical moves lol. If she's not interested in meeting you, you stop talking to her. That's all. You just want to block and delete her to show her you're upset and get her to text you over that. It won't happen. Why would she care about a tinder match? Text all your matches the same shit as an opener. Take it from there and don't worry about a single failed operation.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 12:03 AM
3

There's nothing besides scarcity here. There's a reason you two aren't together anymore. I assume she was the one that took the leap and broke it off. So now you want her back after she has slept with multiple guys? Listen to yourself.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 11:51 PM
7

Perfect answer. Just hang out with her sometimes and don't expect anything. It'll be better for both of you.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:15 PM
2

Just meet her. You can still run when you see her from a distance lmao.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:13 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:08 PM
8

The best indicators are close-up pictures and weird angles. When she doesn't have a picture with a distance of at least 6-7 feet, it's getting suspicious. Pay attention to her hands and forearms. These tend to be chubby when a woman is really obese, since hands are one of the last body parts to get fat. Group photos or photos with friends can also give you a proper ratio of how she looks besides different people.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:05 PM
1

The algorithm also plays a big role in matching. Sometimes it fucks up and shadow bans you. The longer you're using the app, the worse your visibility gets. That's why you have to delete it every 2-3 weeks in my experience. Works like a charm with the newbie boost. Also, never use this travel passport shit. It messes up the algorithm in your town. Usually it goes like this: you travel to a place where women tend to be more open to swipe right on you and then you go back home to use your better e…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:59 PM
45

Once at a party I was making out with this one woman in a rather dark room. When I saw her in better lighting later that evening I was shocked. She was probably a 5. A 6 on a brilliant day. When she went in for the second kiss in the other room, I told her to back off and that I'm about to grab some food. 4 minutes later she comes up to me and my friends while we were chilling on a couch and says "I'm leaving with a guy now. He's waiting downstairs." I responded "okay, have fun. See ya." After w…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:52 PM
3

What gives you the impression that they hate you? As long as you focus on yourself and your path, these typa thoughts won't even cross your mind.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:45 PM
1

Hahaha damn man. Our experiences differ a lot. What particular behavior annoyed you?
/r/askTRP04/05/21 04:10 AM
1

Looking at one eye and then switching back and forth also works crazy well. Don't know what it is, but it makes a woman crazy.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:59 AM
5

Can't talk about Italian women in the US, but the women I met in Italy were always playful and fun to be around. They help you out during the pickup.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:57 AM
8

"And one last thing baby ... that chicken was dry, real dry."
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:53 AM
9

Doesn't matter if what she's doing to you is called gaslighting or double leg takedown. She's not good for you man.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:26 AM
4

Don't worry about it man. Shit like that happens. Maybe she just got caught cheating and now plays the ice cold queen during male encounters, when her guy is around lmao. Who knows.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:17 AM
44

Yes. And do this in silence. Don't tell her anything until you pull out the papers.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:49 AM
8

Good. Never delete that. It may come in handy during your potential divorce. It's your word against hers. And with evidence it can be a little bit more favorable for you as the man.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:42 AM
92

Get a divorce asap. You're obviously not happy. Your wife is slowly eating away at your mental health, man. Do you want your daughter to grow up in a house with two parents who don't really appreciate and love each other anymore? Do it for yourself and your daughter. You'll still be able to spend time with her and take care of yourself. As you are right now, you won't grow. This will haunt you. You'll ask yourself what your wife is thinking and feel disrespected every time you two get into an ar…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:36 AM
7

This is the correct answer and question.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:29 AM
4

Bro, you owe her nothing! Doesn't she have a close circle of friends and/or family?! Also you don't know for how long she'll play the health card long after she's healthy. This is a very disadvantageous situation for you. Get out.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:28 AM
2

Yup.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 11:02 PM
2

Try smaller and humbler areas. The demographics in LA are messed up for proper dating. When women are able to hang out with rappers and pro athletes via ig dms, it's only logical to avoid those target groups. It's not your fault, you're just drawing the short straw in relation to these mega clout guys. The SMV scale isn't balanced for women. 6s and 7s think they're worthy of 9s and 10s. What do you think 8s and 9s are looking for then? It's utopian.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:44 PM
1

It's hard to say if she has low interest just yet. Try asking her to join you for dinner at your place. If she's not down, it's not worth the effort.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:34 PM
2

Run brother. It's over. Don't be around for the shit that's about to happen.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:30 PM
1

I use it all the time before dates. Sure, you can't turn an uninterested woman around with text game only. But it's an efficient supplemental device. Cracking some jokes and negging her works wonders afterwards.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:28 PM
-1

Your text game is shit then.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:47 AM
2

The guy who can cheat and effectively get away with it, is usually someone who doesn't care if a woman gets mad at him for it.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:25 AM
2

The thing is that we've been indoctrinated by the movie industry for years. Also, the good old ideals marriage once represented aren't the status quo anymore. Up until the early 90s couples and spouses supported and depended on each other. No one was questioning the value of a man who provided for his family and he was respected for his deeds. Women didn't feel weak or undervalued because they were housewives. Many worked AND did stuff at home. I admire women and men like that. Every feminist no…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:18 AM
1

What are you saying? You're angry at the female nature?
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:51 AM
8

You have nothing to lose man. Text her. If you wanna talk to her, talk to her. This "logistics only" rule is meant as a safety net for the dudes on here who are virtually blind and deaf to social cues, and can't let a conversation flow if their lives depended on it. Theres no harm in cracking jokes with a woman via text before meeting her. Also gives you some good reference topics for the date.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:45 AM
4

Alpha Alfredo hahahahah.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:38 AM
33

Are you dating a crackhead?
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:17 AM
4

Oh no...
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:14 AM
5

Are attractive women natural plate spinners?* Yes.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:26 AM
4

It's not a special moment. It would only be special if her brother was a close friend of yours. And if that was the case you'd be texting him directly. You're looking for a valve to release the emotional pressure that's caused by her abstinence in your life.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:52 PM
2

Exactly what I'm talking about.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:22 PM
30

Don't get it twisted. Precisely because most men have low standards, the SMV for women is already adjusted. If more men were ready to focus on themselves and exclusively look for high value women, many women would be ready to be less selective.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:14 PM
4

Don't even bother thinking about how to improve this situation. You have to understand that she has to show constant interest when talking to you. There shouldn't even be a discussion about flaking and liking or not liking a particular pic. She clearly has low interest. Look for new women.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:54 PM
6

Okay. Doesn't change the fact that your post is poorly written.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:29 PM
8

Oh he can count. Impressive, considering you managed to not get her number and then write an essay about it.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:24 PM
15

This post almost gave me a stroke.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 10:15 PM
14

She did cheat. The physical part just started with a little delay.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:36 PM
3

Yes.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:22 PM
1

Lmao. You're spoilt as fuck my man.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:19 PM
2

