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So she's sick and perhaps just wants to hang out, and decides to bring her best friend along, and you flip out? She ignored his text. Finally replies with a "maybe". Then when he finally spoke to her, she changed the plans at the last minute. She did not inform him of the extra guest, or ask for his permission. These actions are so far from acceptable that blaming him for flipping out is bizarre. And worse, it shows a distinct lack of interest from the girl.
/r/seduction19/12/12 05:47 AM
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First of all, hilarious story. Let us not forget that getting girls, while nerve racking sometimes, is also meant to be fun. You are going to laugh about this someday. Secondly, i don't think anyone needs to point out where you fucked up. The very first time she ignored your text. The very first time she ignored your text should've been the time you started making plans with someone else. One of the most useful parts of learning game is seeing things as they are and knowing how much a girl is in…
/r/seduction19/12/12 05:36 AM
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Good comment. But maybe he was just being realistic? Everything in moderation, even self criticism.
/r/seduction19/12/12 05:20 AM
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Haha. Was it the girl who banged him then returned to her date and started cuddling him? I think knowing that women are capable of that sort of thing is important, especially for inexperienced guys who still put them up on a pedestal.
/r/seduction11/11/12 06:19 PM
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Why do you call it nonsense? Did you not notice a lot of things that you might've done? Pointing your feet away from the person when you are not interested in the conversation? Looking round as a sign of disinterest? Girls playing with their hair as a sign of interest (one of the biggest game IOIs).
/r/seduction28/10/12 01:27 AM
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You have to clarify. Are you afraid that they'll offended or are you just afraid of rejection? Either way, isn't that what gay clubs are for? I don't think that as a gay man you can hit on guys in the random fashion that straight men hit on girls. It will just be ridiculously impractical considering the ratio of gay to straight men. But, if you ever have to, i suggest you read a thread on openers and establishing rapport. There is a way to talk to anyone gay or not that makes them comfortable an…
/r/seduction29/09/12 12:22 AM
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Get an escort is you have sex hang ups. But it won't help you approach girls. What it may do is subtly get rid of the "virgin" frame of mind.
/r/seduction02/09/12 05:38 PM
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Oh, she said she doesn't want A? Clearly she wants A no matter what she says, and all I have to do is try harder. Are you saying that sometimes it isn't true? And honestly, so what if they try harder or are persistent? Hardly seems like the great evil you are portraying it as. Half of this subreddit is bullshit like that spouted off by people who objectify women and don't seem to understand that SOMETIMES NO MEANS NO, BUDDY. You said it yourself sometimes no mean no. Sometimes it doesn't. In thi…
/r/seduction28/08/12 05:01 AM
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And to think all this time I thought it was my physique. Maybe it was? Passion is definitely attractive (though i question how much of the attraction is actually due to you talking about something you are confident about). But i'd remind you of two things. First of all, attraction is likely more subconscious than conscious, so i always take "this is what attracted me to him" stories with a grain of salt. Second, saying (or even thinking) that your passion was what attracted her to you rather tha…
/r/seduction26/08/12 05:11 AM
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One of the techniques that just kills me regarding PUA is the negging. Call it teasing if it makes it better. Saying it's purpose is "lowering self esteem" is casting something pretty normal as sinister. It's purpose is more to put both parties at an even footing and comfort level. Most girls love being playfully teased in my opinion. It is fun. It is interesting. It is not bland. Just be honest and if she looks good, tell her so. Right, be bland. Telling a girl she is pretty does nothing unless…
/r/seduction18/08/12 02:27 AM
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I usually do something playful first. Breaks the tension nicely.
/r/seduction17/08/12 09:41 PM
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That approach makes him (or anyone, really) come off as a square or a white knight. Girls like exciting, fuck-the-police-i'm-confident men, and that's a fact. I'd try something more like this: I sort of half agree. Sure it is always better to err on the side of boldness. But i'd argue that just approaching and being nice in public is already a sign of confidence and don't give a fuckitude. Personally, i go for the outrageous "what did he just say??" angle but i don't think it is anymore confiden…
/r/seduction17/08/12 03:28 AM
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...aaaaand that is how most interactions go, in my experience. Honestly, since i started reading up on game, about 80% of people i talk seem relieved that they have someone to talk to on the bus or whatever. They almost gush when i bring up interesting conversation.