No.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:17 PM
2

Well said.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:42 PM
2

Man, your post history is almost entirely about your flatmates. How about you move out and look for a different living situation? Take it one step at a time. Find a social circle that supports you and work out every day. Maybe join a martial arts gym. Even when you feel like shit, go out for a walk or meet new people during activities.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 08:37 PM
1

What happened man? You're writing so much shit about an encounter that probably lasted for like 90 seconds.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 07:33 PM
5

An hour?! What?! Are you saving the planet as a side hustle or something? Spend some time with a cool woman man. Have fun and joke around for a couple of hours. 2-3 hours is a good amount of time. More when you're going on a trip or hiking.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:29 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:21 PM
3

How about you look it up yourself? What type of question is that anyway?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:14 PM
1

Why rush then? Are you afraid she'll be taken two weeks later? Dm her when you have the time to meet.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:59 PM
0

Don't approach it like that. At this point women know all these moves. They constantly talk to each other about dogs like us hitting them up with neutral objects in their pics or negging them right away. All that stuff comes later when you've already secured the number. Tell her she's cute and you wanna grab a coffee or a pizza. That's it. More words make it only more complicated for you.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:28 PM
3

There are always guys around here who can't believe that the woman who once adored them, isn't into them anymore. They think that she's just going through a phase and that she's stressed out right now. After all she has to love you for being good old you, right? No. People change and relationships change. Nothing is static. If she says shit like she can't imagine raising kids with you, she's not as motivated as you are, my friend. If she truly was crazy for you, she'd do her best to make this wo…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:24 PM
1

Even after sleeping with a pro, you'll probably still distinguish that experience from meeting "regular" women in your head. Meaning you won't get a sick ass mojo all of a sudden because you've lost your V.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:44 AM
30

You have other issues to worry about bro.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 12:15 AM
1

He doesn't get the meaning of the saying. "Treat a whore like a queen" is about treating professional workers (pros and strippers) with respect, since they're often falsely depicted in a bad light in our society.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:21 PM
14

Ngl seems like you're asking for our blessing, my man.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 08:37 PM
2

Be good at that particular team sport.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 08:20 PM
2

I see what you're saying. But this is way too much explaining and arguing. He shouldn't even confront her about it. Once he starts to go at it with her about her job, he's now in an argument with her. Don't be over the top. If you really need to mention it, tell her what she's doing doesn't sit well with you. If she's not hearing your thoughts, you pull back. If that doesn't help, she's clearly not as interested in building that relationship as he is. After all, he's the one thinking about ways …
/r/askTRP01/05/21 07:39 PM
18

Just shut up when you feel the need to sound smart.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:51 PM
4

Hahaha for real.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:44 PM
1

She or rather his living situation obviously drains his energy and takes up all his focus. And he's not able to escape that shit just by finding new friends. Moving out is the only option. Anyone who says stay and work it out is out of their mind. If all of this happened back home or in a scenario in which they didn't live together (plus another person), this would be way easier. On top of all that he's married. Give me a fucking break.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 06:05 PM
2

Well, if you're going to be suspicious about every woman's motives, you'll be calculating for weeks. Don't send them anything if you're worried. If she wants to send you shit, let her have fun. Until you meet, you can keep the conversation going by texting her every once in a while. Im pretty sure she'll drop what she's doing once she hears her foreign guy is in town. Don't make it complicated when it's really not.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:39 PM
3

Why do you even put energy into that conversation? Are you planning on going there? If not, it's not even worth it.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:29 PM
2

This. I'll never get why people get married. Extremely unnecessary.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:13 PM
2

Let it go. Could be anything. Do something while she's working. Do you know any women who'd be down for a coffee? That'll make you feel better.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:06 PM
1

How can he have a mission when he's 8 hours away from his original social circle, and living with her and her friend under a roof? It's impossible.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:02 PM
1

What are you talking about? You're saying that the average woman has 114 years of experience with men?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:00 PM
9

It's over.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:45 PM
4

Date more women.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 04:11 AM
7

Why would you want to do that?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 03:24 AM
1

Hit some people up at your mma gym or look for meetup groups. If you're living in a small city/village, take a trip to the nearest large city and meet some women from tinder or something. The internet can and will help you with this. Online dating is literally the go to place for everyone right now due to the pandemic.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 02:02 AM
2

You need to take responsibility man. Get out there and do something about your problems.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 01:57 AM
5

Do you make any effort picking up some hobbies or going outside for activities?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 01:32 AM
4

Ghost that woman man. She's wasting your time with useless games.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 01:31 AM
1

Similar interests and personalities. That's literally all you need for a good conversation. Tbh similar interests suffice, even without having similar personalities.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 01:24 AM
3

What context does this happen in? Are you talking about plates or LTR?
/r/askTRP01/05/21 12:41 AM
3

Yeah, but that won't go on forever. Sooner or later she'll start looking for something else. That's why a proper balance between push and pull is needed.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 10:19 PM
4

She's not your woman, bro. Either break up or start seeing other women asap. Your cold attitude towards her will slowly break it up anyway.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:45 PM
7

This only matters so much to you because you have no options in terms of women to date. It's not as radical as you make it out to be. As soon as you become too available they don't care. That's just rational behavior isn't it? You would react the same way. Eating the same snacks every day becomes also tiresome after a while. Women don't owe you anything. No loyalty and no unconditional love. You have to get into dating with that mindset. Play the game, don't hate it. Wenn you learn and accept th…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:04 PM
6

This.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:55 PM
1

You're entering the best time of your life. Enjoy it. Maybe she wasn't ready for the bigger world, maybe she has plans to explore other options herself. You won't know. Go out and live.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:54 PM
2

This. Option 1 is the ideal scenario.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:10 AM
3

Women usually have a good sense of whether a guy is an alpha or not. If there's no social context and she somehow agrees to meet without checking you out properly, she'll find out where you stand in the hierarchy anyway.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 03:35 AM
4

My man.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 03:21 AM
3

Sounds like a fucking pussy.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:55 AM
1

Should have told her some women on their bachelorette party threw glitter at you and your friends. Don't know if the current situation in your country warrants that scenario.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:37 AM
1

Just have a good time with your friends. Don't pay more attention to her than usual. If you act differently than before she might start talking shit about you. If you act like an alpha, she might even feel more attracted to you, since her rejection doesn't seem to phase you at all.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:23 AM
7

Well, it's not impossible. Why are you even questioning your happiness? Isn't it good that you're back on track and feeling well?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:11 AM
3

You shouldn't even be caring about these behavioral nuances. Who cares whether she tries a pattern with you? Would it change your answer, knowing what she's up to? Just stay assertive and don't deviate from your usual behavior.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 10:13 PM
1

Dating apps are worth it. Women are usually game immediately if you're fairly attractive.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 06:12 PM
13

Hanging out with guys, working out and stepping out of your comfort zone regularly, increases your testosterone. Testosterone is the fountain of masculinity. Work out like a dog and then pay attention to things that usually make you uncomfortable. You probably won't even care about them. Like you said, being loud and approaching women is one of those things outside your comfort zone. The rejection or social feedback won't make you feel as uneasy.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 06:04 PM
3

Be happy you went through this sooner than later. Imagine marrying and then going through an assfuck of a divorce. You'll get used to it. After all it's what lies behind the facet of modern dating. Why would you want to stay ignorant? Sure, in the beginning it feels better, but you always end up getting the short end of the stick. When you realize how dating really works, you won't be shocked or hurt. Go with the flow and have some fun.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:08 PM
7

Literally everybody who will reply to this will tell you to take up some type of martial arts. There's no way around it.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 04:59 PM
16

Tell me the last part was a joke.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 04:54 PM
6

That's what happens when you can say whatever you want on the internet with no repercussions at all. These are the women who aren't in touch with their femininity and see on a daily basis that men don't treat them like they want them to. Usually they have dyed hair or a buzz cut and wear no bra just out of spite. Everything they do is out of spite. I personally never had an encounter with someone who made a fuss about pronouns. It's not offensive. They decide to be offended. And when they do it …
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:56 PM
2

Just chill. See where it goes and if she starts hitting on you. There's a chance she's playing power games and taunting you into making a move. That would give her leverage to start shit between you and your boss. But if she's the one making all the moves, she's the one taking the bigger risk. Go with the flow but don't fall for cheap tricks that seem to good to be true.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:27 PM
5

No.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:40 PM
1

Don't think about shit she says. What happens if she talks about your body next? Will you take that to heart also?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:54 PM
3

There are virtually no athletes without IG. I see you want to approach this very methodically. Just don't be too involved emotionally. Imagine being a boat with no anchor. That way you can move faster from one island to another. A woman feels if you're in a hurry to move on. That should trigger the neediness you're looking for.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:50 PM
1

Who says that? Are you an attractive athlete with a high social status? They have women hitting them up on IG constantly and at least 5-6 in the rotation who want to meet.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:20 PM
7

The non-neediness is an effect, not a cause. It happens naturally once women find you attractive. Either because you have a higher social status or just look good etc. If you're non-needy but you're 4'0 with brown teeth, that won't do shit. You have to first meet certain requirements. Good athletes for example don't even need to have game. Women usually love them, which makes them non-needy automatically. Women, on the other hand, have a big pond of men who are always available. But they're not …
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:06 PM
22

The root of attractiveness is not non-neediness. Neediness will destroy her attraction for you, but it's not the main factor. If you made the decision to be exclusive and don't even think about talking to girls, your subconscious knows that she's the only one. You won't ever consider meeting new women with that mindset.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:37 AM
13

You have no confidence at all. Work on yourself first, then think about other people. Why would other people be intimidating?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:32 AM
1

If he looks good it doesn't really matter what he puts in his bio. For the sake of it, sure, use "look" instead of "need". Won't make a big difference though.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:48 AM
2

Not at all. I just have good friends. Doesn't matter where we are in the world, we always get back to each other like we've been talking just yesterday. And we always got each other's back. If you think that's only possible in high school, I hope you can meet people who make you feel that solid friendship even in adulthood. Stay safe.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:42 AM
0

Stop it bro. We know where this is going.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:56 AM
3

Man, there's no magic number. It's not like they react to algorithms. Text her when you finish your tasks or chores. Or only at noon and in the evenings. Shouldn't be at times where it's obvious that she's the first person you're texting.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:43 AM
14

Bullshit. Women won't love you unconditionally, but other men can love you like brothers. Good friends go through thick and thin and would die for each other. When you find them, you'll know what I mean. Loyalty is a big virtue among close friends.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:32 AM
2

Obviously you do have a problem right now. Your oneities leads to you not getting women.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:30 AM
0

Tinder. Ask immediately for dates and no "how are you". Don't care if you look like Brad Pitt or not.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:27 AM
2

Why would no person ever love you for who you are?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:25 AM
12

My man is using "this bitch" and "LTR" in the same sentence and acts like he isn't in love.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:11 AM
2

Hahahah
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:10 AM
0

This thread is all over the place.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:15 AM
0

What's the reason?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:08 AM
1

Chill bro.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:37 AM
3

Also, be a little creative about your job description. Tell her you can build stuff that people go to Ikea for with your hands.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:33 AM
4

Carpenters, mechanics, bricklayers, electricians and plumbers all make good money and are important for society. Many women don't care about that though. They don't think nor care about the knowledge and effort needed to install wiring systems, pipes or bath tubs etc. They need status in their lives and something to brag about to their friends. I'm not saying there are no women who value these jobs. There are many. But you won't find them in online dating.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:29 AM
6

They're pussies.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:16 AM
10

Yeah you came out relatively unscathed then.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:11 AM
6

Damn. If he meant to hit you, he started the whole thing for sure. If you don't know the people there well and someone starts shit, you can be damn sure he has bad intentions and punches will be thrown. In that scenario you had exactly two choices. Leave the party, or sucker punch him and then leave the party. It's way too dangerous to fight in a narrow space with many people present. Anything can happen. Don't be stupid.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:06 AM
1

How did he disrespect you?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:57 AM
3

I agree. If you're not immediately fighting back then and there, you can't go for revenge. Why wouldn't you stand up and continue the fight? Doesn't make sense to me.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:56 AM
2

Sure you didn't talk some shit you're not remembering right now? Maybe you had it coming.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:50 AM
2

How did he beat you? Could you land a shot?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:42 AM
1

At that age you've usually already done some dumb shit and fallen flat on your face several times. It's all about learning from the past and adapting as you move forward.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:41 AM
3

That's what stories on IG are for. They're short-lived and more anonymous. If she posts something in her story you can hit her up and get a response almost certainly.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:36 AM
3

First come, first served. If you're compelling enough as a potential mate, why would she wait?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:30 AM
1

26.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:28 AM
1

Fair point.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:27 AM
7

It's not all black and white. That's a mistake many guys make. They think "wow, that guy gets all the women but he doesn't use any of trp rules at all!" There are so many variables in this. The woman might just use him as a rebound. He might have something outstanding that attracts a certain type of woman. Maybe tickets to a concert she wanted to go to for months? Maybe he reminds her of her father. Doesn't matter. Being masculine isn't meant to be a trick to pick up women. Don't mistake effect …
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:27 AM
1

Don't cling too hard to your past and the things you think molded your personality. It can help, but also freeze your development if you use it as an excuse. You have to feel comfortable during arguments and high pressure situations. Try to stay cool next time someone starts shit with you. Look them straight in the eye and breathe. Most people just drop their act once they see that you're not afraid at all. Remember, no one really cares about you or any other person. They are busy thinking about…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:13 AM
9

Everything a woman does outside of her privacy is an attempt to grab someone's attention. If it's on social media, it's sure as hell for attention. They don't expect you to get it. They know some guy will see it and use it as a reason to start a conversation. Usually they just post selfies. When they feel extra emotional they go for the quotes though. It might even be easier to slide into her dms in that scenario.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:06 AM
13