/r/seduction17/08/12 03:25 AM
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When you say women don't need seduction advice, you're saying that men only sleep with women based on their attractiveness, and that just isn't true. Hmm, i half agree with this. The thing is, i get the impression that a lot of the answers here, like yours, skirt the truth. You admit appearance plays a larger part but i'd go further and say that appearance plays such a large part that other aspects are rendered just about superfluous. Which is why so many here say women do not need seduction adv…
/r/seduction11/08/12 10:58 PM
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It almost certain you will feel different tomorrow. This feeling will pass. And what are you in pick up for? To me, as long as you get over the hump of approaching and start to enjoy it, then you have succeeded. You will have fun even if you get blown out. Also, if it gets tedious, change the way you operate. Scene, setting, method, whatever. Have fun with it. You will never get every girl you go for, but you can get comfortable enough to potentially get every available girl.
/r/seduction04/08/12 07:54 AM
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I have a friend who uses this sub, and he was a lot more cool and attractive before he used it because oh, imagine that - he was pretty cool just by being himself. Clearly he was not cool just being himself if he felt the need to change. Just saying.
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:01 PM
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Where is this??
/r/MensRights31/07/12 07:08 AM
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Well you are hardly the average girl if you have read pick up material are you? I think just by reading those books, you have put yourself ahead of probably 85% of guys, maybe 95% of guys under 20. You are probably giving self aware advice, rather than the stereotypical bs. There is definitely a significant crossover too. I mean things like not acting desperate etc are application generally. But the relative ease that girls have makes a large part of game almost completely unnecessary, especiall…
/r/seduction02/07/12 08:53 AM
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Honestly i am a little skeptical about this approach. It seems like a cop out. Those social skills he has to learn have to be learned in person. I assume OP wants to get better socially and that is only done by taking risks and doing what you are not comfortable with until it holds no fear. it'll be awkward and excruciating, but that is what it takes to conquer a fear.
/r/seduction30/05/12 11:46 PM
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bullshit Whoa, easy there bronco. Did you read my post at all? Let me highlight the relevant parts for you: Dishonesty? Not necessarily. People like doing stuff for people they like. It does not have to mean that they expect something in return. This is casting normal behaviour as something darker. See? The relevant part is the "people like doing stuff for people they like". I am sure that is not too hard to understand. You claiming that the so called Nice Guy is doing all this just to get into …
/r/seduction29/05/12 11:27 AM
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Some obvious, some wrong. If you are calling Nice guy behaviour manipulative, you might as well call all of human behaviour manipulative. Objectification? I hate this word. Or rather the concept that it is some great evil. It is a meaningless buzz word. Objectification, as it is defined is simply unavoidable, in all aspects of life. All lovers at some point project their fantasies onto another, so i do not see how the Nice Guy (tm) is any different. Dishonesty? Not necessarily. People like doing…
/r/seduction29/05/12 12:51 AM
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I think it calls for direct game. Delay her with a ruse and when she asks why, smile and say you just wanted to talk to her a while. If that doesn't charm her, then fuck it. But it will make your balls drop if you pull it off. Goodluck sailor.
/r/seduction08/05/12 06:39 AM
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Agreed. The average guy probably walks by over twenty eligible, single women in his day. Thus it should not even have to be said that you do not have to go to a bar or a club- which is why i did bother to note that.
/r/seduction08/05/12 06:28 AM
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Well said. Any change really is much easier without the gravitational pull of old relationships with people who find it hard to shake up your old image. Even better, change your habits and environment.
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:30 AM
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"I beta the fuck out!!!!!!" LMAO. I guffawed at this point.