Because arguing and snapping is feminine. Being feminine isn't bad ... if you're a woman. When you're a man, and I assume you are, you should be masculine. Masculine behavior doesn't include arguing and explaining your behaviors to a woman. If she realizes she can pull you out of your masculinity and provoke feminine behavior, she will no longer see you as an unshakeable man. If she of all people can shake you, why wouldn't other people be able to? Not reacting shows her you're resilient and con…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 12:00 AM
18

To grab a certain guy's attention or signal that they're going through a breakup. Which also leads to guys texting them.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 11:56 PM
5

In what circles do you have to frequent to have people say such horrible stuff to you? Honestly, the best case and most rational scenario would be to not surround yourself with people who throw shit like that at you. Thick skin doesn't mean you can endure legitimate harassment. If you hang out with friends and someone brings a new guy who then calls you all kinds of names, you'll know that you won't have to deal with that regularly. So you can call him out on it and tell him to shut the fuck up …
/r/askTRP04/04/21 11:54 PM
0

You not being able to spot sarcasm. That is terrible brother.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 11:44 PM
1

Tell her your mom doesn't want thots at the dinner table.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:21 PM
8

That's one of the things friends are for man. You talk to your buddies when shit bothers you and they talk to you. One hand washes the other.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:12 PM
2

Give me a break my guy lol.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:10 PM
5

You have to choose one of those if you want to be a certain type of guy. The more your behavior gets tested in an environment, the further it gets solidified. You can't just decide to be a cold dude. Make the decision to be one and then enforce it over and over during your encounters. If you jump back and forth you'll never find your personality. That's the worst thing that can happen in dating and meeting people in general. One day you're the cool guy, the next day you're the sweet helper.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:35 PM
1

Multiply by 3 for women and divide by 2-3 for guys to get accurate results.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:24 PM
2

I've made a comment about this earlier. Thanks for creating a thread. We have to talk about this issue. Many guys here don't get it.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:18 PM
2

Quit fapping and have your testosterone levels checked.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:38 PM
12

It's like you guys don't want to improve. You always pull out the sob stories and use this community as an outlet for your heartbreak rants. Then you go on reciting the fundamentals of trp in order to appear ready to learn. Honestly, stop the emotional bullshit about how lovely she was and how you feel. You won't learn anything with that attitude.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:28 PM
1

You literally have the perfect name for a tinder bio dude. Create some type of word play with your name. "I've had enough of Rome. Now I'm about to 🔥 through your sheets." Something like that.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:20 PM
2

Fucking savage.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:11 PM
12

I don't care whether you're happy or not. You can't kill yourself because of your ridiculous problems though. You have responsibilities.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:06 AM
18

Don't you have kids? And you're seriously asking what the point of living is? You have other issues. The ones you counted above aren't any of them.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:56 AM
-4

If you had this poem ready, why the fuck did you ask in the first place my man?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:51 PM
46

Never forget this: you have to be always willing to walk away. Don't inhale this sweet dust she's throwing at you. Your ego will get caught up in it and betray you. Also, don't engage too much in conversations when you're away from her. If she realizes that she can occupy your mind even when you're spending time with other people, she'll know she can be sure you won't ever run away.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:38 PM
2

Lmao. Ask her to join you for pizza or something. If she still replies with half-assed bullshit, you don't reply at all. Either she'll come back with a suggestion for a date or she doesn't. If the latter happens, you know what she wanted from you at least.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:28 PM
3

You said you've been talking for a few days. How long exactly? Some women get bored fast and don't want to wait for your ass to set up a date.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:18 PM
2

Everything that happens within a text conversation with a woman means nothing until you meet. It's too easy to not respond over text. It can happen within seconds, just because she had a bad fart or a sad movie changed her mood. I don't get why guys here always talk about all the things they did and yet the woman magically didn't want to meet. How about some screenshots, so we can figure out what part of your game fucked it up? If you did well as far as text games goes, it's an issue that's beyo…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:12 PM
1

Depends on how often you express your admiration for her. If this is a one time thing or something you spit out once every other year, it should be okay. Contrast is the big factor here. If you're usually rather cold, this will melt her. If not, you should keep it reserved. As long as you show your woman that you never get rocked and know what to do, she'll stick to you.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:55 PM
2

Damn man. The woman's fighting cancer, now she's gotta fight her man too?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:36 PM
1

It doesn't work like that.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:32 PM
1

Not as bad. You can save the situation after not initiating. After flaking not so much.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:36 AM
6

No. Flaking is weak and passive.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:54 PM
1

You need to learn to say no. Either tell her you got sore muscles from a badass workout or you have to deal with something on the phone. That's way smoother and shows her you don't want to deal with her trivial bullshit.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:50 PM
4

What the fuck? Closure? Closure for what dude? Closure is the biggest myth in dating. She won't give you a satisfying answer. You just want to see her again. Which will open up your wounds and start the cycle all over again. Who knows why she dropped your ass. Probably lost her attraction towards you, found a new guy or started a TikTok channel. Who the fuck cares???
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:38 PM
5

She's just a cunt. Proper women wouldn't ask a guy who's not their bf or husband to carry their shit. Not even old people would ask, just out of politeness. Her response was bitchy, but it's understandable. Why agree to carry her bags in the first place, when you decide to go against your initial intentions anyway? Your cognitive dissonance fucked you. You gave in to her demand and then you had a change of mind because you felt like a bitch. That's highly inconsistent, and women hate inconsisten…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:30 PM
4

This has been going on for 4 months. Seriously I wouldn't be surprised if the whole crew played super smash bros. with her at this point.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:13 PM
12

It's a transfer of responsibility. If even one of the guys here says "that's an amazing idea", in his head, he won't be the one who caused this mess. You'll find conformation if you look long enough.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:08 PM
2

Yup. Found the economist :)
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:04 PM
5

Get the hell outta here with that idea.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:56 PM
12

Think about limited editions. Be it clothes, video games or cars. Even if you aren't particularly interested, you'll think of them as more valuable by default.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:44 PM
3

Forget the missed opportunities. They won't come back. Look forward and take action when the next one arrives. That's way more important. Beating yourself up because you were a pussy in the past sometimes isn't necessary. It'll fuck up your game.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:33 PM
0

I am the sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:14 AM
-2

I was fucking with him you imp
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:11 AM
-3

What is "the talk"?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:47 AM
3

Look, you have to realize and accept that John is the typa guy that has been whipped. And he's probably getting whipped every day. He doesn't know any better because he's afraid of his boss ... I mean wife. It's kinda obvious that he didn't want any harm. His wife is the perpetrator here. She talked to your ex, she invited your ex. John is probably just playing along because he doesn't want to anger his wife and fall into a world of sleeping on the couch and getting whipped twice as usual. Accep…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:23 AM
1

I think it's a mistake to agree to exclusivity at all. But it's your choice if you feel the need to partially share your life and decisions with a person.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:50 AM
1

Her attempts to test you will happen slowly and subtly. There will be a day when her voice is slightly lower pitched than usual and she doesn't look for much physical contact. Also complaining about ridiculous things like you being "kinda weird today" and in case she stays at your place "why do I have to always clean up?". Also pay attention to her appearance. Remember your first three dates. How was she dressed? How was her makeup? If she isn't putting as much effort into it as in the beginning…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:42 AM
3

In other words, you were desperate to have a longterm relationship and now you're trying to rationalize your choice as a move from an alpha position. She demanded that you delete your social media or was it your own decision? I don't get why you'd need a longterm relationship as a filler until you've reached your goals. Doesn't make sense at all.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:12 AM
3

If they have a family it's a complete taboo. Also, when you fuck the wife and she decides to get a divorce afterwards, you potentially just fucked that man's future up. Yeah sure, if it's not you, it's the next guy who does it. But if every guy thinks like that, nobody will act like a decent human being. Start with yourself. As far as women in a relationship are concerned, I don't give a fuck. Not your problem if they've been together for 6 years and it's Valentine's Day. You won't cause any dev…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:33 AM
3

To answer anything even remotely appropriate, you might have to elaborate what makes you feel hopeless. We can't imagine what your problems are and then type some positive messages. It doesn't work like that. If you wanna talk, we're here. Also, talk to a therapist asap.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:26 AM
1

We're talking about Cetirizine then. That one is known for messing with the prostate. It can cause benign prostatic hyperplasia. But to be sure you should get yourself checked by a doc.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:14 AM
2

Which ones? Antihistamines can decrease androgen production, which leads to lower testosterone levels. I think in that particular study they tested cimetidine.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:08 AM
1

Are you taking any other medications, and do you have issues with blood pressure?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:04 AM
5

Haven't you posted this before?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:02 AM
2

Why would you want them to anyway?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:33 PM
2

If you want to let her know you're always there for her, regardless of how she acts towards you, yeah sure reach out. Obviously you shouldn't reach out man. The situation you're in right now is like a car balancing on a cliff. It might or might not slip and fall off. But it's pretty damn close. This is the phase where she thinks about other guys and how adventurous her life could be without you. The fact that you're asking us whether you should reply or not, shows that you usually reply when she…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:30 PM
1

Best response I've read around here so far.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:19 PM
10

What did you do?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:56 PM
0

There are recommended thresholds you should reach in terms of REM phase, light and deep sleep. These depend on your age. Not only does the total amount of sleep time matter, but also the respective percentages of the sleep phases. If your sleep overwhelmingly consists of light sleep, you won't get the mental and physical recovery you need. 6-7 hours are enough if you feel fresh afterwards. 8 should be the maximum if your body really needs it. Anything over 8 hours can cause long term health issu…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:00 PM
4

If you want to shake her off without having to worry about repercussions, turn it down a notch just a little bit every day. Women like her hate beta behavior the most. So you need to give her some beta shit. Write some needy shit like "good morning :)", "I think I like you" or "I was just thinking about you" at 11:11 or 10:10. If she's really attractive, she'll run for the hills without even thinking about chasing you ever again. If she's legitimately mentally sick, she might start asking for a …
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:47 PM
1

Lmao. The algorithm makes sure you won't even see low value males. That is, if you're high value (in this case attractive) yourself.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:31 PM
1

How is it depressing? If you're looking for a relationship it is, sure.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:29 PM
1

Is it tough or is it impossible? Download tinder and start swiping if places are closed. A woman could have three ears and two noses and still get a ridiculous amount of matches. Your hobbies and interests are important to nobody but yourself and your peers. Most of the men won't care. If you smell good and stay in relatively good shape, you won't have to worry.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:26 PM
1

Your history says that you don't like going out. Well, it'd be good starting to go out. You can be a CEO or know 99 digits of Pi by heart. If you don't socialize and make yourself visible to men, it simply won't matter.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:22 PM
4

You should seriously stop using the internet for a while. Your issue isn't biological, it's psychological. Don't know who fed you all that misinformation, but your perspective is all messed up.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:09 PM
5

Women talk about dicks and performance, sure. But why care about that if you're trying to be alpha? Do you think an alpha eavesdrops on a woman's conversation about how he's in bed afterwards? You're worrying about the cherry on top of the cake, but don't even have the ingredients to bake it yet. Get your confidence on track. Also, you're not that important for women to talk about your performance all day. That's this idiotic portrayal of Hollywood where everybody points their fingers at you and…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:00 PM
4

Lmao are you serious? Why the fuck do you worry man? There are people out there with real issues. Your problem is a pure ego thing.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:51 PM
6

Women don't care man. As long as you're not on the micro scale you won't have to worry.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:44 PM
2

Your woman seems like she needs a good shag, my man. Honestly, why didn't you just initiate a little romance when she laid down? I bet if you gave her a rodeo she would have made you breakfast the next morning. I've reread your story and the going to the living room part seems overly dramatic. Also that she claims to be strong and independent. Yeah, so what? Every adult, regardless of their gender should be independent and strong. That looks like an invitation for you to be stronger than her. No…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:36 PM
3

Who cares why women pull back? If she pulls back, you're out of there too. This is an important rule many guys here have to learn: never chase a woman. And don't bother thinking about her motivations. Some guys think it's good game when they transform a low interest woman into a high interest one. But why would you want to do that? It's unnecessary. It's better to talk to women who are hot for you from the get-go. You won't have to jump through several hoops and work for her attention. Although …
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:28 PM
10

Your woman doesn't respect you at all. Bitching about minor stuff like not cuddling and leaving lights on are prime examples of low respect for a partner, and also low attraction to be honest. It's also probable that she's talking to another guy or guys right now. Her behavior looks like an attempt to make her feel better about it and depict you as the cause of the issue. She's pushing you over the edge repeadedly and you're giving in. If you're going to go no contact, do it for good. No expirat…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:19 PM
4

What's the main issue here? What bothers you the most?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:07 PM
1

Your last hope might be dating apps. Give tinder, badoo or bumble a try.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:01 PM
9

Good reaction. Crying isn't bad. As long as you don't cry over a woman in front of others.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:26 PM
4

That's why you need to delete tinder every 2-3 weeks. That sets your algorithm back and gives you a noob boost. Also, neither buy tinder gold nor boosts. Reevaluate your pictures too. I don't care how good you think they are, there's always room for improvement. No more than one or two selfies. The rest should be activities/outside pictures.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:57 AM
8

The fact that you're opening 3 months old conversations on tinder is not good my man. That's like looking for chewing gum under your couch because nobody sells them anymore.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:52 AM
12

I'm not trashing single moms as human beings to be clear. They have important responsibilities and many are strong enough to handle their own shit. I respect that. But a single mom on tinder is diabolical. Probably freshly divorced. Now she's looking for a provider typa guy with a grocery list of dozens of unrealistic requirements. Either you don't fit her provider role or she's playing hard to get, in order for you to fall deeper into the hole you're digging right now.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:46 AM
18