/r/seduction02/05/12 11:53 PM
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The goal of seduction is to free yourself from the fear of being alone, which often ruins relationships by making you too clingy, too scared and put too much value into someone else. If you know you have the ability to go out and get companionship whenever you choose, it makes all this easier. Also, as a romantic, i really like the idea of giving women something to remember. How many bumbling, shy, feckless, coarse guys does a pretty girl meet in a week? Wouldn't it be nice to take them on an ad…
/r/seduction02/05/12 11:48 PM
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I like the concept, i like that she is trying. I wonder how she addresses the differences. Dating is radically different for different categories of girls. Average to attractive girls need almost no "pick up" advice. They generally only need encouragement to go out and be available in that aspect, esp. if they're only looking for a good time. Unattractive girls on the other hand will find it difficult no matter how proficient their social skills are. Guys are just so looks oriented. If i was giv…
/r/seduction02/05/12 11:18 PM
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Okay, so i assume you know little about bdsm? If a girl tells you she is submissive, like, she actually comes out and says it, then guaranteed she is asking you to lead her. It is easy to read up on this to know the type of girl she might be. You have to initiate and take control (this is important).
/r/seduction29/03/12 04:09 AM
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Here is an idea, ask another girl out before you get to her. it sounds like you have oneitis. Having another option increases confidence and reduces pressure.
/r/seduction27/03/12 08:09 PM
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Don't sell it fool, most girls do not freakin' care. They judge you on other criteria. Drastically cut down the time you spend playing video games. Whenever you feel like playing, that should be a cue to go to the gym or go clubbing or whatever.
/r/seduction16/03/12 10:13 AM
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Point is, staying around that person makes it difficult to move on. Come on, you know how most people are, it is simply not worth the risk.
/r/seduction08/03/12 10:16 PM
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Terry crews is never not hilarious.
/r/seduction08/03/12 08:13 PM
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Shitty advice if you ask me. Most people will just fall deeper in love and become lovestruck orbiters. If you get rejected by someone you have to see regularly, don't stop talking to them but stop being friends with them.
/r/seduction08/03/12 08:13 PM
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Instead, I'm presenting this video purely for the benefit of our female readers. Forget the article, has anyone noticed that a line like this usually crops up whenever pick up is mentioned? This is not even white knighting, it is the lowest form of pandering. That is even disregarding the fact that it is extremely dismissive of the girls themselves. It is the same thing when they say something like "oh it only "works" on club skanks". Right, being confident and knowing what to do only works on c…
/r/seduction27/02/12 07:12 AM
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objectivism is a very unsound philosophy, and not exactly the best thing to confront yourself with. When you say "unsound" i hope you mean structurally (in that it is not really a "philosophy" more like an ideology) not morally. Personally, i think the dismissal of Ayn Rand whole sale is just fashionable. There is a lot to be said for many things in Atlas Shrugged. The idea of rational self interest for one. Of course, taken to the extreme, the ideology is a terrible one but the same can be said…
/r/seduction26/02/12 02:36 AM
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The real question is, do you believe you are different? If you truly do, even the people that know you can catch up really quickly. I think the problem could be that just being around these people significantly hinders any positive change. The inertia grows stronger around people you know intimately.
/r/seduction26/02/12 02:28 AM
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A bit harsh but this my take. You met them and became friends with them when you were a different person. Now you are changing. It is natural that you'd lose some of them. I have dropped friends before or at least curtailed the amount of time i spend with them. The last person it happened to was a nice guy who did not want the same things out of life as i did. I got tired of inviting him to stuff and trying to get him to go out. Some friends are anchors to parts of your life that you have no use…
/r/seduction26/02/12 02:25 AM
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I think also to a degree the PUA game is about fooling women into thinking you're higher-status than you really are by imitating some of the behavior patterns of true "alpha males", or "naturals", or whatever you want to call them. I think this is not very accurate. The idea is more like "There is no reason why YOU shouldn't be a confident guy because if you actually look at many so called natural confident guys, they are either no different or have nothing on you". They just happened to have st…
/r/seduction26/02/12 01:58 AM
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She also apologized for leaving me hanging last night. So, yeah, I agree! I hope you told her that she has to make it up to you? That is my go to line whenever a girl apologises.