She obviously has low interest for you. And what are you doing with single moms man? I'm sure you can do better.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:40 AM
3

Don't worry man. If that's what they see and like about you, who cares? That's just your ego telling you that it wants to be liked for something more. If you want to look dominant, get bigger. If you can grow a proper beard, grow it out and maintain it.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:34 AM
1

For real lmao. This is what's wrong with this generation I'm telling you. Talking behind their family's backs and then bitching online.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:24 AM
6

Now I see what typa person you are. Hopeless case.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:20 AM
1

Seems like he doesn't need help and just wants to argue. Should put this energy into solving the brother situation.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:20 AM
1

Then you don't know many cultures. Some families live together in a bigger house. Some sons and daughters move out later and help their parents out. That's the case in Japan, some parts of South East Asia and middle Eastern countries for example.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:17 AM
3

You don't know their culture. Some cultures or traditions are used to big family gatherings. Sons hanging out with fathers, brothers and uncles and the gfs and wives cooking and talking with the mothers. If that's the case here, not having her around will be an insult to his family.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:10 AM
0

That's a tough one. If you can pull it off smoothly enough, you can embarrass him. Ask him whether he wants to hang out with you in a room separate from the gathering. Then you look at him, smile and tell your girlfriend that he has a crush on her and can't stop thinking about her. Let your gf in on the joke so she can play along. Laugh at him for a good while and then touch her leg or shoulder in front of him. Calling him out on something that isn't visible to the majority or harms her directly…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:01 AM
3

What are you on about man? You're definitely not ugly enough for women not to be into you. Even if you think of yourself as an ugly motherfucker and accept that thought, you won't be successful with women since you're manipulating yourself downwards. Not looking like a model isn't equal to being ugly.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:53 PM
9

I misinterpreted the losing connection with women part then, my bad. I don't know what you're afraid of. Nobody except you can know. There are so many variables that can fuck a man's game up. It's impossible to be genuinely confident with women when you simply never had any experiences with them.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:09 PM
21

Sounds like you're scared of getting down with a woman. Your fear is so big, it even inhibits your libido. The question is: what are you scared of?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:01 PM
1

No man you can't address the issue. Sometimes there is no particular reason for a woman to take off suddenly. She might just not feel you anymore. Regardless of how you try to fix it, you'll miss. Almost always the right thing to do is to reciprocate the silence. She might end up texting you after realizing you weren't catching feelings after all. Assuming that was the problem.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:26 PM
2

You mean she was your first legit female encounter? Don't reply for a couple of days. Give her back what she tried to serve you. Look, you can't pretend you don't care. It has to be authentic. I know it's hard to even think about acting rationally and doing tactical moves that benefit you. But you have to breathe and think. If you give her the attention or confirmation that you're available, she'll feel even more secure and treat you like a bitch. You have to talk to women. It can't be stressed …
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:07 PM
2

Good man.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:55 PM
1

What did you do? How did you lead her?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:52 PM
2

Make new memories. She isn't special.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:51 PM
2

I think this might be it. After he didn't give her what she wanted she wanted to avoid further risk of getting caught by her man.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:40 PM
5

Never talk to women about your conquests.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:37 PM
2

Damn, you're making yourself crazy over nothing man. Is she fucking other dudes over there? Maybe. Probably. Should you care? No. Make a mental note of leaving her. Just let it die off. Relationships lose their heat a point where one party leaves the other for an extended amount of time. You might stay together, but for how long? And will it be enjoyable? Do you want to go through this mental clusterfuck every time she doesn't reply as you wish? If she really were anxious about losing you she'd …
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:33 PM
1

The best way to forget is to create better memories. Go traveling, see new people and take up hobbies that'll make yourself feel more valuable. Sure, right now traveling isn't easy. But grab your bike and go for a ride. You might experience something that'll change everything for the better.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:55 PM
1

T-Wood is going to get cut for sure. He lost 4 of his last fights and as far as I know that was the last fight on his contract. There's no way Dana is going to keep him around unfortunately. O'Malley showed some sick striking there man. His kicks are like jabs. We'll see how he'll do against the top 10, let alone top 5. And lastly I'm pretty sure Jones is going to fight Ngannou before Stipe does. Dana already provoked him during the post fight presser, saying "If I'm Jones, I'm moving down to 18…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:40 PM
2

Hahahah man that was pure destruction. But what can you do as a better when Stipe is the underdog.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:56 AM
6

Set up a biometric code or a PIN man. How are you walking around with no security.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:50 AM
1

In your particular case it sounds like she had low interest. Also, you didn't next her, to be specific. You told her about your intention of nexting her. That's a call for attention.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 02:04 AM
2

You have some posts in your history that are backdated 4 months, saying you ghosted a woman 4 months ago. Then there is a post from 8 months ago that also says you've ghosted a woman. Is this the same woman you're talking/thinking about for 8-9 months straight?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:52 AM
2

Nothing to worry about. You won't land in those screenshots she's showing her friends if you don't do shit like the dudes she was telling you about. Women are vicious when it comes to seemingly romantic behavior. You want to be that one guy she can't stop getting frustrated with around her friends.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:01 AM
3

It's not that extreme man. You know that these rules have been established with a big margin of error for the countless newcomer dimwits in the RP community right? They're strict on purpose so these idiots don't fuck it up and scare women away with their creepy bullshit. It's okay to have conversations over text. Just don't reply immediately and don't write shit like good morning and good night. Be busy. Make some jokes and then set up a date. Easy. It's also okay to text her after the date has …
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:38 AM
20

When you say "too late" you're implying that this one event in your life was the ubiquitous indicator of happiness and your last resort. Which isn't true at all. You fucked up and it's done. Forget about it. It's nothing more than a learning experience. Don't cope by telling the story all over again.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:13 AM
3

An easy way to filter out attention whores is to play dumb. If she sends you her tits at the beach, reply with "what sun screen do you use? I need one for my next vacation". Might also start a whole new topic. If she doesn't reply you know what her attempt was about. If she gets all giggly and cute, you can continue the flirting.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:07 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:49 PM
3

If it backfires, it's not Red Pill.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:39 PM
1

Work on improving yourself. Have sex with women and live your life. One day your son will tell his mom how much of a rockstar his dad is, and that his dad has always beautiful women around. That will burn your ex more than anything. Lead by example. Also, never speak ill of your ex in front of your son. Every now and then some stories will slip out. And when they slip out your wife won't have any reason to paint a bad picture of you.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:25 PM
1

The fact that you're thinking about these things shows that you're a good dad. I'm sure your son will grow up to be a man with good ideals. Don't listen to your wife too much when you think something is wrong. He's still a man. You have to build his values and ideals. He needs to see his father act in this world. Your example will lead him. Not only will he feel safe with you, but he'll also emulate you. This also counts for you. When he sees you being dominant around your ex and not letting her…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 10:59 PM
1

Man this breaks my heart. I'm not a father but I have 6 nephews, two of whom are your son's age. They have caring parents, sure. But sometimes some negative things happen in school or kindergarten and they simply don't want their parents to interfere. One nephew told me that some kids push him or make fun of him sometimes. The thing is that this behavior will always occur with children. They are little animals who simply don't know it any better. When one party doesn't fight back, the other part…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 10:41 PM
5

Sounds like your body is chronically underutilized. Too much energy. Join a boxing gym and go for exhausting runs. Fuck your body up to the point of failure. If you truly hate your industry, try working construction for a day or two. See how you like it. Maybe you can help out a friend who needs some muscle in his yard or building a house.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:51 PM
9

You literally posted the same question with a different wording 2 hours ago bro.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:34 PM
53

Not your fault. She cheated. It's not your job to make sure bitches don't cheat. If it was a married woman with a family I'd say you fucked up. But that's nothing to worry about in my opinion.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:18 PM
1

Heeell to the no no
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:56 PM
3

He already met it once. If Francis hasn't improved his stamina dramatically I don't see him throwing all day until the fifth. But you're right. With his kind of power it can be over any moment. The first round will be a pressure cooker.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:27 PM
2

Are you kidding bro? Judo is fucking badass! No one can fuck with a proper Judoka.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:15 PM
9

Sounds like you don't have the motivation to hit up proper women, so you're romantizicing thought of fucking a woman that's within your comfort zone and also potentially mentally ill.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:13 PM
1

These guys are like monkeys. You can't talk them into treating you with respect. Have you watched the Joker? Basically the same scenario. Nobody was respecting him. They literally treated him like a clown. I'm not talking about the scene in the talkshow. Look for "Arthur gets fired" on YouTube. They fire him and he leaves the working place saying "Oh, I forgot to punch out!" and literally punches the punch card box off and laughs like a maniac. I want to say I don't condone hurting people or any…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:06 PM
3

That's what Miocic will do on Saturday my man.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:57 PM
16

People who talk like that usually have extremely brittle egos and close to zero confidence. Maybe it's something they hate about themselves and they see you as an easy target. Easy meaning you'll break under pressure and say something stupid back. When you react in a way they're anticipating you to react you've already lost. This will cause a death spiral. Now they can provoke you whenever they want. Gaslighting and making you look like an aggressive person. Especially when women are around. Don…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:55 PM
4

I agree. OP shouldn't even bother answering unless she asks him to meet her and shows some damn enthusiasm. Even then you shouldn't immediately agree to meet her. Suggest a day or two later than her original date.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:09 PM
3

Why would you share a sex meme with a woman?
/r/askTRP27/03/21 03:10 PM
1

What? Who told you that?
/r/askTRP27/03/21 02:27 PM
1

If you have other issues to work on you shouldn't care about power, no.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 02:26 PM
1

Why can't you have women? What's stopping you?
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:23 PM
2

No no! I'm a noob :)
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:22 PM
6

This reads like a sob story. Calm down man. What's the pressure? You're setting yourself up to fail with that approach. You don't need to have perfect genes or be a master in socializing. If you never had any socializing experience or a proper conversation with a woman that you're not related to, you won't know that it's not that hard. The harder you think it is, the more pressure will build up. Hang out with your boys and watch how they do it. Play some mini games. Every time you're hanging out…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 12:39 PM
4

It's over brother. She's distancing herself from you more and more every day. The fact that you have no social life apart from her in her city is pure destruction for her attraction towards you. It usually starts like that: asexual behavior, boredom, mellow mood, no fights, she doesn't look good around you anymore, goes to bed with face cremes and masks and all sorts of repelling bullshit. In your eyes it might seem positive that you rarely fight. But fights are necessary for keeping the spice i…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 12:24 PM
2

Yes.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 12:12 PM
2

Well said. Pure beast.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 10:12 AM
15

That's the thing. She'll know. If you withdraw attention right after her disgusting behavior often enough, she'll know. The best moments occur when you're out with friends during this period and she asks you where you are. Be vague. The hamster will run a marathon. Sooner or later every women with self-respect won't be able to accept that and leave or fuck other guys. It depends on her tolerance for attention withdrawal and on how much she's attracted to you. Disrespect is unacceptable. Being in…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:37 AM
7

Being funny and confident goes a long way.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:09 AM
2

As long as you're fulfilled being alone and have a safety net consisting of friends, hobbies and interests, you won't have to worry about losing yourself. Oftentimes we're happy with less or a lesser person because we think we don't have anything worth having. The people who get attracted by that thought patterns are usually the ones who manipulate you into pure neediness and codependency. It's all in your head.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:45 AM
5

Good on you for taking back your life brother. I feel happy when I read about men taking control and enjoying their lives.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:28 AM
17

Amazing show. Don Draper and Roger Sterling are pure beasts.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:04 AM
3

Hahah! Leave it up man. More eyes will see it then.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:02 AM
8

Absolutely correct.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 12:39 AM
10

Although you already preempted us I need to tell you anyway: drop her! Now let's get to the main issue. Your warped personality. You know what the issue is. You're seeing the symptoms firsthand. To get back to who you were, you need to do things you were doing before her. Meet up with your boys more, do crazy shit, play video games, work out. Talk to other women and make them complements. It'll feel liberating. That stuff works better when she's no longer part of your life though. Unless you guy…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 12:35 AM
14

Women do shit like that. They always have several guys available on call. She might have met that dude just recently and decided to be "exclusive" with him. Or she met him before she met you and made it public just now. No need to swallow your pride here. Try to set up one more date. If she's not down immediately, next her.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 12:23 AM
2

Oh so you haven't met her for burgers yet? If not, you should go out with her. See how it goes. Going out is relaxing and fun anyways, so no harm in it. You'll see if she's into you or if she's just stalling. She might just not be the type to have sex on first dates. You showed her that you're not dangerous nor a creep. That's important.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:59 PM
3

This is a complicated one tbh. To me it sounds like she's using you for free dining and attention. Her messaging you first on Hinge and then not letting you escalate is kinda inconsistent. Invite her over one more time and if she's still not down I'd next her immediately. Don't even respond, just ghost her.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:49 PM
2

I'll definitely check it out. Learning experiences are always good.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:35 PM
49

"Crazy, Stupid, Love" is a great and funny movie all around. In the first half Ryan Gosling's character is a straight RP badass. He even transforms Steve Carell's character from a BP into a RP dude. Later on it gets too lovey dovey though. Worth a watch nonetheless.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 10:16 PM
13

Just wear protection and make sure she doesn't tie a knot in the rubber in order to freeze your soldiers up lmao.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:43 PM
4

This is honestly the best alternative. If you feel the need to go, take your boys. Crash that shit and don't give a fuck about her friends. It's better to leave chaotic energy than trying to impress them with good manners.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:35 PM
1