/r/seduction20/02/12 02:13 AM
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but then again she wasn't trying very hard to get my attention last night. She acted cold and failed in opening you is the perspective i'll take. Therefore you have no reason to feel guilty. Honestly i think ignoring her a little bit is the way to go. Do not reinforce her bitchy behaviour by calling her or leaving her a voicemail.
/r/seduction20/02/12 02:12 AM
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Honestly in my opinion it does not matter at all. I see no reason why it should matter who you first have sex with.
/r/seduction11/02/12 03:59 AM
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Hmmm, i don't know. In my experience, the reasons why a girl comes back have little to do with sexual performance. Also, you cannot learn this stuff by just reading about it.
/r/seduction10/02/12 03:05 PM
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It has had a curious on me in that i am now of the opinion that the "pedestalisation of women" (as it were) is a very pervasive thing in western culture. I watch movies and see women in relationships getting away with acting erratic, spoiled, unreasonable etc and even if she is at fault, the guy has to win her over. That really irks me I remember a movie where this girl dumped her star crossed lover in a fit of pique and afterwards as the guy was relating what happened to another female friend o…
/r/seduction14/01/12 10:00 PM
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Honestly, it sounds to me like you know what you're meant to do, but you do not want to face it. Enjoy hanging with her but also feel emasculated You still like the lassie. Being just friends with her is killing you inside. Fucking get out.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:23 AM
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I like the way you broke it down. I'm saving that fourth paragraph.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:00 AM
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I am sick of hearing about the friendzone. Jesus fucking christ.
/r/seduction10/01/12 08:10 AM
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SRS is a troll subreddit.
/r/seduction10/01/12 12:02 AM
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(Just seen the interview- he has definitely read PUA material) (Ps: The video is not as good as the text. Apparently they brought a "sex addiction specialist", as though any guy with the skills/opportunity to have sex with many women won;t do the same thing.)
/r/seduction07/01/12 09:24 PM
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I just show up at her work at 9, she see's me in the parking lot walks up and says "you win" and gets in the car. Boss.
/r/seduction04/01/12 04:12 AM
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It is exaggerated for comedy sake obviously (did i mention that it is a comedy sketch?) but the underlying "don't be a wuss" theme is still relevant. No one is saying "be a dick", but the fact is that no one responds favourably to people who act like they're scared of their own shadows and supplicate at every turn. Better to be confident, even cocky and risk losing the person.
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:08 AM
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He is smooth but he has too many advantages really.
/r/seduction31/12/11 09:54 AM
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How did you convince her to come to a lone corner? How did you grab her? Did you say anything to her before you took her to a secluded place? I'd imagine once you engage most girls in conversation it's not too difficult to just lead them elsewhere. If she is talking to you for a significant length of time- it means she is amenable to such a move.
/r/seduction30/12/11 11:00 AM
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Inspiration. I like the idea of people purposely changing their lives through sheer will. Technique. I am a fucking realist. I can stand to improve my relationship with women and i am honest and strong enough to acknowledge that. Remember most people will never ever take this first fucking step to admit to themselves that gasp! they could use some help with women. Instead they lie to themselves- i am okay just the way i am. Even those who do have an idea that they're not good with women are ofte…
/r/seduction27/12/11 10:38 AM
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Write down what happened with the girl, try to find some info on it and learn from that mistake Isn't that how most seduction material came about in the first place? With the ones that were found to be generally applicable kept?
/r/seduction11/10/11 01:47 AM
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Women aren't "naturals" at anything. It is just a buyers market for them. From my experience, most of them aren't cold and calculated either, if a girl wants something from you and you have two braincells to rub together, you should be able to tell right away. They're that clumsy. I feel like you're imbibing women with god-like powers that they simply don't have. Most girl i've met and been friends with even with the advantage of being good looking were horrible seducers (they never had to learn…
/r/seduction28/09/11 11:56 PM
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