Don't do it. Tell her you got shit to do. Joining her circle will kill your aura completely.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:34 PM
3

I don't understand these types of posts. They always explain the whole issue including a solution within the story, and then ask what was wrong. It's like you guys want to look for permission for being beta bitches.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:32 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 07:30 PM
2

Nuff said.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 07:27 PM
1

Where are you from and what is the nature of these rumors? Do they depict you as a villain or as a weakling? I feel like you're afraid of some stupid shit like not being good in bed etc.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 07:26 PM
1

Women who talk dirty and send nudes right away are usually the biggest pussies when it comes to the action. I don't think she'll come over right away. I hope I'm wrong. But just in case you should be ready to get your ass out of the house for a walk.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:02 PM
3

You've made the mistake of moving in with a woman. Anything beyond this point is just detrimental to your mental health. She'll want to control every single piece of furniture and decoration in your apartment soon enough. If not in the current one, it'll start in the next one you're moving into together. But yes, 50/50 is a good option in your situation.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:58 PM
2

Exclusivity is the automatic exclusion of abundance. You're entering the relationship knowing that you won't have leverage. If you're not cold enough to simply walk away if she doesn't wanna give you what you want, sooner or later she'll dictate the rhythm. Which isn't good for you. You must control the pace. I think deep inside you know this. That's why a petty thing like winning her over a for a threesome bothers you so much. You're afraid she won't respect your masculinity later on when it re…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:25 PM
1

The question is: do you truly and deeply want a threesome with another woman, or do you say it to push the boundaries?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 01:15 PM
2

His biggest mistake was raising an ungrateful son. Don't go so hard on your dad man. He has his ideals and rules. Respect them or move out.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:25 AM
9

Don't make it complicated. Some short phrase like "I like your energy. Can I get your number?" or "Give me your number, I'll hit you up."
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:23 PM
2

I'm now on day 1 on quitting it Lol. Sounds like you've already recognized the problem and put the necessary solution in place. Also, stop smoking. What you're experiencing sounds very much like performance anxiety.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 09:23 PM
3

That's all that needed to be said. Join a boxing gym. He needs to get punched in the head and see how it feels to fight back.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:13 PM
1

Delivery is everything when it comes to picking up women.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:10 PM
1

What type of stuff were you saying? Give us some examples.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 06:24 PM
1

Bro you're literally starting your adult life. How the fuck are you even thinking about monogamy, let alone with a broken person? Go out and enjoy the world. It is yours. You're the next generation. You should be thinking about meeting as many women as possible and enjoying your freedom like a boss. Life's short. Don't think because you're 18 you can just hang around at the current bus stop and look for adventures later on. If you enforce this type of behavior within yourself, you'll tend to fal…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 06:12 PM
4

You must not get much attention by women if a pro's words mean anything to you.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 04:24 PM
2

Treat a princess like a whore and a whore like a princess. Just be respectful to her during your transaction man. That's more than enough. That woman is also working for a living and probably trying to make ends meet. Have you ever heard of a salesperson doing a reverse acquisition? "Oh hey, you're a good customer. How about I'll give you everything you've been paying for up to this moment for free from now on?" Me neither. And I doubt she'll give you coupons.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 04:17 PM
0

Lmao
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:57 PM
4

Sounds like you need to go see a therapist, brother. Also, you should lay off any substances. If you're dependent on a stimulant to "be yourself", you're not free. It will just make you even more anxious.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:09 PM
2

Well said, brother.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:58 AM
3

Yeah you're right, you can't say shit like "I miss you". But that's not the only issue here. She also seems to be a damn cunt to be honest. How long have you been seeing each other? There's a big difference in whether you say it after 1 week or 1 year. Although both options aren't ideal. ​ She didn’t even tell me happy birthday which we talked about spending together. This absolutely devastated me. SHE COULDNT even say happy birthday. Also, you're behaving like a woman in this particular scenari…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:39 PM
2

The longer you wait, the harder it'll be. If you mean it, do it.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:20 PM
14

That is your number one problem I looked weak That's number two (highly correlated with number one): in her eyes ​ You are afraid of looking weak. And you deeply care about what she thinks. That's a toxic combination that will eat through every man's confidence. There's no way you can stay calm with that attitude. We tend to be jealous and angry when we feel out of control and think that another party will take away what we value. It's the same when you're at a party or at a bigger social event …
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:46 PM
8

Who are you calling dad man?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:33 PM
4

What everybody else said is absolutely correct. Those are all rational solutions. You should do all that. But you should also meet new women. By doing that you can also heal your ego faster. It's a shortcut of sorts. Your brain can't cling to an inferior memory as long as the new memory is superior to the previous one. By the way you're describing it, I'd imagine you're checking her social media every now and then. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:16 PM
7

I hate to break it to you, but she's not your girlfriend anymore. If she ever was. I can't believe how much evidence you have and yet you're still weighing whether she's cheating?! The way you try to justify her actions here is almost comical man. You're trying to convince yourself of her innocence. It's okay if you want to have a constant supply of sex while fucking other women on the down-low, but I highly doubt you can detach yourself from her emotionally at this point. Also, you have to real…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:05 PM
2

Usually the woman should ask you whether the date still is on. If she doesn't ask you for confirmation, she doesn't think you're valuable or scarce enough and thus, doesn't feel nervous because of your meeting. Women will drop their grandparents' birthday for a guy they really like. There's no excuse for her behavior. Never contact her again.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:46 PM
2

Bro, stop this thought pattern. You're young and successful and you're just starting your life. Go out and enjoy the world. Why the fuck would you waste your time with monogamy and an endless clusterfuck of drama and baseless arguments.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 09:40 PM
0

Don't set the boundary by announcing that you don't have to report to her. You can't break the fourth wall. Otherwise she'll be aware of the process and you'll lose your magic. Never justify your actions to her. Never! Just execute your plan. If she asks you where you're going or where you are, you'll say "gotta deal with something", "taking care of something", "with a friend". Also, don't reply right away. Every now and then it's good to ghost her for a couple of hours and then reply with "was …
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:07 PM
1

Move on.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:52 PM
5

If you want to delete her out of your memories immediately, you should start hooking up with some high quality women. But don't go on a date with the pressure of sleeping with a woman. She'll feel that you want to have sex asap. Some women don't care and will welcome it. But that's only the case if they're crazy about you from the start. Just enjoy your time with her and make her feel good. Don't push her. Let her feel the heat and give you the sign to move forward.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:42 PM
19

If you feel jealousy after having slept with other women, you haven't slept with enough women yet. It's just math. Or you're sleeping with women that are severely less attractive than your ex. Up your game and have proper adventures with attractive women. There's also an emotional factor at play here. It's like painting over a wall in your new apartment or house. Sooner or later you'll forget how the old wall looked like. Your ex wife isn't special. I don't care if her pussy can end world povert…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 03:30 PM
2

He said he's not chasing hedonism. So he's not seeking constant pleasure. Which is a good thing.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:06 AM
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